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A Date With Darkness Podcast
by Dr. Natalie Jones, PsyD, LPCC
A Date With Darkness podcast discusses the impact of narcissistic abuse and other relationship wounds on your well-being. This podcast provides tips for breaking free from relationships with narcissists and other unhealthy relationship patterns so that you can begin your healing journey, reclaim your independence and sanity, feel confident and know your worth, break toxic cycles, and create the healthy loving relationships that you deserve.
Episodes
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Healing from Emotionally Abusive Families, Featuring Beverly Engel, LMFT
In this podcast episode, Beverly Engel, LMFT and I explore her book which is releasing on October 6, 2026 - Healing from Emotionally Abusive Families. Beverly and I also discuss emotional abuse dynamics in the family including the relationship that the parents have with each other and with the...
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COCSA, Featuring Sam Dordulian, Esq.
Sam Dordulian, Esq. and I sat down to discuss the phenomenon of COCSA child on child sexual assault, and steps that you can take when your child experiences abuse including contacting the police, child protective services, or a legal representative. *If you or someone that you know are…
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Representing Survivors of Sexual Abuse with Sam Dordulian
Sam Dordulian, Esq. and I sat down to discuss digital coercion, and steps that you can take when being threatened with sextortion. *If you or someone that you know are experiencing image abuse or sextortion, please contact your local police department.* Visit Sam Dordulian, Esq.'s website here ->...
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Be Careful Moving in Together to Save Money
Things are getting financially tense due to the economy and you may feel like it's a good idea to move in with the person that you are seeing to save money. Before doing this, I recommend being clear around boundaries, ensuring that person has similar financial values such as yourself, and having…
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Desire for a Partner
Watch the video podcast on Youtube: A Date With Darkness Email questions or comments to Dr. Jones [email protected] Sign up for the free ebook on Red Flags in Your Relationships and the free weekly newsletter for tips about narcissistic abuse at www.drnataliejones.com Individual and group...
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Rediscovering Self After Trauma; Featuring Lyvonne Briggs
Welcome to the eighth and last episode of the series "The Lost Episodes". In this episode, Lyvonne Briggs and I dive into the complexities of trauma, healing, and liberation. From confronting family secrets to decolonizing spirituality and reclaiming sexuality, this conversation offers insights…
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The Hidden Costs of Codependency and How to Heal; Featuring Shaketa Robinson-Bruce, LPC
Welcome to the seventh episode of the series "The Lost Episodes". In this episode, Shakita Robinson Bruce, a licensed professional counselor, delves into the complexities of codependency and how childhood trauma, boundary injuries, and cultural expectations shape our relationships as adults. She...
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Attachment in Relationships; featuring Simone Sanders, MSW, RSW
Welcome to the sixth episode of the series "The Lost Episodes". In this heartfelt episode, Simone shares her journey into therapy, driven by the need for more representation. She expertly discusses emotional regulation, the roots of attachment starting with our caregivers, and the complexities of...
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Is Racism a Form of Narcissistic Abuse; Featuring Robyn Mourning
Welcome to the fifth episode of the series "The Lost Episodes". In this powerful episode, we unpack the everyday realities of racial microaggressions and macroaggressions. Join us as we explore the psychological toll, the complexities of code-switching, and the broader societal impacts. A...
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Breaking Free from Situationships; featuring Ibbie Aromolaran
Welcome to the fourth episode of the series "The Lost Episodes". Join Ibby (@sickofsituationship), a dating coach and therapist, as she unpacks attachment styles, "situationships," and how to break free from toxic relationship patterns. Discover how to develop secure connections and navigate the...
