crashed out lydia

#dating #singleaf

Sometimes a break is needed, not from dick tho.

some tips cuz yall rly need it. how are you bad at dating or being a guy in general…..

come to terms that you’re not a priority because nobody is that busy especially when it comes to dating.

just some thoughts 😂

Kissing a stranger in NYC.

I mean they’re decisive and I need that in my life. Am I in my silverfox era?

Seven years later, one swipe, and all the sparks are still there. I finally get in his pants, and the vibes? Unmatched. Join me as I spill the tea on timing, desire, and giving into what you’ve wanted all along.

Lydia cracks open her Spreadsheet of Men — yes, an actual spreadsheet — to talk hookups, first impressions, and who made the cut for a second round. Shallow? Maybe. Entertaining? Absolutely.

for real, what’s ghosting……

it’s definitely not worth it lol

lmao

I mean i’m fine with you moving in the next day 🤷‍♂️

yes i’m insane but cute!

An ex is never worth it unless 👀

From being sore to working 25/7, def worth it.

single dads can get it, the unexpected ways fatherhood turns me on, and why emotional availability might just be the new foreplay LOLLLLLLL.

people realize that dating doesn’t have to be sexual right?

reading is fundamental

dating should be fun!

a pet peeve of mine. be patient when communicating especially over text.

Is it dating? Is it just a hookup? Or is it something in between? as long as she cums first, it doesn’t matter.

You don’t need the perfect space or the perfect plan. You just need to be open. People remember how they felt not that cum stain on your sheets..

Nothing makes me softer than being adored without being objectified.

Finally met after months of multiple matches and short DMs, he was a whole ass adult and better in person soft eyes, calm energy, and a kiss that made me forget I was ever nervous. Real. Real good. This one's for the soft, surprising sparks that don’t need a future to feel complete. The vibes were right.

(: a little sneak peek