After Reality with Courtney Robertson
by Courtney Robertson
Courtney Robertson is the most notorious villain in Bachelor History. She won Season 16 of The Bachelor and went on to write the New York Times Bestseller "I Didn't Come Here to Make Friends: Confessions of a Reality TV Show Villain" Now Courtney weighs in on current episodes of the Bachelor Franchise, pop culture news, and every week she talks to other reality stars about how being on reality TV changed their lives for better or for worse.
Episodes
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The Art of Quitting: Knowing When to Walk Away with Papa Robertson
This week on After Reality, I'm joined by Papa Robertson for an honest conversation about the art of knowing when to walk away. We're taught that quitting means failure, but what if it's actually a sign of strength, growth, and self-respect? From leaving unfulfilling jobs and toxic relationships…
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Would I Ever Be The Bachelorette? Feeling Alive with Papa Robertson
Papa Robertson is back, and this week we're talking about something that's been on my mind lately: What makes you feel alive? From big adventures and having things to look forward to, to the little everyday moments that bring us joy, we're diving into what it really means to feel alive. I also...
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New Beginnings, Fall Reset & Life Lessons with Papa Robertson🍂
Fall feels like a fresh start this year. After a difficult summer, I’m settling into a new home and figuring out what this next chapter looks like. So I invited Papa Robertson back to talk about starting over and finding your footing when life doesn’t go the way you planned. We talk about what my...
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Keep Your Privates Private: Rebuilding After Divorce
I’m back with a candid life update after a few very chaotic weeks. Between moving into a new home, getting my kids settled, dealing with sickness running through the house, and navigating an increasingly difficult divorce, it’s been a lot. I share where things stand with my living situation, the...
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Courtney Robertson: Divorce, Digital Proof, and Trista Sutter
I join Game of Roses hosts Chad Kultgen and Lizzy Pace for a raw and revealing conversation about my divorce, the alleged infidelity I uncovered, and rebuilding my life while raising three young children. I also take Chad and Lizzy inside the Bachelor Nation podcast event that led to my tense...
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The Accidental Message That Revealed His True Colors 🍋
In this solo episode, I’m sharing a raw and very real update on my ongoing divorce following my ex’s infidelity. I open up about the emotional and legal nightmare of separating from someone who still wants control, the manipulation and narcissistic behavior I’ve experienced, and what it’s been…
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The Double Life with Alanna Noel | I Didn’t Come Here to Get a Divorce, Part Three
In Part Three of I Didn’t Come Here to Get a Divorce, I’m joined by my friend and former Bachelor producer Alanna Noel as I continue sharing the painful truth behind the end of my marriage. We talk about betrayal, grief, anger, and the clarity that comes with discovering a double life—as I learn…
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I Didn’t Come Here to Get a Divorce: The Double Life, Part Two ✌️
In part two of I Didn’t Come Here to Get a Divorce, I sit down with my friend Stefanie Parker, podcast host of She’s All Bach (@shesallbach), to continue unpacking the painful reality of filing for divorce after discovering my husband had been living a double life. This episode is raw, emotional,...
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I Didn’t Come Here to Get a Divorce
In this episode of After Reality, I’m opening up about a deeply personal chapter: my decision to file for divorce after eight years. Joined by my friend Alanna Noel, I share what this season has looked like behind the scenes — the heartbreak, the loss of trust, and the painful process of…
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Joshua Fields Millburn: Netflix’s The Minimalists & Living With Less
In this episode of After Reality, I’m joined by Joshua Fields Millburn, creator of Netflix’s hit documentary The Minimalists: Less Is Now, for a conversation about clutter, consumer culture, and what it really means to live with less. As a mom of three, the clutter can feel endless — toys, baby...
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Kalon McMahon on TMZ, Harvey Levin & Life After the Bachelor Villain Edit — Part Two
In Part Two of my After Reality Flashback with Kalon McMahon, we go even deeper into what life was really like after being labeled one of Bachelor Nation’s most unforgettable villains. Kalon opens up about returning for Men Tell All, why he says he was pulled back into the drama after he had...
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Kalon McMahon Tells All: Show Truths, “Sorry Not Sorry” & the Real Baggage Scene — Part One 🚁
I’m kicking off the brand-new After Reality Flashback series with Kalon McMahon, one of the most unforgettable villains from Emily Maynard’s season of The Bachelorette. He also reveals the truth behind his iconic helicopter entrance — what was real, what was production, and how that over-the-top...
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My Husband Got Served: Plea Deal Predictions in the Clayton Echard Case
In this episode of After Reality, I’m joined by my husband, Humberto Preciado, for a little summer life update and a deeper legal conversation. We talk about the chaos of parenting three young kids during summer break, from camp schedules to trying to make sweet memories while also feeling...
