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COCOISM

Cocoism podcast, hosted by two dads, Coco and Boots, who share humorous and honest stories about life, parenting, and building community, focusing on themes of self-acceptance and togetherness with their listeners, often featuring pop culture discussions and relatable "adulting" moments, with a philosophy of embracing being "too many things" together. They use the tagline, “We're all too many things, so let's be too many things together!”

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    It’s a Juliette Lewis Summer… all aboard The COCO Caboose!

    This week on COCOISM, Boots and Coco dive into Tyra Banks’ lawsuit against Netflix, the complicated legacy of America’s Next Top Model, and why reality TV edits can change everything. Boots reflects on his own experience appearing on reality television while the boys unpack what happens when the person controlling the narrative suddenly loses control of the edit. Then it’s off to the movies for a packed TV Tie-Up featuring RuPaul’s latest cinematic adventure, Steven Spielberg’s emotional sci-fi epic Disclosure Day, and the absolutely chilling new Cape Fear series that has Boots screaming at the television and celebrating what may officially be a Juliette Lewis Summer. The boys also take the Metro to LA Pride, reflect on sobriety, community, growing older in queer spaces, and what Pride means when you’re finally comfortable in your own skin. Plus: summer vibes, popcorn reviews, the state of the world, gratitude, and a heartfelt thank-you to the COCO Puffs and Bootsie Rolls who helped COCOISM reach 53 episodes.

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    52 COCOISM episodes later, Bootsies Bonanza Summer Bash & Coco Colada shots on the house!

    The brightest days have arrived in the Coco Sphere! Boots Bueno and Coco Alexander Bueno celebrate 52 episodes of COCOISM, the first official day of summer, Matthew’s middle school culmination, family graduation nostalgia, Pride Month reflections, and the joy of showing up exactly as you are. Then it’s a TV Tie-Up takeover with Widow’s Bay, Maximum Pleasure Guaranteed, Cape Fear, Juliette Lewis love, and one very honest Scary Movie walkout. Prideful, parented, caffeinated, and way too many things — just how we like it.

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    What Does Pride Mean When You’re Sober?

    Happy Pride from inside the COCOSPHERE this week, Boots and Coco get reflective, wig-tastic, and deeply Bootsie as they talk about what pride means now: being seen, staying sober, opening doors that never close again, and choosing the life you actually deserve. We get into Backrooms, demons that look a little too familiar, the last six months of red carpets, recovery, parenting, mood boards, Matthew heading to high school, Robin Tunney at the MOCA Gala, Jena Malone’s BASIC Magazine cover, the case of the missing wig, and the full moon Sagittarius portal of it all.

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    The Boroughs, The Ponytail & Shapewear Cartels?

    This week on COCOISM, Boots and Coco enter the full COCOSPHERE : Hacks, Obsession, The Boroughs taking over Netflix, Jena Malone’s sci-fi folk era, horror movies that ruined road trips forever, and the red carpet ponytail heard around the world. Plus, Boots spills the glam behind Jena’s Boroughs premiere hair, Patricia Velasquez for Et Cetera Journal, Michelle Joy of Cannons, and the sacred art of leaving your ego at the door on set. And yes, somehow Kim Kardashian, shapewear, Mariah Carey, indie horror, coffee shop loyalty, and “Ride the D” all make it into one glorious episode. Because in the COCOSPHERE , the wigs are tight, the takes are hotter than espresso dust, and we’re always doing too many things together.

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    Jena Malone Returns: Flowers for Men, Sci-Fi Folk & the Hair Era We Manifested

    Jena Malone Returns: Flowers for Men, Sci-Fi Folk & the Hair Era We Manifested Some episodes age beautifully. This one mutated into a whole cinematic universe. Originally recorded in our living room during one of those cozy, chaotic, spiritually charged COCOISM nights, this conversation with actress, musician, poet, mother, creative shapeshifter, and forever icon Jena Malone has officially entered its next era. Since this episode first aired, life got very “sci-fi folk fever dream.” What started as an interview turned into real friendship, real collaboration, and honestly… a full blown hair mythology. From intimate photo shoots to doing hair for Jena’s album cover and first music video single Barstow, to glam for the premiere of her new series The Boroughs, we somehow found ourselves living inside the exact creative energy this episode predicted. And now? We’re reopening the portal. Inside this conversation: analog nostalgia, digital art theory, Donnie Darko reflections, motherhood, sobriety journeys, creativity as survival, horror films, identity shifts, bad bitch hair evolution, and the strange magic of finding your people at the exact right time. At the center of it all is Jena’s new sci-fi folk a Flowers for Men — a project that feels both earthly and interdimensional. Soft but dangerous. Intimate but cinematic. Like transmission tapes from another emotional dimension. So light the fireplace. Put on the oversized coat. Cue the synths. Open the portal. This is COCOISM. And this is the Jena Malone hair era we manifested.

