A Girls Perspective Podcast
by Sweetheart Creations LLC
For the girls who give everything and still end up on the outside. You don't need to be fixed. You need to feel seen. We're your friends now — pull up. Hosted by BFFs Jocelyn & Jade. Every week we sit down, turn the mics on, and have the conversation we were going to have anyway. Relationships, pop culture, life — whatever's on our minds. No script. No filter. Just real talk between real friends. New episodes every Wednesday. If you want a quick hit before diving into a full episode, check out our companion micro-podcast, AGP Micro Dosed. Weekly 90-second conversations for the girl who's short on time but still wants the vibe. Brought to you by Sweetheart Creations LLC.
Episodes
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#100 –We Couldn’t Afford to Live Either
This week, we’re talking about livable wages, taxes, Indianapolis drivers, and AI, the real-life money stress nobody prepares you for: somebody said it’s your employer’s job to make sure you have a livable wage, Jocelyn and Jade both disagree, and then both admit they’ve been the woman who…
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#99 – If It’s Gonna Hurt My Feelings, I’m Not Asking
This week, we’re talking about promotions, honest feedback at work, and the questions you shouldn’t ask if you can’t take the answer: a coworker asked Jocelyn whether she’d be considered for manager, and Jocelyn, who manages a team, told her no and gave her two reasons. We also get into whether…
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#98 – Iced Coffee at the Interview? Girl, Leave It in the Car
This week, we’re talking about the iced coffee job interview debate, adult friendship, and what people hear versus what you actually said: Jocelyn hires people, and between two equal candidates she is picking the one who did not bring the iced coffee, Jade wants to know how serious you take...
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#97 – I Don’t Have Kids. I’m Overwhelmed With the Cat
This week, we’re talking about being childfree, adult friendship, and work boundaries: why Jocelyn does not have kids and why one cat is already a lot, the strangers on TikTok asking for your phone number so y’all can be friends, and Jocelyn’s rule that a happy hour after work is on her time, not...
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#96 – My ADHD Medication Had Me Flipping Out at Work
This week, we’re talking about adult ADHD and what nobody tells you after the diagnosis: the medication that had Jocelyn flipping out on people at her old job, the apology she went back and gave, and still meant, and the ADHD coaching her psychiatrist just told her exists. We also get into the...
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#95 – In My Thirties Most of My Student Loans Disappeared
This week, we're talking about student loans and what it really cost to do what everybody told millennials to do: the $99,900 Jocelyn owed on one accounting degree, the for-profit college behind most of it, the class action lawsuit, the borrower defense claim, and the day her balance dropped to...
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#94 – In My Thirties I Stopped Giving the Salon My Saturdays
This week, we're talking about Black hair and everything we went through to have it: the relaxer that burned and the beautician who said tell me when you feel it, the salon Saturdays that took the whole day, the big chop, sisterlocks, and the little boy who thinks moms are supposed to have hair....
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#93 – Nobody Warned Me About 35
This week, we’re talking about what 35 does to a woman’s body and mind and why nobody warns you: ADHD symptoms that showed up out of nowhere, menopause creeping into the 40s, and doctors who say nah you good while your friend is finding out on TikTok what her old OBGYN never told her. Whether...
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#92 – My Money Got Standards in My Thirties
This week, we’re talking about money boundaries, adulting, and only paying people who actually show up, starting with the lawn crew that missed three appointments, quoted almost $1,000 to pull some weeds, and watched Jocelyn get her gloves and do it herself. Whether you’re tired of businesses…
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#91 – One Sentence Ended Our Six Year Friendship
This week, we’re talking about adult friendships and the art of saying no, the friend who called Jocelyn’s graduation a family thing after six years, and the trauma bonds that fall apart the minute your life starts improving. Whether you’re navigating friends who disappear when it is time to...
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#90 – My Best Friend Knew I Was Lying to Myself
This week, we’re talking about the honest side of adult friendship, the $2,000 marketing class Jocelyn registered for and quit in two days, and the viral braids video that has everybody arguing about kids and colored hair. Jade knew the class was never happening and said nothing, which raises the...
