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Grace Speckman tracked every single dollar she spent leasing a horse and still ended up $14,000 in the hole after four months. She's a certified financial planner. If it can catch her off guard, it can absolutely catch the rest of us. In this one, we get into the costs nobody warns you about (looking at you, saddle fitting), how to budget for a sport that thrives on surprise expenses, and the uncomfortable math Grace does on what it costs us long-term to keep saying yes to horses right now. I walked away from this conversation with an actual plan instead of just crossed fingers, and I think you will too.Thanks to our sponsors!Thanks to Big Dee's Tack & Vet Supply https://www.bigdweb.com/ for their continued support of Broke Horse Moms. Use code BHM10 to receive an additional 10% off your order.Grace's LinksThe Thoughtful Equestrian's Guide to Protect, Grow, and Pass on WealthInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/dollarsandhorsesense/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@GraceSpeckmanLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/grace-speckman/Broke Horse Moms LinksWebsite: https://brokehorsemoms.com/Newsletter: https://www.brokehorsemoms.com/newsletterInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/brokehorsemomsFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/brokehorsemomsLeave me a voice note about a question you'd like answered: https://speakpipe.com/bhmResources MentionedYNAB (You Need A Budget) budgeting app

We all know the feeling: standing at the rail, trying not to visibly panic, while our kid looks completely calm in the saddle. Turns out that might not be as harmless as it feels.This week I’m talking with Courtenay Baber, a licensed professional counselor, lifelong rider, and founder of Gray Horse Counseling, about the mental side of riding for our kids, and for us. We get into why kids’ self-talk turns into a hamster wheel so fast, what to actually say (and not say) before a big ride, and a simple grounding trick Courtenay uses at the in-gate herself.I also get honest about a moment heading into Pony Finals this year when I realized I was putting pressure on my daughter without meaning to and what changed once I named it.This episode is sponsored by Courtenay and Gray Horse Counseling.If this one hits home, hit subscribe so you don’t miss what’s coming next and if you’ve got two minutes, a quick rating helps other horse moms find the show.Thanks to our sponsors!This episode is sponsored by Courtenay Baber and Gray Horse Counseling, Courtenay’s own practice.Thanks to Big Dee's Tack & Vet Supply https://www.bigdweb.com/ for their continued support of Broke Horse Moms. Use code BHM10 to receive an additional 10% off your order.Broke Horse Moms LinksWebsite: https://brokehorsemoms.com/Newsletter: https://www.brokehorsemoms.com/newsletterInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/brokehorsemomsFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/brokehorsemomsLeave me a voice note about a question you'd like answered: https://speakpipe.com/bhmMentioned in this episode:Sponsored by Big Dee’s Tack & Vet SupplyThis episode is sponsored by Big Dee’s Tack & Vet Supply, a trusted source for tack, riding apparel, horse care products, barn essentials, and all the random things horse moms somehow end up needing at the last minute. Shop online at bigdweb.com.

Before Pony Finals, I thought we knew horse shows. We had rated shows under our belt. We'd qualified for a national championship. I had even made an entire episode about what first-timers need to know. Then we got to Kentucky, and I realized this was a completely different world.In this episode, I'm walking you through all the myths I believed going into Pony Finals and what I now know to be true after watching Chloe and her pony Phoebe place 13th out of 97 in their division.I thought we packed everything we needed. We didn't, and I ended up buying a broom, ulcer guard, and hoof packing within the first hour of being there. I thought it would just be a bigger version of the horse shows we already knew. It wasn't, not even close, from the scoring format to the size of the crowd to the pressure of every single round counting. I thought once we got there, it would all make sense. It didn't, and I had to track down someone in person just to understand how a winner was even determined.I also talk about the moment I realized grooms aren't just for people who don't want to do the work themselves, why we will never again call this trip a family vacation, and the question I'm still sitting with: is a show like this worth it if your kid and pony aren't fully ready for it?If your kid is headed to Pony Finals one day, if you're moving from schooling shows to rated shows, or if you just recently learned what a lead change is, this episode is for you.Key TakeawaysPack more than you think you need. A bridle bag, garment bag, extra hooks, ulcer guard, and hoof packing all turned out to be essential, not extra.Pony Finals is not just a bigger version of a rated show. The scoring format, crowd size, and pressure of every round make it a different experience entirely.Ask questions early. Even experienced horse show families can find the scoring and format confusing, so don't assume it'll make sense once you arrive.Grooms aren't just for big-budget barns. Having a dedicated person to help with the horse freed up everyone else to focus on their actual job.Don't plan this as a vacation. Between prep, riding, and recovery, there's very little time or energy left for sightseeing.Readiness matters more than the invitation. Whether a show like this feels "worth it" often comes down to whether your rider and horse are truly prepared for that level of competition.ResourcesThanks to our presenting sponsor, Big Dee's Tack & Vet Supply: https://www.bigdweb.com/ Use code BHM10 for an additional 10% off your order.Broke Horse MomsWebsite: https://brokehorsemoms.com/Newsletter: https://www.brokehorsemoms.com/newsletterInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/brokehorsemomsThe Swag Barn: https://www.brokehorsemoms.com/swagbarn Use code BHM10 for 10% off your order.Special thanks to Steve Woodward, founder of The Podcasting Editor, for giving you all the best listening experience!