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    Is It TEA or Just Foam? — The COCOSPHERE Erupts

    Boots and Coco are back together for a no-guest COCOSPHERE catch-up extravaganza — and nothing is safe. From Coco’s surprise birthday party and Met Gala Monday energy to The Devil Wears Prada 2, Euphoria, Imperfect Women, Beef, horror flops, AI storytelling, Madonna’s rollout, Sabrina Carpenter confusion, Couchella, gay weddings, and the glory of the Bixie haircut. Plus, Boots and Coco reflect on recent COCOISM episodes with Love Trapped host Stephani Young and the team behind Hunting Matthew Nichols, share behind-the-scenes chaos from their Basic Magazine shoot with Jena Malone, and celebrate the creative community that keeps the wigs moving.

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    Love Trapped: Is This the Wildest Dating Scandal Yet?

    Boots Bueno and Coco Alexander Bueno sit down with Stephani Young, host and producer of the gripping true crime podcast Love Trapped, to unpack the wild story pulling listeners into a maze of dating, allegations, legal battles, online detectives, courtroom audio, and questions nobody can stop asking. Stephani takes us behind the scenes of building a true crime series in real time — from sleepless nights and hundreds of emails to court documents, emotional triggers, fact-checking, legal review, and the responsibility of telling a story that is still unfolding. We get into Clayton Echard, Laura Owens, the other men connected to the case, the power of community, what the legal system reveals about relationships, and why this story feels bigger than one person. Plus, Boots and Coco enter their own chaotic revenge-era confessional moment, because apparently nobody leaves this table without a little mess. If you’re gagging, confused, and slightly concerned… welcome to the trap.

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    Don’t Go Into the Woods: Hunting Matthew Nichols with Miranda & Lucy

    Boots Bueno and Coco Alexander Bueno are joined by Miranda MacDougall and producer Lucy McNulty to talk all things Hunting Matthew Nichols — the haunting indie horror film that had us hooked from the jump. We get into found footage fear, the making of the movie, behind-the-scenes chaos, creative connection, and why horror still hits so hard. Plus: “Redrum Redrum,” survival strategies, spooky confessions, and a love letter to independent film. And since it’s Coco’s birthday… we’re celebrating the only man who would willingly walk into the woods, ignore every red flag, and still think he’s making it out alive — our delusional, dramatic, horror-obsessed birthday diva. We love you down.

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    Deadloch, Darling? Chaos, Cath & the Queer Crime We Needed

    Spoiler alert, sweeties — we’re spilling a little Deadloch tea… sip responsibly. This week on COCOISM, Boots and Coco step into the wild, chaotic, and deeply human world of Deadloch with the brilliant Alicia Gardiner. From Cath’s fast-talking, big-hearted chaos to the show’s bold queer storytelling, this conversation dives into what makes Deadloch feel so real — and so necessary right now. Alicia opens up about building Cath from the ground up, filming in the intense Australian wilderness (yes, crocodiles included), and why audiences are connecting so deeply to a character rooted in love, community, and moral fire. We get into: – The evolution from Season 1 to Season 2 – The power of queer-led storytelling – Representation that actually means something – The balance of comedy, truth, and chaos – And why we might all need a little more Cath energy in our lives Plus… we ask the real question: Do we need to start a Season 3 campaign? (Answer: yes.) Hosts: Coco Alexander Bueno and Boots Bueno

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    Prison Break & the Saboteurs?