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#89 – He's Secretly Ruining His Golden Child Brother's Life
This week, we're talking about golden child siblings, family favoritism, and a Reddit confession from a man who has spent years secretly ruining his older brother's life. Jocelyn and Jade get into why the resentment is really about the parents, the Whitney Houston slander that had Jocelyn ready…
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#88 – Why I'm Done With One-Sided Friendships
This week, we're talking about one-sided friendships, adult loneliness, and the difference between a friend and an associate. Jocelyn shares the Reddit story that hit too close to home, the beer fest trip her whole friend group took without her, and the day she told them she was done doing all…
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#87 – She Had To Put Her Divorce In The Newspaper
This week, we're talking about divorce, money struggles, and the growth that comes after the broke years. Jade tells the story of putting an ad in the newspaper just to divorce a man she could not find, and Jocelyn relives the car that started smoking at the bank right before the wheels quite...
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#86 – He'll Ask You For $20 But Can't Change A Tire
This week, we're talking about dating standards, broke men, confidence, and situationships with our first full guest table: Brion and Dmatt of the Indy podcast Bellies and BS, plus recurring guest Antonio. The room names the man who moves into your place and contributes nothing, debates whether...
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#85 – He Waited Until the Day Before to Tell Me
This week, we're talking about work stress, micromanaging, and what a manager check-in should actually cover, the real-life career moments nobody preps you for. Jocelyn tells the story of a coworker who had a whole month, said we're good every single week, and confessed the day before the…
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#84 – Then She Got An Offer And Everything Changed
This week we're talking about workplace value, counteroffers, career growth, and why some companies only recognize your worth after you've decided to leave. We also dive into giving notice, toxic work culture, school cellphone bans, student loans, the Mandela Effect, and several viral internet...
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#83 - That One Sentence Cost Her Four Years
This week, we're talking about the moments that change the direction of your life when you're still a teenager and do not fully understand the stakes. Jocelyn lost a four-year scholarship to a private school and college her sophomore year of high school, crashed a registration day to beg a dean...
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#82 - She Was Giving 70 and He Gave Nothing Back
This week, we're talking about what happens when one person in a relationship sets every standard, gives everything, and then gets blamed for wanting equal effort back. The real-life frustration of realizing someone got comfortable on your generosity, and why the people in your corner telling you...
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#81 – We Finally Admitted Our Most Toxic Traits
This week, we're talking about toxic traits, the real ones we will actually admit to out loud, from anger problems and decision fatigue to talking over the people we love. It is an honest, funny, unfiltered conversation about self-awareness, work stress, and the adulting moments nobody warns you...
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#80 – Two Years Later She Finally Told the Truth
This week, we’re talking about the friendships that fade without warning, and what it really looks like when someone shows you they’re done, even if they never say it. We’re also into one of the messiest moral dilemmas we’ve ever stumbled across: she wasn’t technically cheating, but the full…
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#79 - She Helped Plan The Wedding… Then Said NO
Your ex showing up to your wedding trying to stop the ceremony sounds like something out of a movie… until you realize there are people actually living through situations like that. This week’s conversation turns into a debate about toxic relationships, crazy exes, revenge behavior, workplace...
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#78 - She Showed Up To His Wedding… To STOP IT
Your ex showing up to your wedding trying to stop the ceremony sounds like something out of a movie… until you realize there are people actually living through situations like that. This week’s conversation turns into a debate about toxic relationships, crazy exes, revenge behavior, workplace...
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#77 - His Mom Humiliated Me… And He Joined In
This week, we’re talking about relationship boundaries, mama’s boys, emotional regulation, and the ways unhealthy family dynamics can quietly destroy relationships. What starts with a humiliating birthday dinner turns into a bigger conversation about self-awareness, therapy, emotional burnout…
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#76 - He Keeps Leaving… And She Keeps Taking Him Back
Some people don’t actually want to leave you… they just want to know you’ll still be there when they come back. This conversation started with a Reddit story about a man who asks for a “break” from his relationship every single year like it’s a holiday tradition, and somehow spiraled into…
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#75 - He Let Her Stay… Now She Won’t Leave
Let’s talk about what happens when someone crosses a boundary and refuses to respect it, because that “just one night” favor can turn into a full situation real fast. This conversation breaks down friendship boundaries, dealing with people who take advantage of your kindness, and how to handle...
