Bitch Up!

This episode, Ixchel and Lucero explore the evolution of club culture, its roots in media and music, and how modern trends and social dynamics are transforming nightlife experiences. They analyze the shift from inclusive spaces to commercialized environments and the impact of social media on behavior and perceptions. Join the Bitch Up Girlies as they discuss how to revive and redefine the club scene for a new generation

Hey Bitch Up Gang! How many of you watched the Love Island Finale?In this episode, Ixchel and Lucero dive deep into the chaos, the connections, and the fiery drama of the Love Island finale. We discuss why some couples appear perfect but are hollow, and others seem genuine but are misunderstood. Discover how ego, race, and insecurities drive these fleeting romances, and why everyone, including the cast, is just playing the game of fame and validation.

Most of us carry a silent, heavy burden — the elder sister syndrome. That relentless need to be responsible for everyone’s happiness, success, and well-being often comes at a cost we don’t even see. In this episode, Ixchel and Lucero explore their own journey and dive into the unspoken rules, expectations, and emotional labor that elder sisters and first-generation kids know all too well. From hyperresponsibility to perfectionism, from parentification to the constant need to hide vulnerability, they peel back the layers of what it really means to be the default caretaker. These patterns aren’t just stories — they shape your identity, your relationships, and your mental health.

In this episode, Ixchel and Lucero open up about personal struggles and support each other through grief, stress, and emotional burnout. The conversation then moves into a deep dive on “bird behavior,” unpacking the slang’s history and its use as a critique of women in relationships. They explore the tension between accountability and compassion, arguing that while people should recognize unhealthy patterns, shame and dehumanizing language don’t lead to real change. The episode closes with a broader reflection on self-worth, communication, and the importance of holding both men and women accountable in relationships.

In this episode, Lucero and Ixchel unpack the World Cup as more than a tournament. It’s a global stage where cultures, politics, and community collide. They talk through the excitement of fans from different countries coming together, the joy of watching the sport in shared spaces, and how soccer creates instant connection even among strangers.At the same time, they don’t shy away from the bigger tensions around hosting the World Cup across the U.S., Mexico, and Canada: immigration barriers, commercialization, ticket pricing, and the reality that sports are never fully separate from politics. They also celebrate the beauty of underdog stories, the growing visibility of smaller nations, and the way the World Cup can spark pride, curiosity, and cultural exchange across borders.Ultimately, the episode highlights soccer as a unifying force — one that brings cultures together through passion, celebration, and shared emotion, even while exposing the inequalities beneath the spectacle

If you’ve ever wondered what’s real versus staged in shows like Love Island, this episode offers a front-row seat. Explore the first episodes of Love Island USA Season 8, where genuine connections simmer beneath the surface. Beyond the drama, Ixchel and Lucero reflect on the season so far and what is says about society’s evolving dating norms, insecurities, and the pursuit of love and fame. While connections may seem superficial, deeper truths are bubbling beneath. We delve into how young hearts navigate Love Island's intense dynamics, how casting shapes a “normal” yet complex cast, and why genuine conversations often get lost in editing. From early bombshell arrivals to age gaps testing more than chemistry, cultural influences, and the impact of age and background on perceptions, discover why playing it safe might conceal deep insecurities and fears.

In today's music world, art is more accessible than ever before but only if you're ready to scroll, skip, or pay top dollar. This week, Lucero and Ixchel explore the evolving music industry landscape, where economic pressures and technological advancements are reshaping how artists tour and release albums. From surprise drops to streaming-driven releases, they discuss how streaming impacts artists' revenue, pushing them to tour more as a primary income source, and what this means for affordability and accessibility. As the industry shifts, there's a move towards more intimate, stripped-down performances, reflecting our changing relationship with technology and a craving for authentic experiences.

Ever found yourself asking, “Am I a bitch?” This episode dives into the raw and unapologetic moments that challenge our boundaries and behavior. Join Ixchel and Lucero as they explore stories of women who boldly confront creeps, navigate toxic friendships, and reveal family secrets with unfiltered honesty. Discover the fine line between being assertive and being labeled as a "bitch" or “bitchy.”From setting boundaries with toxic people to dealing with wedding day betrayals, these tales encourage you to reflect on your own actions and relationships. Are you standing your ground or crossing the line? This isn’t just gossip—it's a candid exploration of what it means to be true to yourself, even when it’s messy. This episode invites you to reflect on your boundaries, relationships, and the true meaning of standing up for yourself in reckless, hilarious, and sometimes heartbreaking ways.

