Busy Boys Uncensored

Send us Fan MailThis week, we’re getting honest about boundaries and standards. We unpack what quality friendship looks like as adults, the standards we had to learn the hard way, and whether the “small community” narrative has us tolerating more than we should. Are your friends holding you accountable or just hyping you up? And what happens when you finally realize your standards were too low? From learning how to say no, to handling repeated boundary violations, to knowing when it’s time to let a friendship go this episode is about choosing alignment over access, and standards over scarcity. Don't forget to comment, like, and subscribe!

Send us Fan MailUnfiltered. Unapologetic. Necessary.This week on Busy Boys Uncensored, we sit down with Tabytha Gonzalez; a force redefining leadership at the intersection of policy, culture, and community. From securing millions for trans-led organizations to shaping the future of equity in NYC, Tabytha brings truth, strategy, and lived experiences  in our conversation.Featured in the Emmy-nominated and Peabody Award-winning documentary The Stroll and co-host of FQ Crazy Sexy Cool she doesn’t just talk the talk, she shifts the narrative.This isn’t just a conversation! it’s a masterclass in resilience, authenticity, and showing up fully in your power.🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈

Send us Fan MailOrder in the court… or whatever that looks like on Busy Boys Uncensored.Season 5 kicks off with a bang as we enter Busy Boys Court: where pop culture’s messiest, juiciest, and most talked about moments are put on trial. From viral scandals to celebrity chaos, nothing is off limits and everything is up for debate.The boys step into their roles as judge, jury, and very opinionated commentators to break down the allegations, the timelines, and the tea.Are they guilty? Innocent? Or just misunderstood in the court of public opinion?Court is now in session. ⚖️🔥

Send us Fan MailIn this season finale episode, the boys talk about their individual and group goals. Although it has been 4 seasons there is still a lot they want to accomplish. Now that they're approaching their 30's they all feel there is a shift happening and want to make the best of it. Learn from their lessons in their 20's and get inspired from what they're manifesting.

Send us Fan MailThis week, we dive deep into spirituality. We’re joined by the radiant Justin to unpack what it means to be Black, queer, and what having faith looks like to us. From growing up religious to navigating the adulthood and what it looks like for us now. We open up about staying rooted in faith while living boldly in our truth. We ask the questions we’ve all been too afraid to say out loud at one point or another: Have you ever prayed the gay away? Had a dream that felt divine? Felt rejected by the church for who you love? Tune in!

Send us Fan MailHow do we keep love and friendship alive when miles come between us? In this vulnerable and deeply reflective episode, we dive into the emotional terrain of long-distance relationships both romantic and platonic. From guilt trips over missed birthdays to redefining what it means to be a “real” friend or partner when you’re not physically present, this episode asks the hard questions and offers real talk, not just reassurance. Are long-distance friendships sustainable? Can absence really make the heart grow fonder or just more distant?

Send us Fan MailThis week, we’re getting raw, real, and radically joyful. We’re joined by incredible dancer, choreographer, and artist Darius Hickman to explore the complex intersections of mental health and queer Black identity. From navigating therapy and managing finances to finding moments of joy in the chaos — nothing is off-limits. We open up about the power of community, the weight of rejection, and how Black queer folks can prioritize their peace while chasing purpose.

Send us Fan MailIn this episode, we spill all the tea on our most unforgettable travel moments — the good, the bad, and the downright messy. From missed flights and shady hotels to the most mouthwatering meals we’ve ever had, it’s a whirlwind ride through our best and worst travel experiences. Whether you’re a seasoned traveler or a carry-on-only kind of girl, this episode will have you laughing, gasping, and planning your next adventure with your friends.

Send us Fan MailIn this episode, we take a joyful (and sometimes shady) stroll down memory lane as we reflect on family game nights growing up. Were you a board game champ, the sore loser, or the one who always quit halfway through? From solo computer missions to chaotic living room showdowns, we talk about how games shaped our childhood and maybe even our friendships. We then play the We're Not Really Strangers: Friend Edition and Amusing Edition card games. Laughs, memories, and a few surprisingly deep moments. This episode is all about connection, nostalgia, and the games that brought us together.

