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Wrapping up the Ruthless Elimination of Hurry book club, Tatum shifts into a candid, personal conversation about the difference between genuine trust in God and avoidance dressed up as spirituality. Drawing from psychology, Scripture, and her own experience praying through her grandmother's stage-four cancer diagnosis, she unpacks how Christians — especially high-achieving entrepreneurs — often mistake "rushing to joy" for faith when it's really a defense mechanism keeping them from real intimacy with God.What's CoveredA book club update: The group has finished The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry and is moving toward a business-focused pick next, with Great CEOs Are Lazy under consideration as a way to explore building a business from sustainability rather than hustle culture.The spiritualizing of avoidance: Why avoidance is one of the most socially acceptable defense mechanisms in Christian culture, often hiding behind phrases like "God's got me" or "I'm not sad, the joy of the Lord is my strength."A personal story: How Tatum navigated her grandmother's 90-day cancer prognosis, the shift in her prayers from demanding a specific outcome to surrendering the outcome entirely, and what that taught her about the difference between avoidance and trust.The psychology of avoidance: A look at "experiential avoidance" — the attempt to escape or numb uncomfortable emotions — and the research linking it to anxiety, depression, and other forms of psychological distress.Avoidance in entrepreneurship: How uncertainty, a core ingredient of faith, gets treated as a threat — leading business owners to quietly override God's specific instructions with their own "safer," more marketable plans.Root causes of avoidance: Fear, shame, the desire for control, and unprocessed pain, and how each shows up in decision-making, dating, finances, and launching a business.Signs you're avoiding rather than trusting: Refusing to face the worst-case scenario, and praying only for a fix rather than for comfort and wisdom.A practical reframe: The question Tatum returns to again and again — both for herself and for others — "Do you have to do anything?"Key TakeawaysAvoidance offers temporary relief but blocks growth, resilience, and closeness with God; trust requires sitting with the discomfort instead of rushing past it.Faith is not the absence of uncertainty — uncertainty is built into the definition of faith itself.Facing a worst-case scenario isn't inviting it to happen; it's being honest about what's driving your emotions so you can bring it to God fully.Disappointment and trust can coexist. Being able to feel disappointed while still saying "not my will, but yours" is a marker of spiritual maturity, not a lack of faith.Avoidance often looks like wisdom, planning, and having it all together — which is exactly why it goes unchecked in high achievers.Our Sponsors:* Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com* Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com* Check out NetSuite and use my code netsuite.ai/BLESSED for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com* Check out Super.com and use my code super.com/credit for a great deal: https://super.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

This episode wraps up the book club discussion of The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry with the remaining ten practices for slowing down, plus a personal, unscripted reflection on trusting God through uncertainty.The episode opens with a raw moment about navigating law school as a non-traditional student, including a candid conversation with God about wanting to see the bigger picture before feeling secure in obedience. The takeaway: God often withholds the full plan on purpose, not to withhold comfort, but to keep us dependent on Him rather than on our own self-sufficiency.From there, the conversation returns to the list of 20 practices for slowing down, picking up at number 11 and continuing through number 20. Topics include setting boundaries around email and social media, the debate over cutting out television entirely, the case for single-tasking over multitasking, taking a regular day of silence and solitude, journaling, mindfulness and meditation through a Christian lens, taking real vacations, and the value of slowing down around food, whether that means cooking at home or being intentional while eating out.The episode closes out the book club pick with a reflection on the book's epilogue and an open question about what to read next.Key HighlightsA personal reflection on asking God for the "big picture" and what He said in responseWhy God sometimes keeps the full plan hidden, even when you are being obedientPractices 11 through 20 for slowing down, including thoughts on which ones felt useful and which felt overly rigidA respectful disagreement with the author's stance on cutting out TV entirelyWhy single-tasking, not multitasking, is the one non-negotiable on the listThe value of a monthly day of silence and solitude, and a smaller, more realistic version of itMindfulness and meditation reframed through scripture rather than secular practiceClosing thoughts on the book's epilogue and an open call for the next book club pickOur Sponsors:* Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com* Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com* Check out NetSuite and use my code netsuite.ai/BLESSED for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com* Check out Super.com and use my code super.com/credit for a great deal: https://super.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

This episode wraps up the discussion on simplicity and moves into the fourth and final practice of unhurried living: slowing. Before diving in, the episode opens with a personal reflection on what it looked like to actually live this out — a season of downsizing a business, laying off a team, and trusting God's call to slow down even when it made no practical sense.From there, the conversation shifts to contentment — specifically the way Paul uses "I can do all things through Christ" in Philippians, not as a battle cry for achievement, but as a testimony about being at peace in any circumstance. Contentment is framed not as the absence of ambition, but as the ability to hold desire without striving — checking with God before chasing the next opportunity rather than figuring it out on your own.The episode then moves into the author's 20 practical tips for slowing down, covering the first ten. The list centers heavily on driving habits and phone use — driving the speed limit, arriving early without your phone, and intentionally creating a "dumb phone" experience by removing notifications, social media, and email. Several tips are reflected on personally, including changes made to phone settings after reading the chapter.Key HighlightsWhat it actually looked like to obey God's call to slow down in the middle of a business crisisThe difference between toxic ambition and healthy drive — and how healing changes what you are chasing and whyContentment as restraint, not passivity — wanting more while still being at peace with where you areReading Ecclesiastes as a practical starting point for anyone who wants to pray for contentmentThe first 10 of 20 practical tips for slowing down, with honest reactions to eachA personal phone audit — which notifications stayed, which were deleted, and whyProducts Available — Moving Sale!Tatum is moving and has a limited number of physical resources available for just $5 each (+ shipping — total order stays under $10). Once they're gone, they're gone!Available now:GOD is My CEO: A Prayer Journal for Entrepreneurs (Limited Edition — gold spiral binding, hardcover, full-color, tabbed) 👉🏾 https://youtu.be/hlsLhd-AVdkPodcast Planner (Physical planner with everything Tatum has learned from 9+ years of podcasting and helping 150+ people launch) 👉🏾 https://youtu.be/bfpY3zdG9aAShe Is Uncompromising (The book — includes access to a bonus masterclass)👉🏾 https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/shopOur Sponsors:* Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com* Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com* Check out NetSuite and use my code netsuite.ai/BLESSED for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com* Check out Super.com and use my code super.com/credit for a great deal: https://super.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode, we continue our discussion of John Mark Comer's book The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry, picking up with his chapter on simplicity and money.Episode OverviewThis episode covers Comer's chapter on simplicity, including his take on Jesus' teachings about money, the practice of minimalism, and 12 principles for simpler living. The episode also includes a running critique of where the author's analysis of wealth falls short.Key Discussion PointsOn Jesus and moneyComer argues that roughly 25% of Jesus' teachings address money and possessions, and that nearly none of them are positive toward wealth accumulation. He connects three short teachings from Matthew 6 — on storing treasures in heaven, the lamp of the body, and serving two masters — to one long teaching on worry, making the case that what we worship, we worry about.The episode pushes back on this framing. Jesus' statements like "it is more blessed to give than to receive" and "you cannot serve both God and money" are not condemnations of wealth itself. They are observations about the condition of the heart. Money funds generosity, finances kingdom work, and creates the margin to serve others well. The issue is not wealth but what wealth does to a person's heart when it becomes their source of identity or security.A personal example: being a landlord to a tenant facing breast cancer and financial hardship. Having financial margin allowed for grace — accepting late or partial payments, covering the mortgage independently — in a way that would not have been possible otherwise. That is wealth functioning as a tool for kingdom living.On the author's frameworkComer eventually acknowledges the tension — noting that Jesus was supported by wealthy donors, had disciples manage a budget, and shared meals with rich friends — but does not spend enough time there. The scriptures he cites actually contain the nuance he underexplores. When someone uses scripture primarily to validate a point already formed, rather than letting scripture shape the point, it is worth noticing. That pattern reveals a lot about how a person is operating, even if unintentionally.What minimalism actually is (and is not)Comer offers several clarifications:It is not a design aesthetic or a style preference.It is not poverty or living without enjoyment.It is not organizing your stuff — if you have so much that it requires organizing, labeling, and boxing, you likely have too much.Minimalism is the intentional promotion of what you value most and the removal of what distracts from it. It applies not just to possessions but to time, mental load, and the condition of the heart. Hurry is not only a physical state — it is a condition of the mind.Comer's 12 Principles for Simple LivingBefore buying, consider the true cost — maintenance, time, insurance, and what it will do to the pace of your life.Before buying, ask whether the purchase harms the poor or the earth. The garment industry is a direct example: in the 1960s, 95% of American clothing was made in the U.S.; today it is 2%, often produced under exploitative conditions.(Covered within principle 2 — the ethics of globalized manufacturing.)When you do buy, opt for fewer, better things. Buy it once.When you can, share. Community and the sharing economy reduce the need to own.Get into the habit of giving things away. Generosity is both practical and life-giving. Personal example: passing along baby clothes and supplies within community, and using the school's used uniform shop to outfit a child for a fraction of retail cost.Live by a budget. In a culture that glorifies frivolous spending, budgeting is a form of good stewardship. Enjoyment belongs in the budget — but so does discipline.Learn to enjoy things without owning them. Parks, libraries, coffee shops, and natural spaces are available to everyone.Cultivate a deep appreciation for creation.Cultivate a deep appreciation for simple pleasures.Recognize advertising for what it is. (Partial disagreement here: advertising is not propaganda or lying — there are laws against false advertising. The more accurate takeaway is to be intentional about not purchasing what you do not actually need.)Lead a cheerful revolt against materialism. Actively and joyfully reject the pull toward accumulation.Scripture ReferencedMatthew 6 (Sermon on the Mount — storing treasures, the lamp of the body, serving two masters, and do not worry)1 Timothy 6:17-19 (Paul's command to the rich in Ephesus)Connect and ShareLeave a comment on Spotify, share this episode, or send an email with your thoughts — especially your perspective on the critique of how wealth and money were framed throughout this chapter.Products Available — Moving Sale!Tatum is moving and has a limited number of physical resources available for just $5 each (+ shipping — total order stays under $10). 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In this episode, we continue our journey through The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer, diving into the third principle of unhurried living: simplicity. Before getting into the chapter, there is a quick reminder about the moving sale — physical copies of the God Is My CEO Prayer Journal, the podcast planner, and She Is Uncompromising are still available for just $5 each plus shipping. Orders of 10 or more ship free. Links are in the show notes.The episode opens with a reflection on Sabbath practices from last week's discussion, including a practical tip for using AI tools like ChatGPT or Claude to generate hobby ideas that align with rest and worship — not work. From floral arranging to crafting custom tea blends, the goal is finding activities that slow you down and reconnect you with the beauty of God's creation.The heart of the episode centers on what the author calls the "gospel of America" — the cultural belief that life's meaning is found in accumulation and consumption. Drawing on Jesus' own words about wealth, greed, and the deceitfulness of riches, listeners are challenged to honestly examine whether they would follow God even if success never looked the way they envisioned. The episode also takes a critical look at the history of American consumerism, the rise of lifestyle marketing and influencer culture, and the very real spiritual danger of allowing things — cars, clothes, brands, and clout — to become identity markers.A Princeton study by Kahneman and Deaton, originally placing the happiness income threshold at $75,000 (approximately $108,500 in today's dollars), sparks a candid pushback: money is not the problem when it is used to buy freedom, experiences, and time rather than stuff. The episode challenges the author's framing while affirming his core point — the relentless accumulation of things accelerates hurry and pulls us away from the unhurried life Jesus modeled.The episode wraps before the chapter's 12 practical tips on simplicity, which will be covered in the next episode.Key HighlightsMoving sale is still active — prayer journals, podcast planner, and more available for $5 each; orders of 10 or more ship freeUsing AI tools to brainstorm Sabbath-friendly hobbies that cannot be turned into a businessThe "gospel of America" — how consumerism has replaced religion as the dominant system of meaning in Western cultureA hard introspective question: would you still follow God if your business never produced the results on your vision board?The history of how corporate America deliberately engineered a culture of consumption after World War IIA challenge to Christian content creators who promote products to examine whether that activity contributes to consumerismThe $75,000 happiness study — published in 2010, equivalent to roughly $108,500 today — and why a fixed happiness ceiling is worth questioningThe distinction between spending money on stuff versus spending money on freedom, time, and experiencesNext episode: the remaining half of the simplicity chapter, including 12 practical tips from the authorProducts Available — Moving Sale!Tatum is moving and has a limited number of physical resources available for just $5 each (+ shipping — total order stays under $10). Once they're gone, they're gone!Available now:GOD is My CEO: A Prayer Journal for Entrepreneurs (Limited Edition — gold spiral binding, hardcover, full-color, tabbed) 👉🏾 https://youtu.be/hlsLhd-AVdkPodcast Planner (Physical planner with everything Tatum has learned from 9+ years of podcasting and helping 150+ people launch) 👉🏾 https://youtu.be/bfpY3zdG9aAShe Is Uncompromising (The book — includes access to a bonus masterclass)👉🏾 https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/shopOur Sponsors:* Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com* Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com* Check out NetSuite and use my code netsuite.ai/BLESSED for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com* Check out Super.com and use my code super.com/credit for a great deal: https://super.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

