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CPA- Chanda Pays Attention
by Chanda
CPA is relational podcast that promotes intelligent dialog, open communication and intentional relationships.
Episodes
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Center Stage – The Pros and Cons of Male‑Centered Culture
What happens when male-centered values shape our culture, relationships, and even our faith? In this episode, we explore the myth of Achilles and Patroclus, the dangers of male-centered friendships, and how androcentrism affects both men and women today. Drawing from Greek mythology, feminist...
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The Silent Struggle — Unpacking the Male Loneliness Epidemic
Male loneliness is a specific form of emotional and social isolation that disproportionately affects men. It’s shaped by cultural expectations, rigid gender norms, and structural barriers to connection. And it’s not just about solitude—it’s about feeling unheard, unacknowledged, and emotionally…
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Don’t Look Away—The Cost of Numbness in a Traumatized World
Today’s episode is not easy. It’s about the images we scroll past, the headlines we mute, the suffering we’ve normalized. From Gaza to Congo to ICE detention centers, we’ve been shown visually terrible things—and instead of being moved, we’ve become numb. We’ve seen so much suffering that we’ve...
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The Art of Confrontation, Facing Challenges with Courage
Whether it's about calling out a friend who hurt you, addressing a workplace issue, or simply setting boundaries, confrontation is a skill that you must have and it's not a challenge. It's not something that you should run away from. It's a skill that you can learn and it's a skill that you…
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How to make Friends Part 2
You asked and I delivered. A long time has passed since but I assume you probably only just finished the 6v3 method . Here are a few more tips to help make some solid friends.
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Beauty is Skin Deep
In this conversation, Chanda delves into the multifaceted nature of beauty and luxury, exploring its historical roots, societal implications, and the modern economic landscape. The discussion highlights how beauty standards have evolved over time, the privilege associated with them, and the need...
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Can People Change?
This is a hard argument to make as I do try to advocate to the betterment of the world. But if you bear with me I just want to place the argument that without divine intervention or societal intervention people don’t change. Theres this inherent nature we all have, that to some capacity we have…
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Beauty and the Beast- Real Love
Tale as old as time, beaty and the beast or shall we say Belle et la Bête. Beauty and the beast is a fascinating story that tackles, sabotage, arranged marriage, jealousy revenge and the idolization, oh you don’t remember any of this from the Disney version, of course you don’t I'm talking about...
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An Ubantu Thanksgiving
Next time you sit down to a Thanksgiving feast, remember the incredible story of the Pilgrims and the Wampanoag. It's a tale of survival, cooperation, and the spirit of gratitude that continues to inspire us today. Remember Sara Hale who fought for this to be a holiday so we can stop life for a...
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Finding Peace in a Frantic World: A Beginner's Guide to Stoicism
Do you ever feel overwhelmed by the constant news cycle, the pressure to achieve, or the general anxieties of daily life? If so, you're not alone. In today's fast-paced world, it's easy to lose sight of what truly matters and get swept away by negativity. That's where Stoicism comes in. This...
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Take a Walk: Touch of Stoicism
Marcus Aurelius and Seneca both encourage us to slow down and just take a walk. Lets try it!!
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Love and Access
what you allow into your community matters..lets start the conversation
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Pacifist: Action not Inaction
This is my take of pacifism and the war in Gaza.
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A moment of Gratitute: Thank you Mr Ouh
This moment I talk about a very true and very real experience about a suicide attempt. Please there is a warning of that and please ta
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Making Friends pt 1
This is my first attempt at actual life advice 😅. Please listen with grace I do love yall
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Secure Attachement
Last in the 4 part series!!!! Please like share and subscribe!!
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Disorganized Attachment(Its not you)
I know I know you think this is soooooo you. Its not haha. Take a listen and find out why
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Attachment Styles: Avoidant
You know Harry Potter is Avoidant? Me too so tune in to the girl who lived and lets learn something!!
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Attachment Styles: Anxious
What is it? Do you have it? How can we manage it?
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5 Love Languages: Building Emotional Intelligence
What are they? How are they communicated? Why are they important?
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Chili and Chanda Chats: Keke Palmer
Our first video chat!!! We will give our takes on women's clothing, the Keke Palmer Debate and just give our little fun opinions.
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Ubuntu: Self Awareness pt 2
Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde centers upon a conception of humanity as dual in nature,we confront the theory of a dual human nature explicitly only after having witnessed all of the events of the novel, including Hyde’s crimes and his ultimate eclipsing of Jekyll. This episode will discuss our need to...
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Ubuntu: Self Awareness pt1
In order to understand ourselves we need to put in a lot of hard work. A good way is to find out what other people see when they see us. Perception needs to be multifaceted .
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Sigma Males pt 2
Okay you wanted more chili and here he is welcome back to part 2 on sigma males!
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Sigma Males pt 1- Guest Chilli Chanda
Sigma Males, Cancel Culture and Men are so weird. Join me and my newest consult Chilli Chanda as a real man he’s here to give me insight and just have good banter. He’s British so forgive his accent. Follow me on Instagram!!
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Frozen: Love Bombing (remastered)
As all things should go in sequence I thought I would talk about love bombing. I hinted at it in the last episode but I decided to go into it. You see the toxic side of it really well in Frozen and we end up with an exciting conversation. Love bombing is an emotional manipulation technique. It's...
