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Before You Do with Verlyn
by Verlyn Tarlton
Welcome to the Before You Do Podcast! Each week, join Verlyn Tarlton as we have real conversations about issues, we don't typically talk about that will better prepare women for the complex realities of marriage before saying "I Do". The goal is to prepare one million women to be and stay happily married. Subscribe to hear more. May you experience extraordinary love.(C) 2024 Verlyn Tarlton. ALL RIGHTS RESERVEDwww.verlyntarlton.com
Episodes
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What's Love Got to Do with It? Season4 Episode #10
Most marriages die not from a lack of love, but from neglecting the marathon's unspoken rules. What if the secret to lasting love isn’t just about romance, but preparation for the unexpected? Kyle Colavitti, a seasoned storyteller and speaker, reveals the essential questions every person should…
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Is Marriage Dead for Us? Season 4 Episode #9
Most women and parents overlook thesilent crisis impacting our community’s future: our marriage rates are plummeting, and it's shaping a generation that’s disconnected from the importance of family. Why are so many of our daughters influenced by a narrative that undervalues marriage — and how can...
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Bring Back Shame Season 4 Episode #8
Our culture has lost sight of the power of shame — and the consequences are clear. In this provocative episode of Before You Do w/Verlyn, Coach Verlyn makes a compelling case for bringing shame back, not as guilt, but as a vital force to restore dignity, virtue, and community values. Growing up…
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Submission: Truth Exposed Season 4 Episode # 7
Most women miss the secret to truly empowering their relationships — and it’s all wrapped up in a misunderstood word: submission. What if understanding this simple concept could unlock the peace, protection, and partnership you've been craving? Verlyn Tarlton, your favorite premarital coach and...
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Most Women Overlook This Season 4 Episode #6
Most people overlook the real test of a relationship — how your partner responds when life doesn’t go according to plan. In this eye-opening episode, Verlyn Tarlton shares profoundinsights from her personal health challenge, revealing what truly defines a partner’s character beyond the honeymoon...
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Why Is Submission a Battle? Season 4 Episode #5
Unlock the truth about submission that could transform your marriage or relationships today. Why do so many women struggle with the concept, and what do you really need to know to navigate it successfully? If you've ever felt confused, overwhelmed, or evenresistant to the idea of submitting to a...
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Do You Really Want This? Season 4 Episode #4
Most women underestimate the profound impact their habits and mindset have on attracting and sustaining a healthy marriage. Viair Myles shares empowering, practical strategies that transform your focus from self-improvement to becoming the partner your spouse—and you—deserve. In this eye-opening...
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Rethinking Arranged Marriages Season 4 Episode #3
In this episode of "Before You Do w/Verlyn," Verlyn is joined by Dean and Tiffany Parker to explore the multifaceted nature of marriage. They discuss how treating marriage as purely romantic overlooks its biological and economic intentions. The conversation delves into the importance of…
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Mismanaged Access Denied! Season 4 Episode #2
In this conversation, Coach Verlyn Tarlton and Dr. Joyice Robinson Myers discuss the critical importance of understanding boundaries and access in marriage. Theyexplore how managing access before marriage can prevent issues later on, emphasizing the difference between social and emotional misuse....
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Forget the Fairy Tale Ladies! Season 4 Episode #1
In this episode of "Before You Do w/Verlyn," Verlyn Tarlton delves into the realities of marriage beyond the wedding day. Celebrating 19 years of marriage, Verlyn shares insights on the effort, patience, and intention required to build a lasting partnership. She challenges the fairy tale mindset,...
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What's the Real Agenda? Season 3 Episode #12
In this episode, Verlyn Tarlton delves into the real agenda behind media narratives, exploring the dynamics of gender wars and societal perceptions. She shares her insights onhow media influence shapes public opinion and the importance of accountability and positivity in addressing these issues....
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Appearance Attitude and Chivalry Season 3 Episode #11
In this conversation, Verlyn Tarlton shares her insights on love, relationships, and self-improvement. She reflectson a recent concert experience that highlighted the beauty of love in the city and emphasizes the importance of maintaining a positive mindset. Verlyn encourages listeners to work on...
