Close the Chapter Podcast with Kristen Boice

In this episode, Kristen explores what emotionally intelligent families do differently and how those patterns help shape emotionally safe adults and healthier relationships.  You will learn: How family communication shapes emotionally safe adults and future relationships The signs of emotionally healthy vs. emotionally unhealthy family systems Why emotional safety, vulnerability, and repair are essential for connection How childhood emotional patterns impact adult relationships and attachment Practical questions to help create deeper emotional connection within families Ways to break generational patterns and build healthier emotional habits together   Subscribe HERE and get a free 5-day journal to begin closing the chapter on what doesn't serve you and open the door to the real you. Connect with Kristen: Get Kristen's newsletter, packed with tangible tools, resources, and inspiration Watch the episodes on YouTube Follow Kristen on Instagram   Kristen's TikTok   Have Kristen Speak at Your Event  Disclaimer This information is being provided to you for educational and informational purposes only. It is being provided to you to educate you about ideas on stress management and as a self-help tool for your own use. It is not psychotherapy/counseling in any form. This information is to be used at your own risk based on your own judgment. For counseling services near Indianapolis, IN, visit www.pathwaystohealingcounseling.com. Pathways to Healing Counseling's vision is to provide warm, caring, compassionate and life-changing counseling services and educational programs to individuals, couples and families in order to create learning, healing and growth.    

In this episode, Kristen shares a powerful conversation with Rachel Hall, LMHC, about working through fear and shame, especially during uncertain and emotionally overwhelming seasons.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                               In this episode, you will learn: How fear and shame impact your thoughts, emotions, and relationships Why self-compassion is essential for emotional healing and growth How to recognize the "shame stories" and patterns that keep you stuck Practical tools to regulate your nervous system and work through difficult emotions How empathy, boundaries, and emotional awareness create healthier connections *]:pointer-events-auto R6Vx5W_threadScrollVars scroll-mb-[calc(var(--scroll-root-safe-area-inset-bottom,0px)+var(--thread-response-height))] scroll-mt-(--header-height)" dir="auto" data-turn-id="29f7f34d-86a7-4eb6-939c-c6cf1ecc089d" data-testid="conversation-turn-3" data-scroll-anchor="false" data-turn="user"> Subscribe HERE and get a free 5-day journal to begin closing the chapter on what doesn't serve you and open the door to the real you. Connect with Kristen: Get Kristen's newsletter, packed with tangible tools, resources, and inspiration Watch the episodes on YouTube Follow Kristen on Instagram   Kristen's TikTok   Have Kristen Speak at Your Event  Disclaimer This information is being provided to you for educational and informational purposes only. It is being provided to you to educate you about ideas on stress management and as a self-help tool for your own use. It is not psychotherapy/counseling in any form. This information is to be used at your own risk based on your own judgment. For counseling services near Indianapolis, IN, visit www.pathwaystohealingcounseling.com. Pathways to Healing Counseling's vision is to provide warm, caring, compassionate and life-changing counseling services and educational programs to individuals, couples and families in order to create learning, healing and growth.  

In this episode, Kristen sits down with trauma therapist and author Yolanda Renteria to explore the deep connection between attachment and attunement, and how they shape every relationship in your life. You will learn: What attachment and attunement really mean, and why they matter in everyday relationships The four attachment styles and how they shape your patterns Why you repeat relationship dynamics from childhood, and how to break them How disconnection from your body impacts connection with others The anxious and avoidant cycle, and how to build emotional capacity to shift it Connect with Yolanda Renteria HERE.  When you purchase these books through these Amazon links, you're helping support the podcast at no extra cost: Yolanda Renteria's Book:  Attuned and Attached: Heal Your Relationship with Yourself and Others to Create Lasting Connections Yolnada Renteria's Book Recommendations:  Healing Your Attachment Wounds: How to Create Deep and Lasting Intimate Relationships The Awakened Family: How to Raise Empowered, Resilient, and Conscious Children The Power of Attachment: How to Create Deep and Lasting Intimate Relationships   Subscribe HERE and get a free 5-day journal to begin closing the chapter on what doesn't serve you and open the door to the real you. Connect with Kristen: Get Kristen's newsletter, packed with tangible tools, resources, and inspiration Watch the episodes on YouTube Follow Kristen on Instagram   Kristen's TikTok   Have Kristen Speak at Your Event  Disclaimer This information is being provided to you for educational and informational purposes only. It is being provided to you to educate you about ideas on stress management and as a self-help tool for your own use. It is not psychotherapy/counseling in any form. This information is to be used at your own risk based on your own judgment. For counseling services near Indianapolis, IN, visit www.pathwaystohealingcounseling.com. Pathways to Healing Counseling's vision is to provide warm, caring, compassionate and life-changing counseling services and educational programs to individuals, couples and families in order to create learning, healing and growth.  

In this episode, Kristen dives into how to help your teen or adult child through a breakup and what parents might be missing when it comes to understanding their child's pain, reactions, and healing. You will learn: How breakups impact teens and young adults differently and why no two experiences are the same Why it's important for parents to notice their own emotional triggers during their child's breakup How to "hold space" so your child feels safe to open up and process their emotions The different types of breakups and the wide range of emotions that can come with them Why rushing healing or trying to "fix" the pain can actually make things harder Healthy ways teens can process a breakup so they don't repeat the same relationship patterns Subscribe HERE and get a free 5-day journal to begin closing the chapter on what doesn't serve you and open the door to the real you. Connect with Kristen: Get Kristen's newsletter, packed with tangible tools, resources, and inspiration Watch the episodes on YouTube Follow Kristen on Instagram   Kristen's TikTok   Have Kristen Speak at Your Event  Disclaimer This information is being provided to you for educational and informational purposes only. It is being provided to you to educate you about ideas on stress management and as a self-help tool for your own use. It is not psychotherapy/counseling in any form. This information is to be used at your own risk based on your own judgment. For counseling services near Indianapolis, IN, visit www.pathwaystohealingcounseling.com. Pathways to Healing Counseling's vision is to provide warm, caring, compassionate and life-changing counseling services and educational programs to individuals, couples and families in order to create learning, healing and growth.  

In this episode, Kristen talks with Ben Eckstein, a therapist specializing in Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder, anxiety, and related disorders, about how worry and rumination work and how to manage them more effectively. You will learn: How to recognize the difference between automatic worry and the choices you make in responding to it Why anxiety and rumination feel uncontrollable and how to start gaining a sense of control A practical method (SCAMP) to break down and understand your worry patterns How compulsions and avoidance behaviors keep anxiety cycles going Techniques like exposure and response prevention to retrain your brain How to build tolerance for uncertainty and live a fuller, less anxious life Connect with Ben Eckstein HERE.  Check out these books using the Amazon affiliate links: Ben's book: Worrying Is Optional: Break the Cycle of Anxiety and Rumination That Keeps You Stuck Book that inspired Ben: The Happiness Trap (Second Edition): How to Stop Struggling and Start Living When you purchase these books through these Amazon links, you're helping support the podcast at no extra cost. Subscribe HERE and get a free 5-day journal to begin closing the chapter on what doesn't serve you and open the door to the real you. Connect with Kristen: Get Kristen's newsletter, packed with tangible tools, resources, and inspiration Watch the episodes on YouTube Follow Kristen on Instagram   Kristen's TikTok   Have Kristen Speak at Your Event  Disclaimer This information is being provided to you for educational and informational purposes only. It is being provided to you to educate you about ideas on stress management and as a self-help tool for your own use. It is not psychotherapy/counseling in any form. This information is to be used at your own risk based on your own judgment. For counseling services near Indianapolis, IN, visit www.pathwaystohealingcounseling.com. Pathways to Healing Counseling's vision is to provide warm, caring, compassionate and life-changing counseling services and educational programs to individuals, couples and families in order to create learning, healing and growth.  

*]:pointer-events-auto scroll-mt-[calc(var(--header-height)+min(200px,max(70px,20svh)))]" dir="auto" data-turn-id= "request-WEB:83e3dacc-6f89-4f11-9a82-899e2107e32a-5" data-testid= "conversation-turn-4" data-scroll-anchor="true" data-turn= "assistant"> In this encore episode, Kristen sits down with Dr. Judy Ho to break down attachment theory, how it shapes our relationships, and how we can heal insecure attachment at any stage of life. You will learn:  How attachment styles are formed in early childhood and why they still impact your adult relationships today The key differences between secure, anxious, avoidant, and disorganized attachment styles Why you may be attracted to certain partners (and how attachment patterns drive relationship dynamics) What the inner child really is and how unresolved wounds show up in your daily life Practical ways to start healing insecure attachment through self-compassion and reparenting How to use radical acceptance and self-awareness to break cycles and build healthier relationships Connect with Dr. Judy Ho HERE.  When you purchase these books through these Amazon links, you're helping support the podcast at no extra cost. Dr. Judy Ho's books:  The New Rules of Attachment: How to Heal Your Relationships, Reparent Your Inner Child, and Secure Your Life Vision  Stop Self-Sabotage: Six Steps to Unlock Your True Motivation, Harness Your Willpower, and Get Out of Your Own Way  I'll Give It to You Straightish: What Your Teen Wants You to Know Book Recommendation: The Happiness Trap (Second Edition): How to Stop Struggling and Start Living   Subscribe HERE and get a free 5-day journal to begin closing the chapter on what doesn't serve you and open the door to the real you. Connect with Kristen: Get Kristen's newsletter, packed with tangible tools, resources, and inspiration Watch the episodes on YouTube Follow Kristen on Instagram   Kristen's TikTok   Have Kristen Speak at Your Event  Disclaimer This information is being provided to you for educational and informational purposes only. It is being provided to you to educate you about ideas on stress management and as a self-help tool for your own use. It is not psychotherapy/counseling in any form. This information is to be used at your own risk based on your own judgment. For counseling services near Indianapolis, IN, visit www.pathwaystohealingcounseling.com. Pathways to Healing Counseling's vision is to provide warm, caring, compassionate and life-changing counseling services and educational programs to individuals, couples and families in order to create learning, healing and growth.        