Most people are waking up to the fact that their spiritual roots—whether they realize it or not—are becoming a refuge in a chaotic, sterile world. But why now? Why are more Gen Z and Millennials turning back to Catholicism’s rich, aesthetic, and ritualistic traditions? Grab a seat—what you’re about to hear might just flip your perspective on faith, community, and rebellion.In this episode, Ixchel and Lucero dive into the resurgence of Catholicism, exploring everything from its breathtaking gothic architecture, vibrant cultural expressions, to the powerful pull of tradition amid modern chaos. But beneath the beauty lies a deeper story: a quest for meaning, stability, and belonging in a world that’s lost its moral compass, allegedly.Why does it matter? Because the spiritual revival isn’t just about faith—it's about creating spaces of stability, beauty, and meaning in an unstable world. If we ignore this trend, we miss the opportunity to understand what draws millions to a religion with a violent history yet nurtures community. And if we’re vigilant, we can challenge the misuse of faith as a weapon of division, hate, or control.Join us, and let’s question, celebrate, and explore the layered depths of faith in a restless world.

Most men are sold a toxic script about masculinity that keeps them feeling lost, angry, and disconnected. But what if the real answer isn’t more dominance — it’s understanding?In episode, discuss the documentary, "Inside the Manosphere" by Louis Theroux which peels back the curtain on manosphere’s dangerous myths, exposing how manipulation, objectification, and patriarchy trap men in a cycle of suffering. We analyze the damage of hyper-masculinity, the false allure of high-value manhood, and the tragic link between absent fathers and toxic ideology. This episode isn’t just a critique—it’s a call to action. Understanding these dynamics is the first step towards healing, unity, and breaking free from the cycle of control and alienation. Perfect for anyone tired of surface-level conversations, craving authentic connections, and committed to creating a better future for all genders. Listen if you're ready to challenge the status quo, embrace empathy, and stand up for real change. Because the future isn’t found in blindly following the same old scripts—it's in rewriting the story with love and understanding.

Time to get real about the stories we tell ourselves—because what we grew up believing about girlhood, nostalgia, and escapism shapes us more than we realize. In this episode, we dive into the powerful ways iconic childhood films like The Little Princess, Matilda, Barbie, The Secret Garden, etc. aren’t just entertainment—they’re portals that helped us navigate the liminal space between girlhood and womanhood. We break down how these stories offer more than escape—they provide agency, community, and a way to heal that inner child we so often forget.We also talk about the commercialization and spectacle of nostalgia—how brands, concerts, and social media turn our childhood memories into commodified experiences that can either empower or trap us. From the rise of aesthetic girlhood as a curated performative identity and the cult of celebrity reverence, you’ll see how capitalism cleverly markets our deepest needs for whimsy and belonging.

This episode spills the tea about surviving Coachella—sick, tired, and still shining. Buckle up as Ixchel and Lucero bare all: the hilarious mishaps, the unexpected lessons, and how to navigate the chaos of crowds and stage planning. Plus, insights on festival logistics that make or break your experience—because let’s be real, nobody signed up for long lines or scammy pizza. Whether you’re a festival veteran or contemplating your first one, this is your truth serum—raw, funny, and necessary. Hit play and let Ixchel and Lucero remind you: you’re allowed to be a hot mess and still show up fierce.

In this episode, Ixchel and Lucero analyze Becky G's candid interview on Call Her Daddy, exploring her personal journey, industry support, and perspectives on relationships and betrayal. They delve into her authenticity, industry dynamics, and societal expectations for women, offering nuanced insights into fame, love, and self-awareness.

Ever wondered how much of the glamour is real and what’s lurking behind the scenes of iconic shows like America’s Next Top Model? This episode offers an in-depth analysis of the ANTM Documentary, the realities behind the iconic show --- exploring its impact on participants, industry standards, controversies, and lessons learned, providing a nuanced perspective on reality TV's role in fashion and culture.This episode is a no-holds-barred exploration—perfect for anyone tired of the superficial and ready for real talk. Don’t just listen—think about the influence you wield as a consumer and how our collective voices can spark genuine change.Are you ready to #BitchUp and take your seat at the table? Let’s go!

