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Change The Subject

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Welcome to Change The Subject. A show where we frequently travel outside of the margins of the common mind. The host, Dergobj, discusses interpersonal and transparent topics about the intricacies and parallels of life. But with depth, wit, and originality. We don't hold your typical conversation over here! We take our conversations further...deeper....elsewhere. This show is for those of you who are like the podcast's host: A person who gets tired of talking about THE SAME SHIT!!!

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Episodes

  1. The Ability Series: Part 4 - I Ain't A Hoe Ass Nigga...I'm Just Hurt (feat. Brotha2DaKnight of The Drunken Knights)

    We are here today with the last and final part of Account Ability, here on The Ability Series. Today we speak from the title of "I Ain't A Hoe Ass Nigga, I'm Just Hurt!'...which embodies the perspective of a black man being hurt at the hands of a woman. Very often, as men, we dont develop the...

  2. The Ability Series: Part 3 - The Bad Guy Vs. The Villain (feat. DJ Brainstorm of Drunk Mind Sober Thoughts Podcast)

    Part 3 of The Ability Series is titled The Bad Guy Vs. The Villain. This is a space where your flaws become weaponized without your knowledge...or lack thereof. How do you maneuver through life and love with skills you don't have. BJ and today's guest, DJ Brainstorm of The DMSTBoyz, discuss how...

  3. The Ability Series: Part 2 - When Nobody's Looking (feat. Jae of Just Say Words Podcast)

    Welcome Back to the 2nd Part of The Ability Series. Today we are following up the first part, which was One Or The Other. That episode featured Shon Hyneman of It's Scary To Remarry. Previously, we discuss accountability in terms of discernment and decision making. This episode we discuss morals...

  4. The Ability Series: Part 1 - One Or The Other (feat. Shon Hyneman of It's Scary To Remarry YouTube Series)

    Welcome to the first part of what we will call The Ability Series. This is a project BJ decided to create to have some very hard discussions with men...in terms of account ability (the first ability we are touching). Here is where we have conversations with men about things we weren't fortunate...

  5. Episode 40: Are & Be (feat. Queen PoIIson)

    Episode 40 is called Are & Be. Differentiating the differences between where you are from where you aspire to be. In most cases, we think the words are parallel to one another. but if you really dig deep enough, you will find that there is a chance that you get these two confused. Which in turn...

  6. Bonus Episode: I Ain't Had A Crush In Years (feat. Kira of MomsAndMartinis Podcast)

    Thank you guys and girls for tuning in to the latest episode of Change The Subject. Today we have a bonus episode for you to get into. And such a great conversation this is. Today we are discussing crushes at our adult ages. Titled 'I Ain't Had A Crush In Years", we talk about the differences in...

  7. Episode 39: For Better No Worse ( feat. Stefanie The Life Architect and Denny Blanco (also known as R.B.C.))

    It's been a minute...I KNOW. Apologies for my absence. But I'm back with a treat for your ears. BJ has been holding on to this episode for a month now. A great conversation was had on a getaway to SEVERN, MD for a recharge. Only a small few were in attendance. And two of which had a conversation...

  8. Episode 38: Tough Cookie (feat Hype Williamz of Denny Talks IGTV Series)

    Today is a very special episode of Change The Subject. We use one of BJ's personal favorite personalities as the catalyst for a protection conversation about women. Hype Williamz is the guest today on Change The Subject. She is often misunderstood for aggressive, assertive, and "over the…

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  9. Episode 37: The Broom (feat. Jayomega of The Officially Street Podcast)

    Episode 37 is a very dope conversation, brought to you by BJ and Change The Subject. We are discussing how we as men sweep women off of their feet in year 2020. Titled, The Broom, BJ and today's special guest discuss the importance of trying, in terms of women, to emphasizes our queens worth and...

  10. (#TMHTLYB) Lesson 14: Using Proper Protection (feat. NeoSoulCoko)

    Teach Me How To Love You Better is back with Lesson 14. BJ is excited to present this really good conversation about protecting your hearts and bodies simultaneously. Today's lesson is called Using Proper Protection. This is a discussion that talks about the responsibilities we neglect when…

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  11. Episode 36: My Sentiments Exactly (feat. Denny Blanco of Denny Talks)

    The good brother BJ returns with an unexpected release of Change The Subject. Episode 36 is called My Sentiments Exactly. This conversation is about women's favorite word of 2020: intentionality. As men, we can go throughout our lives battling to overcome our obstacles in life. And in those…

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  12. Episode 35: When Your Right Hand Man Goes Left: Part 2 (feat. Johnnie of Oversaturated Podcast)

    Episode 35 is a great man to man conversation titled When Your Right Hand Man Goes Left. This is actually a follow up to a conversation BJ held earlier in his career with the Drunk Mind Sober Thoughts podcast in Cleveland Ohio. We follow up this conversation in attempts to improve our connections...