In this encore episode, Kristen sits down with Dr. Kristin Neff to explore how self-compassion can help you break free from shame, quiet self-criticism, and build a more authentic and grounded relationship with yourself. You will learn: How to define self-compassion and the three core components that make it effective The difference between tender self-compassion and fierce self-compassion—and when to use each Why shame and self-criticism are so common (and how to break free from them) Practical tools and scripts to start speaking to yourself with kindness today How self-compassion impacts parenting, relationships, and your ability to set boundaries self-compassion.org If you'd like to buy any of Dr. Kristin Neff's books, please use the Amazon affiliate links below. Shopping through these links helps support the podcast at no extra cost to you! Self-Compassion: The Proven Power of Being Kind to Yourself Fierce Self-Compassion: How to Harness Kindness to Speak Up, Claim Your Power, and Thrive   Subscribe HERE and get a free 5-day journal to begin closing the chapter on what doesn't serve you and open the door to the real you. Connect with Kristen: Get Kristen's newsletter, packed with tangible tools, resources, and inspiration Watch the episodes on YouTube Follow Kristen on Instagram   Kristen's TikTok   Have Kristen Speak at Your Event  Disclaimer This information is being provided to you for educational and informational purposes only. It is being provided to you to educate you about ideas on stress management and as a self-help tool for your own use. It is not psychotherapy/counseling in any form. This information is to be used at your own risk based on your own judgment. For counseling services near Indianapolis, IN, visit www.pathwaystohealingcounseling.com. Pathways to Healing Counseling's vision is to provide warm, caring, compassionate and life-changing counseling services and educational programs to individuals, couples and families in order to create learning, healing and growth.    

In this episode, Kristen sits down with Dr. Alina Kastner, an expert in narcissistic relationships and author, to dive into how to recognize unhealthy relationship patterns, why they're so hard to leave, and what true healing actually looks like. You will learn: How to recognize the signs of a narcissistic relationship Why you may feel unworthy, unlovable, or like something is wrong with you Why it's so hard to leave and the fear of being alone The steps to begin breaking free from unhealthy relationship patterns How to heal, rebuild your confidence, and reconnect with yourself Connect with Dr. Alina Kastner's HERE.  Check out Dr. Alina Kastner's books through these Amazon affiliate links: By using these links to purchase, you're supporting the podcast without any extra cost to you.   Break Up with Narcissism: How to Break Free and Stay Free ― The 4-Step Plan for Surviving Narcissistic Abuse My Toxic Breakup A Guided Journal Dr. Alina Kastner's Book Recommendations:  Psychopath Free (Expanded Edition): Recovering from Emotionally Abusive Relationships With Narcissists, Sociopaths, and Other Toxic People A Simpler Life: A guide to greater serenity, ease, and clarity  The Untethered Soul: The Journey Beyond Yourself Subscribe HERE and get a free 5-day journal to begin closing the chapter on what doesn't serve you and open the door to the real you. Connect with Kristen: Get Kristen's newsletter, packed with tangible tools, resources, and inspiration Watch the episodes on YouTube Follow Kristen on Instagram   Kristen's TikTok   Have Kristen Speak at Your Event  Disclaimer This information is being provided to you for educational and informational purposes only. It is being provided to you to educate you about ideas on stress management and as a self-help tool for your own use. It is not psychotherapy/counseling in any form. This information is to be used at your own risk based on your own judgment. For counseling services near Indianapolis, IN, visit www.pathwaystohealingcounseling.com. Pathways to Healing Counseling's vision is to provide warm, caring, compassionate and life-changing counseling services and educational programs to individuals, couples and families in order to create learning, healing and growth.      

In this episode. Kristen is joined by clinical psychologist and motherhood coach Dr. Angele Close to discuss how parenting can trigger unresolved childhood wounds, the transition of matrescence, and tools that help parents respond with greater self-awareness, compassion, and connection. You'll Learn: What matrescence is and why motherhood is a major identity transition Why parenting often activates unresolved childhood wounds How Internal Family Systems (IFS) helps parents understand emotional triggers Why healing your own parts can help break generational cycles How self-awareness and vulnerability strengthen parent-child relationships Connect with Dr. Angele Close HERE.  Check out Dr. Angele Close's books through these Amazon affiliate links: By using these links to purchase, you're supporting the podcast without any extra cost to you.   1. Unburdening Motherhood: A Guide to Breaking Cycles, Healing Trauma, and Becoming a Self-Led Mom   Dr. Close's  Book Recommendations:   1. The Power of Intention     2. Radical Acceptance: Embracing Your Life With the Heart of a Buddha   3. No Bad Parts: Healing Trauma and Restoring Wholeness with the Internal Family Systems Model   Subscribe HERE and get a free 5-day journal to begin closing the chapter on what doesn't serve you and open the door to the real you. Connect with Kristen: Get Kristen's newsletter, packed with tangible tools, resources, and inspiration Watch the episodes on YouTube Follow Kristen on Instagram   Kristen's TikTok   Have Kristen Speak at Your Event  Disclaimer This information is being provided to you for educational and informational purposes only. It is being provided to you to educate you about ideas on stress management and as a self-help tool for your own use. It is not psychotherapy/counseling in any form. This information is to be used at your own risk based on your own judgment. For counseling services near Indianapolis, IN, visit www.pathwaystohealingcounseling.com. Pathways to Healing Counseling's vision is to provide warm, caring, compassionate and life-changing counseling services and educational programs to individuals, couples and families in order to create learning, healing and growth.  

In this encore episode, Kristen is joined by Dr. Sherrie Campbell, a licensed clinical psychologist and bestselling author, to discuss the lasting impact of emotionally abusive parents and the journey toward healing. You will learn: How emotionally abusive parents can affect your sense of self and relationships later in life. Dr. Sherrie's personal journey of cutting ties with her family and the impact it had on her life. How to identify and manage emotional triggers that stem from past trauma. The challenges of healing and the importance of no-contact strategies. Practical tools for speaking your truth and standing firm in your personal boundaries. Connect with Dr. Campbell's HERE.  If you'd like to buy Dr. Sherrie Campbell's books, please use the Amazon affiliate links below: Adult Survivors of Emotionally Abusive Parents But It's Your Family…:Cutting Ties with Toxic Family Members and Loving Yourself in the Aftermath Adult Survivors of Toxic Family Members: Tools to Maintain Boundaries, Deal with Criticism, and Heal from Shame After Ties Have Been Cut Loving Yourself: The Mastery of Being Your Own Person Your Pocket Therapist: Quick Hacks for Dealing with Toxic People While Empowering Yourself Dr. Sherrie's  book recommendations based on the most impact on her life: Women Who Run with the Wolves People of the Lie:The Hope for Healing Human Evil Subscribe HERE and get a free 5-day journal to begin closing the chapter on what doesn't serve you and open the door to the real you. Connect with Kristen: Get Kristen's newsletter, packed with tangible tools, resources, and inspiration Watch the episodes on YouTube Follow Kristen on Instagram   Kristen's TikTok   Have Kristen Speak at Your Event  Disclaimer This information is being provided to you for educational and informational purposes only. It is being provided to you to educate you about ideas on stress management and as a self-help tool for your own use. It is not psychotherapy/counseling in any form. This information is to be used at your own risk based on your own judgment. For counseling services near Indianapolis, IN, visit www.pathwaystohealingcounseling.com. Pathways to Healing Counseling's vision is to provide warm, caring, compassionate and life-changing counseling services and educational programs to individuals, couples and families in order to create learning, healing and growth.  

