BUT FIRST, SHE FAILED - Career Growth, Women Entrepreneurs, Overcoming Imposter Syndrome, Growth Mindset, Confidence

In this episode of But First, She Failed, host Paola Soares talks with women's coach, podcaster, and feminine leadership mentor Johanna Mäkilä-Manninen for an honest conversation around feminism vs femininity, feminine leadership, and what it truly means to embrace womanhood in today's world. Together, they explore why so many high-achieving women feel burned out, disconnected, and stuck in constant hustle mode—and how reconnecting with femininity can transform the way women show up in motherhood, marriage, leadership, business, and everyday life. Johanna shares how ambitious, faith-led women can soften out of overthinking, perfectionism, good girl conditioning, and performance-based living… and step into a more confident, radiant, and aligned expression of feminine power. In this episode, listeners will discover: ✨ The difference between feminism and femininity ✨ What feminine leadership really looks like in modern womanhood ✨ Why high-achieving women often feel disconnected from their feminine energy ✨ How femininity impacts motherhood, marriage, emotional wellness, and leadership ✨ The psychological, emotional, and health benefits of leading from feminine energy ✨ How to build, nurture, and lead without losing yourself in the process This episode is for mothers, wives, entrepreneurs, and women who are ready to lead with both strength and softness.     ✨ Ready to take the next step? Paola is hosting a free live experience on May 6th: BFSF Spring Dream Community Call This is not just another training—this is a space for women who are ready to: Get clear on what they actually want Break the cycle of inconsistency Take aligned, confident action Connect with like-minded faith forward women who truly get it If you've been feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure of your next move—this is your invitation. Sign up below! 👉 Save your spot here: https://us06web.zoom.us/meeting/register/1Frbt1SOQZ6DSA2KHdwBBw     🎧 If this episode resonated: Be sure to follow, rate, and review the podcast to help more women find this message.       ✨ Ready to finally take action on the dream God has placed on your heart? Join Paola for the Spring BFSF Dream Community Call—a free live experience designed to help women get unstuck, gain clarity, and start showing up consistently. On this call, she'll walk through the 5 key shifts needed to move forward with confidence, and open up space for: Live coaching, encouragement, and feedback on the dream or project you're stepping into Connection with like-minded women who are also choosing to step out in this season A behind-the-scenes look at the Purpose Co. Accountability Community and the transformation happening inside The opportunity to share what support you need most right now 🗓 May 6th at 12PM EST 🎟 Free 1-hour Zoom call 👉 Save your spot here: https://us06web.zoom.us/meeting/register/1Frbt1SOQZ6DSA2KHdwBBw 💻 Let's Connect:   Connect with Johanna/ Listen to her podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-vibrant-flow-podcast-faith-fueled-confidence/id1562582164    Jo's free starters for feminine flow ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Win The Day Audio Morning Activation⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Guided Embodiment Activations⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠5-Day Softness Reset Challenge⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ The Vibrant Flow on IG ⁠Jo's free coaching consultation⁠ 📲 Instagram: @butfirstshefailed 🌐 Website: Paolasoares.com▶️ Follow on YouTube: Watch Here 📩 6 Ways to Know You're Walking In Your Calling (Free Resource) Get the Overcome Failure Framework Resource Here   Join the Email list and become a BFSF Insider Get Behind the Scenes Access and be the first to know about upcoming events and giveaways! Join here  

There's a quiet crisis happening right now—and most women think it's just them. Women who followed the "right" path… built the career… started the business… and still feel stuck, inconsistent, or unfulfilled. In this episode, Paola Soares, host of the But First, She Failed podcast, unpacks what's really behind the Great Millennial Career Crisis—and why so many women feel lost even after doing everything "right." This conversation goes beyond surface-level advice and dives into the deeper truth behind: Feeling stuck in your career or business Starting and stopping your dream over and over again Lacking clarity, confidence, or consistency Outgrowing your current path but not knowing what's next Whether you haven't started yet—or you've already taken the leap but feel like you're not showing up the way you want to—this episode will help you understand what's actually going on beneath the surface. More importantly, it will challenge you to see this season differently. Because what feels like confusion… might actually be direction.     ✨ Ready to take the next step? Paola is hosting a free live experience on May 6th: BFSF Spring Dream Community Call This is not just another training—this is a space for women who are ready to: Get clear on what they actually want Break the cycle of inconsistency Take aligned, confident action Connect with like-minded faith forward women who truly get it If you've been feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure of your next move—this is your invitation. Sign up below! 👉 Save your spot here: https://us06web.zoom.us/meeting/register/1Frbt1SOQZ6DSA2KHdwBBw     🎧 If this episode resonated: Be sure to follow, rate, and review the podcast to help more women find this message.       ✨ Ready to finally take action on the dream God has placed on your heart? Join Paola for the Spring BFSF Dream Community Call—a free live experience designed to help women get unstuck, gain clarity, and start showing up consistently. On this call, she'll walk through the 5 key shifts needed to move forward with confidence, and open up space for: Live coaching, encouragement, and feedback on the dream or project you're stepping into Connection with like-minded women who are also choosing to step out in this season A behind-the-scenes look at the Purpose Co. Accountability Community and the transformation happening inside The opportunity to share what support you need most right now 🗓 May 6th at 12PM EST 🎟 Free 1-hour Zoom call 👉 Save your spot here: https://us06web.zoom.us/meeting/register/1Frbt1SOQZ6DSA2KHdwBBw 💻 Let's Connect: 📲 Instagram: @butfirstshefailed 🌐 Website: Paolasoares.com▶️ Follow on YouTube: Watch Here 📩 6 Ways to Know You're Walking In Your Calling (Free Resource) Get the Overcome Failure Framework Resource Here   Join the Email list and become a BFSF Insider Get Behind the Scenes Access and be the first to know about upcoming events and giveaways! Join here

What happens when you slowly start becoming the version of yourself you never wanted to be? In this deeply personal episode, Paola Soares shares a story she doesn't often talk about—the season where she felt stuck, disconnected from her purpose, and dangerously close to giving up on her dreams altogether. Between leaving her career in national news and launching her podcast, there was a chapter filled with uncertainty, unfulfilling jobs, and a quiet but heavy question: "Is this really it?" This episode walks through the internal battle of starting and stopping, losing momentum, and almost accepting a life that felt out of alignment. But it also reveals the pivotal moment when someone stepped in, believed in her, and refused to let her stay stuck. Because sometimes the breakthrough doesn't come from doing more—it comes from someone reaching out their hand when you've stopped reaching for your own future. This is a story about identity, self-belief, and the power of not doing it alone. If you've been feeling inconsistent, discouraged, or afraid you might become the woman who gives up on her dream… this episode will meet you right where you are.     In this episode: The season where everything felt uncertain and off-track The pattern of starting and stopping (and why it's so hard to break) The moment that changed everything—and why it mattered more than you think What actually shifts when you stop trying to do it all on your own The identity shift that leads to real momentum         ✨ Ready to finally take action on the dream God has placed on your heart? Join Paola for the Spring BFSF Dream Community Call—a free live experience designed to help women get unstuck, gain clarity, and start showing up consistently. On this call, she'll walk through the 5 key shifts needed to move forward with confidence, and open up space for: Live coaching, encouragement, and feedback on the dream or project you're stepping into Connection with like-minded women who are also choosing to step out in this season A behind-the-scenes look at the Purpose Co. Accountability Community and the transformation happening inside The opportunity to share what support you need most right now 🗓 May 6th at 12PM EST 🎟 Free 1-hour Zoom call 👉 Save your spot here: https://us06web.zoom.us/meeting/register/1Frbt1SOQZ6DSA2KHdwBBw 💻 Let's Connect: 📲 Instagram: @butfirstshefailed 🌐 Website: Paolasoares.com▶️ Follow on YouTube: Watch Here 📩 6 Ways to Know You're Walking In Your Calling (Free Resource) Get the Overcome Failure Framework Resource Here   Join the Email list and become a BFSF Insider Get Behind the Scenes Access and be the first to know about upcoming events and giveaways! Join here  

What if the biggest thing holding you back isn't your strategy, your circumstances, or your resources—but the beliefs you've been carrying for years? In this Rewind episode of But First, She Failed, Paola Soares dives into the powerful and often hidden topic of limiting beliefs—the subconscious thoughts and narratives that shape how women show up in their careers, businesses, and everyday lives. These beliefs are often formed early on and reinforced over time, quietly influencing decisions, confidence, and the willingness to take action. The challenge? Most people don't even realize they're operating from them. This episode unpacks what limiting beliefs are, where they come from, and how they can manifest in subtle but impactful ways—from fear of failure and fear of success to feelings of not being good enough, not qualified enough, or not worthy of more. Paola also walks through 7 of the most common limiting beliefs that may be keeping women stuck, playing small, or second-guessing their next step—whether in their career, business, or pursuit of a bigger purpose. For anyone feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure why progress feels harder than it should, this conversation offers clarity, awareness, and the first step toward breaking free. Because the truth is—what feels like reality may actually be a belief that can be changed. ✨ Ready to finally take action on the dream God has placed on your heart? Join Paola for the Spring BFSF Dream Community Call—a free live experience designed to help women get unstuck, gain clarity, and start showing up consistently. On this call, she'll walk through the 5 key shifts needed to move forward with confidence, and open up space for: Live coaching, encouragement, and feedback on the dream or project you're stepping into Connection with like-minded women who are also choosing to step out in this season A behind-the-scenes look at the Purpose Co. Accountability Community and the transformation happening inside The opportunity to share what support you need most right now 🗓 May 6th at 12PM EST 🎟 Free 1-hour Zoom call 👉 Save your spot here: https://us06web.zoom.us/meeting/register/1Frbt1SOQZ6DSA2KHdwBBw   💻 Let's Connect: 📲 Instagram: @butfirstshefailed 🌐 Website: Paolasoares.com▶️ Follow on YouTube: Watch Here 📩 6 Ways to Know You're Walking In Your Calling (Free Resource) Get the Overcome Failure Framework Resource Here Join the Email list and become a BFSF Insider Get Behind the Scenes Access and be the first to know about upcoming events and giveaways! Join here  

