Episodes
-
She Should Love Me For Who I am!
This Episode explores the idea that your mate should accept and love you for who you are.
-
Domesticating Zod! (She Will Try to Control You)
On this episode of the podcast we explore the phenomena whereby women attempt to control and domesticate their male partner. We first explore the reason why this happens. We then talk about the techniques that women use to control men. Then finally, we talk about the methods you can use to reduce...
-
The Double Bind - Impossible To Win Situations (AEP^2)
In this episode of the podcast we explore the “double bind,” or impossibly to win situations. First, we describe and define what the double bind is and how it works. Next we describe the profile of people that tend to do this and why they do it. And finally, we describe how you can use the AEP^2...
-
Creating the Monster! (Psychological Entitlement)
On this episode of the podcast we are going to describe and review the concept of psychological entitlement. First, we define psychological entitlement so we can understand it. Second, we talk about how entitlement evolves as a defensive mechanism. And finally, we describe a three step method you...
-
No Empathy, No Remorse - Amgydala Hijack!
On this episode of the we explore the phenomena of amygdala hijack. Amygdala hijack os entered into when a person experiences some form of threat to their self autonomy. The threat could be non acceptance by another of their emotional state, or a threat to their emotional well being. A state of...
-
Force Powers: AEP (Acceptance - Empathy - Pivot)
On this episode of the podcast we introduce the Force Powers AEP method. In this case AEP stands for Acceptance - Empathy - Pivot. On the podcast we first give a brief background on the power of Acceptance and Empathy and how they activate “reward” in the brain. Second, we articulate the AEP...
-
Force Powers: Hacking the Unconscious Mind
On this episode of the podcast we explore the nature of the unconscious mind. First, we explore and describe the nature of the unconscious mind and how it drives human behavior, motivations and goals. Then we describe 9 Force Powers that affect the unconscious mind in order to motivate another...
-
Force Powers: Hacking the Human Body - Expectations
On this episode of the podcast we discuss and describe the concept of expectations. Basically, when someone rejects you they will expect your behavior to be negative. We can hack this mind / body process by exceeding their expectations. If we do exceed their expectations, they experience a…
more -
The Flow of Empathy (Feminine) Into Mission (Masculine)
On this episode of the podcast we provide a model whereby you flow from empathy into mission seamlessly. But first, we go back 70,000 years to describe male and female mating behaviors. From those behaviors we can see how modern day mating behaviors have evolved. Knowing how these behaviors have...
-
The Flow of the Masculine and Feminine
Famous psycho analyst Carl Jung speaks of the Anima and Animus, or the masculine and feminine energies which exist inside all. On this podcast we first work to understand this concept. And then we discuss how behaviors and hormones change and enhance each other. Finally, we discuss methods by…
more -
Secrets of Female Sexual Desire and Lovemaking
On this episode of the podcast we explore the secrets of female sexual desire and lovemaking. First, we look at the research that tells us that female sexual desire declines more rapidly for females than men in marriage. We then review the research on female sexual fantasies to understand what…
more -
“She’s Sabotaging!” (Becoming the Fox Pt.2)
Women will sabotage relationships due to a number of reasons. Relationship self sabotage is fundamentally about protecting the self from harm. In this episode of the podcast we first explain what relationship sabotage is and give examples. We then give first hand accounts from women with regards…
more -
The Perfect Date
On this episode of the podcast we explore the idea of the “perfect date.” First, we explore the research on dates to better understand how females evaluate dates and what they are looking for in terms of cues, interest / attraction levels and conversation. The w e go through the specific actions...
-
Empathy
On this episode of the podcast we explore and define empathy. First, we give some background research on empathy to understand what it is and how it works. We then go through different models to explain how to use it. And we finish off with exercises you can do to improve your empathy.
-
You Must Become the (Dead) Red Fox
The red fox is cunning and full of deception and guile. The fox is able to capture a carrion as a meal by “playing” dead. You too must learn the skills and the are of playing “dead” in order to reunite with the woman you love after a severe breakup. On this episode of the podcast we describe the...
-
“Navigating Her Map!” (She Won’t Guide You)
No woman is simply going to give you a map to her heart. You can forget about that ever happening. Instead, you must understand what the map to her heart looks like and learn to successfully navigate the storms and waves. In this episode of the podcast we describe 6 key things that you need to...
-
“Captain of the Ship!”
On this episode of the podcast we explore the idea that the partner in a relationship must portray and act in a manner that personifies the captain of the ship. We describe five dimension in which the masculine partner acts as the captain of the ship. First and foremost, the captain’s duty is the...