We're continuing our book club series on The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer, and this week we're diving into Part Three — the how of living an unhurried life. After covering silence and solitude last episode, today we go deep on one of the most underrated and underused spiritual practices in Christian spaces: the Sabbath.But first — Tatum shares a raw and beautiful testimony from her quiet time this week, a moment on the floor in her daughter's room that turned into a soul-restoring encounter with the Father. She also gets real about a revelation she received for Christian entrepreneurs: the difference between your working relationship with God and your personal relationship with Him — and why both matter.In This EpisodeTestimony: What happened when Tatum lay on the floor, didn't know what to pray, and started speaking in tongues — and why she bawled her eyes outThe working relationship vs. the personal relationship with God — a word for veteran Christian entrepreneurs who have the rhythm down but may be missing the closenessThe YouTube plan she shelved — and why she chose the Father over the planWhat is the Sabbath? The Hebrew meaning of Shabbat (to stop) and why God built this rhythm into the DNA of creationDesire, restlessness, and the digital age — how advertising monetizes our restlessness and why only God can satisfy infinite desireWhat happens to your mind, body, and soul when you fight the Sabbath rhythm — including what happened in France when they tried a 10-day work weekThe statistics: Why Seventh-Day Adventists live 10 years longer than the average AmericanTwo lists: Restfulness vs. Relentlessness — which one describes your life right now?Practical tips for busy bodies who struggle with the "in-between" of rest — including how Tatum's Friday grocery habit accidentally created a more restful weekendWhat the Sabbath actually looks like — the author's family practice and how to find what works for yoursWorking from rest, not for rest — and why the Sabbath is the climax of the week, not just a break in itNext episode: SimplicityKey Quote"The Sabbath isn't just a 24-hour time slot in your weekly schedule. It's a spirit of restfulness that goes with you throughout your week. A way of living with ease, gratitude, appreciation, peace, and prayer. A way of working from rest, not for rest, with nothing to prove. A way of bearing fruit from abiding and not ambition." — John Mark Comer, The Ruthless Elimination of HurryTatum's Word for Christian EntrepreneursAs you grow in doing business God's way, don't let the working relationship replace the personal one. You can be in rhythm with God in your business and still have a void in your closeness to Him as His daughter. Tend to both. The business meetings with God matter — and so does just lying at His feet with nothing to say.Resources Mentioned📖 Book Club Pick: The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer — [grab your copy here]🛒 Products Available — Moving Sale!Tatum is moving and has a limited number of physical resources available for just $5 each (+ shipping — total order stays under $10). Once they're gone, they're gone!Available now:📒 GOD is My CEO: A Prayer Journal for Entrepreneurs (Limited Edition — gold spiral binding, hardcover, full-color, tabbed) 👉🏾 https://youtu.be/hlsLhd-AVdk🎙️ Podcast Planner (Physical planner with everything Tatum has learned from 9+ years of podcasting and helping 150+ people launch) 👉🏾 https://youtu.be/bfpY3zdG9aA📚 She Is Uncompromising (The book — includes access to a bonus masterclass)🙏🏾 Business Meetings with God — 90-Day Devotional (Includes 2 bonus masterclasses: "How to Have a Business Meeting with God" by Tatum Temia + "How to Prioritize Your Time with God" by Roslyn Rene, LSMW)👉🏾 https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/shop💛 Attention Churches, Women's Groups & CommunitiesDo you lead or belong to a women's ministry, small group, sorority, or community organization? If your order is 10 or more items, the products are FREE — you only pay shipping. The discount is automatically applied at checkout.This is Tatum's way of blessing communities of women with tools to grow closer to the Lord together.👉🏾 https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/shopOur Sponsors:* Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com* Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com* Check out NetSuite and use my code netsuite.ai/BLESSED for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com* Check out Super.com and use my code super.com/credit for a great deal: https://super.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this deeply personal episode of Blessed and Bossed Up, Tatum returns after finals season to continue the book club series on The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer.This conversation explores the first practice for “unhurrying” your life: silence and solitude.From motherhood and entrepreneurship to law school and spiritual formation, Tatum shares how busyness, noise, and constant stimulation can quietly disconnect us from the presence of God — and how reclaiming moments of stillness can transform our spiritual, emotional, and mental well-being.She unpacks:Why boredom used to be a giftHow technology keeps us spiritually distractedLearning to practice God’s presence in everyday momentsWhy the wilderness is not weakness, but strengthThe difference between solitude and isolationHow internal noise impacts peace, anxiety, and emotional healthWhy silence is essential for healing, clarity, and abiding in ChristThis episode is both a conviction and an invitation: to slow down, reconnect with God, and create rhythms that cultivate peace instead of chaos.Key TakeawaysBoredom Was Once SacredBefore smartphones and endless stimulation, boredom created space for creativity, imagination, reflection, and connection. Today, we often fill every quiet moment with scrolling, entertainment, or mental noise — missing opportunities to connect with God.God Is Present Beyond the Prayer ClosetTatum reflects on a revelation that changed her relationship with God: His presence isn’t confined to designated “quiet times.” Through the Holy Spirit, God is present while washing dishes, driving, making coffee, or watching children play.The Wilderness Is a Place of StrengthReferencing Jesus in the wilderness, this episode reframes difficult seasons not as punishment or weakness, but as places where God’s strength is revealed most powerfully.Silence Is More Than External QuietTrue silence includes:External silence (turning off noise and distractions)Internal silence (quieting worry, fantasies, overthinking, anxiety, and mental chatter)Solitude Is HealingSolitude is not isolation. It is intentional time with God where healing, self-awareness, conviction, and restoration take place.Discussion Topics from This EpisodePracticing the presence of God in ordinary momentsThe emotional impact of constant stimulationWhy high-achieving women often struggle with silenceInternal criticism, perfectionism, and vulnerabilityCreating rhythms of rest instead of cycles of burnoutHow Jesus modeled retreat, prayer, and solitudeMentioned in This EpisodeThe Ruthless Elimination of HurryA powerful book exploring how hurry, distraction, and overload are shaping modern spiritual life — and practical ways to slow down and reconnect with God.Special Product Super SaleAs Tatum prepares for a move, she discovered a limited inventory of some fan-favorite resources that are officially back while supplies last.These products have been sold out for quite some time and are being offered at deeply discounted prices — once they’re gone, they’re gone.Featured ProductsGod Is My CEO Prayer Journal: https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/shopA guided prayer and reflection journal designed to help Christian entrepreneurs strengthen their relationship with God while building in alignment with His will.Perfect for:Daily prayer and reflectionProcessing vision and strategy with GodCultivating intimacy and spiritual disciplineEntrepreneurs seeking faith-centered leadershipThe Planner for Podcasters : https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/shopA strategic planning resource for podcasters and content creators who want to stay organized, consistent, and intentional with their podcast growth and content execution.Inside includes:Content planning toolsEpisode organizationGoal-setting promptsProduction workflow support90-Day Devotional: https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/shopA devotional created to help believers grow spiritually, stay anchored in faith, and build consistent time with God over the course of 90 days.Designed for:Daily encouragementSpiritual growthBuilding consistency in devotion timeStrengthening faith through practical reflectionVisit: https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/shopOur Sponsors:* Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com* Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com* Check out NetSuite and use my code netsuite.ai/BLESSED for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com* Check out Super.com and use my code super.com/credit for a great deal: https://super.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Tatum is in the trenches of her first-year law school finals, so this week she's bringing back one of her most foundational episodes — and as she always says, when an oldie comes back around, trust that the Lord is bringing it back for a reason. Whether you've heard it before or this is your first time, this one is worth sitting with.In this episode, Tatum opens up about the early years of making God the CEO of her business and introduces a new series focused on the application of faith-driven entrepreneurship — not just the information, but the lived practice.Before diving into strategy, marketing, or business plans, she makes the case that we have to start with sobriety: freeing ourselves from the influences, distractions, and cultural pressures that pull our focus away from the Lord and onto the metrics of the world.In this episode, Tatum covers:Why sobriety is the non-negotiable foundation before any business building can beginThe story of how obedience during a season of stripping and pruning led to her most fruitful breakthroughsThe moment she hit her first six-figure year — and why her reaction to it changed everythingHow entrepreneurship can become its own kind of intoxicationA word for anyone being called to pioneer something new, even when it feels lonely and irrationalThe 5 Substances to Detox From:Success culture and performance pressureDigital noise and comparisonMixed mentorshipMaterialism and metrics-based validationOver-independenceScriptures Referenced:1 Peter 5:81 Thessalonians 5:6–8Mark 14:38Action Step: Download the free Clarity Cleanse guide (linked in show notes) — a month-long detox plan with weekly focus areas, scriptures, action steps, and prayer points to help you build the sober, focused foundation your business needs.Join the Society — Tatum's membership community for Christian women growing in life, faith, and business. Weekly prayer calls, Bible studies, daily devotionals, and a community of women walking this out with you.Our Sponsors:* Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com* Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com* Check out NetSuite and use my code netsuite.ai/BLESSED for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com* Check out Super.com and use my code super.com/credit for a great deal: https://super.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode, we continue our book club series on The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer, wrapping up the final chapter of Part Two and covering the intermission that sets the stage for Part Three.We open with one of the most convicting observations in the book: Jesus was rarely — if ever — in a hurry. Through stories like the raising of Lazarus and the healing of Jairus's daughter, the author paints a picture of a Savior who was fiercely present, completely unhurried, and never agitated by interruption. That kind of peace has a name we hear a lot today: a regulated central nervous system. In this episode, we break down what that actually means, share some eye-opening data about how many of us are functioning in a state of chronic stress, and then make the case that Jesus didn't just model a regulated nervous system — He modeled something that surpasses the very standard modern science is striving toward.We then dig into the concept of margin — the space between your load and your limits — and get practical about what it looks like to actually build it into your life. From contingency planning and backup childcare to protecting your mornings and setting an evening shutdown time, this episode gets real about what margin looks like for busy women wearing multiple hats.From there, we explore the trellis metaphor: just as a trellis gives a vine the structure it needs to grow and bear fruit, a rule of life gives your walk with Jesus the structure it needs to actually take root. We talk about why Jesus must be the center — not career, not motherhood, not success — and how the structures we build either support or undermine that priority.We close out with the intermission from the book, which sets up Part Three by distinguishing between discipline and spiritual discipline — and why the latter gives you access to a power that willpower alone simply cannot reach.In this episode:Why Jesus is the ultimate example of a regulated nervous system (and then some)What nervous system dysregulation actually looks like — and the stats that prove it's a public health issueThe difference between a full schedule and a hurried oneHow to create a contingency plan so that life's interruptions don't blow up your whole weekWhat a "rule of life" is and why it started in the monastery, not Silicon ValleyThe trellis metaphor and why structure isn't the enemy of freedom — it's the path to itHow to approach the four Gospels the same way you'd read a biography of someone you admireWillpower vs. spiritual discipline: why one gets you so far and the other gets you to Jesus📖 The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer — grab your copyOur Sponsors:* Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com* Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com* Check out NetSuite and use my code netsuite.ai/BLESSED for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com* Check out Super.com and use my code super.com/credit for a great deal: https://super.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode, Tatum unpacks the difference between selfish ambition and godly ambition, challenging listeners to examine not just what they are pursuing, but why. Through personal reflection, biblical teaching, and practical examples, she reveals how easy it is to drift into misalignment—even with good intentions.This conversation calls you into deeper self-awareness, Spirit-led decision-making, and true wholeness, emphasizing that sustainable success in both life and business must be rooted in God.Key TakeawaysAmbition itself is not wrong, but its source determines whether it is aligned with God.Self-awareness is critical for identifying the true motivations behind your goals.External success can hide internal misalignment.Godly ambition is led by the Holy Spirit, not by outcomes, validation, or trends.Your definition of success will evolve as you grow in faith and maturity.True alignment requires healing from the brokenness that often drives achievement.Scriptures ReferencedPhilippians 2:3 (ESV): Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves.James 3:13–16: A warning against selfish ambition, describing it as earthly and leading to disorder.Galatians 5:22–23: The fruit of the Spirit as evidence of a Spirit-led life.What is Selfish Ambition?Selfish ambition is a drive rooted in:EgoPrideComparisonControlBrokennessDesire for validationIt is not always obvious. It can begin with good intentions but becomes misaligned when God is no longer the source.What is Godly Ambition?Godly ambition is:Spirit-ledRooted in obedienceFocused on serving God and othersCentered on bringing God glory rather than personal recognitionThe defining factor is what is driving your decisions: the Holy Spirit or your desire for results.The Subtle Shift from Godly to Selfish AmbitionA key example shared in the episode illustrates how this shift can happen:You begin in obedience and full dependence on GodYou experience growth and positive resultsResults slow down or declineYou begin seeking external solutions (trends, algorithms, validation)Your source shifts from God to performanceThis shift is often gradual and difficult to detect without intentional self-examination.How to Course CorrectWhen you feel frustrated or see changes in results:Pause instead of reacting impulsivelyTake your emotions to God honestlyAsk:Did I get off track?Is there something you want me to change?Wait for His responseObey, whether He says to adjust or remain consistentThe goal is to remain aligned with God, not to chase outcomes.The Root Issue: BrokennessMany forms of ambition are driven by unresolved issues such as:A need for validationFear of lack or instabilityDesire for controlPast wounds or traumaWithout healing, it becomes difficult to sustain a God-centered approach to success.Measuring Your Motivation: The Fruit of the SpiritUse the fruit of the Spirit as a diagnostic tool:LoveJoyPeacePatienceKindnessGoodnessFaithfulnessGentlenessSelf-controlIf these are absent in your process or decision-making, it may indicate misalignment.Action Step: Fast and SurrenderTatum encourages listeners to:Fast from 6 AM to 6 PM (if medically able)Spend intentional time with GodBe honest about fears, control, and disappointmentInvite God to address the root causes of misalignmentThis is not about behavior modification but heart transformation.Reflection QuestionsWhat is driving my ambition right now?Am I seeking God’s approval or external validation?Where have I prioritized outcomes over obedience?What unresolved issues may be influencing my goals?Final EncouragementGod is not focused on your performance—He is focused on your heart.Seasons of slowing down, stagnation, or even decline are not punishment. They are often invitations to return to alignment, deepen intimacy with God, and rebuild from a place of wholenessOur Sponsors:* Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com* Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com* Check out NetSuite and use my code netsuite.ai/BLESSED for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com* Check out Super.com and use my code super.com/credit for a great deal: https://super.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, we continue our book club discussion of The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer, shifting from diagnosing the problem of hurry to uncovering the solution.If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, burnt out, or stuck in a cycle of doing too much, this episode is your invitation to something deeper: the lifestyle of Jesus.We explore what it truly means to follow Jesus—not just in belief, but in daily practice—and how embracing an apprenticeship mindset can transform your pace, your peace, and your purpose.Key Takeaways:1. The Answer Isn’t More Time—It’s a New Way to LiveWe often think the solution to overwhelm is more hours in the day. But more time doesn’t fix a misaligned life—it just gives us more space to stay busy. True freedom comes from reordering our lives around God, not productivity.2. You’re Not Just a Believer—You’re an ApprenticeTo follow Jesus is to apprentice under Him:Be with JesusBecome like JesusDo what He would doThis perspective shifts your posture from control to humility, from striving to learning.3. Your Life Reflects Your LifestyleIf you’re experiencing:AnxietyBurnoutConstant stressDisconnection from God…it’s not random. Your current systems and rhythms are producing those results.