Feeling scattered, distracted, or stuck—and not sure what to focus on next? In this episode of But First, She Failed, Paola Soares shares a powerful Q2 reset with 5 simple steps to help women get clear, realign their priorities, and build real momentum—without overcomplicating the process. This episode walks through how to slow down, refocus, cut distractions, and simplify what actually matters in this season—so progress finally starts to feel aligned again. Whether navigating a transition, building something new, or trying to get back on track after feeling inconsistent, this conversation offers both clarity and direction. Inside this episode: A simple 5-step reset to refocus for Q2 How to get clear on what actually matters right now What's been quietly pulling focus and slowing momentum How to simplify goals and take aligned action This episode also offers a glimpse into the Purpose Co. Accountability Community—a space designed for women who are ready to stop doing life and business alone and start moving forward with clarity, accountability, and support. ✨ Ready to stop doing this alone? Join Paola for the But First, She Failed Community Call on May 6th at 12PM EST—a free live experience where she'll teach on the power of accountability, community, and how to finally move forward in your calling with clarity and support. You'll also have the opportunity to receive live coaching and connect with like-minded women pursuing their God-given purpose. 🔗 Save your spot below: https://us06web.zoom.us/meeting/register/1Frbt1SOQZ6DSA2KHdwBBw — 🎧 If this episode spoke to you, be sure to follow the podcast and leave a review—it helps more women step into their purpose and hear messages like this. Thank you for being part of this community. 💻 Let's Connect: 📲 Instagram: @butfirstshefailed 🌐 Website: Paolasoares.com▶️ Follow on YouTube: Watch Here 📩 6 Ways to Know You're Walking In Your Calling (Free Resource) 133. Why You Need To Develop This 1 Thing To Be Successful Get the Overcome Failure Framework Resource Here  

In this episode, Host Paola Soares sits down with former Today Show producer, storyteller, and founder of MyStoryPro AI, Patrice Poltzer, for a powerful and timely conversation on how to stand out in the age of AI—without losing your voice. As artificial intelligence continues to flood social media, email, and online platforms with content, many women are feeling more invisible than ever. The question isn't just how to use AI—it's how to rise above it. Patrice brings a unique perspective, blending her background in national television with her expertise in storytelling and emerging technology, to reveal why personal story is quickly becoming one of the most valuable assets in business, branding, and leadership today. Because while AI can generate content… it cannot replicate lived experience, conviction, or calling. In this conversation, Paola and Patrice unpack what it really takes to stand out in a world where everyone has access to the same tools—and why the women who learn to own their voice will be the ones who rise. Inside this episode: Why storytelling is becoming a premium skill in the age of AI How to use AI as a tool—without sounding like everyone else Why your personal story is your greatest competitive advantage The behind-the-scenes reality of building a business, raising a family, and stepping into visibility How vulnerability can actually become your superpower (not your weakness) Patrice also shares her journey from the Today Show to building an AI-powered platform, the unexpected failures that shaped her path, and the bold pivot that changed everything. If you've been questioning how to show up, how to stand out, or how to use AI without losing who you are—this episode will remind you that your story is not the thing holding you back… it's the thing that will set you apart. — ✨ Ready to stop doing this alone? Join Paola for the But First, She Failed Community Call on May 6th at 12PM EST—a free live experience where she'll teach on the power of accountability, community, and how to finally move forward in your calling with clarity and support. You'll also have the opportunity to receive live coaching and connect with like-minded women pursuing their God-given purpose. 🔗 Save your spot below: https://us06web.zoom.us/meeting/register/1Frbt1SOQZ6DSA2KHdwBBw — 🎧 If this episode spoke to you, be sure to follow the podcast and leave a review—it helps more women step into their purpose and hear messages like this. Connect with Patrice:  Join her newsletter: https://patricepoltzercreative.com/newsletter My Story Pro AI: https://mystorypro.ai

In this episode, Host Paola Soares delivers a powerful and timely message for the woman who feels stuck, discouraged, or on the verge of giving up on what God placed on her heart. After planning a completely different episode, Paola felt led in a different direction—sharing a word rooted in scripture, personal experience, and a recent moment where things didn't go as expected. In this honest and faith-filled conversation, she opens up about a recent setback in her own journey and the deeper lesson it revealed—one that speaks directly to seasons where nothing seems to be working despite effort, consistency, and intention. This episode speaks to the woman navigating: A season of confusion or lack of clarity around her calling Discouragement in her business, career, or God-given dream The tension between trusting God and wanting control The fear that she may have missed it or gotten it wrong Through scripture, reflection, and real-time insight, Paola shares a perspective shift that reframes what it means when things aren't unfolding the way they were expected. This is more than encouragement—it's a reminder of what remains true, even in uncertain seasons.   💛 ✨ You're Not Meant To Do This Alone — Join Paola Live If you've been feeling stuck, overthinking your next step, or trying to figure out your calling, business, or that God-given dream on your own… this is your space. Join Paola and a room of like-minded women for a free live Accountability & Community Call where you'll receive real support, encouragement, and the opportunity to get coached live. She'll share a powerful shift that changed everything in her own journey—then open it up for live coaching and conversation. ✨ Come share what's on your heart ✨ Get guidance and clarity on your next step ✨ Be surrounded by women who are also ready to move forward 🗓 Wednesday, May 6th at 12PM EST 🔗 Save your spot here: ✅ Register Here https://us06web.zoom.us/meeting/register/1Frbt1SOQZ6DSA2KHdwBBw#/registration You don't have to do this alone 🤍   Follow on Instagram: @ButFirstSheFailed Or join the email list here: https://sincere-wildflower-98577.myflodesk.com/hxh7gitt2i  And if this podcast has encouraged you Thank you for being part of this community. 💻 Let's Connect: 📲 Instagram: @butfirstshefailed 🌐 Website: Paolasoares.com▶️ Follow on YouTube: Watch Here 📩 6 Ways to Know You're Walking In Your Calling (Free Resource) 133. Why You Need To Develop This 1 Thing To Be Successful Get the Overcome Failure Framework Resource Here  

Five years ago, Paola Soares pressed record on the very first episode of the But First, She Failed Podcast — not knowing who would listen, where the journey would lead, or how much she would grow along the way. In this episode, Paola pulls back the curtain on the real behind-the-scenes of five years of podcasting — the lessons, the mindset struggles, the moments of doubt, and the breakthroughs that only came through persistence and faith. For anyone who has ever started something meaningful — a business, a calling, or a dream — and questioned whether to keep going, this conversation offers an honest look at what it really takes to continue showing up when the path forward isn't always clear. In this reflection, Paola shares what five years behind the microphone has taught her about perseverance, mindset, faith, and why pursuing purpose-driven work is never meant to be done alone. If you have been feeling stuck, uncertain about your next step, or simply ready to realign your vision for the season ahead— you are invited to join the upcoming Vision Reset Experience, a live guided coaching and reflection session designed to help participants pause, reset their vision, and gain clarity for what's next. Register for the Vision Reset Experience here: https://us06web.zoom.us/meeting/register/1Frbt1SOQZ6DSA2KHdwBBw   This episode is also part of the podcast's 5-year anniversary celebration week, where several gifts are being given away, including podcast coaching, a free month inside the Purpose Co. Accountability Community, a beautiful prayer journal, and VIP hot seat coaching during one of the upcoming live community sessions.  TO ENTER the giveaway: Either register for the vision reset experience or leave us an Apple review! You get one entry for each!  To stay updated on the giveaways happening throughout the week: Follow on Instagram: @ButFirstSheFailed Or join the email list here: https://sincere-wildflower-98577.myflodesk.com/hxh7gitt2i And if this podcast has encouraged you Thank you for being part of this community. 💻 Let's Connect: 📲 Instagram: @butfirstshefailed 🌐 Website: Paolasoares.com▶️ Follow on YouTube: Watch Here 📩 6 Ways to Know You're Walking In Your Calling (Free Resource) 133. Why You Need To Develop This 1 Thing To Be Successful Get the Overcome Failure Framework Resource Here

In this episode, Host Paola Soares sits down with author and Purpose Alignment Coach Nicole O. Salmon to unpack a surprising reason many women struggle to "find their purpose": quiet grief—the losses we move past but never truly mourn. If you've been praying for clarity but still feel stuck, disoriented, or emotionally drained, this conversation will help you name what's really going on and take a healthy next step forward. Inside this episode, we talk about: How unprocessed grief can clog discernment and distort self-perception Identity shifts that happen as you evolve (not because you failed) Adult friendships that fade—and how to navigate relational grief with wisdom Why purpose isn't a destination, but a lifestyle you live from Simple ways to move from overthinking into aligned action Nicole is a partner on the YouVersion Bible App and the author of Courage and Confidence: A Bold Guide to Unboxing Who You Were Created to Be. If you feel called but confused, this episode will give you language, encouragement, and a clearer path forward.   Connect with Chelsi Jo: Instagram:Let's Connect: @nicoleosalmon Nicoleosalmon.com JOIN THE NEXT FREE COMMUNITY CALL: Feeling stuck, unclear, or craving accountability as you move forward in this season? Our free Purpose Co. Accountability Community calls are designed to help you pause, reflect, and take meaningful next steps—together. Join the waitlist to be the first to know about our next free call happening in March, where you'll experience the heart of the community: clarity, encouragement, and real accountability alongside like-minded women. 👉 Join the waitlist and be the first invited : Sign Up HERE   💻 Let's Connect: 📲 Instagram: @butfirstshefailed 🌐 Website: Paolasoares.com▶️ Follow on YouTube: Watch Here 📩 6 Ways to Know You're Walking In Your Calling (Free Resource) 133. Why You Need To Develop This 1 Thing To Be Successful Get the Overcome Failure Framework Resource Here

