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Couples Coaching with Natalie Clay

by Natalie Clay

Of all the emotions you can choose to feel, love feels the very best!In this podcast, I'll share practical tools to help you develop emotional self-reliance and improve your marriage—even if your spouse isn't open to the process! We'll also spend time with real couples—to gain insights from each partner—as they work to implement these life-changing concepts in their own relationships.I love these coaching tools and have experienced more happiness in my personal and married life because of them. I look forward to sharing this journey with you!

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Episodes

  1. Engaged Couples Course

    I recently had the opportunity to join my sister, Jody Moore, on her podcast Better Than Happy to talk all about my Engaged Couples Course! If you're engaged (or know someone who is), this episode is a must-listen. We dive into what makes a strong foundation for marriage, how to establish strong...

  2. 77. Ann & Bruno

    Today hear my session with Ann and Bruno, as we talk through how to navigate marriage when someone decides to stop going to church. www.natalieclay.com Schedule a consultation: https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=14277523&appointmentType=43526672 Get coached on the podcast:...

  3. 76. Sharon & Jake

    Marriage provides such a great opportunity for personal growth. And there are no shortcuts! Today you'll hear my discussion with Sharon and Jake as they share their process of growth. Schedule a consultation: https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=14277523&appointmentType=43526672…

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  4. 75. Gabrielle & David

    Communication is the number one thing people come to me for help with. Listen in as I coach Gabrielle and David on how to improve communication in their marriage. Schedule a consultation: https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=14277523&appointmentType=43526672 Get coached on the...

  5. 74. Cassandra & Todd

    If you ever wonder why the smallest tiff can sometimes turn into a big fight, today's episode is for you.

  6. 73. Lynn & Lloyd

    It's easy to get caught up in who's right and who's wrong when we encounter a different approach to problem solving. Today you'll learn an easier, more honest approach where you can both be right and still support each other.

  7. 72. Marriage Prep

    Hello! It's been far too long! I'm excited to post the conversation I recently had with Jody Moore (Better Than Happy) on her podcast. We had a great talk about my new Marriage Prep course. Hope you tune in!

  8. 71. Butter Your Macros

    Today I'm excited to introduce you to Heidi Bollard and Natalie DuLaney of Butter Your Macros. I had the privilege of going on their podcast and I'm sharing it here with you today. These incredible women provide coaching for nutrition, weight loss and stress management. They are incredible at…

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  9. 70. Bonnie & Clyde

    In my experience, most people truly desire happiness for their spouse and find that even more fulfilling than getting everything they want. So why do we feel such an intense need to have things our way? Bonnie and Clyde provide us with a key insight to help answer that question.

  10. 69. Karen & Kai

    Shame and blame are inseperable. But understanding this—and doing the work to eliminate personal feelings of shame—can transform a marriage.

  11. 68. Nicole and David

    A shared religious faith often helps couples more closely align their values and goals. How does a couple navigate a marriage where one partner no longer believes?

  12. 67. Angelina & Brad

    It can feel intense to make important decisions that impact our marriage or family. Clarity comes when we remember to keep our personal values front and center.

  13. 66. Mandy & Scott

    What determines equal contribution in a marriage relationship? And what are the results of trying to sort this out—for the marriage and individually?

  14. 65. Christine & John

    The way our parents raised us informs the way we raise our own children. Couples often have strong, and markedly different, opinions on how it should be done. Today, I coach Christine and John on this issue.

  15. 64. Noelle and Dale

    Want to love your spouse more unconditionally but not sure how to get there? The answer may surprise you.

  16. 63. A Marriage as Unique as You

    We often cause ourselves unnecessary stress and pain trying to mold our marriage to fit unspoken standards of what constitutes a "good" marriage. What if we instead create a marriage that fits the uniqueness of the people in it?

  17. 62. Margot & Ryan

    In sometimes large, but often small and subtle ways, we set ourselves up to fail when we shame ourselves in an attempt to become who we think we should be.

  18. 61. Ann & Tommy

    "Love languages" is a term I frequently hear from my clients. Today I speak with Ann and Tommy as they learn how to navigate their differing styles and use this information to best love themselves and each other.

  19. 60. Meaghan & Jake

    Am I frugal or a spender? What value do I place on each description? Each of us has deep-seated ideas on how money should be made, saved or spent. Today I talk with Meghan and Jake about their different values regarding money.

  20. 59. Elle & Jared Rowley

    This week I sit down with Elle and Jared Rowley to talk about how they have used the principle of taking care of their own needs to thrive within the demands of a marriage, four children and a successful business. To connect with Elle and Jared, find them on Instagram: @ellerowley, @jaredrowley.

  21. 58. Shawn and Juliette

    What story do you tell yourself about your marriage? Learn how to rework that story and watch your marriage improve!

  22. 57. Resisting Emotion

    Resisting emotion is the quickest way to go from feeling bad to worse. Today I discuss when to change your thoughts and when to allow yourself time to feel bad.

  23. 56. Snap Judgments

    We think we know each other so well, but just as often judge wrongly as we do right. But right or wrong, what you believe about your spouse's character or intentions is what you'll find.

  24. 55. The Obvious Solution That Doesn't Exist

    We're great at identifying the simplest solution to disagreement. But when the solution involves molding our spouse's viewpoint, our easy answer becomes nearly impossible.

