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Balanced Burden By B3ETC-BusyB3Media

by Kita AliDey

Welcome to Balanced Burden by B3ETC with Kita AliDey, where amazing mental acrobatics take place to maintain balanced perspectives on the burden of adulthood. Musings about life, Social constructs, and expectations of a "poor" homeschooling family that is happy NOT being rich (more money more problems?). ALL funds raised go towards community outreach and social programs to encourage and empower. #marchmadness #Humanityfirst #UBI #itsrehabtime #productivity #mindsetreset #mindshift #whatboxthinking #bethechange #homeschool #adhd #audhder #asd

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Episodes

  1. Why Your Relationship With AI Starts With You: Inner Work in the Age of Algorithms

    Your relationship with AI reveals your relationship with yourself. Are you ready for that mirror? Inner work / AI relationship angle Before you can use AI as a tool without being used by it, you need to know why you do what you do. A raw, unfiltered conversation about habits, autonomy, attention...

  2. AuDhder burnout not depressed 28-24

    Join me on my podcast as I delve into the world of #AuDhder burnout versus #depression, sharing my personal journey of navigating through burnout despite my sister's insistence on labeling it as depression. Let's explore the nuances of mental health and the unique experiences of AuDhders…

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  3. Nature's madness 27-24

    Spring has greeted us with snow today And a flurry and mixed rain and snow yesterday. #marchmadness nature's insanity plus maintenance finally showed up after five years.

  4. I'm late for a plan with me! 25-24

    "Unlock the power of organization with our latest podcast episode! Dive into the world of planner pages tailored for homeschoolers navigating ASD, ADHD, and OCD. Discover the transformative impact of pen-to-paper planning and how it safeguards against forgetfulness. Join us as we explore the…

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  5. Leap into a poll and place a vote 23-24

    A special scripted Leap Day journey through the tangled web of politics and elections. Laugh, reflect, and dive deep into the heart of democracy as we navigate age debates, plot twists, and the importance of homeschool civics. Let's leap into action and make our voices heard! Hashtags:...

  6. 22-24

    #ASD #adhd #parenting #homeschool #thoughtsaboutlife yeah in this episode I'm just giving you an update on the fact that I realized that I completely forgot about posting last week I want to stick to my person schedule and it's a good thing that I at least remembered that I forgot that's…

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  7. 21-24

    "Welcome to Balanced Burden by B3ETC! Whether it's morning, afternoon, or evening, I appreciate you tuning in. Today, on this Valentine's Day, let's chat candidly about the day's significance or lack thereof. Join me as I navigate through the complexities of self-love, self-care, and societal...

  8. 20-24

    "Getting ready for the biggest showdown of the year… no, not the Super Bowl, but the battle of who can eat the most dumplings at Chinese New Year! 🥟🎉 #PreGame #YearOfTheDumpling #CountdownToCNY #SuperBowlEve" Super Bowl: #SuperBowl #SuperBowlLVIII #NFL #Football #HalftimeShow #Touchdown…

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  9. 19-24 FYI and systeme.

    Discovered a new app. Shiny bobble to add to my system to be awesome. FYI.fyi and a system I don't want over run it is mine all mine 😂 #blackhistory in the making will.i.am is a beast of a creator and he created an app that will be used by all who want to create and own their creations.

  10. 18-24 birthrate heart break

    Little rant about low birth rates being the real reason for the repeal of roe v. Wade. Black women have low birth rates white population is shrinking. 😂 All that mixing. My children are biracial. My ex husband is Irish so yeah things be changing. #blackhistory #homeschool #intelligence #character

  11. 17-24 finally ending the loop

    "In this insightful Groundhog Day episode of b3etc balanced burden, we delve into the timeless wisdom of the classic movie, exploring how Phil Connors' journey mirrors our own quest for personal growth and breaking free from life's repetitive cycles. Join us as we draw inspiration from...

  12. 16-24 the typical groundhog

    Short and sweet on repeat. Lol

  13. 15-24 NeuroDivergent identity crisis

    DOES anyone got time for that... RESEARCH? 😂 SERIOUSLY I am always with my children discussing how they need to make sure they are as authentic as possible and not allow anyone else define who they are, but some neuro divergent types are natural chameleons. I myself call myself enigmatic…

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  14. 14-24 hormones homeschool and habits

    Asperger's ✅ ADHD ✅ perimenopause ✅ Now home school three boys with ADHD in varying degrees. The funny part I had no idea I had ADHD until I had my hormones checked for perimenopause. The OCD helped me rationalize what was going on and I turned to AI to help my scatter brain organize everything....