In this episode, Kristen sits down with transition and relationship Coach and author Charu Seth to explore what really happens when you wake up one day and realize you've lost yourself in marriage and motherhood, and how it's possible to begin reclaiming your identity.  You'll Learn: How losing yourself in marriage and motherhood can slowly erode your identity and self-worth Why people-pleasing and constant caretaking lead to resentment, burnout, and emotional depletion How fear (of being alone, not enough, or failing) keeps you stuck in unhealthy patterns The impact of emotional abandonment and rationalizing toxic dynamics What does it actually take to begin reclaiming your voice and identity after years of self-abandonment Connect with Charu Seth HERE.  When you purchase Charu's book recommendations through these Amazon affiliate links, you're helping support the podcast at no extra cost to you: Conversations with God: An Uncommon Dialogue, Book 1 The CBT Toolbox, Second Edition: 185 Tools To Manage Anxiety, Depression, Anger, Behaviors & Stress   Subscribe HERE and get a free 5-day journal to begin closing the chapter on what doesn't serve you and open the door to the real you. Connect with Kristen: Get Kristen's newsletter, packed with tangible tools, resources, and inspiration Watch the episodes on YouTube Follow Kristen on Instagram   Kristen's TikTok   Have Kristen Speak at Your Event  Disclaimer This information is being provided to you for educational and informational purposes only. It is being provided to you to educate you about ideas on stress management and as a self-help tool for your own use. It is not psychotherapy/counseling in any form. This information is to be used at your own risk based on your own judgment. For counseling services near Indianapolis, IN, visit www.pathwaystohealingcounseling.com. Pathways to Healing Counseling's vision is to provide warm, caring, compassionate and life-changing counseling services and educational programs to individuals, couples and families in order to create learning, healing and growth.

In this episode, Kristen sits down with Rebecca Faye Smith Galli, author, columnist, and resilience advocate, whose life has been shaped by profound loss and unexpected turns. They explore what it truly takes to keep moving forward when life doesn't go as planned.   You will learn: How to move through profound grief without letting it define your life Why honesty is the foundation of healing after loss The importance of building the right support system during hard seasons Practical daily practices that help you keep going when everything changes How to hold space for anger, faith, and doubt at the same time What it means to stay possibility-focused, even when life doesn't go as planned Connect with Rebecca Faye Smith Galli HERE. When you purchase  Rebecca's books through these Amazon affiliate links, you're helping support the podcast at no extra cost to you:  Morning Fuel: Daily Inspirations to Stretch Your Mind Before Starting Your Day Rethinking Possible: A Memoir of Resilience Rebecca's Book Recommendations: The Book of Awakening: Having the Life You Want by Being Present to the Life You Have (20th Anniversary Edition) When Bad Things Happen to Good People Sit Down, God...I'm Angry   Subscribe HERE and get a free 5-day journal to begin closing the chapter on what doesn't serve you and open the door to the real you. Connect with Kristen: Get Kristen's newsletter, packed with tangible tools, resources, and inspiration Watch the episodes on YouTube Follow Kristen on Instagram   Kristen's TikTok   Have Kristen Speak at Your Event  Disclaimer This information is being provided to you for educational and informational purposes only. It is being provided to you to educate you about ideas on stress management and as a self-help tool for your own use. It is not psychotherapy/counseling in any form. This information is to be used at your own risk based on your own judgment. For counseling services near Indianapolis, IN, visit www.pathwaystohealingcounseling.com. Pathways to Healing Counseling's vision is to provide warm, caring, compassionate and life-changing counseling services and educational programs to individuals, couples and families in order to create learning, healing and growth.

Kristen is joined by therapist, trainer, speaker, and author Cynthia Schwartzberg to explore authenticity, brain-based healing, and how reconnecting with the body can help us live more aligned and empowered lives.     You will learn: How to recognize when you're saying "yes" but truly mean "no" Why body awareness is key to making authentic, aligned decisions What brain spotting is and how it helps process emotions and trauma How protective patterns like people-pleasing and shutdown begin to soften Practical ways to build self-trust and reconnect with your authentic self Tools and exercises to shift limiting beliefs and live with more peace and clarity Connect with Cynthia Schwartzberg HERE.  Check out Cynthia Schwartzberg's books through these Amazon affiliate links: By using these links to purchase, you're supporting the podcast without any extra cost to you.  1. The Curious Voyage to Authenticity: A Rule-Breaking Guide for Personal Growth  https://amzn.to/4r6YLPT   2. The Curious Voyage to Authenticity Journal   Cynthia's Book Recommendation   3. Unlocking the Emotional Brain   Subscribe HERE and get a free 5-day journal to begin closing the chapter on what doesn't serve you and open the door to the real you. Connect with Kristen: Get Kristen's newsletter, packed with tangible tools, resources, and inspiration Watch the episodes on YouTube Follow Kristen on Instagram   Kristen's TikTok   Have Kristen Speak at Your Event  Disclaimer This information is being provided to you for educational and informational purposes only. It is being provided to you to educate you about ideas on stress management and as a self-help tool for your own use. It is not psychotherapy/counseling in any form. This information is to be used at your own risk based on your own judgment. For counseling services near Indianapolis, IN, visit www.pathwaystohealingcounseling.com. Pathways to Healing Counseling's vision is to provide warm, caring, compassionate and life-changing counseling services and educational programs to individuals, couples and families in order to create learning, healing and growth.

In this encore episode, Kristen sits down with certified sex therapist and clinical director of Maze Women's Sexual Health, Dr. Bat Sheva Marcus to talk about shame, fantasy, desire, and how discomfort can actually deepen intimacy. You'll learn: Why shame and silence around sex disconnect couples. How fantasy and reality are different and why that matters. What really affects desire, including hormones, stress, and mindset. How body image and performance anxiety block intimacy. Ways to talk to kids and teens about sex without creating shame. Why leaning into discomfort can actually improve your sex life. Connect with Dr. Bat Sheva Marcus: www.drbatsheva.com Subscribe at www.kristendboice.com and get a free 5-day journal to begin closing the chapter on what doesn't serve you and open the door to the real you. Connect with Kristen: Get Kristen's newsletter, packed with tangible tools, resources, and inspiration Watch the episodes on YouTube Follow Kristen on Instagram Kristen's TikTok Have Kristen Speak at Your Event Disclaimer This information is being provided to you for educational and informational purposes only. It is being provided to you to educate you about ideas on stress management and as a self-help tool for your own use. It is not psychotherapy/counseling in any form. This information is to be used at your own risk based on your own judgment. For counseling services near Indianapolis, IN, visit www.pathwaystohealingcounseling.com. Pathways to Healing Counseling's vision is to provide warm, caring, compassionate and life-changing counseling services and educational programs to individuals, couples and families in order to create learning, healing and growth.  

In this encore episode, Kristen revisits one of the most important conversations in healing work: breaking generational family patterns. You will learn: Why certain family patterns keep repeating and how to recognize the ones you may be carrying   What happens when emotions aren't talked about and how that impacts relationships and mental health The effects of yelling on the nervous system and how to regulate instead Why secrets, shame, and blame keep families stuck How changing even one pattern can positively impact future generations Subscribe HERE and get a free 5-day journal to begin closing the chapter on what doesn't serve you and open the door to the real you. Connect with Kristen: Get Kristen's newsletter, packed with tangible tools, resources, and inspiration Watch the episodes on YouTube Follow Kristen on Instagram   Kristen's TikTok   Have Kristen Speak at Your Event  Disclaimer This information is being provided to you for educational and informational purposes only. It is being provided to you to educate you about ideas on stress management and as a self-help tool for your own use. It is not psychotherapy/counseling in any form. This information is to be used at your own risk based on your own judgment. For counseling services near Indianapolis, IN, visit www.pathwaystohealingcounseling.com. Pathways to Healing Counseling's vision is to provide warm, caring, compassionate and life-changing counseling services and educational programs to individuals, couples and families in order to create learning, healing and growth.  

In this encore episode, Kristen Boice explores how self-doubt develops and practical ways to navigate it, helping you step into your true, authentic self.   Subscribe and get a free 5-day journal at www.kristendboice.com to begin closing the chapter on what doesn't serve you and open the door to the real you. This information is being provided to you for educational and informational purposes only. It is being provided to you to educate you about ideas on stress management and as a self-help tool for your own use. It is not psychotherapy/counseling in any form. This information is to be used at your own risk based on your own judgment. For my full Disclaimer, please go to www.kristendboice.com. For counseling services near Indianapolis, IN, visit www.pathwaystohealingcounseling.com. Pathways to Healing Counseling's vision is to provide warm, caring, compassionate and life-changing counseling services and educational programs to individuals, couples and families in order to create learning, healing and growth.  

In this episode, Kristen walks you through how repression and suppression develop, why they live in the body, and how understanding them can unlock emotional, mental, and physical healing. Subscribe and get a free 5-day journal at www.kristendboice.com to begin closing the chapter on what doesn't serve you and open the door to the real you. This information is being provided to you for educational and informational purposes only. It is being provided to you to educate you about ideas on stress management and as a self-help tool for your own use. It is not psychotherapy/counseling in any form. This information is to be used at your own risk based on your own judgment. For my full Disclaimer, please go to www.kristendboice.com. For counseling services near Indianapolis, IN, visit www.pathwaystohealingcounseling.com. Pathways to Healing Counseling's vision is to provide warm, caring, compassionate and life-changing counseling services and educational programs to individuals, couples and families in order to create learning, healing and growth.