We are back Bitch Up Fam! Get ready to dive into a vibrant, no-holds-barred conversation about life, growth, and shaking things up! We are back with another season of unfiltered honesty and fresh ambitions for the year ahead.In this episode, Ixchel and Lucero dive into the pressing importance of educating ourselves amid societal frustration and misinformation. They share personal journeys of learning, confronting privileges, and the collective need for community-driven change. Grab a drink and your favorite snack and join us down this rabbit hole!

Its the end of the year and the end of Season 3! Join the Bitch Up Girlies on their last episode of the season as they discuss their year-end music wrap-ups, significant pop culture moments, and share their aspirations for the new year, emphasizing the significance of compassion, financial literacy, and self-care.We are so grateful for the support! Wishing you all the best and a Happy New Year! See you in March! Good Luck Bitches!

Hola Bitch Up Baddies! It's Christmas Eve!In this episode, Ixchel and Lucero gift lists, favorite holiday songs, and the ongoing debate about what constitutes a Christmas movies, sharing personal anecdotes and insights that highlight the warmth and joy of the season. The episode culminates in a celebration of their 100th podcast episode, reflecting on their journey and the joy of sharing these festive discussions with their audience.

It's Sagittarius Season and our favorite Sagittarius is turning 32! In this episode, Ixchel interviews the Birthday Girl, Lucero, who reflects on memorable birthdays, her wishes and aspirations for 32, and a break down of everything she learned while being 31 . Grab a piece of cake and your favorite birthday drink and Join the Bitch Up Girlies on this special episode!

It's Thanksgiving Week! In this episode, Ixchel and Lucero discuss the origins of Friendsgiving, why Thanksgiving is a dying holiday, and disagree on their Thanksgiving Hot-takes. Grab a plate and join in on this chaotic episode.

Sometimes there are moments in life that cause you to appreciate the little things you never paid attention to and take for granted. In this episode, Ixchel and Lucero welcome back Anthony Garcia, who shares his near-death experience due to alcoholism and a failing liver. Throughout this episode, he reflects on the choices that lead him down this path and how this experience permanently changed his lifestyle and perspective.

The girls are back together and Breeonn Jones is back on the pod! In this episode, Breeonn, Ixchel, and Lucero engage in the epitome of girl talk and reflect on their weekend in Vegas, personal growth, business strategies, investing in skills, and community engagement. They also deep dive into the evolution artists and the music industry, discussing the performances of artists like Brandy and Monica, and the dynamics of artist rivalries in the music industry.

Feliz Dia de los Muertos!In this episode, Ixchel and Lucero explore the rich cultural significance of Dia de los Muertos, the misconceptions surrounding the tradition, its historical roots, and their personal experiences with the tradition. They also delve into the impact of the commercialization of Dia de los Muertos and the ongoing debate around cultural appropriation versus appreciation.

Welcome back to Part 2 of our last Halloween episode! In Part 2 of this episode, Ixchel and Lucero highlight the resurgence of dark comedies and the significance of humor in addressing serious themes. They delve into the world of dark comedy and horror films, such as 'Freaky', 'Bodies Bodies Bodies' and 'Y2K', and the creative potential of spoofing classic horror narratives, and the evolving nature of the horror genre.

Happy Halloween! This is our last 2-Part Episode for our Halloween Series! In Part 1 of this episode, Ixchel and Lucero explore the world of horror spoofs, discussing their characteristics, differences from dark comedies, and the cultural commentary they provide. They reflect on their favorite horror comedies, the evolution of the genre, and the self-awareness that defines many spoofs such as 'Scary Movie' and 'Student Bodies'.

Welcome back fellow Horror Enthusiasts! In Part 2 of this episode, Ixchel and Lucero continue their of foreign horror films. In Part 2, Ixchel and Lucero explore the themes of identity, female empowerment, and the psychological horror present in the anime horror film 'Perfect Blue.' They discuss the impact of pop culture on women's identities, the duality of Mima's character, and the exploitation within the showbiz industry. The conversation also touches on the cultural reflections in horror films and the significance of giving credit to original sources of inspiration in cinema.