Nobody told me that gradually, week by week, I would stop being the center of Chloe's horse life. A few weeks ago she got her driver's license, and almost overnight, everything about my role at the barn changed. She drives herself to lessons now. She works there without me. She signs up for her own shows. I knew it would change my schedule, but I didn't realize how much it would change my job.In this episode, I'm talking through the moment this really hit me, the milestones I didn't recognize until I looked back, and why I think every horse mom eventually faces some version of this, whether it's a license or something else entirely. If you've ever felt your role at the barn quietly shifting under you, this one's for you, friend.https://www.instagram.com/brokehorsemoms/Join our virtual barn family: brokehorsemoms.com/newsletterThanks to our sponsor Big Dee's Tack and Vet Supply - Use code BHM10 at checkout for an additional 10% off your order.Special thanks to our podcast editor, Steve Woodward. If you're thinking about starting a podcast, find him at podcastingeditor.com.

Episode SummaryWhen we qualified for Pony Jumper Finals, I quickly realized that the official information answered plenty of competition questions but almost none of my horse mom questions.When should we arrive? Do we really need a golf cart? What happens when we pull into the Kentucky Horse Park? How do we know where to go? What should we pack that no one tells us about?So I invited Laura Greenstreet, mom to Pony Jumper rider Cora Greenstreet and founder of the Pony Jumpers USA Facebook group, to answer the questions every first-time Pony Finals family is asking.Laura has been exactly where many of us are now. Even though she grew up in Lexington, Kentucky, she still found herself overwhelmed the first time her family attended Pony Finals. Since then, she's built an incredible community where parents help one another navigate one of the biggest events in youth equestrian sports.Whether you're headed to Pony Finals this year or you're simply curious about what happens behind the scenes at a national championship, this conversation is packed with practical advice, honest perspective, and plenty of reassurance that none of us are supposed to know all of this from the beginning.In This EpisodeWhat to do before you leave home, including EventPass and required health paperworkWhat to expect when you first arrive at the Kentucky Horse ParkWhether you really need a golf cart (spoiler: probably yes)Packing tips that experienced Pony Finals parents swear byHow to find braiders, bodyworkers, grooming help, and other servicesWhat first-time families often wish they'd known before arrivingHow to navigate schooling, training rounds, and the team competitionFamily activities and events you won't want to miss throughout the weekWhy Pony Jumper Finals is about so much more than ribbonsResources MentionedThanks to our sponsor! Big Dee's Tack & Vet Supply https://www.bigdweb.com/: Use code BHM10 to receive an additional 10% off your order.Broke Horse Moms LinksWebsite: https://brokehorsemoms.com/Newsletter: https://www.brokehorsemoms.com/newsletterInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/brokehorsemomsFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/brokehorsemomsLeave me a voice note about a question you'd like answered: https://speakpipe.com/bhmDownload the Unofficial 2026 Pony Jumper Finals Parent Guide at:https://brokehorsemoms.com/ponyfinals2026Connect with Laura and the Pony Jumpers community:Pony Jumpers USA Facebook Group@corarides on InstagramThanks for ListeningIf this episode helped you feel a little more prepared or simply reminded you that none of us started out knowing all of this, I hope you'll share it with another horse mom.And if you're enjoying Broke Horse Moms, I'd be so grateful if you'd follow the show and leave a rating or review. It helps more horse families find the community they're looking for.

Episode SummaryWhen my recent article in The Plaid Horse about how confusing the horse world can be for new families was published, one comment kept popping up:"Just ask questions."Great suggestion! The problem is, when you're new to horses, you don't know what questions to ask.So in this episode, I'm sharing 10 simple questions that can save you time, money, frustration, and a whole lot of second-guessing. These aren't embarrassing beginner questions - they're conversation starters that will help you better understand the horse world and feel more confident supporting your rider.Whether you've been a horse mom for six months or six years, I think you'll walk away with at least one question you hadn't thought to ask.In this episode, you'll learn:Why "just ask questions" isn't enough for new horse familiesWho to ask besides your trainer10 questions to help jump start your own education in this sportWhy building your own "horse mom village" mattersMentioned in this episodeThe Plaid Horse article: The Biggest Barrier for Non-Horse Families Entering the Sport Is UnderstandingEpisode 22: Horse Trainer vs. Parent: Who Decides What? (Jen Wood & Karen from The Scope Podcast)Episode 15: How to Build Your Broke Horse Mom VillageResourcesBig Dee's Tack & Vet Supply https://www.bigdweb.com/: Use code BHM10 to receive an additional 10% off your order.Broke Horse MomsWebsite: https://brokehorsemoms.com/Newsletter: https://www.brokehorsemoms.com/newsletterInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/brokehorsemomsFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/brokehorsemomsLeave me a voice note about a question you'd like answered: https://speakpipe.com/bhm

