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Broken for Better

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Building authentic marriages and strengthening families for everyday life. Wherever you are in your marriage journey, we want to walk alongside you. Our desire is to see vulnerable and honest relationships capable of facing the highs and lows together. Do you have the right tools to strengthen your relationship now and in the future?

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Episodes

  1. Life Update - Look what God is doing!

    For 13 years, we’ve prayed, waited, wrestled, surrendered…and asked God to make the next step clear.And somehow, in the middle of a season we never would have written for ourselves, He did. 🤍We’re sharing a little life update today because we’re genuinely in awe of what God has done and what…

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  2. Healing, Hope, and Faith: A Couple’s Journey Through Trauma and Marriage Recovery

    In this episode, Joe and Alice share their raw and inspiring story of overcoming decades of trauma, mental health struggles all through faith, counseling, and perseverance. Whether you're facing similar challenges or seeking encouragement for a long-lasting marriage, their testimony offers hope…

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  3. Unpause Your Marriage: 35 Years of Expert Advice with Dr. Lee Baucom

    In this insightful interview, Dr. Lee Baucom shares his 35 years of expertise on how couples can unpause their marriages, rebuild connection, and navigate common relationship challenges. Discover practical tools, the concept of relationship judo, and the innovative Unpause app to help your…

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  4. Feeling Like Roommates? Start Here!

    Do you and your spouse love each other… but feel more like roommates lately? If physical intimacy has slowed down (or disappeared), this episode is for you. Because most of the time, intimacy doesn’t die first… connection does. In this conversation, marriage coaches Kurt and Denette Schaer talk...

  5. Less Chaos, More Peace: 3 Rhythms That Change the Temperature of Your Home

    Does your home feel too loud emotionally, mentally, or relationally? In this episode, marriage coaches Kurt and Denette Schaer talk about the hidden “crazy cycle” many couples live in: two ships passing in the night, running a household but not building a marriage… and calling it “just a season.”...

  6. Stop the Spiral: 1 Shift That Turns Conflict Into Connection

    If you’re tired of the same arguments, the same tone, the same shutdown… you’re not alone.In this episode of Broken for Better, Kurt & Denette Schaer share the simple communication reset that helps couples stop reacting fast, create emotional safety, and build new rhythms that turn chaos into...

  7. New Year, Same Baggage? Here’s the Fix

    In this conversation, Kurt and Denette discuss the importance of not carrying past wounds into new seasons of life, particularly in relationships. They explore how unresolved issues can linger and affect emotional intimacy, emphasizing the need for open communication and intentional healing. The...

  8. Can Change Really Happen in Marriage? (How to Start—Even If You’ve Tried Before)

    Can a marriage really change… or do couples just learn to cope?In this episode, marriage coaches Kurt and Denette unpack what real change looks like over time and why it’s usually not one big moment, but small, consistent choices made with humility and intentionality. You’ll hear practical tools...

  9. From Surviving to Thriving: An Inside Look Inside Marriage Coaching | Kurt and Denette Schaer

    In this episode, Kurt and Denette Schaer discusses the power of marriage coaching, sharing personal experiences and insights into how coaching can help couples navigate various stages of their relationship. From addressing fears and misconceptions about coaching to exploring the benefits of…

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  10. Healing After Betrayal: Our Journey to Redemption | Kurt and Denette Schaer

    Join Kurt and Denette as they share their deeply personal journey through infidelity, broken trust, emotional healing and what it looked like to get there. Discover how they navigated one the darkest chapters of their marriage before child loss, to find hope and redemption. This candid…

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  11. What Turns Him On (& Off) In Marriage

    What really lights him up in marriage—and what shuts him down completely? In this eye-opening episode of the Broken for Better Podcast, we’re diving into the emotional, physical, and psychological turn-ons and turn-offs that women experience within marriage. From communication and presence to...

