Becoming Secure

Register for Un-Situationship-Able today! https://forms.gle/L8EhQiRQjWLG5E5f6Final day to Join Un-Situationship-Able! https://forms.gle/QipcRRr3CC9Js28n6A 5 week live coaching program to help you end the cycle of situationships, let go for good, and attract a man who wants commitment! Read more and register here.Other links:WORKSHOP REPLAY: Am I Settling? You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣)🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃‍♀️Get the Replay Here!Apply to work with Emily 1-1

Read more and register for ✨Un-Situationship-Able✨ today! https://forms.gle/h1H5aWSUbUGqUc5G6Final day to Join Un-Situationship-Able! https://forms.gle/QipcRRr3CC9Js28n6A 5 week live coaching program to help you end the cycle of situationships, let go for good, and attract a man who wants commitment! Read more and register here.Other links:WORKSHOP REPLAY: Am I Settling? You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣)🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃‍♀️Get the Replay Here!Apply to work with Emily 1-1

Ready to end the cycle of situationships and attract commitment-ready men? These 5 boundaries will put you on the right path!And if you're ready to end the cycle for good, register for Un-Situationship-Able today! A live 5-week coaching program to help you never end up in a situationship again and only attract men who can fully choose you!Register Here: https://forms.gle/QipcRRr3CC9Js28n6Final day to Join Un-Situationship-Able! https://forms.gle/QipcRRr3CC9Js28n6A 5 week live coaching program to help you end the cycle of situationships, let go for good, and attract a man who wants commitment! Read more and register here.Other links:WORKSHOP REPLAY: Am I Settling? You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣)🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃‍♀️Get the Replay Here!Apply to work with Emily 1-1

You finally worked up the courage to have the hard convo...what are you looking for? He says he doesn't want a relationship right now, butttt...nothing changes after that. He keeps seeing you and acting like things are the same...why?Un-Situationship-Able is open for enrollment now! Read more and register here: https://forms.gle/VBqTZm4Urwgwf1VS7Apply for 1-1 Work: https://mailchi.mp/de14c807829a/j109p21a14Final day to Join Un-Situationship-Able! https://forms.gle/QipcRRr3CC9Js28n6A 5 week live coaching program to help you end the cycle of situationships, let go for good, and attract a man who wants commitment! Read more and register here.Other links:WORKSHOP REPLAY: Am I Settling? You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣)🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃‍♀️Get the Replay Here!Apply to work with Emily 1-1

What makes situationships feels so intoxicating, intense, and hard to get over? Emily breaks this down in the latest episode of Becoming Secure!Un-Situationship-Able is now open for enrollment! Read more and register here: https://forms.gle/i9vYmp4qJZLhSaPCAWant to work 1-1 with Emily? Apply here: https://mailchi.mp/de14c807829a/j109p21a14Final day to Join Un-Situationship-Able! https://forms.gle/QipcRRr3CC9Js28n6A 5 week live coaching program to help you end the cycle of situationships, let go for good, and attract a man who wants commitment! Read more and register here.Other links:WORKSHOP REPLAY: Am I Settling? You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣)🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃‍♀️Get the Replay Here!Apply to work with Emily 1-1

Links mentioned:Free resource: Am I Settling? workshop replay. Get it here: https://mailchi.mp/69faea9d5bc1/am-i-settling-workshop-replay-sign-upRead more and apply for Should I Stay or Should I Go? https://forms.gle/QAmfpFRbQF1ZED7w7Apply for Attachment Alchemy 1-1 Program: https://mailchi.mp/de14c807829a/j109p21a14Final day to Join Un-Situationship-Able! https://forms.gle/QipcRRr3CC9Js28n6A 5 week live coaching program to help you end the cycle of situationships, let go for good, and attract a man who wants commitment! Read more and register here.Other links:WORKSHOP REPLAY: Am I Settling? You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣)🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃‍♀️Get the Replay Here!Apply to work with Emily 1-1

