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BS Your way through life
by Buffy
Life hacks, emotional strengthening, relationship wisdom, marriage unchained and random wisdom- Welcome to the B-S Your way through life show, where you can glean and gain what you need. Life is messy, but also amazing and exciting, we don’t have to just endure life, you can enjoy it!
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We are the sum of all our choices
Your life is built one choice at a time, each one carving out the person you’re becoming. Come with me as we uncover how you became you.
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A New Beginning
In this episode of BS Your Way Through Life, we explore what it really means to start fresh — not once a year, not only after big breakthroughs, but every single day.Whether you’re navigating a toxic communication cycle, stuck in the habit of arguing over small things, or simply feeling disconnected in your marriage or relationships, a new beginning is always available. We talk about the courage it takes to pause, reset, and choose a different response… even when old patterns feel automatic.This conversation dives into:• How to create a fresh start inside the same relationship• Why small arguments often mask deeper needs• The role of forgiveness in making real change possible• How to rebuild connection without pretending everything is perfectA new beginning isn’t about erasing the past — it’s about choosing who you want to be today. And you can choose again tomorrow.Don’t forget to check out bsyourway.com
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sometimes the learning is in the mess
In this episode, we dig into why the “right” advice doesn’t always land — even when it could fix everything. Sometimes we’re not ready. Sometimes we’re too deep in the mess to hear it. And sometimes the learning we need can only happen inside the chaos, not outside of it.We also talk about the frustration of watching someone we love struggle, offering them the exact wisdom that could change their life… only to have it bounce right off. Then later, someone else says the same thing in a different way, and suddenly it clicks.This conversation is a reminder that timing matters, readiness matters, and the mess itself is often the teacher.don’t forget to ask about my Circle cycle cards and also visit bsyourway.com
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stop self sabotage
Imagine it's Christmas Eve, a time to create cherished memories with family. However, a woman finds herself at the laundromat, convinced that this chore is essential, while her children are at home, eagerly waiting to open gifts. This seemingly harmless decision is a classic example of self-sabotage, where we prioritize trivial tasks over meaningful moments, inadvertently hindering our happiness and personal growth.
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Ditch autopilot and lean into the mess with Steve Seidel
Today I’m joined by Steve Seidel—TEDx speaker, executive coach, and founder of The Seidel Agency and Gents Journey. He’s known for helping people ditch autopilot and lean into the messy, meaningful parts of life. From ringing the NYSE bell dressed as Mr. Slurpee to coaching high-pressure families and businesses, Steve brings humor, heart, and hard-won tools for connection. Let’s dive in.Connect with Steve:Agency: TheSeidelAgency.comCoaching: StephenSeidel.com/MediaMen’s Group: GentsJourney.co/joinTEDx Talk: https://rebrand.ly/seidelspeakingAnd my social media handles are @StephenSeidel and @TheSeidelAgency + @GentsJourneyco
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Holiday Alignment Special
✨ Podcast Description ✨ The holidays can bring joy, but they can also highlight the moments when you and your spouse aren't perfectly aligned. In My Holiday Alignment Special, we explore how to navigate those differences with grace. Instead of falling into criticism or frustration, this episode encourages respectful conversations that honor each other's ideas, desires, and traditions. Whether it's deciding how to celebrate, what gifts to give, or simply how to spend your time, alignment doesn't always mean agreement—and that's okay. Tune in for practical insights on creating connection, fostering understanding, and keeping the season filled with kindness and respect.
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Making a Connection is the key to a good relationship with Todd Sarner
Welcome to B-S Your Way Through Life — where we get real about connection, not just chemistry. Today I'm joined by Todd Sarner, a psychotherapist and parenting expert who helps high-achieving parents turn everyday tension into trust. Through his Transformative Parenting Process, Todd shows families how to shift from control to connection, even when things get messy. If you've ever felt like you 'know better' but still struggle in the moment, this one's for you. Connect Wtih Todd: Todd Sarner, MA MFT Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist Director of Transformative Parenting Education, Consulting and Coaching Services for Parents www.transformativeparenting.com Get Ready for Todd's book: The calm and connected parents it's the book you needed yesterday! Also: ✨ Don't forget to check out bsyourway.com—where clarity meets courage. 🎉 Be one of the first 100 to test the Circle Cycle Cards and give yourself a voice that resonates.
