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Beyond Obedience | Dog Training, Dog Behaviour Training, Scared Dogs, Reactive Dogs

Do you long to have a happy, confident dog you can take anywhere?Are you worried your reactive, fearful dog may hurt someone or something else?Do you have to “prepare” yourself to take your dog for a walk around the block?Hey there! I’m Tracy, a retired vet tech turned dog trainer, mom, wife and all-around dog lover. When I realized the key to building confidence in my dog was in understanding him and NOT just tossing treats and obedience my life changed! Now I have a pack of “just good dogs” I trust to take anywhere. And I am sharing it all here! So put down that leash & let's get to it!

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    221 | Why Obedience Isn't Building The Relationship You Want

    Hey Dog Lover 🐾Have you ever looked at your dog and thought:"They know all of this... so why does it still feel like we're disconnected?"Does your dog listen perfectly in some situations but completely forget you exist when life gets interesting?Have you ever wondered why obedience doesn't always create the relationship you're hoping for?In this episode, we're exploring one of the biggest misconceptions in the dog world:The idea that obedience and connection are the same thing.Because while obedience is a skill, leadership is a relationship.And those two things aren't always built the same way.We'll talk about:🐾 Why obedience and connection are not the same thing🐾 The difference between compliance and relationship🐾 Why some dogs obey everyone🐾 What obedience can teach us—and what it can't🐾 Why leadership isn't about control🐾 How trust and relevance influence your dog's choicesWe'll also explore:trustleadershiprelevancecommunicationpartnershipconnectionand why a dog can know every cue in the world and still struggle to look to you when life gets hard.Because obedience may teach a behaviour.But relationship is what makes your dog want to stay connected when it matters most.And that is where true leadership begins.Hope you enjoy this one!Tracy xoxoxRESOURCES🐾 Join the Online Program Fearless Framework!⁠⁠https://beyondobedience.ca/fearless⁠⁠🐾 Take the quiz!⁠⁠https://www.beyondobedience.ca/quiz⁠⁠🐾 Read the blog!⁠⁠https://beyondobedience.ca/blog⁠⁠CONNECT WITH ME!Contact → ⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠Podcast → ⁠⁠https://beyondobedience.ca/podcast⁠⁠Connect → ⁠⁠https://facebook.com/groups/LivingBeyondObedience⁠⁠Resources → ⁠⁠https://www.beyondobedience.ca/quiz⁠⁠Merch → ⁠⁠https://www.beyondobedience.ca/store⁠⁠🐾 NEXT STEPS 👣Step 1: Join a supportive community of dog owners learning how to build trust, clarity, and healthier partnerships with their dogs inside the free Facebook group Living Beyond Obedience.Step 2: Take the Dogonality Quiz to better understand how your dog naturally responds to stress, pressure, and relationship dynamics.👉 ⁠⁠https://www.beyondobedience.ca/quiz⁠⁠Step 3: Learn how to navigate fearful, reactive, and emotionally complex behaviour with more confidence and clarity inside The Fearless Framework.👉 ⁠⁠https://beyondobedience.ca/fearless⁠⁠Music Credit 🎶: Shawn Trotter⁠⁠www.shawntrotter.com⁠⁠

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    220 | Why Did I Get This Dog? The Thought Nobody Wants to Admit

    Hey Dog Lover 🐾Have you ever looked at your dog and thought:"Why did I get this dog?"Have you ever felt guilty for even having that thought?Do you sometimes wonder if you're the problem... if you're failing... or if you've simply taken on more than you can handle?In this episode, we're talking about one of the most common thoughts struggling dog owners have—and one of the least talked about.Because when you're living with a fearful dog, a reactive dog, or a dog that constantly keeps you on edge, it's easy to start questioning everything.Your decisions.Your abilities.Your relationship.And even yourself.We'll talk about:🐾 Why so many dog owners secretly regret their decision at some point🐾 The emotional weight of constantly managing your dog's behaviour🐾 Hypervigilance and the feeling that one mistake could ruin everything🐾 Why overwhelm is not the same thing as failure🐾 The difference between being stuck and being hopeless🐾 How to find your way back to the good momentsWe'll also explore:trustleadershippartnershipanxietyhypervigilanceresilienceand why the thought:"Why did I get this dog?"is often hiding a much deeper question underneath:"I don't know if I can carry all of this anymore."Because the reality is, most people don't keep going because everything is terrible.They keep going because there is still so much good.The quiet moments.The funny moments.The moments where it's just you and your dog and everything else fades away.And sometimes, that's enough to remind us why we started.Hope you enjoy this one!Tracy xoxoxRESOURCES🐾 Join the Online Program Fearless Framework!⁠https://beyondobedience.ca/fearless⁠🐾 Take the quiz!⁠https://www.beyondobedience.ca/quiz⁠🐾 Read the blog!⁠https://beyondobedience.ca/blog⁠CONNECT WITH ME!Contact → ⁠[email protected]⁠Podcast → ⁠https://beyondobedience.ca/podcast⁠Connect → ⁠https://facebook.com/groups/LivingBeyondObedience⁠Resources → ⁠https://www.beyondobedience.ca/quiz⁠Merch → ⁠https://www.beyondobedience.ca/store⁠🐾 NEXT STEPS 👣Step 1: Join a supportive community of dog owners learning how to build trust, clarity, and healthier partnerships with their dogs inside the free Facebook group Living Beyond Obedience.Step 2: Take the Dogonality Quiz to better understand how your dog naturally responds to stress, pressure, and relationship dynamics.👉 ⁠https://www.beyondobedience.ca/quiz⁠Step 3: Learn how to navigate fearful, reactive, and emotionally complex behaviour with more confidence and clarity inside The Fearless Framework.👉 ⁠https://beyondobedience.ca/fearless⁠Music Credit 🎶: Shawn Trotter⁠www.shawntrotter.com⁠

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    219 | The Pack of Two: The Relationship Your Dog Actually Wants

    Hey Dog Lover 🐾Have you ever worried that your dog doesn't have enough dog friends?Do you feel guilty when your dog isn't interested in greeting every person or playing with every dog they meet?Have you ever wondered if we've misunderstood what socialization is really supposed to accomplish?In this episode, we're exploring a simple but powerful idea:The Pack of Two.Because humans and dogs experience relationships very differently.As humans, we spend a lot of time thinking about belonging, fitting in, and being accepted by the larger group.Dogs?Not so much.While dogs absolutely need social connection, many dogs are far more concerned with the quality of their relationships than the quantity of them.We'll talk about:🐾 Why humans and dogs experience social relationships differently🐾 The surprising reason your dog doesn't care what everyone thinks🐾 Why socialization isn't the same as social interaction🐾 The myth that every dog should love everybody🐾 How trust and partnership help dogs navigate the world🐾 Why some dogs need deeper relationships, not more relationshipsWe'll also explore:trustleadershipconnectionsocializationpartnershipand why the strongest relationship in your dog's life might be the one they're building with you.Because the goal has never been to create a dog who wants to be friends with everyone.The goal is to create a dog who can move through the world with confidence.And for many dogs, that confidence starts with a strong pack of two.Hope you enjoy this one!Tracy xoxoxResourcesFearless Framework Online Program for Dog Lovers🐾 ⁠⁠https://beyondobedience.ca/fearless⁠⁠Why Does My Dog Act Like This? Take the quiz!🐾 ⁠⁠www.beyondobedience.ca/quiz⁠⁠Check out the Beyond Obedience Blog🐾 ⁠⁠https://beyondobedience.ca/blog⁠⁠Connect with Me!Contact -> ⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠Podcast -> ⁠⁠https://beyondobedience.ca/podcast⁠⁠Connect -> ⁠⁠https://facebook.com/groups/LivingBeyondObedience⁠⁠Resources -> ⁠www.beyondobedience.ca/quiz⁠Merch -> Get your Beyond Obedience merch! ⁠⁠www.beyondobedience.ca/store⁠⁠🐾 Next Steps 👣Step 1: Join a supportive community of dog owners learning how to build trust, clarity, and healthier partnerships with their dogs inside the free Facebook group ⁠⁠Living Beyond Obedience⁠⁠Step 2: Take the Dogonality Quiz to better understand how your dog naturally responds to stress, pressure, and relationship dynamics👉 ⁠⁠www.beyondobedience.ca/quiz⁠⁠Step 3: Learn how to navigate fearful, reactive, and emotionally complex behaviour with more confidence and clarity inside The Fearless Framework👉 ⁠⁠https://beyondobedience.ca/fearless⁠⁠Music Credit 🎶: Shawn Trotter.⁠⁠www.shawntrotter.com⁠⁠

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    218 | My Dog Knows Better Than This: The Dog Training Trap Nobody Talks About

    Hey Dog Lover 🐾Have you ever found yourself saying:"But my dog knows this."Do you feel frustrated when your dog suddenly struggles with something they've done successfully dozens of times before?Have you ever wondered if your dog is really choosing not to listen... or if something else might be going on?In this episode, we're exploring one of the most common phrases in dog training:"My dog should know better."But what if that's the wrong question?Because knowing something and being able to do it are not always the same thing.Just because your dog has learned a skill doesn't mean they'll always be able to access it when they're stressed, excited, overwhelmed, uncertain, or distracted.We'll talk about:🐾 Why knowing and doing are two very different things🐾 How stress, pressure, and emotions impact performance🐾 Why dogs don't simply "forget" their training🐾 What I observed with Gunther at the WCERA Games🐾 Why mistakes and setbacks are valuable information🐾 How curiosity creates better solutions than judgmentWe'll also explore:trustunderstandingawarenessemotional capacityproblem-solvingand why asking "What changed?" is often more helpful than saying "My dog should know better."Because the moment we assume our dogs are being stubborn, difficult, or choosing to ignore us, we stop being curious.And curiosity is often where understanding begins.The goal isn't to prove your dog knows better.The goal is to understand why they couldn't access what they knew in that moment.And that's often where real progress starts.Hope you enjoy this one!Tracy xoxoxResourcesFearless Framework Online Program for Dog Lovers🐾 ⁠⁠https://beyondobedience.ca/fearless⁠⁠Why Does My Dog Act Like This? Take the quiz!🐾 ⁠⁠www.beyondobedience.ca/quiz⁠⁠Check out the Beyond Obedience Blog🐾 ⁠⁠https://beyondobedience.ca/blog⁠⁠Connect with Me!Contact -> ⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠Podcast -> ⁠⁠https://beyondobedience.ca/podcast⁠⁠Connect -> ⁠⁠https://facebook.com/groups/LivingBeyondObedience⁠⁠Resources -> ⁠www.beyondobedience.ca/quiz⁠Merch -> Get your Beyond Obedience merch! ⁠⁠www.beyondobedience.ca/store⁠⁠🐾 Next Steps 👣Step 1: Join a supportive community of dog owners learning how to build trust, clarity, and healthier partnerships with their dogs inside the free Facebook group ⁠⁠Living Beyond Obedience⁠⁠Step 2: Take the Dogonality Quiz to better understand how your dog naturally responds to stress, pressure, and relationship dynamics👉 ⁠⁠www.beyondobedience.ca/quiz⁠⁠Step 3: Learn how to navigate fearful, reactive, and emotionally complex behaviour with more confidence and clarity inside The Fearless Framework👉 ⁠⁠https://beyondobedience.ca/fearless⁠⁠Music Credit 🎶: Shawn Trotter.⁠⁠www.shawntrotter.com⁠⁠

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    217 | The Real Reason Your Dog Only Listens When You Have Treats