When your child starts riding, you expect to make decisions about schedules, budgets, and maybe when they get their first pair of tall boots. What you don't expect is that before long you'll be making decisions about trainers, horse shows, safety, horses, and thousands of dollars in equipment for a sport you barely understand.In this episode, I sit down with Jen Barker and Karen Tanner, hosts of The Scope Podcast, to tackle one of the biggest challenges horse moms face: figuring out who gets to make the big decisions.We discuss everything from choosing a trainer and evaluating barn safety to deciding when a rider is ready to move up divisions, return after a fall, start working at the barn, or take on greater responsibility in the sport. Jen brings the trainer perspective, while Karen shares insights from her experience as a horse mom with two riders.One theme comes up again and again throughout our conversation: trust. How do you build trust with a trainer when you're brand new to the horse world? When should you rely on their expertise? And when should you ask more questions?If you've ever wondered where your role as a parent ends and your trainer's role begins, this episode is for you.Key TakeawaysTrust is built through communication, not blind agreement.Trainers should guide horse and competition decisions, but parents should be part of the conversation.Safety discussions evolve as riders progress in the sport.Horsemanship involves much more than simply riding.Parents should feel comfortable asking questions and understanding the "why" behind decisions.Clear goals help trainers and families stay aligned.Strong trainer-parent partnerships make the sport more enjoyable for everyone.Guest ResourcesThe Scope PodcastThe Scope Podcast website: https://www.thescopepodcast.com/Listen on Apple podcastsListen on SpotifyInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/the.scope.podcast/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@the.scope.podcastResourcesBig Dee's Tack & Vet Supply:https://www.bigdweb.com/ Use code BHM10 to get an additional 10% off your order.Broke Horse MomsWebsite: https://brokehorsemoms.com/Newsletter: https://www.brokehorsemoms.com/newsletterInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/brokehorsemomsThe Swag Barn: https://www.brokehorsemoms.com/swagbarn - Use code BHM10 to get 10% off your order.Special thanks to Steve Woodward, founder of The Podcasting Editor, for giving you all the best listening experience!

You know what's weird? Attending a webinar to learn how to attend a horse show.In this episode, I tackle what I believe is one of the biggest barriers to growing equestrian sports: understandability.While conversations about accessibility often focus on cost, there's another challenge that doesn't get discussed nearly enough. Horse shows, divisions, memberships, qualifications, prize lists, entries, and billing can feel like a foreign language to families who didn't grow up in the horse world.In this episode, I share:Why I attended a horse show webinarThe difference between affordability and understandabilityWhy so much equestrian knowledge is word of mouthHow confusion impacts participation and retentionPractical ideas that could make the sport easier for new families to navigateIf you've ever nodded politely while secretly Googling horse show terminology, this episode is for you.Resources MentionedOur Presenting Sponsor, Big Dee's Tack & Vet Supplieshttps://www.bigdweb.com/ Use code BHM10 to get an additional 10% off your order.Broke Horse MomsJoin our virtual barn family! https://www.brokehorsemoms.com/newsletterInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/brokehorsemomsThe Swag Barn: https://www.brokehorsemoms.com/swagbarn - Use code BHM10 to get 10% off your order.

If you’ve been anywhere near horse social media lately, you’ve probably seen the conversations around Dover Saddlery’s closures and liquidation sales. But what actually happened behind the scenes? And what does it reveal about the future of the equestrian industry?In this episode, I’m joined by Orchid Bertelsen, writer of the Substack Back in the Saddle, to break down the Dover story from both an economic and rider perspective.With a background in e-commerce, consumer marketing, and brand strategy, Orchid offers a fascinating look at why equestrian retail has struggled to evolve, what this means for local tack shops and brands, and why adult amateurs and horse moms are often overlooked despite driving so much spending in the sport.We also talk about:Why equestrian e-commerce still feels stuck in 2008How trainers influence buying decisionsThe challenges local tack shops faceWhy discoverability is a huge issue in the horse worldWhat horse businesses can learn from modern retailAnd why there’s still reason to feel hopeful about the future of the industryIf you’ve ever struggled to buy boots online, wondered why horse businesses are so hard to find, or felt like the horse world makes things harder than they need to be, this episode is for you.Resources MentionedPresenting Sponsor: Big Dee's Tack & Vet Supplieshttps://www.bigdweb.com/ Use code BHM10 to get an additional 10% off your order.Orchid Bertelsen, Back in the SaddleInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/orchidinthesaddle/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@orchidinthesaddleSubstack: https://orchidinthesaddle.substack.com/Big Dee's Tack & Vet Supplieshttps://www.bigdweb.com/ Use code BHM10 to get an additional 10% off your order.Broke Horse MomsNewsletter: https://www.brokehorsemoms.com/newsletterInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/brokehorsemomsThe Swag Barn: https://www.brokehorsemoms.com/swagbarn - Use code BHM10 to get 10% off your order.

