Casual Swinger - A Sex Positive, Swinging Lifestyle Podcast

Join hosts Mickey and Mallory as they kick off Season 7 with a deep dive into one of the most challenging aspects of lifestyle relationships: when partners have different play styles, needs, and desires. In this candid episode, they explore "The Great Divide" - what happens when couples grow in different directions within the lifestyle, and how to navigate these differences without letting them destroy your relationship. Topics Covered: Understanding why couples grow apart (lifestyle and vanilla) The difference between DTF and connection-based play styles Navigating polyamory vs. swinging dynamics within one relationship Solo travel and independent play in committed relationships Finding four-way connections when you have different needs Communication strategies for bridging lifestyle divides Why keeping score destroys relationships The importance of "pebbling" and giving each other flowers Plus: Whiskey of the Month returns with Wild Turkey Rare Breed - the bourbon that changed barrel-proof whiskey forever! Upcoming Events Mentioned: Casual Swinger Week at Hedonism II (March 14-21, 2026) Groove Cruise 2027 Cap d'Agde, France adventure This podcast contains adult content and is intended for mature audiences. The Casual Swinger is a variety show covering lifestyle topics, travel, events, and real talk about non-monogamy. Show Notes: [00:00] - Introduction & Season 7 Reboot New music, new episode art, fresh start Why Season 6 didn't go as planned Getting back to their roots [03:30] - Recent Adventures X Club Toronto: New Year's Eve & Jake's birthday celebration Mickey's DJing journey ("the new midlife crisis") Mallory's solo trip to Be Better at Being Bad (Naughty Gym's event) The transformative power of solo travel in the lifestyle [15:00] - Upcoming Events Casual Swinger Week at Hedonism II (March 14-21, 2026) - casualswingerweek.com Cate's Miami event (Memorial Day weekend) Cate's Scottsdale event (October, Mickey's birthday) Groove Cruise 2026 & 2027 Cap d'Agde, France Toronto X Club return [20:00] - THE GREAT DIVIDE: Main Topic What is The Great Divide? How people grow apart in relationships (55% of divorces over 50 are due to "irreconcilable differences") The lifestyle version: when play styles, desires, and needs diverge Why this isn't about divorce - it's about navigation Common Lifestyle Divides: DTF vs. connection-based players Polyamory-aligned vs. swinging-focused partners Different levels of sexual adventurousness Kink/fetish compatibility issues The "real unicorn": finding genuine four-way connections Healthy vs. Unhealthy Backfilling: ✅ Good: Replacing flaky vanilla friends with lifestyle friends who value your time ✅ Good: Choosing workouts and self-care over passive activities ❌ Bad: Seeking physical touch from lifestyle friends because you don't get it at home ❌ Bad: Complaining about your partner to others for validation ❌ Bad: Using drugs, alcohol, or attention-seeking to fill emotional voids How to Navigate The Divide: Find mutual ground Focus on what you agree on, not just differences Don't keep score Quid pro quo thinking destroys relationships Practice "pebbling" Give each other flowers and little wins to stay connected Communicate honestly Even when it's uncomfortable Allow for parallel roads You don't always need to be on the same path, just alongside each other Take time and space Sometimes you need to pause and process before continuing the conversation Seek outside resources Therapy, podcasts, books, community support Key Insights: "Do I need to follow you there, or can I be on a parallel road alongside you?" The hardest person to say "no" to is someone you care about If you're keeping score, you're already at a deficit Solo experiences can strengthen your primary relationship Different doesn't mean doomed - it means you need to communicate more [55:00] - Clarification on "DTF" Addressing feedback from previous episode DTF isn't disparaging - it's just a different play style Some people have more "gates" to go through before feeling sexy/safe Neither approach is better or worse [60:00] - Whiskey of the Month: Wild Turkey Rare Breed The History: Rippy Distillery origins (1869) Survived Prohibition through medicinal whiskey license The hunting trip that named Wild Turkey (1940) Jimmy Russell's legacy (Master Distiller since 1967) Why Rare Breed Changed Everything: First mass-produced barrel-proof bourbon (1991) Released during bourbon's "dark ages" when everyone was watering down whiskey No water added, no chill filtration, no compromises Paved the way for today's barrel-proof category Tasting Notes: High rye content = spicy Deep char (Level 4) Long, warm finish with "Kentucky hug" Intentionally unpolished Not for bourbon beginners Jimmy Russell's Philosophy: "We don't make it for people who don't like bourbon." [70:00] - Wrap-Up & How to Connect Find The Casual Swinger Podcast: Website: casualswinger.com Email: [email protected] Instagram, YouTube, X, TikTok: @casualswinger Community: connectcasual.com (FREE for Casual Swinger Week attendees!) Casual Swinger Week Details: March 14-21, 2026 at Hedonism II Limited rooms remaining Book at: casualswingerweek.com Includes 1-year free access to Connect Casual community ($50/person value) #SwingersLifestyle #LifestylePodcast #EthicalNonMonogamy #PolyamoryVsSwinging #RelationshipAdvice #CouplesTherapy #OpenRelationship #HedonismII #WhiskeyReview #WildTurkey #BarrelProofBourbon #LifestyleTravel #SwingersOver40 #CommunicationInRelationships #SoloTravel #XClubToronto #GrooveCruise