You don't need English to Scream! In Part 1 of this episode, Ixchel and Lucero dive into the world of foreign horror films, exploring the cultural fears and societal issues that shape these narratives. They discuss the differences between American and foreign horror, focusing on the psychological aspects and the impact of cultural experiences on our understanding of fear. Part 1 centers around the Mexican horror film 'Veneno para las Adas,' analyzing its themes of manipulation, isolation, and the critique of religious and societal structures.

Welcome back to Part 2 of the Body Horror films discussion. In Part 2 , Ixchel and Lucero delve into cultural critiques present in body horror films, specifically the complexities of female relationships, the impact of violence against women, and the societal perceptions of female sexuality in ''Jennifers Body' and the implications of psychological aspects of trauma and identity, as well as codependency in relationships in 'Together'.

Hello Spooky Bitches! Welcome back to our Spooky Series!Ixchel and Lucero explore the sub-genre of body horror in films, particularly focusing on 'Hellraiser', 'Jennifer's Body', and 'Together'. In Part 1 of this Episode, they discuss 'Hellraiser' and the themes of the film. The conversation highlights the duality of pleasure and pain, the role of the Cenobites, and the moral critiques presented in the film. Grab your popcorn and join in on this conversation, IF YOU HAVE THE GUTS.

In Part 2 of this episode, Ixchel, Lucero, and Matthew continue their exploration of the complexities of Norman Bates' character, discussing whether he is a villain or a victim, and how the remakes and sequels attempt to humanize him. The discussion also covers the impact of the 1998 remake and the Bates Motel series by highlighting the differences in character development and storytelling. Lastly, they conclude the discussion by contemplating future remakes and the potential for modern interpretations of classic horror films.

Its officially Spooky Season and the Halloween Content has commenced!In Part 1 of this episode, Ixchel and Lucero bring in a special guest, Matthew Barta, to dive into the world of horror films, particularly focusing on the debate between reboots and originals. They explore how horror reflects societal fears and discuss the iconic film Psycho, its sequels, and the impact of its themes on modern horror.

AI has taken over the world, or at least its trying to. In this episode, Ixchel and Lucero discuss the potential dangers of Artificial Intelligence (AI) misuse, its environmental impact, and the ethical considerations surrounding its use. The conversation also touches on the authenticity of art in the age of AI, the displacement of jobs, and the need for critical engagement with technology. Ultimately, they emphasize the importance of human interaction and the potential consequences of over-reliance on AI.

If you haven't seen 'The Materialists', what are you waiting for!? In this episode, Ixchel and Lucero review the film 'The Materialists,' where they analyze its critique of modern dating and the commodification of love, emphasizing the importance of emotional depth in relationships. The conversation delves into the complexities of modern relationships, focusing on the transactional nature of dating, the importance of emotional support versus financial stability, and the societal pressures that shape perceptions of love.

Sometimes we get stuck in the act of analyzing why we feel a certain way but never actually allow ourselves to sit in it. In this episode, Ixchel and Lucero explore the importance of sitting with one's feelings, discussing the challenges of acknowledging emotions, and the societal pressures surrounding happiness and sadness. The conversation highlights the complexity of human emotions and the necessity of emotional awareness for personal growth.

In this episode, Ixchel and Lucero reflect on the topic of radicalization, exploring what it means to be radical and how personal experiences, cultural backgrounds, and media influences shape our beliefs. The conversation also touches on the role of education in social justice, the influence of media and pop culture, and the significance of activism and protests in driving change.

With the decline of traditional "third" spaces for tweens, they are pushed into prematurely adopting young adult identities and styles. In this episode, Ixchel and Lucero delve into the recent controversy involving Kim Kardashian and her daughter, North West. They explore themes of girlhood, body image, and the impact of social media on youth. The conversation highlights the hypersexualization of young girls and the role of parents in shaping their children's identities, while also reflecting on the influence of celebrity culture and the importance of community in parenting.

In this episode, Ixchel and Lucero explore the multifaceted nature of beauty, self-acceptance, and personal growth. They discuss the importance of embracing the journey of self-discovery, redefining beauty beyond physical appearance, and the impact of societal standards on self-perception by building healthy habits, practicing self-love, and engaging in self-reflection to foster a positive mindset and a deeper understanding of one's worth. Join the Bitch Up girlies on this journey to feel beautiful!

Dating in different eras of your life can be very interesting. In this episode, Ixchel and Lucero discuss their dating experiences during their twenties and discussing how different it is to date in your thirties. They further discuss questions they would ask on their hypothetical first date and how they would approach asking them.