Are horse shows teaching kids to become better riders or just rewarding expensive horses and polished rounds?In this episode, Angie sits down with David Reichert, founder of the United Dressage and Jumping Club (UDJC), to talk about the gaps he sees in the current U.S. equestrian system and why he created an alternative focused on horsemanship, rider development, affordability, and grit.David shares his perspective on everything from hunter and jumper culture to dressage fundamentals, horse show costs, trainer influence, rider education, and why he believes kids should learn multiple disciplines instead of specializing too early.They also discuss:Whether horse shows are rewarding horses more than ridersWhy many kids aren’t learning horsemanship fundamentalsWhy “grit” matters more than convenience in this sportThe pressure trainers face within the current systemHow UDJC approaches rider development differentlyWhy parents often feel overwhelmed entering the horse worldWhat horse moms should actually focus on long termWhether you agree with all of David’s opinions or not, this conversation raises important questions about what we want our kids to gain from this sport and how the horse world could evolve moving forward.Resources MentionedUnited Dressage and Jumping Club (UDJC)https://www.udjc.org/https://www.instagram.com/udjclub/Broke Horse MomsWeb: https://brokehorsemoms.com/ Join the newsletter: https://www.brokehorsemoms.com/newsletterFollow on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brokehorsemoms/Support the Show: https://buymeacoffee.com/brokehorsemoms

In this episode, I’m joined by my friend Ashley Winch to walk through what happened when our rated show at HITS Culpeper came to an abrupt end after a horse stabled in the same barn as us tested positive for Equine Herpesvirus (EHV-1) and developed Equine Herpesvirus Myeloencephalopathy (EHM).What followed was confusion, a lot of unanswered questions, and a mandatory quarantine that completely changed our plans, and honestly, our perspective.We cover:What actually happens when a horse tests positive for EHV-1 at a showWhat quarantine looks like in real life (not just on paper)The emotional side of navigating risk, uncertainty, and “what ifs”What we had to scramble to figure out (supplies, logistics, care)The role of communication—and where things felt unclearWhat I wish I had known before this ever happenedIf you’re a non-horsey horse mom trying to understand the parts of this world no one explains…this one is for you.Resources MentionedJoin the Broke Horse Mom newsletter (quarantine breakdown + resources)Follow on InstagramHorse Radio NetworkThe Quarter Horse Podcast

Horse show season is here and if you’re anything like me, it can feel like stepping into a completely different world.In this episode, I’m breaking down everything I wish I had known before our first horse show, from the different types of shows to the very real costs (both expected and surprise) and how to navigate it all without losing your mind… or your bank account.Whether you’re heading to your first schooling show or staring down your first rated show bill, I’m walking you through what horse show life actually looks like behind the scenes.Topics CoveredThe different types of horse shows (onsite, schooling, away, and rated)How signing up actually works (and why it can feel so confusing)What “divisions” and “classes” really meanThe real costs of showing—before, during, and the hidden extrasTrainer fees, stalls, tack stalls, memberships, and all the add-onsThe time warp that is horse show scheduling (and why nothing runs on time)How I’ve simplified our setup to save my sanityWhere it actually makes sense to save money (and where it doesn’t)Why you don’t need to do every show to support your kid’s progressI also share a personal update on Chloe’s goal to compete at Pony Jumper Finals and what it really takes for us to make that happen.💛 Support Broke Horse Moms and Chloe’s Pony Finals JourneyLearn more here: https://brokehorsemoms.com/ponyfinals/Contribute directly (business sponsorships available): Venmo @BrokeHorseMoms🔗 Resources & LinksJoin the newsletter: https://www.brokehorsemoms.com/newsletterFollow on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brokehorsemoms