  13. (#TMHTLYB) Lesson 13: The N Word (feat. AJ a.k.a Bad Ass Jones of The Pum Pum Chronicles Podcast)

    Lesson 13 of Teach Me is here. And this is not the usual conversation we have on this show. But its a talk point long overdue for discussion. Today's lesson deals with narcissism. We learn that this thing we are so critical of, when we encounter it in people, is actually considered a mental…

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  14. Episode 34: The First "Nice Guy" (feat. Ralph of Oversaturated Podcast)

    Welcome to episode 34 of Change The Subject...that we will call The First "Nice Guy'. This discusses the guy who comes in contact with a woman at the worst times in her life. Each of those times seem to destroy a good guy by nature...so BJ and his special guest discuss what this process feels…

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  15. (#TMHTLYB) Lesson 12: Feels Like I'm Cheating (feat. Latrice Sampson Richards)

    Lesson 12 of Teach Me How To Love You Better is titled Feels Like I'm Cheating. This conversation is about people who have yet to accept the darkness or disturbances they feel about their past. The attempts to mask it always seems to find a way to come forward when you least expect it to. And…

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  16. Episode 33: Bottled Up Black Boy Joy (feat. D Murph of Flagrant 2)

    My dawg came through on Episode 33 of Change The Subject. And BJ is excited to chop it up with the homie. D Murph of Why Not Sports (as well as Flagrant 2) is a long time friend and brother who was present at the very beginning of Change The Subject. He was the person who poured into BJ the...

  17. (#TMHTLYB) Lesson 11: "H" For My Husband (feat. That Girl Podcast)

    Today we have what is going to be called a Group Chat lesson. We have two women to hold a conversation with today on Teach Me How To Love You Better. The lesson, titled "H For My Husband" is another spiritual follow up to Sexy In The Eyes of God with Simply Sonja. We have special guests, Erika...

  18. Episode 32: Lead and Background Vocals (feat Stefanie The Life Architect)

    Ladies and Gentlemen!...welcome to episode 32 of Change the Subject. Today we bring to you an episode called Lead and background Vocals...which is a sophisticated way to address a few things. And because of such a sophisticated conversation, I needed someone who has wit, experience, and…

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  19. (#TMHTLYB) Lesson 10: Sexy In The Eyes Of God (feat. Simply Sonja)

    Today's lesson of Teach Me How To Love You Better is an invitation to what we call "Modernized Ministry"...where we talk about God and Sex in the same conversation in the most realistic way. This lesson, that we call "Sexy In The Eyes of God", tackles the fears of God and our sexuality abiding...

  20. Episode 31: Keep Disturbing Our Peace, We Will Burn This B!#ch Down (feat. Christian of Dem Chakras Podcast)

    It is truly unbelievable how a world can possess so much hate for Black, Brown, and Native American people. And as white supremacy and inequality continues to rise, we are seeing an uprising. People of Color have had it up to HERE with the system and its oppressors. We are outraged, angry,...

  21. (#TMHTLYB) Lesson 9: The Anxiety of Waiting Your Turn (feat. Lex of The Free Space Podcast)

    BJ is excited to present this lesson of Teach Me How to Love you Better. This lesson deals with women, and their anxiety. The anxiety for something that you absolutely deserve, but may not be your time for. And this is what God or your energy may be communicating. How can you tell a person, whose...

  22. Episode 30: Talk To Me Nice (feat. Syer of The Officially Street Podcast)

    We have been fighting the virus and the troubles of this world...but we are here with episode 30 of Change The Subject. Titled "Talk To Me Nice", this episode is about the golden rule being applied in a relationship. When you say to someone "treat them like you want to be treated"...its often...

  23. (#TMHTLYB) Lesson 8: A Man Is A Perk...Not A Plan (feat. Maya of Pretty N Purposed Podcast)

    We have finally returned with a brand new lesson of Teach Me How To Love You Better. This segment is a conversation created by a man who desires to create intentional conversations with women. Hopefully those of you who are new to this process will enjoy the new discoveries and concepts of love...

  24. Episode 29: Love And Poverty Don't Mix (feat. Ms. Nicole Banks of Let's Keep It 100)

    Episode 29 is here Ladies and Gentleman!!! This episode is titled Love And Poverty Don't Mix (Damn Shame right???). Love always seems to suffer nowadays because of a person's well being...or lack thereof. Today's conversation is geared towards the idea that what needs to be enriched is our...