Send us Fan MailNew York is a city full of ambition, but sometimes that ambition shows up in all the wrong ways. In this episode, with our special guest KhiAri, we’re talking about the fake, the phony, and the social climbers—those people who are always “on” but never real. We dive into what it’s like to deal with rude energy at events, flaky friendships, and the performative behavior that’s way too common in the city.

Send us Fan MailThis week, we get into a deep dive the rollercoaster that is our twenties. From proud wins to full-on “what the hell is this?” moments, we’re unpacking everything they didn’t tell us about adulting. We’re talking unrealistic childhood expectations, the pressure to have it all figured out, and how some of y’all are raising babies while we’re still raising our credit scores. Tap in—we got real and reflective. 

Send us Fan MailIn this episode we have a very special guest, Bashel The Zillennial! We break down the evolution of iconography and the stars who define it today. From Beyoncé and RuPaul to Lil Nas X and beyond, we explore how these figures influence LGBTQ+ culture—and how the community, in turn, shapes them. Are the same legends still holding their crowns, or is a new wave of icons taking over? Tune in as we discuss the power, politics, and pop culture of gay icon status in today’s world!

Send us Fan MailIn this episode, we’re diving deep into the challenges, struggles, and internal conflicts within the Black gay community. From issues of masculinity and femininity to colorism, classism, and the lack of unity, we’re unpacking the tough conversations people like to avoid. Is there a way to heal and build a stronger, more supportive community?

Send us Fan MailOn the final episode of the season the boys step outside of their comfort zone and try an ASMR/ Mukbang style video. They converse over lunch their favorite foods, and tell stories connected to family and travel. We hope you enjoy this episode, and we will be back before you know it!

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of our podcast, we dive into the world of music and entertainment in 2024. Join the conversation as we discuss the best new artists to us making creating their own lanes, standout music videos, and explore the latest Grammy’s submissions. We’ll also share our thoughts on trends shaping the music industry this year. Whether you’re a casual listener or a die-hard fan, this episode promises insights and lively discussions that celebrate the evolving landscape of music. Tune in for an engaging conversation!

Send us Fan MailIn this episode we have a very special guest, adult entertainer Boe Jack Ryan! We dive deep into the intricate world of the adult film industry, exploring the fascinating dynamics that shape it. With a focus on authenticity and respect, we want to destigmatize the adult film industry, showcasing the passion and professionalism of those who work within it.

Send us Fan MailIn this episode the boys and the raffle winner from their panel, Jordan Medley, have an in-depth discussion about their journeys in the arts. They explore how identity shapes their work, the challenges of navigating racism and homophobia, and the transition from passion to production. 

Send us Fan Mail🎉 Surprise! A special episode drops today celebrating the 5th anniversary of DickAppointment—one of the most iconic parties showcasing the vibrant intersection of POC culture and Queerness. Get ready to dive deep into the magic that has made this event a beloved staple in our community!

Send us Fan MailOn this episode the boys and their very special guest, Ron Bellamy, have a juicy conversation all about hookups. They talk about their first, sex parties, and much more! Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe.

Send us Fan MailWe all could use some self reflection from time to time, on this episode the boys face themselves with some hard truths about themselves and each other as a group. It’s important to be real with yourself and people around you all for the purpose of becoming better people.

Send us Fan MailOn this episode the boys talk about Friends vs Frenemies. The challenges faced when having to confront situations where friends may not like someone you are around and dig into personal experiences as well.

Send us Fan MailWith our first ever panel we aimed to explore the experiences, challenges, and triumphs of these amazing Black individuals within the LGBTQIA community who are working in the arts. We hope to shed light on the diverse narratives and talents within this intersection, as well as discuss the importance of representation and inclusion within artistic spaces. We believe that their unique insights and experiences would greatly contribute to the richness and depth of our discussion.Please check out the artists page on Instagram!Panel 1: @bcimanartist @unclevonte @antzinyopantsPanel 2: @diamonnnnnd @marlonturner_ @kadarsmall

Send us Fan MailIn this episode the busy boys are joined by journalist, producer and media strategist Gary Pace (@garytylaa). Together they discuss the current state of media and what they’d like to see covered more in the news. From gossip outlets to blogs to magazines this is an episode you won’t want to miss.