In this episode, I’m joined by Beth Sheely, head coach of the Virginia Tech Equestrian Team, to break down what collegiate club teams really look like and why they might be the best-kept secret for riders who want to continue in college.We talk about everything from how these teams are structured and funded to what coaches are actually looking for, plus real, actionable ways to start exploring options for your rider.We cover:What a collegiate club team is and how it differs from NCAA/NCEAHow IHSA works and why catch riding mattersCosts, funding, and scholarship realitiesWhat coaches look for beyond talentTime commitment and what “student-athlete” really means in this sportConfidence, nerves, and the role of sports psychologyHow fear develops and how to prevent itWhat parents often get wrong (and how to better support their riders)How to start exploring college riding programsWhen to begin the process (timeline for high school riders)Resources MentionedCollege Riding ExplorationEquestrian Talent Search (ETS Clinics): https://rideincollege.com/equestrian-talent-searchTournament of Champions Series: https://rideincollege.com/tournament-of-championsOrganizations & CompetitionIHSA (Intercollegiate Horse Shows Association): https://www.ihsainc.com/NCEA (National Collegiate Equestrian Association): https://collegiateequestrian.com/NCAA (National Collegiate Athletic Association): https://www.ncaa.org/Virginia Tech EquestrianVT Equestrian Team: https://vatechequestrian.weebly.com/VT Equestrian Team on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/virginiatechequestrianVT Animal Science (Equine Program): https://www.apsc.vt.edu/Broke Horse MomsJoin the newsletter https://www.brokehorsemoms.com/newsletter2026 Planning Workbook: https://www.brokehorsemoms.com/2026Follow on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brokehorsemoms

One of the biggest lessons many of us learn in the horse world is that you can’t navigate it alone.In this episode, Angie shares why building a “horse mom village” is one of the most important things you can do—not just for your rider, but for your sanity as a parent trying to figure out a sport you didn’t grow up in.From the horse mom bestie who helps you talk through barn drama, to the barn family who helps with logistics, to the horse dad who brings perspective when your nerves take over, Angie walks through the seven types of people every horse mom needs in her corner.If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, unsure, or like you’re the only one trying to figure this world out, this episode is for you.In this episode, we cover:Why horse moms often rely too heavily on trainers for supportThe importance of building your own support systemThe 7 types of people every horse mom needs in her villageHow other parents can help you see your rider more clearlyWhy connecting with other horse families changes the entire experienceSimple ways to start building your barn communityResources MentionedJoin the BHM newsletter: https://www.brokehorsemoms.com/newsletter2026 Planning Workbook: https://www.brokehorsemoms.com/2026Support the show: https://buymeacoffee.com/brokehorsemomsHuge thanks to Steve Woodward, The Podcasting Editor, for his masterful post-production and helping make this episode sound its best.

What exactly is a local show association and why does it matter?In this episode, I’m joined by Kelly Gannon, adult amateur rider and volunteer of the Central Virginia Show Jumping Association (CVSJA), to talk about how local horse shows actually run, from costs and volunteers to why they’re critical for young riders and adult amateurs alike.We cover:Local vs rated horse showsWhat kids learn beyond ribbonsThe real costs behind running a showWhy volunteer support mattersWhat happens if grassroots associations disappearIf you’re a non-horsey horse mom trying to understand the ecosystem you just joined… his one’s for you.Resources MentionedCVSJAhttps://www.cvsja.org/https://www.instagram.com/cvsjashows/Broke Horse MomsJoin the BHM newsletter: https://www.brokehorsemoms.com/newsletterFollow on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brokehorsemoms

Winter showed up loud this year with ice, school closures, frozen buckets, and barns that don’t care about the weather forecast.In this episode, Angie shares what’s actually helping her family get through an extended stretch of freezing temperatures, from the clothes that make barn life bearable to the small comforts that keep everyone’s spirits intact.This isn’t a sponsored gear roundup or a “do it perfectly” episode, it’s a real look at how Broke Horse Moms survive winter when the horses still need care, the kids still need encouragement, and you’re just trying not to lose feeling in your toes.In this episode, we cover:The winter clothing that’s earning its keep at the barnWhy gas station hot chocolate is sometimes the answerThings that matter more than you expect when it’s icy (looking at you, low gears and manure)Community-tested winter survival tips from other horse momsLessons WE can teach our kids when the rings are frozen overIf you’re cold, tired, and still showing up, this one’s for you.Helpful links & resources:Broke Horse Moms newsletter: brokhorsemoms.com/newsletterNewsletter archives (in case you sign up AFTER we send the email with links): https://brokehorsemoms.kit.com/profilehttps://www.instagram.com/brokehorsemoms/Have a winter survival tip or story? DM me or send an email - I’d love to share it in a future episode.

Buying a horse can feel like the most exciting and terrifying decision you’ll ever make as a horse mom. In this episode, Angie shares the real-life considerations that went into buying her daughter’s horse and the questions every family should ask before making the leap.Whether you’re leasing, half-leasing, riding lesson horses, or just starting to wonder what’s next, this conversation is for moms navigating big decisions without a horse background or unlimited resources.What We Cover in This EpisodeHow to know when riding has moved beyond “just a phase”The difference between emotional readiness and financial readinessWhy leasing first can be helpful, but isn’t the only pathWhat parents often underestimate about horse ownershipHow to evaluate fit between horse, rider, trainer, and barnWhy “waiting” can sometimes be the smartest decisionWhat surprised Angie most after buying a horseHelpful Resources Mentioned📝 Broke Horse Moms Planning WorkbookA practical tool to help you think through goals, logistics, schedules, and finances before making big horse-related decisions.👉 https://www.brokehorsemoms.com/2026☕ Support the PodcastIf this episode helped you feel more grounded or less alone, you can support the show with a small contribution. Every bit helps keep Broke Horse Moms going.👉 https://buymeacoffee.com/brokehorsemomsA Friendly ReminderThere is no “right” timeline for buying a horse. Leasing longer, waiting another season, or deciding not to buy at all doesn’t mean you’re less committed. It means you’re making thoughtful decisions for your family.If you loved this episode, please consider following the show, leaving a rating or review, or sharing it with another horse mom who’s quietly doing the same mental math right now. 🐎💙