“Every system is perfectly designed to get the results that it gets.”4. You Can’t Want Jesus’ Life Without Adopting His LifestyleMany of us want:His peaceHis clarityHis joy…but we’re not willing to live how He lived.Following Jesus is not compartmentalized—it’s a full-life transformation, not just Sunday behavior or spiritual moments.5. Burnout Is a Sign You’re Living Outside of God’s DesignBurnout isn’t just exhaustion—it’s a signal.It often means you’ve made your dwelling place somewhere God never intended.The invitation? Come back home.6. Stop Praying Your Will—Start Seeking HisA powerful personal story highlights how easy it is to pray what we want instead of surrendering to God’s will.When you approach God as an apprentice—not the one in charge—you:Release controlStay open to correctionAvoid unnecessary frustration and confusion7. Self-Awareness Is a Spiritual DisciplineSlowing down enough to:Notice your reactionsEvaluate your routinesCheck your alignment…is key to transformation.Self-awareness allows you to course correct in real time and grow in spiritual maturity.8. Jesus Doesn’t Offer Escape—He Offers EquipmentLife is hard. That’s not changing.But instead of removing the weight, Jesus teaches us how to carry it differently:With HimAt His paceWith His peaceAn easy life isn’t promised—but an easy yoke is.Practical Application:This week, begin living like an apprentice:Pause throughout your day and ask: “What would Jesus do?”Set reminders to check in with your thoughts, reactions, and stress levelsPay attention to moments where you feel rushed, anxious, or out of alignmentSurrender areas where you’ve been forcing your willScripture Highlight:Matthew 11:28–30 “Come to me, all who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest…”Final Thought:If you want the life of Jesus, you have to adopt the lifestyle of Jesus.This isn’t about doing more—it’s about living differently.Resources Mentioned:The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer Our Sponsors:* Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com* Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com* Check out NetSuite and use my code netsuite.ai/BLESSED for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com* Check out Super.com and use my code super.com/credit for a great deal: https://super.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, we continue our book club series on The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer, stepping into Part 2: The Solution.If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed, stretched thin, or like there aren’t enough hours in the day, this conversation will challenge the way you think about productivity, ambition, and success.Tatum shares a candid life update—navigating motherhood, law school, entrepreneurship, and a recent season of burnout—and how God is shifting her perspective on pace, priorities, and what success really means in this season.This episode centers on a powerful truth: the solution to an overbusy life is not more time, but a slower, more intentional life rooted in what actually matters.What You’ll Learn in This EpisodeWhy more time will not fix your overwhelmHow to simplify your business model without sacrificing successThe difference between active income and asset-based wealthWhy you do not have to follow grind culture to build a successful businessHow embracing your limitations can bring peace and clarityWhat it means to define success as pleasing God, not producing outcomesHow surrendering control leads to true freedomKey TakeawaysYou do not have to be rushed to be rich or successfulEvery yes requires a thousand no’s—choose wiselyYour capacity is limited, and that is by designGod is not asking you to do everything, only what He assigned to youTrue success is obedience to God, not money, influence, or recognitionFaith + Business InsightThis episode explores the tension between potential and limitation. While we are made in the image of God and filled with purpose, we are still human and finite.Learning to accept both your potential and your limitations is essential to building a life and business that is sustainable, peaceful, and aligned with God’s will.Notable Quote“You don’t have to be rushed to be rich. You don’t have to be rushed to be successful.”Book Club PickWe’re reading: The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer - https://amzn.to/3Obiks5Mentioned in This EpisodeAnchored Media Studios: www.anchoredmediastudios.com Our Sponsors:* Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com* Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com* Check out NetSuite and use my code netsuite.ai/BLESSED for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com* Check out Super.com and use my code super.com/credit for a great deal: https://super.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, Tatum takes time to rest and recover while revisiting one of the most impactful teachings she’s shared: the God Math Formula.If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed, stretched thin, or stuck in survival mode, this episode invites you to take a different approach. Instead of striving, multitasking, and trying to do everything, Tatum breaks down a faith-based framework that brings clarity, peace, and alignment.This episode is not about doing more. It is about doing what matters most and trusting God to handle the rest.What You’ll LearnWhy survival mode requires deeper reflection, not quick fixesThe difference between worldly peace and God’s peaceHow hustle culture and internalized stress are affecting womenWhy slowing down can feel uncomfortable and what God may be refining in that processThe truth about multitasking versus multiplicationThe God Math FormulaConsecration + Concentration = MultiplicationConsecration (Your Responsibility)Setting your life apart for God through your daily decisions, habits, and priorities.Key Scriptures: Romans 12:1–2 1 Peter 1:15–16Concentration (Your Responsibility)Maintaining focused, intentional attention on God’s will by eliminating distractions and staying aligned.Key Scripture: Matthew 4:1–11Multiplication (God’s Responsibility)God expands what you offer Him beyond your natural capacity.Key Insight: Multitasking is not multiplication. Trying to do everything is stepping into a role that belongs to God.Biblical Examples of God Math in ActionMary, mother of Jesus: Her obedience positioned her to carry out God’s plan for salvationThe Shunammite woman: Her generosity led to supernatural provisionThe disciples: Their obedience with limited resources led to abundanceThe widow of Zarephath: Her faith in scarcity resulted in overflowPractical ApplicationTatum outlines a realistic, faith-centered daily rhythm that includes:Starting the day with prayer, Scripture, and stillnessBeing intentional with family and relationshipsWorking with focus and minimizing distractionsPracticing gratitude throughout the dayPrioritizing rest and restoration in the eveningKey takeaway: Harmony is not about having more time. It is about being intentional with the time you already have.Key TakeawaysAlignment is more important than activityPeace is not the absence of chaos but the presence of GodDiscipline is the key to sustainable transformationGod multiplies what you surrender and steward wellOur Sponsors:* Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com* Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com* Check out NetSuite and use my code netsuite.ai/BLESSED for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com* Check out Super.com and use my code super.com/credit for a great deal: https://super.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this inspiring episode of Blessed and Bossed Up, Christian entrepreneur Tatum Temia answers listener questions about aligning ambition with God’s will, managing work-life harmony, and creating faith-based communities for women. She also shares a powerful testimony of her grandmother’s miraculous healing from stage four cancer, reminding listeners that God is faithful and sees every part of our lives.Whether you are a busy mom, entrepreneur, or professional, this episode is packed with practical guidance, spiritual encouragement, and real-life strategies to live a God-centered, purpose-driven life.What You’ll Learn in This Episode:1. Miraculous Healing TestimonyTatum shares the story of her grandmother. Through faith, prayer, and God’s guidance, she is now in remission. This testimony highlights:The power of trusting God in difficult seasonsHow prayer and faith can bring peace and restorationWhy God’s timing is perfect and how He works behind the scenes2. Aligning Ambition with God’s WillTatum answers a listener’s question about determining if their ambition is God-aligned. Key takeaways include:Pause and recalibrate: Avoid operating in hurry and burnoutExamine the root of ambition: Is it fueled by brokenness or a spirit of excellence?Apply the God Math Formula:Consecration: Abide in God dailyConcentration: Focus on what God assignsMultiplication: Experience supernatural results beyond your own efforts3. Work-Life Harmony for Moms and EntrepreneursTatum addresses the challenges of balancing career, business, ministry, and family life. She advises:Take a hard stop to evaluate priorities and healthUse your job as an investor: Save for your business or ministrySchedule time for spiritual growth: waking early, praying throughout the dayTransition from surviving to savoring every moment with family and God4. Building a Faith-Based Community for Women Trying to ConceiveFor women seeking support while navigating fertility journeys, Tatum provides tips on:Researching existing communities to understand needs and pain pointsEmphasizing peace, trust, and patience over anxietyCombining faith with practical steps like health, vitamins, or IVF guidanceUsing social media strategically to connect with your audience and grow communityActionable Steps from This Episode:Take a recalibration pause to evaluate the alignment of your ambition and priorities.Apply the God Math Formula in daily life to multiply your efforts spiritually and practically.Carve out dedicated time for prayer, ministry, or your business while keeping your career stable.Build or join a faith-based community that provides spiritual encouragement and practical resources.Savor your life: prioritize health, family, and God over constant productivity and achievement.Resources Mentioned:Previous episode: God Math Formula: https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/podcast/episode/1f420cff/god-math-the-spiritual-formula-every-busy-woman-needsOur Sponsors:* Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com* Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com* Check out NetSuite and use my code netsuite.ai/BLESSED for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com* Check out Super.com and use my code super.com/credit for a great deal: https://super.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

This week on Blessed and Bossed Up, Tatum Temia dives deep into listener questions about balancing personal desires with God’s timing and navigating the complexities of Christian entrepreneurship. As we close out the first quarter of the year, this episode is a reminder to check in with your goals, your heart, and your faith.Tatum covers:Holding space for longings like marriage and motherhood without letting them consume your focus, even when God is calling you to pursue other seasons of life.Healthy ways to process disappointment and desire without shutting down emotionally or disassociating.The importance of enjoying your current season while preparing for future roles in life and leadership.Discerning action versus waiting in business: how to know when to move forward and when to sit and seek guidance from the Lord.The dwelling and abiding lifestyle—making God your constant dwelling place to cultivate peace, clarity, and confidence in your decisions.Real talk on the mental and spiritual challenges of Christian entrepreneurship and how to navigate the pressure, self-doubt, and decision paralysis with faith and wisdom.Whether you’re navigating personal desires, business growth, or both, this episode provides practical guidance and encouragement to live fully surrendered to God while pursuing your destiny.💌 Have a question for Tatum? Email her at [email protected] and you might hear it answered on a future episode!Our Sponsors:* Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com* Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com* Check out NetSuite and use my code netsuite.ai/BLESSED for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com* Check out Super.com and use my code super.com/credit for a great deal: https://super.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, we continue the book club discussion of The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer, exploring chapters 2 and 3. Tatum dives into the history of speed in modern culture and how technological advancement, shifting cultural values, and the rise of the attention economy have created a lifestyle of chronic busyness.From alarm clocks and the invention of the light bulb to smartphones and social media platforms, we unpack how the modern world has conditioned us to move faster, do more, and measure productivity by output rather than spiritual depth.But what is the real cost of this constant hurry?This episode challenges Christian entrepreneurs and busy believers to reconsider their definition of productivity, confront the hidden addiction to digital devices, and examine whether busyness is crowding out intimacy with God.If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, constantly rushed, or spiritually disconnected despite being productive, this conversation will help you recognize the deeper root of the problem—and prepare you for the solutions coming in the next episode.In This Episode We DiscussWhy hurry is considered the greatest enemy of the spiritual lifeThe historical shift from natural rhythms to artificial schedulesHow the invention of the light bulb and industrial work culture changed sleep and productivityThe cultural shift from leisure as wealth to busyness as statusThe decline of Sabbath practices in modern societyHow the digital age and smartphones fuel distraction and addictionThe psychology behind the attention economyThe concept of “hurry sickness” and its symptomsHow constant busyness can damage our spiritual healthWhy redefining productivity is essential for believersKey Takeaways1. Modern life is built around speed—not soul care. Historically, people lived according to natural rhythms—waking with the sun and resting after sunset. Today, alarm clocks, work schedules, and digital connectivity push us into an artificial pace that our bodies and spirits were never designed for.2. Busyness has become a status symbol. Where wealth once meant leisure and rest, modern culture celebrates packed calendars, long work hours, and constant productivity.3. Technology competes for your attention. Smartphones and social media platforms are intentionally designed to capture and keep your attention through dopamine-driven feedback loops.4. Hurry isn’t just stressful—it’s spiritual. When our lives move too quickly, we lose the space required for reflection, prayer, and genuine connection with God.5. Many of us are experiencing “hurry sickness.” This condition describes the constant feeling of being rushed, anxious about time, and trying to accomplish more in less time.Reflection QuestionsTake a moment to sit with these questions:Do you feel most productive only when you’re accomplishing tasks?Do you struggle to rest without feeling lazy or unproductive?Has busyness replaced intentional time with God?Could your pace of life be preventing you from hearing God clearly?Community Challenge: Digital SabbathThe episode proposes a powerful challenge inspired by the book:Turn off your phone for 24 hours.A digital Sabbath allows you to:Reset your mindBreak compulsive phone habitsCreate space for rest and spiritual reflectionConsider trying this with the Blessed + Bossed Up community and observe what shifts in your awareness and connection with God.What’s Coming NextThis episode focuses on diagnosing the problem of hurry. In the next episode, we’ll begin exploring the practical solutions John Mark Comer presents for slowing down and restoring spiritual health in a fast-paced world.Resources MentionedThe Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer: https://amzn.to/4aSvzqlOur Sponsors:* Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com* Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com* Check out NetSuite and use my code netsuite.ai/BLESSED for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com* Check out Super.com and use my code super.com/credit for a great deal: https://super.