    In this episode of COCOISM, hosts Boots Bueno and Coco Alexander Bueno get real about self-love, inner battles, and the stories we tell ourselves that keep us stuck. Because sometimes… the biggest thing standing in your way isn’t the world—it’s you. From confronting the inner saboteur to finding clarity, confidence, and community, this conversation dives into what it actually takes to grow through the messy parts of life. The ones where doubt creeps in, fear gets loud, and you have to decide—am I evolving… or am I escaping? And of course, in true Cocoism fashion, we couldn’t help but spiral (just a little) into the cultural chaos—yes, we’re talking Jen Shah, prison release energy, and what a “prison break” really means in our own lives

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    The Queer Mirror? Masculinity, Fear & Representation

    Boots Bueno and Coco Alexander Bueno are joined by marriage and family therapist Tiffany Totah for a powerful roundtable conversation on queer representation, masculinity, fear, and identity. Why does queer representation matter so deeply? Can communities unintentionally recreate the same pressures they were trying to escape? What happens when masculinity becomes something people feel forced to prove instead of something they simply live? Together, they unpack visibility, shame, family systems, social media, hyper masculinity, sensitivity, misogyny, and the healing that becomes possible when people choose reflection over fear. Tiffany brings clinical insight, while Boots and Coco bring lived experience, heart, and honesty to one of their most layered conversations yet. This episode is about being seen, being softer, being stronger, and learning how to show up with more love—for yourself and for others. Hosts: Boots Bueno and Coco Alexander Bueno

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    Picnic Basket Tea, Red Cabbage Delusion & Nicole Kidman Energy?

    COCOISM — Picnic Edition  Picture this: a blanket, a breeze, espresso on the rocks… and just enough chaos to ruin the group chat. This week, Boots & Coco unpack what’s in their picnic basket — from health comebacks and LA heat waves to celebrity shade, coffee shop behavior, and the emotional trauma of red cabbage (yes, we went there). We get into: The Bachelorette fallout and reality TV fatigueThey Will Kill You, Undertone, and horror movie obsessionsNicole Kidman’s reign continues (Scarpetta had us FED)Toxic love vs real love (Wuthering Heights)DTF St. Louis and messy suburban secretsParadise, nostalgia, and escape PLUS:  A WILD Coco Mail story you won’t recover from  “Pin the Shade” — sweet or salty takes on everything from Starbucks to Whoppers Because around here, we don’t just spill tea… we pack it in a picnic basket and pass it around.

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    Gold Statues & Lace Fronts?

    “On this episode of COCOISM, Boots Bueno and Coco Alexander Bueno break down the latest Oscars—from best hair to biggest misses—and give their unfiltered take on Hollywood’s biggest night. They also dive into the buzz coming out of SXSW, including The Ugly Cry starring Robin Tunney, and share a personal look into life beyond the spotlight, from parenting to creative growth. It’s opinionated, playful, and just the right amount of shady—welcome to COCOISM

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    Do You Know The Man Behind Chad Powers? | Frankie A. Rodriguez

    The chemistry in the show Chad Powers between Danny & Chad is a dynamic bomb of pure joy. The incredible talent that is Frankie A. Rodriguez creates a unique character as Danny in the series which allows him to elevate the character of both Russ Holiday & Chad Powers played by the epic Glen Powell to soaring heights of redemption. The dimensional character of Danny being an openly queer theater kid turned mascot gives the audience depth humor & charisma that ultimately is what Chad Powers needs to survive. Frankie serves up this role with grace, perfection, wit & drama & it’s an amazing performance to watch. Take a ride with us as we explore “who is Frankie”? His life as an actor & artist & of course the experience of being on the series Chad Powers recognized by the Golden Globes & GLAAD Media. OH & did we mention the sneak peek into season2!?

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    How’s Your Wig? | Wig Nation, Hair Snatch & The Tyra Illusion

    First question of the day: How’s your wig? Are you secure in Wig Nation? This week Boots and Coco tie up television, snatch a few wigs, and clock the girls. From the Carolyn Bessette Kennedy blonde in Love Story to the cinematic hair moments in By Design, we’re talking culture through the lens of hair. We also spill a little very Bootsie tea about the AI Tyra post that had the internet gooped, gagged, and confused. Plus we reflect on building our careers as hair artists in entertainment and stepping into our next era. Celebrity hairdresser isn’t a goal. It’s a direction. If you’re not snatching wigs or starting conversations… it’s not Cocoism.

