A Word from Our Outpost, with Joseph and Crystal Gruber

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A Word from Our Outpost, with Joseph and Crystal Gruber

A podcast for Catholic disciples who are wrestling to be missionary-minded in their normal, everyday lives.Joseph and Crystal were Catholic missionaries for over a decade with FOCUS, the Fellowship of Catholic University Students, serving at MIT, UW Madison, Carnegie Mellon University, Western Washington University, and then at a parish in Jackson, Michigan. They're now the co-founders of Our Outpost Marriage Ministry, Inc., a marriage ministry seeking to awaken authentic Catholic culture through holy matrimony, equipping Catholic men and women through formation and accompaniment. Check out their work at https://ouroutpost.org/ This podcast serves as a place for sharing the transformational ideas, books, scripture passages, and people that we've seen impacting our apostolate for the better, in the hopes of serving other Catholic missionary disciples.

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    Gaps in Your Wall // Episode 281

    If the social fabric as a whole seems threadbare, it's good to start addressing it at the most local level-- around us!    As always, support our work by going here!join the monthly marriage membership here!join our email newsletter list here!catch our other podcast, Love Your Marriage, by clicking here: https://ouroutpost.org/podcasts/see what we have upcoming in terms of events here: https://ouroutpost.org/events/send us an email at [email protected] you're a Catholic husband, you can get a free course on "Happy Wife, Happy Life"-- discover the truths and the lies behind the sentiment, and learn a little more about leadership in the home! https://ouroutpost.kit.com/happywifehappylifeand please rate, review, and share!

  2. 280

    Who Are You Becoming? // Episode 280

    The only tragedy is not becoming a saint...so who are you becoming?   As always, support our work by going here!join the monthly marriage membership here!join our email newsletter list here!catch our other podcast, Love Your Marriage, by clicking here: https://ouroutpost.org/podcasts/see what we have upcoming in terms of events here: https://ouroutpost.org/events/send us an email at [email protected] you're a Catholic husband, you can get a free course on "Happy Wife, Happy Life"-- discover the truths and the lies behind the sentiment, and learn a little more about leadership in the home! https://ouroutpost.kit.com/happywifehappylifeand please rate, review, and share!

  3. 279

    A Spiritual Life Hack // Episode 279

    Not every hack is created equal, but this one, as they say, is a doozy...  Listen in to find out more! As always, support our work by going here!join the monthly marriage membership here!join our email newsletter list here!catch our other podcast, Love Your Marriage, by clicking here: https://ouroutpost.org/podcasts/see what we have upcoming in terms of events here: https://ouroutpost.org/events/send us an email at [email protected] you're a Catholic husband, you can get a free course on "Happy Wife, Happy Life"-- discover the truths and the lies behind the sentiment, and learn a little more about leadership in the home! https://ouroutpost.kit.com/happywifehappylifeand please rate, review, and share!

  4. 278

    The Best Missionary Story I've Got // Episode 278

    After 13 years serving as a Catholic missionary with FOCUS, my best story happened my first week on campus...    As always, support our work by going here!join the monthly marriage membership here!join our email newsletter list here!catch our other podcast, Love Your Marriage, by clicking here: https://ouroutpost.org/podcasts/see what we have upcoming in terms of events here: https://ouroutpost.org/events/send us an email at [email protected] you're a Catholic husband, you can get a free course on "Happy Wife, Happy Life"-- discover the truths and the lies behind the sentiment, and learn a little more about leadership in the home! https://ouroutpost.kit.com/happywifehappylifeand please rate, review, and share!

  5. 277

    East, Easter, Eastest // Episode 277

    Happy Easter! Christ is risen!  While not technically a comparative, it's good to situate Easter as the in-between between what was and what will be. As always, support our work by going here!join the monthly marriage membership here!join our email newsletter list here!catch our other podcast, Love Your Marriage, by clicking here: https://ouroutpost.org/podcasts/see what we have upcoming in terms of events here: https://ouroutpost.org/events/send us an email at [email protected] you're a Catholic husband, you can get a free course on "Happy Wife, Happy Life"-- discover the truths and the lies behind the sentiment, and learn a little more about leadership in the home! https://ouroutpost.kit.com/happywifehappylifeand please rate, review, and share!

  6. 276

    Ups and Downs in the Christian Life // Episode 276

    Joseph discusses what the ups and downs of the Christian life are like, and why we experience them. **a correction: St. Ignatius had two books with him while convalescing, but they were both religious (a life of Christ and a book on saints), and he was merely preoccupied with stories of chivalry and the like, not reading such stories**    As always, support our work by going here!join the monthly marriage membership here!join our email newsletter list here!catch our other podcast, Love Your Marriage, by clicking here: https://ouroutpost.org/podcasts/see what we have upcoming in terms of events here: https://ouroutpost.org/events/send us an email at [email protected] you're a Catholic husband, you can get a free course on "Happy Wife, Happy Life"-- discover the truths and the lies behind the sentiment, and learn a little more about leadership in the home! https://ouroutpost.kit.com/happywifehappylifeand please rate, review, and share!