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Mackenzie Shirilla, Perfect Match Finale & Clayton vs. Laura Owens
I’m back with a quick summer update before diving into Netflix’s The Crash and the Mackenzie Shirilla case that has completely taken over my algorithm. After watching multiple documentaries, I went down the TikTok rabbit hole of Shyann Topping — Mackenzie’s ex-girlfriend from prison — and her…
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Nothing Is Off Record: Juliet Harris on Crisis PR, Rachel Leviss & Taylor Frankie Paul
What happens when a celebrity scandal breaks, the internet is on fire, and everyone is waiting for the perfect statement? According to veteran publicist Juliet Harris, nothing is ever really “off record.” This week on After Reality, I’m joined by the founder of IT Girl Productions for a...
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Taylor Frankie Paul Drama, Spencer Pratt Running for LA Mayor & My Family Mystery
In this solo episode of After Reality, I’m coming off a very glamorous Mother’s Day — and by glamorous, I mean I did absolutely nothing. I sat in silence, recharged, binge-watched an intense Peacock crime drama, and then immediately needed to cleanse my nervous system with Farmer Wants a Wife....
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Special Mother’s Day Episode: My 98-Year-Old Grandma Angie’s Wisdom
In this special Mother’s Day episode of After Reality, I’m sharing a heartwarming phone call with my 98-year-old grandmother, Angie. We catch up on life, motherhood, my real estate career, the podcast, and the beautiful chaos of raising three young kids. Grandma Angie gives me a little window…
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Nick Pellecchia Reveals How He Won Million Dollar Secret
I’m joined by Nick Pellecchia, the winner of Netflix’s Million Dollar Secret, for a behind-the-scenes look at how he pulled off the win. Nick opens up about his strategy, how he identified the secret millionaire, and what was going through his mind when he made the bold box swap in the finale…
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Bonus Breaking News: Reality Steve on Taylor Frankie Paul, Dakota Mortensen & Jessi Draper Audio
Was Taylor Frankie Paul’s Bachelorette opportunity collateral damage in the fallout with Dakota Mortensen? In this bonus breaking news episode of After Reality, I’m diving into the latest legal turmoil and personal drama surrounding Taylor Frankie Paul and Dakota Mortensen — from the leaked audio...
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Former Bachelor Producer Talks Bachelor Nation Secrets: “Gabby Never Liked Rachel”
In this episode, I’m catching up with former Bachelor producer Alanna Noel after she went completely radio silent for the last year. She opens up about stepping away, what she was dealing with behind the scenes, and what it’s been like finding her way back. Then we get straight into Bachelor…
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Stefanie Parker’s She’s All Bach Solo Era, Bachelor Tea & Big Dreams
On this episode of After Reality, I sit down with Stefanie Parker, top-charting podcast host of She’s All Bach, for a fun catch-up between two close friends. We talk about her new solo era, what led to her professional split from her longtime co-host, and why this next chapter is rooted in…
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Behind The Bachelor Casting Process: Chris Lancaster’s Untold Story
In this episode of After Reality, I sit down with Chris Lancaster to talk about his experience being in the running to become the next Bachelor. He opens up about the intense casting process—from background checks and psychological evaluations to even being asked by producers to cut his hair to…
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Noah Erb on Winning Bachelor Mansion Takeover, Navigating Grief & What Really Happened Behind the Scenes
On this episode of After Reality, I sit down with Noah Erb, the inaugural winner of Bachelor Mansion Takeover. And I’ll say it—Bachelor Mansion Takeover is officially the best Bachelor spin-off series. We get into what it was really like for him navigating intense DIY design challenges while...
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Chad Kultgen: Coach Clues, Bachelor Strategy & the Future of the Franchise 🥀
On this episode of After Reality, I’m joined by Chad Kultgen, from Game of Roses, to break down my recent experience on Bachelor Mansion Takeover. Chad reveals his behind-the-scenes role as my “secret strategist,” helping me craft specific speeches and moments during filming to capture producer...
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Christopher Stallworth on The Golden Bachelorette & Bachelor Mansion Takeover (Behind the Scenes)
On this episode of After Reality, I sit down with Christopher Stallworth to talk about his unique experience filming not one, but two reality shows alongside Joan Vassos—The Golden Bachelorette and HGTV’s Bachelor Mansion Takeover. We get into his unexpected casting story, what really goes on...
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Mitch the Maker on Building Big, HGTV Life & Bachelor Mansion Takeover
Today on After Reality, I’m sitting down with the incredibly talented builder and TV personality, Mitch Oaks—also known as Mitch the Maker! We recently filmed Bachelor Mansion Takeover together, and let me just say… this man does not mess around when it comes to bringing big ideas to life. From...