Before the braids, before the entries, before the credit card panic...there’s planning...hopefully.In this episode of Broke Horse Moms, Angie sits down with her daughter Chloe for an unfiltered planning conversation using the 2026 Broke Horse Moms Planning Workbook. Together, they reflect on 2025, set rider goals, set MOM goals, choose shows with intention, and define a couple of mom boundaries around time, money, and energy.This isn’t a “perfect plan” episode. It’s a practical, honest look at how horse families can plan a season together, without turning it into pressure, guilt, or a contract written in pencil and stress.You’ll hear how they:Reflect on what mattered in 2025 (the highs and the lows)Let the rider lead goal-setting without mom editing the answersCreate a realistic show wish list (and talk about the why)Do a reality check on time, budget, and family capacityPrepare for trainer conversations before show season startsDefine wins that aren’t tied to ribbonsIf you’ve ever thought, “I just want to feel a little more organized this year,” this episode and the workbook are for you.👉 Download the free 2026 Broke Horse Moms Planning Workbook at brokehorsemoms.com/2026

Episode SummaryIt’s that time of year — show season is winding down, leases are ending, and a LOT of families start wondering… Is it time to switch barns?In this episode, Angie cracks open one of the spiciest topics in the horse world: when, why, and how to switch barns without burning every bridge in sight.And yes — before hitting record, she even texted Chloe’s trainer to ask, “Should I even talk about this??” The trainer’s answer: “We can talk tonight… just keep it focused.”So we did. And here it is.Quick Favor? ⭐️If you love this podcast, the easiest free way to support it is by leaving a rating or review:How to Leave a Review on Apple PodcastsOpen Apple PodcastsSearch for and/or tap the show name (Broke Horse Moms)Scroll past the episodes to Ratings & ReviewsTap ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️Tap Write a Review and leave a note!How to Rate on SpotifyGo to the main Broke Horse Moms show pageTap the About tabTap the ⭐️ rating and select your stars — done!Want to Support the Show?If you’d like to help keep this podcast running and support this Broke Horse Mom you can make a small contribution at:👉 https://brokehorsemoms.com/shavingsEpisode HighlightsWhy so many families switch barns at the end of show seasonThe most common reasons people leave a barn (horses, money, goals, program fit, vibes)Why switching barns feels so emotional and personal for both parents and trainersAngie’s own experiences with two previous barn switches — one easy, one gut-wrenchingHow to leave a barn gracefully (honesty, kindness, communication)What to say, and what not to say, when making the transitionHow to avoid switching prematurely by choosing the right type of program from the startKey questions to ask yourself about goals, budget, horse needs, and your kid’s riding pathLinks MentionedSupport the show: https://buymeacoffee.com/bhmYouTube Channel: https://youtube.com/@brokehorsemomsInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/brokehorsemoms/Broke Horse Moms Newsletter: https://brokehorsemoms.com/newsletterThanks for Being Here 🤍If you enjoyed this conversation or it helped you feel less alone in your horse mom journey, share it with a fellow barn mom or tag me on IG. You’re part of this herd, and I’m so grateful you’re here.Trot on, friend. 🐴

In this episode of Broke Horse Moms, Angie sits down with Piper Klemm, publisher of The Plaid Horse, co-author of the Show Strides series, and one of the most trusted voices in equestrian education.Together, they break down two of the biggest topics in the horse world: affordability and accessibility.What do those words actually mean?How do families realistically navigate a sport known for being intimidating, financially and culturally?And where can moms find options even when the “traditional” paths feel out of reach?The importance of having a 'teacher' in your trainerPiper's thoughts on how to make a sustainable living in this sportWhether you’re brand new to riding or knee-deep in breeches and lesson schedules, this conversation will help you understand how to create opportunity for your kid, without losing your mind or your entire savings.Plus, a Trainer Truth Bomb every new horse parent needs to hear.Resources + Links:The Plaid Horse: theplaidhorse.comShow Strides book series: https://amzn.to/480z37l (affiliate)Follow Piper: https://www.instagram.com/piperklemmphd/Follow The Plaid Horse Magazine: https://www.instagram.com/theplaidhorsemag/