In this REWIND episode of But First, She Failed, Host Paola Soares revisits one of the most practical and powerful conversations on building a life that actually works for you — not against you. If you feel overwhelmed, behind, scattered, or like your home life constantly spills into your business goals… this episode is for you. Paola sits down with Chelsi Jo Moore, host of Systemize Your Life, a top-ranked podcast with over 2 million downloads and 350+ episodes. Chelsi Jo is known for helping women — especially entrepreneurs and work-from-home moms — create simple, sustainable systems that reduce chaos and increase clarity. In this conversation, we explore: What it really means to systemize your life (and why it's not as rigid as it sounds) How time management systems create more freedom — not less The connection between home organization and business productivity Common mistakes female entrepreneurs make when trying to "do it all" How to move from reactive living to intentional structure This episode is especially relevant if: You're building a business while managing a home You constantly feel like you're playing catch-up You want more peace, consistency, and follow-through You know you're called to more but your schedule feels chaotic Systems aren't about perfection — they're about support. And as you grow in your calling and leadership, structure becomes the thing that sustains the vision. Connect with Chelsi Jo: Instagram:Let's Connect: @chelsijo Free Quiz: https://chelsijo.co/system JOIN THE NEXT FREE COMMUNITY CALL: Feeling stuck, unclear, or craving accountability as you move forward in this season? Our free Purpose Co. Accountability Community calls are designed to help you pause, reflect, and take meaningful next steps—together. Join the waitlist to be the first to know about our next free call happening in March, where you'll experience the heart of the community: clarity, encouragement, and real accountability alongside like-minded women. 👉 Join the waitlist and be the first invited : Sign Up HERE   💻 Let's Connect: 📲 Instagram: @butfirstshefailed 🌐 Website: Paolasoares.com▶️ Follow on YouTube: Watch Here 📩 6 Ways to Know You're Walking In Your Calling (Free Resource) 133. Why You Need To Develop This 1 Thing To Be Successful Get the Overcome Failure Framework Resource Here

In this episode of the But First, She Failed podcast, host Paola Soares dives into a powerful shift that can take you from feeling scattered, exhausted, and overwhelmed… to clear, focused, and energized. If you've been feeling burned out, mentally drained, or frustrated that you're not making progress on your goals, this episode will challenge the way you think about productivity and time management. What if the real problem isn't that you don't have enough time — but that your energy is scattered? After attending a recent Tony Robbins event, Paola began exploring the idea that we are not living in a time shortage — we're living in an energy crisis. Burnout doesn't always come from doing too much. Often, it comes from emotional and mental energy leaks like comparison, overthinking, misalignment, and operating in "push mode" instead of purpose-driven pull. In this episode, you'll learn: Why you can sleep 8 hours and still feel exhausted The difference between push energy and pull energy How hidden energy leaks quietly drain your focus and motivation A 4-step practical reset to help you reclaim your clarity and momentum How to move from reacting to creating in your life and calling If you're tired of feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or constantly behind, this conversation will help you identify what's draining you and show you how to redirect your energy toward what truly matters. Because energy isn't something you find — it's something you direct. JOIN THE NEXT FREE COMMUNITY CALL: Feeling stuck, unclear, or craving accountability as you move forward in this season? Our free Purpose Co. Accountability Community calls are designed to help you pause, reflect, and take meaningful next steps—together. Join the waitlist to be the first to know about our next free call happening in March, where you'll experience the heart of the community: clarity, encouragement, and real accountability alongside like-minded women. 👉 Join the waitlist and be the first invited : Sign Up HERE 💻 Let's Connect: 📲 Instagram: @butfirstshefailed 🌐 Website: Paolasoares.com▶️ Follow on YouTube: Watch Here 📩 6 Ways to Know You're Walking In Your Calling (Free Resource) 133. Why You Need To Develop This 1 Thing To Be Successful Get the Overcome Failure Framework Resource Here  

In this episode, Host Paola Soares speaks with a pioneer and leader in the overcoming in this rewind episode, Host Paola Soares revisits a powerful and timeless conversation on how to permanently overcome limiting beliefs with renowned belief expert Shelly Lefkoe. Shelly Lefkoe is a pioneer in the field of belief elimination and the co-founder and President of the Lefkoe Institute. Her science-based method has helped over 200,000 people across more than 120 countries experience lasting change by identifying and eliminating the root cause of limiting beliefs—rather than simply learning how to cope with them. Unlike traditional mindset or personal development tools that focus on managing thoughts, the Lefkoe Method is designed to address why limiting beliefs form in the first place and why they continue to show up in our lives, even when we're highly motivated or self-aware. In this conversation, Paola and Shelly explore: Why limiting beliefs feel so real—and so hard to shake How beliefs are formed early in life and carried into adulthood Why willpower, affirmations, and mindset shifts often aren't enough What it actually takes to create lasting inner freedom Shelly's work has been endorsed by some of the most respected voices in personal development, including Jack Canfield, Janet Attwood, Dr. Joe Vitale, Lisa Nichols, and more. Connect with Shelly: Instagram: @shellylefkoe  Natural Confidence link   Feeling stuck, unclear, or craving accountability as you move forward in this season? Our free Purpose Co. Accountability Community calls are designed to help you pause, reflect, and take meaningful next steps—together. Join the waitlist to be the first to know about our next free call happening in March, where you'll experience the heart of the community: clarity, encouragement, and real accountability alongside like-minded women. 👉 Join the waitlist and be the first invited : Sign Up HERE   💻 Let's Connect: 📲 Instagram: @butfirstshefailed 🌐 Website: Paolasoares.com▶️ Follow on YouTube: Watch Here 📩 6 Ways to Know You're Walking In Your Calling (Free Resource) 133. Why You Need To Develop This 1 Thing To Be Successful Get the Overcome Failure Framework Resource Here  

In this episode, host Paola Soares explores why so many goals and dreams quietly stall—not because of a lack of motivation, but because of unseen roadblocks most people aren't prepared for. If you've ever started the year feeling hopeful only to feel stuck, overwhelmed, or discouraged weeks later, this conversation will feel deeply familiar. Paola reflects on what truly gets in the way of follow-through and why clarity, encouragement, and accountability play a much bigger role in personal growth than willpower alone. She invites listeners to slow down, ask better questions, and consider what support might look like in this next season. This episode also shares details about an upcoming guided reflection experience for listeners who feel drawn to pause, get clear, and approach the new year with greater intention and community.   💻 Let's Connect: 📲 Instagram: @butfirstshefailed 🌐 Website: Paolasoares.com▶️ Follow on YouTube: Watch Here 📩 6 Ways to Know You're Walking In Your Calling (Free Resource) 133. Why You Need To Develop This 1 Thing To Be Successful Get the Overcome Failure Framework Resource Here      

In this episode, host Paola Soares explores why so many goals and dreams quietly stall—not because of a lack of motivation, but because of unseen roadblocks most people aren't prepared for. If you've ever started the year feeling hopeful only to feel stuck, overwhelmed, or discouraged weeks later, this conversation will feel deeply familiar. Paola reflects on what truly gets in the way of follow-through and why clarity, encouragement, and accountability play a much bigger role in personal growth than willpower alone. She invites listeners to slow down, ask better questions, and consider what support might look like in this next season. This episode also shares details about an upcoming guided reflection experience for listeners who feel drawn to pause, get clear, and approach the new year with greater intention and community. ✨ Join the January Dream Call & OFFICIAL LAUNCH OF the Purpose Co. Accountability Community  By Popular demand– Paola is hosting another dream call—  A reflective Dream Call designed to help you envision what 2026 could look like. During this live call, you'll explore guided journal prompts to: 📝 Clarify your goals and desires for 2026 📝 Identify the projects, ideas & dreams you feel called to 📝 Hear God more clearly in your next season 📝 Release what's no longer serving you 📝 Step into the new year with deeper peace and intention On this free Dream Call you will also learn more about The Purpose Co. Accountability Community that is officially launching after this call! This is the last free call before the January launch of The Purpose Co. Accountability Community.   ✅ Register here   💻 Let's Connect: 📲 Instagram: @butfirstshefailed 🌐 Website: Paolasoares.com▶️ Follow on YouTube: Watch Here 📩 6 Ways to Know You're Walking In Your Calling (Free Resource) 133. Why You Need To Develop This 1 Thing To Be Successful   Missed the Call? Join our waitlist below and be the first to know next time we do a free event for the Purpose Co. Accountability Community!  https://sincere-wildflower-98577.myflodesk.com/y8xj68jeuk    

In this rewind episode, host Paola Soares continues the powerful conversation around limiting beliefs and how they quietly hold us back in our career, business, confidence, and personal growth. If you've ever felt stuck, doubted yourself, or questioned whether you're capable of more, this episode is for you. Paola breaks down five key steps for overcoming limiting beliefs, explores how these mental barriers form, and discusses the ways they show up in everyday decisions, opportunities, and self-talk. This episode is designed to help you recognize the beliefs that may be keeping you small — and begin shifting your mindset so you can move forward with clarity and confidence. Whether you're navigating a season of transition, growth, or self-discovery, this conversation will help you reflect on what might be holding you back and why addressing limiting beliefs is essential for long-term success. ✨ This is a must-listen if you're ready to challenge old thought patterns and step into your next level of growth.   ✨ Join the January Dream Call & OFFICIAL LAUNCH OF the Purpose Co. Accountability Community  By Popular demand– Paola is hosting another dream call—  A reflective Dream Call designed to help you envision what 2026 could look like. During this live call, you'll explore guided journal prompts to: 📝 Clarify your goals and desires for 2026 📝 Identify the projects, ideas & dreams you feel called to 📝 Hear God more clearly in your next season 📝 Release what's no longer serving you 📝 Step into the new year with deeper peace and intention On this free Dream Call you will also learn more about The Purpose Co. Accountability Community that is officially launching after this call! ✅ Register here   💻 Let's Connect: 📲 Instagram: @butfirstshefailed 🌐 Website: Paolasoares.com▶️ Follow on YouTube: Watch Here 📩 6 Ways to Know You're Walking In Your Calling (Free Resource)    

In this REWIND episode of the But First, She Failed podcast, host Paola Soares explores how limiting beliefs quietly influence your career, business, mindset, and confidence—often without you being fully aware of it. Limiting beliefs don't always show up as obvious fear or self-sabotage. More often, they appear subtly in your thought patterns, decision-making, career choices, and business actions. In this episode, Paola breaks down five common ways limiting beliefs show up in your career and business, especially for high-achieving women who feel capable yet stuck. If you've ever struggled with self-doubt, fear of failure, fear of success, imposter syndrome, or playing small, this conversation will help you identify how those internal beliefs may be shaping your professional growth. Paola shares real-life examples and reflections on how mindset patterns can affect career advancement, entrepreneurship, leadership, visibility, and long-term success. ✨ Join the January Dream Call By Popular demand– Paola is hosting another dream call—  A reflective Dream Call designed to help you envision what 2026 could look like. During this live call, you'll explore guided journal prompts to: 📝 Clarify your goals and desires for 2026 📝 Identify the projects, ideas & dreams you feel called to 📝 Hear God more clearly in your next season 📝 Release what's no longer serving you 📝 Step into the new year with deeper peace and intention On this free Dream Call you will also learn more about The Purpose Co. Accountability Community that is officially launching after this call! This is the last free call before the January launch of The Purpose Co. Accountability Community. ✅ Register here 💻 Let's Connect: 📲 Instagram: @butfirstshefailed 🌐 Website: Paolasoares.com▶️ Follow on YouTube: Watch Here 📩 6 Ways to Know You're Walking In Your Calling (Free Resource) 133. Why You Need To Develop This 1 Thing To Be Successful  