  7. 275

    Ten Things to Enrich Our Experience of the Mass // Episode 275

    We do a lot of things at Mass; here's a walk-through of some of them, and how we can find greater fruit in their practice. Listen in to find out more! As always, support our work by going here!join the monthly marriage membership here!join our email newsletter list here!catch our other podcast, Love Your Marriage, by clicking here: https://ouroutpost.org/podcasts/see what we have upcoming in terms of events here: https://ouroutpost.org/events/send us an email at [email protected] you're a Catholic husband, you can get a free course on "Happy Wife, Happy Life"-- discover the truths and the lies behind the sentiment, and learn a little more about leadership in the home! https://ouroutpost.kit.com/happywifehappylifeand please rate, review, and share!

  8. 274

    Three Reasons to Fast // Episode 274

    There are a lot of good reasons to practice fasting; Joseph will share three of them in this episode. They won't make fasting any easier, but they'll at least help explain why fasting is hard... Listen in to find out more! As always, support our work by going here!join the monthly marriage membership here!join our email newsletter list here!catch our other podcast, Love Your Marriage, by clicking here: https://ouroutpost.org/podcasts/see what we have upcoming in terms of events here: https://ouroutpost.org/events/send us an email at [email protected] you're a Catholic husband, you can get a free course on "Happy Wife, Happy Life"-- discover the truths and the lies behind the sentiment, and learn a little more about leadership in the home! https://ouroutpost.kit.com/happywifehappylifeand please rate, review, and share!

  9. 273

    Three Kinds of Dating for Catholic Missionary Disciples // Episode 273

    Lest you skip this episode because you think it's only for the singles out there, know that at least 1/3 of this episode will apply to everybody! Listen in to find out more! As always, support our work by going here!join the monthly marriage membership here!join our email newsletter list here!catch our other podcast, Love Your Marriage, by clicking here: https://ouroutpost.org/podcasts/see what we have upcoming in terms of events here: https://ouroutpost.org/events/send us an email at [email protected] you're a Catholic husband, you can get a free course on "Happy Wife, Happy Life"-- discover the truths and the lies behind the sentiment, and learn a little more about leadership in the home! https://ouroutpost.kit.com/happywifehappylifeand please rate, review, and share!

  10. 272

    Intercessory Prayer and Social Media // Episode 272

    Intercessory prayer=good.  Our behavior online=not always so good. What is intercessory prayer, and why should it have more of a place online? As always, support our work by going here!join the monthly marriage membership here!join our email newsletter list here!catch our other podcast, Love Your Marriage, by clicking here: https://ouroutpost.org/podcasts/see what we have upcoming in terms of events here: https://ouroutpost.org/events/send us an email at [email protected] you're a Catholic husband, you can get a free course on "Happy Wife, Happy Life"-- discover the truths and the lies behind the sentiment, and learn a little more about leadership in the home! https://ouroutpost.kit.com/happywifehappylifeand please rate, review, and share!

  11. 271

    "The Man Who was Thursday" and Mission // Episode 271

    I recently re-read G.K. Chesterton's The Man Who Was Thursday, and recently had my heart blown wide open again. So I thought I'd share some lessons from this madcap novel about mission!Listen in to find out more! As always, support our work by going here!join the monthly marriage membership here!join our email newsletter list here!catch our other podcast, Love Your Marriage, by clicking here: https://ouroutpost.org/podcasts/see what we have upcoming in terms of events here: https://ouroutpost.org/events/send us an email at [email protected] you're a Catholic husband, you can get a free course on "Happy Wife, Happy Life"-- discover the truths and the lies behind the sentiment, and learn a little more about leadership in the home! https://ouroutpost.kit.com/happywifehappylifeand please rate, review, and share!

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    Three Things to Give Up or Pursue for Lent // Episode 270

    Almost all of us could safely fast from some element of social media/online consumption. But which element? And with what might we replace it?Listen in to find out more! As always, support our work by going here!join the monthly marriage membership here!join our email newsletter list here!catch our other podcast, Love Your Marriage, by clicking here: https://ouroutpost.org/podcasts/see what we have upcoming in terms of events here: https://ouroutpost.org/events/send us an email at [email protected] you're a Catholic husband, you can get a free course on "Happy Wife, Happy Life"-- discover the truths and the lies behind the sentiment, and learn a little more about leadership in the home! https://ouroutpost.kit.com/happywifehappylifeand please rate, review, and share!

  13. 269

    Some Reflections on Genesis 1 // Episode 269

    Genesis 1 often gets a bad reputation in Christian or atheist circles-- "Are you a science-denier or a God-denier" sort of rhetoric is often associated with it. Here are just some reflections about the beauty of Genesis 1 and things that I keep coming back to. I hope you enjoy it! As always, support our work by going here!join the monthly marriage membership here!join our email newsletter list here!catch our other podcast, Love Your Marriage, by clicking here: https://ouroutpost.org/podcasts/see what we have upcoming in terms of events here: https://ouroutpost.org/events/send us an email at [email protected] you're a Catholic husband, you can get a free course on "Happy Wife, Happy Life"-- discover the truths and the lies behind the sentiment, and learn a little more about leadership in the home! https://ouroutpost.kit.com/happywifehappylifeand please rate, review, and share!

