Coming Home to Her

Making friends as an adult is so much harder than anyone warns you about.When we're younger it just kind of happens. Same environment, same people, forced together until suddenly you have a best friend. But as an adult — especially when you've moved somewhere new — you actually have to try. And trying is awkward.In this episode I talk about why it gets so much harder as we get older, what's worked for me across every place I've lived, and the weird vulnerability of putting yourself out there when everyone already seems to have their people.Because making friends as an adult is strange and discouraging and nobody tells you that. But it's also proof that it's never too late to find your people.

I used to be so sure about certain things.That real friends never drift apart. That adults had everything figured out. That confidence meant never doubting yourself. That moving abroad would magically solve more than it actually did.In this episode I'm looking back at ten things I genuinely believed at 22 — and what happened when real life proved me wrong.Some of them are funny. Some of them I'm still unlearning. 

Okay we’ve been pretty emotionally deep lately. So today — no identity crises, no emotional unpacking.Just me talking about the random things I’m currently obsessed with, what life/routine has genuinely looked like lately, and a little Vienna life update.We’re talking coffee rituals, my unhinged skincare situation, workout classes, emotional support cafés, Caesar salads at an unreasonable frequency, Wiener Schnitzel, what I’ve been watching lately, a purchase I’ve become weirdly evangelical about, and why I cried from the airport home in -8°C.Plus a rapid fire round at the end because why not.

You know that feeling when you leave someone and you're just... exhausted. And nothing bad even happened.Some people don't drain you dramatically. They just slowly use up all the space.In this episode I talk about what heavy energy actually looks like, why the guilt of it is the hardest part, and why your exhaustion around certain people is information worth listening to.

Some days I wake up and before I've even looked at my phone I already feel bleh.Everything feels wrong. My apartment feels wrong. I feel wrong. And nothing technically happened.In this episode I talk about what actually pulls me out of a bad day — not the generic stuff, the real things that actually work for me. From getting outside no matter what, solo dates, calling the right person, and why staying home is literally the worst thing you can do.Also — turns out stress cleaning your entire apartment is actually a mood regulation technique. So that's validating.If you're having one of those days — this one's for you.

Have you ever walked away from a conversation and immediately thought… why did I just say all of that?Not because you said anything wrong. Just because you gave away more than you needed to. More than you actually wanted to.In this episode I talk about over-explaining. Why we do it, what it's really saying about our relationship with ourselves, and the thing nobody talks about: how over-explaining isn't just about saying too much. It's about giving away parts of yourself you didn't need to share.Because here's what I've realized. Keeping things to yourself isn't being closed off. It's being selective. It's knowing your own value.Not everything about you is available for public consumption. Some things are just yours.

Have you ever felt like you don’t fully belong where you are — but also don’t fully belong where you came from anymore?There’s a phase where you outgrow old environments and old versions of yourself… but haven’t fully found where you fit next.In this episode, I talk about that in between — the disconnect, the identity shifts, and how different parts of you show up depending on where you are.Maybe the goal isn’t to belong to one place.Maybe it’s about finding home within yourself.