In this episode, Host Paola Soares breaks down what a growth mindset really is — and why embracing it can change the entire trajectory of your year. Paola opens up about her own struggles with operating from a fixed mindset in the past and how learning to shift her thinking became a complete game changer in her career, confidence, and purpose. Now, she's sharing the mindset tools and perspective shifts that can help you experience that same transformation. Inside this conversation, Paola explores: What a growth mindset actually means The key differences between a growth mindset and a fixed mindset How your beliefs shape your success, resilience, and daily decisions Why developing a growth mindset is essential for your goals this year If you've been feeling stuck, battling self-doubt, or wanting to level up in any area of your life, this episode will help you recognize what's been holding you back — and how to build the mindset that leads to clarity, confidence, and growth. Tune in for an encouraging, practical, and mindset-shifting conversation that will inspire you to think bigger and believe in what's possible. ✨ Join the January Dream Call By Popular demand– Paola is hosting another dream call—  A reflective Dream Call designed to help you envision what 2026 could look like. During this live call, you'll explore guided journal prompts to: 📝 Clarify your goals and desires for 2026 📝 Identify the projects, ideas & dreams you feel called to 📝 Hear God more clearly in your next season 📝 Release what's no longer serving you 📝 Step into the new year with deeper peace and intention On this free Dream Call you will also learn more about The Purpose Co. Accountability Community that is officially launching after this call! This is the last free call before the January launch of The Purpose Co. Accountability Community. ✅ Register here   💻 Let's Connect: 📲 Instagram: @butfirstshefailed 🌐 Website: Paolasoares.com▶️ Follow on YouTube: Watch Here 📩 6 Ways to Know You're Walking In Your Calling (Free Resource) 133. Why You Need To Develop This 1 Thing To Be Successful  

In this episode, Host Paola Soares explores how to start setting healthy boundaries—especially during the busy holiday season when stress, expectations, and overcommitment can easily take over. Many women don't realize how poor boundaries quietly impact their careers, businesses, relationships, and emotional well-being. If you're feeling stretched thin, overwhelmed, or drained, this conversation will help you recognize where your limits are being crossed and how to confidently reclaim your time, energy, and peace. Whether you're an entrepreneur, career-driven woman, college student, or stay-at-home mom, learning to set boundaries is essential for avoiding burnout and showing up as your best self. Paola breaks down 5 practical steps to begin establishing healthier boundaries—so you can protect what matters most, prioritize your mental health, and move through the holidays (and beyond) with more clarity, confidence, and compassion. Tune in for a vulnerable and empowering conversation that will help you create space for yourself and step into a healthier, more aligned season. ✨ Join the January Dream Call By Popular demand– Paola is hosting another dream call—  A reflective Dream Call designed to help you envision what 2026 could look like. During this live call, you'll explore guided journal prompts to: 📝 Clarify your goals and desires for 2026 📝 Identify the projects, ideas & dreams you feel called to 📝 Hear God more clearly in your next season 📝 Release what's no longer serving you 📝 Step into the new year with deeper peace and intention On this free Dream Call you will also learn more about The Purpose Co. Accountability Community that is officially launching after this call! This is the last free call before the offical launch of The Purpose Co. Accountability Community. ✅ Register here   💻 Let's Connect: 📲 Instagram: @butfirstshefailed 🌐 Website: Paolasoares.com▶️ Follow on YouTube: Watch Here 📩 6 Ways to Know You're Walking In Your Calling (Free Resource) 133. Why You Need To Develop This 1 Thing To Be Successful  

In this episode, Host Paola Soares explores what really happens when life feels "off," and why what many people call a midlife crisis or identity crisis is often something far healthier — a midlife readjustment, a season of reflection, realignment, and personal rebirth. Paola breaks down the difference between an unhealthy midlife crisis (reactive, fear-driven, impulsive) and a healthy midlife awakening (intentional, reflective, and aligned), and shares why research shows that only 10–20% of adultsactually experience a true midlife crisis. For most people, feeling stuck, restless, or misaligned is part of a normal life transition — an invitation to reinvent yourself with clarity and purpose. In this conversation, we dive into: Why you may feel stuck, lost, or questioning your direction Signs you're in an awakening or identity shift What misalignment is trying to reveal How to move from crisis → clarity → rebirth Practical reflection questions to help you reconnect with your calling How this season can become a powerful new beginning If you're navigating a midlife transition, feeling behind, or craving deeper alignment in your career, purpose, or identity, this episode will help you reframe your season and step into it with confidence and hope. 🌿 Join the Dream Call (Tomorrow!) Dec. 17th at 12pm EST Paola also shares an invitation to the upcoming Dream Call — a guided, reflective session designed to help you pause, reconnect with your purpose, and dream again for 2026.   During this live call, you'll explore guided journal prompts to: 📝 Clarify your goals and desires for 2026 📝 Identify the projects, ideas & dreams you feel called to 📝 Hear God more clearly in your next season 📝 Release what's no longer serving you 📝 Step into the new year with deeper peace and intention This is the last free call before the January launch of The Purpose Co. Accountability Community. ✅Register Here 💻 Let's Connect: 📲 Instagram: @butfirstshefailed 🌐 Website: Paolasoares.com▶️ Follow on YouTube: Watch Here 📩 6 Ways to Know You're Walking In Your Calling (Free Resource) 133. Why You Need To Develop This 1 Thing To Be Successful  

In this episode Host Paola Soares shares encouragement and practical insight for the moments when you're on the verge of quitting—whether it's your career, a dream you've been working toward, a business you've been building, or a calling that suddenly feels heavy. If you've been feeling overwhelmed, burned out, discouraged, or uncertain about your next step, this conversation will help you pause, breathe, and regain clarity before making any big decisions. Paola breaks down what's actually happening beneath the "I want to quit" feeling and offers guidance to help you reset your mind, reconnect with your purpose, and find renewed strength when everything in you feels tired or stretched thin. You'll walk away with encouragement, perspective shifts, and simple practices that bring clarity back into the areas where you've been wrestling with doubt, stress, or lack of direction. Paola also shares a special invitation to join the upcoming Dream Call, a guided reflection experience created to help you slow down, gain clarity, dream again, and step into the new year with intention and purpose. If you've been questioning whether to keep going, this episode will remind you that you're not alone—and you're not as far off track as you think. ✨ Join the December 15 Dreaming Call Paola is hosting the final free Accountability Community Call of the year on December 15 — a reflective Dreaming Call designed to help you envision what 2026 could look like. During this live call, you'll explore guided journal prompts to: 📝 Clarify your goals and desires for 2026 📝 Identify the projects, ideas & dreams you feel called to 📝 Hear God more clearly in your next season 📝 Release what's no longer serving you 📝 Step into the new year with deeper peace and intention This is the last free call before the January launch of The Purpose Co. Accountability Community. ✅Register Here   💻 Let's Connect: 📲 Instagram: @butfirstshefailed 🌐 Website: Paolasoares.com▶️ Follow on YouTube: Watch Here 📩 6 Ways to Know You're Walking In Your Calling (Free Resource) 133. Why You Need To Develop This 1 Thing To Be Successful  

In this REWIND previously aired episode, Host Paola Soares speaks with well regarded Time Management Coach, Anna Dearmon Kornick. Anna helps busy professionals master time management so they can stop feeling overwhelmed and start spending time on what matters most.   Anna knows a thing or two about managing time— with a long career trajectory in high level roles where time management is crucial from being a former scheduler for a U.S. Congressman to a former Chief Spokesperson for a LT. Governor to working in the high stakes world of Crisis Communications, Public Relations.   Anna is also the host of It's About Time - A Podcast about Work, Life and Balance, where Anna shares time management tips, productivity strategies and real-life advice to help her listeners make the most of their time.   In this interview she shares what steps to take if you are feeling overwhelmed with managing your time, the power of the "In between" season, and why our calendars have to reflect our values… this and so much more.. Connect with Anna Instagram: @annadkornick It's About Time Podcast Annadkornick.com ✨ Join the December 15 Dreaming Call Paola is hosting the final free Accountability Community Call of the year on December 15 — a reflective Dreaming Call designed to help you envision what 2026 could look like. During this live call, you'll explore guided journal prompts to: 📝 Clarify your goals and desires for 2026 📝 Identify the projects, ideas & dreams you feel called to 📝 Hear God more clearly in your next season 📝 Release what's no longer serving you 📝 Step into the new year with deeper peace and intention This is the last free call before the January launch of The Purpose Co. Accountability Community. Save your spot — link in show notes. This is the last free call before the January launch of The Purpose Co. Accountability Community. Spots are limited — the link is in the show notes. ✅Register Here 💻 Let's Connect: 📲 Instagram: @butfirstshefailed 🌐 Website: Paolasoares.com▶️ Follow on YouTube: Watch Here 📩 6 Ways to Know You're Walking In Your Calling (Free Resource) 133. Why You Need To Develop This 1 Thing To Be Successful  

In this Thanksgiving-themed episode, host Paola Soares guides listeners through a powerful "heart reset" using reflective gratitude journal prompts designed to help you slow down, breathe, and reconnect with what truly matters this season. Whether you're navigating uncertainty, feeling stretched thin, or craving clarity about your next step, this episode will help you pause, reflect, and tap into a deeper sense of peace and purpose. These prompts are perfect for your morning routine, your quiet time, or anytime you need to reconnect with yourself and God in the middle of a busy season. If you've been feeling behind, overwhelmed, or unsure about your next chapter, this episode will help you return to center and rediscover what's already good, already working, and already growing in your life. ✨ Join the December 15 Dreaming Call Paola is hosting the final free Accountability Community Call of the year on December 15 — a reflective Dreaming Call designed to help you envision what 2026 could look like. During this live call, you'll explore guided journal prompts to: 📝 Clarify your goals and desires for 2026 📝 Identify the projects, ideas & dreams you feel called to 📝 Hear God more clearly in your next season 📝 Release what's no longer serving you 📝 Step into the new year with deeper peace and intention This is the last free call before the January launch of The Purpose Co. Accountability Community. Save your spot — link in show notes. This is the last free call before the January launch of The Purpose Co. Accountability Community. Spots are limited — the link is in the show notes. ✅Register Here 💻 Let's Connect: 📲 Instagram: @butfirstshefailed 🌐 Website: Paolasoares.com▶️ Follow on YouTube: Watch Here 📩 6 Ways to Know You're Walking In Your Calling (Free Resource)