  14. 268

    How Do We Think of Jesus // Episode 268

    How we view Jesus changes how we talk to Him and talk about Him. So it's worth taking a minute and considering-- how do we think of Him?   As always, support our work by going here!join the monthly marriage membership here!join our email newsletter list here!catch our other podcast, Love Your Marriage, by clicking here: https://ouroutpost.org/podcasts/see what we have upcoming in terms of events here: https://ouroutpost.org/events/send us an email at [email protected] you're a Catholic husband, you can get a free course on "Happy Wife, Happy Life"-- discover the truths and the lies behind the sentiment, and learn a little more about leadership in the home! https://ouroutpost.kit.com/happywifehappylifeand please rate, review, and share!

  15. 267

    Do We Want To Be Holy? // Episode 267

    If we don't want to be holy, and maybe are struggling to even want to want to be holy, here's something to do that will lift our sinking spirits and help us re-enter the fray!Listen in to find out more! As always, support our work by going here!join the monthly marriage membership here!join our email newsletter list here!catch our other podcast, Love Your Marriage, by clicking here: https://ouroutpost.org/podcasts/see what we have upcoming in terms of events here: https://ouroutpost.org/events/send us an email at [email protected] you're a Catholic husband, you can get a free course on "Happy Wife, Happy Life"-- discover the truths and the lies behind the sentiment, and learn a little more about leadership in the home! https://ouroutpost.kit.com/happywifehappylifeand please rate, review, and share!

  16. 266

    Getting Out of the Comparison Trap // Episode 266

    Social media feeds comparison...and it doesn't have to.We're offering a free workshop, "Escaping the Comparison Trap," on Sunday, January 25th, 2026 for Catholic married couples-- come check it out here: https://ouroutpost.kit.com/comparison As always, support our work by going here!join the monthly marriage membership here!join our email newsletter list here!catch our other podcast, Love Your Marriage, by clicking here: https://ouroutpost.org/podcasts/see what we have upcoming in terms of events here: https://ouroutpost.org/events/send us an email at [email protected] you're a Catholic husband, you can get a free course on "Happy Wife, Happy Life"-- discover the truths and the lies behind the sentiment, and learn a little more about leadership in the home! https://ouroutpost.kit.com/happywifehappylifeand please rate, review, and share!

  17. 265

    Debatey Faith or Deep Faith // Episode 265

    It's tempting (for me at least) to approach the Catholic faith in a debatey mindset, where I'm looking to be right and to find back-up for my points. But the reality of the faith is that it just is never done changing us.Prompted in part by watching this debate on Capturing Christianity between Joe Heschmeyer and Jacob Hansen: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_nWfaX_iJ6I As always, support our work by going here!join the monthly marriage membership here!join our email newsletter list here!catch our other podcast, Love Your Marriage, by clicking here: https://ouroutpost.org/podcasts/see what we have upcoming in terms of events here: https://ouroutpost.org/events/send us an email at [email protected] you're a Catholic husband, you can get a free course on "Happy Wife, Happy Life"-- discover the truths and the lies behind the sentiment, and learn a little more about leadership in the home! https://ouroutpost.kit.com/happywifehappylifeand please rate, review, and share!

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    3 Take-aways from Die Hard for Catholics Today // Episode 264

    Is Die Hard a Christmas movie? Hard to say?Are there lessons I took from it when I watched it during this Christmas season? Absolutely. And herein are three of those lessons!  As always, support our work by going here!join the monthly marriage membership here!join our email newsletter list here!catch our other podcast, Love Your Marriage, by clicking here: https://ouroutpost.org/podcasts/see what we have upcoming in terms of events here: https://ouroutpost.org/events/send us an email at [email protected] you're a Catholic husband, you can get a free course on "Happy Wife, Happy Life"-- discover the truths and the lies behind the sentiment, and learn a little more about leadership in the home! https://ouroutpost.kit.com/happywifehappylifeand please rate, review, and share!

  19. 263

    Life on Mission with Andrew Farnsworth // Episode 263

    We have the delight of hosting Andrew Farnsworth, a husband and father who began his marriage as he began his time with FOCUS over ten years ago! Andrew works as the Director of Catholic Partnerships at Alliance Catholic Credit Union, and spent time both as a NET missionary and as a FOCUS missionary, serving at Wright State University, Central Michigan University, and Franciscan University in Steubenville. You can find out more about Alliance Catholic Credit Union here: https://allianceccu.com/ As always, support our work by going here!join the monthly marriage membership here!join our email newsletter list here!catch our other podcast, Love Your Marriage, by clicking here: https://ouroutpost.org/podcasts/see what we have upcoming in terms of events here: https://ouroutpost.org/events/send us an email at [email protected] you're a Catholic husband, you can get a free course on "Happy Wife, Happy Life"-- discover the truths and the lies behind the sentiment, and learn a little more about leadership in the home! https://ouroutpost.kit.com/happywifehappylifeand please rate, review, and share!

  20. 262

    Have Yourself a Merry Big Christmas! // Episode 262

    If there's one thing modern man has forgotten, it's how to celebrate. We've probably forgotten more than that one thing, but it's a good place to start again ! As always, support our work by going here!join the monthly marriage membership here!join our email newsletter list here!catch our other podcast, Love Your Marriage, by clicking here: https://ouroutpost.org/podcasts/see what we have upcoming in terms of events here: https://ouroutpost.org/events/send us an email at [email protected] you're a Catholic husband, you can get a free course on "Happy Wife, Happy Life"-- discover the truths and the lies behind the sentiment, and learn a little more about leadership in the home! https://ouroutpost.kit.com/happywifehappylifeand please rate, review, and share!

