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An Older Gay Guy Show

by Joey Hernandez- Gay Personal Trainer

Multi-Award-Nominated LGBTQ Podcast aimed toward 40+ guys or anyone who enjoys a show that discusses older gay life and interests. Just because we are further along in age, it doesn't mean our gay life has to be limited or boring. We are not invisible! We are the largest growing segment of gay individuals, so let's keep our community vibrant! Please join host Joey Hernandez as we talk and laugh about the trials and tribulations of growing older, sex, health, fitness, tv and films, personal stories and many other topics.

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Episodes

  1. STORYTIME - Filming College Wrestlers

    I recently discovered one of my 'lost' episodes from the purge I did years ago. In this episode, I speak faster (I explain why), so if you listen to my shows at a faster pace, you may not want to for this episode. In this STORYTIME I tell of a short period of my life where I was asked to film…

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  2. Reddit Stories - The Country Boy's (man's) Underwear

    We return to Reddit Stories with a longer, single story. The title has 'boy's' in it, and I just want to mention that it is referring to a 20 year old man. These days, one can't be too careful. It pairs rather well with my own STORYTIME called 'Tales of the Underwear Thief' which is located in my...

  3. Accepting Your Age As You Get Older

    This episode is what will lead right into the Big Reveal Video that I will be putting out next week. In this show, I talk about the various things that have given me pause and the realization that we do in fact get too old for some things. I also talk about changes in content moving forward with...

  4. STORYTIME - The Drama Teacher's Underwear

    This is one of my favorite episodes. It is 100% true. I apologize that the audio is so loud at times, this was pulled from a video on the YouTube channel. I decided that this STORYTIME, as I told it on the video, was just too perfect the way I told it, that I decided not to re-record it. If you...

  5. Sucking Your Own D. & Gym Cruising Etiquette

    In today's episode, I give you two subjects: "Sucking Your Own D." & "Gym Cruising Etiquette". The first part came about because of reading various postings by straight guys who insist that even if they could suck their own dick, they would not because it is SO GAY ?!?!? The second part lists…

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  6. Gay Health 8 - Changes As Your Body Ages

    One of the joys (being sarcastic) of being on this planet for many years, is your body changes as the years go by. While many of us will get ailments that are not a part of the regular aging process, there are many facets of getting older that are common amongst us. Let's discuss some of these...

  7. STORYTIME - The Naked Beach Jock in the Jacuzzi - Part 1

    Being back in the gym building some muscle again, it got me thinking in the sauna the other day about a guy who I had a crush on back in the late-1980's. This is my STORYTIME of a very unusual encounter I had, that kept going in an erotic way. This guy is permanently etched in my mind, and I...

  8. Reddit Stories - What Is Your Strangest Gay Experience ??

    Once again we turn to Reddit Stories for an interesting variety of unusual experiences that guys have had with gay encounters. Strange men and strange hook-ups. Stories to titillate, shock and offer warnings.

  9. How to Discuss Your Desire for an Open Relationship

    This is a controversial topic, but one that I often get email about. So in this episode I first do a presentation about how to approach this important discussion. It talks about what your goals are, when is the right time to have such a conversation, what your partner's reaction might be and how…

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  10. Taint it AMAZING !

    The taint, or perineum, is a small area of muscles that are important for male sexual health. In this episode we talk about what the taint is, what it does, problems that can occur and prevention tools that help you stay healthy well into your senior years.

  11. Learning and Using A.I.

    Many older people feel overwhelmed and a bit fearful of new tech. And A.I. can be especially concerning since we have heard of the scary future potential of this tech. But maybe A.I. as it exists now, can be a useful tool to older folk, including LGBTQ+ seniors. In this episode, I introduce you…

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  12. Humor and Resilience As We Age

    Life can sure be stressful and difficult at times. Sometimes we can barely catch our breath from one disaster before the next one hits us. Sometimes we feel that no matter what we do, we can't overcome certain obstacles, and we feel we can't go one...that we have to just give up. But maybe there...

  13. STORYTIME - My Hospital Roommate

    My very first hospitalization in my whole life, I tell you a Story about my very unusual roommate that was brought in on my second night there and the commotion that he started with the staff.

  14. Reddit Stories - Sides and Soft Tops

    In today's Reddit Stories, we discuss the concepts of 'Sides' and 'Soft Tops' as new terminology in the gay community. I start the episode with a short story updating my cancer situation and what possibly resulted from the operation.

  15. I Was So Inappropriate

    I had an emotional, but good week. I have to tell you about it.

  16. R.I.P. Jockstrap Stories

    This is a short episode, I have dreaded recording this one. Please understand this is beyond my control. I do ask that you don't message me with complaints or disappointment. Again, this is beyond my control.