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#74 - He Pretends To Go To Work… Then Comes Back Home
Sometimes you’re not trying to be sneaky… you just want a break without being asked to do anything. This week, we’re talking about boundaries, communication, and why people sometimes hide things in relationships just to get a moment of peace. From secretly taking PTO days to avoiding expectations...
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#73 - She Set Me Up… Then Blamed Me
This week, we’re talking about friendship tests, silent expectations, being “invited” without actually being invited, and how adult friendships start feeling transactional when people refuse to communicate directly. We get into the drink story that sparked the whole conversation, why keeping…
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#72 - She Said No… Then Expected Me To Adjust
This week, we’re talking about boundaries, friendship expectations, adult friendships, and the pressure people put on you when they want you to change your plans after the fact. We also get into aging, work stress, nostalgia, relationship opinions, and the real-life questions adults end up...
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#71 - The Pettiest Grudges We Still Hold Today
You ever still be thinking about something small that happened years ago… and you’re like yeah, I’m still not over that? That’s basically this whole conversation. It starts with petty grudges but turns into something deeper—public embarrassment, disrespect, letting things slide in the moment, and...
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#70 - My Life Is Moving Forward… She Won’t Let Me Breathe
This week, we’re talking about adult friendships, changing life stages, boundaries, guilt, and what happens when one person still expects the old version of you. We get into a married and pregnant woman trying to figure out how to ask a close friend for space, plus the real-life pressure that…
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#69 - The Worst First Dates We’ve Ever Heard
This week, we’re talking about worst first dates, dating red flags, and the kind of situations that make you rethink how people move when it comes to relationships. From being put in uncomfortable positions on a first date to realizing someone isn’t as single as they claimed, this conversation…
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#68 - Why People End Relationships Over SMALL Things
Sometimes the hardest part of adulthood is realizing people do not always leave over big, obvious reasons. Sometimes they leave over something tiny, random, petty, or something that was never really the full truth to begin with. In this episode of A Girls Perspective, we talk through the small...
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#67 - Friends Who Expect You To Be Available 24/7
This week, we’re talking about adult friendships, emotional boundaries, medical autonomy, and the real-life pressures that come with trying to protect your peace while still showing up for other people. We get into one-sided friendships, emotional dumping, missed-train responsibility, women’s...
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#66 - She Changed Her Niece’s Name… Was That Wrong?
This week, we’re talking about a guardian who changed her niece’s name from Synnamin to Simone and whether that decision was protection or overstepping. We unpack baby name consequences, family dynamics, identity, long-term impact, and what happens when adults make decisions that follow kids into...
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#65 - Outgrowing Your Friends Is Not Wrong
This week on A Girls Perspective (AGP), we’re talking about outgrowing your friends and why evolving doesn’t make you a bad person. We get into friendship struggles, boundaries, and the guilt that can come with personal growth when you’re no longer aligned with the people you used to run with. We...
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#64 - Don’t Gaslight Me with the “Mandela Effect”
This week, we’re talking about memory, trust, and why so many adults feel like reality keeps shifting beneath them. From the Mandela Effect debate to side relationships and misplaced sympathy, we unpack how gaslighting shows up in culture, relationships, and even online spaces. We also dive into...
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#63 - If Karma Took Requests
Question of the Week: What would you wish on your worst enemy? We kick off with Weekly Reddit and the answers range from petty inconvenience to “okay… you didn’t have to go THAT far.” It turns into a surprisingly real conversation about what people actually mean when they say they want karma, and...
