Come Curious
by Florence Bark & Reed | QCODE
Home of the world's most OPEN, HONEST & EXPLICIT conversations! You’ll be hearing all of our juicy sex stories, getting professional sex advice from therapists to dominatrix’s and spilling horny tea with your favorite public figures. Curious f**kers… welcome to COME CURIOUS the podcast. Hosted by award winning sex & relationship content creators, sex educators & p0rn directors: Florence Bark and Reed Amber. Please rate and review if you’ve learnt something from us! C U NEXT THURSDAY CURIOUS F**KERS Support the podcast and help us keep independent by donating via patreon.com/comecurious
Episodes
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Reed + Florence Nerding Out over Seggs Tapes : OnlyFans Content Creation, Cinematic Corn & Professional Filming Tips
We're camera nerds. We're film geeks. And we really, really like making seggs tapes. 🎥🍑Watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast over on Patreon In this episode, Florence and Reed get gloriously geeky about the art of making an er0tic home movie. Drawing on...
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The Halloween Episode: Can Sex Get Any Scarier Than This? - BD$M Fantasies, Vampire Roleplay, Knife Play & Spooky Sex Stories
Watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast over on Patreon From vampire roleplay and knife play to terrifying bedroom mishaps and stories that might make you sleep with the lights on, this Halloween we're getting into the spooky, the k'nky and the downright…
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How to Make Home Movies! - Amateur Corn, POV Filming, Privacy & Creating Intimate Content
Watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast over on Patreon Fancy making a s_x tape? 🎥🔥 Whether it's a private little keepsake for you and a partner or you're thinking about creating your own amateur corn, there are a few things you should know before you hit...
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Your kinky questions: I'm kinky but my partner isn't...Help! - BDSM, Fetishes, Sexual Fantasies & Exploring Your Desires
Got a k'nky fantasy you're too embarrassed to ask about? Wondering what your desires mean, how to explore them, or how to bring them up with a partner without making things awkward? 👀 In this episode of Come Curious, Reed - seggs educator, seggs worker and ki'nk and f3tish specialist - answers...
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Why Don't I Feel Horny? How to get your sex drive back - Libido, Arousal, Hormones & Relationships
Why don't I feel horny anymore? And is there actually anything you can do to get your sex drive back? In this episode of Come Curious, Florence and Reed dive into the surprisingly complicated world of libido, low sex drive and sexual desire - and why feeling less horny doesn't necessarily mean...
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How Motherhood Changed Us - Postpartum Life, Body Changes, Sex After Birth & Maternal Mental Health
Motherhood changes you. Your body, your brain, your relationships, your priorities — sometimes even your sense of who the fuck you are. In this episode, Florence gets brutally honest about the reality of becoming a new mum, from postpartum anxiety and breastfeeding to body changes, sex after…
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The Future of Sex - would you 'do' a robot? | AI Seggs, AI Companions & The Future of Intimacy
Our question this week is - Would you have seggs with a robot? As loneliness rises and AI becomes increasingly woven into our relationships, Florence and Reed ask a very important question: what happens when technology can give us pleasure, companionship and even something that feels a little…
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How To Make Rejection Your B*tch - Dating Rejection, ADHD Rejection Sensitivity, Boundaries & Self-Worth
Rejection fcking hurts. So how do we get better at handling it without taking it as a verdict on our worth? In this episode of Come Curious, Florence and Reed get into the messy reality of rejection across dating, relationships, friendships and work. They explore why rejection can feel so…
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Do I Like You or Was I Just Ovulating: Attraction, Hormones, Attachment Styles & Toxic Chemistry
Is it chemistry… or is it just hormones? Florence and Reed dive into the science and psychology of attraction - exploring dopamine, adrenaline, ovulation, attachment styles and why the people who make our nervous systems go wild aren't always the people who are actually good for us. We get into:...
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Everything We Know About Dating: Best vs Worst Dates - dating apps, ghosting, and catfishing
In the first episode of our new dating series, Reed and Florence dive into the realities of modern dating - from dating apps and ghosting to catfishing, first-date disasters and the best dates they've ever been on. With Reed navigating single, polyamorous life and Florence adjusting to life as a...
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Hair Fetish and Being a Bearded Woman - Body confidence, Beauty standards & Kink
What happens when you stop treating your body hair as something that needs fixing and start seeing it as part of what makes you attractive? In this episode of Come Curious, Reed chats to Bethany, producer of Come Curious and host of The Sassy Show, about being a proudly hairy woman with a beard....