  17. Finding Friends When You Are Over 40

    There are many reasons why friendships become increasingly important as we age. This is a light-hearted look at the state of Senior LGBTQ+ people, and some suggestions on how to find lasting friendships, no matter what age we are. SAGE : https://www.sageusa.org/

  18. Is This Normal Aging...or Something More??

    In today's episode I update you on how Subscriptions to the YouTube Channel are going, I read answers to a question I asked of you a few weeks ago, and the very important main topic of this episode is: Is This Normal Aging? We all forget things sometimes. But as we age, where do we draw the line…

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  19. D*ck Sizes - Part 2

    In this conclusion of a two-part series, we talk about whether you can permanently increase the size of your dick. We discuss the psychological issues that can develop from comparing yourself to others, the effect porn has on our self-esteem and other factors that we encounter when considering…

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  20. D*ck Sizes - Part 1

    Continuing on in this new Season 11, I FINALLY give you an episode(s) that I have discussed doing for several years. I offer to you, a two-part exploration of D*ck Sizes around the globe and the issues and problems that arise because of expectations and societal pressures. There will be four...

  21. Reddit Stories - Gay Men and Boner Issues

    Welcome to Season 11 ! To start us off this season is a Reddit Stories episode that talks about Erectile Dysfunction and problems getting boners. The men in the posts I will read have all kinds of reasons they feel it is becoming more and more common for gay men to experience problems getting and...

  22. Good-bye 2025 !

    A brief episode to conclude Season 10, and I give you my latest idea for something that can be a lot of fun in the new season. BUT, and it's a BIG BUT(T), it depends on your participation! So many ideas I have had over the years for trying something new fizzle out because I only hear from the…

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  23. Coming Up in 2026 - Season 11

    This is my year-end episode outlining some important plans for the 2026 Season 11 of An Older Gay Guy Show Podcast & YouTube channel, as well as the Jockstrap Stories podcast reading of The Guys of Northridge, the sequel book to Northridge High Football Camp.

  24. Joey and Joefer's Christmas Extravaganza Show - Part 2

    Joey is joined by Joefer from The Cranky Old Gay Guy Show, to reminse about some of the annual Christmas Specials that we watched as kids from the 1960's and 1970's. This is the conclusion of the series. This is Part 2 of a 2-part series. There is a VIDEO of this show, available on An Older Gay…

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  25. HA! cancer

    In this episode I offer up some very strange things that happened recently with cancer. It's kinda weird and kinda funny.

  26. Joey & Joefer's Christmas Extravaganza Show - Part 1

    Joey is joined by Joefer from The Cranky Old Gay Guy Show, to reminse about some of the annual Christmas Specials that we watched as kids from the 1960's and 1970's. This is Part 1 of a 2-Part series. There is a VIDEO of this show, available on An Older Gay Guy Show's YouTube Channel ! Watch the...

  27. Reddit Stories - Skinny-Dipping with Straight Guys

    Returning to a Reddit Stories episode, today we hear a couple of very detailed experiences of guys that went skinny-dipping with a straight friend and what can happen when two hot guys get naked together and leave their inhibitions along with the pile of all their clothes. **These are VERY…

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  28. Health Update - not so good....

    I wanted to give you an update of what has been going on and how it will affect my shows, both An Older Gay Guy Show podcast and the Jockstrap Stories podcast, through the end of the year.

  29. Age-Gap Relationships

    In this episode I share some various points we might want to think about if we are attracted to someone 15 or more years older/younger than ourselves. I tried to look at the positive as well as the negative in this presentation. The episode concludes with some Reddit comments on the subject. This...

  30. INTERVIEW - Joefer - The Cranky Old Gay Guy Show - Part 2

    Continuing on where we left off in Part 1, Joefer and I talk about other Vintage TV Shows that we grew up with and loved. Joefer's Art on Instagram Joefer's YouTube Show

  31. Here We Go Again !

    A news bulletin about something coming up in my life.

  32. INTERVIEW - Joefer - The Cranky Old Gay Guy Show - Part 1

    Today I am joined by a wonderful, yet cranky, gentleman who has a popular YouTube Channel named 'The Cranky Old Gay Guy Show'. Joefer joins me for a two-part episode series discussing our favorite vintage tv shows that we grew up with (Joefer is 5 years younger than myself, so we watched many of...

  33. INTERVIEW - JoJo Bear - Hypnosis and Somatic Sex - Part 3

    The conclusion of my 3-part conversation with JoJo Bear. JoJo Bear is a Somatic Sex & Intimacy Educator in the San Francisco Bay area. JoJo uses somatic coaching, sexological bodywork, and hypnotherapy as tools to help people get out of their "heads" and into their bodies! His commitment is to...

  34. Reddit Stories - 'I Can't Believe I Did That!'

    Continuing 2025 Sweeps, we have another Reddit Stories episode, this time the sub-Reddit is called 'I Can't Believe I Did That!'

  35. INTERVIEW - JoJo Bear - Hypnosis & Somatic Sex - Part 2

    Continuing with Sweeps Period 2025, we have Part 2 of a 3-Part Series with JoJo Bear. JoJo is a Somatic Sex & Intimacy Educator in the San Francisco Bay area. JoJo uses somatic coaching, sexological bodywork, and hypnotherapy as tools to help people get out of their "heads" and into their bodies!...