Birthday Episode + Giveaway on the But First, She Failed podcast. In this powerful conversation, Paola shares 40 Lessons at 40, offering the mindset shifts, purpose insights, calling breakthroughs, and growth lessons that have shaped her over the last decade. Through career pivots, moments of fear, seasons of uncertainty, motherhood, identity work, faith, and building a top 1% podcast, Paola has gathered wisdom she now pours back into her community — especially women navigating purpose, clarity, and reinvention. This episode is designed for anyone who feels stuck, behind, or on the edge of a new chapter and needs encouragement, strategy, and hope. This episode serves as a blueprint for anyone that wants a breakthrough in their future. Whether you're 25, 35, 45 or beyond, Paola's reflections remind listeners that they are not behind — they're becoming. And the next chapter can be the most meaningful one yet. 🎉 BIRTHDAY GIVEAWAY (Celebrating Paola's 40th!) To celebrate her birthday, Paola is giving away a FREE 30-minute 1:1 coaching session redeemable anytime in 2026. To enter: 1️⃣ Leave a written review on Apple Podcasts 2️⃣ Screenshot it 3️⃣ Tag Paola on Instagram so she can see it Your review helps the show reach more women stepping into their purpose — thank you for celebrating with Paola! JOIN THE DECEMBER 15 DREAMING CALL Host Paola Soares is also leading the final FREE Accountability Community call of the year on December 15 — a reflective and powerful Dreaming Call. Listeners will walk through guided journal prompts to help them: ✏️ Gain clarity for 2026 ✏️ Identify goals, dreams & next steps ✏️ Discern what God is stirring in their hearts ✏️ Prepare for their next chapter with intention This is the last free call before the January launch of The Purpose Co. Accountability Community. ✅Register Here   💻 Let's Connect: 📲 Instagram: @butfirstshefailed 🌐 Website: Paolasoares.com▶️ Follow on YouTube: Watch Here 📩 6 Ways to Know You're Walking In Your Calling (Free Resource) 133. Why You Need To Develop This 1 Thing To Be Successful  

Are you overthinking, spiraling in "what ifs," or feeling stuck because worry is draining your energy? In this powerful mindset-reset episode, Paola shares the exact reality check she had to give herself this week—one she knows many faith-driven, purpose-seeking women need to hear too. If you've been feeling unfulfilled in your current job, sensing you're meant for more, or trying to build a dream on the side while juggling all the things, this episode will help you understand how worry might be quietly sabotaging your growth, clarity, and purpose. Inside the episode, Paola breaks down: ✨ The 3 surprising ways worry is draining your energy and slowing your progress ✨ Why worry and faith cannot co-exist—and how to shift back into God-centered belief ✨ How worry shapes your mindset, confidence, and the way you show up in your calling ✨ What to do today to break the cycle of anxiety and step into purpose with clarity and peace You'll walk away with practical steps rooted in scripture, neuroscience, and real-life examples—so you can stop sabotaging your momentum and finally make progress on the dream God placed in your heart.  Reminder: The Accountability Community Call is TOMORROW! If you're tired of doing your dream alone… this is your space. Join Paola and a community of like-minded, ambitious women for live coaching, encouragement, purpose-clarity, and momentum. Come share the dream in your heart, get feedback, meet supportive women, and hear more about the vision for the community that's launching soon. This month's call happens Wednesday, Nov. 12 — sign up in the show notes! ✅ Register Here 💻 Let's Connect: 📲 Instagram: @butfirstshefailed 🌐 Website: Paolasoares.com▶️ Follow on YouTube: Watch Here 📩 6 Ways to Know You're Walking In Your Calling (Free Resource)  

Feeling drained, unmotivated, or disconnected — even though you're "doing all the right things"? You might be facing burnout… but not the kind you think. In this episode, host Paola Soares breaks down the three hidden types of burnout that ambitious, purpose-driven women often overlook. These are the kinds that sneak up on you when you're checking every box, chasing growth, and still feeling empty inside. Paola shares the subtle signs you may be missing — and what burnout might actually be trying to tell you about your work, your mindset, and the season you're in. 💡 You'll learn: Why rest alone doesn't always fix burnout The difference between overworking and being out of alignment How to move from exhaustion to clarity and renewal If you've been wondering "Why do I feel so tired when I'm doing everything right?" — this conversation will help you see burnout not as a setback, but as an invitation to realign. 👯‍♀️ Join the FREE BFSF Accountability Community Call! If you're ready to get out of your head and finally start walking in the purpose God has for you, this is your chance to do it with community. During this 1-hour session, you'll connect with like-minded women, share what you're working on, get live coaching and encouragement, and gain clarity around your calling so you can take bold next steps. 💡 Spots are limited — and this may be one of the last times I offer this call for free before transitioning into a membership community. Don't miss the chance to be part of it! ✅ Register Here 💻 Let's Connect: 📲 Instagram: @butfirstshefailed 🌐 Website: Paolasoares.com▶️ Follow on YouTube: Watch Here 📩 6 Ways to Know You're Walking In Your Calling (Free Resource) 33. Why Hitting Burnout Is So Dangerous, my story and 3 Steps to Combat Burnout in Your Life

✨ Special Episode: From Failure to Faith — Paola's Interview on The Vibrant Flow Podcast ✨ This week on But First, She Failed, host Paola Soares shares something a little different. Recently, she was invited to be a guest on 🎙️ The Vibrant Flow Podcast with Johanna Mäkilä-Manninen —a friend of But First, She Failed. Paola loved Johanna's thoughtful questions and the authentic flow of their conversation so much that she asked if she could share it here with you. 💛 In this inspiring interview, Paola opens up about her decade-long journey of overcoming fear of failure, healing from shame, and learning to fail forward into faith. She shares behind-the-scenes moments from her career in national news, the painful season of being let go, and how God used that experience to redirect her toward her true calling—helping women step boldly into the purpose He designed for them. 🌿 🌸 About The Vibrant Flow Podcast: Hosted by Johanna Mäkilä-Manninen—a multi-passionate artist, women's coach, English MA graduate, mama, and wife—The Vibrant Flow Podcast is for the ambitious, faith-led woman ready to step fully into her calling, unapologetically and in full feminine flow. The show blends faith-based coaching, feminine leadership, and creative personal branding to help women break free from shame, self-sabotage, and comparison while elevating their God-given expression. 🎧 Go listen: The Vibrant Flow Podcast for the full interview! In this episode only part of the full episode is shared so if you enjoyed make sure to go to The Vibrant Flow Podcast to listen to the rest of the convesation! Johanna is also about to launch her 12-Week Personal Branding Incubator—links to both below! 💬 Community Update: The next Community Accountability Call is happening in early November! 🙌 It's designed for women who feel unfulfilled professionally and sense God calling them to step into something new—whether that's launching a business, starting a brand, or pursuing a deeper sense of purpose. You'll receive live coaching, feedback, and encouragement from Paola and a circle of like-minded women who will cheer you on every step of the way. (Sign-up link in the show notes!) 🌿 In This Episode: • Overcoming fear of failure and redefining success through faith • Healing from shame and finding identity in God • Navigating comparison and imposter syndrome • Feminine strength, calling, and purpose • Learning to pause, trust God's timing, and walk in your unique assignment ✨ Connect with Johanna: 🎧 Listen to the full interview on The Vibrant Flow Podcast: 👉 From Head to Heart: Feminine Embodiment and Magnetic Presence (Spotify) 💖 Follow Johanna on Instagram: 👉 @thevibrantflowwithjo 🌸 Learn more about Johanna's 12-Week Personal Branding Incubator: 👉 thevibrantflowpodcast.com/beta-group-2025   💻 Let's Connect: 👯‍♀️ Join the FREE BFSF Accountability Community Call! If you're ready to get out of your head and finally start walking in the purpose God has for you, this is your chance to do it with community. During this 1-hour session, you'll connect with like-minded women, share what you're working on, get live coaching and encouragement, and gain clarity around your calling so you can take bold next steps. 💡 Spots are limited — and this may be one of the last times I offer this call for free before transitioning into a membership community. Don't miss the chance to be part of it! ✅ Register Here 📲 Instagram: @butfirstshefailed 🌐 Website: Paolasoares.com🎙 Book a Mentorship Session: Click Here📩 Join the Weekly Newsletter + Take the Boss Woman Profile Quiz: Sign Up▶️ Follow on YouTube: Watch Here ✨ FREE RESOURCE: 6 SIGNS YOU ARE OR AREN'T WALKING IN YOUR GOD-GIVEN CALLING --> paolasoares.com/calling

What does it take to build a brand that earns the trust of the world's most prestigious hotels — and do it in an industry where you're often the only woman, only Latina, or only woman of color in the room? In this powerful episode, Ayana Rodriguez, founder of ITAVI, shares how she transformed a simple idea about intentional childcare into a premium service now partnered with Four Seasons, Waldorf Astoria, 1 Hotel, Eden Roc, and more. From her early days running a children's boutique to becoming the CEO of an award-winning company, Ayana's journey is a masterclass in perseverance, vision, and courage. She opens up about how she refused to let labels or stereotypes define her path — choosing instead to focus on the mission, the solution, and the people she was called to serve. Through this conversation, you'll learn: ✨ How to develop the mindset that keeps you moving forward — even when you feel like you don't belong. 🏨 The power of strategic partnerships and how to position your brand for success in elite spaces. 💡 Why emotional intelligence and community support are critical for scaling your business. 🌱 How to reframe failures as lessons that fuel growth and resilience. 🤝 The importance of leveraging your village — in parenting, business, and beyond. Whether you're an aspiring entrepreneur or a seasoned businesswoman, this conversation will inspire you to dream bigger, push past fear, and pursue opportunities that once felt out of reach. Because your identity isn't a barrier — it's your superpower. Connect with Ayana:  Itavikids.com IG: @itavikids IG: @ayanamrodriguez 👯‍♀️ Join the FREE BFSF Accountability Community Call! ( Nov. 5th) If you're ready to get out of your head and finally start walking in the purpose God has for you, this is your chance to do it with community. During this 1-hour session, you'll connect with like-minded women, share what you're working on, get live coaching and encouragement, and gain clarity around your calling so you can take bold next steps. 💡 Spots are limited — and this may be one of the last times I offer this call for free before transitioning into a membership community. Don't miss the chance to be part of it! ✅ Register Here 💻 Let's Connect: 📲 Instagram: @butfirstshefailed 🌐 Website: Paolasoares.com🎙 Book a Mentorship Session: Click Here📩 Join the Weekly Newsletter + Take the Boss Woman Profile Quiz: Sign Up▶️ Follow on YouTube: Watch Here