Should you date a guy who's not technically divorced yet? A client recently asked me this question. His reason made sense. He said he was ready to date. Was it okay for her to proceed? In this episode, I break down for you exactly what I told her! Links mentioned:Free resource: Am I Settling? workshop replay. Get it here: https://mailchi.mp/69faea9d5bc1/am-i-settling-workshop-replay-sign-upRead more and apply for Should I Stay or Should I Go? https://forms.gle/QAmfpFRbQF1ZED7w7Final day to Join Un-Situationship-Able! https://forms.gle/QipcRRr3CC9Js28n6A 5 week live coaching program to help you end the cycle of situationships, let go for good, and attract a man who wants commitment! Read more and register here.Other links:WORKSHOP REPLAY: Am I Settling? You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣)🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃‍♀️Get the Replay Here!Apply to work with Emily 1-1

In this episode, Emily breaks down two unsexy truths about settling and why it can be so hard to tell if you're settling for too little or asking for too much!Get the "Am I Settling?" workshop replay here!In this workshop, we'll cover the 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣)🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃‍♀️❓Plus time for hot-seat coaching/Q&A - so you can ask questions & get immediate clarity on whether you're settling! 👑💅🏼Get the replay here!Final day to Join Un-Situationship-Able! https://forms.gle/QipcRRr3CC9Js28n6A 5 week live coaching program to help you end the cycle of situationships, let go for good, and attract a man who wants commitment! Read more and register here.Other links:WORKSHOP REPLAY: Am I Settling? You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣)🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃‍♀️Get the Replay Here!Apply to work with Emily 1-1

On this episode of Becoming Secure, Emily welcomes anxious attachment coach Valerie Rubin to discuss common mistakes anxious attachers make in dating and relationships and the importance of doing somatic work in healing anxious attachment!Find Valerie's instagram hereValerie's podcast is called: The Anxiety Recovery Podcast.Final day to Join Un-Situationship-Able! https://forms.gle/QipcRRr3CC9Js28n6A 5 week live coaching program to help you end the cycle of situationships, let go for good, and attract a man who wants commitment! Read more and register here.Other links:WORKSHOP REPLAY: Am I Settling? You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣)🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃‍♀️Get the Replay Here!Apply to work with Emily 1-1

Common things women say when they're trying to justify red flags! Do you ever find yourself doing or saying these things? If you do, don't worry - Emily has been there, too! But it's time to make the decision to walk away and stop settling for red flags!The Art of Secure Dating starts THIS Saturday, December 13th! Read more and register here!Final day to Join Un-Situationship-Able! https://forms.gle/QipcRRr3CC9Js28n6A 5 week live coaching program to help you end the cycle of situationships, let go for good, and attract a man who wants commitment! Read more and register here.Other links:WORKSHOP REPLAY: Am I Settling? You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣)🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃‍♀️Get the Replay Here!Apply to work with Emily 1-1

If you're frustrated that a guy led you on and wasted your time, this episode is for you! Emily provides a helpful reframe on how to view situations like this with more peace and less frustration!The Art of Secure Dating is currently enrolling now through Dec. 12th! Read more and submit your application here!Final day to Join Un-Situationship-Able! https://forms.gle/QipcRRr3CC9Js28n6A 5 week live coaching program to help you end the cycle of situationships, let go for good, and attract a man who wants commitment! Read more and register here.Other links:WORKSHOP REPLAY: Am I Settling? You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣)🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃‍♀️Get the Replay Here!Apply to work with Emily 1-1

Emily breaks down 9 subtle ways you might be self abandoning in dating in this episode! The Art of Secure Dating is currently enrolling (orientation call Dec. 13th!).Ready to date more securely & attract men who are emotionally available?Read more & apply for TASD here!Final day to Join Un-Situationship-Able! https://forms.gle/QipcRRr3CC9Js28n6A 5 week live coaching program to help you end the cycle of situationships, let go for good, and attract a man who wants commitment! Read more and register here.Other links:WORKSHOP REPLAY: Am I Settling? You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣)🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃‍♀️Get the Replay Here!Apply to work with Emily 1-1