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Unmasking Abuse Understanding Domestic Violence and Control; Featuring Krista Verrastro, MA, RDT/BCT
Welcome to the third episode of the series "The Lost Episodes". In this episode, we dive into the nuances of identifying abuse and understanding the dynamics of domestic violence. Learn about Johnson's typology and the Power and Control Wheel, crucial tools for recognizing patterns of…
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Trauma and Attachment; featuring Dr. Diane Poole Heller
Welcome to the second episode of the series "The Lost Episodes". Join us for an enlightening episode featuring the wonderful Dr. Diane Poole Heller. With her warm and positive energy, Dr. Heller delves into trauma resolution and attachment theories, shedding light on how early family dynamics…
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Repeating cycles in relationships; Featuring Beverly Engel, LMFT
Beverly Engel, LMFT and I discuss her upcoming book "Put Your Past in the Past". We discuss why you repeat cycles and behaviors in your relationship, dissociation, triggers, themes around sexual abuse, and how to stop repeating patterns. To purchase Beverly Engel's book, visit here Watch the…
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The Absent Father Effect On Daughters, featuring Susan Schwartz, PhD
Welcome to the first episode of the series "The Lost Episodes". In this insightful episode, we explore the profound impact of absent fathers on daughters, touching on both conscious and unconscious effects. Susan Schwartz, PhD eloquently unpacks how absence manifests in various aspects of life....
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Narcissists and Funerals
In this solocast, I discuss ways that narcissists act out during funerals and times of grief. From hiding wills, attempting to take power of attorney, to keeping you out of the loop when a loved one passes, you should expect the unexpected. It's also not out of character for narcissists to make a...
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Overlooked Signs of Dangerous Instability In a Narcissist
In this solocast, I discuss signs that indicate instability and dangerous instability in a narcissist that are often overlooked or minimized. From hoarding weapons, to having right winged religious beliefs. There are many signs that indicate a narcissist is mentally unraveling. Watch the video...
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Loneliness and Narcissism; Featuring Jonathan Mathias Lassiter, PhD, Part 2
In this episode, Dr. Lassiter and I continue to explore loneliness in Black men and why it is a growing epidemic. Watch the video podcast on Youtube: A Date With Darkness Email questions or comments to Dr. Jones [email protected] Sign up for the free ebook on Red Flags in Your…
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Loneliness and Narcissism; Featuring Jonathan Mathias Lassiter, PhD
In this episode, Dr. Lassiter and I explore loneliness in Black men and why it is a growing epidemic. Watch the video podcast on Youtube: A Date With Darkness Email questions or comments to Dr. Jones [email protected] Sign up for the free ebook on Red Flags in Your Relationships and the…
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Narcissists and Weddings
Let's talk about how narcissists show up at weddings. From complete chaos to not showing up at all, here's some of what to expect at weddings with narcissists. Watch the video podcast on Youtube: A Date With Darkness Email questions or comments to Dr. Jones [email protected] Sign up for…
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Reasons Why We Attract Narcissists
In this episode, I explore what attracts narcissists. Despite common belief, narcissists are attracted to everyone - not just empaths. Empaths are often groomed to normalize and accommodate narcissistic people. Therefore, it's not surprising that they often find themselves surrounded by more…
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Black Male Narcissists in Therapy
In this episode, I discuss some themes in working with Black male narcissists in the therapy. I discuss various themes including being dismissiveness towards me because I am a Black mental health professional, attempts to establish dominance in therapy, manipulation, and attempting to cross...
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Other Causes of Changes in Personality
In this episode, I discuss other causes of personality disorders, or behavioral changes that are similar to personality disorder traits. These issues can cause volatile, manipulative, impulsive, and in some cases violent behavior. I explore personality changes caused by long-term alcohol and drug...
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The Romance Scammer
Romance scams are rising through the use of online dating apps and social media. People are being targeted for money, sex, resources, and affiliations by people who they fall in love with but have no idea who they really are. The scammer lives multiple lives and often discards one victim after…
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Down-Low Men
In this episode, I discuss men who identify as heterosexual, living a secret homosexual life. This episode explores the implication of men hiding their sexual orientation and living a double life. Further, I review how these men show in relationships with women and men, and cause them…
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Narcissistic Homoerotica In Heterosexual Female Friendship
In honor of National Pride Month, I explore how toxic homoerotica shows up in heterosexual female friendships. Women who develop a romantic attraction towards their friend, become obsessed with their friend's life. They are jealous of their friend's romantic interest, and other friends. They want...
