Asking For A Friend

A listener writes in about sex before marriage, sexual temptation, and the fear of falling short of what her faith asks of her.Faith and Tiff get into all of it on Ep 6: the fear of judgment from the church and the community, the specific weight of Nigerian expectations, and what real grace looks like in practice.Can you build real faith on fear? Why do women carry the weight of purity while men get grace by default?Plus a new round of Hot Take or Hard Truth on takes like "purity culture has pushed more people away from God than toward Him."🎙️ Season 1 finale of Asking for a Friend.Send us your questions: @askingforafriend.fm

She’s dating a guy she really likes. Then she found out he dated her younger sister. Then she found out he has a newborn baby. And she’s still trying to figure out if she should stay.What’s the difference between giving someone grace and giving them a pass? When does dating someone become choosing them, versus just not choosing to be alone?Faith and Tiff get into all of it on Ep 5: defining bird behavior, scarcity dating, why women stay when they know better, and a new round of Hot Take or Hard Truth.New episodes every other Tuesday!Send us your questions: @askingforafriend.fm

Why does confidence keep moving the goalposts? What happens to identity when your body decides for you?And is grief allowed to show up for the version of yourself you didn't know you'd lose?Faith and Tiff get into all of it on Ep 4: the pressure of a "perfect body," what happens when praise is what's been motivating you, and the identity work that has nothing to do with how you look.New episodes every other Tuesday!Send us your questions: @askingforafriend.fm

Can you love someone whose values don't match yours? Is compromise different from betrayal?Why does the fear of your friends judging you feel bigger than the disagreement itself? And when your friends don't like your partner, is that a red flag or is it about them?Faith and Tiff get into all of it on Ep 3: the difference between love and choice, the friend who has opinions about everyone else's relationship, and the shame that shows up when you can't tell if you're the problem.New episodes every other Tuesday! Send us your questions: @askingforafriend.fm

Is imposter syndrome even real, or are we just talking ourselves out of what we've already earned?Why do we feel jealous of our friends' wins and then feel like a bad person for feeling that way? When your peers are all winning and you're not, how do you stay close to them without losing yourself in the comparison?Faith and Tiff get into all of it on Ep 2: the "success era" trap, whether "fake it till you make it" actually works, and what real confidence looks like when it isn't performance.New episodes every other Tuesday!Send us your questions: @askingforafriend.fm

Is the fixer friend really the good one? Or is she just controlling with better PR?What do you do when the friend you love refuses to listen, keeps making the same bad choice, and somehow you're the one losing sleep over it?Faith and Tiff get into all of it on Ep 1: the boundaries we don't set, the friends who won't take their own advice, and the "did she just call her fat" moment we couldn't let go.New episodes every other Tuesday!
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