    Hey Dog Lover 🐾Does your dog seem to listen perfectly when you have treats... but completely forget everything the moment the food disappears?Have you ever wondered if your dog is only listening because of the treats?Have you been told that using food creates bribery, dependence, or a dog that won't work without rewards?In this episode, we're tackling one of the biggest debates in the dog training world:Food.But what if food isn't actually the problem?What if the real issue has nothing to do with treats at all?We'll explore why dogs make the choices they do, what food is really doing in the learning process, and why so many people end up focusing on the wrong thing.Because this conversation isn't really about food.It's about relationship.It's about relevance.And it's about understanding why your dog chooses to stay connected to you in the first place.We'll talk about:🐾 Why food gets blamed for things it didn't create🐾 The difference between bribery and communication🐾 Why dogs are always making choices🐾 The trap of trying to out-squirrel the squirrel🐾 What food is actually doing during training🐾 Why relevance matters more than rewardsWe'll also explore:trustconnectionfulfillmentinfluenceleadershipand why the strongest relationships aren't built on transactions.Because one day the treats won't be there.And when that happens, the relationship is what remains.Hope you enjoy this one!Tracy xoxoxResourcesFearless Framework Online Program for Dog Lovers🐾 ⁠https://beyondobedience.ca/fearless⁠Why Does My Dog Act Like This? Take the quiz!🐾 ⁠www.beyondobedience.ca/quiz⁠Check out the Beyond Obedience Blog🐾 ⁠https://beyondobedience.ca/blog⁠Connect with Me!Contact -> ⁠[email protected]⁠Podcast -> ⁠https://beyondobedience.ca/podcast⁠Connect -> ⁠https://facebook.com/groups/LivingBeyondObedience⁠Resources -> ⁠www.beyondobedience.ca/quiz⁠Merch -> Get your Beyond Obedience merch! ⁠www.beyondobedience.ca/store⁠🐾 Next Steps 👣Step 1: Join a supportive community of dog owners learning how to build trust, clarity, and healthier partnerships with their dogs inside the free Facebook group ⁠Living Beyond Obedience⁠Step 2: Take the Dogonality Quiz to better understand how your dog naturally responds to stress, pressure, and relationship dynamics👉 ⁠www.beyondobedience.ca/quiz⁠Step 3: Learn how to navigate fearful, reactive, and emotionally complex behaviour with more confidence and clarity inside The Fearless Framework👉 ⁠https://beyondobedience.ca/fearless⁠Music Credit 🎶: Shawn Trotter.⁠www.shawntrotter.com⁠

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    216 | Am I Helping My Dog... or Making Things Worse?

    Hey Dog Lover🐾Have you ever wondered if you're helping your dog too much?Do you struggle to know when your dog needs support... and when they simply need space to figure things out?Have you ever worried that stepping in too quickly might actually be getting in the way of your dog's confidence?In this episode, we're tackling one of the most important questions dog lovers face:How do I know when to step in and when to step back?Inspired by a question I received after sharing my experience with Gunther at a recent WCERA event, we're diving into the delicate balance between supporting our dogs and allowing them the opportunity to learn, process, and grow.Because confidence isn't built when we solve every problem for our dogs.It's built when they discover what they're capable of—with us there to support them when needed.We'll talk about:🐾 The difference between processing and overwhelm🐾 Why struggling isn't always a bad thing🐾 How to recognize when your dog is still thinking versus when they're shutting down🐾 The signs that tell me it's time to step back🐾 The signs that tell me it's time to step in🐾 Why confidence grows through supported challengesWe'll also explore:trustpartnershipleadershipproblem-solvingresilienceand why sometimes the most powerful thing we can do is simply believe our dogs are capable.Because true partnership isn't about doing everything for your dog.Sometimes partnership means:"I've got you."And sometimes partnership means:"I believe you've got this."Hope you enjoy this one!Tracy xoxoxResourcesFearless Framework Online Program for Dog Lovers🐾 ⁠https://beyondobedience.ca/fearless⁠Why Does My Dog Act Like This? Take the quiz!🐾 ⁠www.beyondobedience.ca/quiz⁠Check out the Beyond Obedience Blog🐾 ⁠https://beyondobedience.ca/blog⁠Connect with Me!Contact -> ⁠[email protected]⁠Podcast -> ⁠https://beyondobedience.ca/podcast⁠Connect -> ⁠https://facebook.com/groups/LivingBeyondObedience⁠Resources -> ⁠www.beyondobedience.ca/quiz⁠Merch -> Get your Beyond Obedience merch! ⁠www.beyondobedience.ca/store⁠🐾 Next Steps 👣Step 1: Join a supportive community of dog owners learning how to build trust, clarity, and healthier partnerships with their dogs inside the free Facebook group Living Beyond ObedienceStep 2: Take the Dogonality Quiz to better understand how your dog naturally responds to stress, pressure, and relationship dynamics👉 ⁠www.beyondobedience.ca/quiz⁠Step 3: Learn how to navigate fearful, reactive, and emotionally complex behaviour with more confidence and clarity inside The Fearless Framework👉 ⁠https://beyondobedience.ca/fearless⁠Music Credit 🎶: Shawn Trotter.⁠www.shawntrotter.com

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    215 | What My Dog Taught Me About Confidence, Trust, and Partnership

    Hey Dog Lover 🐾Have you ever struggled to know when to help your dog and when to simply let them figure things out?Do you sometimes wonder if you're supporting your dog... or accidentally getting in the way of their growth?Have you ever noticed that some of your most meaningful moments with your dog happen when you stop trying to direct every step?In this episode, I'm sharing some lessons I learned while attending a WCERA event with Gunther.What started as a fun day of games and challenges became a powerful reminder of what partnership really looks like.Because confidence isn't built when everything goes perfectly.It's built when dogs are given opportunities to think, process, problem solve, and discover what they're capable of.We'll talk about:🐾 How Gunther approached unfamiliar challenges🐾 Why processing time is such an important part of learning🐾 The difference between helping and rescuing🐾 How support looks different than control🐾 What true partnership actually means🐾 Why confidence grows through experienceWe'll also explore:trustpartnershipleadershipconfidenceproblem-solvingcuriosityand why some of the most important lessons our dogs learn happen when we give them the space to work through a challenge instead of immediately stepping in.Because sometimes partnership means helping.And sometimes partnership means believing your dog is capable.Hope you enjoy this one!Tracy xoxoxRESOURCES🐾 Join the Online Program Fearless Framework! https://beyondobedience.ca/fearless🐾 Take the quiz! https://www.beyondobedience.ca/quiz🐾Read the blog! https://beyondobedience.ca/blogCONNECT WITH ME! Contact → [email protected] → https://beyondobedience.ca/podcastConnect → https://facebook.com/groups/LivingBeyondObedienceResources → https://www.beyondobedience.ca/quizMerch → https://www.beyondobedience.ca/store🐾NEXT STEPS👣Step 1: Join a supportive community of dog owners learning how to build trust, clarity, and healthier partnerships with their dogs inside the free Facebook group Living Beyond Obedience.Step 2: Take the Dogonality Quiz to better understand how your dog naturally responds to stress, pressure, and relationship dynamics.👉 https://www.beyondobedience.ca/quizStep 3: Learn how to navigate fearful, reactive, and emotionally complex behaviour with more confidence and clarity inside The Fearless Framework.👉 https://beyondobedience.ca/fearlessMusic Credit 🎶: Shawn Trotterwww.shawntrotter.com

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    214 | Stop Trying to Be the Bigger Squirrel : Why Your Dog Chooses the Environment Over You

    Hey Dog Lover 🐾Do you ever feel like squirrels, smells, birds, and absolutely everything else are more interesting to your dog than you are?Have you been told you need better treats, higher-value rewards, or more excitement to keep your dog's attention?Have you ever wondered if trying to compete with the environment is actually the problem?In this episode, we're talking about one of the biggest myths in dog training:The idea that we need to be more exciting than everything our dogs encounter.Because what if your dog's curiosity isn't a problem to solve?What if it's actually a gift?And what if the goal isn't to compete with the environment...But to become part of the experience?We'll talk about:🐾 Why dogs are supposed to notice the world around them🐾 The difference between competing and connecting🐾 Why trying to out-squirrel a squirrel is exhausting🐾 How curiosity can strengthen your relationship🐾 What relevance actually means🐾 Why becoming part of the experience changes everythingWe'll also explore:trustconnectionrelevancecuriosityfulfillmentand why some of the strongest relationships are built when we stop fighting our dog's interest in the world and start sharing it with them.Because my goal has never been to create dogs that ignore the environment.My goal has always been to create dogs that want to experience it with me.Hope you enjoy this one!Tracy xoxoxRESOURCES 🐾 Join the Fearless Framework:https://beyondobedience.ca/fearless🐾Take the Quiz!  https://www.beyondobedience.ca/quiz🐾Read the blog! https://beyondobedience.ca/blogConnect with ME! Contact → [email protected] → https://beyondobedience.ca/podcastConnect → https://facebook.com/groups/LivingBeyondObedienceResources → https://www.beyondobedience.ca/quizMerch → https://www.beyondobedience.ca/store👣NEXT STEPS 🐾Step 1: Join a supportive community of dog owners learning how to build trust, clarity, and healthier partnerships with their dogs inside the free Facebook group Living Beyond Obedience.Step 2: Take the Dogonality Quiz to better understand how your dog naturally responds to stress, pressure, and relationship dynamics.👉 https://www.beyondobedience.ca/quizStep 3: Learn how to navigate fearful, reactive, and emotionally complex behaviour with more confidence and clarity inside The Fearless Framework.👉 https://beyondobedience.ca/fearlessMusic Credit 🎶: Shawn Trotterwww.shawntrotter.com

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    213 | Why Does Your Dog React Differently Around Certain Dogs/People?

    Hey Dog Lover 🐾Have you ever noticed that your dog behaves differently around certain people?Do you sometimes wonder why your dog seems calmer around some dogs and more reactive around others?Have you ever considered that your presence might be influencing your dog's behaviour more than you realize?In this episode, I'm sharing one of the most important lessons I've ever learned about dog behaviour.And surprisingly, it didn't come from dog training.It came from my Newfoundlands.Over the years, I watched fearful, reactive, anxious, and overwhelmed dogs interact with my Newfs. What fascinated me wasn't what my dogs did.It was what they didn't do.No corrections.No drama.No interventions.And yet, time and time again, the other dogs would settle.When they did, something remarkable happened.Their true nature appeared.In this episode, we explore:🐾 Why calm reveals truth🐾 How emotional energy affects behaviour🐾 How you are part of your dog's environment🐾 The hidden cost of emotional static🐾 How grounded leadership creates clarity🐾 Why understanding your dog starts with understanding yourselfWe'll also talk about:relationshiptrustawarenesscommunicationemotional reliabilityand why sometimes the most powerful thing we can do is simply become quiet enough to listen.Because when we stop adding to the noise, our dogs often tell us exactly who they are and what they need.Hope you enjoy this one! ResourcesThe Fearless Framework- 12-month online program 🐾 https://beyondobedience.ca/fearlessWhy Does My Dog Do That? Take the quiz🐾 www.beyondobedience.ca/quizCheck out the blog! 🐾 https://beyondobedience.ca/blogConnect with Me!Contact -> [email protected] -> https://beyondobedience.ca/podcastCommunity > https://facebook.com/groups/LivingBeyondObedienceResources -> www.beyondobedience.ca/quizMerch -> Get your Beyond Obedience merch! www.beyondobedience.ca/store🐾 Next Steps 👣Step 1: Join a supportive community of dog owners learning how to build trust, relevance, and healthier partnerships with their dogs inside the free Facebook group Living Beyond ObedienceStep 2: Take the Quiz to better understand how your dog naturally responds to stress, pressure, and relationship dynamics👉 www.beyondobedience.ca/quizStep 3: Learn how to navigate fearful, reactive, and emotionally complex behaviour with more confidence and clarity inside The Fearless Framework👉 https://beyondobedience.ca/fearlessMusic Credit 🎶: Shawn Trotter.www.shawntrotter.com

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    212 | Why Your Dog Pulls on Leash No Matter What You Try

