A METHOD Podcast

What defines what family is? Is it friends or DNA? How do the people we choose and are forced to choose because of blood, shape and define our lives? This week we sit down with 2 guest who spent their entire lives not knowing who their father or mother were, only to recently discover them through Ancestry DNA kits. How has it turned out for them? This is quite the emotional episode.

Spoiler alert! We're discussing all things sinners. So if you haven't seen it skip this episode until you do. Or? Listen and still go watch to form your own opinion if you haven't seen it. For the rest of us, we're excited to discuss this movie. Cheers!

Telling someone that you're dating that you need time that doesn't include them can be challenging. Me time is important but it does require a balance when dating or in a relationship. We sit down and discuss the proper ways to explain needing me time. #relationships #dating

The State of Stand Up Comedy

We took our talents to ybor to enjoy some good people watching, good drinks and some good weather. This is unedited, unfiltered and unscripted. We talked to few random strangers too about this topic

Kendrick just performed at the Superbowl. Has anyone had such a generational run as Kendrick? Has anyone had a better year in music than this? This episode is an appreciation episode to Kendrick and what he has done for the hip hop community.

You break up and then what? Should you date immediately or wait 3 years? We talk about some of the dating challenges that we've ran into in the past and currently. Maybe you were better off just staying because we FAFO how bad it is out here.

We take a test to determine our Narcissism level but more importantly we discuss what we learned from the Science VS podcast episode on Narcissism . Are you a narcissist? Are you dating a narcissist? Maybe...maybe not. Let us know in the comments what you scored. Here's the link to the Narcissist test: https://psytests.org/darktriad/npi40en.html Here are some timestamps if you want to jump around. 13:00: Definition of a Narcissist 23:00: Are narcissist self aware? 40:00: How do we change when dating narcissist? 60:00: NPI 40 test results 01:24:00: Method on Repeat

We took a narcissism test and we're surprised by the results. Enjoy this micro episode. The full new episode drops 1/15/25

Chempatibilistry.. How much do they matter? Which one matters more? If they had a baby, what would we call it? Would it be ugly? Let's find out in this free episode of A METHOD Podcast Here go some timestamps if you wanna skip around: 7:59 - Support 10:24 - Chemistry defined by Google 11:24 - How does Rebel perceive Chemistry? 12:50 - Jay: "I think Chemistry is overrated" 14:21 - How do we differentiate? 16:03 - What does Chemistry look like in your personal life? 17:21 - Energy & Chemistry 22:33 - Chemistry is to like as compatibility is to love 32:20 - Sexual chemistry 33:43 - Jay: "Do too many people cut off one another because the sexual chemistry is not good in the beginning?" 35:05 - Sexual chemistry vs sexual compatibility 38:27 - The type of compatibility Jay is looking for 40:02 - Trauma's effect on compatibility 45:06 - Remy: 'I would say cheating is a chemical thing" 46:25 - 7 areas of compatibility 46:28 - 1. Are your goals compatible? 47:46 - 2. Does the timing of your goals match? 49:17 - 3. Are your lifestyles compatible? 52:50 - 5. Would you be happy with this person raising your children if you dead? 55:43 - "When did you know the compatibility in your past relationships was no longer aligned?" If you want more, there's a long version of this episode with a performance from The Rebel Poet and us telling even more of our business. I'll give it to you for five bucks (or however much it cost) Enjoy the vibes

We finish our top 12 list. What made the cut for the greatest opening songs to a hip hop album.

What are the best songs to ever open a hip hop album? Which hip hop genius created the best opening song to a album? The table listens, debates and create their own top 12 songs out of this round of listening. This part 1

Are Black men not voting for Kamala Harris? That's the narrative of the 2024 election. It's election 2024 and the election is tomorrow. We listen to a few different trending clips and react to those. Who are you voting for? #kamalaharriss #election2024 #kamala

Hurricane Milton tore through the greater Tampa Bay Area just a few weeks after Hurricane Helene which didn’t leave much time for recovery here in Tampa. We recap our experience with Hurricane Milton and talk about the aftermath of the experience. We also sit down at the table to talk about Omarion’s opinion on marriage and where we stand. Don’t forget to leave a comment.

