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BLUNTS & Roses

by REALEST ERICA

Unapologetically me, & all my bluntness & femininity 🌹, 3 years ago I started this podcast as RBS as time has gone on, I have grown so much & and my podcast has evolved into some thing greater than I imagined, finding my voice, & allowing others to hear my perspective while also helping & healing them has made my podcast more valuable & worth growing not just for me, but for the next person. Topics HealingDating/relationships Men GIRL TALK Advice/motivational You will be laughing, inspired, and even cry in some episodes. Most importantly these eps will find you whe

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Episodes

  1. Coffee dates are insulting and unacceptable

    Hi everyone in this episode I talk about how coffee dates are less than the bare minimum and should never be acceptable when looking for a romantic partner. Coffee dates required no effort and many times guys will set you up for coffee dates just so that they can see where your standards are. If...

  2. Rising your standards so low effort men don’t come near you

    In this episode, I talk about how raising your standards will only be beneficial to you. Are you tired of the same jokes/men? Well, the good news is that you don’t have to settle and you don’t have to put up with anything that you don’t want to put up with anymore. Life is continuously evolving,...

  3. If you’re allowing him back in, do this !

    In this episode, I talk about having a plan when you let a man back into your life. As I emphasized in past episodes boundaries are super important because they allow you to understand what you will, and will not allow with anyone new or old. When it comes to people from our past, we tend to…

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  4. Don’t ever let a man lower your standards because you will decrease your value

    Most of us have been here, time, and time again, because we have not learned our lesson. As most of you know, life will keep throwing the same lesson at you if you don’t learn to evolve and grow from your past and that includes the same man that you are allowing to lower your standards as well as...

  5. Settling for the wrong man will cost you later

    As much as I emphasize, valuing yourself and loving yourself, I also want to emphasize that the moment that you allow anyone especially a man to treat you less than you are, you have lost because you cannot take that image away ever again. The amount of times that I’ve allowed myself to devalue...

  6. Stop OVER EXPLAINING to him, he knows what he’s doing !

    In this short episode, I talk about how over explaining to a man or just anyone how to treat you is always going to go against you. There’s no reason why you need to ask someone why they are treating you the way that they are or deal with someone when you see the way that they are handling you.…

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  7. Show yourself how to value yourself or you will always be disrespected

    In this episode, I talk about how valuing yourself is essential for the way that others ( especially the man you’re dating ) will treat you. When you vibrate on a higher frequency it is noticed. Energy is always felt whether we know it or not. The way that we treat ourselves is the way that…

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  8. If he wanted to, he would, and you wouldn’t be chasing him

    Hi girls, in this episode, I talk about how you have to be fed up in order for you to make a change. Change comes within, I have always said that, but sometimes it is forced out of us, because we are tired of the same end result, and our own behavior. Life is short, and if the people that you…

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  9. I gave everything to men who didn’t deserve me

    Hi girlies, in this episode, I talk about how I gave a lot of me and changed myself, including my appearance to satisfy men who didn’t deserve me. It’s hard to be a single women and it’s hard to date, and it’s hard to believe that you deserve love, but you deserve everything 💕You have to give...

  10. The goal is to LOVE yourself first

    PEP TALK SHAWTY 🗣️💕 Hi girls, in this episode I explain how loving yourself and taking care of yourself not only lets others notice that you are radiating and glowing but you too will feel better and have a greater outlook on life. The saying goes if you work on yourself the rest will follow…

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  11. If you’re thinking of reaching out to them, DON’T !

    Hey, we’re back in the car again, I promise I’m going to start doing regular episodes, but right now I feel like doing these on the spot episodes have been really helping a lot of you ladies. In this episode, I talk about how you should never reach out to a man no matter how you guys left off...

  12. Have Accountability for allowing HIM to treat you the way he does

    In this episode, I talk about how a lot of us are in the situation we are in with certain people/men because we do not take accountability for the shit we let slide. I said it numerous times you have to set the tone with men and people because people/men only treat you as good as you allow them…

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  13. You can’t blame yourself for the things you didn’t know, forgive yourself

    As healing has become more popular, some don’t understand the magnitude of pain that comes with it. Healing is a beautiful journey, but it is also a very painful one. Throughout the years, you can hurt yourself more than you know from the actions that you take and the excuses that you make for...