    Hey Dog Lover 🐾Have you tried different harnesses, collars, and training methods only to find that your dog still pulls on leash?Do you feel like you're constantly managing your dog instead of actually enjoying your walks together?Have you ever wondered if leash pulling isn't actually a leash problem at all?In this episode, we're diving into one of the most common struggles dog owners face:Leash pulling.But instead of asking:"How do I stop my dog from pulling?"We're going to explore a different question:"Why doesn't my dog want to walk with me?"Because there is a big difference between a dog walking beside you and a dog choosing to walk with you.We'll talk about:🐾 Why leash pulling is often a symptom, not the real problem🐾 The difference between position and partnership🐾 How fulfillment impacts behaviour🐾 Why the environment may be more valuable than you realize🐾 What relevance actually looks like in real life🐾 Why becoming someone your dog wants to stay connected to changes everythingWe'll also explore:relationshipinfluenceengagementcuriosityfulfillmentand why some dogs don't need more training...they need a better reason to stay connected.Because my goal has never been to create dogs that walk beside me.My goal has always been to create dogs that want to walk with me.Hope you enjoy this one! Tracy xoxox ResourcesFearless Framework Online Program for Dog Lovers 🐾 https://beyondobedience.ca/fearlessWhy Does My Dog Act Like This? Take the quiz! 🐾 www.beyondobedience.ca/quizCheck out the Beyond Obedience Blog🐾 https://beyondobedience.ca/blogConnect with Me!Contact -> [email protected] -> https://beyondobedience.ca/podcastConnect -> https://facebook.com/groups/LivingBeyondObedienceResources -> www.beyondobedience.ca/quizMerch -> Get your Beyond Obedience merch! www.beyondobedience.ca/store🐾 Next Steps 👣Step 1: Join a supportive community of dog owners learning how to build trust, clarity, and healthier partnerships with their dogs inside the free Facebook group Living Beyond ObedienceStep 2: Take the Dogonality Quiz to better understand how your dog naturally responds to stress, pressure, and relationship dynamics👉 www.beyondobedience.ca/quizStep 3: Learn how to navigate fearful, reactive, and emotionally complex behaviour with more confidence and clarity inside The Fearless Framework👉 https://beyondobedience.ca/fearlessMusic Credit 🎶: Shawn Trotter.www.shawntrotter.com

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    211 | Why Dog Training Tools Aren't Solving Your Walking Problems

    Hey Dog Lover 🐾Have you ever felt completely overwhelmed by all the opinions about dog training tools?Are you wondering if the next harness, collar, leash, or gadget will finally solve your dog's walking problems?Do you sometimes feel like the dog training world is more focused on the equipment than the dog standing at the end of the leash?In this episode, we're diving into one of the most controversial topics in dog training:Training tools.But instead of debating which tool is "best," we're going to explore a different question:Can a tool actually solve your problem?Because there is a big difference between using a tool and depending on a tool.We'll talk about:🐾 Why every piece of dog equipment is technically a tool (yes...even treats)🐾 What tools can actually do for you and your dog🐾 What tools can never do for you and your dog🐾 Why marketing around dog training equipment often misses the bigger picture🐾 The difference between leverage and influence🐾 Why your relationship matters more than the equipment you're using🐾 How to become someone your dog wants to stay connected toWe'll also explore:leadershiptrustpartnershipinfluencerelationshipand why the real goal isn't finding the perfect harness...It's becoming the kind of person your dog chooses to follow.Because while tools can help create clarity, improve safety, and bridge communication gaps...They cannot create trust.They cannot create connection.And they cannot build a relationship for you.The goal isn't finding the right equipment.The goal is becoming someone your dog wants to stay with.How interesting. 😉Hope you enjoy this one!Tracy xoxoxRESOURCES Fearless Framework Online Program for Dog Lovers🐾 https://beyondobedience.ca/fearlessWhy Does My Dog Act Like This? Take the quiz!🐾 www.beyondobedience.ca/quizCheck out the Beyond Obedience Blog🐾 https://beyondobedience.ca/blogConnect With Me! Contact -> [email protected] -> https://beyondobedience.ca/podcastConnect -> https://facebook.com/groups/LivingBeyondObedienceResources -> www.beyondobedience.ca/quizMerch -> Get your Beyond Obedience merch! www.beyondobedience.ca/store🐾 Next Steps 👣Step 1: Join a supportive community of dog owners looking to build trust, confidence, and stronger relationships with their dogs inside the free Facebook group Living Beyond Obedience.Step 2: Take the Dogonality Quiz to better understand how your dog naturally responds to stress, pressure, and relationship dynamics.👉 www.beyondobedience.ca/quizStep 3: Learn how to become a more influential, relevant, and trusted partner for your dog inside The Fearless Framework.👉 https://beyondobedience.ca/fearlessMusic Credit 🎶: Shawn Trotter.www.shawntrotter.com

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    210 | Is Your Dog Manipulating You? Fearful Dogs, Boundaries & Leadership

    Hey Dog Lover🐾Have you ever worried that saying “no” to your dog might damage your relationship with them?Do you sometimes feel emotionally exhausted trying to figure out whether your dog needs support… or clearer boundaries?Have you ever wondered if your dog is unintentionally influencing your emotions, routines, or decisions more than you realize?In this episode, we’re diving into one of the most misunderstood concepts in the dog world:manipulation.Because yes… dogs absolutely influence outcomes.But not in the “evil mastermind trying to dominate you” kind of way 😅We’re talking about:what manipulation actually iswhy behaviour is rooted in survival and outcome-seekinghow dogs learn what works in relationshipswhy fearful dog owners often struggle with boundariesand the difference between compassion and emotional chaosWe also explore:guiltemotional discomfortleadershiprelationship balanceand why clarity is one of the kindest things we can offer our dogsThis episode is a nuanced conversation about partnership, survival strategies, emotional influence, and learning how to support your dog without losing yourself in the process.Because healthy relationships are not built through guilt.They’re built through trust, honesty, communication, and clarity.ResourcesFearless Framework🐾 https://beyondobedience.ca/fearlessDogonality Quiz🐾 www.beyondobedience.ca/quizBlog post for this episode🐾 https://beyondobedience.ca/blogConnect with Me! Contact - > [email protected] -> https://beyondobedience.ca/podcastConnect -> https://facebook.com/groups/LivingBeyondObedienceResources - > www.beyondobedience.ca/quizMerch -> Get your Beyond Obedience merch! www.beyondobedience.ca/store🐾 Next Steps👣:Step 1: Join a supportive community of dog owners learning how to build trust, clarity, and healthier partnership with their dogs inside the free Facebook group Living Beyond ObedienceStep 2: Take the Dogonality Quiz to better understand how your dog naturally responds to stress, pressure, and relationship dynamics👉 www.beyondobedience.ca/quizStep 3: Learn how to navigate fearful, reactive, and emotionally complex behaviour with more confidence and clarity inside The Fearless Framework👉 https://beyondobedience.ca/fearlessMusic Credit🎶: Shawn Trotter. www.shawntrotter.com

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    209 | Why Your Dog’s Behaviour Isn’t Random (And What You’re Missing)

    Hey Dog Lover 🐾Does your dog sometimes seem completely fine one day… and totally overwhelmed the next?Have you ever caught yourself saying:“This reaction came out of nowhere”?Do you feel like you’re constantly trying to figure out why your dog reacts in certain situations—but the behaviour still feels unpredictable?In this episode, we’re talking about why your dog’s behaviour is probably NOT random—and how understanding patterns, pressure, and emotional buildup can completely change the way you see your dog.Because dogs don’t experience life in isolated moments.They experience:accumulationcontextemotional loadingenvironmental pressureand patterns humans often miss entirelyWe’re diving into:threshold stackingstress accumulationwhy reactions rarely happen “out of nowhere”how anticipation changes behaviourand why humans often only notice behaviour once it becomes inconvenientWe’ll also talk about why curiosity matters so much in relationship-based training and how asking:“How interesting… what pattern am I missing?”can completely shift the way you respond to your dog.Because when behaviour starts making sense…everything changes.Resources Fearless Framework🐾 https://beyondobedience.ca/fearlessDogonality Quiz🐾 www.beyondobedience.ca/quizBlog post for this episode🐾 www.beyondobedience.ca/blogConnect with Me! Contact - > [email protected] -> https://beyondobedience.ca/podcastConnect -> https://facebook.com/groups/LivingBeyondObedienceResources - > www.beyondobedience.ca/quizMerch -> Get your Beyond Obedience merch! www.beyondobedience.ca/store🐾 Next Steps👣:Step 1: Join a supportive community of dog owners learning how to build trust, clarity, and a healthier partnership with their dogs inside the free Facebook group Living Beyond ObedienceStep 2: Take the Dogonality Quiz to better understand how your dog naturally responds to stress, pressure, and relationship dynamics👉 www.beyondobedience.ca/quizStep 3: Learn how to navigate fearful, reactive, and emotionally complex behaviour with more confidence and clarity inside The Fearless Framework👉 https://beyondobedience.ca/fearlessMusic Credit🎶 Shawn Trotter: shawntrotter.com

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    208 | Did I Just Ruin My Dog? Training Setbacks Explained

    Hey Dog Lover 🐾Have you ever had a moment with your dog go sideways and immediately thought:“Oh no… did I just ruin everything?”Has your dog ever suddenly become worried about something they were previously totally fine with?Do setbacks with your dog sometimes make you feel like you’re back at square one?In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on a very real, very human moment with Gunther that did not go according to plan 😅What started as an unfortunate deer poop incident quickly turned into an important reminder about:emotional associationsoverwhelmpressureand how quickly dogs connect experiences togetherWe’re talking about:why dogs create associations so quicklyhow frustration and urgency can affect our dogswhy one imperfect moment does NOT ruin your relationshipwhat repair and rebuilding trust actually look likeand why progress with dogs is never about perfectionThis is a more vulnerable, behind-the-scenes episode about real life, real dogs, and the importance of curiosity and partnership when things don’t go perfectly.Because sometimes the most meaningful relationship moments don’t happen during perfection…They happen during repair.RESOURCESDogonality Quiz👉 www.beyondobedience.ca/quizFearless Framework👉 https://beyondobedience.ca/fearlessBlog post for this episode👉 www.beyondobedience.ca/blogCONNECT WITH MEContact - > [email protected] -> https://beyondobedience.ca/podcastConnect -> https://facebook.com/groups/LivingBeyondObedienceResources - > www.beyondobedience.ca/quizMerch -> Get your Beyond Obedience merch! www.beyondobedience.ca/store🐾 Next Steps👣:Step 1: Join a supportive community of dog owners learning how to better understand behaviour, rebuild trust, and navigate real-life struggles inside the free Facebook group Living Beyond ObedienceStep 2: Take the Dogonality Quiz to better understand how your dog processes pressure, stress, and the world around them👉 www.beyondobedience.ca/quizStep 3: Learn how to build trust, leadership, awareness, and real-life partnership with your dog inside The Fearless Framework👉 https://beyondobedience.ca/fearlessMusic Credit 🎶 Shawn Trotter. www.shawntrotter.com

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    207 | Your Dog Doesn’t Need More Exercise

    Hey Dog Lover 🐾Have you ever taken your dog on a long walk only to come home and feel like they’re STILL completely wired?Does it sometimes feel like the more exercise you give your dog… the more intense, disconnected, or excitable they become?Have you ever wondered if your dog doesn’t actually need more activity, but something much deeper?In this episode, we’re talking about the difference between exercise and true fulfillment, and why simply trying to “tire your dog out” often misses the bigger picture.Because fulfillment isn’t just about movement.It’s about relevance, biology, curiosity, partnership, and learning how to genuinely participate in your dog’s world.We’re diving into:why the environment is so biologically meaningful to dogshow breed tendencies and Dogonality influence fulfillmentwhy some dogs seem MORE revved up after exercisethe difference between exhaustion and fulfillmentand the real secret to becoming more relevant to your dogWe’ll also talk about why partnership matters so much, especially for reactive dogs.Resources Fearless Framework👉 https://beyondobedience.ca/fearlessDogonality Quiz👉 www.beyondobedience.ca/quizBlog post for this episode👉www.beyondobedience.ca/blogConnect with MeContact - > [email protected] -> https://beyondobedience.ca/podcastConnect -> https://facebook.com/groups/LivingBeyondObedienceResources - > www.beyondobedience.ca/quizMerch -> Get your Beyond Obedience merch! www.beyondobedience.ca/store🐾 Next Steps👣:Step 1: Join a supportive community of dog owners learning how to build trust, relevance, and real-life partnership with their dogs inside the free Facebook group Living Beyond ObedienceStep 2: Take the Dogonality Quiz to better understand how your dog processes the world and what truly fulfills themwww.beyondobedience.ca/quizStep 3: Learn how to stop managing behaviour and start building deeper connection, confidence, and understanding inside The Fearless Framework https://beyondobedience.ca/fearlessMusic Credit 🎶 Shawn Trotter www.shawntrotter.com

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    206 | Less Commands, Need I Say More?

