Create Your Now Podcast

It’s all too easy to get stuck staring at the shadow of your past mistakes and setbacks. Failures have a way of lingering—they’re familiar, loud, and convincing. But if you want the kind of life that feels right in your bones, the life that’s waiting for you beyond what’s comfortable and familiar, then it’s time […]

What if you shifted your mindset and looked at your life through the lens of what you have to offer — your unique gifts and talents — instead of fixating on the failures you’ve accumulated? That sounds a little backward, doesn’t it? But you must know that you are designed to succeed. Yes, designed. You […]

Life has a way of making you feel boxed in, attacked from all angles, and never quite good enough. The voice whispers that you should be doing more, that the hurdles are too high, and that maybe—just maybe—this is too much for you to handle. If you’re honest, there are days when you want to […]

Marriage is the ultimate Stanley Cup—a hard-fought victory that only comes to those willing to play the toughest game of their lives. It’s not just about feeling in love; it’s about showing up day after day, battling through unexpected setbacks, and trusting your teammate when the pressure’s crushing. Like a hockey team on the ice […]

As parents, we gather countless observations about our children over time. We watch them grow, stumble, laugh, and learn. We see patterns in their behavior and glimpses of who they truly are beneath the surface. When you’re deep in the trenches of raising a child, you get to know them inside and out. And sometimes, […]

In a world flooded with imitation, where everyone seems eager to copy the latest trend, personality, or success formula, standing firmly in your own skin is a radical act. Too often, the temptation to be someone else—or even just a version of someone else—whispers that life will be easier, better, or more exciting if we […]

Digging deep into who you truly are—and who you’re meant to be—isn’t a simple journey. It’s uncomfortable, often messy, and demands a level of honesty most of us aren’t trained to give ourselves. Let the truth be told. Why bother? Because if you want to be stretched and shaped God’s way, surface-level honesty won’t cut […]

How many times have you scrolled through your inbox only to be hit with another email screaming “Last Chance!”? Another flash sale, another expiring offer, another time-sensitive invitation to act now before it’s gone. It’s a tactic as old as marketing itself—create urgency, push for commitment, seal the deal. Yet if you really want something […]

Life has a sneaky way of throwing curveballs. Sometimes, it feels like our dreams and our lives are at odds, each stealing time and energy from the other. You wake up one day, tired and discouraged because what you aimed for yesterday didn’t come through today—or maybe not last week, last month, or even last […]

Sometimes, the loudest battles we fight are the ones no one else can see—but God. These battles rage in the quiet corners of our hearts and minds, behind the smiles we wear and the strength we show. These are the struggles we try to control, the fears we wrestle with, the outcomes we demand. And […]

Most people hear the word “confession” and instantly think of shame, guilt, or secrets left buried. And when it comes to marriage, it’s easy to assume confessions only mean admitting mistakes or airing dirty laundry. But what if confession wasn’t just about revealing the bad or the hidden? What if confession was the key to […]

As parents, there’s an unspoken pressure to be seen as the best—whether it’s the parent with the most achievements, the most thoughtful gestures, or the most engaged family life. But at what cost does this spotlight come? Stop waiting for the applause. The truth is this: your main responsibility as a parent isn’t to rack […]

You know what’s tougher than changing your circumstances? Changing your perspective. But sometimes, that’s exactly what you need. Because while you can’t always control what happens, you always control how you choose to see it; declare your worth. Think about the voice inside your head—the one that runs the nonstop commentary about you, your life, […]

When the struggles and troubles jump out on the page more than the small acts of kindness and compassion, your emotions can become entangled with what has happened, instead of what this makes possible. Life will not be easy, but you can find refreshment in the CRAP (challenges, rejections, adversities, and problems) of life; it’s […]

When the road ahead is rough, dotted with obstacles and unknown twists, rather than smooth paths lined with roses and rainbows, it can be tempting to settle for the easier option. But choosing what’s convenient today often just fast-tracks the stalling of the real progress you want tomorrow. Aim beyond the easy win. Life’s best […]

It’s a story as old as ambition itself. Everyone wants to get ahead, accomplish big things, and build the life they crave. Yet, the truth is simple, profound, and often the most challenging: What makes the biggest difference is the quiet work that creates loud success. It’s the progress that happens in the quiet spaces […]

In a world obsessed with control, hustle, and having all the answers, it’s easy to feel drained, inadequate, or endlessly chasing something just out of reach. Everywhere you turn, the message screams: “You must figure it out. You have to have a plan. You need to produce or you’ll be left behind.” But if you’re […]