Reddit has become the safe platform for asking for advice about shit going on in people’s lives. We screenshot some of those topics and discuss

We're in a cabin in the woods and we're talking about what brings out masculine energies and feminine energies in relationships and dating. Are men allowed to step into any form of feminine energy within being demonized? Let's talk about it

People break up, people make up and people say they need space. Sometimes they even say “We need to take a break”. What does that even mean? What are the rules when two people decide to take a break. Can we sleep with other people?

Now that House of dragons...wait...is it house of dragons, house of the dragon, The Dragons or GOT? Anyway, now that S2 of HOD has concluded I invited a few of my friends to the pod to discuss our feelings and thoughts about the entirety of the series but specifically S2.

Are humans capable of unconditional love and when does reciprocation in the dating process begin? We sit down and talk about whether men and women equally get unconditional love and reciprocation. Cheers!

We react and discuss some clips from TikTok that caught my attention this week. It’s that simple and it’s that dope. Let’s talk about it.

Sultana is a Christian but what is Jay? We have a healthy discussion about how religions and spirituality has shaped our lives.

Jay messed up and deleted the raw file for part 2 of our marriage episode. Shit happens, so here’s an entirely new episode to take its place for this week. You get to learn more about us and us about one another. Sip sip

We’re talking all things marriage in 3 different phases. Phase 1 is getting the ring, phase 2 is keeping the ring and phase 3 is letting go of the ring. In part 1 of this episode we’re dissecting phase 1 and part of phase 2.

Its a episode about sex, what else is there to say? We talk about how sex shapes our personal lives and what we expect from our sexual encounters. What experiences did we talk about? We guess the juice is in the details and the details are in this episode. Sip sip! Hooray!

Dating in today's climate can not only be stressful but it can be confusing. Everyone has their particular dating expectations but are they realistic? We sit down and discuss modern day dating expectations and talk about our own as well.

How well do you pivot when your goals, dreams and plans get derailed or ended? How do you handle job loss? Friendship loss? These types of losses can be hell on your mental health. We talk about and we keep honest.

This episode Remy is joined by Josh of Greenbook Tampa Bay and JayRod The MC and discuss music and more in this season 4 closer

We're living in a world where we're overworked, over looked, over stimulated, over analyzed  and over stressed due to our own expectations for our lives. What do we do to balance the pressure of being successful and how do we maintain our healthy mental health without alienating those we care for the most? #mentalhealth #suicide #depression #happy 

The strip club is a magical fantastical place.. The rain is green and dirty, the women are far from modest, there's probably a smell but nobody gives a fuck, there's a white girl in the corner twerking, there's a white dude in the back jerkin off, we're all going to the dirtiest waffle house in the county after this. In such a place sometimes people don't know how to act. We gon figure out what the etiquette is in this episode. 

It's the season premier of S3 and we're talking about Cuffin Season. Do you believe in Cuffin season? When is cuffin season? How do you build a cuffin season roster? When are tryouts? So many questions and we're gonna kick of season 3 by debating this topic.

We're still on break but got together to drop a off the cuff conversation.

What is your purpose in life? Can you have more than one purpose? We sit down with The American Griot podcast to discuss.

There are traditional rules, non-traditional rules and then our own rules when it comes to relationships. Sip and converse with us as we discuss the different types of relationship rules we hear the most in today's relationship culture like "women need to be submissive" 

Answering questions that we need some answers to. Some of these are funny and some of these are serious. We don't know if anyone cares to answer them but we're gonna answer them and you're gonna listen and like it. Sip sip Method Heads.

We all understand that painting is art, but is making love art? Is the gift of gab art? We take a look at different activities to discuss the different faces of art and whether or not there's a difference between being a artist and a hobbyist. 