    Hey Dog Lover! 🐾Does your dog listen perfectly at home… but completely disconnect once you step outside?Do you feel like the more stressed your dog gets, the less your commands actually matter?Have you ever wondered if your dog doesn’t need more obedience at all—but something entirely different from you?In this episode, we’re talking about why commands often fall apart under pressure—and why your dog may not actually need more obedience.Because when stress, pressure, instinct, and emotion take over…Dogs shift.And when they shift out of the thinking side of the brain and into instinctual processing, “English as a second language” becomes much harder to access.Which means the real question becomes:👉 How do we stay connected to our dogs in BOTH worlds?We’re diving into:why obedience can become a substitute for relationshiphow stress changes processingthe importance of understanding your dog’s Dogonalityand why becoming relevant to your dog goes far beyond commandsBecause dogs don’t build relationships through obedience alone…They build them through shared experiences, trust, and meaningful connection.Hope you enjoy this one! Tracy xoxoxoxRESOURCESFearless Framework🐾 https://beyondobedience.ca/fearlessDogonality Quiz🐾 www.beyondobedience.ca/quizBlog post for this episode🐾 www.beyondobedience.ca/blogCONNECT WITH MEContact - > [email protected] -> https://beyondobedience.ca/podcastConnect -> https://facebook.com/groups/LivingBeyondObedienceResources - > www.beyondobedience.ca/quizMerch -> Get your Beyond Obedience merch! www.beyondobedience.ca/store🐾NEXT STEPS👣:Step 1: Join a supportive community of dog owners who are ready to move beyond obedience and build deeper trust and connection with their dogs, LIVING BEYOND OBEDIENCE FB Step 2: Take the Dogonality Quiz to understand how your dog processes stress, instinct, and the world around them👉 www.beyondobedience.ca/quizStep 3: Learn how to become more relevant, aware, and connected to your dog in real-life situations inside The Fearless Framework👉 https://beyondobedience.ca/fearlessMusic Credit 🎶: Shawn Trotter www.shawntrotter.com

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    205 | Stop Watching your Dog (You're Being Weird About it)

    Hey Dog Lover! 🐾Do you feel like your dog reacts “out of nowhere” before you even have time to respond?Are you constantly trying to watch for subtle body language signs—but still feel like you’re always one step behind your dog?Have you ever wondered if the real issue isn’t your timing… but where your attention is actually going?In this episode, I’m challenging the idea that the answer to reactivity is simply learning more dog body language.Because while understanding your dog absolutely matters…Most reactions happen FAST.And if your entire strategy is trying to catch the lip lick, the freeze, or the tension right before the explosion—you’re probably already behind.Instead, we’re talking about what it looks like to become more aware with your dog.To stop obsessing over behavior…and start paying attention to:the environmentpressuremovementpotential threatsand what your dog is actually noticing before stress takes overBecause leadership starts long before the reaction.And the more present and aware you become, the more your dog starts to feel like they don’t have to navigate the world alone.Hope you enjoy this one! Tracy xoxoxoResourcesFearless Framework👉 https://beyondobedience.ca/fearlessDogonality Quiz👉 www.beyondobedience.ca/quizBlog post for this episode👉www.beyondobedience.ca/blogConnectingContact - > [email protected] -> https://beyondobedience.ca/podcastConnect -> https://facebook.com/groups/LivingBeyondObedienceResources - > www.beyondobedience.ca/quizMerch -> Get your Beyond Obedience merch! www.beyondobedience.ca/store🐾 Next Steps👣:Step 1: Join a supportive community of dog owners learning how to build trust, confidence, and awareness with their dogs inside the free Facebook group Living Beyond ObedienceStep 2: Take the Dogonality Quiz to better understand how your dog processes the world and responds under pressure👉 www.beyondobedience.ca/quizStep 3: Learn how to stop reacting to behaviour and start building real partnership inside The Fearless Framework👉 https://beyondobedience.ca/fearlessMusic Credit 🎶 Shawn Trotter of shawntrotter.com

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    204 | What To Do When Your Reactive Dog Loses It

    Hey Dog Lover! 🐾Are your walks starting to feel more stressful than enjoyable?Do you ever find yourself constantly scanning the environment… just trying to avoid a reaction?When your dog “loses it,” are you left wondering… what am I actually supposed to do right now?In this episode, I’m sharing what to do when your dog loses it—so you can stop feeling overwhelmed in those moments and start showing up with clarity and confidence.We’re diving into why those big reactions aren’t the time to “train,” what it really means when you’ve missed it, and how having a simple exit strategy can completely change the way you handle these situations.Because this isn’t about fixing your dog in the moment…It’s about learning how to guide them through it—and becoming someone your dog can trust when it matters most.Hope you enjoy!Tracy xoxoxResources: Fearless Framework (Build Your Brave Protocols)🐾 https://beyondobedience.ca/fearlessContact - > ⁠[email protected]⁠Podcast -> ⁠https://beyondobedience.ca/podcast⁠Connect -> ⁠https://facebook.com/groups/LivingBeyondObedience⁠Resources - > ⁠www.beyondobedience.ca/quiz⁠Merch -> Get your Beyond Obedience merch! ⁠www.beyondobedience.ca/store⁠Next Steps 🐾👣Step 1: Join a supportive community of dog owners who are ready to build trust, confidence, and a better relationship with their dog inside the free Facebook group Living Beyond ObedienceStep 2: Take the Dogonality Quiz to discover your dog’s unique personality and how they experience the world👉 www.beyondobedience.ca/quizStep 3: Get step-by-step support inside The Fearless Framework and learn how to handle real-life situations with clarity and confidence👉 https://beyondobedience.ca/fearlessMusic Credit 🎶. Shawn Trotter of ShawnTrotter.com

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    203 | Can You Over-Socialize Your Dog? (A Puppy Owner’s Question)

    Hey Dog Lover! 🐾Have you ever been told you can’t over-socialize your dog?Are you trying to do “all the right things”… but worried you might actually be overwhelming your puppy?Do you feel torn between exposing your dog to the world—and protecting their confidence at the same time?In this episode, I’m answering a thoughtful question from a listener who’s raising a young, shy puppy and trying to do right by her.After being told “you cannot overdo socialization” (with no caveats 😅), she started wondering…👉 Is that actually true?We’re diving into what socialization really means, why more isn’t always better, and how well-intentioned exposure can sometimes create overwhelm instead of confidence.Because socialization isn’t about doing more…It’s about doing what’s appropriate for the dog in front of you.This episode will help you better understand:The difference between exposure and experienceWhy some dogs need a slower, more thoughtful approachHow to recognize when your dog is becoming overwhelmedAnd how to build confidence without throwing your dog in the deep endIf you’ve ever questioned whether you’re doing too much—or not enough—this conversation will give you a clearer way forward.Hope you enjoy! Tracy xoxoxoRESOURCES:Contact - > [email protected] -> https://beyondobedience.ca/podcastConnect -> https://facebook.com/groups/LivingBeyondObedienceResources - > www.beyondobedience.ca/quizMerch -> Get your Beyond Obedience merch! www.beyondobedience.ca/storeNEXT STEPS 🐾👣Step 1: Join a supportive community of dog owners learning how to build confidence and social skills in a way that actually works for their dog👉 https://facebook.com/groups/LivingBeyondObedienceStep 2: Take the Dogonality Quiz to better understand your dog’s personality and how they experience the world👉 www.beyondobedience.ca/quizStep 3: Learn how to guide your dog through real-life situations with clarity and confidence inside The Fearless Framework👉 https://beyondobedience.ca/fearlessMusic Credit 🎶. ShawnTrotter.com

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    202 | Is it Fear? Understanding Your Dog’s Reactive Behaviour

    Hey Dog Lover 🐾Does your dog seem totally fine one minute… and then suddenly overreact the next?Have you ever thought, “That came out of nowhere…” when your dog barks, lunges, or shuts down?Do you find yourself wondering if your dog is being difficult… or if there’s something else going on?In this episode, I’m unpacking a question most dog owners don’t even realize they should be asking:👉 Is it fear?We’re diving into how behaviour that looks like stubbornness, reactivity, or even “bad behaviour”… might actually be your dog trying to navigate something they don’t fully understand.Because here’s the thing…If we misread what’s really going on, we end up responding in ways that don’t actually help—and sometimes even make things more confusing for our dogs.This episode will help you start looking at your dog’s behaviour through a different lens—one rooted in curiosity, awareness, and understanding.Hope you enjoy! Tracy xoxoxRESOURCES:Contact - > [email protected] -> https://beyondobedience.ca/podcastConnect -> https://facebook.com/groups/LivingBeyondObedienceResources - > www.beyondobedience.ca/quizMerch -> Get your Beyond Obedience merch! www.beyondobedience.ca/storeNEXT STEPS 👣🐾Step 1: Join a supportive community of dog owners who are learning to understand their dogs on a deeper level—and build trust through awareness and leadership👉 https://facebook.com/groups/LivingBeyondObedienceStep 2: Take the Dogonality Quiz to discover how your dog thinks, processes the world, and responds in different situations👉 www.beyondobedience.ca/quizStep 3: If you’re ready to stop guessing and start understanding what’s really going on with your dog, The Fearless Framework will walk you through it step-by-step👉 https://beyondobedience.ca/fearless🐾 Little Thought to Leave You With…The goal isn’t to label your dog…It’s to understand them.Because when you understand what’s driving the behaviour…Everything starts to change. 🐾Music Credit 🎶 ShawnTrotter.com

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    201 | You Don't Want a Well Trained Dog. Here's Why?

    Hey Dog Lover! 🐾Have you ever thought… “My dog knows what to do… so why aren’t they doing it?”Do you feel like you’ve done the training—but real-life situations still feel unpredictable?Are you starting to realize that a “well-trained” dog isn’t the same as a calm, confident one?In this episode, I’m sharing why focusing on having a “well-trained dog” might actually be the thing keeping you stuck—so you can start shifting your focus to what really matters in everyday life.We’re diving into the difference between training and relationship, why obedience doesn’t always translate into real-world success, and what your dog actually needs from you outside of structured training moments.Because your dog doesn’t live in training sessions…They live in the other 95% of life.And that’s where trust, leadership, and connection come into play.Hope you enjoy! Tracy xoxoxRESOURCES Contact - > [email protected] -> https://beyondobedience.ca/podcastConnect -> https://facebook.com/groups/LivingBeyondObedienceResources - > www.beyondobedience.ca/quizMerch -> Get your Beyond Obedience merch! www.beyondobedience.ca/storeNEXT STEPS 🐾👣Step 1: Join a supportive community of dog owners who are ready to move beyond obedience and build real trust, confidence, and leadership with their dog inside the free Facebook group Living Beyond ObedienceStep 2: Take the Dogonality Quiz to better understand how your dog thinks, learns, and responds👉 www.beyondobedience.ca/quizStep 3: Get step-by-step support inside The Fearless Framework and learn how to create a calm, confident dog in real-life situations—not just training sessions👉 https://beyondobedience.ca/fearlessMusic Credit🎶: ShawnTrotter.com

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    200 | Your Dog Is Watching You More Than You Think (The Leadership Mistake You Don’t See)