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How to Make Friends and Break Friendships - Loneliness, Toxic Friendships & Friends With Benefits
Making Friends After 30? Trying to end a toxic friendship? Dealing with Adult Loneliness? This is the episode for you! In this episode of Come Curious, we get into the messy reality of adult friendship: how to make new friends, how to know when a friendship has run its course, and why ending a...
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How to Initiate Sex: communicating desire & overcoming rejection anxiety
How do you actually initiate sex with your partner? It sounds simple, but for many couples, making the first move can be surprisingly awkward, vulnerable and even scary. In this episode, we get into why sexual initiation can become so difficult and what you can actually do about it. We discuss…
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My Friend's Having a Baby - WTF?! Friendship changes, parenthood & child-free life
No one really prepares you for what happens when your best friend has a baby. Suddenly your lives look completely different. Messages take longer to reply to, spontaneous plans disappear, priorities shift, and sometimes... it can feel like you're grieving a friendship that's still alive. In this...
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What Porn Are You Watching? - Hentai, MILFs & modern porn habits
Porn is everywhere but how much is too much? What are people actually searching for? And should we be worried about our viewing habits? This week we're diving headfirst into the world of pornography. As former porn creators ourselves, we're unpacking how our relationship with porn has changed…
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0rgies vs G4ng Bangs? - Group Sex, Swinging, Fantasy & Sexual Health
What's the actual difference between an ()rgy and a g4ng bang? And why do these two forms of group sx carry such different cultural baggage? In this episode of Come Curious, we're diving into the definitions, misconceptions, fantasies and realities surrounding two of the most talked-about group…
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Non Sexy Things That Turn Us On - Acts of Service, Emotional Vulnerability & Why Confidence is So Sexy!
Turns out the sexiest things aren't always sexual. In this episode of Come Curious, we're diving into the unexpected, surprising, and sometimes downright bizarre things that make people feel attracted, connected, and turned on. From fresh bed sheets and gardening to emotional vulnerability and...
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Should I Stay If They've Cheated On Me? - Affairs, Trust Issues, Couples Therapy & Recovery
When cheating happens, everyone wants a simple answer: leave or stay. But real relationships are rarely that straightforward. In this episode of Come Curious, we unpack one of the most painful questions a person can face: should you stay with someone who has cheated on you? Drawing on listener...
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Threesomes, Male Multiple Orgasms and Throat Orgasms - Pleasure Skills Nobody Taught You
What if orgasm isn't something you're born knowing how to do but a skill you can learn? This week on Come Curious, we're joined by sex educator, author and pleasure advocate Susan Bratton for a mind-expanding conversation about the incredible range of pleasure our bodies are capable of...
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Is this cheating? Dating Apps, Exes, Emotional Affairs & Secret Texts
Is subscribing to someone's OnlyFans cheating? What about texting an ex, keeping a dating app "just to look", or fantasising about someone else during sex? In this special watershed episode, we're diving into the murky grey areas of modern relationships with a boundary-pushing cheating quiz that...
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Babies, Bodies & Banging Sex - new motherhood, polyamory & intimacy after birth
We're back! After a whirlwind few months, Florence and Reed reunite to share some huge life update and trust us, a lot has happened. Florence opens up about her traumatic birth experience, from preeclampsia and induction to the realities of labour, recovery and becoming a mum. Meanwhile, Reed...
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What makes a great Cis, Straight Dominant Man - Authority, Kink Theory and Ethical Domination
This week on Come Curious, Reed sits down with kink theorist, power exchange mentor and educator Tripp Terrier to unpack one of the most misunderstood roles in BDSM: the dominant. Together they explore why true dominance isn't about control, arrogance or entitlement but instead, it's about...
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Why Is Cumming So Hard???
Ever feel like everyone else is having mind-blowing Os while you're still trying to figure out what all the fuss is about? In this solo episode, Reed dives into one of the most common questions in seggs: why can orgasms feel so difficult to reach? From cl"toral Os and G-spots to nipple Os,...
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Single, Slutty and Sad? - Dodgy dates, fantastic f*cks & everything in between
Is being single actually lonely… or are we just taught to fear it? In this deeply honest solo episode, Reed opens up about the messy, liberating, emotional rollercoaster of single life — from dodgy dates and incredible seggs to heartbreak, healing, k'nk exploration and learning how to stop losing...
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How to Pleasure Yourself - Pickle d*ldos, size queens and The Bad Peach
M4sturbation May is officially here, and Reed is diving deep into the art of pl3asuring yourself. From shame, fantasy and corn habits to discovering what actually makes your body feel good, this solo episode is an honest, hilarious and deeply relatable guide to self-pleasure. She explores why...