In this episode of But First, She Failed, we celebrate Hispanic Heritage Month by featuring Jacqueline Basulto, the Latina entrepreneur and Forbes 30 Under 30 CEO behind SeedX, a digital growth agency she launched with just $200. Since then, her agency has helped clients generate over $1 billion in revenue through innovative digital strategies and data-driven growth. Jacqueline shares how she built a thriving business from humble beginnings, how motherhood fuels her leadership, and her secrets to finding great talent and creating lasting success. ✨ You'll Learn: How to find great talent early in your business The secret to "revenue synergy" and business growth How motherhood sharpens leadership and focus The mindset behind scaling with purpose If you're a Latina entrepreneur, woman in business, or aspiring founder, this conversation will remind you that big impact can start with small beginnings. Connect with Jacqueline:  seedx.us Jacqueline Basulto Linkedin 👯‍♀️ Join the FREE BFSF Accountability Community Call! ( Nov. 5th) If you're ready to get out of your head and finally start walking in the purpose God has for you, this is your chance to do it with community. During this 1-hour session, you'll connect with like-minded women, share what you're working on, get live coaching and encouragement, and gain clarity around your calling so you can take bold next steps. 💡 Spots are limited — and this may be one of the last times I offer this call for free before transitioning into a membership community. Don't miss the chance to be part of it! ✅ Register Here   💻 Let's Connect: 📲 Instagram: @butfirstshefailed 🌐 Website: Paolasoares.com🎙 Book a Mentorship Session: Click Here📩 Join the Weekly Newsletter + Take the Boss Woman Profile Quiz: Sign Up▶️ Follow on YouTube: Watch Here

Have you ever wondered what you were truly created to do? Maybe you've climbed the career ladder, switched roles, or even launched a business—yet you still feel empty inside, like something's missing. Or perhaps you're in a season of transition after being let go and you're asking God, "What is my true calling?" If so, this episode of the But First, She Failed Podcast is for you. In this episode, Paola Soares unpacks how to discover your God-given calling and shares practical steps to help you uncover the unique purpose God created you for. Through biblical truth and real-life examples, she explores the difference between a job, career, and calling, and how your gifts, passions, and even your pain can point you toward your divine purpose. You'll also learn why prayer, community, and taking action are essential in walking out your calling. ✨ In this episode you'll discover: How to pray, fast, and journal to seek clarity on your God-given calling Why your natural giftings and passions reveal what makes you come alive How your pain and struggles can become a purposeful part of your calling The role of mentors, accountability, and community in confirming your gifts Why obedience and imperfect action open doors to your God-given destiny If you've been searching for clarity on God's plan for your life, this episode will equip and encourage you to take the next step in uncovering your true calling. 👯‍♀️ Join the FREE BFSF Accountability Community Call! (Nov. 5th) If you're ready to get out of your head and finally start walking in the purpose God has for you, this is your chance to do it with community. During this 1-hour session, you'll connect with like-minded women, share what you're working on, get live coaching and encouragement, and gain clarity around your calling so you can take bold next steps. 💡 Spots are limited — and this may be one of the last times I offer this call for free before transitioning into a membership community. Don't miss the chance to be part of it! ✅ Register Here   💻 Let's Connect: 📲 Instagram: @butfirstshefailed 🌐 Website: Paolasoares.com▶️ Follow on YouTube: Watch here   Email: [email protected]  💖 Loved this Episode? Please subscribe, leave a 5-star review, and share it with your ambitious friends! Screenshot and tag Paola on IG to be featured.  

Are you trying to pursue your God-given calling all on your own? If so, you may be setting yourself up for unnecessary struggle. In this episode of But First, She Failed, Paola Soares shares why community and accountability are crucial to successfully walking in your God-given purpose. We'll dive into the powerful role that accountability plays in helping you stay consistent, why isolation can lead to burnout and doubt, and how surrounding yourself with the right people can accelerate your growth and keep you faithful to the assignment God has placed on your life. If you've been wondering why your calling feels heavy, lonely, or overwhelming, this episode will encourage you to stop walking alone and embrace the support God has for you through community. 💡 You'll learn: Why accountability helps you stay consistent in your purpose How community can sharpen, encourage, and equip you for success The secret to long-term faithfulness and growth in your calling 🎧 Whether you're pursuing a career, business, or ministry, this conversation will help you understand why no one fulfills their calling alone—and why community is key to true success.   👯‍♀️ Join the FREE BFSF Accountability Community Call! (Nov 5th) If you're ready to get out of your head and finally start walking in the purpose God has for you, this is your chance to do it with community. During this 1-hour session, you'll connect with like-minded women, share what you're working on, get live coaching and encouragement, and gain clarity around your calling so you can take bold next steps. 💡 Spots are limited — and this may be one of the last times I offer this call for free before transitioning into a membership community. Don't miss the chance to be part of it! ✅ Register Here 33. Why Hitting Burnout is So Dangerous, My Story & 3 Steps to Combat Burnout You Are Called Book    💻 Let's Connect: 📲 Instagram: @butfirstshefailed 🌐 Website: Paolasoares.com▶️ Follow on YouTube: Watch here     Email: [email protected]  💖 Loved this Episode? Please subscribe, leave a 5-star review, and share it with your ambitious friends! Screenshot and tag Paola on IG to be featured.  

Do you know whether or not your walking in your God-given calling when it comes to your career or business? In this episode of But First, She Failed, Paola shares 6 powerful signs to help you discern if you're aligned with the unique purpose God created you for. Through personal stories, biblical truths, and real-life examples, Paola unpacks how you can tell the difference between simply having a job or business and living in the fullness of your calling. Because success and recognition can never replace the lasting fulfillment that comes when you step into God's plan for your life. If you've ever asked yourself, "Am I living in my purpose?" or felt stuck between a career, entrepreneurship, and your true calling, this episode will give you clarity, encouragement, and practical signs to help you know if you're walking in the life God designed for you. 👯‍♀️ Join the FREE BFSF Accountability Community Call! (Nov 5th) If you're ready to get out of your head and finally start walking in the purpose God has for you, this is your chance to do it with community. During this 1-hour session, you'll connect with like-minded women, share what you're working on, get live coaching and encouragement, and gain clarity around your calling so you can take bold next steps. 💡 Spots are limited — and this may be one of the last times I offer this call for free before transitioning into a membership community. Don't miss the chance to be part of it! ✅ Register Here 💻 Let's Connect: 📲 Instagram: @butfirstshefailed 🌐 Website: Paolasoares.com▶️ Follow on YouTube: Watch here Email: [email protected]  💖 Loved this Episode? Please subscribe, leave a 5-star review, and share it with your ambitious friends! Screenshot and tag Paola on IG to be featured.

Do you have a career you've worked hard to build? Maybe you've stepped out and started a business? But deep down, you still wonder if you're truly walking in your God-given calling… In this episode of But First, She Failed, Paola unpacks the difference between building a career, running a business, and living out your true calling. Because here's the truth: careers and businesses are good, but they will never fully satisfy if they're not aligned with the purpose God uniquely designed for you. You'll discover: ✨ Why careers bring growth but can leave you restless if they're your only focus. ✨ The freedom and risk that come with owning a business—and why success alone can feel empty. ✨ How walking in your God-given calling brings lasting fulfillment, direction, and peace, no matter what season of life or work you're in. If you've ever asked yourself, "Am I meant for more?" or wondered if you're truly living the life God called you to, this episode will challenge and inspire you. Walking in your calling isn't just important—it's essential. It's the key to unlocking your greatest impact, deepest joy, and the kind of success that actually matters.     👯‍♀️ Join the FREE BFSF Accountability Community Call! (Nov. 5th) If you're ready to get out of your head and finally start walking in the purpose God has for you, this is your chance to do it with community. During this 1-hour session, you'll connect with like-minded women, share what you're working on, get live coaching and encouragement, and gain clarity around your calling so you can take bold next steps. 💡 Spots are limited — and this may be one of the last times I offer this call for free before transitioning into a membership community. Don't miss the chance to be part of it! ✅ Register Here 💻 Let's Connect: 📲 Instagram: @butfirstshefailed 🌐 Website: Paolasoares.com▶️ Follow on YouTube: Watch here     Email: [email protected]  💖 Loved this Episode? Please subscribe, leave a 5-star review, and share it with your ambitious friends! Screenshot and tag Paola on IG to be featured.