In this episode, Kristen explores emotional fusion vs. differentiation and how family systems influence anxiety, people-pleasing, and emotional reactivity. She offers insight into becoming more grounded, secure, and true to yourself while staying emotionally connected in your relationships. Subscribe and get a free 5-day journal at www.kristendboice.com to begin closing the chapter on what doesn't serve you and open the door to the real you. This information is being provided to you for educational and informational purposes only. It is being provided to you to educate you about ideas on stress management and as a self-help tool for your own use. It is not psychotherapy/counseling in any form. This information is to be used at your own risk based on your own judgment. For my full Disclaimer, please go to www.kristendboice.com. For counseling services near Indianapolis, IN, visit www.pathwaystohealingcounseling.com. Pathways to Healing Counseling's vision is to provide warm, caring, compassionate and life-changing counseling services and educational programs to individuals, couples and families in order to create learning, healing and growth.    

In this episode, Kristen shares a powerful New Year reset that moves away from resolutions and toward choosing one meaningful word to ground your nervous system, support emotional healing, and help you come home to yourself as you step into 2026.   Subscribe and get a free 5-day journal at www.kristendboice.com to begin closing the chapter on what doesn't serve you and open the door to the real you. This information is being provided to you for educational and informational purposes only. It is being provided to you to educate you about ideas on stress management and as a self-help tool for your own use. It is not psychotherapy/counseling in any form. This information is to be used at your own risk based on your own judgment. For my full Disclaimer, please go to www.kristendboice.com. For counseling services near Indianapolis, IN, visit www.pathwaystohealingcounseling.com. Pathways to Healing Counseling's vision is to provide warm, caring, compassionate and life-changing counseling services and educational programs to individuals, couples and families in order to create learning, healing and growth.

In this episode, Kristen talks about the importance of self-reflection and nervous system regulation as we enter the new year, and shares her previous conversation with Deb Dana on how to support the nervous system in returning to a state of calm during stress, overwhelm, and emotional dysregulation.   Check out Deb Danas' books through these Amazon Links: By using these links to purchase, you're supporting the podcast without any extra cost to you. We appreciate your help in bringing more valuable content your way! 1. Anchored - https://amzn.to/40RwX7u 2. The Nervous System Workbook - https://amzn.to/3EaRATp 3. Polyvagal Exercises for Safety and Connection - https://amzn.to/42yrG5T 4. Polyvagal Card Deck: 58 Practices for Calm and Change - https://amzn.to/4aylqNJ 5. Polyvagal Practices: Anchoring the Self in Safety - https://amzn.to/3CAkOdG 6. Polyvagal Prompts: Finding Connection and Joy through Guided Explorations - https://amzn.to/4hwhpvq 7. Glimmers Journal: Reflect on the Small Moments That Bring You Joy, Safety, and Connection - https://amzn.to/3PYfPqc   Subscribe and get a free 5-day journal at www.kristendboice.com to begin closing the chapter on what doesn't serve you and open the door to the real you. This information is being provided to you for educational and informational purposes only. It is being provided to you to educate you about ideas on stress management and as a self-help tool for your own use. It is not psychotherapy/counseling in any form. This information is to be used at your own risk based on your own judgment. For my full Disclaimer, please go to www.kristendboice.com. For counseling services near Indianapolis, IN, visit www.pathwaystohealingcounseling.com. Pathways to Healing Counseling's vision is to provide warm, caring, compassionate and life-changing counseling services and educational programs to individuals, couples and families in order to create learning, healing and growth.

In this episode, Kristen is joined by Dr. Etel Leit, a human communication researcher and award-winning entrepreneur, to explore the roots of love addiction, how obsession and self-neglect appear in relationships, and how to reclaim a sense of self.   https://dretelleit.com/   When you purchase Dr. Etel Leit's book through these Amazon affiliate links, you're helping support the podcast at no extra cost to you:    1. UnAddicted to You: Loving Yourself Through the Darkness: https://amzn.to/4oRZr9N   2. The Emotional Code: https://amzn.to/3XWdzEg   3. You are My SignShine!: A Complete Guide to Using Sign Language to Connect and Communicate with Hearing Babies and Children: https://amzn.to/44y9I3U   4. Where is Water?: The Daddy and Papa Family: https://amzn.to/3KW7PHr   5. Where is Water?: The Single Daddy Book: https://amzn.to/499n4WR   6. Where is Water?: The Mommy & Daddy Family: https://amzn.to/4rYPxWP   7. Where is Water?: The Single Mommy Family: https://amzn.to/4aQt4F6   8. Where is Water?: The Mommy & Mama Family:https://amzn.to/3KYkREi     Subscribe and get a free 5-day journal at www.kristendboice.com to begin closing the chapter on what doesn't serve you and open the door to the real you. This information is being provided to you for educational and informational purposes only. It is being provided to you to educate you about ideas on stress management and as a self-help tool for your own use. It is not psychotherapy/counseling in any form. This information is to be used at your own risk based on your own judgment. For my full Disclaimer, please go to www.kristendboice.com. For counseling services near Indianapolis, IN, visit www.pathwaystohealingcounseling.com. Pathways to Healing Counseling's vision is to provide warm, caring, compassionate and life-changing counseling services and educational programs to individuals, couples and families in order to create learning, healing and growth.

In this encore episode, Kristen explores the myth of closure with renowned researcher and author Dr. Pauline Boss, touching on ambiguous loss, why grief isn't something to "get over," and how to move forward without having all the answers. https://www.ambiguousloss.com/ When you purchase Dr. Boss' book through this Amazon affiliate link, you're helping support the podcast at no extra cost to you:   Ambiguous Loss: Learning to Live with Unresolved Grief: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B091BF3C7T?linkCode=ml1&tag=boice01-20&linkId=93c1ec8649ec315b085e46f4e4ff0938   Subscribe and get a free 5-day journal at www.kristendboice.com to begin closing the chapter on what doesn't serve you and open the door to the real you. This information is being provided to you for educational and informational purposes only. It is being provided to you to educate you about ideas on stress management and as a self-help tool for your own use. It is not psychotherapy/counseling in any form. This information is to be used at your own risk based on your own judgment. For my full Disclaimer, please go to www.kristendboice.com. For counseling services near Indianapolis, IN, visit www.pathwaystohealingcounseling.com. Pathways to Healing Counseling's vision is to provide warm, caring, compassionate and life-changing counseling services and educational programs to individuals, couples and families in order to create learning, healing and growth.

In this episode, Kristen talks with naturopathic physician and author Dr. Jenn Rapkin about why feeling emotions instead of numbing or avoiding them is essential to healing and offers simple, body-based tools to help you move through hard feelings with greater clarity, connection, and resilience. www.drjennrapkin.com When you purchase these books through these Amazon affiliate links, you're helping support the podcast at no extra cost to you:   Dr. Jenn Rapkin's book:   1. The Feeling Muscle: How Felt Emotion Can Help You Sit with and Outlast Hard Feelings: https://amzn.to/3MhHaFj   Book Recommendations:   2. Molecules Of Emotion: The Science Behind Mind-Body Medicine:  https://amzn.to/4rKRgz0   3. The Art of Effortless Living: Discover Health, Emotional Well-Being, and Happiness: https://amzn.to/4pcTMwg   Subscribe and get a free 5-day journal at www.kristendboice.com to begin closing the chapter on what doesn't serve you and open the door to the real you. This information is being provided to you for educational and informational purposes only. It is being provided to you to educate you about ideas on stress management and as a self-help tool for your own use. It is not psychotherapy/counseling in any form. This information is to be used at your own risk based on your own judgment. For my full Disclaimer, please go to www.kristendboice.com. For counseling services near Indianapolis, IN, visit www.pathwaystohealingcounseling.com. Pathways to Healing Counseling's vision is to provide warm, caring, compassionate and life-changing counseling services and educational programs to individuals, couples and families in order to create learning, healing and growth.

In this episode, Kristen shares a powerful Mental Health Monday conversation with Noblesville Mayor Chris Jensen and Marine veteran Chuck Haberman, who opens up about his mental health journey as a veteran. They offer practical tools, hope, and encouragement for veterans, first responders, and anyone walking through pain during this time of year. Subscribe and get a free 5-day journal at www.kristendboice.com to begin closing the chapter on what doesn't serve you and open the door to the real you. This information is being provided to you for educational and informational purposes only. It is being provided to you to educate you about ideas on stress management and as a self-help tool for your own use. It is not psychotherapy/counseling in any form. This information is to be used at your own risk based on your own judgment. For my full Disclaimer please go to www.kristendboice.com. For counseling services near Indianapolis, IN, visit www.pathwaystohealingcounseling.com. Pathways to Healing Counseling's vision is to provide warm, caring, compassionate and life-changing counseling services and educational programs to individuals, couples and families in order to create learning, healing and growth.