Welcome to another wild ride with Mallory and Mickey on the Casual Swinger Podcast! In this episode, "A Raccoon Named Desire," your favorite hosts take you on their first-ever trip to Desire Riviera Maya, sharing honest, hilarious, and insightful stories from their lifestyle vacation in Mexico. Episode Highlights: Desire Riviera Maya Review: Get the inside scoop on the newly renovated resort, from the stunning Eden building to the not-so-stunning beach. Mallory and Mickey break down the vibe, amenities, and what makes Desire unique compared to their beloved Hedonism II in Jamaica. Lifestyle Travel Tips: Hear about the differences between resort stays, hotel takeovers, and house parties. The duo discusses how Desire caters to both newbies and seasoned swingers, and why it might be the perfect fit for your next adventure. Wildlife Encounters: You won’t want to miss the infamous raccoon story that inspired this episode’s title! Find out how a cheeky raccoon (and some other local critters) made their mark on the trip—literally. Community & Events: Learn about upcoming events like Casual Swinger Week (March 14–21, 2026), how to join the Connect Casual community, and why staying connected year-round is so important. Real Talk: Honest reflections on swinging, making connections, and why sometimes you just need a vacation from your vacation. Key Takeaways: Desire RM offers a more relaxed, boutique experience compared to the high-energy, week-long party at Hedo. The resort is ideal for couples new to the lifestyle, with approachable staff, beautiful grounds, and a variety of room options. Not everything goes as planned—sometimes, the most memorable moments involve wildlife and waffles! Community is everything: connect with like-minded friends before, during, and after your trip. Links & Resources: Book your spot for Casual Swinger Week: casualweek.com Join the Connect Casual community: connectcasual.com Follow Casual Swinger on social: Facebook, Instagram, TikTok, YouTube Desire Riviera Maya review, lifestyle resort, swingers vacation, Hedonism II vs Desire, travel tips, swinging podcast, Connect Casual, Casual Swinger Week, Mexico lifestyle travel, resort comparison, raccoon story, adult travel, lifestyle community But wait...there's more! If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share with your friends! Got questions or want to join the conversation? Visit casualswinger.com or connectcasual.com for the community, or you can with us on social media. Tune in for laughs, real talk, and all the sexy, silly, and surprising moments that make the lifestyle unforgettable. You’ve been listening to Casual Swinger!

One Size Fits All? Navigating Lifestyle Events, House Parties, Clubs & Takeovers – with Wanderlust Swinger's own Cate! Description: Welcome to Season 6, Episode 5 of the Casual Swinger Podcast! In this candid and entertaining episode, hosts Mickey and Mallory are joined by the ever-popular Wanderlust Cate for a deep dive into the world of lifestyle events. Whether you’re a seasoned swinger or new to the scene, this episode is packed with real talk, hilarious stories, and practical advice on navigating everything from meet & greets and house parties to clubs, hotel takeovers, and full-blown resort events. We break down the pros and cons of each event type, discuss the importance of setting expectations, and share personal experiences—both the wild and the awkward. Learn how to find the right event for your vibe, what red flags to watch for, and how to make the most of your lifestyle journey. Plus, get the inside scoop on Casual Swinger Week, Libertine Events, and how to connect with the community year-round. Keywords: Swinger podcast, lifestyle events, house parties, swingers clubs, hotel takeovers, resort takeovers, Wanderlust Cate, Casual Swinger Week, Libertine Events, lifestyle community, swinging advice, adult podcast, open relationships, event etiquette, lifestyle travel Episode Highlights: [00:00] Intro & Warnings: Mickey and Mallory welcome listeners and introduce special guest Wanderlust Cate. [03:00] House Party Recap: Behind-the-scenes of their epic three-day house party, including hilarious mishaps and lessons learned. [10:00] Community & Connection: The value of year-round lifestyle communities like Casual Connect and Libertine Connect. [15:00] Booking Casual Swinger Week: Updates, booking tips, and why it’s not sold out! [20:00] Meet & Greets: What to expect, etiquette, and how to spot red flags. [30:00] House Parties: The difference between social and DTF (down to fun) parties, setting boundaries, and the importance of clear communication. [40:00] Swingers Clubs: Club culture in the US vs. Europe, pros and cons, and how to find your fit. [55:00] Hotel & Resort Takeovers: Investment, expectations, and how to choose the right event for you. [1:10:00] Age, Vibe & Finding Your People: Why “average age” questions matter, and how to connect with like-minded folks. [1:20:00] Final Thoughts & Resources: How to research events, ask the right questions, and set yourself up for success. Special Guest: Wanderlust Cate – Host of Wanderlust Swingers Podcast and founder of Libertine Events. Find her at wanderlustswingers.com and libertineevents.com. Resources & Links: Casual Swinger Community: casualswinger.com Casual Swinger Week: casualswingerweek.com Libertine Events: libertineevents.com Connect with Us: Instagram, YouTube, X (Twitter), SLS, SDC, Kasidie Contact: Email: [email protected] Support the Show: Join the Casual Connect community for exclusive events and resources. Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review!

