Episodes
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Political Abuse
00:00 – teaching kids politics is chopped 3:30 – cultural implications 7:45 – how to talk with kids about politics correctly 9:30 – conclusion Free consultation: joinanimus.com/schedule
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Why You Keep Having the Same Fight
00:00 – why recurring fights happen 1:00 – how you put pressure on the problem 2:10 – the neediness sweet spot 2:55 – the healthy need that goes unmet 3:40 – the way out 9:50 – different complaint, same psychology 10:45 – remove your self-worth from the problem Free consultation:...
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What the Lindsay Clancy Debate is Really About
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Four Ways to Separate From Your Mom
00:00 – Enmeshment is the veil 1:30 – an old pattern 2:30 – go to church 4:20 – apologize 6:30 – face time with women 8:50 – go through red pill 11:40 – the narcissistic mother
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The Missing Link Between Freud and Jung
00:00 – Freud and Jung, more similar than different 1:15 – how Freud and Jung differ 5:25 – mind and body 8:00 – false dichotomies 9:15 – mechanism vs teleology 10:50 – conceptual fragmentation 12:00 – the missing link 14:45 – what it looks like
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Why Forcing Yourself to Change Never Works
00:00 – real change 1:10 – you’re built to move 3:35 – freezing up around women 4:40 – advice is demeaning 6:40 – two kinds of bad advice 9:20 – no pain, no gain
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Why Somatic Therapy Cannot Heal Trauma
00:00 – trauma is a physical phenomenon 1:45 – research criticism 3:00 – a confounding variable 4:45 – modern therapy vs insight 6:15 – insight affects physiology 7:30 – Van der Kolk's response 8:00 – context matters 8:45 – who keeps the score?
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Why Therapy Still Can’t Explain Mental Illness
00:00 – there’s no mental illness definition 2:45 – critique current definition 6:15 – medicine is a legitimate field 8:00 – law is a legitimate field 9:15 – why therapy exists 11:40 – emotions 12:40 – decisions 14:30 – the two emotions 16:30 – mental illness pattern 19:15 – mental illness...
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The One Truth the Red Pill Ignores
00:00 – The truth is not enough 1:15 – How truth becomes resentment 2:00 – it's a mother issue 3:00 – "feminism has ruined women" 5:00 – disclaimer 5:30 – "women are hypergamous" 7:00 – "women test men" 8:40 – "masculinity is criticized" 10:15 – "sexual market value" 12:15 – takeaway 14:15 –…
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How Therapy Makes You Dishonest
00:00 – what is therapy speak. 2:45 – therapy-speak guy’s main problem 3:00 – modern therapy causes therapy speak 5:15 – no clarity = no growth 6:15 – attributes of therapy-speak guy 9:30 – Gabor Mate 10:15 – Internal Family Systems 11:00 – Alok Kanojia 11:45 – Jordan Peterson 12:15 – Jonathan...
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The Two Ways You’ll Lose Her
00:00 – Two wrong ways to communicate 2:00 – The right way to communicate 3:00 – Question from a viewer who's feeling jealous 3:45 – Growth begins with communication 6:30 – Whiteboard 11:30 – The communication of jealousy 12:45 – Own the jealousy 15:00 – Communication is practical 17:00 – Normal…
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AI Psychosis and the Death of Reality
00:00 – what is AI psychosis 1:15 – AI psychosis is a new outlet for an old phenomenon 2:00 – Be robust rather than vulnerable 3:15 – AI brain rot 4:45 – AI therapy "crisis" 6:15 – Two parts of mental robustness 7:45 – The antidote to the singularity
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The Nick Fuentes trap nobody can see
00:00 – The Fuentes trap 1:45 – Porn is self-harm 5:00 – Fuentes is porn 6:45 – Deportation policy 9:00 – Experience isn’t epistemology 10:00 – Demographic enforcement12:30 – “world Jewry” 14:30 – Fuentes is the media 16:00 – Regulation trumps justification 17:00 – American needs a legitimate…
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What Nick Fuentes reveals about you
00:00 – Culture is psychology 00:45 – Fuentes is a psychological phenomenon 01:45 – post-war consensus 02:30 – repression 03:50 – Politicizing race 05:40 – Why we really hate Fuentes 07:50 – Prediction 09:15 – Groyper prediction
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Why gifted kids are actually special needs
00:00 – Therapy is lost 01:15 – Healthy Gamer's views 02:15 – HG misses the point 03:15 – Sociology vs psychology 04:45 – Why gifted kids are special needs fr 06:40 – Comparison 07:50 – Shame 10:15 – Where your focus needs to be 11:40 – How HG addresses responsibility
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Why you can’t stop thinking about her past
00:00 – What retroactive jealousy feels like 01:30 – Why we obsess over our partner’s past 03:20 – Retroactive jealousy serves you 06:15 – Jealousy is not the real issue (noise vs signal) 09:00 – When jealousy is legitimate 11:30 – The Madonna–Whore complex explained 14:50 – The whiteboard:...
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The Case Against Spiral Dynamics
0:00 What Spiral Dynamics lacks 1:45 What it is 3:30 Stage overview 11:30 Problem one: no philosophy 16:15 Problem two: inept psychology 19:00 Problem three: not an integration 23:45 Problem four: it's irrelevant 26:15 Coral stage proposal 29:30 Takeaway
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Anxious and avoidant attachment are the same disorder
Intro: buzzwords are useful. Anxious/avoidant are the same (6:00). How to work through attachment disorder (19:30). The one Neurosis (29:30).