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This week's Play: Name the three things that will not move.Your team does not have change fatigue. They have leadership fatigue.In this episode of A Student of Leadership, Robert Adams returns to The Plate, the second element of the Place Setting Framework, with a harder question. What does a leader serve their team in an extended hard season, when the change is relentless and everyone is tired?People can absorb almost anything if they trust the person asking them to do it. What they cannot absorb is leadership that disappears in the middle of the change.In this episode:- Why teams reporting the highest fatigue are not the ones experiencing the most change- Damola Adamolekun and the Red Lobster turnaround: walking into bankruptcy, low morale, and a "beat down" team, and starting with what he himself was going to put in front of them- "Leadership is self-improvement": Adamolekun's documented principle and what it means in practice- The McKinsey 2025 change fatigue research and what it reveals about anchoring vs. accelerating- Three behaviors that distinguish leaders who lead through extended turbulence well- Why the leader who runs themselves empty cannot serve a steady plate- Where AI is accelerating change and where the leader still has to make the callThe three behaviors:01. Name what is not changing. Operationally specific.02. Show up where the work happens. The dock. The route. The line.03. Protect your own plate. Empty leaders cannot serve steady ones.Referenced this week:Damola Adamolekun: CEO of Red Lobster, appointed August 2024 after the chain's Chapter 11 bankruptcy. Documented via Fortune, CNN, and multiple business publications. The 40% sales surge in 2025 and the leadership philosophy of "self-improvement" are both publicly documented in his interviews from late 2025.McKinsey 2025 change fatigue research. Documented in multiple workforce reports.Episode 66: We Have Set the Full Table (May Close). Available now in your podcast feed.CONNECT WITH ROBERT ADAMS:The Leadership Table, weekly newsletter on Substack (free)A weekly leadership playbook. Every Monday at 6:00 AM EST.https://robertadamsleader.substack.com/Breaking Bread, LinkedIn Newsletter (free)The shorter version of the week's idea. Every Friday at 6:45 AM EST.https://www.linkedin.com/newsletters/7316826823063920641/Subscribe to A Student of Leadership:Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/a-student-of-leadership-real-leaders-real-growth-one-table/id1788679511Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6KdlbKAVbF118b2KhfcpqyWebsite: https://astudentofleadership.riverside.com/Share this episode with a leader who is running their team through extended change right now.Real Leaders. Real Growth. One Table.Robert Adams | A Student of Leadership

The conversation about leading across generations is mostly a distraction. Not because the generations are the same. But because the answer is not in the generational profiles.In this episode of A Student of Leadership, Robert Adams makes the case that every generation at your table wants the same things: to be seen, to do work that matters, and to know the person leading them is worth following. What differs is what they have been taught to expect.In this episode:- Why most generational profiling in leadership misses the actual problem- What Gen Z is actually asking for in the workplace, and why it is not a character flaw- What experienced professionals need to see acknowledged, and why the friction between generations is usually practical rather than philosophical- Three things a leader does to build a table where every generation feels like their seat was set with intention- The May close: what The Spoon, The Glass, The Napkin, and The Table add up to as a leadership foundation- June preview: The Plate returning, leading through change when everyone is exhaustedThe three things a leader does to build a table across generations:01. Name what you value from each person. Individually. Visibly.02. Build consistency without eliminating individuality. Same standard, different support.03. Make the table visibly worth building toward. Evidence in the ordinary moments, not just the policy.Referenced this week:Gen Z workplace research: multiple sources including Deloitte Global Millennial and Gen Z surveys, Gallup State of the American Workplace reports.Episode 65: The Leader Who Sees the Whole Person. Available now in your podcast feed.CONNECT WITH ROBERT ADAMS:The Leadership Table, weekly newsletter on Substack (free)A weekly leadership playbook. Every Monday at 6:00 AM EST.https://robertadamsleader.substack.com/Breaking Bread, LinkedIn Newsletter (free)The shorter version of the week's idea. Every Friday at 6:45 AM EST.https://www.linkedin.com/newsletters/7316826823063920641/Subscribe to A Student of Leadership:Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/a-student-of-leadership-real-leaders-real-growth-one-table/id1788679511Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6KdlbKAVbF118b2KhfcpqyWebsite: https://astudentofleadership.riverside.com/Share this with one leader navigating a multigenerational team who is not sure where to start.Real Leaders. Real Growth. One Table.Robert Adams | A Student of Leadership