  21. 261

    Practical Tips for Confession with Fr. Peter Gruber // Episode 261

    it's a weird fact that, for laypeople, odds are good the only confessions they'll ever hear are their own. Priests get to hear quite a few more. So Joseph has his brother, Fr. Peter, on to talk through some practical tips for making a good confession, from a priest's perspective.Listen in to find out more! As always, support our work by going here!join the monthly marriage membership here!join our email newsletter list here!catch our other podcast, Love Your Marriage, by clicking here: https://ouroutpost.org/podcasts/see what we have upcoming in terms of events here: https://ouroutpost.org/events/send us an email at [email protected] you're a Catholic husband, you can get a free course on "Happy Wife, Happy Life"-- discover the truths and the lies behind the sentiment, and learn a little more about leadership in the home! https://ouroutpost.kit.com/happywifehappylifeand please rate, review, and share!

  22. 260

    Things to Know When Seeking Spiritual Direction with Fr. Peter Gruber // Episode 260

    Fr. Peter Gruber, CO, joins Joseph for an exploration of some core concepts that Fr. Peter has found time and again to be helpful for people seeking spiritual direction.Listen in to find out more! As always, support our work by going here!join the monthly marriage membership here!join our email newsletter list here!catch our other podcast, Love Your Marriage, by clicking here: https://ouroutpost.org/podcasts/see what we have upcoming in terms of events here: https://ouroutpost.org/events/send us an email at [email protected] you're a Catholic husband, you can get a free course on "Happy Wife, Happy Life"-- discover the truths and the lies behind the sentiment, and learn a little more about leadership in the home! https://ouroutpost.kit.com/happywifehappylifeand please rate, review, and share!

  23. 259

    Does Streaming Serve Us? // Episode 259

    We have some amount of choice over what streams in front of us. Are we happy with the streams we decide to plant ourselves by?Listen in to find out more! As always, support our work by going here!join the monthly marriage membership here!join our email newsletter list here!catch our other podcast, Love Your Marriage, by clicking here: https://ouroutpost.org/podcasts/see what we have upcoming in terms of events here: https://ouroutpost.org/events/send us an email at [email protected] you're a Catholic husband, you can get a free course on "Happy Wife, Happy Life"-- discover the truths and the lies behind the sentiment, and learn a little more about leadership in the home! https://ouroutpost.kit.com/happywifehappylifeand please rate, review, and share!

  24. 258

    Right and Just to Give Thanks and Praise // Episode 258

    In light the national call to give thanks this week, it's good to remember that thanksgiving is a command, and for good reason!Listen in to find out more! As always, support our work by going here!join the monthly marriage membership here!join our email newsletter list here!catch our other podcast, Love Your Marriage, by clicking here: https://ouroutpost.org/podcasts/see what we have upcoming in terms of events here: https://ouroutpost.org/events/send us an email at [email protected] you're a Catholic husband, you can get a free course on "Happy Wife, Happy Life"-- discover the truths and the lies behind the sentiment, and learn a little more about leadership in the home! https://ouroutpost.kit.com/happywifehappylifeand please rate, review, and share!

  25. 257

    Four Keys to Deeper Living // Episode 257

    If someone offered a longer life or a deeper life, which would you choose? Unfortunately, we often choose a less-deep life without even the benefit of getting a longer life out of it...Listen in to find out more! As always, support our work by going here!join the monthly marriage membership here!join our email newsletter list here!catch our other podcast, Love Your Marriage, by clicking here: https://ouroutpost.org/podcasts/see what we have upcoming in terms of events here: https://ouroutpost.org/events/send us an email at [email protected] you're a Catholic husband, you can get a free course on "Happy Wife, Happy Life"-- discover the truths and the lies behind the sentiment, and learn a little more about leadership in the home! https://ouroutpost.kit.com/happywifehappylifeand please rate, review, and share!

  26. 256

    A Curiously Modern Vice // Episode 256

    We live in an upside-down kind of world, with technology in our pockets that would amaze and astound any other generation, and we use it to feed the vice of curiositas...Listen in to find out more! As always, support our work by going here!join the monthly marriage membership here!join our email newsletter list here!catch our other podcast, Love Your Marriage, by clicking here: https://ouroutpost.org/podcasts/see what we have upcoming in terms of events here: https://ouroutpost.org/events/send us an email at [email protected] you're a Catholic husband, you can get a free course on "Happy Wife, Happy Life"-- discover the truths and the lies behind the sentiment, and learn a little more about leadership in the home! https://ouroutpost.kit.com/happywifehappylifeand please rate, review, and share!

  27. 255

    Made for Truth and Beauty and Goodness and Being // Episode 255

    Most of us, when we think of the natural law, we're not thinking of how we're made to participate in transcendental realities...and yet, that's exactly what the natural law is about! Listen in to find out more! As always, support our work by going here!join the monthly marriage membership here!join our email newsletter list here!catch our other podcast, Love Your Marriage, by clicking here: https://ouroutpost.org/podcasts/see what we have upcoming in terms of events here: https://ouroutpost.org/events/send us an email at [email protected] you're a Catholic husband, you can get a free course on "Happy Wife, Happy Life"-- discover the truths and the lies behind the sentiment, and learn a little more about leadership in the home! https://ouroutpost.kit.com/happywifehappylifeand please rate, review, and share!

