Corey and Rosanne are Asking For A Friend

What do you do when someone you love is struggling with anxiety or depression — but they just won't get help? In episode 14 of Asking For A Friend, Corey and therapist Rosanne tackle one of the most frustrating relationship dynamics head-on: how to support a partner (or parent, sibling, or child) who isn't ready to do the work, without losing yourself in the process. From setting calm, firm boundaries to the surprising magic of simply focusing on your own growth, this episode is full of real stories and practical wisdom for anyone who's ever felt like they're carrying both people in a relationship.

In this episode of Asking for a Friend, Calm in the Chaos, Corey and Rosanne dive deep into the dangers of ignoring anxiety and depression, sharing raw personal stories about navigating divorce, suicidal depression in a partner, and the turning-point epiphanies that forced real change. They explore how doing the inner work — from therapy and medication to yoga and self-love — doesn't just heal you, it equips you to show up for the people you love most. If you've ever felt like you abandoned yourself, this episode is your reminder that it's never too late to find her again.

In episode 12 of Asking for a Friend, Corey and therapist Rosanne get real about the mental health struggles so many of us quietly carry — anxiety, depression, and the invisible wounds that never quite heal when we keep ignoring them. Rosanne breaks down the difference between anxiety and depression, why women are especially prone to silencing that inner voice, and how boundaries aren't about keeping people out — they're about protecting yourself. If you've ever said "I'm fine" when you absolutely were not, this one's for you.

In Episode 11 of Asking for a Friend, Corey and Rosanne celebrate their first 10 episodes by reflecting on what's resonated most with listeners — the universal feeling of being seen, understood, and not alone. They dive into the deeply relatable experience of women losing themselves through life's demands — marriage, motherhood, careers — and why our 50s can be the powerful turning point where we finally stop silencing that inner voice and start reclaiming who we truly are. From sassy pants and Leather Tuscadero Fitbit aliases to raw, real talk about boundaries, self-abandonment, and mental health, this episode is equal parts laugh-out-loud and deeply moving.

In Episode 10, "Is The Seven Year Itch a Real Thing?," therapist Rosanne and co-host Corey dive into the reality of the seven-year itch — exploring how marriages become "dehydrated" when children arrive, partners stop feeling seen and heard, and the relationship quietly falls to the bottom of the priority list. They discuss practical ways to protect your marriage from the start, from creating a couple's mission statement to daily emotional check-ins that go beyond surface-level conversation. The episode wraps with a candid conversation about identity, perfectionism, and the importance of women lifting each other up — reminding listeners that what someone projects on the outside rarely tells the full story of what they're carrying within.

In Episode 9 of Asking For A Friend, therapist and co-host dive deep into what it truly means to protect your marriage — from creating a couple's mission statement to the importance of daily check-ins that go beyond a surface-level "How was your day?" They explore how feeling heard and seen is at the root of most relationship struggles, and why consistently coming back to each other emotionally is the foundation of a lasting partnership. The episode wraps with a cliffhanger on physical intimacy, setting the stage for an honest conversation about how sex and closeness evolve over time — and why letting it fall off the list can turn your spouse into a roommate.

In episode 08 of Asking For A Friend, hosts Corey and Rosanne open up about one of the most searched but rarely discussed relationship topics — infidelity — exploring the emotional betrayal that often cuts deeper than the physical act. Drawing from Corey's personal experience with the end of her first marriage and Rosanne's 20+ years as a couples therapist, they unpack how affairs rarely come "out of the blue" but are instead the result of ignored red flags, eroded communication, and a slow disconnection from self. They also discuss the power of protective friendships, the four cornerstones of a relationship (two of which are trust), and recommend Esther Perel's The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity as a must-read for anyone navigating this deeply human experience.

In episode 007 of Asking for a Friend, hosts Corey and Rosanne explore why female friendships are often the last priority in our lives — and why that needs to change. They discuss how true friends serve as "anchors," reminding us who we are outside of our roles as partners, parents, and professionals, and how neglecting those connections can lead to over-reliance on our partners and growing resentment. Whether you have lifelong girlfriends or are looking to build new connections, this episode is a heartfelt reminder to stop getting quiet and start reaching out.

In this heartfelt episode, best friends Corey and Rosanne tackle the often-overlooked topic of self-care for caregivers, drawing from their personal experiences caring for aging parents. Rosanne, a therapist, challenges the idea that self-care is a luxury — arguing it's rooted in self-love and is essential, not optional, especially when navigating the "sandwich generation" squeeze of caring for both parents and kids. Corey shares how redefining self-care on her own terms — from early morning routines to lakeside walks with Rosanne helped her stay grounded and show up fully for her dad during the hardest season of her life.

In this episode, Rosanne and Corey dig into one of the most universal struggles women face — losing yourself in the roles you play and forgetting who you actually are underneath them. They explore how your identity isn't what you do (mother, caregiver, professional) but something deeper that's always been there, waiting to be reconnected with — and how listening to your inner voice, following your goosebumps, and honoring your boundaries can guide you back to her. Plus, Corey shares a deeply personal moment about grief, journaling, and how caring for her father in his final days became one of the most profound lessons in staying true to yourself even in loss.

In this episode of Asking for a Friend, Corey and Rosanne explore the powerful connection between reinvention and boundaries — and why you can't have one without the other. They dive into how the language we use shapes our reality (hint: swap "I'm so busy" for "I have a full life"), and why setting boundaries isn't selfish — it's how you protect the space for the life you're growing into. From navigating news overload to reclaiming your identity after loss, this conversation is a reminder that reinvention starts with quieting the noise so you can finally hear yourself.

In this episode of Asking for a Friend, Rosanne and Corey pick up where they left off — exploring how perfectionism shows up in new ways even after doing the hard work of self-reinvention, from divorce to stepping into the spotlight of social media and podcasting. Therapist Roseanne breaks down the "thought triangle" — the connection between our beliefs, feelings, and behaviors — and why old stories about not being "good enough" keep resurfacing until we dig out the root system, not just the weed. The conversation wraps with a powerful reminder that reinvention is an ongoing practice, not a one-time event, and sets the stage for their next episode on creating space for change through boundaries.

In episode 2 of AFAF, longtime friends Corey and Rosanne open up about the messiest chapter of Corey's life — her divorce — and how their 40-year friendship became an unexpected lifeline through it. Rosanne, a licensed therapist with 25 years of experience, shares why a broken heart is actually the perfect entry point for deep personal transformation, revealing how raw, unguarded moments are portals to your truest self. From spirit animals to sisterhood, this conversation is equal parts laughter, tears, and the kind of real talk women usually only whisper about.

In this debut episode of Asking for a Friend, lifelong best friends Corey and Rosanne — a self-described list-making social butterfly and a licensed marriage and family therapist — introduce themselves and the podcast they've been dreaming of creating for years. They share the story of their 40-year friendship, from meeting as high school freshmen to navigating life's messy seasons together, including divorce, loss, and growth. The episode sets the tone for honest, humorous, and heartfelt conversations about marriage, parenting, identity, and the stories we tell ourselves — always with a little laughter and a therapist in the room.