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No Contact, Low Contact, and Grey Rock Methods with Narcissists
In this podcast, I discuss the difference between no-contact, low-contact, and grey rocking with a narcissist. I take a deep dive into when it's appropriate for you to go no-contact versus low-contact. I also discuss the parameters around grey rocking and why it shouldn't be used long-term unless...
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Healing Sisterhood, Featuring Dr Joy Harden Bradford, PhD
On today's podcast, Dr. Joy Harden-Bradford, PhD., and I discuss what a true sisterhood is and how you can create a sisterhood for yourself if you have trouble making connections. Dr. Joy and I explore what it means to heal through sisterhood. Watch the video podcast on Youtube: A Date With...
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Children Caught in the Crossfire of Conflict Between Their Parents
When narcissistic parents are fighting, their children are often caught in the middle and used as pawns. In this discussion, I explore what children experience when caught in the middle of their narcissistic parents and how the parents take their anger out on their children. Watch the video…
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Some Things I Learned in My Career Over The Years
A bonus episode where I discuss some of the things that I have learned in my career. Watch the video podcast on Youtube: A Date With Darkness Email questions or comments to Dr. Jones [email protected] Sign up for the free ebook on Red Flags in Your Relationships and the free weekly...
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Men Who Center Women
In today's episode, I discuss men who center women. Men who center women devalue them and has a troubling relationship with his mother. He may put his partner in competition with his mother, however he doesn't have a good relationship with either woman. Watch the video podcast on Youtube: A Date...
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Male-Centered Women
In this episode of A Date With Darkness Podcast, I discussed what a male-centered woman is and the impact that she can have on family, friends, and in the workplace. Watch the video podcast on Youtube: A Date With Darkness Email questions or comments to Dr. Jones [email protected] Sign up...
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New Year's Relationship Intentions
In this episode I discuss some things that we can do to improve the quality of our relationships with ourselves and with other people. Watch the video podcast on Youtube: A Date With Darkness Email questions or comments to Dr. Jones [email protected] Sign up for the free ebook on Red Flags...
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Preserving Your Mental Health During the Holidays
Just a few reminders on things that you can do to protect your mental health if you deal with toxic family members or loved ones during the holidays. There are things that you can do to keep your peace, and keep the toxicity at a minimum. Watch the video podcast on Youtube: A Date With Darkness...
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Adult Survivors of Emotionally Abusive Parents, Featuring Dr. Sherrie Campbell, PhD
Dr Sherrie Campbell, PhD joins us to discuss her book "Adult Survivors of Emotionally Abused Parents". She and I discuss how the golden child and the scapegoat experience abuse in the family. Watch the video podcast on Youtube: A Date With Darkness Email questions or comments to Dr. Jones...
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Self-Love After Narcissistic Abuse. The Tough Love Edition
In this episode of the podcast, I discuss ways that you can take control of your life to start loving yourself after experiencing narcissistic abuse or toxic relationships. This includes: 1) Stop allowing disrespect, and increase self-respect 2) You don't need to visually see yourself getting…
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Destructive Intimacy Habits of Narcissists
There are certain destructive intimacy habits that occur with narcissists. These behaviors are manipulative, deceptive, and coercive. They are meant to groom their victims for the pleasure and degradation of a narcissist. Watch the video podcast on Youtube: A Date With Darkness Email questions or...
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A Study on Narcissism in the Black Community, Featuring Dr Virgil Zeigler Hill, Ph D
In part 2 of the podcast with @ Dr. Virgil Zeilgler-Hill, PhD. we discuss a previous study done on rates of narcissism. He discussed possible higher rates of narcissism in the Black community, and also discussed the limitations of cultural norms on the assessment measure and the study. The...
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The Kind Narcissist and Sexual Manipulation
I discuss manipulation tactics that kind narcissists use to obtain sex. I also discuss how they treat you when you are being fetishized for your body. Lastly, we discuss challenges that the narcissist may have with sexuality and sexual deviancy. Watch the video podcast on Youtube: A Date With...
