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All Episodes

Becoming Secure — 42 episodes

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Title
1

Do men actually want commitment?

2

How to Get Over Your Situationship - for good!

3

[Situationships] My 5 dating non-negotiables to avoid situationships

4

[Situationships] I told him I wanted a relationship, so why did nothing change?

5

[Situationships] Why are situationships such a mindf*ck?!

6

The #1 thing keeping you from healthy love

7

Should you date a guy who’s not *technically* divorced yet?

8

Are you asking for too much? Or settling for too little?

9

Dating Mistakes Anxious Attachers Make w/ Guest Valerie Rubin

10

Sh*t Women Say to Justify Red Flags

11

Frustrated that he wasted your time?

12

Subtle Ways You Self Abandon in Dating

13

How to Stop Attaching So Quickly

14

Your anxiety isn't the problem! (How to Love Your Anxiety)

15

How to tell if it's your anxiety or your intuition

16

How to stop feeling insecure around guys you like

17

What to do when he moves on quickly

18

Why your friendships are unreciprocated

19

How to ask "what are you looking for" without sounding too intense

20

Why wouldn't he fight for the relationship? (dismissive avoidants)

21

Rachel's Story [1-1 Client Interview]

22

How to Let Go of Someone Who's Almost the One

23

Why You Miss Lovebombing

24

Are You Vetting Wrong? 4 Mistakes That Keep You Attracting Unavailable Men

25

Why Finding Emotionally Available Men Is NOT a Numbers Game

26

Why You're Self Aware But Still Attract Emotionally Unavailable Men

27

Where Are All the Good Men?

28

How to Trust Again After Being Blindsided

29

Don't Make This Mistake When Moving Towards Secure

30

Chelsea's Art of Secure Dating Success Story!

31

My Story from Fearful Avoidant to Secure

32

How to Stop Ignoring Red Flags

33

How to Avoid Situationships

34

How to stop attracting guys who pull away suddenly

35

What does healthy love really look like? (Interview with my client, Janet)

36

Why your connection with him feels so "special"

37

Why you're not attracted to healthy men (and how to change that)

38

Don't Miss This Sneaky Red Flag

39

Relationship Anxiety: When is it time to end the relationship? (Client story)

40

Relationship Anxiety: What to do when you get the ick

41

Relationship Anxiety: Will healthy guys always feel boring?

42

Relationship Anxiety: Why am I now avoidant in a healthy relationship?