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Marriage Takes A Village Season 3 Episode #10
Do you have the proper support you need? Does your world revolve around your spouse? In this enlightening conversation, Verlyn Tarlton and Lisa Chin explore the complexities of marriage, emphasizing that it involves more than just two individuals. They discuss the importance of understanding...
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Who Checks the Ex? Season 3 Episode #9
In this insightful episode of "Before You Do w/Verlyn," host Verlyn Tarlton delves into the complexities of blended families and the crucial role of setting boundaries with ex-partners. Discover why it's essential for the current partner to address issues with the ex, and how establishing clear...
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Dating and Marriage Dilemmas Season 3 Episode #8
In this engaging episode of "Before You Do with Verlyn," host Verlyn Tarlton welcomes back her favorite couple, Byron and Margaret McKie, to discuss the intricacies of relationships and marriage. They delve into the challenges of modern dating, the importance of self-healing, and the evolving...
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Season 3 Episode # 7 High Value Myths
In this thought-provoking episode of "Before You Do with Verlyn," host Verlyn Tarlton and guest Amani Jackson dive deep into the concept of "high value" in relationships. They explore the subjective nature of value, challenging superficial standards and emphasizing the importance of character,...
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The BIG Reveal of Myself
In this insightful episode of "Before You Do with Verlyn," host Verlyn Tarlton welcomes Jatoyia Armour to discuss the profound journey of self-discovery within marriage. Jatoyia shares her personal experiences on how marriagerevealed her strengths and the importance of nurturing oneself alongside...
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Is Femininity Gone Forever?
Join host Verlyn Tarlton in this engaging episode of "Before You Do" as she explores the essence of femininity and the importance of embracing the qualities that define being a lady. Through personal stories and cultural insights, Verlyn discusses how societal changes have influenced women's…
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Relationship Expectations vs Reality
In this candid conversation on the Before You Do with Verlyn podcast, Gerald Davis shares his insights on the modern dating landscape, particularly focusing on the challenges posed by social media and the pre-application process that many face in dating today. He discusses how these factors...
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Stop Expecting Men to Act Like Women
Do you believe your man should think like you? Are you surprised when he doesn't act like you? The conversation explores the dynamics of communication in marriage, focusing on gender differences in problem-solving approaches, the importance of emotional support, and strategies for effective...
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Season 3 Episode #2 Is Polygyny an Option? Pt 2
In this episode of "Before You Do with Verlyn," host Verlyn Tarlton delves into the complexities and insights of polygyny with guests Iyyob and Rebkah Yahudah. They explore the purpose and vision behind polygyny, addressing common misconceptions and emphasizing the importance of integrity, unity,...
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Season 3 Episode #1 How to Stop Debating with Men
Join Verlyn, your favorite pre-marital coach, as she discusses how to stop debating with men using the art of effective listening and conflict resolution in relationships. Verlyn shares personal experiences and practical insights on how to bridge the communication gap, manage conflict, and...
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Brief Clip "I Am Not Your Enemy"
This is a brief clip about "I am not your enemy. Full episode coming soon. https://verlyntarlton.com
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Season 2 Episode # 37 Forgiveness and Offenses
In this heartfelt episode of the "Before You Do with Verlyn" podcast, host Verlyn Tarlton welcomes Jocelyn McClure to explore the profound role of forgiveness in marriage. Jocelyn shares personal insights and practical advice on how to navigate offenses, emphasizing the importance of...
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Season 2 Episode #36 Where Is Big Mama or Auntie?
In this episode of the "Before You Do" podcast, host Verlyn Tarlton delves into the essential topic of how to treat a man, emphasizing that the journey begins long before marriage. Verlyn shares personal insights and experiences, highlighting the importance of mindset and the role of community...
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Season 2 Episode #35 Family Don't Lie!