Are your small business finances keeping you up at night? In this episode of But First, She Failed, Paola sits down with Danielle Hendon, Fractional CFO and founder of Four Corners CFO, to break down how entrepreneurs can gain financial clarity, prevent burnout, and finally start paying themselves with confidence. Danielle explains the key differences between an accountant and a fractional CFO, and why having a CFO on your team can completely transform your business. You'll learn how fractional CFOs bring big business strategies to small businesses, why understanding your numbers empowers better decision-making, and the crucial steps every entrepreneur should take to prioritize profit. Whether you're a creative business owner, a founder in growth mode, or an entrepreneur tired of financial stress, this episode will give you actionable tools to make smart money moves and build a sustainable business you love. What You'll Learn in This Episode: The difference between an accountant and a fractional CFO Why financial clarity prevents burnout and fuels growth How to pay yourself and prioritize profit Big business strategies that work for small business owners Why work-life balance and smart money habits go hand-in-hand Connect with Danielle:  4Cornerscfo.com Get the free Guide mentioned here: https://4cornerscfo.com/butfirstshefailed/   👯‍♀️ Join the FREE BFSF Accountability Club Call (Sept) If you're ready to get out of your own head and into community, come connect with other like-minded women pursuing clarity and purpose. We'll share what we're working on, where we're stuck, and encourage one another. It's completely FREE! ✅ Fill out the Accountability Club interest form here: 👉  Accountability Club link 💻 Let's Connect: 📲 Instagram: @butfirstshefailed 🌐 Website: Paolasoares.com🎙 Book a Mentorship Session: Click Here📩 Join the Weekly Newsletter + Take the Boss Woman Profile Quiz: Sign Up▶️ Follow on YouTube: Watch Here  

Want to plan your next career move without the stress? In this episode, executive coach and HR consultant Kate Sargent shares how to navigate career transitions strategically, build a powerful support network, and use networking to open new opportunities. We cover the rise of fractional HR services, how to approach negotiation with confidence and kindness, and ways to translate your skills across industries. Kate also explains how to craft a cohesive personal brand that tells your story and attracts the right roles. You'll Learn: Why the fractional HR model is a game-changer for small businesses. How to plan a career pivot without waiting for a crisis. Networking strategies that actually work. Negotiation tips that leave relationships stronger. How to translate your skills across industries. The power of a cohesive career narrative. Kate sits down with host Paola Soares to break down actionable strategies for effective networking, confident negotiation, and crafting a cohesive career narrative that helps you stand out in any industry. She also explains how to translate your skills across different fields, position your personal brand for success, and turn failures into opportunities for growth. Packed with practical tips, this conversation will equip you with the tools you need to navigate change, expand your network, and create a career path that aligns with your strengths and values.   Connect with Kate:  kjs.consulting.com Linkedin: Kate Sargent 👯‍♀️ Join the FREE BFSF Accountability Club Call (Sept) If you're ready to get out of your own head and into community, come connect with other like-minded women pursuing clarity and purpose. We'll share what we're working on, where we're stuck, and encourage one another. It's completely FREE! ✅ Fill out the Accountability Club interest form here: 👉  Accountability Club link 💻 Let's Connect: 📲 Instagram: @butfirstshefailed 🌐 Website: Paolasoares.com🎙 Book a Mentorship Session: Click Here📩 Join the Weekly Newsletter + Take the Boss Woman Profile Quiz: Sign Up▶️ Follow on YouTube: Watch Here  

Feeling lost in your career, business or more importantly when it comes to your purpose and calling? In this episode, host Paola Soares shares what she's doing about it—and how you can find clarity, purpose, and peace in your season of uncertainty. If you've been feeling stuck, disconnected from your calling, or unsure of your next step in business or life, this conversation is for you. Whether you're an entrepreneur, professional, or purpose-driven woman seeking God for answers—this is your reminder that you're not alone. 🔎 In this episode, we explore: Why you may be feeling lost in your career or purpose How to seek God for direction and clarity The power of surrendering your plans Finding peace through Scripture and spiritual alignment The importance of community and accountability Why obedience (even small steps) is key to breakthrough The parable of the talents and how it applies to your calling 💬 Key Scriptures Mentioned: Jeremiah 1:5 – "Before I formed you in the womb, I knew you…" Ephesians 3:20 – "God is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all…" Matthew 25:14–30 – The Parable of the Talents     👯‍♀️ Join the FREE BFSF Accountability Club Call (Sept) If you're ready to get out of your own head and into community, come connect with other like-minded women pursuing clarity and purpose. We'll share what we're working on, where we're stuck, and encourage one another. It's completely FREE! ✅ Fill out the Accountability Club interest form here: 👉 Click Here 💻 Let's Connect: 📲 Instagram: @butfirstshefailed 🌐 Website: Paolasoares.com 🎙 Book a Mentorship Session: Click Here 📩 Join the Weekly Newsletter + Take the Boss Woman Profile Quiz: Sign Up ▶️ Follow on YouTube: Watch Here Email: [email protected]  

Feeling off-track with your goals? You're not alone. In this episode of But First, She Failed, host Paola Soares walks you through a mid-year reset strategy to help you realign, refocus, and finish 2025 strong. This episode is for high-achieving women, working moms, and goal-getters who are ready to take back control of their year. Learn how to reevaluate your goals, reconnect with your "why," build systems that support productivity, and eliminate distractions—so you can make the next six months your most successful season yet. Whether your goals are business, personal, health, or career-related, this episode is packed with practical tips to reset your mindset, create systems, and finish the year empowered.   🧠 Featured Product for Focus & Productivity: 💡 Magic Mind: The Mental Performance Shot That Works Say goodbye to caffeine crashes and hello to calm focus! Paola's secret weapon for productivity and energy. ✨ 100% natural, nootropics, adaptogens + Vitamins C & D 🎁 Get 60% OFF your first subscription with code PAOLA60 👉 Claim Your Discount Here     💻 Let's Connect: 📲 Instagram: @butfirstshefailed 🌐 Website: Paolasoares.com🎙 Book a Mentorship Session: Click Here📩 Join the Weekly Newsletter + Take the Boss Woman Profile Quiz: Sign Up▶️ Follow on YouTube: Watch Here   📚 Resources & Mentions: 🎧 Listen to: Episode 118 – Supercharge Your 2025 for Massive Growth 🎧 Listen to: Episode 113: How Systemizing Your Life and Business Will Completely Transform It with Chelsi Jo Moore 📖 Book Mentioned: Atomic Habits by James Clear 🗂️ Tools: Google Calendar, Time Blocking, Weekly Planning Systems 🎓 Shoutout: Side Hustle Pro & Podcast Moguls Course by Nicaila Matthews Okome   💖 Loved this Episode? Please subscribe, leave a 5-star review, and share it with your ambitious friends! Screenshot and tag Paola on IG to be featured.  

Struggling to stay motivated? Feeling discouraged and wondering if it's even worth it to keep going? This episode is for you. This week on But First, She Failed, host Paola Soares talks about what it means to show up even when you don't feel like it—especially in those moments when confidence is low, self-doubt is loud, and the results just aren't showing up yet. Whether you're building a business, growing in your career, or stepping out in faith, discouragement is part of the journey—but it doesn't have to define you. In this episode, we dive into: Why motivation isn't always the answer—and what works instead How to push through discouragement and find your purpose in the process The mindset shifts that help you keep showing up when it's hard How to fight self-doubt and imposter syndrome with consistency and courage A faith-filled reminder that you're not behind—you're just building This one is honest, encouraging, and the exact push you need if you've been feeling stuck, tired, or on the verge of giving up.   💻 Let's Connect: 📲 Instagram: @butfirstshefailed 🌐 Website: Paolasoares.com🎙 Book a Mentorship Session: Click Here📩 Join the Weekly Newsletter + Take the Boss Woman Profile Quiz: Sign Up▶️ Follow on YouTube: Watch Here  

In this episode of the But First, She Failed podcast, Paola Soares breaks down how to actually develop a growth mindset—one of the most powerful tools for personal and professional success. You'll learn how to start thinking differently, move past self-doubt, and build habits that support long-term growth. Whether you're facing setbacks, navigating a career transition, or simply ready to level up, this episode gives you the mindset tools to rise. Paola explores: The key differences between a growth and fixed mindset Why a growth mindset is essential for success How to challenge your current thought patterns Practical ways to build resilience and confidence A step-by-step framework to start shifting your mindset today This conversation will help you stop playing small and start believing that you are capable of growth, change, and greater impact. These 11 steps will guide you through rewiring your mindset—one intentional decision at a time. ✨ Subscribe for weekly episodes that empower women to grow in confidence, clarity, and purpose. #GrowthMindset #MindsetMatters #PaolaSoares #ButFirstSheFailed #MindsetShift #PersonalGrowth #WomenInLeadership #SelfDevelopment #SuccessHabits #FaithAndMindset   Let's Connect: Instagram: @butfirstshefailed Paolasoares.com Book A Podcast Clarity Session Here Weekly But First, She Failed Newsletter Sign up/ Your Boss Woman Profile Quiz Follow on Youtube https://overcomefailure.co Email: [email protected]         

Do you ever feel like you're not good enough at work, or worry you're falling behind in your career or business? In this empowering episode of But First, She Failed, host Paola Soares juxtaposes a growth mindset vs. a fixed mindset in various scenarios— especially in the workplace.  If you're a woman chasing big dreams but battling low confidence, imposter syndrome, or fear of failure, this episode is for you. We go beyond mindset theory and get real about how these mindsets show up in everyday work scenarios — from getting passed up for a promotion to launching your first offer as an entrepreneur. 💼 Examples we explore include: What happens when you don't get the job or promotion you hoped for How mindset affects pitching big ideas, leading teams, or switching careers The difference in how women with a growth vs. fixed mindset react to feedback Why comparison at work or in business can either empower you — or shut you down How to move through imposter syndrome moments with grace and self-compassion In this episode you'll learn whether you are operating from a growth mindset or a fixed mindset when it comes to your career, business and personal life. This and more.   Let's Connect: Instagram: @butfirstshefailed Paolasoares.com Book A Podcast Clarity Session Here Weekly But First, She Failed Newsletter Sign up/ Your Boss Woman Profile Quiz Follow on Youtube  

What is the one trait or characteristic that all successful people have in common?  In this episode, host Paola Soares shares what she has learned after talking to countless trailblazers as well as reading books on this topic and being in proximity to many highly successful people. In this episode she dives into the power of a growth mindset, what it is and the background on it as well as the difference between a growth mindset and fixed mindset and why learning and adapting a growth mindset will propel you into success.  So whether you are a student, struggling with growing your career, an entrepreneur or taking a career power pause make sure to listen to this episode to learn how to apply it and become successful.   Let's Connect: Instagram: @butfirstshefailed Paolasoares.com Book A Podcast Clarity Session Here Weekly But First, She Failed Newsletter Sign up/ Your Boss Woman Profile Quiz Follow on Youtube  