-
Waves and Storms (Hormone Cycles of the Feminine Explained)
We talk about the waves and storms of the feminine. David Deida talks about the “layers of wilderness” of the female. But what exactly drives these storms? On this episode of the podcast we describe and articulate how female hormone levels go up and down in cycles. The first cycle is the monthly...
-
“She’s Out Of Control!” (Escaping Behavior / Science of Mania)
On this episode of the podcast we explore the situation of when a relationship ends and your partner is “out of control” and behaving in manic ways. We often call this “escaping” and “rebounding.” It turns out that specific types of stress actually trigger bouts of hypomania and mania. On this...
-
“All We Do Is Argue!” (4 Step Conflict Resolution)
Hostility and arguments often start when one person feels slighted / hurt or disrespected. And that hostility is usually returned by the recipient -‘d an argument ensues. In this episode of the podcast we work through a 4 Step Conflict Resolution model that allows us to de-escalate the situation...
-
“You’re Not Hearing Me!” (Magic of Acceptance)
On this episode of the podcast we explore the ideas of “being heard” and acceptance. We first define “acceptance” and then we hi-light the research as to why it’s so important for a woman to feel heard and accepted. We then describe how to make your partner feel heard and accepted using both...
-
“She Won’t Just Let You Walk up the Mountain“
On this episode of the podcast we focus why your partner / ex won’t simply let you just walk up the mountain to become a free and loving person. First we describe the three reasons why she won’t let you just walk up the mountain. Then we describe how to handle her challenges and provocations as…
more -
“Written in Stone” (Power of Your Words / Journaling)
Feeling a “loss of control” in your life can be debilitating and the cause of adverse health events. Divorce, separation, break up and job loss are all likely to a feeling of “loss of control.” On this episode of the podcast we first explain the negative mental and body health impact of perceived...
-
Safe, Subtle and Suggestive (Science of Flirting)
In this episode of the podcast we first define flirting and discuss why the ambiguity and vagueness of flirting is especially important to woman. Second, we discuss female body language that signals she’s interested in you. Third, we describe the male body langue that females are attracted to.…
more -
Only You and the Fish Exist (No Distractions)
“You have to make your reality whereby only you and the fish exist.” What are we talking about here? What we want to do is eliminate unnecessary distractions that cause us to self sabotage and experience failure. On this podcast we first describe three types of irrelevant distractions that cause...
-
TERRAFORMING! Radiating Positive Energy (Emotional Contagions)
On this episode of the podcast we describe that art of Terraforming! Radiating positive energy in your environment and positively impacting those around you. First we describe what terraforming is, then we describe the process by which emotions act as a contagion influencing the moods and the...
-
“She Rejected Me!” (Science of Rejection)
On this episode we explore and describe the science of rejection. First we describe how being rejected impacts the body from a physiological and neurological perspective. Then we walk through Three steps you can undertake to lessen the blow of rejection and use it as positive event.
-
“We’re Just Friends!” (Her Cognitive Dissonance)
In this episode of the podcast we explore and define the psychological phenomena known as “cognitive dissonance.” First, we define cognitive dissonance from a psychological perspective. Then we describe and give examples of how it surfaces in relationships and breakups. Third, we describe and...
-
“You’re Not Fighting For Me!” (Provocative Statements)
Provocative language can be hurtful, upsetting and disorientating. If you’re not prepared your responses to provocative language will likely worsen an already bad situation. In this podcast we walk through some of the well worn statements heard in relationships. We then introduce a framework you...
-
She Loves to Punish - Take Your Punishment Little Spartan
Do women really love to punish the men that hurt and anger them within the context of a relationship? If you’ve emotionally hurt, angered Or disrespected the women you love, there’s a good chance she will punish you. On this episode of the podcast we explore why women love to punish men. We then...
-
“What’s The Plan?” (Vision and Objectives)
Many people ask, “what’s the plan” without having a clear understanding of what a “plan” is. In this podcast we describe the framework for a plan that has both a vision and objectives. The objectives are timeless and enduring and are vital in any relationship. You can learn and master these...
-
Your Singular Purpose (Learning From Zod)
Many people ask, “how do I sustain and muster the energy to keep going on when it seems so bleak?” The answer is that you must have a singular and committed purpose. To climb the mountain you must live that purpose. On this episode we define and describe what singular purpose is, and we describe...
-
“He Just Doesn’t Listen!” (Female Communication)
On this episode of the podcast we explore describe female communication styles. First, using academic research we describe both female and male dominant communication styles. In looking at that research it’s evident that women place great emphasis on connecting and feelings and being heard and...