Mental health is a leadership issue. Not a benefit program. Not a wellness initiative. A leadership issue that lives in the ordinary moments between a leader and the people they lead every day.In this episode of A Student of Leadership, Robert Adams explores The Napkin, the sixth piece of the Place Setting Framework, and what it actually looks like when a leader sees their team as whole people rather than functions on a schedule.In this episode:- The data that should change how every leader in food service thinks about their role: Deloitte's finding that managers have more impact on employee mental health than therapists or doctors- The culture in food service and hospitality that has historically treated acknowledging struggle as weakness, and what that culture is costing the industry- Three specific things a leader does consistently when they see the whole person: noticing, asking, and responding without fixing- Tim Etherington-Judge and Healthy Hospo: the movement built on the truth that people who pour care into guests every shift deserve to have care poured back into them- Why a leader cannot create safety for their team if they do not have it for themselves- Where AI is genuinely useful in this space and where the human act of presence remains irreplaceableThe three things a leader does when they actually see their team:01. Noticing. Paying attention to what is different. Not diagnosing. Observing.02. Asking. The human question, not the performance question. And meaning it.03. Responding without fixing. Hearing before advising. Acknowledging before solving.Referenced this week:Deloitte Global Mental Health survey: findings on manager impact on employee mental health. Cited across multiple annual reports.National Restaurant Association: workforce mental health and burnout data in food service and hospitality.Tim Etherington-Judge: founder of Healthy Hospo. Verified via multiple hospitality publications.Episode 64: The Feedback That Actually Changes Behavior. Available now in your podcast feed.CONNECT WITH ROBERT ADAMS:The Leadership Table, weekly newsletter on Substack (free)A weekly leadership playbook. Every Monday at 6:00 AM EST.https://robertadamsleader.substack.com/Breaking Bread, LinkedIn Newsletter (free)The shorter version of the week's idea. Every Friday at 6:45 AM EST.https://www.linkedin.com/newsletters/7316826823063920641/Subscribe to A Student of Leadership:Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/a-student-of-leadership-real-leaders-real-growth-one-table/id1788679511Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6KdlbKAVbF118b2KhfcpqyWebsite: https://astudentofleadership.riverside.com/Share this with one leader in food service or hospitality who is carrying more than they have been allowed to say out loud.Real Leaders. Real Growth. One Table.Robert Adams | A Student of Leadership

Most feedback creates defensiveness. Feedforward creates development.In this episode of A Student of Leadership, Robert Adams shares the concept that changed how he leads and coaches: feedforward. The shift from looking in the rearview mirror to looking through the windshield. And the stakeholder approach to leadership development that removes the distortion of self-assessment.In this episode:- Robert's personal story: why the feedback conversations he was having were not changing behavior, and what shifted when the language changed- The rearview mirror versus the windshield: a visual that reframes how development conversations land- Why backward-facing information produces defense, and how forward-facing information produces development- The exact language shift that keeps the wall from going up in your next development conversation- The stakeholder piece: why the people you impact and influence every day hold the most accurate picture of your actual leadership behavior- How to use a two-part stakeholder question to ground your development in reality rather than self-perception- Where AI genuinely helps in the feedback and development space and where the relational work belongs to the leaderThe core language shift:Instead of: "Here is what happened and what you did wrong."Try: "The next time this situation comes up, I would like to see more of this and less of that."The stakeholder two-part question:Looking back 30 days: what behavior did you actually observe from this leader?Looking forward 30 days: what is one thing this leader could do that would have positive impact on you and the team?Referenced this week:Feedforward approach: developed and championed by Marshall Goldsmith, executive coach and leadership thinker. Robert Adams is a Marshall Goldsmith Stakeholder Centered Coach.Episode 63: Developing People in a Time-Starved Environment. Available now in your podcast feed.CONNECT WITH ROBERT ADAMS:The Leadership Table, weekly newsletter on Substack (free)A weekly leadership playbook. Every Monday at 6:00 AM EST.https://robertadamsleader.substack.com/Breaking Bread, LinkedIn Newsletter (free)The shorter version of the week's idea. Every Friday at 6:45 AM EST.https://www.linkedin.com/newsletters/7316826823063920641/Subscribe to A Student of Leadership:Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/a-student-of-leadership-real-leaders-real-growth-one-table/id1788679511Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6KdlbKAVbF118b2KhfcpqyWebsite: https://astudentofleadership.riverside.com/Share this with a leader who is having the same feedback conversation and not seeing behavior change.Real Leaders. Real Growth. One Table.Robert Adams | A Student of Leadership