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Take Down of Andrew Tate
So Andrew Tate got taken down by Greta Thumberg twice in one week and y'all thought I was just gonna stay quiet. Nope!! More importantly guys we really need to stop and start thinking about who we are following we are starting to look very blind.
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Bread crumbing: A Hansel and Gretel Tale
“Breadcrumbing” literally refers to leaving bread crumbs so that someone can follow the trail. Are you being led on a trail that leads nowhere? How to spot the signs and how to protect yourself!
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A Moment of Gratitude: Baader-Meinhof
This week took me to a kind of low place but with friends and help from people around me I felt lifted up. I would also like to explore a fun new phenomenon.
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Narcissus,the Vegan and Me
Radical self focus forbids us from being one with the community. Denying ourselves communal input as well as our own ability to pour out. Walk with me on this journey and get some juicy tea too!!
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Icarus, Kanye and Power
The tale of Icarus is one repeated often as a warning against hubris but what if there's a lot more to the story?....Here in lies my poddy
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Auditing a PC world
In a world begging to be more tolerant we have gone to far extremes to make sure no one is offended. But we will offend people, constantly so why soften words or hold back distinct meanings. We will be touching on the Euphemism treadmill and the evolution of language.
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A Moment of Gratitude: COVID-19; A Reckoning
I got Covid and came to a life reckoning. This episode may be a little scattered but it is so important to me, I may not be spitting hot facts but I am telling my life's truths so take that as you will. More resources for COVID-19 below www.cdc.gov/coronavirus/2019-ncov/more/index.html...
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Uncle Ruckus -The Secret "Pick me Girl"?
It's always dangerous to the collective group when you are ready to pursue individual gains at the expense of the collective. The "pick-me" person seeks acceptance from another group and often their individual actions are used to demonize the collective. I am taking on the challenge of discussing...
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Castor Semenya: The world needs to say Sorry
This is a grinds my gears episode, for the treatment of Castor Semenya. There are so many harmful stereotypes perpetrated against Black women and Black sexuality. I face them all the time I live in constant fear of voicing rage for example as I know that there's rage stereotypes. Often black…
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BETA: Reality over Perception
The primary role of dominance hierarchies, is the formation of order and stability within those groups. So where does the Beta male stand? There is a perception over the actual definition I would like to explore that and see what's going on there.
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Moment of gratitude..
Just wanted to share a life experience. Nothing profound. Just kindness.
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To be Alpha Male...
What does it mean to be an Alpha Male? Are you a healthy Alpha? Am I an Alpha? Journey on with me as we try and solve this puzzle.
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Cinderella the Feminist
I am making the argument that Cinderella is actually a feminist tale. This episode is me explaining my journey to understanding feminism. https://www.humanrightscareers.com/issues/types-of-feminism-the-four-waves/...
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"Incels" and taking the Black Pill
Second Deep dive into the dark parts of the dating world and how people can be so misguided. Hopefully thing gains you some good conversations or at least an awareness to what others are going through
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Red Pill and a Dash of Blue
Dating Series: What is the red pill movement? why is it good? Why is it bad? What can be done
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History , Waist Beads and You!!
Often the why behind our mannerisms is lost on us as a modern culture. We take things that seem cute and apply them to our lifestyles without a moments thought to their origin. I was recently wound up about the idea of people doing things I have always known to have strong meaning haphazardly....
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Plato, Sheep and Essential Oils?
According to wikipedia lol. Knowledge sharing is an activity through which knowledge is exchanged among people, friends, peers, families, communities, or within or between organizations. Knowledge sharing is so important. I want to dive into it and see what we can learn over the next few weeks.
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I cant, but you can: Vote
I have touched on this idea before that the more selfish you are the more you actually act in the interest of other. We talked about this in the episode Kindness is not natural. I believe acting in your self interest is participating in the voting process. Here's my pitch hope you love it!!
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Art or not: The battle for the fridge!!
After every Kanye album comes out we wonder what is art lol. I think many things are art and what isn't. I have a lot of artsy friends but this does not make them artists. I think this was a fun one but probably a silly question to ask because the grey area is sooo big. Hope you enjoy let me know...
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#BLM and why it makes sense that they do
BLM is now a popular movement. But though it makes perfect sense to me it may not to others. So I want to make a case for the cause and break down why saying all lives matter doesn't make sense
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#BeThe1To : Suicide Awareness Month Special
#BeThe1To is the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline’s message for National Suicide Prevention Month and beyond, which helps spread the word about actions we can all take to prevent suicide. The Lifeline network and its partners are working to change the conversation from suicide to suicide...
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Kindness and Internal Control
I decided to continue my kindness motif. I asked what is kindness and use more of a scientific basis . I consider circumstances as a reason for the genetic or innate idea of human kindness. Deeper I shall Dive. So to google I go and there Kindness is defined as the quality of being friendly,...
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Kindness is not Natural
Are we becoming increasingly cruel because the very meaning of kindness is lost on us? Why on earth should we be kind? Where does the whole concept come from? this is the question that haunts me today.
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Abortion - Cui Bono?
My Journey on Finding out more about this topic that i have run away from and not had a firm opinion on. So I played devil's advocate and I think I'll have to revisit this one but I wanted the conversation out there. https://www.self.com/story/14-abortion-facts...
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CPA is relational podcast that promotes intelligent dialog, open communication and intentional relationships.
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Chanda
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