    Hey there Dog Lover🐾Do you feel like your dog listens sometimes… but not consistently?Are you focused on what you’re teaching… but still not seeing results?What if your dog is learning more from how you show up than what you say?In this episode, I’m sharing the leadership scorecard your dog is constantly using so you can better understand why your dog responds the way they do. We explore how dogs are always observing your consistency, clarity, and emotional state—and how shifting your awareness can transform your relationship and your results.Hope you enjoy! Tracy xoxoxLinks MentionedFearless Framework Course: https://beyondobedience.ca/fearlessTake the Dogonality Quiz: www.beyondobedience.ca/quiz60min 1:1 Coaching Call: Calm Coaching CallNext Steps:Step 1: Join a supportive community of dog owners learning how to become better leaders for their dogs in the free Facebook group Living Beyond ObedienceStep 2: Take the Dogonality Quiz to discover your dog’s unique personality www.beyondobedience.ca/quizStep 3: Get more personalized support with The Fearless Framework course at https://beyondobedience.ca/fearlessConnect With Me:Contact - > [email protected] ->https://beyondobedience.ca/podcastConnect -> https://facebook.com/groups/LivingBeyondObedienceResources - > www.beyondobedience.ca/quizMerch-> Get your Beyond Obedience merch! www.beyondobedience.ca/storeMusic Credit🎶: Shawn Trotterwww.shawntrotter.com

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    199 | Is Socialization Making Your Dog Worse? What Fearful & Reactive Dogs Actually Need

    Hey Dog Lover🐾Have you been told your dog just needs more socialization?Does your dog seem more overwhelmed the more you expose them to things?What if more exposure isn’t the answer… and might actually be making things worse?In this episode, I’m sharing why socialization isn’t always the solution so you can stop overwhelming your dog and start building real confidence. We dive into how exposure without safety can create more fear, why reactive and sensitive dogs need a different approach, and what to focus on instead to help your dog feel secure in the world.Hope you enjoy this one! Tracy xoxoxLinks MentionedFearless Framework Course: https://beyondobedience.ca/fearlessTake the Dogonality Quiz: www.beyondobedience.ca/quiz60 min 1:1 Coaching Call: Calm Confident Coaching Next Steps 🐾👣:Step 1: Join a supportive community of dog owners navigating fearful or reactive dogs in the free Facebook group Living Beyond ObedienceStep 2: Take the Dogonality Quiz to better understand your dog’s behaviour www.beyondobedience.ca/quizStep 3: Get more personalized support with The Fearless Framework course at https://beyondobedience.ca/fearlessResources:Contact - > [email protected] ->https://beyondobedience.ca/podcastConnect -> https://facebook.com/groups/LivingBeyondObedienceResources - > www.beyondobedience.ca/quizMerch-> Get your Beyond Obedience merch! www.beyondobedience.ca/storeMusic Credit 🎶 Shawn Trotter www.shawntrotter.com

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    198 | Is Your Dog a Project? Why Dog Training Feels So Hard (And What to Do Instead)

    Hey Dog Lover🐾Do you feel like you can’t relax around your dog?Are you constantly correcting, managing, or trying to fix behaviour?What if your dog isn’t a problem to solve… but a relationship to build?In this episode, I’m sharing the difference between treating your dog like a project versus living with them as a partner so you can move out of frustration and into trust and connection. We explore how constant correction and control create pressure for both you and your dog—and how shifting into curiosity, leadership, and relationship can completely change your experience together.Hope you enjoy this one!Tracy xoxox Links MentionedFearless Framework Course: https://beyondobedience.ca/fearlessTake the Dogonality Quiz: www.beyondobedience.ca/quiz60 min 1:1 Coaching Call: Calm Confident Coaching CallNext Steps🐾👣:Step 1: Join a supportive community of dog owners looking to build a better relationship with their dogs in the free Facebook group Living Beyond ObedienceStep 2: Take the Dogonality Quiz to understand your dog’s unique personality www.beyondobedience.ca/quizStep 3: Get more personalized support with The Fearless Framework course at https://beyondobedience.ca/fearlessResources:Contact - > [email protected] ->https://beyondobedience.ca/podcastConnect -> https://facebook.com/groups/LivingBeyondObedienceResources - > www.beyondobedience.ca/quizMerch-> Get your Beyond Obedience merch! www.beyondobedience.ca/storeMusic Credit🎶 Shawn Trotter: www.shawntrotter.com

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    197 | Dog Training Not Working? Here’s What Most People Are Missing

    Hey Dog Lover🐾Are you focusing on training… but still not seeing the results you want?Do you feel frustrated when your dog doesn’t “listen” in real-life situations?Have you ever considered that what happens outside of training might matter more?In this episode, I’m sharing how the 99% of your daily life with your dog is what truly shapes their behavior, confidence, and trust. You’ll learn why it’s not just about what you train — but how your dog experiences life with you, and how small, everyday moments can completely change your relationship.Hope you enjoy! Tracy xoxoxNext Steps 🐾👣:Step 1: Join a supportive community of dog owners looking to better understand their dog’s needs and behaviour at the free Facebook group⁠ Living Beyond Obedience⁠Step 2: Take the Dogonality Quiz to discover your dog’s unique Dogonality ⁠www.beyondobedience.ca/quiz⁠Step 3: Get more personalized support with The Fearless Framework course at ⁠https://beyondobedience.ca/fearless⁠Not a Student but want to work with me?Book a ⁠Calm Confident Coaching Call ⁠Resources and Connect with Me! Contact - > ⁠[email protected]⁠Podcast ->⁠https://beyondobedience.ca/podcast⁠Connect -> ⁠https://facebook.com/groups/LivingBeyondObedience⁠Resources - > ⁠www.beyondobedience.ca/quiz⁠Merch-> Get your Beyond Obedience merch! ⁠www.beyondobedience.ca/store⁠Music Credit🎶: Shawn Trotter Explore more @ www.shawntrotter.com

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    196| Is Your Dog Actually Happy? (Or Just Busy, Stressed, or Overstimulated?)

    `Hey Dog Lover🐾Do you feel like you’re constantly trying to do more to make your dog happy?Is your dog busy, active, and stimulated… but still seems unsettled or anxious?Have you ever stopped to ask what happiness actually looks like for your dog?In this episode, I’m sharing what truly creates happiness in dogs so you can stop chasing activity and start building fulfillment. We explore how happiness isn’t something you create by doing more — but something that emerges when your dog’s needs, expectations, and emotional safety are met.Hope you enjoy this one! Tracy xoxoxNext Steps 🐾👣:Step 1: Join a supportive community of dog owners looking to better understand their dog’s needs and behaviour at the free Facebook group Living Beyond ObedienceStep 2: Take the Dogonality Quiz to discover your dog’s unique Dogonality www.beyondobedience.ca/quizStep 3: Get more personalized support with The Fearless Framework course at https://beyondobedience.ca/fearlessNot a Student but want to work with me?Book a Calm Confident Coaching Call Resources and Connect with Me! Contact - > [email protected] ->https://beyondobedience.ca/podcastConnect -> https://facebook.com/groups/LivingBeyondObedienceResources - > www.beyondobedience.ca/quizMerch-> Get your Beyond Obedience merch! www.beyondobedience.ca/store

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    195 | Still Using Treat Rewards? Why Your Dog Training Isn’t Sticking (And What to Do Instead)”

    Hey Dog Lover!🐾Are you doing all the “right” training things… but something still feels off?Does your dog only seem engaged when there’s something in it for them?Have you ever wondered why the behaviour doesn’t seem to stick long-term?In this episode, I’m sharing the difference between rewarding and celebrating so you can move beyond transactional training and start building true connection with your dog. We dive into how one approach builds behaviour… while the other builds belief, trust, and confidence — especially for fearful or reactive dogs.Hope you enjoy this one! Tracy xoxoNext Steps 🐾👣Step 1: Join a supportive community of dog owners looking to build trust and confidence with their dogs at the free Facebook group Living Beyond ObedienceStep 2: Take the Dogonality Quiz to find out your dog’s unique Dogonality www.beyondobedience.ca/quizStep 3: Get more personalized support with The Fearless Framework course at https://beyondobedience.ca/fearlessNot A Student but want a coaching call?Book a Calm Confident Coaching Call _______________________________________________________Resources and Links Mentioned:Fearless Framework Online Course: ⁠https://beyondobedience.ca/fearless⁠Take the Dogonality Quiz: ⁠www.beyondobedience.ca/quiz⁠Contact -  ⁠[email protected]⁠Podcast -⁠https://beyondobedience.ca/podcast⁠Connect- ⁠https://facebook.com/groups/LivingBeyondObedience⁠Resources - > ⁠www.beyondobedience.ca/quiz⁠Merch-> Get your Beyond Obedience merch! ⁠www.beyondobedience.ca/store⁠Music Credit: Shawn Trotter // www.shawntrotter.com

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    194 | Why Your Dog Training Isn't Working.{Conversations with Your Dog Series}

    Hey Dog Lover🐾Feeling frustrated that your dog training just isn’t working?Do you feel like you’re constantly correcting, reminding, or repeating yourself?Wondering why your dog behaves one way during training… but completely different in real life?In this final episode of our Conversations with your Dog Series, I’m sharing why your dog training might not be working—and how the missing piece has less to do with obedience and more to do with clarity and communication.We dive into how focusing on what you don’t want (like barking, pulling, or reacting) can actually create more confusion for your dog, and why having a clear picture of what you do want is essential for real progress.You’ll learn how your dog reads your energy, why micromanaging behavior can hold your dog back, and how giving your dog space to think and problem-solve can completely change your results.If you have a reactive dog, a scared dog, or you feel like your dog training isn’t translating into everyday life, this episode will help you shift from control to clarity—so you can start building calm, confident behaviour through better conversations with your dog.Hope you enjoy! Tracy xoxoxResources and Links MentionedFearless Framework Coursehttps://beyondobedience.ca/fearlessRelated EpisodeYour Dog Is Listening, What Are You Saying? Conversations with Your Dog SeriesRelated EpisodeWhy Your Dog Ignores “No”: Conversations with Your Dog Series: Connecting with Me! Contact - > [email protected] ->https://beyondobedience.ca/podcastConnect -> https://facebook.com/groups/LivingBeyondObedienceResources - > www.beyondobedience.ca/quizNext Steps👣🐾:Step 1: Join a supportive community of dog owners working through reactivity, fear, and behaviour challenges at the free Facebook group Living Beyond ObedienceStep 2: Take The Dogonality Quiz! Find out your dog's unique Dogonality! www.beyondobedience.ca/quizStep 3: Get more personalized support and learn how to build calm, confident behaviour with your reactive or fearful dog inside The Fearless Frameworkwww.beyondobedience.ca/fearless

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    193 | Your Dog IS Listening. What Are YOU Saying? {Conversation with Your Dog Series}

    Hey Dog Lover! 🐾Feel like your dog isn’t listening—even though you know they’ve been trained?Do you find yourself repeating commands or getting frustrated when your dog ignores you?What if your dog is actually listening… just not to what you think you’re saying?In Part 3 of our series Conversations with your Dog, I’m sharing why your dog might not be listening—and how it has less to do with obedience and more to do with communication.We explore how dogs interpret energy, body language, and words differently than we do, and why your dog may be responding accurately—just not to the signals you think you’re giving.If you’re struggling with dog training, feeling like your dog is inconsistent, or dealing with a reactive or sensitive dog, this episode will help you understand what your dog is actually responding to—so you can create clearer, more effective communication and start seeing real changes in your dog’s behaviour.Hope you enjoy! Tracy xoxooxResources and Links MentionedFearless Framework Course https://beyondobedience.ca/fearlessRelated EpisodeEpisode 191: Your Dog Is Not Listening to You—Here’s WhyRelated EpisodeEpisode 192: Why Your Dog Ignores You (No Isn’t a Conversation)Connecting with Me! Contact - > [email protected] ->https://beyondobedience.ca/podcastConnect -> https://facebook.com/groups/LivingBeyondObedienceResources - > www.beyondobedience.ca/quizNEXT STEPS👣🐾Step 1: Join a supportive community of dog owners working through reactivity, fear, and confusion in their dogs at the free Facebook group Living Beyond ObedienceStep 2: Take the Quiz!! Find out your Dog's Unique Dogonalityhttps://beyondobedience.ca/quizStep 3: Get more personalized support and learn how to build trust and confidence with your dog inside The Fearless Framework 12-month Online Dog Program for Dog Lovers who want something more than just obedience.  https://beyondobedience.ca/fearlessMusic Credit 🎶 ShawnTrotter.com