In this episode, Kristen sits down with attorney and author Heidi Friedman to explore her decade-long journey of healing, starting over, and finding hope after divorce. www.heidifriedman.com   When you purchase these books through these Amazon affiliate links, you're helping support the podcast at no extra cost to you:   Heidi Friedman's book: Love Lessons: 104 Dates and the Stories That Led Me to True Love: https://amzn.to/47S2Gco Heidi's Book Recommendations:  Year of Yes: 10th Anniversary Edition: https://amzn.to/49xRKlr The Secret (The Secret Library): https://amzn.to/4oRSre6   Subscribe and get a free 5-day journal at www.kristendboice.com to begin closing the chapter on what doesn't serve you and open the door to the real you. This information is being provided to you for educational and informational purposes only. It is being provided to you to educate you about ideas on stress management and as a self-help tool for your own use. It is not psychotherapy/counseling in any form. This information is to be used at your own risk based on your own judgment. For my full Disclaimer please go to www.kristendboice.com. For counseling services near Indianapolis, IN, visit www.pathwaystohealingcounseling.com. Pathways to Healing Counseling's vision is to provide warm, caring, compassionate and life-changing counseling services and educational programs to individuals, couples and families in order to create learning, healing and growth.    

In this episode, Kristen welcomes Meg Bowman, a licensed nutritionist and author, to explore the deep and often-overlooked connection between nutrition, trauma recovery, and nervous system regulation.   www.megbowmannutrition.com When you purchase these books through these Amazon affiliate links, you're helping support the podcast at no extra cost to you:    Meg Bowman's Book: 1. This Is Your Body on Trauma: How to Nourish Safety, Resilience, and Connection with Polyvagal-Informed Nutrition: https://amzn.to/4okaZDg Meg Bowman's Book Recommendations:  1. Anchored: How to Befriend Your Nervous System Using Polyvagal Theory: https://amzn.to/4qFUrXX 2. Glimmers Journal: Reflect on the Small Moments That Bring You Joy, Safety, and Connection https://amzn.to/4nBK2tS 3. Women Who Run with the Wolves: Myths and Stories of the Wild Woman Archetype https://amzn.to/43HqUTW 4. How to Keep House While Drowning: A Gentle Approach to Cleaning and Organizing: https://amzn.to/3X833sP   Subscribe and get a free 5-day journal at www.kristendboice.com to begin closing the chapter on what doesn't serve you and open the door to the real you. This information is being provided to you for educational and informational purposes only. It is being provided to you to educate you about ideas on stress management and as a self-help tool for your own use. It is not psychotherapy/counseling in any form. This information is to be used at your own risk based on your own judgment. For my full Disclaimer please go to www.kristendboice.com. For counseling services near Indianapolis, IN, visit www.pathwaystohealingcounseling.com. Pathways to Healing Counseling's vision is to provide warm, caring, compassionate and life-changing counseling services and educational programs to individuals, couples and families in order to create learning, healing and growth.

In this episode, Kristen Boice welcomes licensed depth psychotherapist and author Vanessa Bennett to dive deep into the myths surrounding motherhood, sex, and relationships, and to explore how shame and codependency keep us from living authentically. vanessabennett.com When you purchase these books through these Amazon affiliate links, you're helping support the podcast at no extra cost to you: Leah Marone's book:   Vanessa Benett's Books: The Motherhood Myth: A Depth Therapist's Guide to Redefine Parenting, Reimagine Intimacy, and Reclaim the Self https://amzn.to/4oOUIGr It's Not Me, It's You: Break the Blame Cycle. Relationship Better: https://amzn.to/4osPikO Vanessa's Book Recommendation: Women Who Run with the Wolves: Myths and Stories of the Wild Woman Archetype: https://amzn.to/49y1lIE   Subscribe and get a free 5-day journal at www.kristendboice.com to begin closing the chapter on what doesn't serve you and open the door to the real you. This information is being provided to you for educational and informational purposes only. It is being provided to you to educate you about ideas on stress management and as a self-help tool for your own use. It is not psychotherapy/counseling in any form. This information is to be used at your own risk based on your own judgment. For my full Disclaimer please go to www.kristendboice.com. For counseling services near Indianapolis, IN, visit www.pathwaystohealingcounseling.com. Pathways to Healing Counseling's vision is to provide warm, caring, compassionate and life-changing counseling services and educational programs to individuals, couples and families in order to create learning, healing and growth.    

In this episode, Kristen welcomes Alreen Haeggquist, a seasoned lawyer, author, and advocate, who shares how unprocessed trauma resurfaced in her body, marriage, and early motherhood. They explore breaking generational silence, setting boundaries with family, and finding the courage to speak out. www.alreen.com   When you purchase these books through these Amazon affiliate links, you're helping support the podcast at no extra cost to you:   1. Alreen Haeggquist's Book:   Fired Up: Fueling Triumph from Trauma:  https://amzn.to/430Fy8A:    2. Alreen Haeggquist's book recommendation: Becoming Supernatural: How Common People Are Doing the Uncommon: https://amzn.to/4huwS05 3. Kristen's book recommendations for inner child work:   Homecoming: Reclaiming and Championing Your Inner Child: https://amzn.to/3Lh9SWl   Subscribe and get a free 5-day journal at www.kristendboice.com to begin closing the chapter on what doesn't serve you and open the door to the real you. This information is being provided to you for educational and informational purposes only. It is being provided to you to educate you about ideas on stress management and as a self-help tool for your own use. It is not psychotherapy/counseling in any form. This information is to be used at your own risk based on your own judgment. For my full Disclaimer please go to www.kristendboice.com. For counseling services near Indianapolis, IN, visit www.pathwaystohealingcounseling.com. Pathways to Healing Counseling's vision is to provide warm, caring, compassionate and life-changing counseling services and educational programs to individuals, couples and families in order to create learning, healing and growth.

In this episode, Kristen is joined by psychotherapist, clinical instructor, and author Leah Marone to explore the hidden patterns behind the urge to fix others' problems and how shifting from solving to supporting builds stronger relationships, healthier boundaries, and greater emotional balance.   www.leahmarone.com www.serial-fixer.com When you purchase  these  books through these Amazon affiliate links, you're helping support the podcast at no extra cost to you:    Leah Marone's book: Serial Fixer: Break Free from the Habit of Solving Other People's Problems: https://amzn.to/3KLbebT Leah Marone's book recommendations: Maybe You Should Talk To Someone: A Therapist, HER Therapist, and Our Lives Revealed: https://amzn.to/4h7GT38 The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma: https://amzn.to/48vhyOC Set Boundaries, Find Peace: A Guide to Reclaiming Yourself: https://amzn.to/3L9FXzf We Can Do Hard Things: Answers to Life's 20 Questions: https://amzn.to/47powDu The Gifts of Imperfection: 10th Anniversary Edition: Features a new foreword and brand-new tools: https://amzn.to/3WBxY0t Subscribe and get a free 5-day journal at www.kristendboice.com to begin closing the chapter on what doesn't serve you and open the door to the real you. This information is being provided to you for educational and informational purposes only. It is being provided to you to educate you about ideas on stress management and as a self-help tool for your own use. It is not psychotherapy/counseling in any form. This information is to be used at your own risk based on your own judgment.  For my full Disclaimer please go to www.kristendboice.com. For counseling services near Indianapolis, IN, visit www.pathwaystohealingcounseling.com. Pathways to Healing Counseling's vision is to provide warm, caring, compassionate and life-changing counseling services and educational programs to individuals, couples and families in order to create learning, healing and growth.  

In this episode, Kristen explores how daily emotional check-ins can help you reconnect with yourself and strengthen relationships through practical tools and reflective questions that foster deeper emotional intimacy. Subscribe and get a free 5-day journal at www.kristendboice.com to begin closing the chapter on what doesn't serve you and open the door to the real you. This information is being provided to you for educational and informational purposes only. It is being provided to you to educate you about ideas on stress management and as a self-help tool for your own use. It is not psychotherapy/counseling in any form. This information is to be used at your own risk based on your own judgment.  For my full Disclaimer please go to www.kristendboice.com. For counseling services near Indianapolis, IN, visit www.pathwaystohealingcounseling.com. Pathways to Healing Counseling's vision is to provide warm, caring, compassionate and life-changing counseling services and educational programs to individuals, couples and families in order to create learning, healing and growth.  