  12. What Turns Her On (& Off) In Marriage

    What really lights her up in marriage—and what shuts her down completely? In this eye-opening episode on the Broken for Better Podcast, we’re diving into the emotional, physical, and psychological turn-ons and turn-offs that women experience within marriage. From communication and presence to...

  13. Beyond the Hashtag: Real Relationship Goals

    In this episode, we’re going beyond the hashtag and digging into what real relationship goals actually look like... the kind you can’t capture in a cute photo or a viral post. We talk about the deep work of building a relationship rooted in patience, respect, trust, and true friendship. If you're...

  14. 10 Marriage Game-Changers That Made Us Stronger | Broken for Better Podcast

    In this episode of the Broken for Better Podcast, Kurt and Denette Schaer share 10 powerful, practical ways that transformed and strengthened their marriage over their 28 years together. 💍Whether you're newly married, facing challenges, or simply wanting to deepen your connection, these...

  15. Making Priceless Family Memories on A Budget

    In this episode, we’re diving into how to create meaningful family memories without breaking the bank. As marriage coaches—and parents ourselves—we know that some of the best moments don’t come from big spending, but from intentional time together. Whether you’re saving for the future or just…

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  16. Balancing Intimacy, Marriage & Parenting

    Parenting changes everything—your schedule, your priorities, and sometimes even your connection with your spouse. In this episode of Broken for Better, we’re diving into the challenges and joys of maintaining a healthy intimate life while raising kids. From navigating exhaustion to keeping the...

  17. Parenting: Teaching Your Kids How To Dream Big

    In this week's episode of we dive into the powerful role parents play in shaping the future of their children by teaching them how to dream big. Parenting isn't just about providing for your child's needs—it’s about equipping them to believe in their potential, face challenges with resilience…

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  18. A Conversation on Fatherhood | Kurt Schaer & Tim Couet

    Parenting can be one of the most rewarding and yet most difficult things we will ever do. It was an honor to have Tim Couet of Prodigal Man be with us for this very important and timely conversation. Join Kurt and Tim as they talk about all things fatherhood and give real life tools and...

  19. Highly Favored Pt 4 | Kurt and Denette Schaer

    Highly Favored? What does living a highly favored life really mean? What does that look like "when bad things happen to good people"? How do we grapple with our faith on the other side of loss? This month leading up to the launch of the new book: "Highly Favored? Discovering Hope in the Shadows…

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  20. Highly Favored Pt 3 | Denette Schaer & Sharon McFeron

    Highly Favored? What does living a highly favored life really mean? What does that look like "when bad things happen to good people"? How do we grapple with our faith on the other side of loss? This month leading up to the launch of the new book: "Highly Favored? Discovering Hope in the Shadows…

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  21. Highly Favored Pt 2 | Denette Schaer & Jill Nash

    Highly Favored? What does living a highly favored life really mean? What does that look like "when bad things happen to good people"? How do we grapple with our faith on the other side of loss? This month leading up to the launch of the new book: "Highly Favored? Discovering Hope in the Shadows…

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  22. Highly Favored? Pt 1 | Denette Schaer & Nikki Langston

    Highly Favored? What does living a highly favored life really mean? What does that look like "when bad things happen to good people"? How do we grapple with our faith on the other side of loss? This month leading up to the launch of the new book: "Highly Favored? Discovering Hope in the Shadows…

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  23. The Holidays & Marriage | Kurt and Denette Schaer

    Is it hard to manage the holidays? Does it take a toll on your marriage or enhance your marriage? What are some of the things you would change if you could when it comes to one of the busiest times of the year? Join Kurt and Denette as they talk about how the HOLIDAYS and how to face them in a...

  24. Why Pre-marital Counseling? | Kurt and Denette Schaer

    Is it really beneficial? We love each other and don't see the point. What does pre-marital counseling/coaching actually look like? Join Kurt and Denette they talk about the why behind the process and what they have seen work (and not work). Want to give...