Send us Fan MailOn this episode the boys discuss a very sensitive topic: violence in the LGBTQIA+ community. They dive into warning signs to look out for, how to support a friend going through a violent situation and the different types of domestic violence. This episode may contain triggering content. Remember to like, comment and subscribe. Thanks for tuning in!Resources:www.pflag.orgthehotline.orgasfsp.orgNational Domestic Violence Hotline 800-799-7233

Send us Fan MailOn this episode the boys get into the mean gay stereotype as well as main character syndrome, where they think it comes from and have they fed into that stereotype at some point in their lives. We encourage everyone to be kind to one another because you never know what someone is going through. 

Send us Fan MailOn this episode the boys see how well they all know each other in a fun game of trivia, accompanied by their typical banter. Enjoy the final episode of season 2!

Send us Fan MailIn this episode we have the incredible Ty Hunter join us for a conversation regarding all things fashion, our do's and don'ts, and Ty speaks on his experiences with Beyoncé, Destiny’s Child and more.

Send us Fan MailOn this episode we have a very special guest, Jae Gurly. Jae joins we discuss gender identity, roles, and expression. We hope you resonate with some of the topics discussed and realize that gender is a complex subject. 

Send us Fan MailThey boys have a special guest, Nico's Aesthetics, joining the conversation. The group discusses learning about sex, sex ed in school, and their early experiences. 

Send us Fan MailOn this episode the boys recap the year 2023 with each other. They discuss highlights, low moments, and things they all learned about one another. This one is personal and emotional, enjoy!

Send us Fan MailOn this episode the boys take it back to their early days in nightlife and how they were all introduced to it. This segways to their best and worst nights out and you don't want to miss the crazy stories. Get to know a little bit more about all of them from this fun episode. Socials, Question Submissions, & Playlists:

Send us Fan MailBussy Boys are back! In this episode we take an even deeper dive into some of our most intense sexual fantasies, kinks, and stories. Enjoy this wild ride!

Send us Fan MailOn this episode the boys get very personal and share their most unhinged moments. On top of those wild stories, they spill the tea on their most unpopular opinions. 

Send us Fan MailOn this episode the boys have a special guest, licensed therapist and influencer Shahem (@5hahem), to join their conversation surrounding colorism. They talk about their personal experiences, how colorism effects the masses, and what we can do to make a change.

Send us Fan MailWelcome to season 2! In this episode the boys are catching up on their summers and what they did off camera. They also spill on what's unfortunate about guys being romantically interested in them all. Like, comment, and subscribe!

Send us Fan MailThe final episode of season 1 consists of us discussing how we are growing, individually and together, and what we've learned on this journey. We want to thank every listener and viewer! We appreciate y’all! Stay tuned for season 2!

Send us Fan MailIn this episode you will see the busy boys talking about their dating lives in and out of New York City, tune in. You may find some valuable pointers and advice.

Send us Fan MailIn this episode the boys dive into the topic of social media and share stories on how it plays a part in their lives currently, and in the past. They get into dating on social media, kids using it, and much more.

Send us Fan MailOn this episode the Busy Boys have a serious conversation about their mental health and how they prioritize it. They get into stories of dark times and how they overcame, as well as what keeps them sane and happy. This conversation gets deep, and we do want to provide a trigger warning here as well in the video for anyone who may not be ready to hear about self-harm. Suicide and Crisis Lifeline - 988The Samaritans NYC Crisis Hotline - 212.673.3000you can also text HOME to 741741 for 24/7 free crisis counseling We love you all!

Send us Fan MailOn this episode the Busy Boys talk about dating, healthy relationships in our family, red flags, and more.

Send us Fan MailIn this episode you will experience the Busy Boys in rare form as they discuss their favorite artists and all that comes with being moved by music.

Send us Fan MailOn this episode we dive into some gay politics with the talented Kidd Kenn joining the discussion. We discuss fatphobia, femininity, and more.

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Send us Fan MailIn this episode you will get to know the boys more as they take a deep dive into their sexual escapades and desires.

Send us Fan MailIn this episode we discuss the beginning of our bond and friendship, then jump into some hot questions!