Podcast Title: Casual Swinger Season 6 Episode 4 – Adults Only: The AVS Legislation You Should Care About SEO-Optimized Description: Join hosts Mallory and Mickey Gordon for a candid, entertaining, and insightful episode of the Casual Swinger Podcast! In this adults-only show, the duo dives deep into the controversial Age Verification Service (AVS) legislation sweeping across the United States and beyond. Discover how these new laws impact not just the adult industry, but your personal freedoms, privacy, and access to online content. With over 18 years in the lifestyle community, Mallory and Mickey blend humor, real-life stories, and expert commentary to break down what AVS means for content creators, sex workers, and everyday adults. Plus, get the latest updates on Casual Swinger Week at Hedonism II, hilarious dating misadventures, and the much-anticipated Whiskey of the Month! Whether you’re a lifestyle veteran, sex-positive advocate, or just curious about the latest in adult legislation, this episode is packed with must-know information, laughs, and resources to keep you informed and empowered. Keywords: AVS legislation, age verification, adult content laws, lifestyle podcast, sex-positive, privacy, online freedom, content creators, sex work, Hedonism II, Casual Swinger Week, whiskey of the month, podcast show notes, adult industry news Show Notes: 00:00 – Intro & Disclaimer Mallory and Mickey welcome listeners, share a quick disclaimer, and set the tone for an adults-only, fun, and informative episode. 03:00 – Life Updates & Dating in the Lifestyle The hosts catch up on recent adventures, the challenges of dating as busy event hosts, and the realities of chemistry and connection in the lifestyle. 12:00 – Casual Swinger Week at Hedonism II Announcing the next Casual Swinger Week in Jamaica! Details on dates, booking, and what makes this event unique. 20:00 – Main Topic: AVS Legislation Explained Deep dive into Age Verification Service laws, how they’re affecting the adult industry, content creators, and your access to online content. What is AVS? Which states are affected? The impact on privacy, free speech, and sex work International implications (UK, EU, etc.) 40:00 – The Real-World Impact Discussion on VPN usage, piracy, and how restrictive laws often backfire. Parallels to Prohibition and the War on Drugs The rise of non-compliant and pirated sites 55:00 – Sex Education, Parenting, and Personal Responsibility Why open conversations and device-level controls matter more than legislation. Tips for parents The importance of sex-positive education 1:10:00 – Whiskey of the Month Spotlight on Evan Williams Single Barrel bourbon: tasting notes, history, and why it’s a favorite. 1:20:00 – Resources & How to Get Involved Links and organizations mentioned: Free Speech Coalition: https://freespeechcoalition.com/ Age Verification Policy: https://ageverificationpolicy.org/ Contact your representatives 1:25:00 – Connect with Casual Swinger Website: casualswinger.com Email: [email protected] Social: Instagram, YouTube, X (Twitter), SDC, SLS, Cassidy Event info: casualswingerweek.com Support the Show: If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, leave a review, and share with your friends! For questions, feedback, or to join us at Hedonism II, reach out via email or social media. Links & Resources Mentioned: Free Speech Coalition Age Verification Policy Hedonism II The Hot Wife Next Door Podcast Disclaimer: This podcast is for entertainment and informational purposes only. The hosts are not licensed professionals. Listener discretion is advised.

In this episode of Casual Swinger, Mickey and Mallory Gordon are joined by Cate Wanderlust Swingers for an exciting and candid discussion. Broadcasting from Toronto, the trio dives into an impromptu encounter in Cancun, exploring themes around the spontaneity versus the structured approach in the hot wife lifestyle. They share amusing anecdotes, insights on the dynamics of E&M (ethically non-monogamous) relationships, and how a spontaneous adventure reignited confidence and passion. They also navigate topics like safety, vetting processes, performance anxiety, and the evolving rules of swinging. With humor and raw honesty, the conversation offers both entertainment and thought-provoking content for listeners looking to understand or relate to the hot wife and swinging experiences. www.casualswingerweek.com www.wanderlustswingers.com www.thexclub.net www.hedonism.com www.libertineevents.com  

In this episode of Casual Swinger, hosts Mallory and Mickey reconnect with listeners from their mobile studio, the 'Rolling Couch.' This episode is filled with comedy and candid recounting of frequently thwarted encounters while out of town. The discussion starts with a chaotic attempt to record the previous episode at an airport bar surrounded by kids. They delve into the challenges faced organizing hotwifing dates and dealing with flakey and untrustworthy candidates. Mallory highlights her personal struggles with the intricate process in the post-breakup environment while Mickey shares valuable tips on identifying and avoiding red flags in lifestyle dating. Infused with plenty of humor and honesty, they reflect on balancing rejection, expectations, and the complex emotions involved. Listen in for a blend of fun tales from the field and real insight into navigating the lifestyle's singles scene. Links Casual Swinger Week Libertine Events The X Club