  25. Stress & Marriage

    Do you have any stress in your marriage? If you are married then the answer is YES. Stressors happen in every relationship and are a normal part of building a life together. So, let's talk about it. Join Kurt and Denette as they discuss what this looks like in a healthy way. Want to give...

  26. Expectations vs. Reality | Kurt and Denette Schaer

    What are healthy expectations? What do we do when our expectations and our reality don't line up? Join Kurt and Denette as they give some real time tools on the hard topic of "expectations in marriage". Want to give financially?https://deka.gives/broken-for-better All the links - stay in...

  27. What is Marriage Coaching | Kurt and Denette Schaer

    What is marriage coaching? Is it helpful? Is it only for couples that are really struggling? Join Kurt and Denette as they talk all things marriage coaching. (What it is, how it works and what to expect.) Want to give financially?https://deka.gives/broken-for-better All the links - stay in...

  28. Big Wins & What's Next - Mid Year Check In | Kurt and Denette Schaer

    The first half of the year has flown by and we've had people asking how things have been going, what we've been up to and what's coming. This pod we will reflect on the our journey so far, and give you a sneak peek into some exciting plans we have for the months ahead. Thank you for being a part…

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  29. Navigating Marriage Through Seasons of Grief and Loss | Kurt and Denette Schaer | Andy and Deanna Cowdery

    How do you balance it all? Do you find it hard to find a healthy balance navigating the good and the hard things? The next few weeks we are going to be taking a deeper look with the help of some other amazing couples that are walking out very real and authentic scenarios that many marriages face....

  30. Navigating Marriage and Blended Families | Kurt and Denette Schaer with Laila and Dave Armstrong

    How do you balance it all? Do you find it hard to find a healthy balance navigating the good and the hard things? The next few weeks we are going to be taking a deeper look with the help of some other amazing couples that are walking out very real and authentic scenarios that many marriages face....

  31. Navigating Marriage and Becoming New Parents

    How do you balance it all? Do you find it hard to find a healthy balance navigating the good and the hard things? The next few weeks we are going to be taking a deeper look with the help of some other amazing couples that are walking out very real and authentic scenarios that many marriages face....

  32. Navigating Marriage, Family and Ministry (or work)

    How do you balance it all? Do you find it hard to find a healthy balance navigating the good and the hard things? The next few weeks we are going to be taking a deeper look with the help of some other amazing couples that are walking out very real and authentic scenarios that many marriages face....

  33. Navigating Marriage, Family and Caring for an Aging Parent

    Navigating Marriage, Family and Caring for an Aging Parent How do you balance it all? Do you find it hard to find a healthy balance navigating the good and the hard things? The next few weeks we are going to be taking a deeper look with the help of some other amazing couples that are walking out...

  34. Navigating Marriage, Family and Autism

    How do you balance it all? Do you find it hard to find a healthy balance navigating the good and the hard things? The next few weeks we are going to be taking a deeper look with the help of some other amazing couples that are walking out very real and authentic scenarios that many marriages face....

  35. The Love Doctors Pt. 4

    What's love got to do with it? Does dating your spouse really matter? Is our sex life "normal"? What is and isn't allowed in the bedroom? Should I be "dating" my kids too and what does that look like? Join Kurt and Denette as they dig into these hot topics in this four part series - The Love...

  36. The Love Doctors Pt. 3

    What's love got to do with it? Does dating your spouse really matter? Is our sex life "normal"? What is and isn't allowed in the bedroom? Should I be "dating" my kids too and what does that look like? Join Kurt and Denette as they dig into these hot topics in this four part series - The Love...

  37. The Love Doctors Pt.2

    What's love got to do with it? Does dating your spouse really matter? Is our sex life "normal"? What is and isn't allowed in the bedroom? Should I be "dating" my kids too and what does that look like? Join Kurt and Denette as they dig into these hot topics in this four part series - The Love...