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From Broken to better with Bryan Power
Saving marriage- one Couple at a time! In this raw and redemptive conversation, Bryan Power shares the story of his marriage—how it broke, how it nearly ended with a restraining order, and how it was ultimately rebuilt stronger than ever. We talk about what repair really looks like, the steps that matter, and why messiness doesn't mean it's over. If you've ever wondered whether love can survive the worst, this episode offers proof that it can—and a map for how. Connect With Bryan: Website - www.myrelationshipfail.com Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/myrelationshipfail/ Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@myrelationshipfail LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/bryanwpower/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/groups/myrelationshipfail A note From BS Your Way ✨ HEEEYY! Want a way to help ease frustration in your marriage? 🎉Be one of the first to test Cycle Circle Cards! Humorous, educational, and emotionally resonant—these cards help women name what's often invisible and advocate for their needs with clarity and kindness (well, as much as the monster inside will allow-but at least these cards will bring understanding so no one-including yourself- thinks your just a crazy lady😆). Let yourself finally be heard, seen, and understood. Email me at [email protected] to join the tester circle.✨ Be one of the first to test Cycle Circle Cards!
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Saying that thing that destroys your peace
in this episode, we talk about the importance of not saying it. Sometimes we need to have a conversation because it can help better our marriage, but we need to make sure that when we do we are in the spirit of love and openness and not criticism and pettiness. it's hard not to think one-sided or Only see our side of things- that's why being open is important. Because we never know how our own actions may look and sound to the other.
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My $600 Dollar Wedding
🎬 $600 Wedding: Why the Man Matters More Than the Menu 💍 Forget the Pinterest-perfect wedding. In this episode, I strip down the glitz and glam to talk about what actually matters—your man, your marriage, and the sacred union you're building with your family. I share my own $600 wedding story (yes, really), the hilarious hiccups, and the deeper truths that made it unforgettable. ⚠️ HEADPHONE WARNING: This episode was edited for maximum fun—sound effects and cinematic flair included. my be loud on headphones. For the full experience, watch it on YouTube! 🔗 Visit BSYourWay.com for resources that help you cut through the noise and live with clarity and purpose. 🌀 Coming soon: My Circle Cycle PDF Cards—ritual-ready tools for emotional literacy and cycle-wise living. 📺 Don't miss other videos on my YouTube channel like: • Bring Back the compassion—we are a team fighting different … for a reminder that marriage is a team sport. constructive criticism, disguised as insults to help you navigate feedback in relationships. • The True reason to being happy ALL the time… for a spiritual reframe on joy.
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Words Matter
🎙️ Words Matter In a world of quick comebacks and reactive replies, Words Matter is a reminder that not every moment calls for a retort. Sometimes silence is strength, and sometimes truth must be spoken—but always with love, not pride. This episode explores how to respond with intention, choose empathy over ego, and make our words count for something deeper than just being right. 🌐 Explore more at bsyourway.com —where clarity meets authenticity. Here's what you'll find: • 💬 One-on-One Sessions – Personalized guidance to help you break free from limiting patterns in your marriage • 🎓 Online Courses – Deep dives into mindset shifts, communication mastery, and emotional growth • 💡 Tips & Tools – Practical advice for navigating life's messier moments with grace and purpose • 🎙️ Podcast Content – Episodes that stir your soul and challenge your thinking
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Healthy intimacy in marriage with Dr. Diane Mueller
What does healthy intimacy actually look like in marriage—and why does it matter so much more than we realize? In this heartfelt and eye-opening conversation, I sit down with Dr. Diane Mueller (aka My Libido Doc) to explore what libido really is, how it shifts over the seasons of married life, and what couples can do to nurture connection through real-life stress, fatigue, and changing desires. We're taking the shame out of the conversation, getting practical about intimacy, and reminding ourselves that a vibrant marriage is built on more than just a spark—it's about fuel, care, and deeper understanding. 🎧 Heads-up: This episode is for grown-up ears only—grab your headphones and let's dive in. Connect with Dr. Diane Mueller: Free quiz to learn about your (and your partner's) turn ons and turn offs: https://mylibidodoc.com/libido-code Yes, No, Maybe Checklist to bring novelty and passion back into your partnership: https://mylibidodoc.com/yesnomaybe My Website: https://mylibidodoc.com
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SOS For a Healthy Marriage
SOS for a Healthy Marriage is all about the three key elements that keep a relationship thriving—sleep, outlet, and sex. A twist on "Save Our Souls," this podcast dives into why these fundamentals matter and how to nurture them for a stronger, happier marriage. Find bite-sized tips and advice on Instagram and YouTube—follow and subscribe for short, impactful insights to strengthen your relationship! Website: bsyourway.com