In this insightful episode of "Before You Do with Verlyn" podcast, host Verlyn Tarlton and guest Elmira Lofton delve into the importance of understanding family dynamics before tying the knot. Elmira shares her personal experiences and wisdom on how family influences can shape a partner's…
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Season 2 Episode # 34 Is Submission Inferiority?
In this insightful episode of the Before You Do podcast, host Verlyn Tarlton and guest Amani Jackson delve into the intricate dynamics of trust and cooperation within marriage. They explore the often-misunderstood concept of submission, reframing it as a form of partnership and mutual support....
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Season 2 Episode #33 Is Polygyny an Option?
In this episode of the "Before You Do Podcast" host Verlyn Tarlton sits down with Princess Rebkah Yahudah to explore the complex and often misunderstood topic of polygyny. They delve into it's cultural significance, historical context, and potential benefits in modern society. Princess Rebkah...
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Season 2 Episode # 32 Does Money and Marriage Matter? Pt 2
Are you having those important conversations about money? Does having money conversations make you uncomfortable? Do you know your partners money story? Listen in as we dive into this very important conversation. Christiane David, a financial expert, breaks down the significance of money…
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Season 2 Episode # 31 Are You A Woman First?
Too often we don't know who we are at our core. Do you know who you are as a woman? Are you taking time to become HER first? Have you realized all of who you are? Make sure you're a woman first before becoming a wife. Listen closely as we delve into this topic that's not talked about enough.…
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Season 2 Episode #30 How Does Your Man Handle Conflict?
Have you seen him when he's angry? Do you know how he responds when he can't have his way? How your man handles conflict is important and you need to see it before you say I do. Thank you for listening, subscribing, and sharing. I appreciate each and every one of you. Leave your comment or...
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Season 2 Episode # 29 Are You Ready to Heal?
Are you healing before going into the next relationship? Is hurt still in your heart? Do you recognize your triggers? Are you over your ex? Michelle has a message for your healing. Everything she says is spot on!! Thank you for joining the conversation. Leave your comment, question, or topic...
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Season 2 Episode #28 Do You Know What You Want?
Are you confused about what you really want? Have you sat down to think things through concerning your future spouse and what you want from him or her? Tune in as we delve into this to get the answers you need. Marriage, just like a business, is serious business. Time to get to it. Thank you for...
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Season 2 Episode #19 (Retake) Does Compatibility Really Matter?
Do you know how many people get married just to find out they are not so compatible? Listen in as we chat about what to look for and how to navigate this part of the relationship. You'll be glad you did! Thank you in advance for liking,sharing,and subscribing. I appreciate each and every one of...
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Season 2 Episode # 27 What About the Ceremony?
Let's take a dive into this conversation with Amanda the wedding officiant. Would you want to write your own wedding vows? Do you want a traditional ceremony? Have you talked with your future spouse about what you really want? Amanda shares her experience with over 200 weddings and some sage...
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Season 2 Episode #26 What's Going on with Marriage?
Is marriage a relic of the past? Have you given up on love? Why is marriage being discouraged? Listen to the statistics in this episode and then ask yourself some questions. This episode is short but epic in thought. Join the conversation. Share with a friend. Post your comments and opinions. I'm...
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Season 2 Episode #25 Does Money Matter? Pt 1
Does your mate know your money story? Do you know your mate's money story? Should money be a part of your dating conversation? These and many more questions will be answered in this chat. Christiane David has a lot to say about money and marriage. Join the conversation and be sure to share with a...
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Season 2 Episode #24 Is This the Day?
Are you stuck in the future and NOT living in today? Do you struggle with focusing on "this day"? Are you anxious about getting married? If you answered yes to any of these questions, this episode is for you. Coach Renee is sharing how to live in joy today while still planning for tomorrow. Join...
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Season 2 Episode #23 Can You Reclaim Class, Dignity, and Elegance?
Are you aware of your presentation and what it says about you? Did you know your vibe attracts the men in your life? Listen as we delve into what it is to have class, dignity, and elegance again. These are things to know before you say "I do." Thank you for joining the conversation and telling a...
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Season 2 Episode #22 Is Friendship Really Important?