Marriage is no walk in the park or a gentle stroll. It can become a constant grind that can wear you down until you’re barely holding on. Maybe you’ve experienced moments when you look at your spouse and wonder: How do I keep showing up for them when I feel completely tapped out? When life’s […]

Summer breaks the school-year routine, tossing schedules and expectations out the window. But if your family is used to clocks, calendars, and carefully mapped days, the shift to a “no-schedule schedule” can feel like chaos. How do you keep your kids grounded and growing when structure seems to vanish? The answer: adaptability. Desire to be […]

Who would have thought that a single word could stop you dead in your tracks and force you to rethink your next move? Simplicity. It’s deceptively powerful—quiet, yet capable of cutting through the noise and chaos that clutter your mind and your day. What you choose to focus on sets the tone for everything that […]

We live in a world that glorifies doing—doing more, faster, better. Yet, when the day ends and the lights dim, many of us lie awake, restless, replaying the endless to-do lists that never seem to shrink. Busyness has a strange way of filling hours while emptying our hearts. The good news? You don’t need to […]

We all know that moment when a decision looms, and your mind starts racing with pros, cons, doubts, and second-guessing. Maybe you want permission or confirmation from the outside world. You seek signs, advice, or validation to justify what, deep down, you already know you should do. If this sounds familiar, then stop fumbling and […]

We live in a culture that often sells the idea of easy success—work smart, check the boxes, and life will flow effortlessly. But let’s be real: that’s not how it works. Life is hard. It’s supposed to be hard. If it weren’t, everyone would be living your exact life. Think about the people you admire. […]

Psalm 89:15 declares, “Blessed are those who have learned to acclaim you, who walk in the light of your presence, Lord.” At first glance, it sounds like a simple promise: those who praise God and live in His presence are blessed. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the […]

Marriage isn’t about sweeping the tough stuff under the rug or launching into battle every time conflict hits. It hinges on something far tougher and far rarer—reflection. Avoidance and aggression are easy traps, but neither leads to growth or connection. Let’s be real. Life is messy. Hard days come; hard moments happen. The question isn’t […]

Parenthood is relentless. Between work, errands, and the endless to-do list, it often feels easier to let certain behaviors slide. You’re tired. You’re overwhelmed. You tell yourself, “I’ll deal with this later,” or “It’s not worth the fight right now.” But here’s the truth no one speaks about: what you tolerate thrives. If you let […]

Life isn’t supposed to be a maze filled with endless dead ends and detours manufactured by our own doubts. Yet somehow, we complicate it—drowning ourselves in what drains us, throwing our dreams out with the bathwater. Why? To prove a point? To someone else? Or worse, to ourselves? That’s nonsense. It’s time to stop selling […]

How many of your days slip by, weighed down by the burden of trying to do it all alone? You try to do more, be more, fix more. You push your own limits until your energy is spent carrying everyone else’s load. But life isn’t meant for you to be the hero in every story, […]

Caught in the middle of stress, most of us default to managing what’s wrong—what’s lacking. Deadlines pile up, relationships strain, plans wobble, and suddenly, something breaks. Instinctively, we react. We snap, we judge, we retreat, or we lash out. Reacting feels fast, even necessary; it’s the path of least resistance when pressure mounts. But the […]

The world has a relentless way of convincing us there’s never enough—never enough success, status, money, or recognition. The narrative is clear: climb to the top at all costs, outpace everyone else, even if it means sacrificing who you are. Cut corners. Hustle harder. Get there faster. The power of enough doesn’t come from your […]

Faith isn’t a fuzzy feeling or wishful thinking. Faith is a bold conviction rooted deep in what we hope for, anchored firmly in what we cannot yet see. But how can big faith, big heart exist without big hope? Without hope, faith crumbles into empty optimism at best or cynical skepticism at worst. Desire to […]

When tensions escalate, and all you feel is defensive, it’s easy to point fingers rather than look in the mirror. Marriage takes intentional decisions with love at the root of all actions. But what if the problem isn’t your spouse? Maybe what’s missing or what’s blocking your marriage from thriving is something inside of you. […]

Raising incredible children means more than just meeting today’s needs—it’s about paving a path and opening doors for what comes next. When you consistently blend unconditional love sprinkled with discipline and resilience, you’re not just shaping behavior; you’re cultivating purpose. Think about it: You’re opening doors for your child to step confidently into every season […]