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    192 | Why Your Dog Ignores ‘No’ {Conversations with Your Dog Series}

    Hey Dog Lover 🐾Do you feel like your dog hears the word “no”… but it doesn’t actually mean anything?Are you constantly repeating yourself or correcting your dog with little to no change in their behaviour?Do you feel like you have to get louder, firmer, or more intense just to get your dog to listen?In this episode, I’m sharing the powerful shift from constant correction to meaningful communication—and why your dog’s response to “no” has everything to do with your relationship, not your volume.We’re diving into the concept of agreement versus disagreement, and how dogs that live in a world full of pressure, repetition, and correction start to tune us out. But when your dog experiences connection, joy, and engagement with you on a daily basis, your communication carries weight—and your “no” finally means something.If you have a reactive or fearful dog, or you feel like your dog just ignores you, this episode will help you understand why—and how to start building a relationship where your dog actually wants to listen.Next Steps🐾👣:Step 1: Join a supportive community of dog owners with reactive or fearful dogs who are looking to build trust, confidence, and connection inside the free Facebook group Living Beyond ObedienceStep 2: Find out your dog's unique Dogonality. Take the Quizhttps://beyondobedience.ca/quizStep 3: Get more personalized support inside The Fearless Framework 12-month online program for Dog Lovers who know there is so much more to living with a dog than just 'training' https://beyondobedience.ca/fearlessMusic Credit🎶 : Shawn Trotter of shawntrotter.com

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    191 | Your Dog Not Listening To You? Here's Why {Conversations with Your Dog Series}

    Hey Dog Lover 🐾Do you feel like your dog just isn’t listening—no matter how many times you repeat yourself?Are you relying on commands, treats, or tools… but still not seeing real change in your dog’s behaviour?Do you wish you could actually communicate with your dog instead of constantly telling them what to do?In this episode, I’m sharing a completely different way to approach dog training, one that shifts you from commanding your dog to actually having a conversation with them, so you can build understanding, trust, and real connection.I take you back to where this concept first clicked for me, including my experience learning from my mentor and the powerful (and humbling) lessons I learned working with a rescue husky named Jayce—with no tools, no treats, and no shortcuts.If you feel like traditional dog training methods aren’t working, this episode will help you see why—and what to do instead so you can start getting real results with your dog.Hope you enjoy this one! ~Tracy xoxoNext Steps🐾👣:Step 1: Join a supportive community of dog owners with reactive or fearful dogs who are looking to build trust, confidence, and connection inside the free Facebook group Living Beyond ObedienceStep 2: Find out your dog's unique Dogonality. Take the Quizhttps://beyondobedience.ca/quizStep 3: Get more personalized support inside The Fearless Framework 12-month online program and community to help you build an incredible bond so that living with your dog is EASY. (treat pouches and chicken weiners optional 😉)https://beyondobedience.ca/fearlessMusic credit🎶 Shawn Trotter of shawntrotter.com

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    190 | What If the Fight Is the Problem and Why Control Can Make Reactivity Worse

    Hey there, fellow Dog Lover ! 🐾What if your dog’s reactivity isn’t just about the trigger……but about the tension between you and your dog?In this episode, we explore a powerful (and slightly uncomfortable) idea: What if the fight… is the fight?We break down:How leash tension, control, and tight handling can increase reactivityWhy dogs push against pressure—and how that creates a cycleThe role of choice, autonomy, and communication in building trustWhy trust goes both ways between you and your dogHow to start listening to your dog instead of constantly directing themThis episode isn’t about letting your dog “do whatever they want.”It’s about creating space for understanding, building trust, and changing the conversation between you and your dog.Because sometimes…👉 Reactivity isn’t about the world.👉 It’s about the pressure your dog feels within it.How interesting…Hope you enjoy this one! Tracy xoxox NEXT STEPS 👣🐾Ready to take this thing to the next level. Work with me for the next 12 months? 🐾 Join Fearful Dog: Fearless Framework (12-month program + community):👉 https://beyondobedience.ca/fearlessOther Resources🐾 Join the Living Beyond Obedience free community:👉 https://facebook.com/groups/livingbeyondobedience🐾 Discover your dog’s Dogonality™:👉 https://beyondobedience.ca/quiz🎵 Music credit: Shawn Trotter👉 https://shawntrotter.com

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    189 | Your Reactive Dog Doesn't Need More Friends

    Hey Dog Lover🐾Do you feel like your reactive dog needs more socialization… more exposure… more dog friends?What if that’s not actually true?In this episode, we’re unpacking one of the biggest mindset shifts for reactive dog owners: your dog doesn’t need to like other dogs to be successful.We dive into:Why forcing dog interactions can actually increase fear and reactivityThe difference between social and pro-social dogsWhat your dog is really telling you when they react to other dogsWhy confidence isn’t built through exposure—but through trustHow to shift your focus from “fixing” your dog to understanding themIf you’ve been trying slow introductions, dog park visits, or “just getting them used to it”… this episode will give you a whole new perspective.Because the real goal?A dog who feels safe, confident, and connected to YOU.How interesting… right? Hope you enjoy this one! Tracy xoxox Resources Mentioned🐾 Watch the Calm Down Dog Bootcamp replays:👉 https://beyondobedience.ca/replayNEXT STEPS 🐾👣Ready to take this to the next level? Join The Fearless Framework Online Coaching Program12 months of online supportMonthly Zoom Meet upsSupportive Community andStudent Discounts! Learn More at: The Fearless Framework 🐾 Join the Living Beyond Obedience free community:👉 https://facebook.com/groups/livingbeyondobedience🐾 Discover your dog’s Dogonality™: https://beyondobedience.ca/quiz🎵 Music credit: Shawn Trotter https://shawntrotter.com

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    188 | What Happens When You Stop Trying to Contol Your Reactive Dog

    Hey Dog Lover🐾Are you constantly trying to manage or control your reactive dog’s behaviour?Do you feel like if you’re not actively directing every moment, everything will fall apart?What if the real shift isn’t about controlling your dog… but about controlling yourself?In this episode, I’m sharing a personal turning point that changed the way I work with dogs forever.There was a time when I was teaching obedience classes — even though deep down I knew it wasn’t how I was actually living with my own dogs. It felt disingenuous to teach people to rely on commands and control when I knew the deeper transformation with dogs came from something else entirely.We talk about why so many reactive dog owners feel stuck in control mode, why obedience alone often falls short, and how real change begins when we shift our focus inward. If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing everything you’ve been told to do but your dog still struggles, this conversation will help you understand where the real leverage is.Hope you enjoy! Tracy xoxoResources and Links MentionedCalm Down, Dog! Bootcamp (FREE Live Event – March 18–20)Join us for this free 3-day live experience where we explore what leadership actually looks like to a dog and how to guide your dog to calm without relying on constant commands, treats, or techniques.👉 https://beyondobedience.ca/bootcampLiving Beyond Obedience (Free Facebook Community)Join thoughtful dog lovers having grounded conversations about life with reactive and fearful dogs.👉 https://www.facebook.com/groups/LivingBeyondObedienceConnecting with You and Next StepsContact → https://beyondobedience.ca/contactPodcast → Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or https://beyondobedience.ca/podcastConnect → Join the free Facebook group Living Beyond ObedienceResources → Take the Dogonality Quiz at https://beyondobedience.ca/quizNext Steps 🐾👣Step 1: Join a supportive community of dog owners who feel like they’ve tried everything but still feel stuck at the free Facebook group Living Beyond Obedience.Step 2: Register for the free Calm Down, Dog! Bootcamp happening March 18–20 athttps://beyondobedience.ca/bootcampStep 3: Get more personalized support inside The Fearful Dog Fearless Framework athttps://beyondobedience.ca/fearless

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    187 | Before the Bootcamp Starts: The One Thing Reactive Dogs Need From You

    Hey Dog Lover! 🐾This episode is a little different.If you’re joining the Calm Down Dog Bootcamp, consider this your bootcamp prep.Because before we even begin, there’s one shift that will make everything we talk about during the bootcamp make a whole lot more sense.Many reactive dog owners fall into a cycle:Something happens.The dog reacts.We try to fix the reaction.More training.More techniques.More management.But reactive dogs are rarely struggling with obedience.They’re struggling with certainty.Dogs are constantly asking questions about the world around them:Is this safe?Do I need to handle this?Or are you handling it?When those questions don’t have clear answers, dogs often try to manage the world themselves — and that’s when reactivity shows up.In this episode, we explore the leadership shift that helps reactive dogs finally relax and begin asking questions instead of reacting.The Calm Down Dog Bootcamp starts tomorrow.March 17–19One hour a dayLive on Zoom (with replays available)Inside the free Facebook group, we’ve already started reset challenges, conversations, and giveaways.Grab your spot here:beyondobedience.ca/bootcamp

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    186 | Your Reactive Dog Isn’t Overreacting: So Why Are They Always On Edge?

    Hey Dog Lover🐾Reactive dogs often look like they are overreacting to the world.They bark.They lunge.They scan every movement.But what if your dog isn’t overreacting at all?What if your dog is simply trying to manage a world that feels uncertain?In this episode, we explore why reactive dogs often live in a state of hyper-vigilance and the important difference between:• prey drive• fear• hyper-awarenessMany reactive dogs are constantly watching the environment because they believe it’s their responsibility to handle it.And that responsibility is exhausting.When dogs don’t feel clarity about who is handling the situation, they often try to solve the problem themselves — which leads to barking, lunging, and reacting.In this episode, we unpack why that happens and what reactive dogs are actually looking for from their humans.Hope you enjoy! Tracy xoxoxNEXT STEPS 👣🐾Calm Down Dog BootcampThe Calm Down Dog Bootcamp runs March 17–19 and is designed specifically for dog lovers living with fearful or reactive dogs.Three days.One hour a day.Real conversations and practical insight you can start using immediately.Join here:beyondobedience.ca/bootcampJoin the Community! Living Beyond Obedience On FacebookGot a Question? Leave me a message! www.beyondobedience.ca/contact

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    185 | Dogs Don’t See the World Like Humans: Why Reactive Dogs Struggle in “Humansville"

    Hey Dog Lover🐾If you’ve ever wondered why your dog reacts to things that seem completely normal to you… this episode will help you see the world through your dog’s eyes.Humans live in a world of social rules and expectations.Be polite.Be friendly.Get along with everyone.But dogs don’t live in that world.Dogs live in a world of social units and assessment — where every new dog, person, or situation has to be evaluated before it’s considered safe.When we forget that difference, we unintentionally create confusion for our dogs. And that confusion often shows up as fear, anxiety, or reactivity.In this episode, we explore the relevance gap between humans and dogs and why expecting dogs to see the world the way we do can make life much harder for them.Understanding this shift can change how you see your dog — and your relationship — forever.If you’re living with a reactive or fearful dog, this is an episode you won't want to miss this! Hope you enjoy this episodeTracy xoxoxNEXT STEPS👣🐾Calm Down Dog Bootcamp The Calm Down Dog Bootcamp is happening March 17–19.Three days.One hour a day.Simple shifts that can dramatically change how you and your dog move through the world together.Join here:beyondobedience.ca/bootcampJoin the community! Living Beyond Obedience on Facebook Loving the show?Leave a message or testimonial! BeyondObedience.ca/Contact

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    184 | Ready to Stop Controlling Your Reactive Dog? The Shift That Changes Everything