  25. 54. Sara and Jack

    When things are rocky in our relationships, we can decide that changing ourself to meet our spouse's expectations will fix things. Does it?

  26. 53. Marie and Spencer

    Jobs and kids and the general stresses of life can sometimes make us feel that we are in a business partnership instead of a marriage. Today I coach Marie and Spencer.

  27. 52. Belle and Paul

    For many of us, small day-to-day life challenges over time can bring more stress to our marriage than major events. Today I coach Belle and Paul—newlyweds who are facing the realities of joining their lives together—and offer them tools that can lessen the stresses of daily life.

  28. 51. Emotional Abuse

    I often get asked how to differentiate between unkind words and emotional abuse. In today's episode I discuss this with my Psychiatrist, Dr. Karl Martineau, to show how this topic is handled from the coaching and counseling perspectives. Dr. Martineau runs an adult ADHD clinic with his wife and...

  29. 50. Heartbreak

    Whether dating or married, the loss of a relationship can be excruciating. Today I offer some ways to navigate the darkness of heartbreak.

  30. 49. Margaret and Robinson

    Opposites do attract. But sometimes, after marriage, our differences can feel more challenging than entrancing. Today I coach Margaret and Robinson on how they can effectively navigate a key difference in their marriage.

  31. 48. Redefining Romance

    The modern view of romance includes a whole lot of entitlement. Ridding ourselves of these expectations will help us develop true romance in our marriage. Let's discuss.

  32. 47. Christian & Janae

    I am so excited to welcome you to Season 2 of the podcast! In this episode I coach Christian and Janae on differences with spending habits, conflict resolution and parenting styles.

  33. 46. Victim Mentality

    Why do we so often gravitate to the role of victim in our marriage? This week I'll discuss why this role doesn't serve anyone and what you can do to get out of it.

  34. 45. Mental Disorder

    Are you in a relationship impacted by a diagnosed mental disorder (or undiagnosed but suspected)? This week I share experiences I've had coaching people in these kinds of relationships and what I've learned from them.

  35. 44. Uncertainty

    This week I offer three tips to help you confront the fears and stresses of this uncertain time.

  36. 43. Open Coaching

    What a week we've all had. I held a free open coaching session this week—a lot of it, unsurprisingly, was about Covid-19 challenges—and thought it could to helpful to post it here for those who weren't able to attend. Much love to everyone in this difficult time!

  37. 42. Asked and Answered

    I get hundreds of emails from people asking really interesting questions. It would be impossible to get back with individual answers—as I wish I could—but here's the next best thing: a new podcast segment where I answer some of these questions using the tools I teach.

  38. 41. Marriage Skills

    What if a successful marriage is the result of a carefully developed skill set? I think that's exactly what it is.

  39. 40. Believing New Things

    Having new beliefs about your marriage is more than simply thinking positive thoughts. Today I discuss how to develop the skill of believing new things—and feeling more love in the process!

  40. 39. Improving Your Marriage Individually

    Is it possible to improve your marriage if your spouse isn't open to coaching or to change? Absolutely! The best way to create fast, lasting change in your marriage is to do so as an individual.

  41. 38. Being Resigned

    Being resigned feels better than being angry or resentful, but the damage can be just as great. Today I teach why we end up resigned and what to do about it.

  42. 37. Confidence, Take Two

    Self-confidence is so essential to wellbeing in marriage and as an individual that I revisit the topic this week. I'm joined by a very special guest.

  43. 36. Confidence

    How you feel about yourself has a huge impact on your marriage. Let's discuss.

  44. 35. Boundaries

    This week I have a special guest. Jody Moore and I discuss what a boundary actually is and how to establish one from a place of love.

  45. 34. Divorce

    This week I discuss the process I share with couples who are grappling with the decision of whether or not to divorce.

  46. 33. Zach and Darcy Spafford

    Pornography is a frequent issue confronting couples that I coach and, statistically, couples across the general population. This week I speak with Zach and Darcy Spafford, who share valuable insights they gained when tackling this issue.

  47. 32. Write a New Story

    It's a New Year—time to shed the plot lines of our marriage narratives that don't serve us and replace them with exciting new ones!

  48. 31. Truth

    Who's right? Who's wrong? This week I discuss truth in marriage.

  49. 30. Authenticity

    Our desire for a sense of control in our lives can keep us from being authentic. This week I talk about how we can simply be ourselves—and the serenity that comes with it.

  50. 29. Identity

    Who are you? We each take on an identity as an individual and as a couple. Is the identity you've taken on serving you?

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ABOUT THIS SHOW

Of all the emotions you can choose to feel, love feels the very best!In this podcast, I'll share practical tools to help you develop emotional self-reliance and improve your marriage—even if your spouse isn't open to the process! We'll also spend time with real couples—to gain insights from each partner—as they work to implement these life-changing concepts in their own relationships.I love these coaching tools and have experienced more happiness in my personal and married life because of them. I look forward to sharing this journey with you!

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Natalie Clay

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Of all the emotions you can choose to feel, love feels the very best!In this podcast, I'll share practical tools to help you develop emotional self-reliance and improve your marriage—even if your spouse isn't open to the process! We'll also spend time with real couples—to gain insights from each...

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