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The power of Family connections with Jeremy Horne
In this heartfelt episode, I sit down with Jeremy Horne, the visionary behind Winny, the family connection app, to explore the profound impact of strong familial bonds on our well-being. We dive into the ways meaningful connections shape our lives, influence our health, and provide a foundation for resilience and emotional growth. Jeremy shares insights on fostering deeper relationships, the role of technology in strengthening family ties, and why prioritizing connection is one of the most powerful investments we can make in ourselves and our loved ones. Jeremy's website: https://winny.chat
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Helpmeet = Teammate
Being a *help meet* isn't about servitude—it's about *teamwork*. In this episode, we break down what it really means to be a strong, supportive partner in a relationship. From sharing burdens to celebrating victories, we explore the beautiful balance of unity and individuality that makes a lasting partnership thrive. Ready to rethink how you show up for your relationship? Tune in now! don't forget to visit: https://bsyourwaythroughlife.godaddysites.com
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Your emotions are allowed to take up space with Julian Bermudez
Many of us grow up learning to suppress our emotions—sometimes intentionally by unhealthy parenting, and other times unintentionally through well-meaning but misaligned lessons. In this episode, we dive into how emotional suppression impacts our personal growth, the ways we can reconnect with ourselves, and why we all have permission to feel the feelings we feel. Through self-reflection and intentional healing, we explore how to build a healthy relationship with our emotions, process them fully, and step into self-trust with honesty and gentleness. Julian's Website: https://www.psychedelic-integration.net
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God Loves you anyway With Leigh Trupin
Have you ever felt like a beginner in faith—uncertain, unsure, and wishing someone could guide you through it all? In this episode, Leigh Trupin shares her powerful journey from not knowing God to finding Him in a way that transformed her life. She opens up about what it was like to grow up without understanding who God was, not even knowing that the devil was real, and the loneliness of feeling like no one saw how lost she was. Leigh's story is a reminder that wherever you are in your faith—whether you're questioning, just starting out, or feeling like you don't measure up—God loves you right where you're at. If you've ever wished for a beginner's guide to faith, this conversation is for you. Leigh Contact: Website: https://dearnewbeliever.com Facebook: DearNewBelieverLoveGod Instagram:@dearnewbeliever.com
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Financial Wisdom with Bronson Hill
In this episode, we explore the transformative mindset needed to redefine our relationship with money. Bronson shares insightful strategies on how shifting perspectives can lead to financial empowerment and open doors to new possibilities. We discuss the importance of embracing change, thinking creatively, and taking calculated risks to build a brighter financial future. Real estate is highlighted as a smart investment tool—specifically multifamily properties—however the focus remains on empowering you to take bold steps toward achieving your goals. Bronson's gift to you: Free PDF https://docs.google.com/document/d/1pd5GMm5HTJqaK4tz7slsScl4K5j9AQX-4qxMszuV_9c/edit?tab=t.0 Bronson Hills website: https://bronsonequity.com/home-bronson-equity/ Bronson's book Amazon link: Fire Yourself: Replace Your Working Income with Passive Income in 3 Years or Less https://a.co/d/bGJ6ShJ
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Overcoming and a little BSing with Rebekah Higgs
In this episode, we'll dive into Rebekah's transformative journey, exploring the struggles and triumphs that have shaped her career and life. Prepare to be inspired by her unwavering commitment to creating a better future for her daughter, Lennon, and their beloved Boston Terrier, Ziggy. Let's uncover the lessons she's learned and the secrets to turning life's challenges into opportunities to thrive connect with Rebekah: YouTube: https://youtube.com/@heymomhey?si=p6d7DN_8kKyDifOO Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/diymom.ca/ website: https://diymom.ca/ Matriarch website: https://matriarchproductions.com/
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stop self sabotage- don't be at the laundromat on Christmas while your children are at home opening presents
In this candid and thought-provoking episode, we discuss how self-sabotage can sometimes stem from a place of frustration and unmet expectations. Through the story of a woman who finds herself at the laundromat on Christmas while her children are home opening presents, we uncover the ways we can prioritize the wrong things—often driven by selfishness, complaints, or a fixation on how life 'should' be. Together, we explore how shifting our perspective, letting go of rigid expectations, and embracing gratitude can pave the way for true happiness and fulfillment. don't forget to check out: bsyourway.com
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Bring back the compassion-we are a team fighting different battles
bsyourway.com In this heartfelt episode, we dive into the power of empathy and unity. 'Bring Back the Compassion' reminds us that while our battles may differ, we are stronger together. Explore inspiring stories and practical insights on fostering understanding, support, and kindness in our daily lives.