  36. STORYTIME - 'The Guys of Northridge' - Chapter 1

    Continuing Sweeps 2025, I know that many of you have not had the opportunity to ever listen to the Jockstrap Stories podcast. I have used that show to put out my two novels as audiobooks. My original book Northridge High Football Camp, is on the podcast in its 12-chapter entirety. I just started...

  37. INTERVIEW - JoJo Bear - Hypnosis & Somatic Sex - Part 1

    Welcome to Sweeps Period 2025! To start us off, we have Part 1 of a 3-Part Series with JoJo Bear. JoJo is a Somatic Sex & Intimacy Educator in the San Francisco Bay area. JoJo uses somatic coaching, sexological bodywork, and hypnotherapy as tools to help people get out of their "heads" and into...

  38. High School Daze

    Continuing where 'A Day That Changed My Life' left off which had discussed my Elementary and Junior High experiences, this concludes with stories about my Senior High School days. From my social life picking up when I joined the Music and Drama Departments, to my first car and the problems that...

  39. Unlovable

    As we move toward the 2025 Sweeps Period of shows, this episode speaks of what I consider the biggest issue that faces the LGBTQ+ community. If you wish to support this show at no cost to you.....VOTE in the Podcast Awards ! To vote for An Older Gay Guy Show in this year's Podcast Awards, please...

  40. Is Kindness Worth More Than Money ?

    In this episode I tell a STORYTIME about something that happened to me in the late 90's. I hesitated to tell this story because almost all of my friends thought I was being an idiot. While I often cop to being an idiot, perhaps in this story I wasn't one? I do ask for your opinion if your podcast...

  41. Reddit Stories: Becoming Invisible

    Have you started feeling invisible to those around you as you age? Are you not getting the kind of attention from people as you did when you were younger? This is a Reddit Stories episode discussing this issue.

  42. INTERVIEW - James Taylor Jr. - Remember

    In this episode, I have another INTERVIEW with LGBTQ+ musician James Taylor Jr., and we discuss his new gay anthem Remember. Link to James' Website REMEMBER

  43. A Day That Changed My Life

    I have told you many stories about my life. But what I haven't told you is there was a series of events that occured that laid the groundwork for many things to come in my life. I am not proud of what happened, but in hindsight maybe it was all for the best. This talks about my life in elementary...

  44. Freaking Out Over New Pronouns? DON'T !

    Today's episode is a reply to an email that I got concerning the last episode titled "Have 100 Orgasms Every Single Day!". Are you an older gay guy that is confused and anxious that you need to learn all the new pronouns? It seems they change all the time. How is one to learn how to navigate this...

  45. Have 100 Orgasms Every Single Day!

    We all want to shoot our spunk more. Instead of relying on another guy, or endlessly looking for the right porn to get us off, what if you could have an orgasm multiple times per day automatically? You don't even have to try. It just happens. Sounds amazing, doesn't it? Well, maybe not so...

  46. STORYTIME - The Construction Site Jerk-Off - Part 3 (conclusion)

    In previous years I had done this STORYTIME's Part 1 & Part 2 (and then deleted them), however, this is the first time I give you the conclusion of this sexually explicit adventure. We pick up right where we left off in Part 2.

  47. STORYTIME - The Construction Site Jerk-Off - Part 2

    Picking up where we left off in the last episode, I tell you what happened once I left my construction job that fateful day when I followed one of my construction buddies home. **This is a very descriptive erotic story. Please be forewarned. **

  48. STORYTIME - The Construction Site Jerk-Off - Part 1

    The return of a much requested STORYTIME from a number of years ago, prior to the big 'purge' of sexual content, that I have always regretted. This STORYTIME is from when I was just 19 years old and had taken a part-time job in construction. It tells of a little adventure that I got involved in...

  49. Wisdom As You Age

    I have always believed that one of the reasons I am still alive despite illnesses that were supposed to shorten my life, is because of my attitude and the way I look at the world. It is so easy in today's society to get all caught up in the day-to-day negative emotions that are a result of the...

  50. Overcoming Social Anxiety

    Well my friends, today I start my 10th Season of An Older Gay Guy Show! I have all kinds of plans for this season, highlighted as always by my Sweeps Period which will be for the month of August (after voting for the Podcast Awards during July). Today I start with an easy-breezy episode, which...

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ABOUT THIS SHOW

Multi-Award-Nominated LGBTQ Podcast aimed toward 40+ guys or anyone who enjoys a show that discusses older gay life and interests. Just because we are further along in age, it doesn't mean our gay life has to be limited or boring. We are not invisible! We are the largest growing segment of gay individuals, so let's keep our community vibrant! Please join host Joey Hernandez as we talk and laugh about the trials and tribulations of growing older, sex, health, fitness, tv and films, personal stories and many other topics.

HOSTED BY

Joey Hernandez- Gay Personal Trainer

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Multi-Award-Nominated LGBTQ Podcast aimed toward 40+ guys or anyone who enjoys a show that discusses older gay life and interests. Just because we are further along in age, it doesn't mean our gay life has to be limited or boring. We are not invisible! We are the largest growing segment of gay...

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