  14. Intro Season 4: LEAVE THAT MAN WHERE HE’S WEIRD AT

    Say goodbye to the old you, and say hello to the new you. There’s no doubt that some men are weird as fuck, and they will do things to trigger you or give you less than the bare minimum and think they are the prize. When it comes to men distance is key and predictability is not. In this episode…

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  15. Knowing when to walk away

    HAPPY NEW YEAR ! In this episode, I talk about a personal experience of mine, and also understanding and now implementing a lot of what I already know, but have yet to do in the past. Im DONE with my old unhealthy, unhealed habits and I decided A long time ago I wouldn’t settle for anyone no…

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  16. Settling for the wrong person and paying for It later

    We in the Car again SHAWTY !! Hi everyone in this episode I talk about how settling for the wrong person or things will have you paying for your mental and emotional health later and during ! At the end of the day a lot of us settle, because we are afraid to miss out on some thing that can get...

  17. Going back to someone who hurt you

    WE IN THE CAR SHAWTY! Hi everyone this is another unedited car episode, I’m keeping it real as always and authentic, in this episode I talk about how knowing your worth will have you feeling very lonely, and when someone walks away from you and hurts you it’s so easy to want them and want to be...

  18. 1. Know your worth 2. CONTROL YOUR EMOTIONS

    In the Car EPISODE!!!! In this episode I talk about how controlling your emotions is essential to not only yourself but others around you. A lot of the times when you show your emotions too soon and your vulnerability men usually will take you for granted or take advantage of you. I also give you...

  19. I wanted him to be the one and I couldn’t forgive myself when he wasn’t

    Hello everyone, in this episode I talk about how forgiving yourself is very essential just like forgiving others is essential, we must remember that we are humans too and we make mistakes. At the end of the day we are spiritual beings living a human experience and we should enjoy the ride because...

  20. Treat yourself better so HE HAS TO TREAT YOU BETTER

    Another PEP TALK SHAWTY!!! HI BABES 😍, in this episode I talk about how men only treat you as good as you allow them to, stop treating yourself like shit and men will follow your lead. I think the problem with a lot of us nice girls/lover girls is that we see the good in these men and a lot of…

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  21. The SITUATIONSHIP is over and I still miss him

    PEP TALK SHAWTY . Aloha 🌺 everyone i’m currently in Hawaii celebrating my birthday but I still made time for you all. In this episode I talk about what it’s like being in a situationship that did not work out, you could be blocked, on bad terms, or the relationship just ended and you don’t know...

  22. Don’t be vulnerable with him too soon, he’ll take advantage of you

    PEP TALK SHAWTY!!!! In this episode I talk about how vulnerability is a beautiful thing but just make sure that you take your time before you become vulnerable with him. It is true that in order for you to be loved you have to be vulnerable but when you give a man vulnerability way too soon he...

  23. Detaching from HIM, and everything else

    PEP TALK SHAWTY ! hi everyone, and this episode I talk about detaching yourself from people and the outcome of things. When you detach yourself from things everything comes to you. I talk about how I used to hold a tight grip on some people I loved and cared for but I’ve quickly found out that…

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  24. The relationship didn’t work, Now what?

    In this episode I talk about the power of letting go but also how much we live in nostalgia and in a fantasy world where our reality isn’t actually happening, after whatever we wanted ended. So we hold onto the past in hopes that things will come together but not understanding that when we let…

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  25. They TREAT YOU BAD, Because you ALLOW IT!

    Hello everyone, in this episode I talk about how you allowing others to treat you a certain way will eventually cause a ripple affect of causing you to lower your higher self if it DOESN’T ALLIGN WITH YOUR HIGHER SELF 🧘‍♀️✨. People only treat as good as you let them and they also treat you as…

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  26. Loving others MORE than they love you

    In this episode I talk about showing up and loving others more than they love you. Many times we tend to love others more than they love us but it has absolutely nothing to do with them and has everything to do with us. Don’t regret your big heart and others Inability to Match your energy. Having…

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  27. Stop chasing him, LET HIM BE A MAN

    Hi everyone, this episode is about allowing a man to be a man and also focusing on letting a man pursue you. There’s nothing wrong with reciprocating, but as WOMEN WHAT WE WONT be doing is CHASING a man or showing him that we want him more than he wants us. Stay tune there is more to come these…

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  28. LET THEM GO, stop reacting to their actions.