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Prepping for and making retirement some of your best years
Come on a journey with me and Elizabeth Parsons, author of, Encore: A high achievers guide to thriving in retirement. She helps people redefine what retirement looks like and find purpose in this new chapter of life. Her insights are all about turning this transition into something fulfilling and meaningful even if right now, you're just sitting in a chair flipping through channels all day! or a mother who is drowning in household chores and children, and doesn't know who she is anymore -Let's change that! Elizabeth's website: https://www.encoraco.com/ Elizabeth book: https://a.co/d/fXFYSSw
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constructive criticism, disguised as insults!
"Welcome to *Constructive Criticism, Disguised as Insults*! In this heartfelt and insightful episode, we explore how to embrace criticism within our marriages without letting it spark conflict or resentment. Learn how to hear the love behind the words, even when they're not delivered perfectly, and transform critiques into opportunities for growth and deeper connection. Whether you're navigating tricky conversations or simply seeking ways to strengthen your relationship, this episode offers practical advice with a touch of humor and a lot of heart." don't forget to visit bsyourway.com and sign up for a free 20 minute one on one session and or to sign up to get my newsletter!
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Working it out and staying together with Robin and Michael
Robyn and Michael's website:https://couples.solutions/ How healthy is your relationship? Take the FREE Relationship Quiz and find out. https://couples.solutions/ Want to learn a couple of tools to upgrade your connection? Attend the two-hour Introduction to True Love. https://couples.solutions/intro/ Partner reluctant to participate? Transform your relationship on your own. https://couples.solutions/pq/ In this heartwarming and insightful episode, I sit down with Robin Temple and Michael Moore, the dynamic duo behind Couples.Solutions. With over 70 years of combined experience, Robin and Michael have dedicated their lives to helping couples strengthen their relationships. From overcoming challenges that can end marriages to reigniting the spark in good relationships, they share proven tools and heartfelt advice that have transformed countless lives. Robin, a seasoned therapist, educator, and author, and Michael, a transformational curriculum designer and relationship coach, bring their unique strengths together to offer retreats, workshops, and coaching for couples. During this episode, we dive into their approach to fostering trust, emotional connection, and enduring intimacy. They open up about their personal experiences as a couple, the evidence-based methods they've refined, and the lessons they've learned along the way. Join us for an inspiring conversation filled with practical tips, genuine connection, and a glimpse into what makes Robin and Michael not just incredible educators, but also a truly remarkable couple.
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Mental Health and how to thrive anyway with Judith Belmont
Judith Belmont, MS www.belmontwellness.com https://linktr.ee/belmontwellness amazon.com/author/judithbelmont Episode Description: Free Yourself from Anxiety with Judith Belmont In this enlightening episode, we sit down with the amazing Judith Belmont, a seasoned mental health expert and author of numerous books on overcoming anxiety, depression, and self-doubt. If you've ever felt crippled by anxiety or paralyzed by what others think of you, this episode is your gateway to freedom. Join us as Judith shares profound insights and practical strategies to help you reclaim your peace of mind and live confidently. Whether you struggle with daily stress or deeper emotional challenges, Judith's wisdom offers a beacon of hope and a path to serenity. Tune in and discover how to break free from the shackles of anxiety and start living your best life today!
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how to have a long lasting marriage- Natasha Richburg
**Want to build a loving and long-lasting marriage?** 🌟✨ prepare yourself as we uncover the key elements that can help you achieve your dream marriage with Natasha Richburg. Natasha Richburg has been guiding couples on how to maintain love and connection for years. Her wisdom comes from personal experience, having stayed married for 36 years and counting. After receiving countless inquiries about her successful marriage, Natasha decided to share her insights through her first book. Tune in to learn the secrets of a happy, enduring relationship! ---
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Seeking Sunshine with Karaleigh Garrison
Is life pulling you down and you feel like you can't win? Fear not, it all works out! Listen in on Karaleigh's beautiful story of hardships, trials, and overcoming and how things really do get better even when they feel like they may be getting worse… who knew that the things we go through were actually the things that we needed. Connect with Karaleigh Garrison on her podcast: Seeking Sunshine All of her amazing stuff is on her website: karaleighgarrison.com
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tea talk with Jane – seen through the layers of your husband
sometimes when our husbands are yelling, it's hard to understand what's going on! But have no fear, Jane and I are about to clear this up for all you ladies! enjoy and you're welcome.