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    Runway & Reckoning? Giselle Samson

    America’s Next Top Model is trending again—and this time we’re looking back with grown eyes. In this episode, Boots & Coco sit down with Giselle (Cycle 1) for a real conversation about what happened behind the runway: the pressure, the editing, the body image impact, and what it’s like being pulled back into those memories in the age of social media. We talk accountability (without the hate mob), the highs and lows of reality TV, what viewers never saw, and what healing looks like when a moment from 20+ years ago still follows you. And of course, we crown the COCOISM Moment of the episode: DeLulu-ism—radical conviction in who you are, no matter what. Grab your tea and your stilettos. This one is fierce, honest, and too many things. 💌

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    Lover Era Vol. 1: From Delusional to Divine

    Welcome to Lover Era Vol. 1 — the first annual COCOISM Valentine’s Day special. This week, Boots and Coco unpack love from every angle: the delusional, the divine, the messy, and the mature. From rapid-fire debates on Grindr behavior to heartfelt reflections on the love we’ve outgrown, this episode is honest, hilarious, and unexpectedly tender. We celebrate our son Matthew’s very first Valentine’s Day, reflect on the kind of love we want him to witness, and answer real “Lover Era Confessions” from our community — offering advice from two homo dads with very different lenses. Somewhere in every episode, a COCOISM reveals itself — a phrase, a truth, a moment we can all carry with us. This one? You’ll know it when you hear it. Are we delusional… or divine? Press play and enter your Lover Era.

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    Bunny Bowl, Super Shade & Saturn Returns Laughing Through Life’s Plot Twists

    Bad Bunny takes the Super Bowl stage and we have thoughts. From guest appearances (Gaga! Cardi!) to the cultural conversation that followed, we break down the moments that had everyone talking. Then it’s time for some super shade. We unpack the reality TV drama surrounding Jill Zarin, her controversial post, and the fallout that followed. Accountability entered the chat. We revisit last week’s sobriety episode with Kristen Bear and talk about something not discussed enough — the humor inside healing and the growth that comes with life’s Saturn return moments. Plus:  Send Help with Rachel McAdams & The Bone Temple  Chad Powers  Parenting teens & preparing for dating conversations  A preview of our upcoming episode with therapist Tiffany Totah Because around here, we’re always laughing through life’s plot twists — and doing too many things together. Boots & Coco

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    What led you to your path of sobriety? With Creative Sobriety’s Kristen Bear

    The road to recovery is a lane of our own, carved out by the desire to live a sober life & say, Au revoir booze, bye drugs! It may start in despair but it’s the evolution of time, building coping skills and finding community and nurturing sobriety that gives us a new opportunity to live. We are deserving of love, creativity, self worth & joy. Kristen Bear shares a light with us, we are greatful for this moment thank you! Know that in your journey of sobriety you are not alone, in the sober community we connect, support, create!

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    What does the EGO desire? With Astrologer | SHERENE Vismaya

    Is it what we look for, what we see or what we’re told? The Zodiac, complex or simple? If astrology can insight us on our path can we exist in the present to receive? Will the relentless EGO allow us to connect & can the EGO be shushed to attain a conscious calm of it? Join us as we dip our toes in the infinite depth of the Zodiac with the incredible Jungian Psychoanalyst SHERENE Vismaya!

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    One Battle After Another

    Diving into the chaos the currents are rough & we need to survive the rabid unjust of our government. In protest we are one & our POWER can’t be measured in our unity and in our humanity. As we live, we love as we pause we take action. Our heart, our mind & our faith is ours to keep and we have that forever as our guide in this lifetime. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise, sending all the love to you from us here at COCOISM!

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    New Year, New FLEX?

    What’s in your purse? As Coco said “my purse is alot smaller now”! Meaning as we travel through the months our purse becomes a carry on & our carry on becomes a suitcase & that’s when life can be unnecessarily too many things! Now repeat after me: “I won’t allow it”! Meaning no longer am I allowing myself to carry the build up of others peoples mush that attaches to me. Keep that on repeat because at this moment in time we all need & deserve the calm & space to keep our mental wellness in tact & the freedom to experience the joy of being ourselves.

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    Have you met the Architect? ft. Dawn Richard

    In the darkness of the galactic universe there is hope. Let the presence of our past be the fruit that ripens us in our journey of redemption. We are the pilot! In disrupting the narrative & navigating our truth we behold our autonomy that is the equity of life. Love is the foundation of building a legacy & with that we see the PHENOMENAL DAWN RICHARD transcend us to new heights here at COCOISM!

