Black Men Think Podcast
by Black Men Think
Welcome to the Black Men Think Podcast, where we elevate our black men because black men be out here thinking. Dedicated to exploring the thoughts, perspectives, and experiences of black men, join us for new episodes every Monday. Join Patreon for bonus episodes every Wednesday.
Episodes
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Episode 175: Ask For What You Need
This week on The Black Men Think Podcast, we’re asking a question that might make a few of us uncomfortable: Do men actually know how to ask for what they need? We often hear conversations about men feeling emotionally overlooked, unsupported, or misunderstood in their relationships. But how much...
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Episode 174: Validate Yourself
This week on The Black Men Think Podcast, we’re talking about something many of us struggle with: recognizing our own accomplishments and learning to validate ourselves without waiting for someone else to do it. The conversation starts with the fellas giving JD his flowers for the years of work...
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Episode 173: Flight Hacking
This week on The Black Men Think Podcast, we're talking travel, money, business, marriage, and learning how to have a little more patience with all of it. The fellas break down some of the ways we've learned to flight-hack our travel—from finding better fares and being flexible with flights to...
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Patreon Exclusive: Choosing The Right Partner
Our conversation with Walt from Holmes Hydration continues on Patreon as we shift from balancing marriage, fatherhood, and entrepreneurship to the importance of who you choose to build your life with. We talk about what it means to have a partner who understands your vision, supports your growth,...
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Episode 172: Retirement Prep
This week on The Black Men Think Podcast, we're looking ahead and asking ourselves a question we probably should be thinking about more often: Are we actually preparing for the future, or are we just hoping everything works out? The fellas talk about retirement and what we're doing now to prepare...
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Episode 171: How Much Of Your Life Is Yours?
This week on The Black Men Think Podcast, we're asking a question that gets harder to answer the older we get: How much of your life is actually yours? Between being husbands, fathers, employees, entrepreneurs, friends, sons, and the people everyone depends on, it's easy to reach a point where...
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Episode 170: Not A Kid Anymore
This week on The Black Men Think Podcast, we're taking a trip back while also realizing just how much life has changed. The conversation starts with something every parent eventually experiences: the moment your own children start challenging you. From there, we think back to the moments in our…
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Episode 169: "Troubled" Youth
This week on The Black Men Think Podcast, Corey and JD hold it down and cover everything from everyday frustrations to conversations that hit much closer to home. The episode starts with a debate about food delivery services like DoorDash and Uber Eats and just how much we trust the cleanliness…
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Episode 168: Balancing Entrepreneurship
This week on The Black Men Think Podcast, we sit down with Walt of Holmes Hydration, a longtime supporter of the show who was in Atlanta for Invest Fest. What started as an opportunity to finally connect in person turned into a real conversation about the different roles Black men are expected to...
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Episode 167: Can You Really Balance It All?
This week on The Black Men Think Podcast, we’re joined by rapper, educator, activist, husband, and father Marcel P. Black for a conversation about what it really takes to build a sustainable career without losing yourself in the process. We discuss the realities of today’s music industry, why…
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Episode 166: You Don't Know Yourself
In this episode of The Black Men Think Podcast, the fellas kick things off with a Homeboy Check-In before diving into the realities of adulthood and the importance of structure. We discuss how routines, discipline, and organization affect our personal lives, careers, and relationships, and why…
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Episode 165: Father's Day Retreat Recap
On this episode of The Black Men Think Podcast, the fellas recap our very first Black Men Think Father's Day Retreat and reflect on what it meant to intentionally step away from our everyday responsibilities. We talk about everything from the laughs and conversations to the simple joy of slowing...
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Episode 164: Father's Day Retreat Me
In this episode of The Black Men Think Podcast, the fellas record live from our Father's Day Retreat and reflect on something many men struggle with: taking time for themselves without feeling guilty. What started as a simple getaway quickly turned into a conversation about how difficult it can…
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Episode 163: The Weight We Hide
In this episode of The Black Men Think Podcast, we have an honest conversation about the weight many men carry and why so much of it goes unspoken. From financial pressure and career uncertainty to family responsibilities, mental health struggles, and the fear of letting people down, we discuss…
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Episode 162: How Much Me Time Do Men Really Need?
On this edition of Black Men Think After Dark, the fellas kick back and let the conversation go wherever it takes us. We start by discussing a question every man has probably wrestled with: How much me time do you need to survive the week? From balancing family, work, friendships, and personal...
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Patreon Exclusive: Money Can't Fix This
In this episode of The Black Men Think Podcast, the fellas dive into the reality of what happens when you finally make the money you thought would fix everything, and realize it doesn’t. We unpack the expectations we had growing up about money, from believing it would remove stress and bring...