Rarely does life follow the script we write in our heads. Plans derail, obstacles pop up, and sometimes it feels like someone or something is playing a twisted joke just to test how much you can take. But here’s the thing: you’re letting the challenges tell a story that isn’t true. Impossible is just a […]

Take a deep breath. Inhale the new, exhale the old. Don’t let what you think you can’t do get in the way of what you can do to create your now. Train like you mean it. Most people quit before they even start. The voice in your head whispers limits, fears, and doubts. “You’re not […]

We live in a world that often feels like it’s spinning too fast, demanding more than we can give, pulling our attention in every direction but inward. It’s easy to get stuck reacting to the noise around us, to the pressures and expectations flying at us like relentless waves. But what if the real anchor […]

Life’s noise and distractions are relentless. When you pause, even for a moment, you might notice that your mind is cluttered, not with what truly matters, but with trivial nagging thoughts and surface-level worries. Those persistent little things hammering at your head and heart don’t deserve the space. What you really need is to dig […]

When you reflect on your life, where does your family fit in the grand story? Is God at the center of your family’s narrative by genuine choice, or is His presence more a matter of convenience? The story of your family is not a ledger of right or wrong actions, successes or mistakes. Instead, it’s […]

Marriage is often painted as the ultimate partnership — two people becoming one, sharing everything, and fully supporting each other. The truth is, too many spouses lose sight of themselves along the way. We start doing everything our partner wants: changing how we dress, altering how we act in public, shelving our own dreams for […]

Mom guilt is a beast nobody warns you about until you’ve been swallowed whole by it. With Mother’s Day just ahead, it’s the perfect time to honor the tough, tireless job moms do raising the next generation. But let’s be real and honest: more often than not, it stings more than we admit because the […]

Life rarely flows in a straight line. Sometimes you find yourself pulled in a dozen different directions, tangled in disappointments and setbacks, or simply unsure which step to take next. When that happens, the instinct to quit can be loud and tempting. But instead of throwing in the towel, it’s time to build a bridge. […]

I don’t know what this season has been like for you, but sometimes life just feels heavy. You’re doing your best to keep going, but eventually you look up and think…”What now? What next? I can’t handle one more thing.” How are you getting through the day when no one knows? The apostle Paul knew […]

Why do we wage war inside ourselves, convincing our hearts that we are our failures, that we are not enough? STOP IT!! You are created for more. Every season of your life holds a purpose that only you can fulfill. So don’t shrink back! Life will never look the way you imagine it should. Desire […]

It’s human nature to look around and see what everyone else is doing—who’s winning, who’s falling behind. Social media makes it even harder; we see highlight reels of success, hustle, and overnight wins. But your dreams and goals are not finished by someone else’s actions or accomplishments. They’re only fulfilled by your moves, your focus, and […]

What do you do when everything feels heavy, and you seem to be lost? Maybe for you, it’s that feeling of the disappointments stacking up, the dreams that seem to slip through your fingers, the isolation pressing in like a weight you can’t shake. If you’re like me in this season, it’s easy to wonder […]

There’s a raw, undeniable magic in the early days of love. When two people are madly in love, everything seems bright, shiny, and flawless—or at least, as close to flawless as humanly possible. Each partner carries a pair of rose-colored glasses that mask faults, differences, and even potential deal-breakers. The world is new, and so […]

Why let life get so unruly, especially when it comes to your family? Busyness does not need to be a convenient excuse to soften the blow of your absence when you tell your kids that you cannot be there for them. Don’t be that kind of parent. Hang on with your presence just in case […]

Lately, have you been able to get everything you wanted done? Most of us start out with solid plans, clear goals, and a to-do list that feels doable. Then life happens—the phone rings, emails flood in, emergencies pop up—and suddenly you’re forced to pivot mid-stream. What you wanted to finish today now sits on the […]

Have you ever stopped to consider how far your energy and impact actually stretch throughout your life? Most of us live fragmented days—snatching moments here and there, giving bits of ourselves without a clear sense of the whole. Yet, the result is that we end up drained, stretched too thin, and ineffective where it matters […]

Why does life have to be SO hard? That question echoes in the minds of many—sometimes whispered in quiet moments, sometimes shouted in frustration. The weight of struggle can feel endless, like a storm that never passes. And yes, you can live with that feeling for as long as you want. But if you’re okay […]