Join this phenomenal conversation with Mrs. Margaret McKie and Mr. Byron McKie from the Beyond I Do Podcast as they drop some serious gems and break it all the way down. This was our first time having a couple on the show and I am beyond thrilled with this episode. Make sure to share with a…
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Season 2 Episode # 21 Have no expectations? What?
Join the conversation as we delve into what it means to have "no expectations". It's not what you think. Mrs. Jackie Jones breaks it down. Thank you for listening, liking, sharing, and subscribing. I appreciate each and every one of you. Leave your comments or questions below. To reach Mrs.…
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Season 2 Episode #20 What are transitional phases?
Join me as we discuss the different transitional phases of relationships. First there's the courtship phase, next the honeymoon phase, and then the marriage phase. Prepare yourself to face them all. Please remember to like, share, and subscribe. Leave your comment or your question. Thank you for...
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Season 2 Episode #18 Generational Curses/Blessings or Both?
Do you recognize generational blessings or curses? Join Amani Jackson as she spreads light on this much needed subject matter. Who you attach yourself with is crucial. Thank you for listening, liking, sharing, and subscribing. I appreciate each and every one of you. You can find Amani at:...
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Season 2 Episode #17 Are You Ready for a Blended Family?
Do his children respect him? Does he respect his ex? Do they respect each other? Have you considered the effort that will go into blending a family? Creating a blended family, while it can be done, will most definitely require lots of thought and consideration beforehand. Listen carefully and…
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Season 2 Episode #16 What Does Gratitude Really Do?
Does gratitude make a difference in marriage? Listen as Chanelle Carlin breaks this down. Gratitude starts in small everyday ways and helps prevent complacency. Thank you for watching, liking, sharing, and subscribing. Leave your comment or question below. To connect with Chanelle and learn more...
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Season 2 Episode #15 Who Are You and What Do You Want?
This episode is packed with great conversation! Listen as Tasha shares her experience of how she opened up her life to new things. Thank you for listening, sharing, and subscribing! Leave your comment or question below. To see more of Tasha Johnson go to: Instagram @tishtash2.0 You may visit me…
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Seasons 2 Episode #14 Did you know marriage has seasons?
Did you know your marriage will go through seasons just like the seasons in nature? Join the chat with me and Mrs. Tee as we discuss how to pivot through the seasons. Thank you in advance for liking, sharing, and subscribing. Leave a comment or question below. To contact Mrs. Tee Way email her…
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Season 2 Episode # 13 Prenup or Not?
Do you really know what a prenuptial agreement is? Join this conversation to find out more, you might be surprised. Samantha Granderson, Esq drops the gems, take a listen. Thank you in advance for liking, sharing, and subscribing. We appreciate each and every one of you. Remember to leave a…
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Season 2 Episode #12 Can You Sit in Silence?
Sitting in silence can be life changing. Do you ever sit in silence and just listen? Join the conversation as we chat about it. Thank you for liking, sharing, and subscribing. Join us next week with Samantha Hailey-Granderson, Esq. For details on the Sacred Oasis Silent Retreat coming in the…
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Season 2 Episode #11 Do You Deflect, Defend, or Deny?
Is deflecting, defending, or denying your go to during confrontations? Join the conversation as we delve into this before you say, "I do". Thank you for sharing, subscribing, and liking! www.verlyntarlton.com May you experience extraordinary love...
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
Welcome to the Before You Do Podcast! Each week, join Verlyn Tarlton as we have real conversations about issues, we don't typically talk about that will better prepare women for the complex realities of marriage before saying "I Do". The goal is to prepare one million women to be and stay happily married. Subscribe to hear more. May you experience extraordinary love.(C) 2024 Verlyn Tarlton. ALL RIGHTS RESERVEDwww.verlyntarlton.com
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Welcome to the Before You Do Podcast! Each week, join Verlyn Tarlton as we have real conversations about issues, we don't typically talk about that will better prepare women for the complex realities of marriage before saying "I Do". The goal is to prepare one million women to be and stay happily...
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