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Come As You Are

by ESN.fm

1-on-1 conversations about better sex, powered by science.

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  1. Feminist Survival Project 2020

    New from Emily and Amelia Nagoski: The Feminist Survival Project 2020. A podcast for feminists who feel overwhelmed and exhausted by everything we need to get done in 2020, and still worry that we're not doing enough. Find it wherever you listen to podcasts or at feministsurvivalproject.com

  2. 7: Pleasure is the Measure

    Recorded live at TopatoCon 2015, Emily and an all-star panel of guests discuss a wide variety of topics: finding pleasure rather than accepting what you're stuck with, body image, vulva puppetry, feeling trapped by lack of education, and the miraculous powers of a legendary...Magic Wand.

  3. 6: These Metaphors and Me

    Her podcasting schedule completely wrecked by Book Tour (which is going great, by the way!), Emily "phones in" a micro-episode where she answers listener mail. How do we deal with the way our partner relationships change over time? "Very carefully" is the short answer.

  4. 5: Gonna Fly Now

    "Penny Hall" in New Zealand has spent her life at war with a phantom self that has informed who she thinks she's supposed to be sexually. She talks about her lifelong discovery process of determining whether she is, in fact, Super-Sexy Lady, or if her authentic Sexual Identity is really "just"...

  5. 4: So You Want to Have an Orgasm

    "Cindy Lou" has never had an orgasm. She discusses her experiences and Emily assigns her homework.

  6. 3: Moral Foundation

    Amelia Nagoski is a choral conductor and Emily's twin sister. They start with lube and go from there, eventually talking about Stephen Fry and how prejudices appear in strange places when it regards what we define as "abnormal". Emily and Amelia's voices are very similar. The clearer voice in…

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  7. 2: Responsive Desire

    Danielle Corsetto has been reading Emily's newly released book, Come As You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life (available soon in the UK). Danielle asks questions about what makes sex hurt, and whether that's normal. They also discuss the male-centric definitions of...

  8. 1: People Are Saying It's Dangerous!

    Emily discusses 50 Shades of Grey, Secretary, and the portrayal of BDSM in the mainstream with Oh Joy Sex Toy creator Erika Moen. Emily's book Come As You Are: The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life is out in the USA on 3 March 2015, and in the UK on 9 April 2015. Already…

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  9. 0: What Makes Good Sex Happen

    Originally posted as an episode of Thank You For Calling!, Come As You Are host Emily Nagoski talks about her work as a sex educator and the misconceptions she's faced with when people stop her in the grocery store to ask about their sex lives. Subscribe to Come As You Are (via this link to RSS)...

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ABOUT THIS SHOW

1-on-1 conversations about better sex, powered by science.

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ESN.fm

Produced by Moisés Chiullan

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1-on-1 conversations about better sex, powered by science.

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