    Do your digital files feel like a chotic mess? The mess at home or in your work space overwhelming and you have no idea how to organize it? In this episode, host Paola Soares chats with 17-year veteran professional organizer and certified life coach, Tracy Hoth. Tracy is on a mission to empower coaches to create streamlined and organized businesses. She is the host of the globally ranked Organized Coach Podcast and creator of Organized Coach Academy, where she simplifies everything to help coaches become organized CEOs. They dive deep into how to organize your digital life, create simple systems that work, and overcome the mindset blocks that keep you stuck in clutter. Whether you're running a business or just trying to feel less overwhelmed in your daily life, this episode is packed with transformational tips. In this interview you'll learn the only 5 file folders  you need to get organized, how business owners can start to organize their business for the biggest ROI and how to organize anything anywhere and so much more.. Connect with Tracy:  Simplysquaredaway.com IG: @tracyhoth podcast Let's Connect: Instagram: @butfirstshefailed Paolasoares.com Book A Podcast Clarity Session Here Weekly But First, She Failed Newsletter Sign up/ Your Boss Woman Profile Quiz   Follow on Youtube

In this episode of the But First, She Failed Podcast, host Paola Soares welcomes Nikki Barua — serial entrepreneur, bestselling author, keynote speaker, and Interim CEO of Latinas in Tech — for a powerful conversation on thriving in the age of AI. As artificial intelligence continues to rapidly transform the workforce, it's no longer a question of if AI will affect our careers, but how. A recent McKinsey Global Survey reports that AI adoption has soared from 20% in 2017 to 78% in 2025, and nearly 40% of global jobs are expected to be impacted. For women — especially millennial Latinas navigating the entrepreneurial world or advancing their careers — the stakes are high. In her 25-year career in innovation, Nikki has helped global brands transform their culture and capabilities. Now she is on a mission to help business leaders reinvent the way they lead, live, and succeed in the age of AI. Nikki has won numerous awards, including Entrepreneur of the Year by ACE among others— she's been recognized in Entrepreneur Magazine's 100 Most Influential Women, named an LA Woman of Influence by The Business Journals and Women of Entrepreneurship by LA Lakers. In this interview she shares why it's crucial that we lean into AI now, what women can do to bridge the AI Skills Gap so they can future-proof their careers and skillset, and where to start if you have no idea how to get up to speed on AI… this and so much more…  Connect with Nikki:  Instagram LinkedIn Nikkibarua.com Latinas in Tech:  Instagram X LinkedIn Facebook Youtube TikTok Let's Connect: Instagram: @butfirstshefailed Follow us on Youtube!:) @butfirstshefailed Paolasoares.com Book A Podcast Clarity Session Here Weekly But First, She Failed Newsletter Sign up/ Your Boss Woman Profile Quiz  

In this episode of the But First She Failed podcast, Host Paola Soares tackles a topic that many of us face but few talk about openly—discouragement. Drawing from her own experiences, Paola unpacks how discouragement can silently impact our careers, businesses, dreams, and mental well-being. She discusses the dangers of discouragement and reminds us that feeling discouraged doesn't make us weak—it makes us human. Through an honest and empowering conversation, Paola offers practical steps to move forward, including practicing self-compassion, reaching out for support, and taking intentional action. Whether you're navigating a tough season, questioning your path, or simply feeling stuck, this episode will leave you encouraged and equipped to keep going—with renewed motivation and resilience. 🔗 Resources & Links: Instagram: @butfirstshefailed Paolasoares.com Book A Podcast Clarity Session Here!! Weekly But First, She Failed Newsletter Sign up/ Your Boss Woman Profile Quiz But First, She Failed FB Community

In this episode of But First, She Failed, host Paola Soares sits down with her pastor Dawncheré Wilkerson to talk about her newly released debut book Slow Burn:The Work and Wonder of the Wait. A renowned international pastor, speaker, singer, songwriter, and now author, DawnCheré has encouraged countless people to keep moving forward, even in seasons of waiting. As the co-lead pastor of VOUS Church in Miami, Florida, alongside her husband Rich, DawnCheré opens up about their eight-year journey through infertility and the faithfulness they've experienced in welcoming their four children and what she learned in the wait, the process of becoming, how seasons of waiting can shape us and why it's important to be intentional in a season of waiting this and so much more. This episode offers deep encouragement and insight for anyone navigating their own season of waiting or searching for purpose in the midst of life's challenges. Tune in for a conversation filled with wisdom, encouragement, and a reminder that strength often comes in the slow burn. Connect with DC: 📘 Slow Burn: The Work and Wonder of the Wait – [Buy Book Here] 🌐 VOUS Church – https://www.vouschurch.com 📱 Follow DawnCheré on Instagram – @dawnchere   Let's Connect: Instagram: @butfirstshefailed Paolasoares.com Book A Podcast Clarity Session Here Weekly But First, She Failed Newsletter Sign up/ Your Boss Woman Profile Quiz  

In this inspiring episode of But First, She Failed, host Paola Soares sits down with Yuri Cordero, Vice President and Executive Producer of Univision's iconic news show Primer Impacto. A trailblazer in Spanish-language media, Yuri shares her remarkable 30-year journey, how she broke barriers in a competitive industry, rose to the top, and built a legacy rooted in faith, resilience, and purpose-driven leadership. Yuri is also the author of the best-selling book La Virtud del Proceso (The Virtue of the Process) and co-author of Winning Strategies for Success with the legendary Brian Tracy. As the founder of HighGrace, she empowers women and emerging leaders to walk confidently in their power and authority. In this episode, Yuri opens up about: Her keys to career success as a Latina leader in media How to lead with impact and intention, regardless of your title Why the "process" is essential to personal growth and professional breakthrough Her journey of faith-based leadership The importance of mentorship, legacy, and public service Yuri also shares insights on her work with nonprofits like NAMI Miami and Todo Autismo, and how being a mother, chaplain, and speaker shapes the way she shows up in the world. Whether you're an aspiring leader, an established executive, or a woman navigating your purpose, this conversation will fuel your spirit and equip you to lead with confidence, break glass ceilings, and redefine success on your terms Connect with Yuri: yuricordero.com IG: @yuri_cordero   Let's Connect: Instagram: @butfirstshefailed Paolasoares.com Book A Podcast Clarity Session Here Weekly But First, She Failed Newsletter Sign up/ Your Boss Woman Profile Quiz  

In this episode, Host Paola Soares speaks with Jennifer Tsay, co-founder and CEO of Shoott.com, a fast-growing photography platform that's transforming the way people book professional photo sessions. Jennifer shares her incredible journey from working in the corporate space to acting and into entrepreneurship, and how she leveraged her transferable skills, resilience, and a strong sense of purpose to scale a business from the ground up. We explore how women in business can overcome internal doubts, how to test and validate startup ideas, and the mindset shifts required to make bold career transitions. From embracing failure to making data-driven decisions, this conversation is packed with real, actionable advice for current and aspiring founders. Whether you're curious about disrupting traditional industries, scaling a creative business, or taking that first step toward entrepreneurship, this episode offers valuable insight and inspiration. In this episode we discuss how successfully disrupt or democratize an industry, how to take your skillset from the corporate space and parlay it into entrepreneurship, why all moms are capable of being entrepreneurs as well as what it take to leave a corporate career and build a startup that disrupts an entire industry this and more….   Connect with Jennifer:  https://shoott.com IG: @shoottphotos  IG: @jenjentsay My LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jennifer-tsay/   Let's Connect: Instagram: @butfirstshefailed Paolasoares.com Book A Podcast Clarity Session Here Weekly But First, She Failed Newsletter Sign up/ Your Boss Woman Profile Quiz  

In this episode, host Paola Soares talks dives into the hidden dangers of perfectionism and how it can silently sabotage your career, business, and professional development. Over the past few weeks, we've explored perfectionism's grip on our personal lives, but now it's time to take a closer look at its impact on our professional worlds. From procrastination and burnout to stifled creativity and impaired decision-making, perfectionism can manifest in many harmful ways that hinder progress and success. We'll discuss the negative effects in detail and explore how these behaviors can damage your productivity, relationships with colleagues, and even your mental health. This and so much more.   Let's Connect: Instagram: @butfirstshefailed Paolasoares.com Book A Podcast Clarity Session Here!! Weekly But First, She Failed Newsletter Sign up/ Your Boss Woman Profile Quiz But First, She Failed FB Community

In this episode, host Paola Soares talks about the root causes of perfectionism, is it genetic or environmental? What are developmental things in your childhood that could cause someone to be a perfectionist? And how to combat perfectionism when it pops up? In this episode Paola continues the deep dive into the complexities of perfectionism and its origins. She explores how genetics, parenting, societal pressures, and even social media can fuel perfectionistic behaviors. I'll also share strategies to help you identify and manage perfectionism triggers in your life. Whether it's in your career, relationships, or personal growth, this episode will help you understand where perfectionism comes from and how to begin healing from its grip.   Let's Connect: Instagram: @butfirstshefailed Paolasoares.com Book A Podcast Clarity Session Here!! Weekly But First, She Failed Newsletter Sign up/ Your Boss Woman Profile Quiz But First, She Failed FB Community

In this episode, host Paola Soares talks about being a high achiever vs. perfectionism and how to know the difference. In this episode she goes over the various traits of a high achiever vs. a perfectionist and juxaposes them side by side so you can see which category you fall into. It's always wise to reflect and see what's healthy vs. unhealthy and this episode will give you the handles and information on how to do that. So whether you are an entrepreneur, career woman, stay at home mom or student or anything in between this episode will help you.   Let's Connect: Instagram: @butfirstshefailed Paolasoares.com Book A Podcast Clarity Session Here!! Weekly But First, She Failed Newsletter Sign up/ Your Boss Woman Profile Quiz But First, She Failed FB Community  

In this episode, host Paola Soares talks about how perfectionism is actually a form of self-sabotage. She dives into the unexpected truth about perfectionism and how it may be silently sabotaging your life, career, and dreams. You might think of perfectionism as a pursuit of excellence, but in reality, it's often a form of self-sabotage that keeping you stuck. She also shares personal stories and insights from her own journey of overcoming perfectionism. She explores how perfectionism shows up in everyday life, including avoidance, overworking, and the all-or-nothing thinking that holds you back from taking action. You'll learn practical tips for moving past perfectionism—like reframing your mindset. If you've been struggling to start that project, send that email, or take that leap towards your goals, this episode is for you! Tune in for some real talk and actionable strategies to break free from the chains of perfectionism and start making progress toward your dreams. Don't forget to subscribe and let us know if you want more content like this. See you in the episode!   Let's Connect: Instagram: @butfirstshefailed Paolasoares.com Book A Podcast Clarity Session Here!! Weekly But First, She Failed Newsletter Sign up/ Your Boss Woman Profile Quiz But First, She Failed FB Community Email me: [email protected]