Banter with Abi

Life is hard enough to keep signing up for unnecessary struggle! Listen to my rant about choosing easy streeeeeeet!

Guys! Clubhouse beat me! Listen to find out why I left clubhouse and my thoughts on "The Black Experience"

Yo! Cancel culture is wiiiiiiilddd! We all know what we are doing when we decide to bring our business on Obasanjo's internet, but should we be doing that though?

Privilege, also known as advantage. We all have some form of privilege and should acknowledge it when sharing our stories...

This episode is dedicated to our Ronero! The world might have carried on spinning but we will carry you in our hearts forever.

I think the concept of Emotional and Physical affairs are bullCRAP! Listen to me ramble on about why I think an affair is what it is...An Affair! And at what point I think you might have crossed the line with your partner.  If you have a juicy story to share on "Emotional" Affairs or a different perspective...you know where to find me. @banterwithabi on Instagram! Till the next episode... Toodles X

I know, I know I have been MIA, but guys life gets busy...and I swear you were all on my mind. I am picking up right where I stopped with this episode. What do you do when you have forbidden love for someone? Learn the art of loving them from a distance and be ok with it.  Listen, subscribe and share x

What to do when you are drawn to someone you should NOT or canNOT be involved with? Listen now for my take on Forbidden Attraction!

Season 2 on Banter with Abi has been about loooove, and this weekend is Valentine. If you are coupled up in love and doing ok, I am super happy for ya. If you are single, take a trip down memory lane with me...Do you remember your first love? Not the first person you dated, naaa! The first person to you gave your heart to, that walked into your life and turned it upside down. Back to 10-15 minutes episodes, so grab your cup of tea/coffee/hot chocolate and listen with me!

Moving on, on the Love Train that season 2 is... On this episode, listen to my friend Deey and I talk about our Love Triangle experiences.  If you did not know what a Love Triangle is, listen in and learn from our experience of it!

Is loving a person unconditionally truly the highest form of love? Does it exist between romantic couples? Is it healthy? Can you love someone unconditionally? Do you really love your partner with no conditions at all? Listen to my buddy Pops and I have a honest conversation on our thoughts on this matter of the heart.  We will love to hear what your thoughts are too. Send us a DM on: Instagram: @banterwithabi Twitter @banterwithabi

aaaaaand I am back with Season 2 Guys! This season will be themed, and it will be about L.O.V.E. Since we all love to talk about this particular matter of the heart. On episode 1, my girl; Pops and I unpack the question; Unconditional love, for real? You will LOL! To not miss when this drops, hit on the subscribe button now people!

Guuuuyssss! I've gone and done it. 10 + 1 Bonus Episodes in Season 1 Banter With Abi, super excited. Thank you to everyone that has taken time out to listen to EP.1 - 10 and also engaged with me on my podcast. I love y'all! I have opened an Instagram account called @banterwithabi if you are wondering what I am up to before I roll out Season 2 and want sneak peeks on what I've got planned. Follow up thereeeee <3 Love and Light people... I'm OUT... Well until Season 2! :p

The Verzuz battle between our two rnb queens Brandy and Monica was EPIC! It gave us, style, took us down memory lane, absolutely quality music and also attitude and draaaaaaamaaa! Listen to myself and my bestie Seyi's conversation on this groundbreaking Verzuz show. Be warned, we are both huge Brandy Fans sooooo.... PS: I lied, I still listen to rap the Kendrick Lamar type.... 

Guuuys, I am saddened at the rude passing away of our very own Black Panther, Chadwick Boseman. I feel a great deal of inspiration on how he chose to keep living despite his battle, but also a great deal of sadness on how heavy it must have been on him. Now more than ever it is important to be conscious about being kind to everyone you come in contact with, and if you struggle with being kind, listen in for my message for you. Apologies for the bad sound at the start guys... Like I said, its been a grey day for me. Love and Light to you all...x

Continued banter on mean girls though... Why be mean to a woman like you? You should recognise you have more in common with your fellow woman and treat her as an ally in the fight against the system that seeks your oppression. 

First off, being mean has nothing to do with gender. There are mean people both male and female but when you think about it the odds are stacked against women.. So why be a mean girl to girls tho? 

The world is worried about Kanye West but should we though? Listen to my take on Kanye's meltdowns and how he is using it to his advantage.

Thank you to everyone that wrote in to share what they think about this heated unending debate! I discussed some of the responses I received with my good friend LJ on this episode. Listen to our banter, share and subscribe to not miss out on all the juicy content coming up!

By demand, I am sharing my opinion on Marriage being overrated or underrated. Listen in guys and to share what you think, send me a voice message on anchor.fm/banterwithabi or on my socials!

2020 has been a shitshow guys! Everyone is dealing with some type of loss and no one needs to be dealing with Grief Police on top of that! Listen to me raaaant on this insensitivity!

Talking about Jada bringing herself and Will to the table on August!

Talking about the entanglement between Willard and Jada Smith and August Alsina

Welcome everyone and don't forget to share and subscribe!