  28. 254

    Life on Mission with Leanne Bowen // Episode 254

    Delighted to interview Catholic artist and former FOCUS missionary, Leanne Bowen!Check out her work at leannebowen.com! As always, support our work by going here!join the monthly marriage membership here!join our email newsletter list here!catch our other podcast, Love Your Marriage, by clicking here: https://ouroutpost.org/podcasts/see what we have upcoming in terms of events here: https://ouroutpost.org/events/send us an email at [email protected] you're a Catholic husband, you can get a free course on "Happy Wife, Happy Life"-- discover the truths and the lies behind the sentiment, and learn a little more about leadership in the home! https://ouroutpost.kit.com/happywifehappylifeand please rate, review, and share!

  29. 253

    Maybe People Just Don't Know That We're Called to Be Saints... // Episode 253

    Maybe just maybe, a lot of the Christian life makes more sense if we know that we're called to be saints...and if we know what saints are, too.  As always, support our work by going here!join the monthly marriage membership here!join our email newsletter list here!catch our other podcast, Love Your Marriage, by clicking here: https://ouroutpost.org/podcasts/see what we have upcoming in terms of events here: https://ouroutpost.org/events/send us an email at [email protected] you're a Catholic husband, you can get a free course on "Happy Wife, Happy Life"-- discover the truths and the lies behind the sentiment, and learn a little more about leadership in the home! https://ouroutpost.kit.com/happywifehappylifeand please rate, review, and share!

  30. 252

    Pray, Pay, and Obey // Episode 252

    Maybe you've heard the line before: Pray, pay, and obey. Maybe the person saying it actually meant: Sit down and shut up. But what if it meant exactly what it said? What if those were three excellent admonitions for our life as Catholic Christians?Listen in to find out more! As always, support our work by going here!join the monthly marriage membership here!join our email newsletter list here!catch our other podcast, Love Your Marriage, by clicking here: https://ouroutpost.org/podcasts/see what we have upcoming in terms of events here: https://ouroutpost.org/events/send us an email at [email protected] you're a Catholic husband, you can get a free course on "Happy Wife, Happy Life"-- discover the truths and the lies behind the sentiment, and learn a little more about leadership in the home! https://ouroutpost.kit.com/happywifehappylifeand please rate, review, and share!

  31. 251

    Hatefulness and Phobias // Episode 251

    The proliferation of 'hate-speech' and the slinging of phobic-motivations seems to just continue to rise, and I think there are interesting reasons for that.Listen in to find out more! As always, support our work by going here!join the monthly marriage membership here!join our email newsletter list here!catch our other podcast, Love Your Marriage, by clicking here: https://ouroutpost.org/podcasts/see what we have upcoming in terms of events here: https://ouroutpost.org/events/send us an email at [email protected] you're a Catholic husband, you can get a free course on "Happy Wife, Happy Life"-- discover the truths and the lies behind the sentiment, and learn a little more about leadership in the home! https://ouroutpost.kit.com/happywifehappylifeand please rate, review, and share!

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    Some Reasons for Suffering // Episode 250

    Joseph Ratzinger, in a 2000 instruction from the Congregation for the Doctrine of the Faith, wrote on some of the reasons we suffer. Joseph goes over them, and adds a couple for good measure!https://www.vatican.va/roman_curia/congregations/cfaith/documents/rc_con_cfaith_doc_20001123_istruzione_en.htmlAs noted in the episode, knowing that there are reasons for suffering may not lessen the suffering, but it may help with understanding the meaning of the suffering.Listen in to find out more! As always, support our work by going here!join the monthly marriage membership here!join our email newsletter list here!catch our other podcast, Love Your Marriage, by clicking here: https://ouroutpost.org/podcasts/see what we have upcoming in terms of events here: https://ouroutpost.org/events/send us an email at [email protected] you're a Catholic husband, you can get a free course on "Happy Wife, Happy Life"-- discover the truths and the lies behind the sentiment, and learn a little more about leadership in the home! https://ouroutpost.kit.com/happywifehappylifeand please rate, review, and share!

  33. 249

    Meaning and Purpose // Episode 249

    If we don't know the difference between meaning and purpose, we're liable to follow the world down a weird rabbit-hole of endless purposes with no meaning to ground them.Listen in to find out more! As always, support our work by going here!join the monthly marriage membership here!join our email newsletter list here!catch our other podcast, Love Your Marriage, by clicking here: https://ouroutpost.org/podcasts/see what we have upcoming in terms of events here: https://ouroutpost.org/events/send us an email at [email protected] you're a Catholic husband, you can get a free course on "Happy Wife, Happy Life"-- discover the truths and the lies behind the sentiment, and learn a little more about leadership in the home! https://ouroutpost.kit.com/happywifehappylifeand please rate, review, and share!