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, Tatum kicks off the next book club series: The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer. https://amzn.to/4c9jPAKThis national bestseller, with over one million copies sold, presents a compelling spiritual and emotional case against hurry and challenges the culture of busyness that defines modern life.For ambitious women balancing business, motherhood, marriage, leadership, and personal growth, this conversation is both timely and necessary.Although originally planning to wait until after midterms, Tatum began rereading this book sooner because she recognized subtle signs of internal hurry resurfacing in her own life. This episode is not just a book discussion—it is a personal reset and an invitation for listeners to do the same.In this episode, she explores:Why high-achieving women are especially vulnerable to chronic overloadWhat current research reveals about women, stress, burnout, and time povertyHow busyness impacts cortisol levels, sleep, hormonal balance, and long-term healthThe invisible mental load many women carry dailyThe tension between ambition and contentmentWhy hurry is incompatible with love, joy, and peaceThe foundational question raised in the book: Who am I becoming?Drawing from both the book and her own experience in therapy, Tatum also shares practical tools that help interrupt internal hurry, including:Creating intentional transition time between responsibilitiesPracticing single-tasking instead of multitaskingScheduling real lunch breaks without scrollingGrounding exercises to regulate the nervous systemPausing in moments of rush to return to presenceOne of the central themes discussed in this episode is the idea that hurry is not merely a productivity issue—it is a spiritual formation issue.As the book argues, love, joy, and peace are core characteristics of apprenticeship to Jesus. Yet all three are incompatible with a life lived in constant speed. Presence is required for love. Stillness is required for joy. Margin is required for peace.Tatum challenges listeners to reflect deeply:Who are they becoming if nothing changes?Has hurry negatively impacted their marriage, parenting, friendships, or worship?Are they rushing toward a version of success they may not even like?Where has busyness quietly replaced intimacy with God?This episode also addresses a sobering reality: many Christians are not in danger of renouncing their faith—but of settling for a distracted, shallow version of it.The invitation is clear: eliminate hurry before it eliminates depth.Listeners are encouraged to grab a copy of The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry and follow along as the book club continues in the next episode.Because building a successful life should never come at the cost of the soul.If this episode resonates, share it with another ambitious woman who needs permission—and accountability—to slow down.Tune in next week as the discussion continues.Our Sponsors:* Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com* Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com* Check out NetSuite and use my code netsuite.ai/BLESSED for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com* Check out Super.com and use my code super.com/credit for a great deal: https://super.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, we’re having a sober, faith-centered conversation about artificial intelligence—what it is, how it already shows up in daily life, and how Christian entrepreneurs should engage with it wisely.What AI Is (and why you’re already using it)AI is software trained on data to predict, recommend, recognize, or generate without being told every step. It’s embedded in:Google search suggestionsAutocorrect and text predictionYouTube/Netflix/Spotify recommendationsBanking fraud alertsEmail spam filters and inbox sortingFace ID, photo tagging, voice-to-textAI isn’t just ChatGPT—and it’s here to stay.The tension people feelMany people want AI’s benefits but feel cautious about trust, jobs, privacy, and misinformation. Others either avoid it completely or rely on it too heavily.The core boundary for believersUse AI for labor, not revelation. Don’t use AI to interpret scripture, replace prayer, or seek direction for what God told you to build. Use it for support work—drafting, organizing, brainstorming, or saving time—without replacing dependence on the Holy Spirit. AI can easily become an idol because it’s designed to learn you and feed you what you want.Why this is good news for entrepreneursAs AI content becomes overly polished, the market is shifting toward authentic, human-led content. People want real stories, real connection, and less perfection—meaning you don’t need “TV-level” production to show up and stand out.Practical ways to use AI wiselyDraft captions, emails, descriptions, SEORepurpose audio/video into clipsCreate basic graphics aligned to a brand guideAutomate simple customer support/FAQsStreamline admin and back-office tasksKeep the human connection: respond, engage, and make sure your voice stays present.Closing encouragementNow is a great time to launch what God called you to—without perfection—while using AI as a tool with wisdom, restraint, and spiritual discernment.Our Sponsors:* Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com* Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com* Check out NetSuite and use my code netsuite.ai/BLESSED for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com* Check out Super.com and use my code super.com/credit for a great deal: https://super.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In the previous episode, we were supposed to wrap up The Spirit-Filled Life by Charles Stanley. After waking up at 3 a.m. to record a full 57-minute episode, the final 17 minutes didn’t save. Rather than end abruptly, this episode finishes the discussion properly.We conclude our book club conversation by examining two final spiritual markers of the Spirit-filled life:The Word of GodWisdomWe also prepare for our next book club selection: The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer. We will begin in about two weeks after midterms, so go ahead and grab your copy now.Marker #3: The Word of GodCharles Stanley outlines three key reading principles that help believers live a Spirit-filled life.1. Look for Principles, Not Just PromisesMany believers are promise-centered, always searching for what God will do for them. But principles are more powerful for decision-making.A principle works like an equation:If you do A, expect B.If you ignore A, expect C.When you consistently study the Word, those principles become ingrained. You won’t need to pause life to search for answers. The Holy Spirit will bring truth to your mind in real time.For Christian entrepreneurs especially, this is critical. You must be able to:Make decisions quicklyMaintain spiritual accuracyMove without paralysisThat kind of discernment only comes when the Word is already in you.2. Read with Context — Remain NeutralOne of the most important themes of this episode is neutrality.Do not approach Scripture trying to get something out of it. Approach it to know Him.In an age of algorithms constantly feeding us what we already want to see, neutrality is difficult. But it is essential. Otherwise, we risk:Confusing digital marketing for confirmationConfusing algorithms for the Holy SpiritReading our desires into the text instead of receiving what it actually saysWhen you read neutrally, you allow the Word to confront you instead of you manipulating it to support what you already want.Neutrality produces peace, clarity, sensitivity, and maturity.If you approach Scripture asking, “How can I get God to work for me?” you will miss it.When you approach asking, “How can I be closer to Him?” everything changes.3. Look for General PromisesThere are promises given to all believers for all time, including:Jesus’ promise not to leave us as orphans (John 14:18)Grace and mercy when we approach God (Hebrews 4:16)Strength for the weary (Isaiah 40:31)While God still speaks, He has already spoken extensively through Scripture. Personal revelation should always be filtered through biblical truth.Approaching the Word strictly from a mystical or subjective lens is dangerous. Spiritual maturity requires emotional maturity, restraint, and accountability.Marker #4: WisdomThe final spiritual marker of a Spirit-filled life is wisdom.The defining question: What is the wise thing for me to do?Wisdom exposes hidden motives. It shines light on greed, selfishness, pride, and lust.Wisdom goes beyond right and wrong.Something may not be sinful — but it may still not be wise.The Holy Spirit does not merely pull us away from sin. He keeps us far from the edge.Walking in WisdomExamples discussed in this episode include:Disengaging instead of escalating when triggeredAvoiding environments that may not be sinful but are not wiseListening to internal promptings before temptation escalatesLeaving a social setting when wisdom says it is time to goThe Spirit-filled life is not about seeing how close you can get to the line without crossing it. It is about walking wisely and staying far from the brink.The Three-Dimensional Wisdom QuestionWhen making decisions, ask:What is the wise thing to do in light of my past experience?What is the wise thing to do in light of my present situation?What is the wise thing to do in light of my future hopes and calling?The Holy Spirit takes into account your history, your vulnerabilities, and your destiny. When He prompts you, it is for protection.Ignoring wisdom can have lasting consequences.Final ChargeIf you are not reading your Bible daily, start now.Buy a translation you understand. Read a little every day.Through daily reading, you give the Holy Spirit access to your mind and heart — access necessary for transformation.Next Book Club PickThe Ruthless Elimination of Hurry – John Mark ComerWe will begin in approximately two weeks. Grab your copy and begin reading so you are ready when we start.Additional Bible Study Resources Recommended by Charles Stanley30 Days to Understanding the Bible – Max AndersHow to Read the Bible for All Its Worth – Gordon D. Fee & Douglas StewartHow to Study the Bible – James BragaHow to Understand Your Bible – T. Norton SterrickTalk Through the Bible – Bruce Wilkinson & Kenneth BoaLiving by the Book: The Art and Science of Reading the Bible – Howard Hendricks & William HendricksOur Sponsors:* Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com* Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com* Check out NetSuite and use my code netsuite.ai/BLESSED for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com* Check out Super.com and use my code super.com/credit for a great deal: https://super.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode of the Blessed + Bossed Up Book Club, we continue wrapping up The Spirit-Filled Life by Charles Stanley by exploring one of the most important markers of living in step with the Holy Spirit: the Word of God.If you want to know what the Holy Spirit is saying, you must know what He has already said. The Bible is not just a collection of stories—it is the Holy Spirit’s thoughts on paper. It is objective, timeless truth that anchors us when our emotions, desires, and circumstances try to pull us in different directions.In this episode, I share why Scripture is the most reliable way to discern God’s will, the difference between subjective and objective study, and how to approach the Word in a way that produces spiritual maturity. I also share personal reflections on discipleship, parenting, and how God uses everyday moments to redirect us back to His truth.We also announce our next Blessed + Bossed Up Book Club pick: The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer—a powerful follow-up that will help us establish a pace of life that keeps us aligned with the Spirit.Key TakeawaysThe Bible is the Holy Spirit’s most objective tool for revealing God’s willScripture is not just stories—it is a living, relevant, and authoritative guide for our livesMany believers rely too heavily on subjective feelings instead of objective truthSpiritual maturity requires balancing personal application with disciplined, objective studyPrinciples in Scripture provide timeless guidance for decision-makingEliminating hurry is essential to maintaining sensitivity to the Holy SpiritDiscipleship begins at home and in everyday conversationsScripture References2 Peter 1:20–21 — Scripture inspired by the Holy SpiritGalatians 6:7 — You reap what you sowProverbs 13:20 — The influence of your associationsProverbs 12:1 — Correction produces wisdomProverbs 12:19 — Truth endures2 Corinthians 9:6 — Generosity produces increasePhilippians 4:19 — God provides for His peopleBook Club Announcement: Our Next ReadOur next Blessed + Bossed Up Book Club selection is:The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark ComerThis book addresses one of the greatest threats to our spiritual sensitivity: hurry. It will help us establish rhythms that allow us to remain emotionally healthy, spiritually alive, and aligned with God’s pace.Get your copy and read along with us. https://a.co/d/0cBAB6G0Resources MentionedThe Spirit-Filled Life by Charles Stanley: https://a.co/d/0cBAB6G0The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer https://a.co/d/0cBAB6G0Our Sponsors:* Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com* Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com* Check out NetSuite and use my code netsuite.ai/BLESSED for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com* Check out Super.com and use my code super.com/credit for a great deal: https://super.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode, Tatum shares a timely message about building spiritual muscle memory—the discipline of training your spirit to respond automatically to God, especially in seasons of pressure, warfare, and transition.Just as physical muscle memory develops through consistent repetition, spiritual muscle memory develops through daily prayer, studying the Word, obedience, and intentional separation from environments that weaken your spiritual strength.This episode serves as both an encouragement and a call to action for those who know they are being stretched, tested, and prepared for greater responsibility. Tatum explains why spiritual consistency—not emotional intensity—is what sustains you through seasons of elevation and opposition.If you have been feeling pressure in multiple areas of your life, this episode will help you understand what is happening, how to respond, and how to strengthen your spiritual posture so you can stand firm in what God has called you to do.In This Episode, You’ll Learn:What spiritual muscle memory is and why it mattersWhy spiritual disciplines must become automatic, not occasionalHow consistent prayer strengthens your spiritual resilienceThe difference between repetition and quality repetition in spiritual growthWhy studying and understanding scripture deeply increases its effectiveness in your lifeHow environments and habits can either strengthen or weaken your spiritual positionThe importance of accountability in maintaining spiritual disciplineHow to proactively prepare for seasons of elevation and oppositionKey Concepts DiscussedSpiritual Muscle Memory Training your spirit to respond to God automatically through consistent prayer, scripture study, and obedience.Quality Repetition Not just hearing the Word, but studying it, writing it down, understanding it, and applying it so it becomes embedded within you.Proactive Spiritual Discipline Building strength before crisis occurs so your response is rooted in truth, not emotion.Separation and Protection Removing yourself from environments and habits that weaken your spiritual clarity and authority.Accountability and Spiritual Covering Strengthening your spiritual consistency through prayer partnerships and community.Scripture ReferencedEphesians 6:13–17 — The Armor of GodJames 5:16 — “The prayer of the righteous is powerful and effective.”Ephesians 6:12 — Spiritual warfare is not against flesh and bloodPractical Ways to Build Spiritual Muscle MemoryPray daily and consistentlyStudy and write down scripture to deepen understandingPut on the armor of God intentionallyRemove yourself from environments that weaken your disciplineEstablish accountability through prayer partnerships or communityMeditate on the Word so it becomes your automatic responseReflection QuestionsWhat spiritual disciplines have become inconsistent in your life?Where is God calling you to strengthen your spiritual foundation?What environments, habits, or distractions may be weakening your spiritual clarity?What daily practices can you implement to build spiritual muscle memory?Resources MentionedBibleHub.comBibleStudyTools.comGotQuestions.orgA study Bible for deeper context and understandingOur Sponsors:* Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com* Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com* Check out NetSuite and use my code netsuite.ai/BLESSED for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com* Check out Super.com and use my code super.com/credit for a great deal: https://super.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode of Blessed and Bossed Up, Tatum reframes commitment from a biblical perspective. Rather than defining commitment as discipline, motivation, or consistency, she defines it as spiritual restraint—the willingness to restrict your freedom of action in order to fully submit to God’s way.This teaching explores why commitment is a distinguishing mark of believers and how inconsistent restraint can quietly lead us from dependence on the Holy Spirit into self-sufficiency.Episode HighlightsA biblical definition of commitment as restraintWhy commitment is a marker of spiritual maturityHow good intentions can still lead to compromiseThe difference between good ideas and God ideasWhy God cares about how we start, continue, and finishBiblical Foundation: Asa and Jehoshaphat (2 Chronicles)Tatum examines the lives of King Asa and King Jehoshaphat to show how waning commitment and partial obedience produced long-term consequences.Both kings were generally faithful but inconsistent in restraint:Asa obeyed God early in his reign but later relied on alliances rather than the Lord.Jehoshaphat followed God in major decisions but compromised in daily and strategic ones.Their stories reveal that partial obedience and strategic compromise can open doors we never intended to open.The Five Core Competencies of CommitmentCommitment to the Lord should be distinguishable. These five competencies serve as markers of true spiritual commitment:A Clear and Clean Heart Commitment begins with the inner condition of the heart. Unaddressed pride, bitterness, anger, and self-reliance hinder obedience. Scriptures: Matthew 5:8; 1 Samuel 16:7Courage Courage is the spiritual strength to obey God despite fear, risk, or opposition. Obedience often requires moving forward without certainty. Scripture: Joshua 1:9Diligence Diligence is steady, faithful obedience over time. Longevity in calling, business, and ministry is built on faithfulness, not motivation. Scripture: Proverbs 21:5Precision Precision means doing exactly what God said—no more and no less. Dependence on God is required to walk out assignments with accuracy.Contentment Contentment is an inner sufficiency rooted in trust in God’s sovereignty, independent of external circumstances. Scriptures: Philippians 4:11–13; 1 Timothy 6:6–8Faith and Human BehaviorResearch shows that commitment bridges the gap between intention and action. Many people struggle not because they lack desire, but because they lack commitment.This biblical framework for commitment not only produces consistency in action, but also spiritual fruit, deeper intimacy with God, and alignment with His will.Closing ThoughtCommitment is not about productivity alone. It is about pleasing the Father, finishing the assignment, and stewarding the life God entrusted to us.If this episode blessed you, please leave a five-star review. Thank you for listening to Blessed and Bossed Up.Our Sponsors:* Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com* Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com* Check out NetSuite and use my code netsuite.ai/BLESSED for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com* Check out Super.com and use my code super.com/credit for a great deal: https://super.