    Hey Dog Lover! 🐾In this episode, I’m diving into a powerful shift that changes everything: control yourself and influence the dog — don’t try to control the dog.If you have a reactive or fearful dog, it’s easy to fall into control mode. More commands. More management. More micromanaging every situation. It feels responsible. It feels proactive. But what if it’s actually keeping you stuck?We’ll explore the difference between control and influence, why hesitation erodes leadership, and how real change begins when you stop waiting for your dog to calm down so you can feel steady. This conversation will challenge you — gently — to consider whether you’re truly ready for change… not just for your dog, but for yourself.Hope you enjoy this one! Tracy xoxoNEXT STEPS 👣🐾Calm Down, Dog! Bootcamp (FREE Live Event – March 17-19th)This is where we explore what leadership actually looks like to a dog, how your presence shapes behaviour, and how to shift from control to influence in real time.👉 https://beyondobedience.ca/bootcampLiving Beyond Obedience (Free Facebook Community)Join thoughtful dog owners having grounded, real conversations about life with reactive and fearful dogs.👉 www.facebook.com/groups/LivingBeyondObedienceReady to work with me? Join the Fearless Framework! 12-month online course and community where you will learn how easy it can be to live with your dog! Learn more atwww.beyondobedience.ca/fearless CONTACT ME:Contact → https://beyondobedience.ca/contactPodcast → Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or https://beyondobedience.ca/podcastConnect → Join the free Facebook group Living Beyond ObedienceResources → Take the Dogonality Quiz at https://beyondobedience.ca/quiz

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    183 | Why Doing Less Feels So Wrong With A Reactive Dog

    Hey Dog Lover! 🐾Do you feel like if you’re not actively training your reactive dog, you’re failing them?Does slowing down make you anxious… like you’re falling behind or not doing enough?Have you ever tried to “do less” with your dog — and immediately felt guilty about it?In this episode, I’m sharing why doing less with your reactive or fearful dog can feel so uncomfortable — and why that discomfort might actually be the doorway to real change.We’ve been conditioned to believe that progress comes from doing more: more commands, more exposure, more management, more effort. But what if your dog doesn’t need more from you? What if they need clearer?We’ll talk about hustle-based training culture, the exhaustion that comes from trying harder, and why influence and leadership often grow in quieter, steadier spaces. If you’ve been feeling tired, stuck, or unsure whether slowing down is the right move, this episode will help you understand what’s really happening underneath that tensionHope you enjoy this one! Tracy xoxoNEXT STEPS👣🐾Join the CALM DOWN, DOG Bootcamp! Happening Mar 17-19th, 2026Sign up today at www.beyondobedience.ca/bootcampRESOURCES AND LINKS MENTIONEDCalm Down, Dog! Bootcamp (FREE Live Event – March 18–20)Join us for this free 3-day live experience where we’ll explore what leadership actually looks like to a dog, why behavior isn’t just a training problem, and how your presence changes everything.👉 https://beyondobedience.ca/bootcampLiving Beyond Obedience (Free Facebook Community)Continue the conversation in a grounded, non-judgmental space with other thoughtful dog lovers.👉 https://www.facebook.com/groups/LivingBeyondObedienceRelated Episode:Why Understanding Your Dog’s Fearful or Reactive Behaviour Isn’t EnoughRelated Episode:Is “Good Enough” Keeping Your Dog Stuck? The Hidden Cost of AvoidanceCONNECT WITH MEContact → https://beyondobedience.ca/contactPodcast → Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or https://beyondobedience.ca/podcastConnect → Join our free Facebook group Living Beyond ObedienceFacebook -> Beyond Obedience Resources → Take the Dogonality Quiz at https://beyondobedience.ca/quiz

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    182 | Are You Micro Managing Your Reactive Dog? Why Obedience Just Ain't Cutting It

    Hey Dog Lover 🐾Does everything feel a little… chaotic right now?Are your walks feeling harder than they used to?Have you tried more training, more treats, more techniques… and you’re still wondering why nothing is really changing?In this episode, I’m sharing why your dog’s behavior might not be a training problem at all — and why adding more commands isn’t the answer.If the world feels heavy and your home is starting to feel tense, this conversation is for you.We’re talking about what dogs actually respond to, why traditional methods often fall short, and how to guide your dog to calm without relying on treats, tools, and techniques that haven’t worked long term.And I’m inviting you to join me inside the Calm Down, Dog! Bootcamp — a free, three-day live experience where we’ll reset the chaos, build leadership, and help you become someone your dog feels safe following.If you’re ready to stop managing symptoms and start understanding what’s really driving behaviour… this is your next step.Hope you Enjoy!Tracy xoxoResources and Links MentionedJoin the FREE Calm Down, Dog! Bootcamp →https://beyondobedience.ca/bootcampJump into the free Facebook community and start the Calm Down, Dog Reset today.Next Steps👣🐾:Step 1: Join a supportive community of dog owners who want calm, confident dogs inside the free Living Beyond Obedience. Facebook group.Step 2: Take the Dogonality Quiz. It's free, it's fun, and it's full of great doggie insights! www.beyondobedience.ca/quizStep 3: Get deeper support inside The Fearful Dog: Fearless Framework program at beyondobedience.ca/fearless

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    181 | Are You in Survival Mode With Your Reactive Dog? The Reset You Need Right Now

    Hey Dog Lover! 🐾Do you feel like you’re just going through the motions with your reactive dog?Has your world quietly gotten smaller… even though you swore it never would?Are you surviving with your dog instead of intentionally leading?In this episode, I’m sharing an honest conversation about survival mode, shrinking leadership, and the difference between going through the motions and intentional movement so you can reconnect with your dog without trying harder or doing more.Sometimes leadership doesn’t slip away because we explode.Sometimes it slips away because we quietly withdraw.If you’ve been feeling heavy, tired, or stuck — not because you don’t care, but because the world feels loud and overwhelming — this episode will help you shift from survival to intentional presence with your dog.This also marks the beginning of the Calm Down, Dog! Reset happening inside the Bootcamp community — where we focus on doing less, noticing more, and rebuilding steady leadership from the inside out.Enjoy! Tracy xoxoResources and Links MentionedCalm Down, Dog! Bootcamp (March 17–19th )👉 www.beyondobedience.ca/bootcampJoin the free Living Beyond Obedience Facebook Group👉 https://www.facebook.com/groups/LivingBeyondObedienceTake the Dogonality Quiz👉 www.beyondobedience.ca/quizNEXT STEPS 👣🐾Next Steps:Step 1: Join a supportive community of dog owners who feel like they’ve tried everything but still feel stuck inside the free Facebook group Living Beyond ObedienceStep 2: Take the Dogonality Quiz to better understand how your dog is wired and where leadership gaps may be happeningStep 3: Get personalized support inside The Fearful Dog Fearless Framework👉 www.beyondobedience.ca/fearless

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    180 | How to Lead a Fearful or Reactive Dog (Without Force, Treats or Trying Harder)

    Hey Dog Lover 🐾Are you trying everything with your reactive or fearful dog… but nothing seems to stick?Do you find yourself talking more, soothing more, managing more — and still feeling stuck?Have you ever stopped to ask… what if leadership isn’t about doing more, but about becoming clearer?We’re breaking down:Why “it’s okay” isn’t always helpfulThe difference between clarity and noiseWhat dogs actually respond to (hint: it’s not volume)How your nervous system affects your dogWhy your presence matters more than you thinkIf you’ve ever had that moment of realization — “I didn’t realize how much influence I have” — this episode will shift the way you see yourself in your dog’s world.Hope you enjoy! xoxox Tracy NEXT STEPS:🐾👣🎉It's BACK!!!!Happening March 17th, 18th, and 19th🎉LIVE! FREE! FUN! THE CALM DOWN, DOG! BOOTCAMPThis live bootcamp is where we:simplify fear, unpack what leadership actually looks like from a dog’s perspective help you determine whether you’re helping or unintentionally hindering your dog’s progress.You’ll see — in real time — how calm, confident presence changes behaviour. (🤯) This isn’t about fixing your dog in three days.It’s about gaining clarity on what truly needs to shift.Save your spot here:→ www.beyondobedience.ca/bootcampJOIN THE COMMUNITY! This is where thoughtful dog owners gather to continue these conversations in real time. Share your wins, ask questions, and connect with others who care about leadership, trust, and relationships over obedience.Join us here:→ LivingBeyondObedienceTAKE THE QUIZ!Not all dogs are wired the same — and leadership isn’t one-size-fits-all.The Dogonality Quiz helps you understand your dog’s natural temperament so you can stop guessing and start leading with relevance.Take it here:→ www.beyondobedience.ca/quizGET IN TOUCH: Contact → www.beyondobedience.ca/contactPodcast → www.beyondobedience.ca/podcastCommunity → Living Beyond Obedience Facebook GroupFree Resource → www.beyondobedience.ca/quiz🎶Music Credit: Shawn Trotter www.shawntrotter.com

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    179 | Reactive Dog Not Improving? The Leadership Shift Most Owners Miss

    Hey Dog Lover 🐾Are you doing everything “right” with your reactive or fearful dog… but still not seeing progress?Have you ever wondered if the thing holding your dog back might not actually be your dog?Does it feel uncomfortable to admit that maybe your influence matters more than you thought?In this episode, I’m sharing the leadership shift most reactive dog owners miss so you can stop trying harder and start leading clearer.We talk about:The uncomfortable realization that influence isn’t blameWhy awareness doesn’t automatically equal leadershipThe difference between empathy and directionWhy tools (yes, even treats) don’t create trustHow shifting from shame to curiosity changes everythingIf you’ve ever had that quiet thought — “What if I’m part of the pattern?” — this episode will help you reframe that realization as empowerment, not failure.Because if you’re part of the equation…You’re also part of the solution.Hope you enjoy this one!Tracy xoxoxoNEXT STEPS 👣🐾🐾 Join the Living Beyond Obedience Facebook CommunityThis is where thoughtful dog owners continue the conversation around leadership, trust, and building confidence without force.Join us here:→ https://www.facebook.com/groups/LivingBeyondObedience🐾 Take the Dogonality Quiz (Free)Leadership isn’t one-size-fits-all.The Dogonality Quiz helps you understand how your dog is naturally wired so you can stop guessing and start leading with clarity and relevance.Take it here:→ www.beyondobedience.ca/quizEnroll in The Fearless FrameworkJoin dog lovers like you in the most supportive student community on Facebook. (bold statement I know!) The Fearless Framework is a 12 month online program for dog lovers who want that deeper understanding and connection with their dog so that everything else gets easier. Find out more at: BeyondObedience.ca/fearlessConnecting with MeContact → www.beyondobedience.ca/contactPodcast → www.beyondobedience.ca/podcastConnect → Living Beyond Obedience Facebook GroupFree Resource → www.beyondobedience.ca/quizMusic Credit: Shawn Trotter www.shawntrotter.com

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    178 | Is ‘Good Enough’ Keeping Your Dog Stuck? The Hidden Cost of Avoidance in Fearful Dogs

    Hey Dog Lover! 🐾Have you ever settled for “good enough” with your dog because pushing felt risky, exhausting, or unfair?Do you avoid certain situations, walks, or challenges because you don’t want to make things worse — even though your dog’s world feels smaller than it used to?Have you wondered whether being gentle, patient, and understanding might actually be slowing your dog’s progress?In this episode, I’m unpacking a phase many thoughtful dog owners find themselves in — choosing “good enough” because it feels safer than asking for more.We talk about how avoidance can masquerade as kindness, why reassurance without direction isn’t neutral for dogs, and how settling into “good enough” can quietly keep fear and reactivity in place. This conversation isn’t about pushing your dog, ignoring fear, or demanding perfection.It’s about understanding the difference between compassion that protects… and leadership that helps your dog move forward knowing they’re not alone.Related Episode:Why Understanding Your Dog’s Fearful or Reactive Behaviour Isn’t EnoughConnecting with MeContact → https://www.beyondobedience.ca/contactPodcast → https://www.beyondobedience.ca/podcastConnect → Join the free Facebook group Living Beyond Obedience👉 https://www.facebook.com/groups/LivingBeyondObedienceFree Resource → Take the Dogonality Quiz👉 https://www.beyondobedience.ca/quizNext Steps 🐾👣Step 1:Join a supportive community of thoughtful dog owners who are ready to move beyond “good enough” and show up as calm, reliable leadership inside the free Facebook group Living Beyond Obedience.Step 2:Learn how your dog is wired and what they truly need from you by taking the free Dogonality Quiz.👉 https://www.beyondobedience.ca/quizStep 3:Explore deeper support inside The Fearless Framework, a relationship-first program designed to help you and your dog build confidence, trust, and forward movement together.👉 https://www.beyondobedience.ca/fearless