It’s that time of year again — when the wish lists start rolling in and you realize your rider “needs” new breeches, a heated vest, and possibly an entire LeMieux set. Don’t worry, I’ve got you.In this episode, I’m breaking down our 2025 Holiday Gift Guide EARLY so that you have a list of items to hand out and choose from yourself. From fun rider finds and practical mom must-haves to gifts that will make your trainer actually smile, this guide keeps it real, affordable-ish, and useful.Plus, I’ll share a little mom math on why buying the bigger-ticket horse things now actually saves you money later and a behind-the-scenes update on how you can support Broke Horse Moms so we grow to better support you. Featured Brands & Links(Find full details and discount codes in the newsletter!)SmartPak Equine: brokehorsemoms.com/smartequine - Get $20 off your first orderFree Ride Equestrian: shopfre.com/bhm or use code BHM at checkout for 10% offArmor Equestrian: Horseshoe earrings, stencils, glitter, candles, and more - Use code BHM for 15% offGet the Full 2025 Holiday Gift GuideSubscribe to the newsletter and get the complete list (with links + codes!) sent right to your inbox the day this episode drops OR embedded in the welcome email if you're taking your sweet ole time:👉 brokehorsemoms.com/newsletter☕ Support the ShowIf something in this episode made you laugh, helped you save, or made you feel a little less alone in this horse-crazy life, you can support the show for the cost of a bag of shavings:👉 brokehorsemoms.com/shavings🐴 Connect with Broke Horse MomsWebsite: brokehorsemoms.comInstagram: @brokehorsemomsYouTube: Broke Horse Moms

What happens when your kid’s dream of riding in college actually comes true? In this episode, Angie sits down with Elizabeth Howell, marketing and media expert, lifelong horse lover, and proud mom of an NCAA equestrian, to unpack what it really looks like when your family’s years of early mornings, long show days, and endless barn bills finally pay off.Elizabeth shares her daughter Samantha’s journey from pony kid to Division I athlete, including how they navigated the financial reality of competitive riding, what it took to earn scholarship money, and what life is like on a collegiate equestrian team. Spoiler: the recognition and opportunities NCAA riders get might surprise you.Whether your child is just starting lessons or already dreaming of riding under stadium lights, this episode offers hope, honesty, and hard-earned insight from a mom who’s been there.In This Episode:How Elizabeth and her family juggled multiple jobs to keep their daughter in the saddleThe process that led to 66% of Samantha’s college tuition being covered through scholarshipsWhy NCAA equestrian matters for visibility and respect within college sportsHow being a horse mom opened unexpected career doors for ElizabethWhat moms should know early on if their kid might want to ride in collegeAbout Elizabeth HowellElizabeth is the founder of Howell Media and a marketing and media strategist who helps entrepreneurs and executives leverage LinkedIn and podcast guesting to grow their visibility. Before building her business, she spent nearly two decades supporting her daughter’s equestrian career, from braiding horses at 2 a.m. and managing horse shows to running her own mobile equestrian gift store, She Rides I Pay. Elizabeth has also worked with top equestrian media brands and helped NCAA Equestrian build its early social media and sponsorship programs.Links & Resourceshttps://collegiateequestrian.com/https://collegiateequestrian.com/sports/2020/7/10/recruiting%20101.aspxhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/euh24/🧡 Stay in the HerdIf this episode resonated with you, subscribe, share it with your favorite barn mom, or leave a review letting us know what part of Elizabeth’s story hit home.https://brokehorsemoms.com/https://www.instagram.com/brokehorsemoms/https://www.youtube.com/@brokehorsemoms

In this follow-up to our first episode on Leasing a Horse, Angie digs into what really matters once you’ve decided to lease - the agreement itself. Because when it comes to horse leasing, the details can make or break your experience.Angie covers:• What’s typically included in a lease (board, vet, farrier, feed, lessons, insurance)• What you’re allowed to do, like showing, hauling, and off-property rides• How lease pricing is structured and what’s negotiable• The clauses to consider before signing on the dotted line (purchase price, substitution, media use, notice period)If you’re about to sign or start negotiating a lease, this episode will help you spot the red flags and protect your wallet and your sanity.✨ Don’t forget: rate and review the show, and share this episode with another horse mom about to enter the world of equine fine print!