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Episode 161: Your Version Of Peace
In this episode of The Black Men Think Podcast, the fellas reflect on how our definition of peace has changed over the last 10 years. What once felt exciting, entertaining, or fulfilling in our younger years doesn’t always bring the same feeling today. We talk about how life experiences,...
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Episode 160: How Social Media Changed Relationships
In this episode of The Black Men Think Podcast, the fellas dive into how social media has completely changed the way we experience relationships, dating, communication, and connection. From validation culture and relationship “performances” online to the pressure of constant access through DMs…
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Episode 159: When Was the Last Time You Chose Yourself?
In this episode of The Black Men Think Podcast, the fellas dive into a question that hit deeper than expected: When was the last time we made a decision based solely on ourselves? The conversation explores the weight many Black men carry daily as providers, fathers, husbands, friends, and…
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Episode 158: The Mental Cost of Being a Full-Time Artist
In this episode of The Black Men Think Podcast, the fellas sit down with New Orleans artist Alfred Banks for a real conversation about what it truly means to be a full-time creative. We go beyond the music and dive into the mental and emotional weight that comes with betting on yourself. Alfred...
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Episode 157: I Lost My Hairline
In this episode of The Black Men Think Podcast, JD and Corey tap into a casual but real conversation sparked by a listener about hair loss and what it does to the confidence and psyche of Black men. From rocking braids and fresh cuts to embracing the bald look, the fellas reflect on how much...
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Episode 156: What's In The Mirror
In this episode of The Black Men Think Podcast, JD is joined by Abib Jahleel for a powerful and necessary conversation about protecting Black boys and the responsibility that comes with raising the next generation. The discussion centers around a tough but important question: If Black men are...
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Episode 155: Thin Skinned Kids
In this episode of The Black Men Think Podcast, the fellas unpack the differences between how we grew up and how many kids are being raised today. The conversation centers around whether children today are becoming more thin-skinned compared to previous generations, and how our upbringing shaped...
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Episode 154: Unlearning Ego
In this episode of The Black Men Think Podcast, the fellas use the recent back-and-forth involving T.I., his sons, and 50 Cent as a jumping-off point for a deeper conversation about fatherhood, ego, and legacy. What happens when our public conflicts become lessons for our children? Are we…
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Patreon Exclusive: Sibling Rivalries
In this Patreon-exclusive episode of The Black Men Think Podcast, the fellas take a nostalgic trip back to childhood while comparing sibling rivalries from our upbringing to what we see with our own kids today. From how we competed, fought, and bonded with our siblings to how our children…
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Episode 153: The Cost Of Staying Comfortable
In this episode of The Black Men Think Podcast, the fellas unpack the real cost of staying comfortable. What feels like peace and stability can sometimes be fear in disguise. We dive into how comfort can quietly become a cage, keeping us in jobs we’ve outgrown, relationships that no longer...
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Episode 152: What We're Afraid To Admit
On this week’s episode of The Black Men Think Podcast, most of the fellas were out of town, so JD is joined by his longtime college friend Brandon for a real, reflective conversation. Together, they dive into the things many of us are still figuring out as grown men, from money and emotions to...
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Episode 151: Check My Prejudice
On this week’s episode of The Black Men Think Podcast, we kick things off by surviving the infamous Atlanta “snow storm,” but the conversation quickly shifts into something much deeper. The recent ICE-related tensions around the country spark an honest discussion about how Black men navigate…
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Episode 150: Outgrow Who People Expect You to Be
In this episode of The Black Men Think Podcast, the fellas dive into what happens when you outgrow the version of yourself that people expect you to remain. We talk about recognizing personal growth, shifting priorities, and the discomfort that comes when others can’t see who you’ve become.…
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Episode 149: I Need To Unplug
In this episode of The Black Men Think Podcast, we ask a real question a lot of us avoid: Do we still know how to unplug? After the Sip of the Week, the fellas dive into how phones, social media, and nonstop notifications keep us connected around the clock and why disconnecting feels harder than...
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Episode 148: Maintaining Healthy Lifestyles
We kick things off with a quick recap of the holidays and how everyone spent their time closing out the year. From there, we jump into voicemails from our Ask A Black Man segment, which spark a deeper conversation about the importance of getting information sooner rather than later to better...
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Episode 147: Leaving a Legacy?
In this episode of The Black Men Think Podcast, the fellas explore what it really means to leave a legacy as Black men today. We challenge the idea that legacy is only about money or status and shift the focus to impact, values, presence, and how we show up daily. After an honest homeboy…
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Episode 146: Holiday Woes
With Christmas right around the corner, the fellas tap into a timely and heartfelt conversation about the holidays. We discuss our holiday plans, how we’re preparing for the new year, and the realities of navigating holiday tension and grief, all while trying to remain intentional with family and...
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Episode 145: What's Next?
On this week’s episode of The Black Men Think Podcast, the crew dives into the realities of life and career changes—and the challenges that come with them. We talk openly about the anxiety that shows up when starting something new, how to recognize when you’re exactly where you’re supposed to be,...