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After Reality: My Bachelor Mansion Takeover Exit, Redemption & Final Challenge — What You Didn’t See
In this episode of After Reality, I’m sharing my heart and my journey on Bachelor Mansion Takeover—the highs, the growing pains, and the moment it all came to an end. From navigating creative differences with my team during the fireplace renovation to finding my voice in a high-pressure...
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Former Bachelor Producer Adam Mansfield on the Future of the Franchise & Casting Conversations
On this episode of After Reality, I’m joined by former Bachelor producer Adam Mansfield, who weighs in on the current state of the franchise, the pressure to evolve, and what today’s audiences are really looking for. We also get into the buzz around Taylor Frankie Paul potentially stepping in as...
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Dean Bell on HGTV, Winning the Golden Hammer & Life After Reality TV
On this episode of After Reality, I’m sitting down with fellow Bachelor alum Dean Bell—and we’re diving into what it’s really like going from receiving roses to swinging hammers. We get into our experience filming at the Bachelor Mansion for this new HGTV renovation series, and let’s just say… it...
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Cindy Cullers on The Golden Bachelor, Dating After Reality TV & Cindy for Golden Bachelorette 💫
In this episode of After Reality, I sit down with Cindy Cullers, the standout from The Golden Bachelor, for a candid and heartfelt conversation about her experience on the show—and what life really looks like after reality TV. We dive into her casting story, the friendships she built along the…
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The Bachelorette Cancelled: Taylor Frankie Paul Scandal Explained | ft. Brad Smith
In this episode of After Reality, I’m sharing my initial thoughts on the shocking cancellation of The Bachelorette season starring Taylor Frankie Paul. I break down what we know so far following the release of a disturbing video reported by TMZ, which includes allegations of domestic violence and...
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Mom Card Activated: My Side of Bachelor Mansion Takeover — EP 3: "Off the Deep End"
Today's episode of After Reality: I'm breaking down Episode 3 of Bachelor Mansion Takeover — dishing on my design ideas being dismissed, the "mean girl" behavior I faced, and those guilt‑tripping "mom card" jabs.
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My Return to Reality TV: Inside Bachelor Mansion Takeover
I return to TV on HGTV’s Bachelor Mansion Takeover with a behind-the-scenes look at the renovation competition where 12 Bachelor alums compete for $100,000. I play a clip revealing who voted for me, reflect on early vulnerability in the game, and ask: am I an easy target because I have kids? Are...
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Bachelor Mansion Takeover Preview: Behind-the-Scenes Prep, Traitors Finale Spoilers + Clayton Echard’s Love Trapped
I’m back with a solo life update — and I’m officially returning to TV for the first time in 14 years with HGTV’s Bachelor Mansion Takeover. I’m sharing the real behind-the-scenes prep (mom guilt, body changes, and the very humbling moment I forgot my entire makeup bag), plus a quick reality TV...
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Mom Talk: Valentine’s Day Edition — Love Languages, Marriage & Motherhood
In this Mom Talk: Valentine’s Day Edition of After Reality, I’m reflecting on the many sides of this holiday — the sweet stuff, the pressure, and everything in between. I’m celebrating my seventh Valentine’s Day with my husband (the longest Valentine I’ve ever had), and sharing how I’m trying to...
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Taylor Frankie Paul Bachelorette Predictions (Tarot Reading) | Psychic Shirley 🔮
In this episode of After Reality, I’m joined by Psychic Shirley for a fun, prediction-filled preview of the upcoming season of The Bachelorette featuring Taylor Frankie Paul. Shirley pulls Tarot cards and shares her insights on Taylor’s journey — including what she’s truly looking for in a…
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February Goal Check: Simple Health, Money & Mindset Habits (with Papa Robertson)
In today’s episode of After Reality, I’m joined by my dad (your favorite) Papa Robertson for a February check-in—and some simple, practical ways to feel better now and keep that momentum going into the rest of the year. We talk about a few lifestyle goals that can make a big difference: choosing...
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Secrets From a Hollywood Matchmaker: Jaydi Samuels Kuba on Your Last First Date
In this episode of After Reality, I’m joined by Jaydi Samuels Kuba — a Hollywood matchmaker, dating coach, and former Family Guy writer — to talk all things modern dating and what it really takes to find a lasting relationship. Jaydi shares insights from her newly released book, Your Last First...
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Reality Steve: Mel Owens & Peg Munson Backlash + Kat Izzo Spills the Tea on Dale Moss
In this episode of After Reality, I’m joined by Reality Steve and we’re breaking down the latest Bachelor Nation headlines. We kick things off with Mel Owens and his final pick Peg Munson, and share why their recent podcast appearances came off defensive and rubbed a lot of people the wrong way....