In this episode, Emily invites Ana Eve back on the podcast to talk about why we attach so quickly and common mistakes to avoid that cause you to attach more quickly!They also announce the re-opening of the Art of Secure Dating with Black Friday bonuses! Read more via the link below!Read more and register for the Art of Secure Dating HereFinal day to Join Un-Situationship-Able! https://forms.gle/QipcRRr3CC9Js28n6A 5 week live coaching program to help you end the cycle of situationships, let go for good, and attract a man who wants commitment! Read more and register here.Other links:WORKSHOP REPLAY: Am I Settling? You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣)🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃‍♀️Get the Replay Here!Apply to work with Emily 1-1

Do you ever feel like your anxiety is the problem? Like your life would be better if you didn't have it? Believe it or not, this perspective may actually be hindering your healing & making your anxiety worse! In this episode, Emily breaks down what it looks like to learn to work with your anxiety, to stop seeing it as the enemy, and to learn to actually love - yes love - your anxiety.Free training on self soothing hereApply for Attachment Alchemy hereFinal day to Join Un-Situationship-Able! https://forms.gle/QipcRRr3CC9Js28n6A 5 week live coaching program to help you end the cycle of situationships, let go for good, and attract a man who wants commitment! Read more and register here.Other links:WORKSHOP REPLAY: Am I Settling? You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣)🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃‍♀️Get the Replay Here!Apply to work with Emily 1-1

Not sure how to tell if it's your anxiety or your intuition talking when a voice tells you to run, to end the relationship, or that you're going to get hurt? Emily breaks down why this happens and how to tell the difference. Apply for Attachment Alchemy: https://mailchi.mp/de14c807829a/j109p21a14Final day to Join Un-Situationship-Able! https://forms.gle/QipcRRr3CC9Js28n6A 5 week live coaching program to help you end the cycle of situationships, let go for good, and attract a man who wants commitment! Read more and register here.Other links:WORKSHOP REPLAY: Am I Settling? You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣)🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃‍♀️Get the Replay Here!Apply to work with Emily 1-1

Do you ever feel like you become a different person around guys you're interested in? Emily unpacks why this happens in this episode of Becoming Secure!Want to work with Emily 1-1? Apply for Attachment Alchemy here: https://mailchi.mp/de14c807829a/j109p21a14Final day to Join Un-Situationship-Able! https://forms.gle/QipcRRr3CC9Js28n6A 5 week live coaching program to help you end the cycle of situationships, let go for good, and attract a man who wants commitment! Read more and register here.Other links:WORKSHOP REPLAY: Am I Settling? You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣)🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃‍♀️Get the Replay Here!Apply to work with Emily 1-1

Final day to Join Un-Situationship-Able! https://forms.gle/QipcRRr3CC9Js28n6A 5 week live coaching program to help you end the cycle of situationships, let go for good, and attract a man who wants commitment! Read more and register here.Other links:WORKSHOP REPLAY: Am I Settling? You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣)🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃‍♀️Get the Replay Here!Apply to work with Emily 1-1

Work with Emily 1-1: https://mailchi.mp/de14c807829a/j109p21a14Final day to Join Un-Situationship-Able! https://forms.gle/QipcRRr3CC9Js28n6A 5 week live coaching program to help you end the cycle of situationships, let go for good, and attract a man who wants commitment! Read more and register here.Other links:WORKSHOP REPLAY: Am I Settling? You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣)🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃‍♀️Get the Replay Here!Apply to work with Emily 1-1

Apply for Attachment Alchemy: https://mailchi.mp/de14c807829a/j109p21a14Final day to Join Un-Situationship-Able! https://forms.gle/QipcRRr3CC9Js28n6A 5 week live coaching program to help you end the cycle of situationships, let go for good, and attract a man who wants commitment! Read more and register here.Other links:WORKSHOP REPLAY: Am I Settling? You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣)🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃‍♀️Get the Replay Here!Apply to work with Emily 1-1

Free Training to help you process: https://mailchi.mp/7a564cf27971/breakup-free-trainingApply for Attachment Alchemy: https://mailchi.mp/de14c807829a/j109p21a14Final day to Join Un-Situationship-Able! https://forms.gle/QipcRRr3CC9Js28n6A 5 week live coaching program to help you end the cycle of situationships, let go for good, and attract a man who wants commitment! Read more and register here.Other links:WORKSHOP REPLAY: Am I Settling? You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣)🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃‍♀️Get the Replay Here!Apply to work with Emily 1-1