  25. Episode 28: Kissing With Both Eyes Closed (feat Kira of MomsAndMartinis Podcast)

    We have finally overcome the depressions and anxieties of Covid 19, and have returned with a brand new episode of Change The Subject. Episode 28 is a conversation about trust and disconnection during the intimacy stages of relation/situationships. We are isolated from our livelihoods, families…

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  26. Episode 27: Love: On Loud Speaker (feat. Jazzie Bee of Melanin Uncorked Podcast)

    Love: On Loud Speaker is available here on Change The Subject. Love: On Loud Speaker is a conversation about the concept of loving out loud. One of many battles of the sexes is the idea that men aren't professing their love for their women today. And as sexist as this sounds...the real statement...

  27. Episode 26: Blindly Benevolent (feat. Christal Clear of Christal Clear: The Podcast)

    BJ is super excited to bring you Episode 26 of Change The Subject. This episode is very touchy (for many reasons), but In very positive and constructive ways. This episode deals with fathers, and the the wages of the sins committed against the women they've encountered. This conversation, titled...

  28. Episode 25: Love Hard...Or The Hard Way? (Featuring. KeKe of Kinks With KeKe Podcast)

    BJ is back with Episode 25 of Change The Subject. Fresh off of an incredible episode called "I Know These So Called Playas Wouldn't Tell You This" with AJ from What We Gone Do Podcast...comes another great conversation about how men view and receive love from their women. This episode, titled…

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  29. Episode 24: I Know These So Called Playas Wouldn't Tell You This (feat. AJ of What We Gone Do Podcast)

    Change The Subject is here a bit early with episode 24, which is titled "I Know These So Called Playas Wouldn't Tell You This..." ....which is a line from one of the most heralded recordings of the famous R&B group Jagged Edge. And in this case, what most won't tell you is THE TRUTH about why men...

  30. Episode 23: The Spiritual Partner Episode (feat. Christian Briana of Dem Chakras Podcast)

    We are here with the official FIRST episode of year 2020. And from the title alone, you can tell that we aren't going in the same direction as last year. We are here to improve and empower. And today's episode is going to assist us in the direction we would need to go in, to get there. This…

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  31. (Bonus Episode) Where You Been Danny?? (feat. Danny of The Danny and Cleo Show)

    Welcome to a brand new episode of Change The Subject. Today we have a bonus episode, that was recorded on a quick trip to Philadelphia last weekend. While BJ was out of town trying to start up new business...he was able to connect with one of his favorite guys to kick it with. Who is also a…

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  32. Episode 22: Happy New Narrative 2020 (feat. Nobody)

    Welcome to a New Year...A New Decade...and a New Episode of Change The Subject. Congratulations to you for surviving the tests of 2019, as you walk into your purposes and visions of 2020. BJ is back with a brief episode to say "Waddup Doe" , as well as recap the biggest lesson he received in…

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  33. (#TMHTLYB) Lesson 7: Intention by Monroe Bishop (of TwithMonroe Podcast)

    Lesson 7 of Teach Me How To Love You Better is here ladies and gentlemen! We have a very special lesson, and guest, to discuss a very important topic that you hear women speak on every day in their social lives and gossip columns. We have Mrs. Monroe Bishop of the T with Monroe Podcast here with…

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  34. Episode 21: Ms. Understood (feat. ImJustJackie of Let's Keep It 100)

    BJ is very excited to welcome you to Episode 21; that we are going to call "The Legal Age Episode"....and for some reason, that title is somewhat befitting. Considering we are discussing the concept of being grown. Growth is paramount in certain areas of life...and today's guest is a prime…

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  35. (#TMHTLYB) Lesson 6: Fetishes by Bad Ass Jones (also known as AJ of The Pum Pum Chronicles Podcast)

    Welcome Ladies and Gentleman to Lesson 6 of Teach Me How To Love You Better. This is a very great lesson that discusses a sensitive subject that most women struggle with in silence. The uncertainty of attraction and desire can be very disheartening and depressing. And knowing this, BJ decided to...

  36. (#TMHTLYB) Lesson 5: Lead by Cherry Poppins (of The Officially Street Podcast)

    Welcome back to Teach Me How To Love You Better. We are here with a very exciting lesson, and guest. Today's Lesson, which is Lesson 5, is titled Lead. We held this conversation with none other than Cherry Poppins, of The Officially Street Podcast, that she Co Hosts with alongside Syer and...

  37. Episode 20: Cute Girl With The Big Butt (feat. PeopleTalkDaily of SoleOfAHustla)

    We are here to present a new episode of Change The Subject, for all of your listening pleasures. And its a goodie. Today's episode, which is episode 20, is titled "Cute Girl With The Big Butt". Our special guest is none other than Avery, also known as PeopleTalkDaily of SoleOfAHustla Podcast. My...