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    Can I serve you a plate of DELICIOUS?

    Are you the gift under the tree? What’s gotten you wrapped up this YEAR? Does time ever stall & mirrors stop existing? I think not UNFORTUNATELY, I prompt you to contemplate “it’s not about what you start doing, it’s about what you stop doing”. Yes we are approaching the new year & shedding the unwanted & shifting the prospective on how you tackle life’s tasks may give you that SLAY ride moment you never saw coming!

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    Erica Deuso "When we stand together we are unstoppable"

    Trans people in America are standing up to brake the barriers society & governments want to confine us too. In the community of the LGBTQ+ our allies & Trancestors before us have given us their shoulders to stand upon so we can be lifted UP, be heard, be seen & be accepted and protected in America. In honor of bringing community, diversity & celebrating change in politics we want to thank Erica, Mayor-elect Deuso for the amazing chat, the inspiration & being too many things with us here at COCOISM the podcast!

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    JENA MALONE & the GLORIOUS GIFT pt. 2

    In life an unexpected meet can sometimes bloom a beautiful friendship sprung from creativity & similarities. Wait did this really happen? Not Jena putting Coco & Boots in the hot seat, we literally never saw that coming! Well, that’s how the unexpected works, it’s really cosmically serene & it’s within these moments the ISMS trickle in. In what we all do & how we want to create, we can achieve the utmost by believing in our gifts. For this moment we are GLORIOUS & GLOWING here at COCOISM, thank you Jena!

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    JENA MALONE & the DIGITAL IMPRINT pt. 1

    In ART, digitally we are in a state of constant creation. Are our eyes wide shut in this punkrock world we live in? We’re really not sure but Jena beautifully takes us away on a nostalgic journey on how the influence of tech is expanding us as digital artists & how that becomes a centerpiece in our community and our home. It’s time to turn it all the way up for the incredible Jena Malone…y’all better gather cause MOTHER has arrived!

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    The Case of the Missing Rollers

    “No more wire hangers!” Now that’s a bit dramatic right? Welcome to our world of too many things! It’s really more like “No foam rollers for Jena Malone!” Even when the checklist is tight little miss missing can strike at the blink of an eye & boom is everything about to crumble? Now let’s save the theatrics for the theatre darling, cause when Coco & Boots are on the scene they’re bound to solve the case sweety!

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    The Art of SOBLICITY

    As our solar return ignites a spark of a new beginning, what allows us to completely hit the reset button? The answer to that has so many variables because life is full of movement, change, growth, pain, healing & love. We can only arrive when we are ready to show up & walk away from static that constrains us. In recovery & sobriety keep the path open, honor yourself in the steps you’ve taken that grant you the gift to live in serenity & bliss. Welcome to your sober return & the SOBLICITY you have earned.

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    The Fear of Success

    Look away… it’s the Gen Z stare, it’s giving hypnotism SWEETIE! But really how our kids communicate & express themselves is an opportunity for us to be a part of THEM, they have something to say! Tiffany Totah, marriage & family therapist is back & we are ready to receive. Take the plunge with us as we dive into the deep end & explore the fear of success, it may surprise you in how you relate & what comes up, it blew our mind here at COCOISM headquarters. So many pieces of life we can work through together & that’s the gift of COCOISM.

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    La órbita de Augusto

    As much as we learn & connect inward, is that really enough to satisfy our search in our spiritual journey of ME? Sometimes we don’t see what’s always been right in front of us. Guided by an orbit of love we have the ability to define our own spiritual relationship with ourselves & the light we are drawn too. Sit with that ! This is a thrilling week here at COCOISM headquarters as we chat it up with the incredible actor Augusto Gordillo Lisboa of the film Kiss of the Spider Woman! This is the web to be caught in! THANK YOU 🫶🏽 oh & be sure to stay for the TEA with Tiffany Totah & the TV TIE UP is giving KIM K all the pearls!