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, we continue our book club discussion of The Spirit-Filled Life by Charles Stanley, wrapping up Part Three of the book. These final chapters focus on the spiritual markers the Holy Spirit uses to confirm God’s will—and today’s conversation dives into the first two: peace and the conscience.Tatum unpacks why peace is often the first and clearest indicator that the Holy Spirit is either affirming or resisting a decision. Through a powerful story from Charles Stanley’s own ministry—where waiting on God led to a debt-free miracle—this episode challenges the tendency to panic, self-rely, or rationalize disobedience when God seems silent.The episode also includes several personal testimonies illustrating how the absence or presence of peace has guided major life decisions, from entrepreneurship and ministry to relationships and family choices. These stories highlight that spiritual maturity is not a prerequisite for the Holy Spirit to lead—He speaks from the very beginning of our walk with God.In the second half of the episode, the discussion turns to Stanley’s second marker: the conscience. While acknowledging the biblical framework presented in the book, Tatum offers honest reflection and thoughtful critique, questioning whether the conscience should be treated as a distinct marker separate from the Holy Spirit’s work of renewing the mind. This portion of the conversation invites listeners into deeper discernment, encouraging them to study Scripture, pray intentionally, and test what resonates with the Spirit.The episode closes with practical reflection questions from the book to help listeners evaluate decisions they may be facing—especially when peace seems unclear or external advice conflicts with inner conviction.This episode is an invitation to slow down, listen closely, and trust that the Holy Spirit is actively leading—even when His direction doesn’t make logical senseOur Sponsors:* Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com* Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com* Check out NetSuite and use my code netsuite.ai/BLESSED for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com* Check out Super.com and use my code super.com/credit for a great deal: https://super.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Today’s episode is a special one—Tatum sits down with Raevyn Hokett, a longtime friend and fan-favorite guest who first entered Tatum’s life as her business coach back in 2014, helping her transition from employee to full-time entrepreneur. Their relationship has grown over the years into genuine friendship (Tatum even officiated Raevyn and her husband Tim’s wedding!), and in this conversation they go deep on what it really means to build a legacy God’s way.Together, they unpack legacy and longevity in entrepreneurship, how to steward influence and resources, and why “doing business God’s way” often includes wilderness seasons that teach dependence, humility, and true alignment.Want to watch the interview? This episode is also available on YouTube (link in the show notes).In This Episode, We Talk AboutWhy Raevyn is an OG guest and always a listener favoriteWhat legacy looks like when you’re building with eternity in mindThe difference between being self-made vs. submitted to GodHow success without God can become a “cocktail for danger”Learning to trust God in manna seasons—daily provision and dependencyWhen obedience doesn’t look like immediate overflowThe moment God told Raevyn to shut down a lucrative coaching businessHow God uses closed doors as protection (including a major 2020 “dodged bullet”)How spiritual gifts (especially prophecy + discernment) protect and guide in businessWhy business models must evolve—and how God leads transitions ahead of timeGuarding your gates: distraction, comparison, AI “busy work,” and spiritual compromiseThe power of abiding—stillness, hearing God, and resisting hustle cultureResource Mentioned + Listener DiscountRaevyn is currently offering Rich Disciples Academy, specifically the Calling to Cash Flow Starter Kit, designed to help believers turn their God-given calling into sustainable income.Blessed + Bossed Up listeners get 50% off with code: BLESSED(Link: https://stan.store/richdisciples/p/the-calling-to-cashflow-starter-kit)Our Sponsors:* Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com* Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com* Check out NetSuite and use my code netsuite.ai/BLESSED for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com* Check out Super.com and use my code super.com/credit for a great deal: https://super.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, the host continues the book club series with The Spirit-Filled Life by Charles Stanley, covering Chapters 13 and 14, which focus on the Holy Spirit’s role in guidance, decision-making, sensitivity, and neutrality before God.The episode opens with an invitation to the Clarity Reset, a free two-week challenge inside The Society, designed to help participants realign their capacity, priorities, and spiritual focus by slowing down rather than adding more.Episode Highlights:Why many people struggle due to lack of clarity—not discipline or work ethicHow busyness and goal-driven living can dull spiritual sensitivityThe Holy Spirit as a guide, not a controllerFour key truths about the Holy Spirit:He guidesHe is trustworthyHe is God’s mouthpiece to believersThe Holy Spirit speaksReal-life examples of Spirit-led guidance in parenting, career decisions, and resisting distractionsWhy God cares about both major and seemingly small decisionsThe importance of recognizing and trusting how the Holy Spirit communicates personallyChapter 14 Focus: The Principle of NeutralityWhy God often remains silent when believers approach Him with fixed agendasThe danger of asking God to bless plans already madeHow emotional attachment can distort discernmentWhy worship helps cultivate neutrality and clarityHow misplaced faith in promises God never made leads to disappointmentThe connection between neutrality, obedience, and peaceKey Takeaway:Clarity comes from sensitivity, and sensitivity grows when believers approach God with a neutral heart—willing to release their own agendas and fully submit to His will.Resources Mentioned:The Spirit-Filled Life by Charles Stanley: https://amzn.to/45Jzcf6The Clarity Reset (free two-week challenge inside The Society): thesocietychallenge.comOur Sponsors:* Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com* Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com* Check out NetSuite and use my code netsuite.ai/BLESSED for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com* Check out Super.com and use my code super.com/credit for a great deal: https://super.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode, I’m joined by my friend and podcast fave Kristen Hopkins Vincent—and yes, we’re talking about the Vincent part today! Kristen returns with powerful updates on her life (she’s a wife and a mom now!) and on the incredible work happening through Black SEL.We dig into Kristen’s transition from Dangers of the Mind to Black SEL, why culturally-rooted social and emotional learning is essential for Black communities, and what it looks like to build a mission-driven organization with radical obedience to God. Kristen shares moments where obedience didn’t make sense—like moving forward with a major conference during a hurricane—and how God confirmed the vision through provision, research, and undeniable fruit.We also talk about the very real emotions that come up when you’re following God’s timing: shame, guilt, feeling unseen, and learning how to embrace seasons of being hidden. And Kristen’s testimony around marriage and motherhood is such a needed reminder: it’s not too late, and God is always intentional.Before we get into it: Kristen and her husband received the Presidential Lifetime Achievement Award—and she forgot to mention it in the conversation because that’s what happens when you’re focused on obedience and doing the Lord’s work.In this episode, we cover:What Black SEL is and why it’s necessaryKristen’s transition from Dangers of the Mind to launching a nonprofitThe 5 core competencies of social-emotional learning (and how Black SEL frames them)Why SEL must be culturally affirming to truly serve Black students and communitiesBuilding “God’s way” vs. building in your own mightThe difference between a “me” assignment and a “we” assignmentNavigating shame, guilt, and the pressure to be seenSeasons where God hides you—and why that protection mattersKristen’s hurricane conference testimony and how God made the wayThe research that revealed how little SEL scholarship centers Black communitiesWaiting on God for marriage and motherhood—and what it means to pray for alignment with your assignmentA word for the woman juggling purpose, business, love, and obedience“The position of your mind determines the posture of your life”Connect with Kristen + Support Black SELVisit: BlackSEL.orgDonate + learn more about the mission and programmingGet involved / volunteer (especially if you’re in North Carolina)Our Sponsors:* Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com* Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com* Check out NetSuite and use my code netsuite.ai/BLESSED for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com* Check out Super.com and use my code super.com/credit for a great deal: https://super.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this bonus episode, we officially pick back up our book club read of The Spirit-Filled Life by Charles Stanley after pausing in Q4 due to major life transitions, including starting law school and welcoming a new baby. The goal now is simple: finish the book together and apply it practically as we move into a new year.If you are new to the book club, all previous episodes are linked in the show notes, along with the link to purchase the book. This remains one of my top Christian books of all time and one I believe should be reread regularly, especially at the beginning of the year.Today’s Focus: Chapter 11 — Doing God’s Work God’s WayWhile this episode technically covers Chapters 11 and 12, the primary focus is Chapter 11. Chapter 12 largely reiterates themes already covered earlier in the book regarding the Holy Spirit, so today’s discussion centers on what it truly looks like to build, work, and live by God’s Spirit rather than our own strength.The chapter opens with Zechariah 4:6–7: “Not by might nor by power, but by My Spirit, says the Lord of hosts.”Using the story of Zerubbabel rebuilding the temple, Charles Stanley reminds us that:God knows we will face oppositionGod does not always remove obstaclesGod prepares us insteadSelf-sufficiency is often the greatest oppositionThis scripture is a critical anchor for anyone building a business, pursuing goals, or stepping into God-ordained work.No Separation Between Spiritual and Secular WorkColossians 3:23–24 reminds us that “whatever you do” is service to the Lord. God does not divide life into sacred and secular categories. Your job, business, career, and daily responsibilities are all part of your calling.Even in environments where faith cannot be openly expressed, excellence, humility, integrity, and Spirit-dependence still glorify God. Your work ethic and posture can be a bridge to someone who may never step into a church.Two Ways to Approach God’s WorkDoing God’s work in the flesh looks like:relying on skill, experience, influence, and strategyplanning first and asking God to bless it latermeasuring success by numbers, money, or visibilityoperating in stress, pressure, and controlDoing God’s work by the Spirit looks like:beginning with dependencyhearing from God before planningremaining flexible and surrenderedallowing God to receive the gloryGod’s work done God’s way carries an unmistakable mark. It produces transformation, not just emotional stimulation or surface-level success.Five Indicators You’re Doing God’s Work God’s WayAccording to Charles Stanley, Spirit-led work is marked by:Knowing the work will fail if God does not interveneSeeing God as your only true sourceLooking for evidence of the Spirit’s interventionLiving without chronic stressSpending more time thanking God than asking HimIf these are not currently descriptive of you, that is not condemnation—it is an invitation to course-correct.Final EncouragementThis episode is especially timely for the beginning of the year, when many of us are setting goals and making plans. If you started the year operating in the flesh, now is the time to bring those plans back to God, repent of self-sufficiency, and realign your posture.Write these five indicators down. Keep Zechariah 4:6 somewhere visible. Check yourself often and intentionally choose to do God’s work God’s way.We have two more bonus episodes to finish the book before moving on to our next book club pick.Thank you for listening to another episode of the Blessed + Bossed Up podcast.Previous episodes:https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/podcast/episode/39405540/the-joy-youve-been-missing-starts-with-the-holy-spirithttps://www.blessedandbossedup.com/podcast/episode/3255ebb2/the-holy-spirit-is-not-an-it-or-a-ghosthttps://www.blessedandbossedup.com/podcast/episode/20f3c1c7/faith-over-formulahttps://www.blessedandbossedup.com/podcast/episode/4df616ba/abiding-over-achievinghttps://www.blessedandbossedup.com/podcast/episode/2213e340/the-faith-factorhttps://www.blessedandbossedup.com/podcast/episode/28425033/keeping-in-step-with-the-spiritOur Sponsors:* Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com* Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com* Check out NetSuite and use my code netsuite.ai/BLESSED for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com* Check out Super.com and use my code super.com/credit for a great deal: https://super.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Welcome to the first episode of 2026—and the 9-year anniversary year of Blessed + Bossed Up! In this special New Year kickoff, Tatum opens with prayer, gratitude, and a powerful reflection on what God has taught her through nine years of consistent podcasting and nine years of full-time entrepreneurship (11 years as an entrepreneur overall).This episode is part celebration, part reset, and part practical mentorship: nine lessons to help you build what God called you to build—with skill, strategy, and spiritual sensitivity.In This Episode, You’ll HearA New Year prayer + encouragement for anyone coming out of a hard 2025A thank-you message to listeners who’ve supported the show over the yearsWhy year 10 is a big deal—and what may be coming next (YouTube + format experiments)An invitation to join The Society (with a free trial) and what’s being added in 2026The core teaching: 9 lessons from 9 years of entrepreneurship and podcastingChurch Announcements + Updates1) Subscribe on YouTubeTatum shares that she’s not committing to a full video podcast, but you can expect more video elements in 2026:YouTube-exclusive episodes that may also be added to the podcast feedSome podcast episodes recorded liveMore experimentation with format as the landscape continues shiftingChannel: https://www.youtube.com/@TatumTemia2) Join The Society (Free Trial + New 2026 Modules)Tatum invites you to activate a free 2-week trial in The Society, the membership community created for Christian entrepreneurs who want a space where they don’t have to “leave Jesus out” or “leave entrepreneurship out.”New for 2026: She’s bringing her former coaching program, She Is Uncompromising Executive Leadership Training, into The Society—broken into monthly modules (about 12 total).Topics include operations, marketing, business planning, strategic planning, and accounting (modules taught by her CPA)The legal module will NOT be included (permission was for the original program only)Membership is $19.99/month, and the first module drops end of JanuaryLink to join: blessedandbossedupsociety.comLeave a 5-star review for the 9-year anniversary—share what this podcast has meant to youOur Sponsors:* Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com* Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com* Check out NetSuite and use my code netsuite.ai/BLESSED for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com* Check out Super.com and use my code super.com/credit for a great deal: https://super.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