In this episode, Kristen is joined by Yudit Maros, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Certified Hypnotherapist, to explore how fear of judgment and shame disconnect us from our true selves, and how Yudit's unique approach helps cultivate self-love, inner guidance, and positive self-parenting. www.yuditmaros.com   When you purchase these books through these Amazon links, you're helping support the podcast at no extra cost to you.   Yudit Maros' book: 1. Apple of My I: The Four Practices of Self-Love: Tools for authentic living in a chaotic world https://amzn.to/4h6m5cw   Yudit Maros's Book Recommendations:   1. The Power of Now: A Guide to Spiritual Enlightenment: https://amzn.to/4q2orNC   2. Tao Te Ching: A New English Version: https://amzn.to/3KvmtVP   3. The Prophet (A Borzoi Book): https://amzn.to/48j69kG   4. Creative Visualization: Use the Power of Your Imagination to Create What You Want in Your Life: https://amzn.to/4pYbXq4   5. You Can Heal Your Life: https://amzn.to/3WtFCd6   Subscribe and get a free 5-day journal at www.kristendboice.com to begin closing the chapter on what doesn't serve you and open the door to the real you. This information is being provided to you for educational and informational purposes only. It is being provided to you to educate you about ideas on stress management and as a self-help tool for your own use. It is not psychotherapy/counseling in any form. This information is to be used at your own risk based on your own judgment.  For my full Disclaimer please go to www.kristendboice.com. For counseling services near Indianapolis, IN, visit www.pathwaystohealingcounseling.com. Pathways to Healing Counseling's vision is to provide warm, caring, compassionate and life-changing counseling services and educational programs to individuals, couples and families in order to create learning, healing and growth.  

In this episode, Kristen welcomes returning guest Beatriz Victoria Albina, master certified somatic life coach and author, to discuss emotional outsourcing, how it fuels codependency, perfectionism, and people-pleasing, and how her BRAVE protocol offers tools to reclaim your authentic self.   When you purchase these books through these Amazon affiliate links, you're helping support the podcast at no extra cost to you: beatrizalbina.com Beatriz Victoria Albina's Book 1. End Emotional Outsourcing: How to Overcome Your Codependent, Perfectionist, and People-Pleasing Habits: https://amzn.to/41YkMWB Book Recommendation: 1. Diving into the Wreck: Poems 1971-1972: https://amzn.to/46DLiap   Subscribe and get a free 5-day journal at www.kristendboice.com to begin closing the chapter on what doesn't serve you and open the door to the real you. This information is being provided to you for educational and informational purposes only. It is being provided to you to educate you about ideas on stress management and as a self-help tool for your own use. It is not psychotherapy/counseling in any form. This information is to be used at your own risk based on your own judgment.  For my full Disclaimer please go to www.kristendboice.com. For counseling services near Indianapolis, IN, visit www.pathwaystohealingcounseling.com. Pathways to Healing Counseling's vision is to provide warm, caring, compassionate and life-changing counseling services and educational programs to individuals, couples and families in order to create learning, healing and growth.  

In this episode, Kristen sits down with Amber Trejo, LMFT, who specializes in complex trauma and attachment, to explore how trauma weaves into relationships, parenting, and identity, and what real healing actually looks like.    www.theintegrativetraumatherapist.com   When you purchase Amber Trejo's recommended books through these Amazon affiliate links, you're helping support the podcast at no extra cost to you:    1. What My Bones Know: A Memoir of Healing from Complex Trauma: https://amzn.to/4groOgh 2. Complex PTSD: From Surviving to Thriving: A Guide and Map for Recovering from Childhood Trauma: https://amzn.to/3I0jpjB 3. The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma: https://amzn.to/47GBu0r 4. Waking the Tiger: Healing Trauma: https://amzn.to/47KHB3V   Subscribe and get a free 5-day journal at www.kristendboice.com to begin closing the chapter on what doesn't serve you and open the door to the real you. This information is being provided to you for educational and informational purposes only. It is being provided to you to educate you about ideas on stress management and as a self-help tool for your own use. It is not psychotherapy/counseling in any form. This information is to be used at your own risk based on your own judgment.  For my full Disclaimer please go to www.kristendboice.com. For counseling services near Indianapolis, IN, visit www.pathwaystohealingcounseling.com. Pathways to Healing Counseling's vision is to provide warm, caring, compassionate and life-changing counseling services and educational programs to individuals, couples and families in order to create learning, healing and growth.    

In this episode, Kristen sits down with somatic mindfulness teacher Lynn Fraser to explore how trauma is stored in the body and practical ways to tend the nervous system.     https://lynnfraserstillpoint.com https://insighttimer.com/lynnfraser     When you purchase these books through these Amazon affiliate links, you're helping support the podcast at no extra cost to you:    Lynn Fraser's Book:   Friends With Your Mind: How to Stop Torturing Yourself With Your Thoughts (Breathe, Relax, Heal): https://amzn.to/3K2C2Uy   Lynn Fraser's Recommended Reads:   1. The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness, and Healing in a Toxic Culture: https://amzn.to/46mz4BA 2. When the Body Says No: Exploring the Stress-Disease Connection: https://amzn.to/4pfuD4i 3. Complex PTSD: From Surviving to Thriving: A Guide and Map for Recovering from Childhood Trauma: https://amzn.to/4gkzkFS 4. My Grandmother's Hands: Racialized Trauma and the Pathway to Mending Our Hearts and Bodies: https://amzn.to/4mi0GxU 5. The Power of Attachment: How to Create Deep and Lasting Intimate Relationships : https://amzn.to/4n1r7Jb     Subscribe and get a free 5-day journal at www.kristendboice.com to begin closing the chapter on what doesn't serve you and open the door to the real you. This information is being provided to you for educational and informational purposes only. It is being provided to you to educate you about ideas on stress management and as a self-help tool for your own use. It is not psychotherapy/counseling in any form. This information is to be used at your own risk based on your own judgment.  For my full Disclaimer please go to www.kristendboice.com. For counseling services near Indianapolis, IN, visit www.pathwaystohealingcounseling.com. Pathways to Healing Counseling's vision is to provide warm, caring, compassionate and life-changing counseling services and educational programs to individuals, couples and families in order to create learning, healing and growth.

In this episode, Kristen welcomes Michelle Renee, co-owner of Cuddlist, to explore the power of healthy, consensual touch and how cuddle therapy can support trauma recovery and emotional well-being. cuddlist.com   When you purchase Michelle Renee's recommended books through these Amazon affiliate links, you're helping support the podcast at no extra cost to you:  Complex PTSD: From Surviving to Thriving: A Guide and Map for Recovering from Childhood Trauma: https://amzn.to/4mZftyK Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents: https://amzn.to/3JNREv8   Subscribe and get a free 5-day journal at www.kristendboice.com to begin closing the chapter on what doesn't serve you and open the door to the real you. This information is being provided to you for educational and informational purposes only. It is being provided to you to educate you about ideas on stress management and as a self-help tool for your own use. It is not psychotherapy/counseling in any form. This information is to be used at your own risk based on your own judgment.  For my full Disclaimer please go to www.kristendboice.com. For counseling services near Indianapolis, IN, visit www.pathwaystohealingcounseling.com. Pathways to Healing Counseling's vision is to provide warm, caring, compassionate and life-changing counseling services and educational programs to individuals, couples and families in order to create learning, healing and growth.

In this encore episode, Kristen explores the roots of emotional abandonment and shares practical steps for healing, self-compassion, and building secure connections.   Subscribe and get a free 5-day journal at www.kristendboice.com to begin closing the chapter on what doesn't serve you and open the door to the real you. This information is being provided to you for educational and informational purposes only. It is being provided to you to educate you about ideas on stress management and as a self-help tool for your own use. It is not psychotherapy/counseling in any form. This information is to be used at your own risk based on your own judgment.  For my full Disclaimer please go to www.kristendboice.com. For counseling services near Indianapolis, IN, visit www.pathwaystohealingcounseling.com. Pathways to Healing Counseling's vision is to provide warm, caring, compassionate and life-changing counseling services and educational programs to individuals, couples and families in order to create learning, healing and growth.  

In this week's episode, Kristen welcomes back Hilary Jacobs Hendel, award-winning author and psychotherapist, to discuss how parents can better understand their emotions, break unhealthy patterns, and raise emotionally healthy kids. https://www.hilaryjacobshendel.com/ Parents Have Feelings, Too: https://www.hilaryjacobshendel.com/parents-have-feelings-too   Subscribe and get a free 5-day journal at www.kristendboice.com to begin closing the chapter on what doesn't serve you and open the door to the real you. This information is being provided to you for educational and informational purposes only. It is being provided to you to educate you about ideas on stress management and as a self-help tool for your own use. It is not psychotherapy/counseling in any form. This information is to be used at your own risk based on your own judgment.  For my full Disclaimer please go to www.kristendboice.com. For counseling services near Indianapolis, IN, visit www.pathwaystohealingcounseling.com. Pathways to Healing Counseling's vision is to provide warm, caring, compassionate and life-changing counseling services and educational programs to individuals, couples and families in order to create learning, healing and growth.    