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Episode 144: Loyalty vs. Morality
In this week’s episode of The Black Men Think Podcast, the crew takes on one of the toughest questions you could ever face: What would you do if someone you love dearly committed an unthinkable crime? We dive deep into the emotional shock, the instinct to protect, and the moral weight that comes...
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Episode 143: Hall Of Fame Mentality
On this episode of The Black Men Think Podcast, the fellas celebrate OutKast’s long-overdue induction into the Rock & Roll Hall of Fame. We dive into what this moment means for the culture, why we feel André 3000 should’ve hit that stage, and how artists handle shifting seasons in their careers....
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Patreon Exclusive: Growth Is The Reality
On this Patreon exclusive episode, the fellas talk about the recent growth of the podcast and understanding the responsibility of the platform. We also talk about family issues and dealing with unexpected expenses. Join Patreon: www.patreon.com/blackmenthink
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Episode 142: Public Pain, Private Battles
In this week’s episode of The Black Men Think Podcast, the crew unpacks a series of heavy but necessary conversations. We start with the tragic passing of D’Angelo and open up about how we’d personally deal with illness and would we share our struggles publicly or fight them privately? From…
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Episode 141: My Kids Made Me Soft
On this week’s episode of The Black Men Think Podcast, the crew dives deep into how fatherhood has completely changed the way we see life. From learning patience to realizing that disciplining our children often ends up teaching us a lesson, we explore how parenting has reshaped our perspectives…
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Episode 140: Scared Of E.D.
In this episode of The Black Men Think Podcast, the crew walks into a real conversation about the fear of ED, unpacking what life might look like during that time and asking why this topic isn’t often discussed or passed down by our elders. We also tap into our Ask A Black Man segment, responding...
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Patreon Exclusive: Reckless Driving
In this Patreon-exclusive episode of The Black Men Think Podcast, the crew takes a trip down memory lane to share some of their wildest driving woes growing up. Good recounts the time his car was stolen multiple times, Marlon reveals how he lost his license—twice—and the fellas swap more stories...
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Episode 139: Faith & Frustration
In this episode of The Black Men Think Podcast, the fellas open up about the delicate balance between faith and frustration. After a quick homeboy check-in, we dive deep into the tension of holding onto faith while facing the disappointments, delays, and everyday struggles that test our patience....
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Episode 138: Finding Your Family
After teasing our Patreon-exclusive live fantasy football draft, Marlon and JD shift gears into something deeper—a recent family trip sparks a conversation about the importance of quality time, presence, and building lasting memories with loved ones. But we also recognize that not everyone feels...
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Episode 137: Legacy vs. Lifestyle
On this episode of The Black Men Think Podcast, the fellas unpack the age-old question: Are you living for today, or building for tomorrow? From personal sacrifices to social media pressures, we dig into what it really means to chase experiences vs. create stability. In our Ask A Black Man…
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Episode 136: My First International Trip
On this episode, we recap Corey’s very first international trip, a cruise to the Bahamas. That conversation opens the door for us to reflect on our own experiences traveling abroad, from all-inclusive resorts to immersing ourselves in new cultures. We discuss why it’s essential to see the world,...
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Patreon Exclusive: Accepting Unc Status
In this Patreon exclusive episode, the crew starts with recognizing your friends' gifts and affirming them. This leads us into a conversation of accepting that we are officially Unc, and it's time to put away some things that are left exclusively for the youth. Join Patreon:...
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Episode 135: Being Good Ain't Always Good Enough
This week, the fellas unpack the harsh reality that being “good” at something doesn’t always guarantee results. From career plateaus to creative frustration, we explore the difference between doing well and actually winning. We also get real about how systems, expectations, and internal pressure...
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Episode 134: Do The Work
This week, the fellas are holding each other accountable. In a world full of distractions and excuses, we dive into what it really means to be self-motivated and disciplined. We talk about the difference between real obstacles and self-sabotage, how to stay focused when nobody is clapping for…
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BMT Classic: Co-Worker Correction
Fresh off of vacation, JD, Mo, and Torri talk about their much-needed vacation trip to Cancun. The power of spending time away and finding new friends in the process. The crew tops off the conversation by discussing why it's okay to correct co-workers when they speak out of turn. Tap in…
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Episode 133: Money, Media & Mixed Signals
This week on The Black Men Think Podcast, we kick things off with a timely question: Where do expectations around money in relationships come from—culture, upbringing, or social media? That one question leads us deep into a conversation on how social media has shifted into "interest media," how...
About this show
Welcome to the Black Men Think Podcast, where we elevate our black men because black men be out here thinking. Dedicated to exploring the thoughts, perspectives, and experiences of black men, join us for new episodes every Monday. Join Patreon for bonus episodes every Wednesday.
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