**Disclaimer** We are currently on our annual winter break. This is a replay of an episode that aired earlier in 2025.In this continuation of the Bible on Business series, Tatum walks through Acts 16:6–10 to illustrate how critical it is for Christian entrepreneurs to embrace mobility and flexibility when building a business God’s way. Using Paul’s second missionary journey as a framework, this episode explores what it looks like to make strategic plans while remaining fully open to divine redirection.If you’re someone who knows you’re called but keeps facing closed doors, delays, or redirections that don’t make sense, this message is for you. Tatum speaks to the emotional and spiritual tension of following God with excellence while trusting Him to guide every step—even when plans change.She also shares a personal story about obeying the Holy Spirit with no confirmation and how that decision ultimately protected her and her family. This episode will shift your mindset around delays, reframe how you view closed doors, and help you move forward with peace and confidence.Key TakeawaysA closed door is not failure—it can be divine redirection.The Holy Spirit often leads us as we move, not before.Flexibility and mobility are vital for kingdom entrepreneurs.Being spiritual is not the same as being Spirit-led.Obedience does not always come with external confirmation.The people God is calling you to serve are already prepared to receive you.Scripture FocusActs 16:6–10 (ESV and The Message)Proverbs 16:9Romans 8:14Galatians 5:25This Episode is For You If:You are clear about your calling but uncertain about next steps.You’ve experienced unexpected closed doors and felt discouraged.You struggle to distinguish between faith and fear in business decisions.You are tired of waiting for external confirmation before obeying God.You want to operate in peace rather than anxiety as you build your business.Topics CoveredStrategic planning vs. spiritual discernmentWhat to do when you face delays, pivots, or redirectionsThe importance of maintaining spiritual rhythm in businessHow over-attachment to your vision can block divine movementThe role of fear and anxiety in clouding discernmentHow obedience leads to favor and alignment with your ideal clientsOur Sponsors:* Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com* Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com* Check out NetSuite and use my code netsuite.ai/BLESSED for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com* Check out Super.com and use my code super.com/credit for a great deal: https://super.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

**Disclaimer** We are currently on our annual winter break. This is a replay of an episode that aired earlier in 2025.In this continuation of our Bible on Business series, we dive deeper into the process of making Holy Spirit-led business decisions. Picking up from Part 1 (based on Acts 8), today’s discussion focuses on Acts 13:1-4 and how divine strategy and clarity are birthed from a lifestyle of worship, fasting, and consistent submission to God. Tatum also shares critical biblical principles for discerning the spirit behind those who claim to be sent by God, offering practical steps to avoid deception and remain anchored in the truth.Key Points:Context of Acts 13: Shift from Jerusalem to Antioch, highlighting the transition from Peter’s leadership to Paul’s.Divine Strategy is Birthed from Worship and Fasting:Barnabas and Saul’s commissioning came in the middle of an existing posture of worship, not a strategic session seeking next steps.Application: Do not seek God only for strategy—pursue a lifestyle of submission, intimacy, and service.Beware of Misaligned Spiritual Leadership:Many modern Christian entrepreneurs and believers are spiritually "thirsty," making them vulnerable to deception.Importance of properly discerning who lays hands on you or influences your spiritual walk and business decisions.Principles for Discerning Spiritual Leadership:Test their confession of Jesus (1 John 4:1-3).Test the fruit of their life (Matthew 7:15-20).Test alignment with Scripture (Galatians 1:8-9; Isaiah 8:20).Test through the witness of the Holy Spirit (John 16:13).Practical Application:Ask key questions:Does this person exalt the true Jesus or themselves?Does their life consistently produce holy fruit?Are their teachings aligned fully with Scripture?Does the Holy Spirit bear witness within you regarding their message and conduct?Take your time before accepting any prophetic word or impartation. It is wise to "wait and see" rather than rushing based on emotions.Personal Story:Tatum shares her own journey of being patient during a wilderness season and how God’s deposits led to the launch of Anchored Media and her continued success, underscoring the power of patience and submission.Resources Mentioned:The Spirit-Filled Life by Charles Stanley – [Grab your copy here] https://a.co/d/cBARYuEBible references: Acts 13:1-4, 1 John 4:1-3, Matthew 7:15-20, Galatians 1:8-9, Isaiah 8:20, John 16:13Call to Action:Reflect: Are you seeking God’s hand or His heart first?Evaluate: Apply the principles of spiritual discernment shared today to your current business community and spiritual influences.Prepare: Join the Blessed + Bossed Up Book Club as we start The Spirit-Filled Life by Charles Stanley. The journey to spirit-led entrepreneurship continues.Our Sponsors:* Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com* Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com* Check out NetSuite and use my code netsuite.ai/BLESSED for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com* Check out Super.com and use my code super.com/credit for a great deal: https://super.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

**Disclaimer** We are currently on our annual winter break. This is a replay of an episode that aired earlier in 2025.In today’s episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, we continue our Bible on Business series with a deep dive into what it looks like to make strategic business decisions led by the Holy Spirit. Drawing from Acts 8:26–40, Tatum unpacks the story of Philip and the Ethiopian eunuch to reveal how obedience to God—even when it seems illogical—can produce generational and global impact.Tatum also shares a powerful testimony about Anchored Media Studios being awarded the 2025 Peerspace Open Doors Award and reflects on the importance of celebrating wins, even when they don’t directly reflect financial gain. With personal insight and biblical application, this episode gives you practical tools to discern God's voice, remain obedient in seasons of uncertainty, and be led by the Spirit in every decision you make.What You’ll Learn:Why Spirit-led strategy always outperforms worldly business tacticsThe biblical context and business application of Acts 8How to know if what you're hearing is truly from GodWhat to do when your platform, profits, or progress feel like they’re shrinkingThe power of journaling and intentional reflection in building spiritual sensitivityWhy one act of obedience can change nationsHow Tatum is applying these lessons in her own businesses and platformResources Mentioned:Book Club Pick: The Spirit-Filled Life by Charles Stanley: https://amzn.to/4ji32MGEpisode referenced: Testimony of building Anchored Media Studios https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/podcast/episode/24590588/faith-endurance-and-eight-years-of-gods-graceVisit: www.blessedandbossedup.com to search episode topics and listen to past showsOur Sponsors:* Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com* Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com* Check out NetSuite and use my code netsuite.ai/BLESSED for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com* Check out Super.com and use my code super.com/credit for a great deal: https://super.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

**Disclaimer** We are currently on our annual winter break. This is a replay of an episode that aired earlier in 2025. In this episode of Blessed and Bossed Up, we continue our Bible on Business series by diving into the significance of strategic timing. Tatum unpacks the powerful lessons from Acts 2, examining how the Lord orchestrated the perfect moment for Pentecost and how this applies to our business and leadership journeys. She discusses why waiting on God’s timing is crucial, how to avoid premature leadership, and how divine strategy ensures maximum impact.Through the transformation of Peter, the example of Chick-fil-A’s success, and personal reflections on her own journey, Tatum emphasizes the importance of trusting God's plan. If you’re in a season of waiting or feeling impatient about your business or calling, this episode will encourage and challenge you to surrender to God's divine orchestration.Key Takeaways:God’s Timing Ensures Maximum Impact: Pentecost happened at the exact right moment to maximize the spread of the gospel. Likewise, waiting on God's timing in your business will lead to greater impact.The Right People Will Be in Place When It's Time: God gathers the right audience, customers, and community when the timing aligns with His plan.Strategic Preparation Precedes Breakthrough: Just as Peter had to go through a transformation process, we must embrace personal and professional development while waiting for God’s move.Sudden Breakthroughs Are Often Years in the Making: From Jesus preparing 30 years for a 3-year ministry to Chick-fil-A’s 20-year foundation before expansion, major success takes time and patience.Avoid Premature Leadership & Decision-Making: Acting ahead of God’s plan can lead to consequences. Learning to wait well is key to success in both business and faith.Scriptures Mentioned:Acts 2:1-5 – The divine timing of PentecostLeviticus 23:15-16 – The significance of the Feast of WeeksDeuteronomy 16:16 – The biblical foundation for gathering at PentecostMatthew 16:16-23 – Peter’s faith and spiritual immaturityJohn 18:10-11 – Peter’s rash decision-makingOur Sponsors:* Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com* Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com* Check out NetSuite and use my code netsuite.ai/BLESSED for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com* Check out Super.com and use my code super.com/credit for a great deal: https://super.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Before we get into today’s episode, I want to let you know that the Blessed + Bossed Up podcast is currently on a brief break as I reset, refocus, and prepare for what’s next in this new season. While we’re away, I’ll be sharing powerful sessions, teachings, and listener favorites from our community to continue pouring into you. Today’s replay is one of those sessions. Enjoy, and I pray it blesses you right where you are.What You’ll Learn in This Episode:Key lessons from the book of Isaiah and its relevance to our daily lives.How patterns of behavior like fear, self-reliance, and worldly influences keep us from fully depending on God.The concept of the habit loop and how it shapes our actions.Practical strategies to disrupt unhealthy habits and replace them with faith-driven behaviors.Scripture Focus:Isaiah 30:21 (NLT): “Your own ears will hear him. Right behind you a voice will say, ‘This is the way you should go,’ whether to the right or to the left.”🌍 Register for the End of Year PrayerthonJoin believers from around the world on December 31 for 18+ hours of prayer, teaching, and intercession across six core pillars of life.👉🏾 Register here: bit.ly/mwgprayerthon💛 Partnership Spotlight: Heifer InternationalHeifer International is a global nonprofit that empowers women farmers like Akanbi Ashiata, who grew up in Lagos and struggled to access fair funding to grow her tomato business. Through Heifer’s Micro-Loan Impact Fund, she received her first affordable loan and was able to expand her business and support her family.👉🏾 Be the blessing for a woman like Akanbi: heifer.org/blessedOur Sponsors:* Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com* Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com* Check out NetSuite and use my code netsuite.ai/BLESSED for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com* Check out Super.com and use my code super.com/credit for a great deal: https://super.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this vulnerable end-of-year episode, Tatum opens up about navigating a year of big transition—welcoming a new baby, starting law school, stewarding family and business, and still choosing to make God the CEO of it all. She shares how 2025 has exposed areas for growth, internal “shoulds,” and noise… but also how her foundation in God has kept her steady.Tatum also announces that the podcast will be on pause for December as she focuses on finals, rest, and seeking God for the next phase of the Bible on Business series—coming back in the new year with more teaching and visual, behind-the-scenes content.Then we dive back into Part 2 of her powerful conversation with Pastor Tiffany Sowah. Tiffany shares the real cost of obedience: relocating in 30 days off fragmented instructions from God, losing a major federal contract, walking through a “manna season” where she and her husband had just enough for each day, and even surrendering her dream car and apartment. She talks honestly about anger, depression, and feeling like she’d “lost everything”—and how God reframed it as giving everything up to follow Him.This episode is for the entrepreneur, leader, or believer who is:Wrestling with hesitation around a big instruction from GodQuestioning if they “heard Him right” because obedience led to hardshipIn a season where it feels like everything is being stripped, not addedWanting to understand what it really means to count the cost and still say “yes”We also share the heart behind the New Year’s Eve Prayer-a-thon, how it was birthed in the middle of Tiffany’s lowest financial season, and why you absolutely want to be in the virtual room this year.The Prayer-a-thon: Heart + InvitationHow the first Prayer-a-thon (Dec 2023) was birthed while Tiffany was working a seasonal job at Ross, living with her parents, and rebuilding from scratchThe purpose of the Prayer-a-thon: to end the year and enter the next one in the only place that sustains us—God’s presenceGrowing from an 8–12 hour broadcast to an 18–20 hour global prayer experience with people joining from all over the worldTestimonies of people who planned to “hop on for a bit” and ended up staying all dayWhy you should come ready to log in “for an hour”… but be prepared to want to stay much longer Register for the Prayer-a-thon: bit.ly/mwgprayerthon💛 Partnership Spotlight: Heifer InternationalHeifer International is a global nonprofit that empowers women farmers like Akanbi Ashiata, who grew up in Lagos and struggled to access fair funding to grow her tomato business. Through Heifer’s Micro-Loan Impact Fund, she received her first affordable loan and was able to expand her business and support her family.👉🏾 Be the blessing for a woman like Akanbi: heifer.org/blessedOur Sponsors:* Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com* Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com* Check out NetSuite and use my code netsuite.ai/BLESSED for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com* Check out Super.com and use my code super.com/credit for a great deal: https://super.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, Tatum sits down with one of our favorites, Pastor Tiffany Sowah, for a real and raw conversation about what it actually looks like to depend on God in business, ministry, and life.The last time Tiffany was on the show was in 2020. Since then, everything has changed: she’s become Pastor Tiffany, married, relocated twice (from Philly to North Carolina and now living full-time in Ghana), shifted from multi–six-figure consulting to full-time ministry, and has walked through some of the hardest financial and emotional seasons of her life.In Part 1 of this conversation, Tatum and Tiffany talk about the Bible on Business journey, the difference between worldly “Christian-branded” strategies and truly building from the Word, and the uncomfortable reality of learning to really depend on God when everything in you wants to lean on hustle, self-reliance, or what looks “practical” on paper.Tiffany shares how God:Took her from a busy life in Philly as a property owner and multi–six-figure business ownerLed her to North Carolina for a softer, more peaceful lifestyle and deeper feminine identityBegan quietly preparing her heart to slow down in business and ramp up in ministryUsed isolation, relocation, and hidden seasons to cultivate boldness, honesty, and a lifestyle of obedienceThey also talk about:Growing up in church vs. actually forming a personal relationship with GodHow Catalyst Church in Philly became Tiffany’s training ground for intercession, obedience, and spiritual maturityWhy accountability, therapy, and spiritual covering matter so much when you’re hungry for GodThe danger of consuming only digital, “sound bite” faith and how to slow down and discern voices onlineWhy wanting “more” (peace, better quality of life, financial freedom, the ability to be a kingdom financier) isn’t wrong—but must be submitted to GodThis conversation is a masterclass in counting the cost, moving when God says move, and allowing Him to reshape your identity beyond hustle, proximity-based friendships, and public success.Stay tuned for Part 2, where they dig into what happened when Tiffany’s business unraveled, the reality of manna seasons, grief in transitions, and how God used it all to expand her global ministry and birth the Prayerthon.🌍 Register for the End of Year PrayerthonJoin believers from around the world on December 31 for 18+ hours of prayer, teaching, and intercession across six core pillars of life.👉🏾 Register here: bit.ly/mwgprayerthon💛 Partnership Spotlight: Heifer InternationalHeifer International is a global nonprofit that empowers women farmers like Akanbi Ashiata, who grew up in Lagos and struggled to access fair funding to grow her tomato business. Through Heifer’s Micro-Loan Impact Fund, she received her first affordable loan and was able to expand her business and support her family.👉🏾 Be the blessing for a woman like Akanbi: heifer.org/blessedOur Sponsors:* Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com* Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com* Check out NetSuite and use my code netsuite.ai/BLESSED for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com* Check out Super.com and use my code super.com/credit for a great deal: https://super.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, Tatum continues the Bible on Business series with a sobering reminder: faith does not replace fundamentals. Yes, we pray, fast, and follow God’s leading—but we also have to be good stewards who understand the basic building blocks of business. Tatum walks you through what it really means to count the cost (Luke 14:28–30) and breaks down the core fundamentals every God-led entrepreneur needs in place so you’re not just starting things… you’re able to sustain and scale them with integrity.Sponsored by Heifer InternationalSo many women around the world are called by God to build, but lack access to basic financial resources. In Nigeria, 98% of women can’t access formal credit—no capital, no accounts, no way to grow what God has put in their hands. When you give to Heifer’s Microloan Impact Fund, 100% of your gift goes directly to women entrepreneurs so they can access the capital they need to build sustainable farms and businesses.Turn blessing into opportunity: fund a loan today at Heifer.org/blessed In This Episode, We Cover:Why “being super saved” isn’t enough to build a sustainable business – How many Christian entrepreneurs skip the unglamorous fundamentals and then blame God for what’s really mismanagement.Exegesis of Luke 14:28–30 – What Jesus meant when He said to count the cost before building. – How this applies directly to launching and running a business in 2025 and beyond.Faith + Fundamentals = Fruit that Lasts – Why spiritual disciplines (prayer, fasting, obedience) must be paired with practical disciplines (planning, numbers, systems). – How to avoid building businesses that look spiritual on the surface but are structurally weak underneath.The Core Fundamentals Every Business Needs Tatum breaks down “Business 101” in simple, God-first language:Executive Summary – Your God-given assignment in business and what you’re really here to do.Market Research – How to stop guessing and actually understand your industry + the people you’re called to serve.Products & Services – Clarifying what you’re selling and how it solves a real problem.Marketing & Sales Plan – Why “posting on social” isn’t a strategy and how to think in terms of your customer’s journey.Operations Plan – Systems, structure, and stewardship so your business can function without chaos.Financial Plan – Startup costs, pricing, margins, and budgeting so you’re not “successful” online but broke in real life.Risk & Legal Structure – Why you need professional counsel (attorney + accountant) and can’t skip this step.How Fundamentals Protect Your Witness – Why half-finished projects, abandoned brands, and messy business practices misrepresent the God you claim to serve. – How counting the cost upfront protects your name and His.Free Resources Mentioned:The Clarity Cleanse (30-Day Guided Detox) A free 30-day guide to help you quiet the noise, detox from distraction, and sharpen your ability to hear God concerning your business decisions. Download: https://blessed-bossed-up.kit.com/claritycleanse?