Attachment Alchemy is now Open for Enrollment. Read more and apply here: https://mailchi.mp/de14c807829a/j109p21a14Final day to Join Un-Situationship-Able! https://forms.gle/QipcRRr3CC9Js28n6A 5 week live coaching program to help you end the cycle of situationships, let go for good, and attract a man who wants commitment! Read more and register here.Other links:WORKSHOP REPLAY: Am I Settling? You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣)🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃‍♀️Get the Replay Here!Apply to work with Emily 1-1

Read More & Apply for Attachment Alchemy: https://mailchi.mp/de14c807829a/j109p21a14Final day to Join Un-Situationship-Able! https://forms.gle/QipcRRr3CC9Js28n6A 5 week live coaching program to help you end the cycle of situationships, let go for good, and attract a man who wants commitment! Read more and register here.Other links:WORKSHOP REPLAY: Am I Settling? You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣)🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃‍♀️Get the Replay Here!Apply to work with Emily 1-1

Have you ever completely missed it when someone lovebombed you? Today, Emily is talking about why this happens & how to catch it in the future!Apply for the Art of Secure DatingGet me free masterclass How to Attract Emotionally Available MenFinal day to Join Un-Situationship-Able! https://forms.gle/QipcRRr3CC9Js28n6A 5 week live coaching program to help you end the cycle of situationships, let go for good, and attract a man who wants commitment! Read more and register here.Other links:WORKSHOP REPLAY: Am I Settling? You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣)🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃‍♀️Get the Replay Here!Apply to work with Emily 1-1

Keep attracting emotionally unavailable men? Here are some common mistakes when it comes to *how* you date that lead to attracting emotionally unavailable men!Ready to Attract Emotionally Available Men? The Art of Secure Dating starts soon! Read more and register here!Final day to Join Un-Situationship-Able! https://forms.gle/QipcRRr3CC9Js28n6A 5 week live coaching program to help you end the cycle of situationships, let go for good, and attract a man who wants commitment! Read more and register here.Other links:WORKSHOP REPLAY: Am I Settling? You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣)🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃‍♀️Get the Replay Here!Apply to work with Emily 1-1

Free Masterclass on How to Attract Emotionally Available MenReady to Attract Emotionally Available Men? The Art of Secure Dating starts soon! Read more and register here!Final day to Join Un-Situationship-Able! https://forms.gle/QipcRRr3CC9Js28n6A 5 week live coaching program to help you end the cycle of situationships, let go for good, and attract a man who wants commitment! Read more and register here.Other links:WORKSHOP REPLAY: Am I Settling? You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣)🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃‍♀️Get the Replay Here!Apply to work with Emily 1-1

You've done therapy or counseling or coaching - you're super self aware...and yet you're still attracting emotionally unavailable men...In this episode Emily unpacks why that is and what the key is to shifting it!Links mentioned in podcast:Free Masterclass: How to Attract Emotionally Available MenRead all the details & register for The Art of Secure DatingFinal day to Join Un-Situationship-Able! https://forms.gle/QipcRRr3CC9Js28n6A 5 week live coaching program to help you end the cycle of situationships, let go for good, and attract a man who wants commitment! Read more and register here.Other links:WORKSHOP REPLAY: Am I Settling? You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣)🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃‍♀️Get the Replay Here!Apply to work with Emily 1-1

Emily and Ana talk about where the good men are and how you can find one in this episode of Becoming Secure!Want to learn to attract an emotionally available man? Come to our free masterclass on May 31st at 2pm US Eastern Time!If you came from Emily's audience, register for the masterclass here.If you found the podcast through Ana, register for the masterclass here.Join the June 2025 cohort of Art of Secure DatingFinal day to Join Un-Situationship-Able! https://forms.gle/QipcRRr3CC9Js28n6A 5 week live coaching program to help you end the cycle of situationships, let go for good, and attract a man who wants commitment! Read more and register here.Other links:WORKSHOP REPLAY: Am I Settling? You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣)🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃‍♀️Get the Replay Here!Apply to work with Emily 1-1