Well, it's been a while! Casual Swinger took a MUCH longer than intended hiatus, and even WE didn't exactly know why.  We dig into some of the reasons why we spent 9 months off the air & talk about some of our challenges with a REALLY tough subject...breaking up. Not with each other!  With "our couple," and all of the emotional challenges that came along with it. Hear all about it and more during our road trip down to Miami for Libertine Events Garden of Hedon! Hedonism II Casual Swinger Week Libertine Events DarkMatter69 - BDSM Gear

Weathering the Storm: Insights and Resilience at Hedonism 2 Donate to Hedonism Hurricane Relief Today! In this engaging episode of Casual Swinger, hosts Mallory and Mickey recount their recent adventures, focusing on their time at Casual Swinger Week and PCAP events. They delve into the aftermath of Hurricane Beryl at Hedonism 2 in Jamaica, sharing stories of the remarkable resilience of the locals and the relentless efforts of the resort staff to rebuild. The episode also features an in-depth interview with David Graham, the general manager, who discusses hurricane preparations and recovery efforts. Additionally, significant renovations at the resort, the economic impact of inflation, upcoming events like Halloween, and a GoFundMe campaign to support affected employees are highlighted, underscoring the dedicated community spirit of Hedonism 2. 00:00 Welcome Back to Casual Swinger 01:26 Life Updates and Travel Adventures 02:05 Recap of Casual Swinger Week 04:39 PCAP and Playroom Highlights 07:56 Hurricane Hedo Experience 17:15 Community Resilience in Jamaica 31:53 Interview with Hedo's General Manager 39:48 Upcoming Plans and Promises 40:28 Casual Swinger Week and Contact Info 41:40 Introduction to David Graham 42:25 Hurricane Experience at Hedonism 2 43:55 Staff Resilience and Recovery Efforts 52:30 Future Plans for Hedonism 2 54:53 Group Experiences at Hedonism 2 56:43 Management Approach and Staff Interaction 01:00:33 Renovations and Economic Challenges 01:04:26 Holiday Celebrations and Special Events 01:15:43 Support for Hedonism 2 Staff 01:18:26 Casual Swinger Week and Final Thoughts Casual Swinger Week Casual Toys Hedonism II IOS Connections Fluffernutters Rachal's Rebels   *

People find themselves entering a consensually non-monogamous relationship (aka "The swinging lifestyle") in SO many different ways and for different reasons.  One thing is almost universal though, at some point...the boys want a threesome.   Finding a single, willing girl who wants nothing more than to join a married (or attached) couple simply for their pleasure is SO rare she might as well be a mythical creature...aka, a "Unicorn." In tonight's Casual Swinger we break down a way that everyone can get what they want, and no Unicorns were harmed in the creation of this episode! Also, more on Podcast-A-Palooza, Revive Parties, Casual Swinger Week, and of course...WHISKEY of the MONTH! Links: Casual Toys Casual Swinger Week Vedo Toys Wicked Sensual Care Uberlube XR Brands/Creature Cocks Coochy Shave Cream NS Novelties Podcast-A-Palooza Hedonism II *

The swinging lifestyle is fraught with pitfalls and challenges for the strongest of relationships, but one of the biggest challenges (and fears) couples face is the emotional connection that can occur as these relationships deepen.  We were joined by Scott & April from Naughty Gym to wade into these dangerous waters for relationships and some of the specific challenges they present...if it's not "lifestyle," and it's not "Poly..." what is it? Links Casual Toys Naughty Gym Be Better @ Being Bad Week Casual Swinger Week Hedonism II Resort *

Almost nothing is more shocking than opening an email or text message and seeing the stunning visage of someone's glorious phallus throbbing in all of it's majesty...especially when you didn't ask for it. What's the origin of the d!ck pic?  Why do guys keep sending them? Is it easier or harder on people who actually get paid to look at them?  (Pardon the pun) Whatever the case, we were lucky enough to be joined by two of the amazing staff from Expansive Connections (www.expansiveconnection.com) to discuss not only the pictures themselves, but the motivations, the responses, and the outcomes of sending pictures of your family jewels to unsuspecting recipients. Dig in and learn more about the almighty d!ck p!c on this week's Casual Swinger! Bonus! The whiskey of the month is BACK! Check out the whiskey of the month this month, I.W. Harper Cabernet Cask Finish! Links: Expansive Connection Casual Toys Casual Swinger Week Dirty Perv Week Fluffernutters Hedonism II IW Harper Cabernet Cask Finish @ Total Wine *