  15. 13-24 homeschool chaos

    I was trying to interview my kids on how things have changed from when we started homeschooling 10 years ago to now he kind of got out of hand but it gives you an insight as to how we kind of interact with each other on a regular basis enjoy.

  16. 12-24 Bill Withers should be playing

    I have to share how happy I am because good things don't always come this soon after a tragic beginnings.

  17. 11-24

    I got annoyed by all the homeschool videos I was watching on YouTube so I decided to make a podcast because it's dark and I can't really set up a light to make a video. So if you want to learn how to homeschool here you go six simple points. Six questions to ask yourself to make sure that you…

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  18. 9-24 voopoo

    My vape broke and I have lost my mind. How on earth shall I recover? I will simply quit cold turkey or fold and buy a new coil. I don't even know at this point. I am happy I have a clear mind.

  19. 10-24 hit the right flavor

    Self-proclaimed binge addict discusses how to quit effectively for a long time. Hit the right flavor notes replace whatever it is that you are trying to quit with something equal in flavor. Honestly I can't help you if it's something that does with a physical addiction can't help you with…

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  20. 8-24 classically eclectic

    I dive into classical education in my home school. I just realized I have three boys each in one stage of the classical method as a while but I take three different approaches. That to me are classical in nature. I expand upon my thoughts in my blog....

  21. 7-24 MLK today

    Intelligence and character very important in home education and education in general. I was inspired to create these aluminum composite pieces and Today only 25% off for first 25 customers. Don't want you to miss out on these wonderful prints celebrating Dr. King. Spread the word about my MLK…

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  22. Legacy into the future 6-24

    Lol when I typed legacy I heard let's go see which resulted into me changing the title to what it is. Lol let's go see in to the future and learn how note taking evolved from Cornell notes. It is a beautiful thing to notice turning points in time. Homeschooling a high schooler just got real as I...

  23. My balance restored E5-24

    I decided to build a second brain and once I was finished I feel ten pounds lighter. I just gush about the book. It arrived right on time. https://amzn.to/4aRQZ4z building a second brain saved my life. https://amzn.to/41SdsKS once I got the right database app the PARA method filled in the gaps…

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  24. YNAB my CAR!!! E4-24

    I had the worst day. My car got repossessed. I need a budget YNAB go me. If you feel the same way about how your finances got away from you then I invite you to try YNAB! During your free month you'll gain a clearer picture of your finances so you can spend on the things that matter to you. Ready...

  25. Episode 3-2024 Homeschool and life changes

    I turned 40 yesterday and nature decided to bless me with the gift of perimenopause. I also have a 5 year old I need to educate but luckily I have a method of home education that allows me the flexibility to roll with my hormonal changes and not get stressed out or burnt out. Be encouraged by…

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  26. Episode 2-2024 Talk through homeschool burnout

    Last year will be classified as my lost year. I lost motivation to do the small things with my youngest child in our homeschool. I had to talk it through with a therapist 😭. I also had issues with motivation in my business and got a mentor. There is no shame in getting outside perspective on...

  27. Episode 1-2024

    Hype up YNAB it has saved my life already. I have a business budget and personal budget to get it together. Having $46 to start the year isn't cool when the car note is due and it is $600. SMH 😒. My bank sucks mint was no help quick books is more expensive and doesn't get me excited to use it...

  28. Handwriting fingerprint

    I discuss how handwriting and signatures are similar to fingerprints and how my ai art can still be unique to me.

  29. Mayday positive vibes

    Everything seems dire until tunnel vision reveals a shining light of hope at the end. I got to that light by the end of my sleep deprived rant. Short and sweet. Blog post on b3etciam.com

  30. I'm late for and important date.

    I talk about my failures and how AI helped me over come a few challenges. Visit my blog for details balancedburden.com and b3etciam.com search for life after abuse for my jotter blog.

  31. I forgot baby blues

    No clue have a listen

  32. Biden time

    Yep it is a pun. I can't wait for the mid terms I hope we get some rational people in office ready to change course asap.