Ready to trust again after being blindsided in the past? To be able to trust healthy love & stop waiting for the other shoe to drop? Emily discusses how to begin that journey in this episode of Becoming Secure!Other links referenced:Listen to Chelsea's Interview on Apple or on Spotify.Single? Apply for the Art of Secure DatingIn a relationship? Apply for Secure in LoveFinal day to Join Un-Situationship-Able! https://forms.gle/QipcRRr3CC9Js28n6A 5 week live coaching program to help you end the cycle of situationships, let go for good, and attract a man who wants commitment! Read more and register here.Other links:WORKSHOP REPLAY: Am I Settling? You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣)🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃‍♀️Get the Replay Here!Apply to work with Emily 1-1

Emily talks about a common mistake she sees clients make on their attachment healing journey.Interested in working with Emily 1-1? Read more and apply below:Secure in LoveAttachment AlchemyFinal day to Join Un-Situationship-Able! https://forms.gle/QipcRRr3CC9Js28n6A 5 week live coaching program to help you end the cycle of situationships, let go for good, and attract a man who wants commitment! Read more and register here.Other links:WORKSHOP REPLAY: Am I Settling? You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣)🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃‍♀️Get the Replay Here!Apply to work with Emily 1-1

In this episode, Emily interviews TASD alumnus Chelsea about her experience dating an emotionally available, commitment-ready man after years of situationships and chasing non-committal guys. We talk about where to find emotionally available men, navigating all the confusing dating advice online, and the challenges of dating as a fearful avoidant attachment style.The Art of Secure Dating Round 2 starts in June. You can read more and access early bird pricing NOW here: The Art of Secure Dating.Final day to Join Un-Situationship-Able! https://forms.gle/QipcRRr3CC9Js28n6A 5 week live coaching program to help you end the cycle of situationships, let go for good, and attract a man who wants commitment! Read more and register here.Other links:WORKSHOP REPLAY: Am I Settling? You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣)🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃‍♀️Get the Replay Here!Apply to work with Emily 1-1

Emily talks about her personal healing journey: from being the runner in relationships to mistakenly thinking she was anxiously attached, why she didn't think she was an FA, becoming securely attached & navigating the complexities of forgiving parents who were neglectful.Download: How to Stop Sabotaging Healthy Love, the free guide Apply for Secure in Love HereFinal day to Join Un-Situationship-Able! https://forms.gle/QipcRRr3CC9Js28n6A 5 week live coaching program to help you end the cycle of situationships, let go for good, and attract a man who wants commitment! Read more and register here.Other links:WORKSHOP REPLAY: Am I Settling? You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣)🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃‍♀️Get the Replay Here!Apply to work with Emily 1-1

Have you ever been dating someone and noticed a red flag or multiple red flags, and yet you kept dating the person? Maybe you thought - or hoped - that it wasn’t really that big of a deal…Or maybe you thought he could work on it, and things could change…At the end of it, those red flags still turned out to be a problem and part of the relationship ending…And maybe you’re left wondering - now that I can see these red flags, why do I keep dating people who have them? We unpack this topic in today's episode!Apply for the Art of Secure Dating here: https://mailchi.mp/6db1e0d8be04/a2ianga5alQuestions? DM Emily or Ana on instagram:@emilyadini@anaevecoachFinal day to Join Un-Situationship-Able! https://forms.gle/QipcRRr3CC9Js28n6A 5 week live coaching program to help you end the cycle of situationships, let go for good, and attract a man who wants commitment! Read more and register here.Other links:WORKSHOP REPLAY: Am I Settling? You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣)🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃‍♀️Get the Replay Here!Apply to work with Emily 1-1