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Make the Child Matter More
i'm so excited for todays special guest! She's brilliant she's wonderful. She's also my mother! My mother has studied for years on education, how are child brains work, and the different ways that each child learns, even though it may look like it disability it's actually a special ability, her passion and love for a child's development and learning is obvious. She has written her own phonics books. And today we are so fortunate to be able to speak with her as she takes us on a journey of why she started doing this in the first place. If you feel at a loss of what to do with your struggling Child or need a better perspective on how to help them excel in their schooling. Then this is the podcast that you've been waiting for!
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How to deal when he's gone with Katelyn Lordan
Does your husband's job require him to be gone long periods of time? Maybe months, maybe weeks, maybe even a year? Then listen up! Katlyn Lorden has great tips on how to cope and also how to deal with children Who might be having a hard time with the different dynamics, when daddy's home and when daddy's away. Also, learn how to dispel the guilt that might come along with having fun while he's gone. How to connect with Katelyn Lorden: Podcast: More Than a Merchant Mariner's Wife Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/more-than-a-merchant-mariners-wife-empowering-women/id1715713434 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5Lng86Y4YqwxMm0yZDyECi My website Use Code Gulls for 20% off site wide. here's a link! https://2gullsandabuoy.com/discount/Gulls Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/twogullsandabuoy/ Facebook: 2 Gulls and a Buoy https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100075732546598 Threads: https://www.threads.net/@twogullsandabuoy
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Leveling up after a poopy moment, part two
we're stepping outside the marriage realm a little bit and talking about how to up level when poopy moments happen in general life.
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Leveling up after a poopy moment, part 1
Crap happens. But this is opportunity for you to make a better choice. Listen up, and find out how you can still make life amazing despite what may happen to you.
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When nothing is expected and everything is appreciated
Happiness is in your hands. Always. Life has 2 cups, sadness and happiness. come along with me and find out who is responsible for filling these cups and how.
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Locking your keys in life's car
life is beautiful, wonderful, and exciting! However, Life can show us some surprises, curveballs, and all kinds of unwanted trials, and drama. But that's OK, it's normal, and technically, it's for our betterment! Listen up for the three things that help us to aspire higher!
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See the Stars
"Two men sat behind bars, one saw mud, the other saw stars." We don't have to buy into the chaos. We can be the calm in storm. We can choose not to let overwhelm and frustration run our day. We have the power to take control....let's get started!
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live relationship question and answer reply.
Live question answer replay. (FYI, I give away my best kept secret of how I keep tension and pettiness and avoid arguments.)
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Compassion
Do you deal with a lot of angry people in your life? or happen to run into that angry person with road rage? Check out this podcast to find the compassion in you. Learn how to look deeper, learn how to look past flawed humans and while doing so gain more peace in your life.
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Find a self esteem FIRST
Don't get surgery for your self-esteem or extensions or any additives to your body. FIRST, get a self esteem and then get these things for fun.
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Hobbies=Happiness
If your feeling down on life-look at your daily activities, do you feel like a robot with no real purpose?….listen to this to discover some amazing keys to having the best life!
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look deeper
Learn to look deeper, past your own pride and hurt feelings and allow understanding to come into your heart.
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Letter to all couples
Do you want a real healthy relationship? Listen to this letter I wrote to all wishing to have a real joyful and lasting relationship.
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i've got no string, I'm nobodies puppet
Cut out the games and drama in your relationships, don't be shaped by others, be true to yourself.
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Freeing yourself from caring what other people think
A starter kit for getting you on the path to emotional freedom! Break free from caring what other people think. Live your life, free of the worry and cares that holds no value in your life.
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Putting the blame back on us
Crap happens! There's no denying that life can hand us some pretty dirty cards. However, that doesn't mean we need to dwell on these things and let them hold us back or use them as excuses. Instead, we should find reasons to become better and do better and use these situations as learning tools. stop making excuses and start living. Your life is always in your hands. Happiness is always a choice.
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we were not born broken - Jane Merkley
Come on a fun health Journey with Jane Merkley….her story is an inspiration to self discovery, common sense and a road to health and wellness that comes down to our choices in life and how gracefully we age. find more on Jane's blog: https://www.jmrobison.com
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How to deal with negative affects others leave with you
Have someone in your life who is more than you can bear some days? And the sad part is they might even be family? Listen to this quick episode for tips on how to shake those negative feelings off and put positive back inside of you!
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
Life hacks, emotional strengthening, relationship wisdom, marriage unchained and random wisdom- Welcome to the B-S Your way through life show, where you can glean and gain what you need. Life is messy, but also amazing and exciting, we don’t have to just endure life, you can enjoy it!
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