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Q & A: How the Narcissist May React to No-Contact
In this episode, I respond to a listener question who is concerned about how a narcissist will respond to no-contact upon being released from prison. Watch the video podcast on Youtube: A Date With Darkness Email questions or comments to Dr. Jones [email protected] Sign up for the free…
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The Kind Narcissist
In this episode, I will explore traits/actions of a kind narcissist and how they create the ultimate cloud of confusion. Watch the video podcast on Youtube: A Date With Darkness Email questions or comments to Dr. Jones [email protected] Sign up for the free ebook on Red Flags in Your...
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Unhealthy Reasons For Having Children
In this podcast, I explore unhealthy reasons that people have children. I explore having children as a means to appease your partner, save the relationship, sabotaging your partner's future, reproductive abuse, or using your children as a way to secure your financial future. Watch the video…
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Did the Narcissist Ever Love Me
In this episode, I discuss how to discern whether the narcissist in your life ever "cared" for you. Watch the video podcast on Youtube: A Date With Darkness Email questions or comments to Dr. Jones [email protected] Sign up for the free ebook on Red Flags in Your Relationships and the free...
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Why You Should Never Get Revenge Against the Narcissist
In this podcast, I discuss why you should never consider "getting revenge" against a narcissist, and what you should do instead. Watch the video podcast on Youtube: A Date With Darkness Email questions or comments to Dr. Jones [email protected] To learn more about Daphne McGee Esq., visit:...
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How I Was Spiritually Groomed For an Abusive Marriage; Featuring Daphne McGee Esq.
Divorce coach Daphne McGee Esq. joins us to discuss abuse in her marriage and feeling pressured by the church to stay in an unhealthy dynamic. Watch the video podcast on Youtube: A Date With Darkness Email questions or comments to Dr. Jones [email protected] To learn more about Daphne…
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Maladaptive Coping Patterns We Develop As a Result of Narcissistic Abuse
In this episode, I discuss toxic traits that victims of narcissistic abuse develop as a way to cope with and protect themselves from further abuse. Watch the video podcast on Youtube: A Date With Darkness Email questions or comments to Dr. Jones [email protected] Sign up for the free ebook...
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Challenges in the Healing Process
In this episode, Dr. Jones discusses challenges we encounter while healing process. Watch the video podcast on Youtube: A Date With Darkness Email questions or comments to Dr. Jones [email protected] Sign up for the free ebook on Red Flags in Your Relationships and the free weekly…
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Boys to Men Series, Part 3: Addressing the Mother Wound in Men
Part 3 in the Boys to Men series: Dr. Jones explores the mother wound in men and how this wound impacts their relationships with themselves and others. Lastly, we discuss steps that men can take towards healing their mother wound. Watch the video podcast on Youtube: A Date With Darkness Email...
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Boys to Men Series, Part 2: The Father Wound in Men
Part 2 in the Boys to Men series: Join me as I explore the different ways that father wounds show up in men and how this affects men in their relationship. Lastly, I explore how men can heal from the father wound. Watch the video podcast on Youtube: A Date With Darkness Email questions or…
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Boys to Men Series Part 1: Men Who Experienced Sexual Trauma During Childhood
Part 1 in the Boys to Men series: In this new series, I will be discussing the impact of abuse on boys/men. I discuss my experience in interviewing men who were sexually assaulted as children. I discuss some common challenges that they face as sexual assault victims and how this manifests in…
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A.C.O.N.
Adult children of narcissistic parents face unique challenges. I explore the interpersonal and emotional challenges children of narcissistic parents face after dealing with years of abuse. Difficulty trusting yourself, developing multiple relationships with narcissists, problematic coping skills,...
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
A Date With Darkness podcast discusses the impact of narcissistic abuse and other relationship wounds on your well-being. This podcast provides tips for breaking free from relationships with narcissists and other unhealthy relationship patterns so that you can begin your healing journey, reclaim your independence and sanity, feel confident and know your worth, break toxic cycles, and create the healthy loving relationships that you deserve.
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Dr. Natalie Jones, PsyD, LPCC
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