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    177 | Why Understanding Your Dog's Fearful or Reactive Behaviour isn't Enough

    Hey Dog Lover, 🐾Do you understand why your dog is fearful, reactive, or overwhelmed — but still feel stuck in the same patterns?Have you done the learning, the reframing, the mindset work… yet life with your dog still feels harder than it should?If you’ve ever thought, “I get it… but nothing is really changing,” this episode is for you.In this conversation, I’m talking about a phase that thoughtful, compassionate dog owners reach all the time — the moment when understanding your dog stops being enough.We explore the difference between awareness and leadership, why empathy alone doesn’t build confidence, and how it’s possible to be calm, kind, and deeply invested… yet still stuck. This episode isn’t about doing more, training harder, or fixing your dog.It’s about noticing the threshold — and understanding why camping there feels safe… and costly.Next StepsStep 1:Join a supportive community of thoughtful dog owners learning how to show up as calm, reliable leadership inside the free Facebook group Living Beyond Obedience.👉 https://www.facebook.com/groups/LivingBeyondObedienceStep 2:Discover how your dog is wired and what they actually need from you by taking the free Dogonality Quiz.👉 https://www.beyondobedience.ca/quizStep 3:Explore deeper support inside The Fearless Framework, a relationship-first program designed to help you and your dog move forward together.👉 https://www.beyondobedience.ca/fearlessContact: https://www.beyondobedience.ca/contactPodcast: https://www.beyondobedience.ca/podcast🎵 Music Credit: Shawn Trotter www.shawntrotter.com

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    176 | How to Be the Best Dog Mom Ever: 6 Ways to Build Trust, Confidence and Connection

    Hey Dog Lover 🐾What does it really mean to be the best dog mom ever?Is it the perfect heel?The polished down stay?The dog who never embarrasses you in public?Or… is it something deeper?In this heartfelt and slightly sentimental episode, I’m sharing a story about my son, a skating relay race, and a spectacular public “failure” that turned out to be one of the greatest lessons on confidence I’ve ever witnessed.And yes — it has everything to do with your dog.Because here’s the truth:👉 Confidence is built through experience, not around it.👉 You can’t train fear out of a dog.👉 But you can help them walk through it.If we keep pulling our dogs away from every uncomfortable moment because we fear judgment, embarrassment, or failure, they never get the “Oh my gosh… I didn’t die!” life-layering moment that builds real confidence.In this episode, we explore:🐾 Why avoiding discomfort may actually be holding your dog back🐾 How your fear of judgment could be influencing your dog more than you think🐾 What it really looks like to build trust instead of chasing obedience🐾 The difference between rescuing your dog and supporting your dog🐾 Why celebrating tiny wins changes everything🐾 How to let go of who you thought your dog would be — and truly meet the dog in front of youAnd of course, I’ll give you 6 practical ways to step into confident, relationship-first leadership so you can become the steady, calm, relevant guide your dog needs.Because being the best dog mom isn’t about perfection.It’s about:Letting them try.Holding space without fixing.Celebrating effort over polish.Getting deeply curious about who they are.Letting go of ego.Wanting growth for them — not praise for you.So if you’ve ever worried about being “the one with the ding-dong dog” in public…If you’ve ever felt that pang of embarrassment when your dog reacts…Or if you’re simply longing to build deeper trust and confidence without turning everything into a training session…This episode is for you.Grab your leash — we’re diving in.Hope you enjoy! Tracy xoxoNEXT STEPS 👣🐾If you want real guidance, real structure, and real support…Come work with me inside The Fearless Framework.It’s my 12-month online coaching program designed to help dog lovers:Build confidence naturallyBreak the fear cycleStrengthen trust and leadershipCreate calm connection without constant “training”You’ll get monthly Q&As, behaviour video reviews, coaching support, and a community of dog moms who get it.If you’re ready to stop second-guessing yourself and start showing up as the steady leader your dog needs…👉 Join us at beyondobedience.ca/fearless2. Discover Your Dog’s Unique Dogonality™Want to understand your dog on a deeper level?Not just “reactive” or “stubborn” or “too much”…But who they actually are?Take the Dogonality Quiz and discover your dog’s natural tendencies — because when you understand your dog’s genetic resume, everything starts to make more sense.And when things make sense?You stop trying to control… and start getting curious.👉 Take the quiz at beyondobedience.ca/quiz“How interesting…” might just become your new favourite phrase. 😉3. Join the Community You do not have to do this alone.Come join us inside the free Facebook group Living Beyond Obedience, where we talk leadership, trust, confidence, and real life with dogs.It’s filled with dog lovers just like you — people who care deeply and want to build better relationships, not just better behaviours.Search Living Beyond Obedience on Facebook and jump in.Because remember…Your dog already thinks you’re amazing.

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    175 | You Love Your Dog—So Why Isn’t He Listening?

    Hey, dog lover! 🐾You love your dog—probably more than most people, right? So why does it still feel like your dog isn’t listening? Why do they ignore your call, run the other way, or tune you out when it really matters?In this episode, we’re busting the big myth that love = relevance. (Spoiler alert: it doesn’t.) We’ll explore why your love does matter deeply—but why it isn’t the currency your dog uses to decide who to follow, trust, or prioritize.We’ll talk about how dogs view the world through a survival-based lens, why emotional closeness doesn’t automatically equal relationship strength, and how to become more relevant in your dog’s life through shared experiences, not just snuggles.This is one of those episodes that can totally shift how you see your dog’s behaviour—and help you stop taking it so personally.Hope you enjoy this one,Tracy🐾👣 Next Steps:✅ Wanna hang out and learn more with me?Join the Fearless Framework, my 12-month online program designed to help you create an unshakable bond with your dog. You’ll build trust, relevance, and fulfillment in a way that makes living with your dog easier—no treat pouch required.👉 beyondobedience.ca/fearless✅ Join our free community on FacebookCome connect with other dog lovers inside Living Beyond Obedience—share stories, post pics, ask questions, and celebrate your wins. It’s full of heart and full of hope.👉 Join here✅ Want to know your dog’s unique Dogonality™?Take the free Dogonality™ Quiz and discover tips, insights, and ways to better connect with your one-of-a-kind dog.👉 beyondobedience.ca/quiz🎵 Music credit: Shawn Trotter – shawntrotter.com

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    174 | Am I Doing Enough for My Dog? The Truth About Fulfillment, Leadership & Time

    Hey, Dog Lover! 🐾Ever find yourself wondering how much time your dog really needs from you each day? Is it about hours spent playing fetch—or is there something deeper that actually fills their cup?In this episode, we dive into a voice message from a listener (hi, Rachel!) who asks a question every dog lover has wrestled with: What’s a fair amount of time to spend with your dog? The answer? It’s not about time—it’s about quality, fulfillment, leadership, and rhythm.We explore what true dog fulfillment looks like (hint: it’s not just tiring them out), how to avoid being accidentally manipulated by your clever pup, and how to build a life where your dog understands the natural rhythms of the day. You’ll also get a crash course in my Leadership Scorecard and how it helps you become someone your dog truly trusts and chooses to follow—without needing a treat pouch in your pocket.Whether you’ve got a couch potato or a squirrel-chasing explorer, this episode will help you feel confident in how you're showing up for your dog.Hope you enjoy this one,Tracy🐾👣 Next Steps:✅ Wanna hang out and learn more with me?Join the Fearless Framework, my 12-month online program designed to help you create an unshakable bond with your dog. You’ll build trust, relevance, and fulfillment in a way that makes living with your dog easier—no treat pouch required.👉 beyondobedience.ca/fearless✅ Join our free community on FacebookCome connect with other dog lovers inside Living Beyond Obedience—share stories, post pics, ask questions, and celebrate your wins. It’s full of heart and full of hope.👉 Join here✅ Want to know your dog’s unique Dogonality™?Take the free Dogonality™ Quiz and discover tips, insights, and ways to better connect with your one-of-a-kind dog.👉 beyondobedience.ca/quiz🎵 Music credit: Shawn Trotter – shawntrotter.com

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    173 | Still Struggling with Your ‘Well-Trained’ Dog? Why Obedience Isn’t the Answer

    Hey, Dog Lover! 🐾In today’s myth-busting episode, we’re unpacking one of the most common misconceptions in dog training: that obedience equals leadership.You’ll learn why being able to get your dog to “sit” or “heel” on cue doesn’t necessarily mean you’re the one they trust to lead. We’ll talk about what real leadership looks like to your dog—from the power of calm and predictability, to understanding how dogs use space, movement, and presence to communicate.I’ll also share my Leadership Scorecard concept and why training eye contact isn’t the same as earning it. This episode is all about helping you shift from a transactional dynamic to a trust-based relationship that makes everything easier—from daily walks to big life transitions.Whether you’re new to dog behaviour or a seasoned trainer rethinking your approach, this one is for you.Hope you enjoy this episode,TracyNext Steps 👣🐾:Want to take your relationship to the next level?Jump into the Fearless Framework, my 12-month online program built for dog lovers who want to create an unshakable bond with their dog and make everyday life easier through trust, leadership, and confidence—not constant training.👉 beyondobedience.ca/fearlessJoin our free community!Come hang out with other like-minded dog lovers in the Living Beyond Obedience Facebook group for support, laughs, and lots of “How interesting!” moments.👉 Join the group hereGot a question or want to leave a voice review?I love hearing from you! Head to beyondobedience.ca/contact and click the orange mic to drop me a message.Take the Doginality™ QuizDiscover your dog’s unique Dogonality™ and get personalized tips on how to connect and communicate more effectively with the dog you actually have.👉beyondobedience.ca/quiz🎵 Special thanks and music credit: Shawn Trotter – shawntrotter.com

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    172 | 3 Unexpected Ways to Bond with Your Fearful Dog

    Hey Dog Lover 🐾If your dog flinches when you reach out… freezes when you get too close… or simply tolerates affection without really softening into it—this episode is for you.We’re a touchy-feely species. Dogs are not.Especially dogs who are fearful, anxious, or still learning to feel safe in the world.In this episode of the Fearless Dog Lover Podcast, I’m sharing three powerful, connection-deepening ways to bond with your dog—that don’t involve touch at all.You’ll learn:Why closeness isn’t the same as consent (and how to honor that difference)The subtle ways we accidentally add pressure to already-sensitive dogsHow to create safety, trust, and relevance through orientation, rhythm, and presenceWhy the calmest moments—not the cuddliest ones—often leave the biggest markWhether you're working with a newly adopted dog, a lifelong worrier, or just want to strengthen your relationship beyond obedience, this episode will help you stop chasing connection and start creating the space for it.Because your dog doesn’t need constant reassurance.They need you to be someone they can trust—even in the quiet.Hope you enjoy! Tracy xoxoNext Steps 👣🐾Ready to take this work deeper and truly become the calm, confident leader your dog longs to follow?Join the Fearless Framework—my 12-month online program for dog lovers navigating fear, reactivity, and unconfidence(and yes—we help the dogs too)👉 www.beyondobedience.ca/fearlessCurious about your dog’s unique Dogonality™?Take the free quiz and start understanding your dog’s needs, preferences, and patterns.👉 www.beyondobedience.ca/quizWant community support and real talk from folks on the same path?Join us in the free Facebook group: Living Beyond Obedience👉 facebook.com/groups/livingbeyondobedienceWant your question featured on a future episode?Head to beyondobedience.ca/contact, tap the orange mic, and leave me a message!🎶 Music Credit:Shawn Trotter – www.shawntrotter.com

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Do you long to have a happy, confident dog you can take anywhere?Are you worried your reactive, fearful dog may hurt someone or something else?Do you have to “prepare” yourself to take your dog for a walk around the block?Hey there! I’m Tracy, a retired vet tech turned dog trainer, mom, wife and all-around dog lover. When I realized the key to building confidence in my dog was in understanding him and NOT just tossing treats and obedience my life changed! Now I have a pack of “just good dogs” I trust to take anywhere. And I am sharing it all here! So put down that leash & let's get to it!

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Tracy Franken- Retired Vet Tech , Dog Trainer, Dog Lover, Dog Bond Specialist 🐾

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