In this episode, Kristen explores how grief often underlies anxiety, trauma, and panic attacks with Debi Jenkins Frankle, LMFT, a grief-informed psychotherapist. They share insights and tools for working through unfinished business and moving toward healing. PrivatePracticeGrief.com When you purchase Debi Frankle's recommended books through these Amazon affiliate links, you're helping support the podcast at no extra cost to you:   1. Hour of the Heart: Connecting in the Here and Now:  https://amzn.to/453Epyx   2. The Gift of Therapy: An Open Letter to a New Generation of Therapists and Their Patients:https://amzn.to/4mlaR5P   3. Superhero Grief (Series in Death, Dying, and Bereavement): https://amzn.to/3IZhMmd   Subscribe and get a free 5-day journal at www.kristendboice.com to begin closing the chapter on what doesn't serve you and open the door to the real you. This information is being provided to you for educational and informational purposes only. It is being provided to you to educate you about ideas on stress management and as a self-help tool for your own use. It is not psychotherapy/counseling in any form. This information is to be used at your own risk based on your own judgment.  For my full Disclaimer please go to www.kristendboice.com. For counseling services near Indianapolis, IN, visit www.pathwaystohealingcounseling.com. Pathways to Healing Counseling's vision is to provide warm, caring, compassionate and life-changing counseling services and educational programs to individuals, couples and families in order to create learning, healing and growth.

In this episode, Kristen is joined by Dr. Becky Whetstone, marriage crisis manager, therapist, and author, for an eye-opening conversation on why relationships break down, how to spot the earliest warning signs, and what you can do before it's too late. https://marriagecrisismanager.com/ When you purchase Dr. Becky Whetstone's book through this Amazon affiliate link, you're helping support the podcast at no extra cost to you:     I (Think) I Want Out: What to Do When One of You Wants to End Your Marriage: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0757325394/ref=cm_sw_r_as_gl_api_gl_i_E1ZTTFG2JN1H19CMTMMN?linkCode=ml1&tag=boice01-20&linkId=5a20bbff76415d864c7d0359849b2afe   Subscribe and get a free 5-day journal at www.kristendboice.com to begin closing the chapter on what doesn't serve you and open the door to the real you. This information is being provided to you for educational and informational purposes only. It is being provided to you to educate you about ideas on stress management and as a self-help tool for your own use. It is not psychotherapy/counseling in any form. This information is to be used at your own risk based on your own judgment.  For my full Disclaimer please go to www.kristendboice.com. For counseling services near Indianapolis, IN, visit www.pathwaystohealingcounseling.com. Pathways to Healing Counseling's vision is to provide warm, caring, compassionate and life-changing counseling services and educational programs to individuals, couples and families in order to create learning, healing and growth.

In this part-two episode, Kristen continues the conversation with internationally recognized BPD expert and author Dr. Daniel Lobel, diving into the lasting impact of having a parent with borderline personality disorder, and how to begin healing and reclaiming your identity.   Mysideofthecouch.com   When you purchase Dr. Daniel Lobel's books through these Amazon affiliate links, you're helping support the podcast at no extra cost to you:  1. Adult Children of Borderline Parents: https://amzn.to/4l0ZmPS 2. When Your Daughter Has BPD: Essential Skills to Help Families Manage Borderline Personality Disorder: https://amzn.to/4kIrt6v 3. When Your Mother Has Borderline Personality Disorder: A Guide for Adult Children: https://amzn.to/4mU99Zu 4. When a Loved One Has Borderline Personality Disorder: A Compassionate Guide to Building a Healthy and Supportive Relationship:  https://amzn.to/4mSP4TB 5. Stop Walking on Eggshells for Parents: How to Help Your Child (of Any Age) with Borderline Personality Disorder without Losing Yourself: https://amzn.to/4kvqQNt   Subscribe and get a free 5-day journal at www.kristendboice.com to begin closing the chapter on what doesn't serve you and open the door to the real you. This information is being provided to you for educational and informational purposes only. It is being provided to you to educate you about ideas on stress management and as a self-help tool for your own use. It is not psychotherapy/counseling in any form. This information is to be used at your own risk based on your own judgment.  For my full Disclaimer please go to www.kristendboice.com. For counseling services near Indianapolis, IN, visit www.pathwaystohealingcounseling.com. Pathways to Healing Counseling's vision is to provide warm, caring, compassionate and life-changing counseling services and educational programs to individuals, couples and families in order to create learning, healing and growth.

In this episode, Kristen sits down with Licensed Professional Counselors and co-authors of Sticky Note Mantras, Helene Zupanc and Beth Valdez, to explore how simple, personal mantras can shift negative thought patterns and bring more self-compassion, humor, and joy into everyday life.   stickynotemantras.com   When you purchase these books through these Amazon affiliate links, you're helping support the podcast at no extra cost to you:     1. Sticky Note Mantras: The Art and Science of Choosing Your Thoughts: https://amzn.to/3IpHCiT     Book Recommendations: 1. The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom (A Toltec Wisdom Book: https://amzn.to/453lBPO   2. Brain Lock, Twentieth Anniversary Edition: Free Yourself from Obsessive-Compulsive Behavior: https://amzn.to/44tRZuJ     Subscribe and get a free 5-day journal at www.kristendboice.com to begin closing the chapter on what doesn't serve you and open the door to the real you. This information is being provided to you for educational and informational purposes only. It is being provided to you to educate you about ideas on stress management and as a self-help tool for your own use. It is not psychotherapy/counseling in any form. This information is to be used at your own risk based on your own judgment.  For my full Disclaimer please go to www.kristendboice.com. For counseling services near Indianapolis, IN, visit www.pathwaystohealingcounseling.com. Pathways to Healing Counseling's vision is to provide warm, caring, compassionate and life-changing counseling services and educational programs to individuals, couples and families in order to create learning, healing and growth.

In this episode, Kristen is joined by Dr. Sabrina N'Diaye, an integrative therapist, storyteller, and peacebuilder, for a powerful conversation about grief, healing, and the meaning of life. They explore how love and loss shape us and why embracing both is essential to truly living the dash.   theheartnest.com   When you purchase these books through these Amazon affiliate links, you're helping support the podcast at no extra cost to you:   Dr. Sabrina N'Diaye's Book: 1. Big Mama Speaks: Love Lessons from a Harlem River Swan: https://amzn.to/4517yKx Book Recommendation: 1. The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom (A Toltec Wisdom Book): https://amzn.to/4eYU7OH   Subscribe and get a free 5-day journal at www.kristendboice.com to begin closing the chapter on what doesn't serve you and open the door to the real you. This information is being provided to you for educational and informational purposes only. It is being provided to you to educate you about ideas on stress management and as a self-help tool for your own use. It is not psychotherapy/counseling in any form. This information is to be used at your own risk based on your own judgment.  For my full Disclaimer please go to www.kristendboice.com. For counseling services near Indianapolis, IN, visit www.pathwaystohealingcounseling.com. Pathways to Healing Counseling's vision is to provide warm, caring, compassionate and life-changing counseling services and educational programs to individuals, couples and families in order to create learning, healing and growth.

In this episode, Kristen sits down with licensed psychotherapist and anger expert Bronwyn Schweigerdt to unpack the myths, science, and lived experience of anger—and how, when understood, it can become a powerful tool for reconnecting with your true self.   https://angryattherightthings.com/   https://angryattherightthings.podbean.com/     When you purchase Browyn's book recommendation through these Amazon affiliate links, you're helping support the podcast at no extra cost to you:   Untamed: Reese's Book Club: https://amzn.to/4lCVk07   Subscribe and get a free 5-day journal at www.kristendboice.com to begin closing the chapter on what doesn't serve you and open the door to the real you. This information is being provided to you for educational and informational purposes only. It is being provided to you to educate you about ideas on stress management and as a self-help tool for your own use. It is not psychotherapy/counseling in any form. This information is to be used at your own risk based on your own judgment.  For my full Disclaimer please go to www.kristendboice.com. For counseling services near Indianapolis, IN, visit www.pathwaystohealingcounseling.com. Pathways to Healing Counseling's vision is to provide warm, caring, compassionate and life-changing counseling services and educational programs to individuals, couples and families in order to create learning, healing and growth.

In this episode, Kristen sits down with Dr. Julie Bindeman, co-owner of Integrative Therapy of Greater Washington, to unpack the often-overlooked impact of reproductive trauma and how healing can begin in both the body and mind.   www.GreaterWashingtonTherapy.com Dr. Bindeman's Course: Reproductive Psychology: A Comprehensive Year-Long Training (Live, Interactive): https://greaterwashingtontherapy.com/courses/itgw-courses-details/   When you purchase these books through these Amazon affiliate links, you're helping support the podcast at no extra cost to you: Dr. Bindeman's Book: The Mental Health Clinician's Handbook for Abortion Care: https://www.amazon.com/dp/3031614526?tag=boice01-20   Book Recommendations: 1. Reproductive Trauma: Psychotherapy With Clients Experiencing Infertility and Pregnancy Loss: https://amzn.to/4eCXieS 2. Sex Is a Spectrum: The Biological Limits of the Binary: https://amzn.to/4ljvn6a Subscribe and get a free 5-day journal at www.kristendboice.com to begin closing the chapter on what doesn't serve you and open the door to the real you. This information is being provided to you for educational and informational purposes only. It is being provided to you to educate you about ideas on stress management and as a self-help tool for your own use. It is not psychotherapy/counseling in any form. This information is to be used at your own risk based on your own judgment.  For my full Disclaimer please go to www.kristendboice.com. For counseling services near Indianapolis, IN, visit www.pathwaystohealingcounseling.com. Pathways to Healing Counseling's vision is to provide warm, caring, compassionate and life-changing counseling services and educational programs to individuals, couples and families in order to create learning, healing and growth.