"Content Creators" are absolutely everywhere these days.  The onset of personal content platforms has changed everything from the workplace to social media, right down to subcultures like the ethically non-monogamous lifestyle. In this return to form, Mickey & Mallory dig into the idea that content creators have irreparably and permanently changed the landscape of the lifestyle from a few different angles: 1) As content creators ourselves 2) As event promoters 3) And finally, as a lifestyle couple Spoiler alert...we don't agree!   Get in on this debate and hear a bit about what's been going on in our world! Links: Be Better @ Being Bad Week @ Hedonism II Hedonism II Casual Swinger Week @ Hedonism II Casual Toys *

Casual Swinger Week 2023 was over SIX years in the making...and even we couldn't have predicted what would happen when we brought 130 souls to our favorite place on earth, Hedonism II in Negril, Jamaica! Hear our feelings on the events of the week and some of the amazing experiences from our perspectives before listening to PART TWO, the trip from the attendees perspectives.     Casual Toys Hedonism II World Exotic Travel  Topless Travel *

Back in the saddle! Limavady CEO Darryl McNally & Whistle Pig Brand Educator Ingrid Rodriguez joined us live in the Casual Bar for a conversation about one of the oldest art forms in the world, making whiskey. Learn how to make great cocktails with Irish Whiskey & some facts about whiskey you've never heard before on this NEW episode of Casual Swinger! Make sure to use code CASUALSWINGER for a discount on these great brands! Limavady Irish Whiskey Whistle Pig Whiskey *

Ever wondered why such a little word is SO hard to say?   The Season 5 Premiere of Casual Swinger digs into the word we fear so much that we're afraid to say it...the Voldemort of the lifestyle..."NO." Also, catch up with us on our goings on, our trip to Hedo with amazing friends, and some of the Christmas specials coming your way at Casual Toys!   Casual Swinger Week Casual Toys Liberator Hedonism Resorts Whiskey of the Month Mrs. Milford *

It's the Season Finale of Season 4 and we're going all in folks! Faces out for Season 5 & we're talking about it with the host of another podcast we love that has absolutely NOTHING to do with the lifestyle, "The Things We All Carry."  His podcast focuses on the mental health struggles of first responders carrying the traumas from their various rescues over time and how they come to terms with that part of their lives.   We also dig into our experiences at Hedonism II, including our games and our upcoming CASUAL SWINGER WEEK!  That's right, in April 2023 we'll be headed to Hedonism II in Negril, Jamaica for a week of fun & laughs with our sexy friends you will NOT want to miss!   Current sponsors include: Shameless Care YoungCouplesParties.com Neva Nude Oxballs Uberlube Casual Toys Playhouse LV More to come! Check out our website for more information including room availability & rates! Last up, this month's Whiskey of The Month is:  George Dickel Barrel Select!   Notes: Dickel Barrel Select on Total Wine The Things We All Carry Hedonism II Casual Swinger Week @ Hedonism II Casual Toys   *

Regret is a funny thing.  So often it's better to regret something we HAVE done instead of something we haven't done.  However, in the lifestyle, does that still apply?  How do we express regret even if it means we're not sorry?   We dig in from the beautiful corn fields of Iowa with the amazing CornFed Swingers to have an honest & open conversation about our experiences...and our hearts on this second-to-last episode of Season 4 on Casual Swinger! PS - We've launched our Hedonism II trip for April 2023!  Join Casual Swinger on the sunny beaches of Negril, Jamaica for an epic vacation you'll never forget! Casual Toys Cornfed Swingers on Twitter Casual Swinger at Hedonism II Hedonism II WET Travel   *

Is size everything?  Is it all about male genitalia?   We talk size & all things being self conscious about it on this week's Casual Swinger!   Wanderlust Swingers Casual Toys Podcast-A-Palooza *

Why is it so damned hard to accept a compliment.  It's not a gender thing, a professional thing, or even a LIFESTYLE thing.  Taking a compliment is WAY harder than it is to give one...but we have to ask? Why don't we believe the people in our tribe when they tell us the things we HOPE others believe about us?  What's it gonna take? We examine this and more with our friend "The Alabaster Scrotum" in this latest episode of Casual Swinger! Also: Podcast-A-Palooza and the Casual Cocktail, along with Whiskey of the Month! Whiskey of the Month on Total Wine Old Forester Whiskey Podcast A Palooza Casual Toys The Casual Cocktail *

Upgrading the twins is a tough decision that we agonized over for months, meeting with doctor after doctor...we told you all about it in our episode, "Thanks for the Mammaries."  It was a tough go until we met Dr. David Plank from Mid-Florida Plastic Surgery, then everything changed. Find out in his own words why his approach is different from many other surgeons in the area and why we enjoyed him so much.  Also, why don't doctors have more personality?  What happened to Michael Jackson's nose? When should you say when its too much plastic surgery? Also, The Casual Cocktail, Podcast-A-Palooza, Naughty in Nawlins, and more in this week's Casual Swinger!   Casual Toys The Casual Cocktail - Join us for a mixology party like no other! Mid Florida Plastic Surgery Dr. David Plank - Guess Mallory's hoots! Whiskey of the Month - Michter's US1 Rye Podcast-A-Palooza Naughty in Nawlins   *