We can spend our entire life holding on to a certain set of characteristics, quirks and personality traits that we claim is part of our identity. But what is identity really? Who are we? Are we who we say we are or are we who someone else has created? Lets talk honestly over drinks about it. #identity #personality #tampa #entertainment 

Publicly no one openly talks about what kinks and fetishes they might have, but behind closed doors? There's a lot of kinky things happening and there are a lot of fetishes being requested. What are your kinks? What are our kinks? We sit down and talk honestly over drinks about the different kinks that exist.  #kinks #fetishes #sex #entertainment #blackpodcast #gossip 

There's always a video clip somewhere on Uncle Sam's internet that seems to go viral each week. We pulled a few of those trending video's from the web that has gone viral the last 7 days and discuss our perspectives on what was said. Its a laid back kinda episode as we talk honestly over drinks. #podcast #tampa #entertainment #music #popculture #viral 

Roe vs Wade has been overturned and because of that it has stirred up a lot of emotions around women's rights when it comes to their own bodies (rightfully so). We're sitting down to discuss the many hard life decisions that we all face and have a honest conversation about abortion rights and how it affects so many lives.

Are all safe spaces created equal or are we just pretending that they are? This week we're talking honestly over drinks about men having emotional safe spaces, women having sexual safe spaces and the double standards that do or don't exist in different types of "safe spaces". Lets drink and lets talk honestly. Salute

What does being in love feel like, look like and taste like to men? What is love from the male perspective? Society likes to believe that men no longer want love nor desires to be married, is that true? We don't f*ckin know but we're gonna sit down and discuss the full kit and caboodle of it as we talk honestly over drinks. #love #dating #relationships #entertainment  * Don't forget that you can find all the music in this episode on the Spotify playlist "Method Music"

When is it the right time to walk away from someone you've been dating? When is it the right time to walk away from a marriage? When is the right time to walk away from a job, a career or friendship? We don't know if there is right time or wrong time but we sit down to discuss what it looks like and what it feels like.

Everything has competition. It's the nature of balance in the world and bringing out the best in something. So let's compare, contrast, and figure out which one is really the best or the most diabolical. #loriharvey #relationships #iphone #android #news #tampa #music #methodpodcast #entertainment 

Penis Size, Breast Size, ass size, chest size, arm size, weight size, height size, family size, bank account size....oh we're gonna talk about it all and try to answer the fundamental question of: does size really matter or not? #sex #dating #money #news #podcast #relationships #music #tampa #entertainment 

Our parents shape our lives in more ways than we realize. Some of those ways are for the good and unfortunately some are for the bad and it's up to us as adults to work our way through the beliefs and teachings that we learned both consciously and unconsciously from our parents. If you have kids you may be teaching them things that will take them years to recover from. This week we sit down and talk about it all.  #parents #adulting #teach #kids #secrets  #news #entertainment #tampa #podcast 

We're talking all things casual sex. The good the bad and the juicy. Grab your drink and come join the conversation. #sex #casual #dating #music #nowplaying #news #popculture #menandwomen #blackpodcast 

He was one of the most controversial YouTubers of all time and he recently passed away. This isn't a topic about his legacy or him as a person but rather was he right or wrong in his assessment of the situations presented. We take a listen to some of his clips and give our honest opinion. #kevinsamuels #blackwomen #blackmen #news #blackpodcast #nowplaying #music #tampa 

Everyone at one point in their lives will experience FOMO. The questions are how does it show up in our lives and what are the things that people have FOMO with? We're going to sit down and talk honestly over drinks about this topic and much more.  Salute!

There are a lot of unwritten rules that exist or that have been made up when it comes to do's and don'ts of dating and relationships. One of the biggest rules that you hear floating the innanet is whether or not you should be doing husband duties or wife duties before you get the ring. Well, lets talk honestly about that and much more in this week's episode. Salute! 02:08- Method Movie 07:26- Method Message 45:30- Method Lessons 55:30- The Method Weekly 1:20- Unnamed Artist 

Fear can strike you at any moment in life and people can be traumatize mentally and paralyzed in life because of that fear. We sit down and discuss how fear exists in our life lives and how we think it manifest itself in different ways in everyone's life.