In this encore episode, Kristen unpacks seven generational patterns that keep us stuck and offers guidance on how to break the cycle and build deeper, healthier connections. Subscribe and get a free 5-day journal at www.kristendboice.com to begin closing the chapter on what doesn't serve you and open the door to the real you. This information is being provided to you for educational and informational purposes only. It is being provided to you to educate you about ideas on stress management and as a self-help tool for your own use. It is not psychotherapy/counseling in any form. This information is to be used at your own risk based on your own judgment.  For my full Disclaimer please go to www.kristendboice.com. For counseling services near Indianapolis, IN, visit www.pathwaystohealingcounseling.com. Pathways to Healing Counseling's vision is to provide warm, caring, compassionate and life-changing counseling services and educational programs to individuals, couples and families in order to create learning, healing and growth.

In this episode, Kristen sits down with internationally recognized BPD expert and author Dr. Daniel Lobel to explore Borderline Personality Disorder through a clear, compassionate, trauma-informed lens.   Mysideofthecouch.com   When you purchase Dr. Daniel Lobel's books through these Amazon affiliate links, you're helping support the podcast at no extra cost to you:    1. Adult Children of Borderline Parents: https://amzn.to/4l0ZmPS 2. When Your Daughter Has BPD: Essential Skills to Help Families Manage Borderline Personality Disorder: https://amzn.to/4kIrt6v 3. When Your Mother Has Borderline Personality Disorder: A Guide for Adult Children: https://amzn.to/4mU99Zu 4. When a Loved One Has Borderline Personality Disorder: A Compassionate Guide to Building a Healthy and Supportive Relationship:  https://amzn.to/4mSP4TB 5. Stop Walking on Eggshells for Parents: How to Help Your Child (of Any Age) with Borderline Personality Disorder without Losing Yourself: https://amzn.to/4kvqQNt     Subscribe and get a free 5-day journal at www.kristendboice.com to begin closing the chapter on what doesn't serve you and open the door to the real you. This information is being provided to you for educational and informational purposes only. It is being provided to you to educate you about ideas on stress management and as a self-help tool for your own use. It is not psychotherapy/counseling in any form. This information is to be used at your own risk based on your own judgment.  For my full Disclaimer please go to www.kristendboice.com. For counseling services near Indianapolis, IN, visit www.pathwaystohealingcounseling.com. Pathways to Healing Counseling's vision is to provide warm, caring, compassionate and life-changing counseling services and educational programs to individuals, couples and families in order to create learning, healing and growth.  

In this episode, Kristen is joined by Dr. Marschall Runge, Executive VP for Medical Affairs at the University of Michigan and author, to explore how true healthcare disruption begins with integrating emotional and mental health into patient care. They discuss the promise and limitations of AI in medicine and why supporting the mental well-being of healthcare providers is more essential than ever.     https://drmarschallrunge.com/ https://www.codedtokill.com/     When you purchase these books through these Amazon links, you're helping support the podcast at no extra cost to you. 1. The Great Healthcare Disruption (Audiobook): Big Tech, Bold Policy, and the Future of American Medicine: https://amzn.to/3FHmjsi 2. The Great Healthcare Disruption: Big Tech, Bold Policy, and the Future of American Medicine Hardcover: https://amzn.to/45gZyFV Recommendations: 1. Super Agers: An Evidence-Based Approach to Longevity: https://amzn.to/4mYbwe8 2. Make Magic: The Book of Inspiration You Didn't Know You Needed: https://amzn.to/4l17CiM     Subscribe and get a free 5-day journal at www.kristendboice.com to begin closing the chapter on what doesn't serve you and open the door to the real you. This information is being provided to you for educational and informational purposes only. It is being provided to you to educate you about ideas on stress management and as a self-help tool for your own use. It is not psychotherapy/counseling in any form. This information is to be used at your own risk based on your own judgment.  For my full Disclaimer please go to www.kristendboice.com. For counseling services near Indianapolis, IN, visit www.pathwaystohealingcounseling.com. Pathways to Healing Counseling's vision is to provide warm, caring, compassionate and life-changing counseling services and educational programs to individuals, couples and families in order to create learning, healing and growth.

In this episode, Kristen welcomes trauma therapist and author Emily Romero, to explore the roots of self-doubt and share her Self-Trust Model for rebuilding confidence and reconnecting with inner wisdom. www.curiosityrising.com   When you purchase these books through these Amazon links, you're helping support the podcast at no extra cost to you.   Emily Romero's Books: 1. You Can Trust Yourself: Unlock The Wise Woman Within Using Modern Tools & Ancient Wisdom: https://amzn.to/4jKRh0B  2. Can People Really Change?: 13 Lessons from 13 Years as a Therapist: https://amzn.to/43YgIpH Emily Romero's Recommended Reads 1. From Scratch: A Memoir of Love, Sicily, and Finding Home: https://amzn.to/4mOqh2R 2. This Story Will Change: After the Happily Ever After: https://amzn.to/4kYpta3  3. I'm Glad My Mom Died: https://amzn.to/45MhXuj   Subscribe and get a free 5-day journal at www.kristendboice.com to begin closing the chapter on what doesn't serve you and open the door to the real you. This information is being provided to you for educational and informational purposes only. It is being provided to you to educate you about ideas on stress management and as a self-help tool for your own use. It is not psychotherapy/counseling in any form. This information is to be used at your own risk based on your own judgment.  For my full Disclaimer please go to www.kristendboice.com. For counseling services near Indianapolis, IN, visit www.pathwaystohealingcounseling.com. Pathways to Healing Counseling's vision is to provide warm, caring, compassionate and life-changing counseling services and educational programs to individuals, couples and families in order to create learning, healing and growth.      

In this episode, Kristen talks with Sigmar Berg, founder of the Love Tuner, to explore how combining breath and sound can calm the nervous system, shift energy, and support emotional well-being.  When you purchase Sigmar Berg's Book and Lovetuner through these affiliate links, you're helping support the podcast at no extra cost to you. 1. One Journey: The Lovetuner Book - https://amzn.to/4dpOUhY 2. Lovetuner - https://lddy.no/1lob8 Subscribe and get a free 5-day journal at www.kristendboice.com to begin closing the chapter on what doesn't serve you and open the door to the real you. This information is being provided to you for educational and informational purposes only. It is being provided to you to educate you about ideas on stress management and as a self-help tool for your own use. It is not psychotherapy/counseling in any form. This information is to be used at your own risk based on your own judgment.  For my full Disclaimer please go to www.kristendboice.com. For counseling services near Indianapolis, IN, visit www.pathwaystohealingcounseling.com. Pathways to Healing Counseling's vision is to provide warm, caring, compassionate and life-changing counseling services and educational programs to individuals, couples and families in order to create learning, healing and growth.

  In this episode, Kristen talks with Mary Dobson, psychotherapist and founder of LIFT Wellness and LiftWell Health, about the emotional and mental toll midlife can take on women and how reclaiming your sense of self is essential for long-term well-being.    www.marydobson.com www.liftwellnessgroup.com www.liftwellhealth.com   When you purchase these books through these Amazon links, you're helping support the podcast at no extra cost to you. 1. The Power of Intention https://amzn.to/43COxgR 2. Change Your Thoughts - Change Your Life: Living the Wisdom of the Tao https://amzn.to/3H8nPnK 3. Excuses Begone!: How to Change Lifelong, Self-Defeating Thinking Habits https://amzn.to/4kieV5q 4. Power of Awakening, The: Mindfulness Practices and Spiritual Tools to Transform Your Life https://amzn.to/44PMFlZ 5. Self Help: This Is Your Chance to Change Your Life https://amzn.to/4kunav5 6. The Universe Has Your Back: Transform Fear to Faith https://amzn.to/3H5ILeY 7. Becoming Supernatural: How Common People Are Doing the Uncommon https://amzn.to/3F6pFot 8. Breaking The Habit of Being Yourself: How to Lose Your Mind and Create a New One https://amzn.to/4mrsAZx 9. 12 Rules For Life An Antidote To Chaos And Beyond Order 12 More Rules For Life Jordan Peterson https://amzn.to/43GP2Xg   Subscribe and get a free 5-day journal at www.kristendboice.com to begin closing the chapter on what doesn't serve you and open the door to the real you. This information is being provided to you for educational and informational purposes only. It is being provided to you to educate you about ideas on stress management and as a self-help tool for your own use. It is not psychotherapy/counseling in any form. This information is to be used at your own risk based on your own judgment.  For my full Disclaimer please go to www.kristendboice.com. For counseling services near Indianapolis, IN, visit www.pathwaystohealingcounseling.com. Pathways to Healing Counseling's vision is to provide warm, caring, compassionate and life-changing counseling services and educational programs to individuals, couples and families in order to create learning, healing and growth.