We sat down with the amazing Paige & Penn from the long running adult lifestyle podcast, "The Swinger Diaries," where we found out all about what those amazing people have been doing for the last year since they ended their podcast careers and started flying around the country!   Join us as we broadcast from the mountains of Tennessee (and endured a failed board that crushed our audio quality!) and laughed the weekend away with the likes of Average Swingers, Sapphic Swingers, and of course our friends, The Swinger Diaries!   PCAP Naughty in Nawlins - Wanderlust's Code Casual Toys Casual Swinger on YouTube The Casual Cocktail   *

Ever spend months planning the perfect outing with your lifestyle friends only to have to reschedule, replan, or completely rework your plans because of your (or your wife's) menstrual cycle? The reality of "the best laid plans" is that we aren't in control.  Hear about some of the disasters, the ridicule, or the challenges we've encountered along the way as we navigate the lifestyle while being human...and not without our faults. Also, ever wondered what they call "that time of the month" in other countries?  Hear some of our favorite euphemisms for "The Red Zone" on this week's Casual Swinger! BONUS!  It's time for WHISKEY OF THE MONTH!  Hang around til the end and find out which whiskey won us over with its amazing story this week!   Casual Toys The Rose Vibrator on Casual Toys Hedonism Resorts Euphemisms for Period by Language Whiskey of The Month Whiskey of The Month on Total Wine Podcast-A-Palooza   *    

"The slap heard around the world" happened when actor Will Smith charged the stage at the 2022 Oscars and slapped the hired emcee of the event, Chris Rock, in response to a joke he found distasteful regarding his wife, Jada Pinkett Smith.   Regardless of what you think about his assault on Chris Rock, the aftermath of this interaction is undeniable.  The steady stream of memes, jokes, and water cooler conversation happening around America undoubtedly makes the sexuality of the Smiths part of the referendum on Will Smith's behavior.   Join Mickey & Mallory as we dig in on our own personal experiences with some of these jokes, how they made us feel, and how we think these things should be handled moving forward. Also, more on Podcast-A-Palooza, 30 Days of Lingerie, and a Mallory's Toybox segment on one of our favorite brands, Noir Handmade!   Casual Toys Podcast A Palooza Noir Handmade @ Casual Toys Huffington Post on Masturbating Man   *  

This follow on to our episode on "The Imposter Syndrome," digs in deeper on the crisis of confidence we sometimes feel and the "quicksand" that occurs when we start to flail.  Join us as we open up a bit on our own confidence crisis and sit back and have a long look at the man & woman in the mirror...trying to get to the truth of why we feel the way we do...and how to overcome it. #Spoiler - all it takes is one great experience to turn things around! We also catch up on all things Podcast-A-Palooza, Casual Toys, Unique Condoms*, and of course...the MARCH 2022 Whiskey of the Month!   Casual Toys Podcast-A-Palooza Elijah Craig Small Batch on Total Wine The Black & Kinky Podcast

"Am I a swinger?" "Do I belong here?" "Am I DOING it wrong?"   We all ask ourselves questions that speak to the "Imposter Syndrome," and yes...even us.  Sometimes you just don't feel like you're "doing it right," for reasons that are often out of our own control.  Dont' give into fear or peer pressure...join us on this weeks LONG overdue Casual Swinger where we tell you what happened that caused a huge lull in our podcast (most unexpected...COVID! ) and hear us talk about something near and dear to what's been dragging Mickey down for weeks.   Also, Podcast-A-Palooza, Von Payne Whiskey, and of course FEBRUARY's #Whiskeyofthemonth are all in this NEW Casual Swinger!   Von Payne Whiskey Podcast A Palooza Casual Toys Bib & Tucker Bourbon*  

Over the last decade, the American whiskey market has seen rocketing sales with bourbon production alone growing by 150% and the number of craft distilleries increasing five fold.  US exports of bourbon exceeded 1 billion for the first time and 2013, with that trend increasing year over year ever since. Ingrid Rodriguez, Whistle Pig* Whiskey's own "Traveling Whiskey Fairy" joined us IN STUDIO to talk about her amazing brand, the whiskey craze in America, and demystifies some of the marketing terms on the bottles we see every day in the liquor store. Join us this week to get yourself "learned up" on whiskey and the AMAZING Whistle Pig Whiskey brand!   Links Casual Toys Whistle Pig Whiskey Liberator Bedroom Adventure Gear Motorbunny    