If you haven't seen the show 'Overcompensating" by Benito Skinner, then what are you doing? This show is inspired by Benito's personal college experience and his experience as a closeted man looking to explore his sexuality and figure himself out. In this episode, Ixchel and Lucero review the show and delve into the themes of identity, self-discovery, and the complexities of relationships as portrayed in a college setting. They discuss the consequences of choices made by characters, the dynamics of friendship, and the impact of family and past relationships on personal growth. Ultimately, they reflect on their own college experiences and the notion of overcompensation in various aspects of life.

A little yap session is always needed. From the Mayhem and Cowboy Carter Tours and missing wallets, to Love Island breakups and controversial jean ads. Grab your favorite snacks, pour yourself a drink, and join the Bitch Up Girlies in el chisme de colorism and eugenics.

Its officially Leo Season! And it's someones' BIRTHDAY! In this episode, Ixchel shares her experiences and reflections on birthdays, traditions, and personal growth as she approaches her 32nd birthday. The discussion delves into memorable birthday celebrations, family traditions, and the emotional significance of these moments. As she reflects on the past year, she shares valuable lessons learned, including the need for patience and the importance of embracing one's feelings. The conversation culminates in a discussion of hopes and wishes for the future, including aspirations for wealth, health, and social change. HAPPY BIRTHDAY IXCHEL!

Love Island Season 7 has come to a-close and the Bitch Up girlies still have so much to discuss. In this episode, Ixchel and Lucero discuss the implications of cancel culture, the significance of racial sensitivity, and the role of reality TV in shaping societal narratives.

If you have seen the movie, 'The DaVinci Code' then you have some knowledge in the implications of Gnosticism, the significance of the divine feminine, and the historical context surrounding Mary Magdalene's legacy. In this episode, Ixchel and Lucero go down the rabbit hole and explore the historical and spiritual significance of Mary Magdalene, the concept of kenosis, and the role of women in Christianity. They further discuss the misinterpretations of original sin, the divine feminine, and the importance of self-love and acceptance in healing from trauma. Join the Bitch Up girlies in a dialogue that emphasizes the interconnectedness of spirituality, personal growth, and the need to BITCH UP and lead with love rather than anger.

Welcome back to Part 2 of the Love Island S7 discourse and hot-takes. In this episode, Ixchel and Lucero continue their conversation on the Love Islanders and their drama.

Love Island is back and this season is...something. In this episode, Ixchel and Lucero give their opinion on these new Islanders, the drama, and the lack of connections. Clearly there is so much to say that this episode was broken into 2-Parts. Join the Bitch Up Girlies as they navigate their way through these Love Island "situations" and how they reflect our current society.

Welcome back to Part 2 of this episode in which Ixchel and Lucero interview a panel of Gemini men on their perspective of dating, long-term relationships, and some dating hot takes.

The time has finally come in which the The Bitch Up Girlies give men an opportunity to defend themselves. In this 2-Part Episode, Ixchel and Lucero bring on a panel of men...not just any men...a trinity of Geminis! to give their POV on dating, long-term relationships, and the lonely men epidemic. Grab some snacks and join us for Part 1.

The Bitch Up Girlies are back from their "vacation" and hit the ground running to discuss a topic that hits close to home and is at the front of the political climate currently in the United States - Immigration and Deportation. In this episode, Ixchel and Lucero discuss how immigration and deportation has affected their lives due to being daughters of immigrants, the hateful narrative that is being pushed on undocumented immigrants, and how the United States Government has weaponized immigration to divide people.

The Bitch Up Girlies are always up for a little knowledge. In this episode, Ixchel and Lucero introduce a monthly episode where one of them will present a Deep Dive of their choice. This month, Ixchel will take you on a Deep Dive of the Menstrual Cycle: What it is, how it works, and the benefits of cycle syncing. So, Bitch Up and take notes!

The Bitch Up Girlies whine down and get to know each other a little bit more because how much can you possibly know about someone you have been friends with for 7 years? In this episode, Ixchel and Lucero ask each other "First Time..." Questions and take each other on a journey through their childhood and potentially their traumas?

The Bitch Up Girlies are back from their EDC Weekend! In this episode, Ixchel and Lucero summarize the good, the bad, and the scary of their EDC experience.