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Married vs Single - Life Assumptions Busted with Feeld
Is being single really freer? Is marriage actually boring? And does your sex life have to change once you settle down? This week on Come Curious, Florence and Reed unpack the assumptions we make about relationships, sex, and happiness — and why neither married nor single life is as simple as…
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How To Be a Better Man w/ Jerry Xzeng - Vasectomies, "bro-culture' and positive masculinity online
What does it actually mean to be a “better man” today? This week on Come Curious, Florence is joined by Jerry Xzeng for a powerful conversation about masculinity, identity, and the pressures men are facing right now.From the rise of red-pill culture to the quiet crisis of male loneliness and…
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Tickle Fetishes & MY tickle fetish - Taboo, desire and radical self-acceptance
Tickling… but make it kinky? This week on Come Curious, Reed gets personal as she opens up about her own tickle fetish — what it is, how it feels, and why it’s so often misunderstood. From the difference between kinks and fetishes to the shame that can come with desires we don’t always choose…
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Male Etiquette in the Kink Scene w/ Kyron Kruger - performance anxiety, latex love & power play
What does it actually mean to be a man in the kink scene? This week on Come Curious, Reed is joined by Kryron Kruger - latex-loving, boundary-pushing content creator who’s redefining what it means to be a man in sex work. Together they unpack male etiquette in BDSM from communication and consent…
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Your Dirty Little Secrets - From Sounding & Sock F3tishes to Cum Confessions… Nothing Is Off Limits
This week on Come Curious, Florence and Reed dive headfirst into your dirtiest, most unhinged, and secretly-held confessions — and let’s just say… we were not prepared. From: Golden showers & cum curiosities CNC fantasies & breeding kinks Sock fetishes & used shoe obsessions Watching yourself…
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Dating and How To Get OFF the Apps with Breeze (cos Love is Worth the Leap!)
Swiping, ghosting, endless chatting… and still no actual dates? This week on Come Curious, Florence is joined by Marsha Goei, co-founder of dating app Breeze, where love is worth the leap! We're talking no chat, just REAL dates. Marsha tells us about why modern dating feels so exhausting — and…
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Slutty Travels and Pregnancy Prep - phobias, fruity fcks and butthole real-talk
This week on Come Curious, Florence and Reed are coming to you from opposite sides of the world — one in Thailand, one in California — juggling time zones, baby prep, and a whole lot of life. It’s a proper catch-up episode filled with everything from near-medical emergencies to unexpected…
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Neurodivergent Friends and Fcks: ADHD Sexual Impulsivity, Hands free Orgasms & Kink Rules
This week on Come Curious, Reed is joined by neurodivergent coach, breathwork practitioner and somatic therapist Hannah for a powerful, eye-opening conversation about how ADHD, autism and PMDD shape the way we experience friendship, sex, and relationships. We dive into what neurodivergence…
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Your Shameless Confessions
This week on Come Curious, we asked you to send us your most shameless confessions… and you absolutely delivered. From secret kinks and unexpected encounters to moments that made us gasp, laugh, and occasionally say “oh my god you did WHAT?”, Florence and Reed dive into the wild, weird and...
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The Fertility Conversation We Never Hear About, with Seetal Savla
This week on Come Curious, Florence is joined by fertility writer, speaker and advocate Seetal Savla for a deeply honest conversation about the side of fertility journeys we rarely hear about. At 34 weeks pregnant herself, Florence sits down with Seetal to talk through the reality of trying to...
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LIBIDO - Is Your Sex Drive "Normal"?
Is your sex drive "too high"? "Too low"? Has it disappeared completely? Or is it all over the place? This week on Come Curious, Florence and Reed tackle one of the most asked (and most anxiety-inducing) questions in sex: is my libido normal? From pregnancy libido shifts and ADHD hyperfocus highs,...
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Kinky Raves, Sex Stories and Censorship Hell with Lily Eff
What actually happens at a queer kinky rave? 👀🔥 This week, Reed is joined by Lily Eff - co-founder of Quench, one of London's hottest queer kinky raves and play party communities. Tune in for wild sex party stories (including a 21-person orgy…) and how Lily is building inclusive, intentional…
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Dildo Nightmares, with Matty from Eversense Toys
This week on Come Curious, Florence and Reed are joined by Matty Hennessy - sex toy designer, transmasc educator, and the brilliant mind behind Eversense Toys and the chaotic internet phenomenon Dildo Nightmares. We dive into Matty’s journey creating toys for bodies that are often overlooked by...
