Bemeisfightinganxiety

We have closed on our $350,000 home. It took a lot of prayer, consistency, hard work, dedication and effort. Our Realtor Joye Martin is the goat 🐐 for real. We built our home in 1 year and the experience was something that I will remember for the rest of my life. 4/1/22 we became HOMEOWNERS “We did it Joe”

Welcome back guys & gals! I catch you up on my busy life, Christmas Eve, New Years Eve, birthday celebrations, school life, Interning with Shelby County Schools Mental Health Center, completing an investment property, Covid-19 😷 & a snippet of how I deal with Coparenting! Don’t judge me

Changing your Norms may change your life. Take a risk, and learn something NEW!

We must learn to accept compliments, acknowledgment and any other form of praise!! Recognize that others can see things that you don’t see. A simple “Thank you” can ease your awkward feeling of unworthiness & give you a sense of comfort in knowing that you are what they see!!

We label others all the time. It helps us to compartmentalize situations and behaviors. Often, we're actually communicating something about ourselves by saying, "I'm not that." However, the fact that we label people by their behavior and characteristics can end up limiting our curiosity about a person.

Sometimes you must remind yourself that you are Killin the game, you have weathered so many storms & yet you are still standing!! Baby, this is what the “Full package” looks like!! Brag on yourself a little bit👏👏👏

Boys have feelings too, & they should be able to express them without being told to “Toughen up or being called SOFT” featuring Robert Melvin (Our Middle son)

As I continue on with this journey, I want to let my listeners know it is ok to set boundaries. You must protect your peace, let people know that they can not run over you or mistreat your. You will not allow it. We are all adults and respecting others, their space and time is how we establish those boundaries. Special guest/Lawrence B. (Our oldest)

The word for the day is Resilience. When you are resilient you are able to withstand adversity and bounce back and grow despite life’s challenges. A quote is used by Maya Angelou & it reads “I can be changed by what happens to me, But I refuse to be reduced by it.” This one is in honor of Black History Month

Full description of several events that happened in 2020. Graduation, Election 🗳 Therapy Sessions, Thanksgiving and Christmas...and Upcoming surgery Catch us in 2021 thanks for the continued support 🙏

I speak on how this Pandemic is affecting myself and my family, we talk about homeschooling, fighting through Postpartum depression, & just staying focused as a woman, Wife and Mother!! Welcome back 🙏🙌🏾

Part 1. Was good but Part 2. The final episode closes out the season. Taking on other people’s problems.....looking at it from a different standpoint

This can affect your mental as well as give you anxiety and depressive thoughts, and it’s not even your problem to begin with. Sometimes you have to use reverse psychology and put the focus back on you. It’s not being selfish but it’s being SMART!!! Take heed people

Let’s slow down, and Pace yourself. Remember slow progress & a plan builds longevity!!

Today we interview my boys Lawrence & Robert, & we discuss signs in children that you may have missed or not recognized.

Why say “Yes when you really want to say No” stop people pleasing, it only gets you frustrated and stressed out!!

I share with you’ll some struggles I’ve had over the years, and where it led me. I’m not proud of these things, but I will say they were life lessons that I had to get through. No one’s perfect

I give you a few quotes from REAL TALK KIM, MARY MARY & SISTER MARY CLARENCE FROM SISTER ACT 2!!!

We go into detail of signs & symptoms of Generalized Anxiety Disorder and fighting through it by educating others!!!

We discuss being left out of certain situations & the word “FAKE” and how it’s used!!!

Encouragement

I interview my best friend Kayla Davidson, we get real detailed and she doesn’t hold back!!!

The number “2” was reassurance for me to keep going, and to keep doing what I love. Don’t be anxious, be patient and in due time God will reveal his plans for my life!!! Patience is key 🔑

Sirderrick speaks from a man’s point of view!!! It’s ok to be vulnerable and to want to be asked “Are you ok.” Society teaches our men of color to keep everything bottled in, & that’s when they lose it. Let it out please!!!

These two ladies, give their opinions on Mental Health. One is a single lady, with no children & the other is a Stay at home Mom who is Married with 5 children!!!

I give you a snippet of my life, & where my anxiety stemmed from.

Today I interviewed my cousin Whitney, she did not hold back. She put it all out there, maybe this can help someone that may be going through what we discussed. God Bless

We need more like her!!! Thank you for being enthusiastic 🌺

I believe I truly inherited anxiety from her, but the difference between her and I is, I don’t let it define me!!! I speak positively and I get along with pretty much everybody. My mom has times were she feels like people are against her, and she always thinks people are gossiping about her. It is a mind thing, as you can tell, we’re more like Best Friends instead of Mother and daughter. She has always looked for my support and truth be told I’ve kept her going for so long when she was down at her worst. That’s my mother y’all, and I will always have her back!!! A mother’s love can’t be touched....it’s unconditional.

She’s responding open heartedly, no judgment over here!!! Just prayers and virtual hugs and love ❤️ Thank you for your realness. May God continue to keep you, and always remember you are never alone. God Bless!!

She explains how she feels about the topic!!!

I need to know if this could be something real or is this just an illusion in my head? Bemeisfightinganxiety-Let’s Get it✝️💯