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    Kiss of the Spider Woman

    It’s all eyes on Jennifer Lopez as she holds court & takes her crown in this dazzling musical. Like gold medalist in there element Jennifer along with Diego Luna & Tonatiuh sweep you away in this mesmerizing romance. It’s just one kiss, one moment to see that societies constructs of gender can’t stop love. If our birth really meant freedom to BE rather than be defined by our sex & repressed for not fitting a mold. I AM Molina, SHE is Molina , WE are Molina. The TV TIE UP award of the week goes to BOOTS the series on NETFLIX, thank you Miles Heizer for taking us on this journey in your role as Cameron a gay Marine Corp recruit & the homophobia that lurks. We are living for BOOTS! Welcome to COCOISM, the place to live free & feel alive!

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    It’s not Wimbledon for FKS sake!

    Parenting feels like the job that came with no training & no HR department. That said look at challenges with your teen as an opportunity to really lean in on a topic of their choice to show them a snapshot of how things can really work for them in an adult world. Hard work & with no room for laziness is what it takes for success as a young adult! Our mamas taught us best so with that we do have the tools along with what life has given us to show our kids & each other that you really can have it all! From COCOISMS to CARDIISMS we not bout to raise a bum!

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    The Comeback

    It’s Coco & Boots! Gathered & Gooped we are here for it all & thrilled to sky dive with you into the frenzy of the world that’s too many things. Is it really possible to glide past the drama & keep your pearls intact? I don’t know but what we can say is go ahead & give it a try! Whatcha got to lose ? Really, in a confrontational event best deliver a response of unruffled feathers, grace with a twist of honesty that will leave you feeling harmonious & centered… give yourself & others this loving gift !

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    Bootsies BookClub & Such (the finale!)

    In closing, the novel Dancer from the Dance by Andrew Holleran has taken us on a beautiful & exhilarating journey that leaves us with an unforgettable impression of gay culture in the 70’s, a time to live! As the Bookclub boys gather, we welcome artist Joe Cavallaro to dish with us on the epic escapades of Monroe & Sutherland, best friends that thrived in the love they shared for each other ! A masterpiece of fiction this book gives us all a chance to reflect on how unpredictable adventures & heartbreak from our past can be the gift that enlivens the life we live today. Hosts: @bootsbueno @cocoalexanderlive @cocoism1 Guset: @joecavallaro

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    Bootsies BookClub & SUCH (part 5)!

    Chosen family has been gifted not only to me but to many of us who have felt a sting of rejection by the family we are born with. Relationships come & go and it’s a blessing to get to a point of having both families be a part of our colorful lives. An undercurrent wave of discontent can lead to a breaking point. But a current of satisfaction, honesty & thoughtfulness can be the ingredients needed for a relationship of love & respect.

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    999 Bootsies BookClub & SUCH (part 4)!

    The feeling when one is slipping away theoretically or actually is a card to be dealt with. Because the emotion in the shadow of that feeling can be a wild card. Anger, Loss, Rejection & Fear may selfishly take the lead as a response in an unfortunate situation such as this. But it’s when we become aware of our EGO not serving us that we get the chance to expand in every way; mind, body and heart & with that we are led to love, LOVE! Your Aura is Grace & your ERA is Compassion…& that’s TEA!

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    Bootsies BookClub & SUCH! (Part 3)

    Discovery of the moment or moments that allow you to express yourself emotionally & physically are never planned. It’s more of a click of nature that’s turned on inside of you. We live our lives full of exploration & attraction to self & others and that is a fundamental part of evolving to find comfort & confidence in our own skin. Dancer from the Dance takes you up & away in the drama of coming out , living your gayest life & most of all finding love , it’s all about LOVE!

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    Bootsies BookClub & Such ! (Part 2)

    Time is of the essence… & don’t you forget it! Gifts come with grace & when they are shared with love & trust the rest is simple. All involved can really enjoy the fruits of building something new together & when honesty becomes woven into a situation a foundation forms. As we dive in deeper into the fictional world of Dancer from the Dance, Sutherland schools the newbie as she reigns court in the club & the moment Malone makes his entrance under the disco light …the lust is instant, the desire is electric & one by one they all wanna SWALLOW him up in the darkness of the sex fueled halls & stalls!

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    Bootsies BookClub & Such! (part 1)

    The Ferry awaits so grab ahold of your clutch & pearls … all aboard to Fire Island ! Andrew Hollerans’ 1978 novel Dancer from the Dance is a tale of gay men celebrating the summers on Fire Island & will take you to the edge of the dance floor ! The land of the Loss & where Legends were born it was a time to LOVE & LIVE!