_gl=1%2Ajrpgn0%2A_gcl_au%2ANTA2NDAzNC4xNzYxOTU5MDU2LjE4MDQzOTc3LjE3NjIyMDAzMzcuMTc2MjIwMDMzNg..Business Plan Templates: https://blessed-bossed-up.kit.com/faithandfundamentalsJoin Us for the 2025 Prayer-thonWe are partnering again with the Mornings with God community for a 12+ hour Prayer-thon on December 31, 2025—a global time of teaching, intercession, and focused prayer as we prepare to step into 2026.We’ll be praying into:Spiritual Wellness & DevelopmentHealth & Physical WellbeingMental & Emotional HealthFinances & VocationCommunity & The NationsRelationshipsRegister free: http://bit.ly/mwgprayerthonScripture Reference:Luke 14:25–33Thanks for listening to Blessed + Bossed Up. Don’t forget to download your Clarity Cleanse and Business Plan Templates at the links above, and share this episode with a friend who’s ready to build with both faith and fundamentals.Our Sponsors:* Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com* Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com* Check out NetSuite and use my code netsuite.ai/BLESSED for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com* Check out Super.com and use my code super.com/credit for a great deal: https://super.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Episode summary:Today we kick off a new how-to series answering a listener’s question: “I study what you teach, but I still feel stuck.” Tatum lays the foundation—sobriety of mind and spirit—so you can actually apply the Bible to your business. She shares her pruning season (fasting, laying down a growing business, guarding inputs), why entrepreneurship can be intoxicating, and how to detox the influences that dull your sensitivity to the Holy Spirit. You’ll get a free 30-day Clarity Cleanse to practice sober-minded focus before we ever talk funnels, launches, or plans.Join The Society (community + Bible studies + prayer): https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/communityScriptures referenced1 Peter 5:8 – Be sober-minded and watchful.1 Thessalonians 5:6–8 – Stay awake and sober; breastplate of faith and love.Mark 14:38 – Watch and pray; spirit willing, flesh weak.(Also mentioned across the episode: Romans 12:2; Philippians 4:8; 2 Corinthians 10:5; Psalm 119:37; Matthew 6:22; Psalm 139:23–24; Matthew 6:33; Proverbs 16:3)Key takeawaysClarity precedes strategy. If you’re not sober-minded, you’ll chase metrics and momentum instead of God’s voice.“With” not “for.” You’re building with God as CEO—His timing, His blueprint, His outcomes.Guard your inputs. Influence creep is subtle: self-help replaces Scripture, “quick wins” replace consecration.Two paths. Mixed mentorship + hurry = wasted time and money; obedience in His timing = preserved energy, precise results, lasting fruit.Kingdom metrics ≠ vanity metrics. Success = pleasing God. Revenue follows revelation in due season.5 intoxicating influences to detoxSuccess culture & performance pressureDigital noise & comparisonMixed mentorship (many voices before The Voice)Materialism & metrics-based validationOver-independence (DIY vs. dependence on God)The Clarity Cleanse (30 days)A free, simple month of daily Scripture, reflection, declarations, and prayer to detox the mind, mouth, media, and motives so you can hear clearly and obey promptly.Download: blessed-bossed-up.kit.com/claritycleanseOur Sponsors:* Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com* Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com* Check out NetSuite and use my code netsuite.ai/BLESSED for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com* Check out Super.com and use my code super.com/credit for a great deal: https://super.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

A listener wrote in after the Bible on Business series saying they’re inspired, but struggle to get the same revelation when reading the Bible on their own—and don’t know how to apply it to business. That honest question surfaced a real gap between hearing and doing, which Tatum will address with a brand-new, step-by-step practical series on building a business with God today (not 2017).Before the series starts next episode, we’re reposting this foundational teaching to set perspective: revelation isn’t just for revenue—it’s for building eternally sound work that will withstand God’s testing. Listen with fresh ears, take notes, and get ready for a practical “how” series starting next.Episode SummaryTatum frames business-building through 1 Corinthians 3:13–15: everything we build will be tried by fire, revealing whether it was constructed on Christ or on straw. She walks through the tension between earthly success and eternal reward, invites honest heart work (contentment, motives, obedience), and gives a practical inspection checklist to evaluate what you’re building—so it lasts.Anchor Scripture1 Corinthians 3:13–15 — God’s fire reveals the quality of our work; only what’s built on Christ endures.Also referenced: 1 Cor. 3:11, 2 Cor. 5:10, Matthew 6:19–20, Galatians 6:9, James 1:12, Mark 10:45, Hebrews 11:6, 2 Timothy 4:8, 1 Peter 5:4, 1 Thessalonians 2:19, Romans 6:23, John 3:16, Revelation 21:4, 1 Corinthians 15:42, 52.Key ThemesPerspective reset: We’re not only building for launches and KPIs—we’re building for Judgment Day.Foundation matters: Only Christ is a durable foundation (1 Cor. 3:11).Eternal rewards: Salvation is by grace; rewards relate to faithfulness and obedience.Heart inspection: Contentment, motives, service, perseverance, and faith over sight.From revelation to practice: The upcoming series will translate Scripture → systems, decisions, and daily leadership.Checklist (from the episode)Ask and answer honestly—by your actions, not lip service:Foundation: Is this truly built on Jesus—or on trends, ambition, and metrics?Faithfulness & Obedience: Are your policies, leadership, and operations aligned with Scripture (not just intuition)?Service vs. Sales: Are you serving the people you’re called to, or merely selling? (Mark 10:45)Fruit: Do your processes reflect God’s character (love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control)?Perseverance: Do you endure God-assignments when it’s hard, or quit? (Gal. 6:9; James 1:12)Faith in Practice: Do you operate by faith, not sight—especially when results lag? (Heb. 11:6; 2 Cor. 5:7)Reflection PromptsIf God’s plan looked nothing like your vision board, would you still follow Him?Where is contentment still being formed in you?Which part of your business would burn under testing—and why?What one policy or practice can you realign to Scripture this week?Our Sponsors:* Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com* Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com* Check out NetSuite and use my code netsuite.ai/BLESSED for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com* Check out Super.com and use my code super.com/credit for a great deal: https://super.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Tatum answers your submitted questions on (1) what to do when you feel like you’re not hearing from God, (2) discerning whether a pivot is Spirit-led, and (3) how to pursue higher education as a wife, mom, and entrepreneur—plus why she said “yes” to law school. Expect practical rhythms, biblical anchors, and real-life systems that protect your peace, family, and focus.Topics & Timestamps (from listener questions)[0:27] What do you do when you feel like you are not hearing from God?[15:18] How do you know when something is (or should be) a Spirit-led pivot?[21:11] What made you pursue law school?[31:52] Advice for a mom, wife, and entrepreneur pursuing higher educationKey TakeawaysWhen God feels “quiet,” first lower the noise: reduce information overload, step back from social feeds, and create space to hear His still, small voice. Watch for personal “warning lights” (anxiety, irritability, impatience) that signal it’s time to unplug and recentre.Sometimes silence is intentional—a season to apply what He already taught you. Keep communing with God, act in obedience, and recognize His hand even when He isn’t verbose.Discerning a Spirit-led pivot:Scripture check—God will not contradict His Word.History with God—does this align with recent themes in prayer, journaling, and conviction?Wise counsel + practical confirmations—agreement from trusted voices and doors God opens.Order matters—obedience first, clarity often follows.Pursuing school as a mompreneur: count the cost, build the team, design systems.Scale business responsibly, design childcare that gives peace of mind, and budget with realistic/committed revenue.Protect mind, body, and spirit: fuel with protein-forward meals, rest when your body says pause, and use tools that lower cognitive load.Tools Tatum loves for study & life design:Google Notebook to turn class notes into podcasts, videos, quizzes, flashcards, and mind maps.A custom “LifeOS” in ChatGPT trained on syllabi, calendars, and family logistics to auto-draft weekly plans.Scriptures & Biblical Themes MentionedGod speaking in a still small voice (1 Kings 19:11–13)Fruit of the Spirit as behavioural gauge (Galatians 5:22–23)Abraham’s move as a model for faith steps (Genesis 12)Counting the cost before building (Luke 14:28)Spirit-led redirection in Acts (e.g., Acts 16)Resources MentionedStudy Bible (with cross-references, concordance, index, maps) - https://amzn.to/4hgpEwwGoogle Notebook: https://notebooklm.google/Have a question for the show? Email: [email protected] this blessed you, share the episode, rate/review the podcast, and tag @tatumtemia so Tatum can see your takeaways!Our Sponsors:* Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com* Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com* Check out NetSuite and use my code netsuite.ai/BLESSED for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com* Check out Super.com and use my code super.com/credit for a great deal: https://super.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Tatum opens the episode reflecting on her recent midterm fatigue and decision to take a mental health day. She thanks listeners for their patience and reminds them that the podcast is a ministry, not a job. This space is about service — not clout, income, or obligation.“Part of taking what God entrusts to us seriously is knowing when we don’t have it to give — and honoring that.”[1:56] Listener Q&A IntroductionAfter receiving dozens of thoughtful questions from her audience, Tatum shares that she’ll be answering them over two upcoming episodes. She also hints at bringing back past guests whose lives and testimonies have evolved since their first appearance.[3:02] Question 1: Why Does It Feel Like Everyone Else Is Getting Blessed But Me?A listener in her 30s shares feelings of discouragement watching others get married, have children, and advance in their careers while she continues to wait on God.Scripture Focus: Philippians 4:10–13 (NLT)“I have learned how to be content with whatever I have… for I can do all things through Christ who gives me strength.”Highlights:[4:26] Paul’s contentment wasn’t rooted in circumstances, but in Christ.[6:02] The enemy often exploits waiting seasons to sow doubt and comparison.[7:29] Protect your vulnerabilities — unfollow triggers, set digital boundaries.[9:18] Learn to desire the Giver more than the gift.[10:11] Tatum shares how she met her husband in God’s timing, not her own.[13:18] Create “safeguards of contentment” through prayer, scripture, and boundaries.Key Takeaway:True peace in waiting comes when your fulfillment is anchored in God’s presence, not His performance.[15:23] Question 2: How Do I Set Boundaries as a Mom Starting a Business?A listener asks for guidance on balancing motherhood and entrepreneurship without losing focus on God’s purpose.Highlights:[16:30] The first boundary to establish is with yourself.[17:05] Balance is a myth — pursue harmony through alignment with God.[18:30] Tatum’s 3 personal boundaries:Stay connected to the Vine (John 15).Keep priorities in divine order.Do every assignment with excellence.[21:07] Boundaries are about stewardship, not restriction.Spiritual Insight:“Your ambition should never come at the expense of your assignment at home.”[22:22] Bonus Segment: God-Led Business StrategyTatum shifts into strategist mode, walking listeners through how to build a business from the ground up with divine order and practicality.Highlights:[23:28] Start with a clear business plan — use SBA.gov templates.[24:31] Validate your idea before marketing it.[25:47] Businesses fail when they don’t solve real problems.[26:30] Marketing is a byproduct of strategy, not the starting point.Takeaway:Build from the blueprint God gives you — not the algorithm’s trends.[27:00] Question 3: How Did You Stay Focused When People Doubted You?A listener who recently quit her 9–5 asks how to stay steadfast when others question her calling.Highlights:[28:01] Tatum recalls the doubtful reactions when she left her job to start Anchored Media.[28:48] How she turned fear into fuel by focusing on work, not validation.[29:58] The importance of a supportive community of faith-driven entrepreneurs.[31:09] Stay quiet about your progress — let the fruit speak.Key Takeaway:“When God gives you the vision, He’ll also give you the proof — but you have to build first.”[32:32] Question 4: Preparing for Motherhood as a Married EntrepreneurA listener asks how to spiritually and practically prepare for motherhood while running a business.Highlights:[33:48] Create a relationship bucket list — enjoy your marriage before kids.[36:02] Build rhythms of connection (weekly date nights, intentional check-ins).[36:41] Individual and joint therapy before kids is an act of preparation, not repair.[38:07] Men need emotional support too — they carry provision pressure.[39:29] Protect your marriage from being consumed by parenthood.[40:46] Create a “Happy List” for postpartum joy and mental health support.[42:59] Audit your business:Increase passive income streamsAutomate workflowsCut unnecessary costs[45:37] Make your business lean for freedom — not pressure.Key Takeaway:“Motherhood should multiply your grace, not your chaos. Prepare now so peace leads the transition.”---Have questions? Email [email protected] Sponsors:* Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com* Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com* Check out NetSuite and use my code netsuite.ai/BLESSED for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com* Check out Super.com and use my code super.com/credit for a great deal: https://super.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this honest check-in, I share why I’m temporarily shifting from two episodes a week while juggling law school, newborn life, and midterms—and I re-air one of your most requested episodes: Rhythm over Routine. We close out the “How to Make Spirit-Led Business Decisions” mini-series with a practical framework for building a business in step with the Spirit, not driven by hustle or ego. If you’ve ever felt productive yet disconnected from God, this one will set you free.What You’ll LearnThe difference between routine (checkbox faith) and rhythm (daily dependence)Why “keeping in step with the Spirit” (Galatians 5:16–26) is a lifestyle, not a morning checklistThe 4-part framework: Abide → Align → Act → AssessHow digital distraction, time scarcity, and information overload sabotage intimacy with God—and what to do about itPractical ways to reduce noise (limits, notifications, sacred windows) and protect your secret placeHow to evaluate fruit and course-correct with grace (not performance)Key ScripturesGalatians 5:16–26 – Walk by the Spirit; fruit of the Spirit; keep in stepJohn 15:5 – Abiding in the Vine to bear fruitLuke 10:38–42 – Martha vs. Mary (routine vs. rhythm)Exodus 16 – Daily manna: dependence over hoardingMark 1:35; John 5:19 – Jesus’ pace and posture: presence over pressureThe Rhythm Framework (Quick Reference)Abide: Guard intimacy with God; create sacred windows; reduce digital noise.Align: Test ideas, opportunities, and pivots against Scripture, God’s character, and the peace of the Spirit.Act: Move with faith and flexibility—be interruptible and obedient.Assess: Measure fruit (Gal. 5:22–23), review outcomes with the Spirit, and course-correct as needed.Practical Tips MentionedPut time limits on social apps; silence non-essential notifications.Try an information fast (step back from extra voices/content).Schedule sacred windows (daily/weekly) for prayer, stillness, and listening.Run decisions through discernment filters: Scripture consistency, peace, timing, assignment fit.Series Recap (Parts 1–3)Part 1: Acts 8:26–40 — Strategic decisions led by the Holy SpiritPart 2: Acts 13:1–4 — Worship, fasting, submission → divine clarityPart 3: Acts 16:6–10 — Mobility and flexibility in Spirit-led pivotsQ&AI’m lining up Q&A episodes to pour out what God’s been teaching me during this season.Send your questions: [email protected] Sponsors:* Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com* Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com* Check out NetSuite and use my code netsuite.ai/BLESSED for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com* Check out Super.com and use my code super.com/credit for a great deal: https://super.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this week’s episode of Blessed and Bossed Up, we’re continuing our Bible on Business series by unpacking the power of holy boldness through the lens of Acts 4:13–22. As Christian entrepreneurs, we are called to do more than just add scripture to our captions—we are called to build businesses that reflect the character of Christ and disrupt worldly systems with Kingdom values.This episode digs deep into what it truly means to be bold, not in a self-glorifying or performative way, but with a courage that is empowered by the Holy Spirit. We define boldness biblically, exploring its Greek root (parrēsia) and how it shows up in the lives of Peter and John as they stand before the Sanhedrin with confidence and conviction.Tatum also brings in Numbers 30 to confront how many of us mask passiveness as patience or humility when it is actually disobedience. You’ll walk away from this episode with the clarity to recognize whether your hesitation is humility or hidden fear, and the spiritual tools to begin choosing obedience over comfort.Other key takeaways:The biblical definition of boldness and how to cultivate itThe difference between boldness, pride, and egoWhat happens when we confuse self-glorification with Spirit-led courageWhy passiveness is not humility—and how to confront it in yourselfExamples of modern-day Kingdom businesses that disrupt worldly systemsThe connection between time with Jesus and confidence in your callingHow boldness helps you become a witness, not just an entrepreneurThis is a must-listen episode for anyone who is tired of playing it safe and ready to boldly obey what God has already told them to do.Our Sponsors:* Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com* Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com* Check out NetSuite and use my code netsuite.ai/BLESSED for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com* Check out Super.com and use my code super.com/credit for a great deal: https://super.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