  38. Episode 19: Never Forget...(But At Some Point) Let It Go (Feat. Bre of Good Morning Beautiful Podcast)

    You have just tuned into episode 19 of one of your favorite podcasts...Change The Subject. We return with a treat for those who are a part of Indy podcast culture. This episode's guest is a well known, yet very controversial guest known as "Liberian Bae".... We have Subrena, formerly of Good...

  39. (#TMHTLYB Bonus Lesson) Comprehend by Taneisha Brianna ( also known as Queen Poiison )

    We are here with a bonus episode of Teach Me How To Love You Better! Today's teacher is none other than Queen Poiison, a self published author and poet. She and I go a ways back. But we have also seen each other grow. So it has been a while since we have connected on audio. So, BJ took advantage…

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  40. Episode 18: Where Two or Three Are Gathered (feat. Stefanie The Life Architect)

    Today is a very special episode of Change The Subject! Five days before her highly anticipated 1 Year Anniversary Live Show of her amazing podcast, The I SAID NO! Podcast....we are blessed to hold a conversation with an exceptional content creator and well respected life coach we know as…

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  41. (#TMHTLYB) Lesson 4: Shadow Work by Christian Brianna (of Dem Chakras Podcast)

    Lesson 4 features Christian Brianna of Dem Chakras Podcast. We talk about shadow work!!!

  42. Episode 17: Dog Training (feat. Jones of Stakes Is High Podcast)

    Welcome back ladies and gents! We are here with Episode 17 of Change The Subject. And it's a good episode. Today we have returned with Dog Training. This is an episode that deals with the ideals of how men actually become dogs, in terms of how they treat women. You will be shocked to find out…

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  43. Episode 16: The Mid Love Crisis (feat. CEO Haize of Awakened Soul Podcast)

    Welcome Back listeners. I am so excited to share this new episode. This has so many highlights. One of which is the returning guest. My brother CEO Haize joins me to discuss a very traumatic stage of events that a man experiences...just as he decides he's ready for love. This conversation piece…

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  44. (#TMHTLYB) Lesson 3: Expansion by Autumn Woodland (of I Feel Scene Podcast)

    Welcome to Lesson 3 of Teach Me How To Love You Better. This lesson is about Expansion. This gives men perspective on what is needed from them in the event that they encounter an independent woman. There are ways men can be very effective in love without being providers, protectors, and provision...

  45. Episode 15: Sophisticated Hatred (feat. Flaw700 of The Podcast Brothers)

    Thank you for tuning in...welcome back to a brand new episode of Change The Subject. Here we have episode 15, which is titled Sophisticated Hatred, which deals with masked emotions and resentments for people who have begun to elevate in life. Most times in life you will experience growth among...

  46. (#TMHTLYB) Lesson 2: Support by Christal Clear (Of The Christal Clear Podcast)

    Ladies and Gentleman...Thank you for tuning into this amazing experience called Teach Me How To Love You Better! Today we are here with Lesson 2. And to give a fair warning...men definitely need pencils/pens and paper for this one. This conversation picked up where the last lesson left off. And...

  47. Episode 14: The Top Floor (feat. Jae (JustSayWords) of The Pod Dealers Network

    We have arrived at Episode 14 of Change The Subject people! Today's conversation is called The Top Floor. Metaphorically based upon the uprising that takes place in your goals and accomplishments. The conversation deals a lot with accountability, responsibility, and awareness for yourself, and...

  48. (#TMHTLYB) Lesson 1: Identity by Erica Butler (also known as The Brown Girl)

    Welcome to the very first installment of Teach Me How To Love You Better. This is a segment presented by Dergobj and Change The Subject. The purpose of this is to create a safe space for women to keep it real with men. But the beauty of this is that men are NOT being argumentative in this space.…

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  49. (Bonus Episode) Body Accounts (feat. TaKenyah)

    Welcome Back to Change The Subject. Today we have a bonus episode, that was recorded back in March of 2019. It was a conversation that I would like to title Body Accounts. It's a dialogue about the various phases a person goes through when its time to make health decisions for themselves. There…

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ABOUT THIS SHOW

Welcome to Change The Subject. A show where we frequently travel outside of the margins of the common mind. The host, Dergobj, discusses interpersonal and transparent topics about the intricacies and parallels of life. But with depth, wit, and originality. We don't hold your typical conversation over here! We take our conversations further...deeper....elsewhere. This show is for those of you who are like the podcast's host: A person who gets tired of talking about THE SAME SHIT!!!

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