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    Gonged & Giggled (Interlude 1)

    You can’t dance at every ball! Don’t be so hard on yourself I tell ya! The coffee gon’ brew another day boo! For the record the list of dos as a parent can be so daunting & having an insouciant child makes it even harder! Let’s take a minute & get lost in a book together, the meet up at Bootsies Book Club & Such has a seat just for you!

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    Ms. Double Dutch Kiss

    A message in a bottle Mary… say what? A lemonade in the shade on Barbie Island … sign me up! Brad & a side of TEA & ME ? Yes Mamah ! What a KIKI it has been this season COCOPUFFS & you’ve kept up with all the checks & balances in the Queendom of COCOISM! As we wrap season one of the ISM don’t you forget that on this planet of too many things let’s blow a kiss & be too many things together! The block stay hot & season 2 is cooking, can you handle it … I don’t know!

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    The Cowboy the Lion and the Huntin’ Wives

    From codependency to setting ourselves free from entangled relationships, it’s really contrast & complacency at work here. Are we this or that ? In whatever capacity we place ourselves in a relationship, how do we tame one or the other or simply shift our reactions & behaviors? To recognize who we are & become self-aware of how we play a role in this is a step of many steps in healing & protecting our being from emotional harm. Give your shift purpose & make the most important thing you have YOU!

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    Danger Beach on Barbie Island

    As summer continues to unfold the moods stay shifting in the wind. I’m left asking myself, Am I the Drama? Behold the uncertainty of today & brace yourself for what’s next. Pull up them chaps & tighten that corset like never before because we must lean into our boundaries more than ever right now. Our environment is our teacher & clarity is brought to each of us by the flexibility we give ourselves in every moment.

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    Brad Pitt & the Sistah hood of the traveling pants

    Escapes can bring in the least expected sometimes like Brad Pitt speeding so fast my eyes watered & my wig went flying! Shifting perspective on relationships & taking initiative in the part you play can change everything. Only we can change how we see a situation, person & relationship right? You’re never going to know until you make your move & allow the narrative to switch. You can wake it up!

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    She put the TEA in TEAM!

    Welcome Tiffany Totah marriage & family therapist. A woman who transcends boundaries & embodies life in a way that gives insight on how we can navigate ourselves on the journey we are on! At times guardrails are needed to help us with our balance in life’s choices. Building resilience comes in many ways & having a support team led by trust, love & fearlessness will get us to a place of letting the guardrails come down at the right moment.

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    Can you handle this? I don’t know!

    2 most wanted Coco & Boots revvin’ past the red lights, bound for a limitless route to curious conceptual creativity. Blowing bubbles into the sky we float through the cosmics bursting with wonder & kaleidoscope dreams.… Can you imagine that?

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    You got this MARY!

    How often do we get to re-present ourselves to our community & ourselves? A power is given to all of us to be exactly how we want to be seen & be. May you not dim the light within you & brightly be your authentic self… lead with love… it’s really beautiful.

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    Mr. & Mr. Pride

    Yes being your favorite daddies is an honor of course. We indulge on so many levels on the gifts we get from the ups & downs on planet too many things. COCOISM gives the space & TEA & we love bringing it to you ! Love & Unite because we all deserve to be loved & celebrated for how we identify our selves… there truly are no boundaries. Happy Pride!

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    An off script KiKi!

    It’s not quicksand it’s just POP culture sweetie! I’d like to thank Beyoncé for my birth lol. High jinks aside I’ve been getting cozy in my delusion that Tom Hardy will be my new best friend! Well, the block is hot so jump in with me cause COCOISM is serving! That’s Tea Boo!

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ABOUT THIS SHOW

Cocoism podcast, hosted by two dads, Coco and Boots, who share humorous and honest stories about life, parenting, and building community, focusing on themes of self-acceptance and togetherness with their listeners, often featuring pop culture discussions and relatable "adulting" moments, with a philosophy of embracing being "too many things" together. They use the tagline, “We're all too many things, so let's be too many things together!”

HOSTED BY

CocoAlexander and Boots Bueno

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Cocoism podcast, hosted by two dads, Coco and Boots, who share humorous and honest stories about life, parenting, and building community, focusing on themes of self-acceptance and togetherness with their listeners, often featuring pop culture discussions and relatable "adulting" moments, with a...

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COCOISM is created and hosted by CocoAlexander and Boots Bueno.
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