We pick the book club back up with Part II (“Looking Within”) of The Spirit-Filled Life by Dr. Charles Stanley. Tatum recaps the biblical foundation of the Holy Spirit’s indwelling (for all believers at salvation) versus His influencing (our moment-by-moment leading). Building on the recent Internal Harmony series, she explains that walking by the Spirit is not distant, rule-based “directions,” but a close, personal leading—a lifestyle of sensitivity, dependence, and cooperation. You’ll learn why the Spirit’s primary goal is to form Christ-likeness, how to fight the “battle before the battle” in your mind, and why Scripture is the Holy Spirit’s weapon of choice (the sword of the Spirit) for dismantling lies, speculations, and flesh-driven desires. Tatum shares practical examples from entrepreneurship and life, showing how obedience positions us to avoid unnecessary suffering and walk into God’s wise, timely provision. Grab your copy: https://amzn.to/4mSGGTNKey TakeawaysIndwelt & Led: All believers receive the Holy Spirit at salvation; the ongoing call is to be led by Him (Gal. 5:16, 18, 25).Rhythm > Routine: Don’t confine God to a devotional “director’s chair.” Cultivate a moment-by-moment rhythm with Him.Holiness is the Goal: The Spirit’s primary work is Christ-likeness, not quick answers about jobs, money, or moves.Battle Before the Battle: Win the mental war first—guard thoughts, take them captive, and preoccupy your mind with truth.Scripture = Sword: Use specific verses to confront specific lies; memorize and speak them out loud.Focus Forms Direction: “What we focus on, we drift toward.” Set your mind on the Spirit to avoid fulfilling the flesh.Scripture ReferencesGalatians 5:16, 18, 25 — Walk/keep in step with the SpiritEphesians 5:18 — Filled with the Spirit1 Corinthians 12:13 — One Spirit, one body1 John 4:13 — Assurance by His SpiritRomans 6:11–14 — Dead to sin, alive to GodRomans 12:2 — Renew your mindColossians 3:2 — Set your mind on things abovePhilippians 4:8 — Think on what is true2 Corinthians 10:5 — Take thoughts captive1 Peter 1:13; 3:9; 4:19 — Sober-minded, repay evil with blessing, entrust to a faithful CreatorEphesians 6:17 — The word as the sword of the SpiritPractical Homework List Your Speculations & Struggles: Recurring daydreams, fantasies, mental loops.Find Targeted Verses: Use a study Bible/concordance to match each area with Scripture.Memorize & Speak Aloud: Put verses on cards, phone lock screen, mirror, or desk. Say them out loud daily.Accountability: Share your list with a trusted friend and review weekly.Pray for Sensitivity: Ask the Holy Spirit to flag thoughts not in harmony with truth.Grab your copy: https://amzn.to/4mSGGTNOur Sponsors:* Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com* Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com* Check out NetSuite and use my code netsuite.ai/BLESSED for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com* Check out Super.com and use my code super.com/credit for a great deal: https://super.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this final episode of the Internal Harmony Series, we’re tackling the “big C word” — control. Control isn’t just a personality trait; it’s a spiritual stronghold that keeps us bound, quenches the Spirit, and robs us of God’s peace.In this episode, I share a recent testimony about what happened when I surrendered control, unpack why the Bible calls us to release it, and walk through case studies of the Rich Young Ruler and Paul to show the difference between clinging to control and living surrendered.You’ll learn:Why control is a stronghold and how it quenches the Spirit (1 Thessalonians 5:19)How control shows up as a cognitive distortionThe root issue of trust and how to rebuild itA practical Weekly Surrender Challenge to live this outThis episode will equip you to exchange control for surrender and experience the internal harmony God desires for you.Our Sponsors:* Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com* Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com* Check out NetSuite and use my code netsuite.ai/BLESSED for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com* Check out Super.com and use my code super.com/credit for a great deal: https://super.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this powerful conclusion to the Internal Harmony Series, Tatum shares what it's looked like to live in true peace while managing law school, motherhood, business, and ministry. Through personal testimony and Spirit-led insight, she unpacks the third psychological barrier to inner peace: emotional suppression.Tatum explains how suppression—pushing down emotions like sadness, joy, fear, or anger—creates distance between us and the Holy Spirit, damages our bodies, and leads to emotional isolation. Drawing from biblical truth, she highlights how Jesus and David modeled emotional embodiment, reminding listeners that emotional honesty is not weakness—it’s worship.This episode is a call to stop striving and start surrendering. You’ll walk away with biblical study tools, a mantra (“We don’t suppress, we submit”), and simple, life-changing practices that foster rhythm, not routine. Inside this episode:The difference between disembodiment and suppressionHow suppression affects your business and leadershipReal-life strategies for walking in internal harmonyBiblical case studies from Psalms + the life of JesusEncouragement for Black women & high-achieving Christian entrepreneursScripture focus includes John 11:35, Luke 22:44, Psalm 6, Psalm 51, and more.Our Sponsors:* Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com* Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com* Check out NetSuite and use my code netsuite.ai/BLESSED for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com* Check out Super.com and use my code super.com/credit for a great deal: https://super.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this special episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, I’m sharing an episode from one of my favorite shows — the Prescription for Purpose Podcast hosted by my friend, Dr. Sharla Walker. This message, Is It Ambition or Anxiety That’s Driving You?, fits perfectly with our Internal Harmony series and will challenge you to evaluate the true motivation behind your hustle.Dr. Sharla breaks down the difference between holy ambition — God-given zeal rooted in peace, identity, and purpose — versus anxious ambition fueled by pressure, fear, and the need to prove yourself. Using biblical examples like Saul, Martha, and Nehemiah, she unpacks how to discern your drive, pace yourself with God, and protect your assignment from distraction.Whether you’re in business, ministry, or simply navigating life, this episode will give you practical tools to align your ambition with God’s will — so you’re moving in purpose, not just in motion.Tune in now and make sure you subscribe to The Prescription for Purpose Podcast so you never miss an episode that will keep you rooted in faith, focused on purpose, and equipped to thrive in every area of life.Our Sponsors:* Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com* Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com* Check out NetSuite and use my code netsuite.ai/BLESSED for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com* Check out Super.com and use my code super.com/credit for a great deal: https://super.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this week’s episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, we continue our Internal Harmony Series with Part 2 — unpacking the psychological factor of disembodiment. This is when we operate from our heads while ignoring our body’s signals, emotions, and even the Holy Spirit’s nudges. It’s been one of my biggest personal battles, and I’m sharing both biblical truth and practical tools to help you recognize and overcome it.You’ll learn:Key TakeawaysWhy harmony is more sustainable than balance in life and businessThe difference between external harmony (systems, productivity) and internal harmony (peace, alignment, presence)How disembodiment looks in daily life: ignoring hunger, pushing through pain, numbing emotions, and being physically present but mentally absentHow it shows up in business: over-functioning, leading from performance instead of presence, disconnected identity, and neglecting Spirit-led decision makingRoot causes backed by research — including trauma, perfectionism, performance-based childhoods, church culture, and over-reliance on logicGenerational breakdown of how Gen X, Millennials, and Gen Z experience disembodiment differentlyWhat the Bible shows us about embodiment through the life of Jesus: feeling emotions (John 11:35), resting even in storms (Mark 4:38), and being present enough to sense spiritual exchange (Luke 8:45–46) Practical Steps to Reconnect:Address the root cause — through therapy, prayer, fasting, and surrender to GodBody scans — regularly pause to check in with how you feel physically and emotionallySchedule pauses & stillness — add intentional breaks to slow down and be presentInvolve your support system — ask heart questions, not just head questions, and invite accountabilityReplace old habits — build patterns that align with your identity in Christ instead of survival modeIf you’ve ever felt productive on the outside but disconnected on the inside, this episode will help you:-Recognize the signs of disembodiment- Identify your personal root causes-Begin practical and spiritual steps toward true embodiment that honors God, fosters peace, and strengthens your leadership in life and businessOur Sponsors:* Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com* Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com* Check out NetSuite and use my code netsuite.ai/BLESSED for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com* Check out Super.com and use my code super.com/credit for a great deal: https://super.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this powerful episode of Blessed and Bossed Up, we continue our Book Club series on The Spirit-Filled Life by Charles Stanley, diving into Part 2: Looking Within. Tatum unpacks Chapter 6, "The Faith Factor," where the focus shifts from understanding the Holy Spirit to practically living a Spirit-filled life. Drawing from her own transitional season—navigating motherhood and preparing for law school—Tatum shares how she’s applying this book’s wisdom in real-time.This episode explores the difference between reacting and responding, how to stop intellectualizing your faith, and why focus is the bridge between anxiety and peace. Tatum breaks down three biblical truths that can become daily affirmations rooted in scripture:The Holy Spirit indwells you,He is the life of Christ in you,He is willing and able to produce Christ's character through you.She encourages listeners to shift their focus from self-help affirmations to Holy Spirit-led declarations and offers strategies like building God's track record, preemptive morning declarations, and journaling answered prayers. Using the story of David and Goliath, she outlines how to activate faith before willpower, reminding us that walking in the Spirit is about surrender, focus, and confidence in God's promises.Whether you're facing daily stressors, emotional overwhelm, or spiritual stagnation, this episode gives you the tools to live a Spirit-filled life—not just on Sundays, but every single day.Prayer to Start Your Day in Victory:Lord, I claim the victory right now over the giant of [insert your giant here]. I recognize that this giant is coming up against the Christ in me. Just as you defeated this giant when you walked on this earth, you can defeat it through me now—for you are my life. I trust you to produce peace and self-control through me. I cannot handle what is to come, but you can. Respond through me. When the pressure comes, remind me that the battle is yours. Amen.Our Sponsors:* Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com* Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com* Check out NetSuite and use my code netsuite.ai/BLESSED for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com* Check out Super.com and use my code super.com/credit for a great deal: https://super.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this powerful kickoff to the Internal Harmony Series, Tatum invites high-achieving Christian women into a much-needed conversation about the hidden chaos beneath our productivity: cognitive overload. As a mom of three, business owner, and soon-to-be law student, Tatum shares vulnerably about the transition she's navigating and how God is leading her into a new understanding of internal harmony over external balance. This episode breaks down the psychological and spiritual toll of cognitive overload—what happens when our prefrontal cortex is overstimulated, and we lose our ability to hear the voice of God clearly, regulate our emotions, or even recognize how we feel.Tatum introduces the concept of internal vs. external harmony, showing that while routines and logistics matter, true peace comes from spiritual alignment, emotional presence, and abiding in Christ. She offers biblically-rooted, science-backed tools to help you slow down, re-engage your senses, and practice stillness so you can reconnect with God and yourself.Whether you're a woman juggling multiple roles or simply longing for more peace and clarity, this episode offers a holistic path forward. Expect to walk away with practical steps—like mindful breathing, meditating on scripture, nature walks, grounding exercises, sleep routines, journaling prompts, and fasting from information overload—to combat mental fatigue and restore harmony from the inside out.Plus, Tatum opens up about meditating on Galatians 2:20 and why high-performing women often turn to productivity over presence. Don’t miss this deep, transparent, and transformational conversation on the path to peace through God’s presence.Our Sponsors:* Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com* Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com* Check out NetSuite and use my code netsuite.ai/BLESSED for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com* Check out Super.com and use my code super.com/credit for a great deal: https://super.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this powerful episode of the Blessed + Bossed Up podcast, we return to our book club pick, The Spirit-Filled Life by Dr. Charles Stanley. Tatum shares how this book, one of her top three faith-based reads, is personally guiding her through a season of transition—navigating life with a new baby, two businesses, marriage, and preparing to return to school. She unpacks Chapter 3’s key revelations on surrender, highlighting Dr. Stanley’s honest reflections on secret sin, burnout in ministry, and the life-changing realization that fruitfulness doesn’t come from striving—but abiding.Tatum draws a striking parallel between Charles Stanley’s breakthrough and her own need to resist self-sufficiency and embrace the Holy Spirit’s power. Through practical takeaways—like meditating on Galatians 2:20, creating margin for God’s presence, and allowing grace to reset your internal pace—this episode offers a refreshing invitation to stop doing and start depending. Whether you’re in ministry, motherhood, business, or all three, this episode will help you reposition your heart, reclaim your peace, and surrender control so the Spirit can bear fruit through you.Resources Mentioned:Book: The Spirit-Filled Life by Charles Stanley – https://a.co/d/9kGb5fBKey Scripture: Galatians 2:20, John 15:1-5, Romans 8:9-10, Colossians 3:4Key Takeaways:The Christian life is not about producing fruit—it's about abiding so the Spirit can bear fruit through you.The dangers of spiritual compartmentalization—when the Spirit is active in ministry but absent in private life.Strategies for reconnecting with the Holy Spirit when life gets overwhelming.Why busyness and blessings can still be distractions from intimacy with God.How Charles Stanley’s surrender moment unlocked continuous victory and how you can apply the same posture of prayer.Our Sponsors:* Check out BetterHelp and use my code betterhelp.com for a great deal: https://www.betterhelp.com* Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com* Check out NetSuite and use my code netsuite.ai/BLESSED for a great deal: https://www.netsuite.com* Check out Super.com and use my code super.com/credit for a great deal: https://super.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy