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BoyFriends
by Jarrod D. King
Find your circle and your man.Hosted by Jarrod D. King, Noel Christian, and Gregory Drey. Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/boyfriends/support
Episodes
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Straight People in Gay Bars + More | Episode 72
In this packed season 6 finale episode, the hosts talk about sex positivity, a viral TikTok about the struggles of gay dating, the men you'll meet in Philly's gayborhood scene, and the issue of straight people filling up the gay bars. Guests: Trae | @trae_the_arrogant89 Instagram:...
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Connecting Friends, Gay Summer, and Being a Good Host | Episode 71
The hosts discuss how to be better connectors of friends, the ups and downs of their summers, and share tips on hosting friends or a date at your place. Guests: Joey Leroux of Beyond the Bell Tours | @beyondthebelltours Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/beyondthebelltours/ Alexander Radoui...
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Political & Vocal + Comfort With Straight Men | Episode 70
It's been an uphill battle, but we finally made it to episode 70! We explain what took so long between the previous episode and this one, plus we discuss our responsibility to be political and our levels of comfort around straight men. You'll also get acquainted with Henlo Bullfrog as our...
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Ending a Date Early + App Etiquette | Episode 69
Jay ended an awkward date in a shady way, and the hosts discussed how to reject someone after swapping photos on Grindr. We also got to meet Kerel of Minoritea Report! Guest: Kerel | @iamkerel Minoritea Report | @MinoriteaReport Subscribe Now:...
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Content Stealers + Being Gay and Sober | Episode 68
Jay tells a story that gets the hosts gossiping about people who steal content and make it their own. Then, Lester Matthews of OurViewTV pops in and introduces the main topic of how to navigate the gay scene while sober. Guest: Lester Matthews | https://www.instagram.com/yoboinewnue/ OurViewTV |...
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Paying for Pride + Top/Bottom: Helpful or Not? | Episode 67
The premiere of season 6 is here! And in this episode, we talk about Philly Pride moving from the gayborhood to the parkway and its new $10 price tag. Should Pride be free to attend? Plus, we discuss whether being a top or bottom is helpful, hurtful, or even necessary to discuss when dating....
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AI Companions & Politically Opposite Friendships - Finale | Episode 66
In our live Season 5 finale, the hosts discuss two key issues: Should I get an AI Companion? and Friendships Across the Political Aisle.
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Getting Rid of Shame | Episode 65
Shame greatly impacts our lives - even when we don't think it's at work. In this episode, the hosts talk about their experiences getting shamed, feeling ashamed, and how they overcame it. Submit your questions for the hosts: https://linktr.ee/jarroddking Hosts: Jarrod D. King | @JarrodDKing…
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Growing Old & LGBTQ | Episode 64
From 20s, 30s, and beyond, aging brings with it some unique struggles for those of us in the LGBTQ+ community. Biddy leads us through this topic as we share our own insights and show how aging is nothing to be afraid of. Hosts: Jarrod D. King | @JarrodDKing TikTok -...
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From the DMs to IRL | Episode 63
"How do I flirt with my online crush?" If you've ever had trouble successfully sparking up a conversation with that online hottie, this is the episode for you. We go over how to start the conversation, how to keep it going, and how to move it from your phone to real life. Submit your questions…
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Game Night! | Episode 62
It's game night with the hosts of BoyFriends! Get ready to play along to Red Flag/Green Flag, Top 3 Pet Peeves, and Best Friend Shark Tank. And be prepared for the zany discussions that result. Buckle up! Submit your questions for the hosts: https://linktr.ee/jarroddking Hosts: Jarrod D. King |...
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Am I Ready for Love? | Episode 61
Today's topic: How do I know when I'm ready for love? The hosts talk about their own struggles in getting ready for love, including breakups and what they've learned through their experiences. Submit your questions for the hosts: https://linktr.ee/jarroddking Hosts: Jarrod D. King | @JarrodDKing...
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Queer and in High School - Part 2 | Episode 60
We continue our discussion from last week to talk about the other queer kids around us during our high school days and their impact on our lives. Submit your questions for the hosts: https://linktr.ee/jarroddking Hosts: Jarrod D. King | @JarrodDKing TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@jarroddking...
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Queer and in High School - Part 1 | Episode 60
Who were you in high school? In part one of a two-part episode, the hosts explore their pasts in-depth and show how, despite the odds, they made it to where they are today. Submit your questions for the hosts: https://linktr.ee/jarroddking Subscribe to the podcast: https://anchor.fm/boyfriends...
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When To Rekindle or Cut Off a Friend | Episode 59
Is your friendship at a breaking point? Listen in as the hosts talk about their experiences cutting off friends, rekindling friendships, and how it all stems from deeper wounds and relates to the other relationships in our lives. Get exclusive content now on Patreon!: patreon.com/boyfriendspod...
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*NEW SEASON* How Do Looks Impact Your Dating Life? | Episode 58
Surprise! It's a new season of BoyFriends with a whole new cast. We're diving into how your physical appearance can impact your dating life and exploring how to work through the self-doubt and low confidence that comes with that. You're going to love the new hosts, the laughs, and the insights!…
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Preview of New YouTube Series: Know Me - Episode 1 | The Music
As a treat, here's the first episode of a short YouTube series I'm working on. And yes, BoyFriends is coming back! So stay tuned. Get inspired to start your creative journey by listening to my start in music. Giving this path a full shot led me to try several other things until I found what…
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The End of BoyFriends?
After several behind-the-scenes disappointments, I've decided to cut this season of BoyFriends early, but what does that mean for the show's future? Jarrod D. King | @JarrodDKing TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@jarroddking Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/jarroddking/
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I Don't Measure Up To My Friends - with Amanda Cherie | Episode 57
While rooting for your friends who are doing well in life, do you secretly feel envious of what they're able to do? Or sad that you're not further along in your life by comparison? Travel influencer, Amanda Cherie, joins the cast to talk about our insecurities when it comes to having successful...
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Expert Dating Advice From The Gay Dating Coach, Lamont White | Episode 56
We took your questions and got an expert on the case! Lamont White of Better Way To Meet and Shoot Your Shot Wednesday fame joined the cast to help us all be better daters. Take out your notebooks! Guest Host: Lamont White | https://betterwaytomeet.com/ YouTube -...
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Being the 3rd Wheel or the Ugly Friend | Episode 55
Ever felt like the odd man out? Maybe you're in a group of coupled-up friends or a bunch of beautiful singles who get all the attention. We talk about feeling this way and what to do about it. Hosts: Jarrod D. King | @JarrodDKing TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@jarroddking Instagram -...
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Dating Fatigue and the Wonders of Speed Dating | Episode 54
In this episode, we're joined by Susan Mitchell of Be Single No More to talk about dealing with dating fatigue and how speed dating can help you get back on track to finding love. Past co-host Renee also joins us to give her two cents! Upcoming Be Single No More Events (all Philadelphia based):...
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When They Act Like They Don't Know You | Episode 53
Ever run into an acquaintance and they pretended not to see you? What is up with that? Gay communities in many cities have a sense of smallness to them, and many of us at least know of each other. So how can we avoid this awkward moment that seems to keep happening? Hosts: Jarrod D. King |...
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Straight Men & Gay Men - Our Strange Relationship | Episode 52
How do the differences between straight men and gay men affect how we relate to each other? And are we that different at all? Two straight guests, Pavan Patel and Justin King, join the gay hosts of BoyFriends to explore these questions and more. Submit your questions for the hosts:...
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Navigating Friendship Breakups | Episode 51
Bestie betrayals and broken hearts - it sucks when we lose our friends. What do we do to pick up the pieces and move on? Jarrod, Noel, and new host Greg discuss their experiences with friendship breakups and what they've learned because of them. Submit your questions for the hosts:...
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How Important Are Labels in a Relationship? | Episode 50 (Season Finale)
Is it necessary that the person you're dating call you their boyfriend or girlfriend? We discuss relationship labels as well as when to make it known that that's what you want. Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/boyfriends Submit your questions for the hosts: https://linktr.ee/jarroddking...
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Top or Bottom? When To Ask | Episode 49
When you're on a date and don't already know if the other guy is a top or bottom, when is the appropriate time to ask? Voted on by our Instagram followers, the hosts explore this topic and discuss why they need to know immediately or not. Support This Podcast: https://anchor.fm/boyfriends Submit...
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The Pursuit of Perfection | Episode 48
The pursuit of a perfect body and the best looks has long been a sore spot for gay men. We discuss our struggles with our own body image and leave you with some advice on how to manage any negative feelings so that you can go into social situations feeling your best. Support the podcast:...
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Balancing Sexual Freedom and Romance | Episode 47
A big part of being gay is our sexual liberation. There are so many sub-communities that cater to different things and we push sex positivity, but how can that impact your search for a relationship? Support the podcast: https://anchor.fm/boyfriends Submit your questions for the hosts:...
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Pretty Gays and Social Media Mores | Episode 46
A hot guy with muscles tweets out a complaint about how vapid the gay community is. Now he's getting a barrage of negative responses about how he's part of the problem. Is this warranted or are we just upset when the messenger doesn't look how we want? Jarrod, Mike, and Noel discuss this along…
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Co-Host Q+A | Episode 45
The hosts answer questions from the audience and each other that range from insightful to weird to spicy! Meet our newest co-host, Mike, and get to know a bit more about us than you wanted to. Submit your questions for the hosts: https://linktr.ee/jarroddking Hosts: Jarrod D. King | @JarrodDKing...
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Compromise vs. Sacrifice | Episode 44
When you start dating or enter into a relationship, it's generally accepted that some compromises and sacrifices will have to be made in order for it to work. But what happens when one feels like they're making all the sacrifices? The hosts discuss this scenario with anecdotes from their own…
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Giving the Ghoster Another Chance | Episode 43
You get an unexpected text at 9 p.m. that reads "Hey" and it's from someone you dated or tried to get to know, but disappeared on you. What do you do? Do you answer and let them back into your life or do you have a clear boundary? The hosts discuss their responses to this circumstance and what to...
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Infiltrating the Cool Friend Group | Episode 42
There's a group of guys that seem like they have it all: looks, style, access, and strong connections with other cool people in the community. You make your bid to be a part of the group, and they may even be nice, but they won't let you all the way in. How do you get to that deeper level of...
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Are My Standards Too High? | Episode 41
When you date, you get burned and learn what you are willing and unwilling to put up with. But are your new boundaries healthy? In response to this viewer question, the hosts discuss maintaining your standards and whether they're unrealistic. Submit your questions for the hosts:...
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How To Heal After a Breakup | Episode 40 (Season Finale)
Dealing with a breakup can range from bad to downright hellish depending on the depth of your feelings. How do we handle those feelings and when is it a good time to date again? The hosts discuss this viewer question and give their own experiences as well in this season finale episode. Please...
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I Have a Crush on a Straight Guy | Episode 39
Having a crush on a straight man is something many of us have gone through, but how do you process those feelings? Do you leave him alone or take a chance? We're joined by two guests, Alejandro Meza and Jennifer Love Williams, and talk about what to do when sharing your feelings risks more than...
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Is "Out Of Your League" Real? | Episode 38
Many times you'll hear people say "He's out of my league", but is it real or is it all in their heads? Perhaps you've had this thought about someone you wanted to pursue but didn't. We talk about why we think this way and ways to overcome it. Submit your questions for the hosts:...
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Are Long-Distance Relationships Possible? | Episode 37
"If only you were closer" is a common refrain in our increasingly online-dating-centric world. But what if you could make it work? What does it take to make a long-distance relationship successful? I pulled in some of my closest friends for a chat about just that and more! Submit your questions…
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What Does Loyalty Mean? | Episode 36
In the quest to find friends and relationships, loyalty is a huge part of the equation that isn't always spoken of. The hosts discuss what loyalty means to them and help you understand how to be loyal. They also discuss how to steer clear of people who misuse loyalty. Submit your questions for…
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How Do I Give More In My Relationship? | Episode 35
Oftentimes, we get excited about new relationships because of the promise of what we can receive. But what about what we can give? How do we safely extend ourselves to someone else without getting taken advantage of? We answer these questions and have little debate over being "flewed out" in this...
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How To Attract The Type of People You Want In Your Life | Episode 34
This week, we discuss what it takes to attract the people we want to be around, whether for friendship or romance. Submit your questions for the hosts: https://linktr.ee/jarroddking Hosts: Jarrod D. King | @JarrodDKing TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@jarroddking Renee Montalvan | @renee_vanessa...
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What to Do When You Lose Your Circle of Friends | Episode 33
"How are you going to help us find 'our circle' when you can't even keep yours?" This was the comment that spurred on the topic for this episode. Kerel from the Minoritea Report podcast joins us as we (briefly) reflect on the on-screen drama between the hosts and discuss how to learn and move on...
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Love is not Abuse - Timothy McLemore | Episode 32
This week, we come back for an interview with Timothy McLemore about his experience with domestic abuse and how it spurred him on to write a brand new book, 'Love is not Abuse', and create a non-profit organization, Essential Haus, that provides a safe place for individuals in the LGBTQ+…
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Update: Changes + New Episode August 1st!
A quick update on what's happening with the BoyFriends podcast. We've got a host shakeup and announce the date for the new episode. Thanks so much for sticking with us! Subscribe Now: https://www.youtube.com/jarrodking?sub_confirmation=1 Submit your questions for the hosts:...
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Racism & Preferences in the Gay Community | Episode 31
A viewer asked us to touch on this topic and we obliged. What are the challenges when it comes to race in the gay community? How do we overcome them? We discuss our personal stories about how racism has affected us and how to navigate preferences as well. Submit your questions for the cast:...
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How Do I Deal With A Controlling Boyfriend? | Episode 30
In this episode, we help out a viewer struggling to communicate with his boyfriend. When they shut down, what more can you do? And is this a sign of narcissism? We give our best advice while explaining our own encounters with controlling people. Submit your question for the cast:...
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Can You Recover From Betrayal? | Episode 29
Relationships, whether platonic or romantic, go through ups and downs, but what about the really tough moments of betrayal? How open are you to forgiving and moving on? And in what circumstances should you cut your losses and leave? Subscribe Now:...
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Can I Date and Be Overweight? | Episode 28
Many of us have struggled with our body image at one time or another. And it's no different in the gay community. There's a standard of beauty that seems near impossible for most of us and our inability to achieve it can be a real confidence killer. How do we get past the judgment of others (and...
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How to Get Closer to Someone | Episode 27
You've made a new friend or started dating someone you really like and want to keep things growing in a positive direction. How do you do it? In this episode, the cast discusses how to grow deeper in your relationship and strengthen bonds so that it becomes much more than surface level. Submit…
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Find your circle and your man.Hosted by Jarrod D. King, Noel Christian, and Gregory Drey. Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/boyfriends/support
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