Let's face it.  When it comes to open relationships, the girls hold ALL the cards.  (Especially hotwives!)   As if it wasn't bad enough as a single guy looking for love, once you're a MARRIED guy looking for fun you're tossed in with every bad experience a girl has EVER had in her dating life...and the odds are NOT stacked in your favor. We talk about this frustrating experience for many guys from the Mickey's perspective when he was in an open marriage and dating, with some tips about how to help yourself be more successful as you navigate these treacherous and challenging waters. Be prepared, not everyone is going to agree with everything we say here, and we didn't even cover ALL* of it.  Get ready for the challenge of a lifetime...Mission Impossible - The Struggle of the Married Guy in an Open Relationship!   Links Casual Toys Motorbunny Liberator Casual Creators

It's Christmastime in Casual Swingerland!   Join Mickey & Mallory tonight while we discuss our pasts, how they relate to our relationships today, and how our present behaviors might impact our future.  Do it along side us and the three ghosts of "A Christmas Carol" as we're walked down memory lane (among other things) and figure out some answers to some burning questions we've had for years. This holiday spectacular is our last episode of 2021 and we want to thank all of you, the listeners, our friends, supporters, and anyone who's purchased from Casual Toys this year.  Thanks to all the content creators who've paved the way for us to make our silly show and had fun with us along the way.   Casual Toys Podcast-A-Palooza    

So often when we meet folks we click with the conversation turns to “rules,” which often times become a checklist of things we shouldn’t do if we want the other side to continue engaging with us...that feels...wrong?  Is there a better conversation to have other than the “Pretty Woman,” conversation that goes something like this: “I’m pretty much a sure thing, but I never kiss on the mouth.”  What are some of our own boundaries & rules we’ve had over the years? What's the DIFFERENCE between a "rule," and a boundary? Want some sexy things for your stocking? Want to pick the best bourbon for a stocking STUFFER? We’ll get into all of it on this week’s Casual Swinger!   Casual Toys Kix'ies Womanizer Uberlube Daisy Corsets *  

Podcast-A-Palooza is LEGIT.   We traveled to Dallas, Texas (we LOVE Texas!) with over 160 other lifestyle minded folks to learn, network, and connect in the sexiest environment anywhere, the highly curated lifestyle experience we call "Podcast-A-Palooza!" Content creators from all areas of the lifestyle descended on Dallas to share experiences with fans & friends alike in educational and entertaining sessions designed to expand on each of our journeys personally, sexually, and even professionally.   We laughed, we danced, we broke stuff...find out what's so damned special about this event and why we can't IMAGINE not attending this event every year!  We dig into our favorite aspects of the event and even drew in attendees to tell you guys what's so great about PCAP!   Listen in...and join us next time! *

Mallory's Hotwife journey has been an interesting road already.  Hear about some of the challenges she's faced as she gets VERY real discussing her inability to find what she wants, and dealing with one of the worst downsides of disingenuous partners...ghosting. We cover some of the factors we take into account when talking to a new friend for her and our process for selecting new friends for her while having a few laughs along the way...won't you join us?   Podcast A Palooza Casual Toys Bert Kreischer Tour Kenny Wayne Shepherd Tour Whiskey of the Month - Blade & Bow *

Fantasy is a big part of every bedroom in America, regardless if you're a swinger or not.  Couples have been dressing up & pretending they're everything from the preachers daughter to a college professor since the beginning of time...yet lots of us never get into the practice.  Curious?    So are we!  So we invited hotwife/cuckold couple powerhouse Jack & Kissy back on to talk about their INTENSE role play game!  Hear about some of their favorite characters they play and why this aspect of their sexuality actually improves their luck with couples!   Links   Casual Toys Podcast-A-Palooza  

In any ethically non-monogamous situation, inevitably we're going to encounter a wave of emotion leftover from the decades we've all been conditioned for monogamous behavior.  Be it religion or family dynamics, living an ethically non-monogamous life often runs counter to our upbringing. That emotional wave can rapidly turn to panic and it's incumbent upon us to self-soothe...but what if you CAN'T?  What if it hits you like a truck and you don't know what to do? That doesn't happen to Casual Swinger, does it?    This week we discuss why we need to self soothe, and some tips and tricks for helping yourself cope with that first wave of butterflies before it becomes a hurricane...of razor blades.   Casual Toys - THE shop for adult lifestyle wear & entertainment items   Podcast-A-Palooza Visit Jamaica  

Making friends is hard enough without worrying about them judging you for the things you do in your bedroom...even if they're not involved.  Tonight Mickey & Mallory sat down to talk about our own personal experience as we made the decision to prioritize lifestyle & sex positive friendships over traditional vanilla friendships as we established roots in a new state.   Also, we went down to Austin to see Jay & Angie from the Average Swingers Podcast for their annual Austin bar crawl and Angie's birthday!  Hear all about it on this week's Casual Swinger!   Casual Toys Average Swingers   Podcast-A-Palooza