In this episode, Emily covers:How to avoid situationshipsWhy it's hard to let them goCommon beliefs & mistakes that lead to situationshipsSituationships are 100% avoidable! Listen to find out how you can prevent them.Ready to kiss situationships & emotionally unavailable men goodbye for good?You'll learn how to spot red flags, attach more slowly, and attract emotionally available men inside the Art of Secure Dating.Read more and apply here: https://mailchi.mp/6db1e0d8be04/a2ianga5alFinal day to Join Un-Situationship-Able! https://forms.gle/QipcRRr3CC9Js28n6A 5 week live coaching program to help you end the cycle of situationships, let go for good, and attract a man who wants commitment! Read more and register here.Other links:WORKSHOP REPLAY: Am I Settling? You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣)🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃‍♀️Get the Replay Here!Apply to work with Emily 1-1

In this episode, Emily talks about things she did to stop attracting emotionally unavailable men...red flags she stopped overlooking, how she started dating differently, and wounds she healed that helped shift this pattern for good.The Art of Secure Dating is still enrolling into the first week of March. Read more and register here: https://mailchi.mp/6db1e0d8be04/a2ianga5alAccess the free masterclass "How to Attract Emotionally Available Men" here:https://mailchi.mp/4b2891e68114/emotionally-available-men-masterclass-replay-sign-upFinal day to Join Un-Situationship-Able! https://forms.gle/QipcRRr3CC9Js28n6A 5 week live coaching program to help you end the cycle of situationships, let go for good, and attract a man who wants commitment! Read more and register here.Other links:WORKSHOP REPLAY: Am I Settling? You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣)🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃‍♀️Get the Replay Here!Apply to work with Emily 1-1

On this episode of Becoming Secure, I sat down with my client Janet to talk all about:what healthy relationships can really look likethings you don't have to settle for in relationshipsis it a bad idea to date your ex againwhat's helped her become more secureand more!Want to work with Emily 1-1? Apply for Attachment Alchemy today: https://mailchi.mp/de14c807829a/j109p21a14Final day to Join Un-Situationship-Able! https://forms.gle/QipcRRr3CC9Js28n6A 5 week live coaching program to help you end the cycle of situationships, let go for good, and attract a man who wants commitment! Read more and register here.Other links:WORKSHOP REPLAY: Am I Settling? You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣)🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃‍♀️Get the Replay Here!Apply to work with Emily 1-1

In this episode, Emily talks about why you may feel an inexplicable pulls towards certain people, who it ultimately never works out with. These connections can feel intense and special, but is there a deeper reason why that may be? Find out on this episode of Becoming Secure!The Art of Secure Dating is now open for enrollment! Early bird pricing ends February 1st, so don't wait! Read more details and apply here: https://forms.gle/M7Mr9wrm9v4R7Q969Want to chat about the program? DM Emily or Ana on Instagram with any questions you have!Final day to Join Un-Situationship-Able! https://forms.gle/QipcRRr3CC9Js28n6A 5 week live coaching program to help you end the cycle of situationships, let go for good, and attract a man who wants commitment! Read more and register here.Other links:WORKSHOP REPLAY: Am I Settling? You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣)🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃‍♀️Get the Replay Here!Apply to work with Emily 1-1

You've tried to date the nice guys or the boring guys or the guys you don't feel a spark with, but none of those have brought you the type of relationship you want. There's a very good reason for that - these are all band-aid approaches trying to bypass the actual root issue. In this episode, we unpack why these approaches don't work & what to do instead.The Art of Secure Dating is now open for enrollment. You can apply here: https://forms.gle/hPfcUQjyJu8upvPB6Or DM Ana (@anaevecoach) or Emily (@emilyadini) on Instagram if you have any questions or to have a casual chat about whether it's the right fit for you or not!Final day to Join Un-Situationship-Able! https://forms.gle/QipcRRr3CC9Js28n6A 5 week live coaching program to help you end the cycle of situationships, let go for good, and attract a man who wants commitment! Read more and register here.Other links:WORKSHOP REPLAY: Am I Settling? You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣)🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃‍♀️Get the Replay Here!Apply to work with Emily 1-1