    Hi everyone this episode is about reacting to other people‘s actions and how understanding that every action doesn’t need a reaction and it’s always better to take the highroad because that is where peace is. It’s so easy to jump out of character and let people get under our skins but at the end…

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  29. He’s just not into you but you’re into HIS RED FLAGS! 🚩

    In this episode I will be talking about red flags, online dating, getting back on the streets (dating scene) /getting your groove back when it comes to dating online but also in general. Are you dating a red flag loser? Is there any possible chance that maybe you lack common sense at times when…

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  30. STOP GOING OUT WITH MIXED SIGNAL LOSERS

    In this episode I talk about what it’s like to date a man who gives you constant make signals. I also talk about knowing your worth and when it’s time to walk away from things and people Who constantly drain your energy and make you lower your vibration. I also talk about my personal experiences...

  31. I miss you but FUCK YOU

    This episode is about loving yourself after things don’t work out with a person that you thought you’d last forever with. It’s about someone awakening your love but not loving you correctly at the end of it. It’s about choosing yourself first and understanding that you’re so much more than your...

  32. I’m ready to love you, it’s just really hard to

    In this episode I talk about what it’s like to be in a relationship after trusting someone And being vulnerable to someone and that broke you , hurt you which let you with traumas and now you carry those on accident into your new relationship. I’m giving tips and advice on how to overcome the...

  33. Sleeping with a broken heart

    In this episode I talk about what it’s like to go through a heartbreak , I also give a story time in this episode about personal experiences that I have faced that made me wiser and stronger, when it came to healing and learning new lessons that built me into who I am today.I also give 16 tips on...

  34. You need to move the fuck on!

    In this episode I discuss how to move on when you are in a relationship or in a situation ship such as a friends with benefits or a entanglement. I discuss also how to get the person who you are in a friends with benefits relationship to start chasing you/court you. I have lots of tips and tricks...

  35. Shit you’re doing WRONG that makes him NOT WANT YOU !

    In this episode I kick off my MALES Series with my GUEST MALE CO-HOST and Best Friend DANNY. We talk about everything such as what women do to make men not want to be with them! Why it’s important to listen to men when he talks to you on some real shit. Why your worth is a lot more important than...

  36. Self Love is The Best Love

    In this episode I give tips and advice on how loving yourself and putting yourself first is essential. I talk about the company that you have in your life is not always meant to stay with you through it all and sometimes we have to analyze the company and the things that we have in life that…

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  37. Toxic Relationships

    Hello everyone this episode is about toxic relationships it speaks for itself whether you have been in one or are currently in one this episode will give you a lot of insight into my personal past life as well as my guest Co-Host . It’s a great episode. Please enjoy :) LOVE AND LIGHT AS ALWAYS ❤️...

  38. Friends With Benefits

    In this episode we talk about what it’s like to have a friends with benefits , tips on how to have a friends with benefits. Also, what to do and what not to do when having a FWB. We also talk about personal experiences of mine and my guest cohost. ⭐️⭐️⭐️ please make sure to follow me on Instagram...

  39. Men and Astrology

    Giving dating advise , sex advise, and the known of the zodiac Rotation as well as serving personal experience (TEA) of my co-host jewlz and of course myself . Enjoy everyone and make sure to subscribe , comment and follow me on IG FOLLOW ME ON IG : NEW USER IG NAME bluntsandroses_podcast Love…

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ABOUT THIS SHOW

Unapologetically me, & all my bluntness & femininity 🌹, 3 years ago I started this podcast as RBS as time has gone on, I have grown so much & and my podcast has evolved into some thing greater than I imagined, finding my voice, & allowing others to hear my perspective while also helping & healing them has made my podcast more valuable & worth growing not just for me, but for the next person. Topics HealingDating/relationships Men GIRL TALK Advice/motivational You will be laughing, inspired, and even cry in some episodes. Most importantly these eps will find you whe

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REALEST ERICA

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Unapologetically me, & all my bluntness & femininity 🌹, 3 years ago I started this podcast as RBS as time has gone on, I have grown so much & and my podcast has evolved into some thing greater than I imagined, finding my voice, & allowing others to hear my perspective while also helping & healing...

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