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Well, we did it again.*   After you guys went crazy for "For Novelty Use Only," our exploration of sex toy materials that could make you sick, some of you asked us to have a look into lubricants.  We were just as shocked to find out some of this information as we were for your toys...so we did the research and this week you're going to find out how some lubricants: Can cause serious infections like bacterial vaginosis Can cause yeast infections Can increase your risk of STI/STDs Can make you sore & irritated Can prevent you from becoming pregnant It's time for a Casual Swinger educational minute!  Who's ready to sit down & learn!?   Studies Raise Questions About Safety Of Personal Lubricants Are Lubricants Safe? Potential Hazards of Lubricants for Women What Is a Body-Safe Lube? Harmful Lube Ingredients to Avoid Pleasure How to pick a lubricant Could Your Lube be Hurting You? | Femina PT Use and procurement of additional lubricants for male and female condoms: WHO/UNFPA/FHI360 6 Lube Ingredients You May Want to Avoid 4 Harmful Lube Ingredients You Should Avoid At All Costs 15 Best Natural Lubes In 2021, According To Gynecologists 15 Best Natural Lubes in 2020 That Feature the Safest Ingredients Lube Up for Better Lovin' 5 best lubricant alternatives and ones to avoid Why Some Personal Lubricants Are Not Fertility Friendly I tried all the bad lubes so you wouldn't have to – SheKnows Some popular vaginal products linked to infections, study finds Slippery Slope: Potential Hazards of Lubricants for Vaginal Tissue Osmolality and pH Properties of Some Commercial Lubricants Could Your Personal Lubricant Increase Your HIV Risk?. 5 Tips to Keep Your Sex Life Toxin-Free — Non Toxic Revolution Sarah E. Mueller Smitten Kitten - Presentation on lubricant safety Water-based Lube - What You Should Know  

Why is it that when we go on a swinger date, we almost always end up at a restaurant or a bar?  Well, part of it is that we have failed...miserably...at trying to find places for GOOD swinger dates elsewhere. Want to find out what a good place for a date is?  How about some bad ones?  Listen in to this week's Casual Swinger to find out more about where you should be spending your time with your new favorite couples & singles! Also, learn about the Casual Creator program on Casual Toys & catch up on "Swingin' In the News," where we talk about Louise Fischer, a Danish journalist who went the extra mile while covering the reopening of a local swingers club by having sex with the guy she was interviewing! New York Post - Danish Journalist Casual Toys   Hedonism II Casual Creators Program    

Mickey & Mallory kick off Season 4 with an introduction to her journey into breast augmentation.  We cover what we've learned from the FOUR different doctors plus research on the types of breast augmentation, the incisions, the materials, and even the aftercare for your new boobies.  *   It's an information heavy episode, but when we're done you'll know everything we know about Mallory's new titties!  Are you ready for this journey?   Casual Toys We-Vibe Nova 2 Unique Condom Uberlube   Hedonism II

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We sat down with BRAND new Hedonism* II GM, Dermot DeLoughry on his VERY FIRST DAY on the job! Find out more about the new boss of our favorite Caribbean destination, Hedonism II!  Also, catch up with us on our Christmas goin's on, including a Swingmas Christmas Party, vPCAP, PCAP, and of course our February Hedonism trip!   Stay til the end for a DELICIOUS Cranberry Old Fashioned recipe! INGREDIENTS 3 ounces quality bourbon whiskey 1 ounce cranberry simple syrup* 3 shakes Angostura bitters Garnish with orange peel, Ocean Spray® Fresh Cranberries, and rosemary INSTRUCTIONS In a serving glass with ice, stir together the bourbon, cranberry simple syrup, and bitters. Garnish with orange peel, fresh cranberries, and rosemary.   Notes *Cranberry Simple Syrup - In a saucepan, bring 2 cups of water, 1 cup of sugar, and one cup of fresh cranberries to a boil. Once boiling, cook for 4-5 minutes. Strain with a fine mesh sieve. Cool before serving.   Hedonism II   Casual Toys Unique Condoms Liberator Bedroom Adventure Gear  

Derek & Jess* were Hedo virgins before they met us, and now that they've made it home from their first ever trip to the most notorious resort on earth, Hedonism II, we catch up with them on some of the thought processes they endured before, during, and after their visit to the island of Jamaica and Hedonism II! This episode was recorded back in February 2020 after our trip with Rachals Rascals.  Since so many people were struggling with COVID-19, we didn't want to release this episode out of sensitivity to people struggling with the virus.  Today we're  BACK at Hedonism II and giving you a window into a new couples world who loved every minute of their first visit to Hedonism II! Casual Toys   Hedonism II Unique Condoms Womanizer Premium  

The things that happen to us in life shape us.  There's almost no getting around it, but is that a good practice in the lifestyle?  Hear about some of the things, both negative AND positive, that have happened to us and how we dealt with them, got past them, and moved on together in the lifestyle on this week's Casual Swinger!  SPOOOKY BONUS!  - We announce the winner of the Womanizer Premium courtesy of Double Date Nation!!   Casual Toys Double Date Nation - CasualSwinger Womanizer Global SDC - CasualSwinger SLS - CasualSwinger Kasidie - CasualSwinger Hedonism II Resort, Negril Jamaica