  34. 248

    Organize Your Life, Become Like God? // Episode 248

    What if we took divinization seriously? What if our work, our thoughts, our feelings, were all meant to be divinized through and through? Andy Hickman, of Hēl, believes exactly that. Check out his electrifying essay here!Check out opportunities to sample some of the work of hēl during the week of September 29th, 2025, here:https://hel.co/workshops/hel-week-experience-organization/ And check out the upcoming workshop series that Joseph will be hosting for Catholic husbands here! As always, support our work by going here!join the monthly marriage membership here!join our email newsletter list here!catch our other podcast, Love Your Marriage, by clicking here: https://ouroutpost.org/podcasts/see what we have upcoming in terms of events here: https://ouroutpost.org/events/send us an email at [email protected] you're a Catholic husband, you can get a free course on "Happy Wife, Happy Life"-- discover the truths and the lies behind the sentiment, and learn a little more about leadership in the home! https://ouroutpost.kit.com/happywifehappylifeand please rate, review, and share!

  35. 247

    Focus on the 2050s, not the 1950s // Episode 247

    A lot of people still talk about wanting things to be like the 1950s. Biggest problem with that? The 1950s not only weren't perfect, they were the set-up for the 1960s and everything that followed.So why not focus on the 2050s, and doing what we can to build something great on whatever is good right now? As always, support our work by going here!join the monthly marriage membership here!join our email newsletter list here!catch our other podcast, Love Your Marriage, by clicking here: https://ouroutpost.org/podcasts/see what we have upcoming in terms of events here: https://ouroutpost.org/events/send us an email at [email protected] you're a Catholic husband, you can get a free course on "Happy Wife, Happy Life"-- discover the truths and the lies behind the sentiment, and learn a little more about leadership in the home! https://ouroutpost.kit.com/happywifehappylifeand please rate, review, and share!

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    Building a Tower // Episode 246

    Through a bit of serendipity, Joseph recorded an episode about this coming Sunday's gospel, without realizing it until afterward!The reading can be found here: https://bible.usccb.org/bible/readings/090725.cfmCatholic husbands, check out a five-part series designed for you! https://youroutpost.stellarwebsystems.com/join?euuid=a0e6e22a-7d33-11f0-b441-16ffeab70ea9 As always, support our work by going here!join the monthly marriage membership here!join our email newsletter list here!catch our other podcast, Love Your Marriage, by clicking here: https://ouroutpost.org/podcasts/see what we have upcoming in terms of events here: https://ouroutpost.org/events/send us an email at [email protected] you're a Catholic husband, you can get a free course on "Happy Wife, Happy Life"-- discover the truths and the lies behind the sentiment, and learn a little more about leadership in the home! https://ouroutpost.kit.com/happywifehappylifeand please rate, review, and share!

  37. 245

    Studying Scripture and Wrestling with God and Man // Episode 245

    There's a very cliched understanding of wanting to study the Bible the way that Jacob wrestled with God...which I wrestle with a little bit in this episode... As always, support our work by going here!join the monthly marriage membership here!join our email newsletter list here!catch our other podcast, Love Your Marriage, by clicking here: https://ouroutpost.org/podcasts/see what we have upcoming in terms of events here: https://ouroutpost.org/events/send us an email at [email protected] you're a Catholic husband, you can get a free course on "Happy Wife, Happy Life"-- discover the truths and the lies behind the sentiment, and learn a little more about leadership in the home! https://ouroutpost.kit.com/happywifehappylifeand please rate, review, and share!

  38. 244

    Basic Human Formation for the Apostolate // Episode 244

    Apostolicam Actuositatem says we ought to have a certain human and well-rounded formation before being trained for the apostolate...and yet so often spiritual, intellectual, and practical formation for the apostolate is offered to people with no regard to their human formation.Listen in to find out more! As always, support our work by going here!join the monthly marriage membership here!join our email newsletter list here!catch our other podcast, Love Your Marriage, by clicking here: https://ouroutpost.org/podcasts/see what we have upcoming in terms of events here: https://ouroutpost.org/events/send us an email at [email protected] you're a Catholic husband, you can get a free course on "Happy Wife, Happy Life"-- discover the truths and the lies behind the sentiment, and learn a little more about leadership in the home! https://ouroutpost.kit.com/happywifehappylifeand please rate, review, and share!

  39. 243

    Life on Mission with Benjamin Stenlund // Episode 243

    I interview Benjamin Stenlund, former FOCUS missionary, current husband/father/craftsman, both about his time as a full-time missionary and what he's been up to since! Find his work at https://www.benjaminstenlund.com/ As always, support our work by going here!join the monthly marriage membership here!join our email newsletter list here!catch our other podcast, Love Your Marriage, by clicking here: https://ouroutpost.org/podcasts/see what we have upcoming in terms of events here: https://ouroutpost.org/events/send us an email at [email protected] you're a Catholic husband, you can get a free course on "Happy Wife, Happy Life"-- discover the truths and the lies behind the sentiment, and learn a little more about leadership in the home! https://ouroutpost.kit.com/happywifehappylifeand please rate, review, and share!

  40. 242

    Playfulness in the Christian Life // Episode 242

    One of the coolest lines from Proverbs describes what Wisdom has been doing from the beginning: "[T]hen I was beside him, like a master worker, and I was daily his delight, playing before him always, playing in his inhabited world and delighting in the human race" (Proverbs 8:30-31). Wisdom's playfulness and delight model for us a holy call to play in this world, even amongst its seriousness.Listen in to find out more! As always, support our work by going here!join the monthly marriage membership here!join our email newsletter list here!catch our other podcast, Love Your Marriage, by clicking here: https://ouroutpost.org/podcasts/see what we have upcoming in terms of events here: https://ouroutpost.org/events/send us an email at [email protected] you're a Catholic husband, you can get a free course on "Happy Wife, Happy Life"-- discover the truths and the lies behind the sentiment, and learn a little more about leadership in the home! https://ouroutpost.kit.com/happywifehappylifeand please rate, review, and share!