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After Reality Update: Courtney Robertson + Humberto Preciado on Marriage, Work, and 3 Kids
In today’s episode of After Reality, I’m joined by my husband, Humberto Ramon Preciado — back on the mic with me after a long break. We’re sharing a real-life catch-up on what’s been going on behind the scenes, from his career shift (from criminal prosecutor to personal injury attorney at a local...
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Abbey Sharp, RD: The Hunger Crushing Combo (Fiber, Protein + Healthy Fats) — A Non-Diet Approach to Nutrition
In today’s episode of After Reality, I’m joined by registered dietitian Abbey Sharp for a refreshing, evidence-based conversation about nutrition that isn’t rooted in restriction or diet culture. Abbey breaks down her “Hunger Crushing Combo” — a simple framework built around fiber, protein, and...
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MLK’s Montgomery Church: Wanda Battle on Dexter Avenue King Memorial + Civil Rights History, Hope & “This Little Light of Mine” ✨
In this episode, I’m joined by Wanda Battle — a Montgomery native, historian, and the founder of Legendary Tours — for a conversation that feels like stepping straight into living history. Wanda shares what it was like growing up in a segregated community with deep family ties to the Civil Rights...
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After Reality: 2026 Reset — Mom Goals, Pop Culture News & Bachelor Nation Headlines
Kicking off 2026, I’m coming out of the holiday chaos and back into a routine — and I’m sharing my vision for the year ahead. I’m breaking down the goals I’m focusing on across my four pillars: family systems, health and longevity, career growth, and community — because if I don’t get organized,...
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Ben Higgins Talks Fatherhood, Faith & the Future of The Bachelor | Alone in Plain Sight (Re-Release)
I’m joined by Bachelor Nation favorite Ben Higgins, and we’re talking about what life really looks like after reality TV — from stepping into fatherhood to finding a deeper sense of purpose. Ben opens up about the emotions of celebrating his daughter’s first Christmas, the personal growth he’s...
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Reality Steve on Taylor Frankie Paul, Bachelor Nation Tea, Breakups & Nick Viall’s Mom-Shaming Blunder — Holiday Hot Takes Included 🎄
On this episode of After Reality, Reality Steve joins me to dig into the latest Bachelor Nation drama — starting with Taylor Frankie Paul’s headline-making turn as the new Bachelorette. We get into why her casting is shaking up the franchise, the early behind-the-scenes tea, and what this shift...
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Stop People-Pleasing: Fight, Flight, Freeze & Fawn Somatic Healing with Kallie Somatics
On this episode of After Reality, I’m diving into one of my favorite topics as a recovering people-pleaser: the nervous system. I’m joined by somatic practitioner Kallie Klug (aka Kallie Somatics), host of the Your Own Medicine podcast, who breaks down what really happens in our bodies when we...
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Gift Smarter, Not Harder: Top Holiday Gifts for Every Love Language + Papa Robertson’s Picks
It’s that time of year again — the After Reality Holiday Gift Guide is here! Before we get swept up in the sparkle (and stress) of shopping, I’m starting with something that truly makes gift-giving easier: the five love languages. Once you know how your people feel most appreciated, choosing the...
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Meghann Turner Married at First Sight Interview – What Really Happened After MAFS Season 19 | After Reality
On this week’s episode of After Reality, I’m sitting down with Meghann Turner from Season 19 of Married at First Sight—my personal standout of the season. Meghann is funny, strong, real, and a fellow true-crime lover, so we hit it off right away. Trigger Warning: This episode includes discussion…
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Reality TV, Trader Joe's, and the Anti-Meatball Campaign
On this week’s episode of After Reality, I’m joined by Daniel, the mayor of Huntington Beach, and we’re diving headfirst into all things reality TV. Daniel shares his 15-week self-imposed fitness “boot camp” journey, and we talk about why actual human interaction at the grocery store beats...
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From the Golden Finale to Golden 4 Ever: Papa Robertson Weighs In
This week on After Reality, I’m diving into the Mel Owens finale of The Golden Bachelor and sharing all my unfiltered thoughts — plus a cameo from Papa Robertson, who I called mid-episode for his take (and trust me, he had opinions). Between Bachelor commentary, I’m catching you up on real life...
About this show
Courtney Robertson is the most notorious villain in Bachelor History. She won Season 16 of The Bachelor and went on to write the New York Times Bestseller "I Didn't Come Here to Make Friends: Confessions of a Reality TV Show Villain"
Now Courtney weighs in on current episodes of the Bachelor Franchise, pop culture news, and every week she talks to other reality stars about how being on reality TV changed their lives for better or for worse.
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