On this episode, Emily talks about a particular red flag that often seems like a good thing but is actually a form of control/manipulation - something that is common for anxious attachers to miss! Learn what is it and how to prevent it in this episode!More info & apply for the Art of Secure Dating here: https://forms.gle/gAnHK7ZXcwZFDRVr6Interested in 1-1 work? Attachment Alchemy for singles: https://mailchi.mp/1a521d885a77/j8337mrt2gSecure in Love for those in relationships: https://mailchi.mp/9e28915a6ef0/secure-in-love-application-pageFinal day to Join Un-Situationship-Able! https://forms.gle/QipcRRr3CC9Js28n6A 5 week live coaching program to help you end the cycle of situationships, let go for good, and attract a man who wants commitment! Read more and register here.Other links:WORKSHOP REPLAY: Am I Settling? You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣)🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃‍♀️Get the Replay Here!Apply to work with Emily 1-1

Sometimes attachment wounds can make it challenging to know if it's time to let a relationship go or if you should keep working on things. In this episode, Emily talks about one of the main traps that more anxiously attached individuals fall into that keeps them holding onto incompatible relationships. If you're currently in a relationship and want to feel more secure in yourself, secure in the relationship, and determine if this is the right relationship for you from a ground, not anxious place, then Secure in Love may be a good fit for you! This is for the woman who's got a lot of things going for her - successful in her career, amazing friends - and you're ready to feel as secure in relationships as you do in every other area of your life.Apply Here: https://mailchi.mp/9e28915a6ef0/secure-in-love-application-pageFinal day to Join Un-Situationship-Able! https://forms.gle/QipcRRr3CC9Js28n6A 5 week live coaching program to help you end the cycle of situationships, let go for good, and attract a man who wants commitment! Read more and register here.Other links:WORKSHOP REPLAY: Am I Settling? You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣)🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃‍♀️Get the Replay Here!Apply to work with Emily 1-1

In this episode, Emily unpacks:What is the ick? Why do you get it with healthy people? And what to do when you get the ick!Secure in Love is currently accepting applications: https://mailchi.mp/9e28915a6ef0/secure-in-love-application-pageFinal day to Join Un-Situationship-Able! https://forms.gle/QipcRRr3CC9Js28n6A 5 week live coaching program to help you end the cycle of situationships, let go for good, and attract a man who wants commitment! Read more and register here.Other links:WORKSHOP REPLAY: Am I Settling? You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣)🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃‍♀️Get the Replay Here!Apply to work with Emily 1-1

If you're wondering, "Why do healthy guys feel boring?" and "Will they always feel this way?" then you need to listen to this episode!It's so common with anxious attachment, disorganized, or avoidant attachment styles to feel like secure relationships or men feel "boring," but it doesn't have to be this way forever!Emily breaks down why the chemistry feels so "good" with toxic guys but so "meh" with healthy guys & what you can do to actually feel more attracted to healthier men.Curious about Emily's new 1-1 program, Secure in Love?Find out more and apply here: https://mailchi.mp/9e28915a6ef0/secure-in-love-application-pageFinal day to Join Un-Situationship-Able! https://forms.gle/QipcRRr3CC9Js28n6A 5 week live coaching program to help you end the cycle of situationships, let go for good, and attract a man who wants commitment! Read more and register here.Other links:WORKSHOP REPLAY: Am I Settling? You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣)🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃‍♀️Get the Replay Here!Apply to work with Emily 1-1

Welcome to Season 1 of Becoming Secure! We're talking all about relationship anxiety! You've found an amazing guy who's emotionally available & checks your boxes and yet...you're pushing away, resisting or sabotaging the healthy relationship you've worked so hard to find! In this episode we talk about why those avoidant tendencies may be coming up now that you've found a healthy man.Access the Secure in Love free masterclass here: https://mailchi.mp/86e58a751232/secure-in-love-masterclass-replayFinal day to Join Un-Situationship-Able! https://forms.gle/QipcRRr3CC9Js28n6A 5 week live coaching program to help you end the cycle of situationships, let go for good, and attract a man who wants commitment! Read more and register here.Other links:WORKSHOP REPLAY: Am I Settling? You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣)🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃‍♀️Get the Replay Here!Apply to work with Emily 1-1