  41. 241

    Marriage on Mission with Mike and Alicia Hernon // Episode 241

    Wherein Joseph and Crystal host Mike and Alicia Hernon from the Messy Family Project. As always, support our work by going here!join the monthly marriage membership here!join our email newsletter list here!catch our other podcast, Love Your Marriage, by clicking here: https://ouroutpost.org/podcasts/see what we have upcoming in terms of events here: https://ouroutpost.org/events/send us an email at [email protected] you're a Catholic husband, you can get a free course on "Happy Wife, Happy Life"-- discover the truths and the lies behind the sentiment, and learn a little more about leadership in the home! https://ouroutpost.kit.com/happywifehappylifeand please rate, review, and share!

  42. 240

    For Freedom Christ Has Set Us Free // Episode 240

    Saint Paul's letter to the Galatians is a wild ride, and in between discussions about circumcision, kosher laws, and St. Peter making a fool of himself, is a section on what it is to be free. Listen in to find out more! As always, support our work by going here!join the monthly marriage membership here!join our email newsletter list here!catch our other podcast, Love Your Marriage, by clicking here: https://ouroutpost.org/podcasts/see what we have upcoming in terms of events here: https://ouroutpost.org/events/send us an email at [email protected] you're a Catholic husband, you can get a free course on "Happy Wife, Happy Life"-- discover the truths and the lies behind the sentiment, and learn a little more about leadership in the home! https://ouroutpost.kit.com/happywifehappylifeand please rate, review, and share!

  43. 239

    Dating Like a Catholic // Episode 239

    This is a talk we gave at Wright State University in Dayton in the spring of 2024-- it's a brief overview of some basic principles for Catholic singles on how to date like a Catholic. For those who miss Crystal on the podcast, this is a delightful taste of the back-and-forth that is our life!If you go back to the mid-60s of our podcast, you'll find an 8-part series that'll go more in-depth on the topic.We'll be delivering a three-part series on relationship formation in August at St. Thomas in Ann Arbor-- if you're Catholic and single/dating and able to make it, check it out! https://sta2.org/church/news/relationship-formation-for-catholics/And if you want even more on the topic, we occasionally offer 1-day, 3-day, or 3-month formation opportunities for Catholic singles, especially in the southern-Michigan and other areas within easy travel! Send us an email at [email protected] if you're interested in such opportunities! As always, support our work by going here!join the monthly marriage membership here!join our email newsletter list here!catch our other podcast, Love Your Marriage, by clicking here: https://ouroutpost.org/podcasts/see what we have upcoming in terms of events here: https://ouroutpost.org/events/send us an email at [email protected] you're a Catholic husband, you can get a free course on "Happy Wife, Happy Life"-- discover the truths and the lies behind the sentiment, and learn a little more about leadership in the home! https://ouroutpost.kit.com/happywifehappylifeand please rate, review, and share!

  44. 238

    Invitations and Holy Detachment // Episode 238

    There's an epidemic of loneliness out there, a crisis of friendlessness, a dearth of relationships...and there doesn't have to be. The solution to so many problems begins with making an invitation, and letting people make a free response to it. That requires both the invitation, and a holy detachment from the result.Listen in to find out more! As always, support our work by going here!join the monthly marriage membership here!join our email newsletter list here!catch our other podcast, Love Your Marriage, by clicking here: https://ouroutpost.org/podcasts/see what we have upcoming in terms of events here: https://ouroutpost.org/events/send us an email at [email protected] you're a Catholic husband, you can get a free course on "Happy Wife, Happy Life"-- discover the truths and the lies behind the sentiment, and learn a little more about leadership in the home! https://ouroutpost.kit.com/happywifehappylifeand please rate, review, and share!

  45. 237

    Life on Mission with Sam Mazzarelli // Episode 237

    Sam Mazzarelli gave fifteen years as a Catholic missionary with FOCUS-- hear how one invitation changed everything for him, how money and success aren't everything, and what makes for incredible and lasting friendships. He now works for SENT Ventures as the Chief Community Success Officer: https://www.sentventures.com/ We recommend checking them out and coming to the upcoming summit!Not going to lie, Joseph was tearing up a little at one point in the interview, and when Joseph told Crystal the story, she started tearing up too.   As always, support our work by going here!join the monthly marriage membership here!join our email newsletter list here!catch our other podcast, Love Your Marriage, by clicking here: https://ouroutpost.org/podcasts/see what we have upcoming in terms of events here: https://ouroutpost.org/events/send us an email at [email protected] you're a Catholic husband, you can get a free course on "Happy Wife, Happy Life"-- discover the truths and the lies behind the sentiment, and learn a little more about leadership in the home! https://ouroutpost.kit.com/happywifehappylifeand please rate, review, and share!