  33. Mother's day tragedy

    We have gone so far from the idealick society of freedom. Hypocrisy is running rampant and we need to balance the scales. I have held my tongue too long. The future is at stake.

  34. Season 5 episode 4

    The beginning has started to unfold

  35. Episode 4 season 5

    Finally time for the fake woke lucid dreamers to fully awaken.

  36. Season five ep 3

    I need to do better keeping up there is so much going on at once it is a lot for a single homeschooling mother of three active boys. If I have learned nothing else gain of function or experimentimg with pathogens needs to end

  37. Gig mom response.

    Gig mom on YouTube asked a great question about the life span of the gig economy. I gave a long winded response.

  38. Deja vou take two

    This is pivotal for me trying to stop the rinse and repeat.sone things in history CAN not be allowed to repeat

  39. Take two 2020 naw

    Recap and rethink

  40. Follow the fauci brick road

    Look fauci followers are cult followers and I am ashamed to know you. Follow real science please. Don't forget to think for yourself.

  41. Car troubles Self

    So my new car broke down and needs a new engine. Self is crap and raid flying insect killer is to.

  42. Get off my lawn

    I give in to the label geriatric millenial. Summer is coming to an end and shtf for real. Did you watch the news.

  43. #mindsetreset death language

    Look I am a self less person but I am not going to tolerate continued support of putting lives on hold to prevent death. We all will die. Accept it and keep it moving. Don't be crippled by fear.

  44. Dramatic start to a triumphant weekend.

    Man these ghetto birds be trying me. 🤣 😆 😂 This memorial day weekend we morn the loss of two young soldiers in the war on manhood. Their mother is stifling their maturity and she tried to bring my sons down too. Not on my watch. I tried to shield them by bringing them in when I could but the...

  45. When do you add children to your accounts?

    I am struggling with adding my children to my credit cards to give them a leg up in the credit game but I want the credit game up dated at the same time. The burden of maintaining balance is real today. 14 sounds like a good age to add my oldest. He can get a summer job and he is pretty…

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  46. Ohio embezzling?

    The supplemental unemployment is ending on 26 June. There is a vax-a-million lottery funded by the supplement!? No no no

  47. Inc file saved my future

    I was super stressed out about starting a new LLC. I have been procrastinating big time. I said screw it and spent the extra money to use Inc file. I compared the speed of expedite for $50 extra on Inc file and just filing regular on Ohio secretary of state website. Man, dude, 🤣 Linda LISTEN!!!

  48. Self I am out

    Self lender is not my friend. 😂

  49. Leaving my children better off

    As I reflect on my son transition to adulthood, I am thankful that I homeschool him. I later condemn critical race theory in schools that can infect the minds of thousands of children which will affect all my children in he future, IF we don't stop it.

  50. No friends at 37

    Yeah it is a shame but a reality it is what it is as I navigate finding balance in the burden that is life.

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About this show

Welcome to Balanced Burden by B3ETC with Kita AliDey, where amazing mental acrobatics take place to maintain balanced perspectives on the burden of adulthood. Musings about life, Social constructs, and expectations of a "poor" homeschooling family that is happy NOT being rich (more money more problems?). ALL funds raised go towards community outreach and social programs to encourage and empower. #marchmadness #Humanityfirst #UBI #itsrehabtime #productivity #mindsetreset #mindshift #whatboxthinking #bethechange #homeschool #adhd #audhder #asd

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How many episodes does Balanced Burden By B3ETC-BusyB3Media have?

Balanced Burden By B3ETC-BusyB3Media has 112 episodes on PodParley. The most recent episode was published on May 21, 2026.

What is Balanced Burden By B3ETC-BusyB3Media about?

Welcome to Balanced Burden by B3ETC with Kita AliDey, where amazing mental acrobatics take place to maintain balanced perspectives on the burden of adulthood. Musings about life, Social constructs, and expectations of a "poor" homeschooling family that is happy NOT being rich (more money more...

How often does Balanced Burden By B3ETC-BusyB3Media release new episodes?

Balanced Burden By B3ETC-BusyB3Media publishes monthly, based on its 112 episodes since March 2018.

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Balanced Burden By B3ETC-BusyB3Media is created and hosted by Kita AliDey.
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