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#62 – The “Small” Social Rules Adults Are Finally Ignoring
This week, Jocelyn and Jade talk about how adulthood changes the way we communicate, interact, and tolerate social expectations. Starting with a Question of the Week, the conversation expands into texting etiquette, social availability, overstimulation, workplace behavior, impulse control…
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#61 – We’re Choosing Sides in Black Pop Culture
This week, we’re choosing sides on Black pop culture — music, movies, TV shows, and nostalgia moments that still spark debate years later. We talk about loyalty to artists, generational bias, and why certain opinions feel personal even when they shouldn’t. If you love millennial nostalgia, pop...
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#60 – You Don’t Get to Control People Because You’re “Moral.”
This week, we’re talking about adult boundaries, morality, and the pressure to live by other people’s rules just to avoid conflict. Using a viral Reddit story as a starting point, we unpack shared living dynamics, money boundaries, workplace gossip, and why being “responsible” is often about...
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#59 - Some Things Ruin Attraction Forever
This week, we’re unpacking a breakup story that raises an uncomfortable question: are there moments you just can’t come back from in a relationship? We react to a Reddit post that sparked debate about attraction, embarrassment, and honesty, then get into why people claim they want relationships…
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#58 – The Pettiest Things Done After a Breakup
Breakups don’t always end cleanly. Sometimes they end with hurt feelings, crossed lines, and decisions people swear they don’t regret. In this episode, Jocelyn and Jade react to stories about the pettiest things people have done after a breakup and talk through why emotions make people move the…
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#57 - I Don’t Want to Be Your Accountability Partner
Saying you don’t want to be someone’s accountability partner can shift a friendship instantly. This conversation moves from rethinking personal change to navigating friendships that expect more consistency than you can realistically give. We break down a real situation where opting out caused...
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#56 - My Most Embarrassing Work Accident
This episode starts with a Reddit story so embarrassing it makes you physically uncomfortable, a work accident that turned into a core memory no one would ever want. From there, the conversation opens up into the kinds of moments adulthood doesn’t prepare you for: humiliation at work, navigating...
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#55 - Burnout Changes You In Ways Work Will Never Understand
Work will drain the version of you it met if you let it. Burnout hits different when you’re the one holding everything together — the “strong one,” the dependable coworker, the one who cares more than the people in charge. In this episode, we’re talking about what burnout actually feels like, why...
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#54 - Why We Stay With People We’re Trying to Leave
If you’ve ever stayed in a relationship longer than you should have, kept sleeping with someone you were trying to leave, or dragged out a breakup because comfort felt easier than change… this episode will feel painfully familiar. We talk about the messy in-between stage — when you know you're…
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Hookup Horror Stories and Holiday Drama | Ep 53
Hookup Horror Stories, Holiday Boundaries, and Pop-up Visits: Navigating Modern Friendships In this lively episode, Jocelyn and Jade delve into the hilarious and sometimes cringe-worthy world of 'hookup horror stories,' sharing listener submissions that will leave you wide-eyed. The duo also...
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Top 5 Subtle Signs of Cheating You Might Miss! | Ep 52
In this episode, Jocelyn and Jade dive into the week's question: what are subtle signs someone is cheating? They discuss five signs based on listener responses and share personal anecdotes about infidelity, relationship dynamics, and social media behavior. The conversation touches on social...
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Unspoken Rules of Adult Friendships | Ep 51
Unforgettable Dreams, Stripper Mishaps, and Boundaries In this episode, hosts Jocelyn and Jade share a hilarious and unforgettable bachelorette trip to Nashville where ATM issues and unexpected costs left them in awkward situations. They also dive into a discussion about memorable dreams from...
About this show
For the girls who give everything and still end up on the outside. You don't need to be fixed. You need to feel seen. We're your friends now — pull up.
Hosted by BFFs Jocelyn & Jade. Every week we sit down, turn the mics on, and have the conversation we were going to have anyway. Relationships, pop culture, life — whatever's on our minds. No script. No filter. Just real talk between real friends.
New episodes every Wednesday.
If you want a quick hit before diving into a full episode, check out our companion micro-podcast, AGP Micro Dosed. Weekly 90-second conversations for the girl who's short on time but still wants the vibe.
Brought to you by Sweetheart Creations LLC.
Hosted by
Sweetheart Creations LLC