  46. 236

    Life on Mission with Mallory Smyth // Episode 236

    Mallory Smyth, author of Rekindled, joins us again for a dive into her story and lessons learned while on mission! You can find Mallory's work here: her podcast, "The Gospel &": https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-gospel-with-mallory-smyth/id1800051958her substack: https://malloryasmyth.substack.comher instagram handle is: @malloryasmyth people can email her at: [email protected] As always, support our work by going here!join the monthly marriage membership here!join our email newsletter list here!catch our other podcast, Love Your Marriage, by clicking here: https://ouroutpost.org/podcasts/see what we have upcoming in terms of events here: https://ouroutpost.org/events/send us an email at [email protected] you're a Catholic husband, you can get a free course on "Happy Wife, Happy Life"-- discover the truths and the lies behind the sentiment, and learn a little more about leadership in the home! https://ouroutpost.kit.com/happywifehappylifeand please rate, review, and share!

  47. 235

    Renew and Perfect the Temporal Order // Episode 235

    A solution to clericalism is to dive deeper into what the role of the laity is-- this episode, we look at the second objective of the lay apostolate according to Vatican II's document, Apostolicam Actuositatem. We strongly recommend people (no matter their state in life) give this document a read; we also suggest you give this episode a listen, a share, and a review!Listen in to find out more! As always, support our work by going here!join the monthly marriage membership here!join our email newsletter list here!catch our other podcast, Love Your Marriage, by clicking here: https://ouroutpost.org/podcasts/see what we have upcoming in terms of events here: https://ouroutpost.org/events/send us an email at [email protected] you're a Catholic husband, you can get a free course on "Happy Wife, Happy Life"-- discover the truths and the lies behind the sentiment, and learn a little more about leadership in the home! https://ouroutpost.kit.com/happywifehappylifeand please rate, review, and share!

  48. 234

    My Reaction to the Jubilee Episodes with Michael Knowles and Jordan Peterson // Episode 234

    I don't usually do reaction videos, but when I saw the same basic thing happen in two debates, I thought it at least worth calling out, especially because of how egregious it was, and how little people took note of it. The Jordan Peterson episode in full can be found here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Pwk5MPE_6zE&t=1983sAnd the relevant clip from it can be found here: https://www.youtube.com/clip/Ugkx9fSjo72wmxYWxpUh5WZgS4fkaRrhNgzoThe Michael Knowles Episode in full can be found here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yBoFwaTWm70&t=2462sAnd the relevant piece begins here: https://youtu.be/yBoFwaTWm70?si=xM7uU8VWIHm1otL2&t=2647The two-part Star Trek: TNG episode was Chain of Command.  As always, support our work by going here!join the monthly marriage membership here!join our email newsletter list here!catch our other podcast, Love Your Marriage, by clicking here: https://ouroutpost.org/podcasts/see what we have upcoming in terms of events here: https://ouroutpost.org/events/send us an email at [email protected] you're a Catholic husband, you can get a free course on "Happy Wife, Happy Life"-- discover the truths and the lies behind the sentiment, and learn a little more about leadership in the home! https://ouroutpost.kit.com/happywifehappylifeand please rate, review, and share!

  49. 233

    The Difference the Mass Makes // episode 233

    Something intensely meaningful happens at Mass; the summit of all meaning, in fact, happens at Mass. But many of us may miss the implications, so here's a little episode looking at some of them! As always, support our work by going here!join the monthly marriage membership here!join our email newsletter list here!catch our other podcast, Love Your Marriage, by clicking here: https://ouroutpost.org/podcasts/see what we have upcoming in terms of events here: https://ouroutpost.org/events/send us an email at [email protected] you're a Catholic husband, you can get a free course on "Happy Wife, Happy Life"-- discover the truths and the lies behind the sentiment, and learn a little more about leadership in the home! https://ouroutpost.kit.com/happywifehappylifeand please rate, review, and share!

  50. 232

    Life on Mission with AJ Garcia // Episode 232

    AJ Garcia, parish regional director of FOCUS, joins us to talk about his decision to join FOCUS, to leave FOCUS, and to rejoin FOCUS! As always, support our work by going here!join the monthly marriage membership here!join our email newsletter list here!catch our other podcast, Love Your Marriage, by clicking here: https://ouroutpost.org/podcasts/see what we have upcoming in terms of events here: https://ouroutpost.org/events/send us an email at [email protected] you're a Catholic husband, you can get a free course on "Happy Wife, Happy Life"-- discover the truths and the lies behind the sentiment, and learn a little more about leadership in the home! https://ouroutpost.kit.com/happywifehappylifeand please rate, review, and share!

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ABOUT THIS SHOW

A podcast for Catholic disciples who are wrestling to be missionary-minded in their normal, everyday lives.Joseph and Crystal were Catholic missionaries for over a decade with FOCUS, the Fellowship of Catholic University Students, serving at MIT, UW Madison, Carnegie Mellon University, Western Washington University, and then at a parish in Jackson, Michigan. They're now the co-founders of Our Outpost Marriage Ministry, Inc., a marriage ministry seeking to awaken authentic Catholic culture through holy matrimony, equipping Catholic men and women through formation and accompaniment. Check out their work at https://ouroutpost.org/ This podcast serves as a place for sharing the transformational ideas, books, scripture passages, and people that we've seen impacting our apostolate for the better, in the hopes of serving other Catholic missionary disciples.

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Joseph and Crystal Gruber

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