  38. The Love Doctors Pt. 1

    What's love got to do with it? Does dating your spouse really matter? Is our sex life "normal"? What is and isn't allowed in the bedroom? Should I be "dating" my kids too and what does that look like? Join Kurt and Denette as they dig into these hot topics in this four part series - The Love...

  39. The Marriage Audit - Bored in the Bedroom?

    Are you bored in your marriage? Is your marriage in a rut? How do you fight to remain connected when you are both so different? Join Kurt and Denette in this series as they talk openly about how hard it can be to find common interests, appeal to your partner and not let the bedroom becoming…

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  40. The Marriage Audit - Does My Appearance Matter?

    Are you bored in your marriage? Is your marriage in a rut? How do you fight to remain connected when you are both so different? Join Kurt and Denette in this series as they talk openly about how hard it can be to find common interests, appeal to your partner and not let the bedroom becoming…

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  41. The Marriage Audit - When Boredom Sets In

    Are you bored in your marriage? Is your marriage in a rut? How do you fight to remain connected when you are both so different? Join Kurt and Denette in this series as they talk openly about how hard it can be to find common interests, appeal to your partner and not let the bedroom becoming…

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  42. Fight Night Pt 4

    Let's get ready to RUMBLEEEEE!!! Disagreements are a part of any relationship and something all couples face. Do you wonder if you are fighting fair? Can your relationship use more tools when facing disagreements? Join Kurt and Denette as they get real and vulnerable over this 4 week series…

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  43. Fight Night Pt 3

    Let's get ready to RUMBLEEEEE!!! Disagreements are a part of any relationship and something all couples face. Do you wonder if you are fighting fair? Can your relationship use more tools when facing disagreements? Join Kurt and Denette as they get real and vulnerable over this 4 week series…

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  44. Fight Night Pt. 2

    Let's get ready to RUMBLEEEEE!!! Disagreements are a part of any relationship and something all couples face. Do you wonder if you are fighting fair? Can your relationship use more tools when facing disagreements? Join Kurt and Denette as they get real and vulnerable over this 4 week series…

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  45. Fight Night Pt. 1

    Let's get ready to RUMBLEEEEE!!! Disagreements are a part of any relationship and something all couples face. Do you wonder if you are fighting fair? Can your relationship use more tools when facing disagreements? Join Kurt and Denette as they get real and vulnerable over this 4 week series…

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  46. Let's Talk Family

    Join Kurt and Denette Schaer as they continue this series on expectations. This week they discuss the topic of family. How do we handle tough conversations in front of the kids? How do we make sure our family feels like a priority? And what do we do when facing trauma/mental health/or difficult...

  47. Let's Talk Career

    Join Kurt and Denette Schaer as they continue this series on expectations. This week they discuss the topic of how our careers can impact our marriages and families. Do we make our spouse a priority? Do we constantly bring work issues home? What about if your work is ministry related? How do we...

  48. Let's Talk Friends

    Join Kurt and Denette Schaer as they continue this series on expectations. This week they discuss the topic of friends. Do they matter? What if we don't like our spouses friends? Want to give financially? https://deka.gives/broken-for-better All the links - stay in touch:...

  49. Let's Talk Dreams

    Join Kurt and Denette Schaer as they continue this series on expectations. This week they tackle the importance of dreaming in your marriage. Why it is important and how it can benefit or hurt your marriage. Want to give financially? https://deka.gives/broken-for-better All the links - stay in...

  50. Let's Talk Money

    Join Kurt and Denette Schaer as they continue this series on expectations. This week they tackle a subject every marriage will have to figure out how to navigate - Money! Want to give financially? https://deka.gives/broken-for-better All the links - stay in touch:...

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Building authentic marriages and strengthening families for everyday life. Wherever you are in your marriage journey, we want to walk alongside you. Our desire is to see vulnerable and honest relationships capable of facing the highs and lows together. Do you have the right tools to strengthen your relationship now and in the future?

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