-
Free and Loving (No Storm Can Alter My Direction)
On this episode of the podcast we describe what it means to be a Free and Loving man / woman. We first define what “free and loving” means. After that, we describe a guide / compass you can use to assess your “direction” in order to assess if your behavior is Free and Loving. Finally, we give…
more -
“I Want Her to See My Value!” (Science of Social Proof)
On this episode of the podcast we explore and describe the science of social proof. Social proof is a psychological method whereby you can signal your value to others using specific mechanisms. On this episode we first define what social proof is. We then describe how and when to use it. And...
-
“I Want Her To Miss Me!” (Science of Scarcity)
Men will often say that they want a girl “to miss me!” Or they might say they want a girl to “wonder about me.” What we want to do is harness the power of scarcity in order to create draw or attraction. On this episode of the podcast we define what scarcity is from both a psychological and...
-
She’s Not Attracted to me Anymore! (Attraction)
On this episode of the podcast we define and describe the nature of attraction on relationships. We first describe how attraction evolved from evolutionary forces. We then give a definition of attraction from a biological perspective. Then we define what “chemistry” is. And then we articulate the...
-
“It’s Not Fair!”
On this episode of the podcast we explore the idea of fairness in relationships. First we explain the nature of relationships and why notions of “fair” don’t always apply. Second, we explore differences in male and female sensory awareness and how this affects notions of fairness. Third, we…
more -
How Trauma and Stress Damage the Brain
On this episode of the podcast we explore how trauma and stress impact the functioning of the brain. Trauma and stress can cause long term damage to the brain which can have an impact on female behaviors over a life time. First we explore the types of trauma and stress that can cause damage. Then...
-
“He’s So Needy!”
Why Needy Behavior is Disgusting To The Female. And why you as a man need to be aware of this, and take the necessary steps to curtail your excessive desire for affirmation and affection.
-
The Power of Being Unaffected
In This Podcast We Explore The Nature Of Being “Unaffected” And Why It’s So Powerful. Unaffected Essentially Means That You Do Not React In Negative Ways To The Provocations And Test Of The Female. We Explore The Science Behind Being Unaffected And The Neurological Reasons It’s So Effective In...
-
“She’s Playing Games!” Understanding Female Behavior
We often hear men state that, “shes playing games!” The term “games” is used as a euphemism for manipulation. When men state that “she’s playing games,” they feel that the female is somehow manipulating them. In this podcast we first explain how use of words / terms impacts how we think and…
more -
Do Nice Guys Finish Last?
On this episode of the Podcast we explore the myth of the “nice guy” who finishes last with girls. First, we define what “nice” means. Second, we review research in terms of what females are really attracted to in a man. Third, we describe the balance of male behaviors and attributes that a…
more -
Power In Intimate Relationships
All relationships have a balance of power. Sometimes one partner has more power than the other. In this podcast we first describe the sources of power in an intimate relationship. We then describe sources of power that are exclusive to the female. We then describe why a partner with more power…
more -
“I Need To Spend Time So She Can See My Changes!”
On this episode of the podcast we discuss how you should be thinking about how you spend time with your partner after a breakup / separation / divorce. After or during a breakup your partner is likely to have a negative emotional valence towards you. If they have a negative emotional valence...
-
“She Doesn’t Respect Me!” Respect In Intimate Relationships
Men feel the need for “respect” to a much higher degree than females. When a man feels his partner / wife is not respecting him it can cause the man to feel devalued and he can become angry or upset. On this episode of the podcast we explore the nature of respect in intimate relationships. First,...
-
“But My Girl Is Different!” Explaining Personality vs Emotion
Many men will say, “but my girl is different!” Meaning, she is somehow unique and different from all other women. And of course; every woman, and every human, is unique and different and a blessing. However, we need to understand the difference between personality and emotions. Personality and...
-
Perseverance! How to Persevere and Achieve Long Term Goals
Achieving long term goals can be difficult, especially when signs of success are not very apparent. At least not apparent to the inexperienced eye. As such, when you’re trying to reunite with an estranged wife or girlfriend, you need to understand how to increase goal commitment, and use…
more -
Her Phone! Men Can’t Handle This And How to Fix It
Most men are threatened by their partners (wife, girlfriend, etc) use of their phone. The feeling of being threatened by her phone use usually results in either controlling (“you’re always on your phone!”) or needy behavior (“I wish you gave me more time, you’re always in your phone.”) Both of...