In this episode, Angie sits down with Jennifer Connor, co-founder of Riders Rent, to decode the often-confusing world of show apparel.Whether you’re a first-time horse show mom staring down breeches, jodhpurs, and tall boots, or a seasoned rider wondering what’s tradition vs. what’s truly required, this episode will help you breathe easier.Together, Angie and Jennifer cover:Breeches vs. jodhpurs - who wears what and whyWhen kids transition from paddock boots to tall bootsThe role of jackets in hunters, jumpers, and equitationThe truth about shirts, ties, belts, gloves, and bowsWhere most moms overspend too soon on apparelBorrowing, renting, and consignment hacks to save moneyWhy Riders Rent is changing the game for Broke Horse MomsAlong the way, Angie shares her own horse mom missteps (hello, bows that never saw the ring), while Jennifer brings her deep equestrian experience and her practical advice for moms who want their kids to look the part without emptying the wallet.Watch the video here: http://youtube.com/@brokehorsemoms/Connect with Jenn and Rider's Rent:https://www.ridersrent.com/https://www.instagram.com/ridersrent/https://www.instagram.com/jconnor611/Connect with Angie and other Broke Horse Moms:https://www.instagram.com/brokehorsemoms/http://youtube.com/@brokehorsemoms/✨ Don’t forget: rate and review the podcast, and share this episode with another horse mom who needs to hear she’s not alone in this wild, wallet-draining sport!

What does it really mean to lease a horse and why do so many people recommend it?In this episode of Broke Horse Moms, Angie kicks off our Barn Basics series with a crash course in horse leasing: the what, the why, and the different ways families approach this “horse renting” option before diving into ownership.Angie covers:What a lease actually is (and why non-horse people look at you funny when you say you’re doing it)When it makes sense to lease instead of just taking lessons OR instead of buying outrightThe key differences between care leases and paid leasesOnsite vs. offsite leases and how location affects flexibility and responsibilityThe pros and cons of full vs. partial leases, including how schedules and show plans come into playWhether you’re weighing your first lease, debating whether it’s worth it, or just trying to understand barn lingo, this episode will leave you feeling more prepared (and less confused) when the topic comes up at your barn.💡 Stay tuned for Horse Renting 102: Inside the Lease Agreement where Angie gets into contracts, costs, and what to look out for before signing on the dotted line.✨ Don’t forget: rate and review the podcast, and share this episode with another horse mom who’s figuring out whether to lease, buy, or just keep lessoning her way through this wild, wallet-draining sport!

What happens when supporting your kid’s horse dreams sparks your own?In this episode of Broke Horse Moms, Angie sits down with fellow horse mom (and rider!) Jen Nelson, co-founder of Armor Equestrian, to talk about carving out your own joy in the horse world, even when the sport starts as “just your kid’s thing.”Jen shares:How her daughter Taylor’s first lesson turned into a lifelong mother-daughter bonding experienceWhat it’s really like to lease a horse vs. buy one (and how Roh-Bear came into their lives)Why she decided jumping wasn’t for her, and how to find what you love most about ridingThe truth about balancing show costs, point chasing, and family budgetsHow Armor Equestrian was born out of barn heartbreak and became a brand that brings sparkle, fun, and joy back into ridingA hilarious first installment of our new segment: Trainer Truth BombsWhether you’re considering a lease, wondering how other moms afford the show circuit, or simply looking for permission to find your own barn-time joy, this episode is packed with real talk (and plenty of laughs).Special for listeners: Armor Equestrian is offering 15% off with code BHM → shop here.✨ Don’t forget: rate and review the podcast, and share this episode with another horse mom who needs to hear she’s not alone in this wild, wallet-draining sport!

In this first episode of Broke Horse Moms, I’m turning the mic on myself to share how we stumbled into this sport, what it’s meant for my family, and why this community matters so much.From Chloe’s very first pony ride at the county fair, to her first falls (and my first ringside heart attacks), to finding Phoebe, the opinionated pony who changed everything, I’ll take you through the highs, the wipeouts, and the unexpected ways horses transformed not just Chloe, but me too.This is the story behind Broke Horse Moms: the lessons, the friendships, and the dreams being chased.If you’ve ever felt like you’re navigating barn life without a map, this episode is for you.What You’ll Hear in This Episode:How our family accidentally fell into horse lifeThe role Chloe’s uncle and grandparents played in keeping horses in the familyThe bumpy road of lessons, leases, and falls (including broken bones and stitches)How Phoebe became Chloe’s heart pony and show partnerThe incredible growth I’ve seen in Chloe (and myself) through this journeyWhy I created Broke Horse MomsLinks & Resources:✉️ Join our virtual barn family (weekly newsletter): https://brokehorsemoms.kit.com/56f40ee3d1📸 Follow on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brokehorsemoms/Check out what else is going on: www.brokehorsemoms.com

Broke Horse Moms is the podcast for every horse-show-tired, muck-boot-wearing mama raising a kid in the equestrian world.Hosted by Angie Trueblood, proud horse mom and member of the “I-thought-this-was-just-a-phase” club, we share the real talk, laughs, and lessons that help moms navigate barn life, horse shows, and big equestrian dreams, without losing our minds (or all our money).From learning the lingo to surviving your first show season or even what comes next for your teen rider, we’ve got you covered. Whether you’re brand new or barn-seasoned, this is your place to connect, learn, and laugh with moms who get it.Subscribe now and join our virtual barn family at brokehorsemoms.com.