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Pregnancy Erotica
This week on Come Curious, Florence goes over some fun pregnancy sex facts, what breeding kinks are all about and gets into the updates you've been missing when it comes to being 30 weeks pregnant! AND you sent in some GREAT pregnancy sex related stories and questions! PLUS Florence shares the...
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Controversial Opinions - Red Flag Edition
This week on Come Curious XXXtra Kinky Episode, Florence and Reed unpack whether “red flags” are actually warnings… or just wildly subjective vibes that depend on who’s holding the binoculars. They get honest about bras, pleasure doms, consent in long-term relationships, “high value men”,...
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The Truth About Getting Paid for P***Y - meet Jade Blair
In this fabulous, no BS episode, Reed is joined by infamous Australian sex worker, advocate, and content creator Jade Blair to talk about the reality of getting paid for p***y without shame, shock tactics, or fantasy. Jade shares what in-person sex work actually looks like: the conversations, the...
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Men, Sex and Porn - what needs to change, with Axel Reigns
This week on Come Curious, we’re joined by award-winning porn performer and creator Axel Reigns for one of our most powerful conversations yet. Axel pulls back the curtain on the porn industry to talk about what really needs to change - from male accountability and consent culture, to calling out...
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Becoming Parents with Husband John
This week on Come Curious, Florence is joined by her husband John for their first ever deeply personal sit-down - and it gets real, fast. From pregnancy hormones and mismatched libidos to fears about being “good enough” and the magic of falling in love, they open up about what it’s really like to...
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Your 2026 F*ck-It List
This week on Come Curious, we’re easing into 2026 with our annual Fuck-It List - a gentle but powerful reset for your love life, self-worth and sex. Florence and Reed reflect on the wild, messy, magical year that was 2025. Tune in to hear them unpack what they’re ready to let go of, and ask each...
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HAPPY NEW YEAR CURIOUS FCKERS!
Happy New Year, curious fckers! 💖 We’re popping in to wave goodbye to the chaos of 2025, share our hopes for a calmer, bigger, better 2026 (including one tiny new human !). This is our mini message to remind you (and ourselves) to stress less and give ourselves a break. We’re feeling hopeful,...
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MERRY CHRISTMAS - MINI MESSAGE
Happy holidays Curious Fckers! However you're celebrating this time of year, we're sending love your way! Here's a cheeky mini-message offering some sparkly joy and a gentle reminder to give yourself what you need during this holiday period (especially if you're struggling with the fam). Looking...
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XXXmas Unwrapped
It’s a very horny XXXMas episode on Come Curious - Florence and Reed are back in full festive filth mode to share there stocking-filler recommendations (with discount codes galore) and reflect on a year of unforgettable sex. They get real about pregnancy sex bans, unexpected threadworm drama…
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Abi Feltham: Alcoholism, BPD, Crack and Brain Tumours
TW: In this episode we discuss drug use, alcohol abuse, suicide and cancer. This week Reed sits down with the brilliant, brutally honest, and heart-meltingly funny Abi Feltham - the creator and influencer who talks openly about addiction, recovery, BPD, crack binges in Thailand, brain cancer, and...
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Squirting - JOYclub’s Step-by-Step Guide
This week, Florence & Reed are diving vulva-first into squirting science with JOYclub’s brand-new step-by-step squirting course - and yes, they watched it live so you don’t have to… except you’ll definitely want to after this 😂💦 Have a sneak peak here. From “is it pee?” to “why does it feel…
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Orgasmic Births & Pleasure Hypnosis with Lucia Nicolini
This week Florence sits down with pleasure-hypnosis and orgasmic-birth practitioner Lucia Nicolini for a mind-melting journey into how hypnosis can transform pregnancy, pleasure, and even the way you give birth. From reconnecting to your body after trauma (Florence shares her own experience) to…
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About this show
Home of the world's most OPEN, HONEST & EXPLICIT conversations! You’ll be hearing all of our juicy sex stories, getting professional sex advice from therapists to dominatrix’s and spilling horny tea with your favorite public figures.
Curious f**kers… welcome to COME CURIOUS the podcast. Hosted by award winning sex & relationship content creators, sex educators & p0rn directors: Florence Bark and Reed Amber.
Please rate and review if you’ve learnt something from us! C U NEXT THURSDAY CURIOUS F**KERS
Support the podcast and help us keep independent by donating via patreon.com/comecurious
Hosted by
Florence Bark & Reed | QCODE