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DADDY AF

by DADDY

Explore with Daddy, a veteran of kink, open relationships, non-monogamy, swinging and power exchange lifestyles since 2002. Reflections on polyamory, alternative relationships, BDSM, power exchange and kink with an emphasis on perspective through a soft DDlg / CGl dynamic. Listen in as Daddy takes you down the bunny hole of living a non-normative life. Sharing perspectives, viewpoints, opinions and stories about what worked, what didn’t and how he navigates it all to create a fulfilling, ethical, honest and meaningful journey.

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Episodes

  1. SEP24 RELATIONSHIP SHAMPOO

    In this episode "Daddy" explores a comical notion around relationships. In past episodes you’ve heard me dance and weave around the notion of normative relationships. You know…ones that climb the relationship ladder. Meet, become exclusive, move in, get engaged, etc… Relationships that look like...

  2. Sep23 When Dynamic Matures

    What do you do when your dynamic has become “every day”. The pull of the normative is strong. For those of us who have lived in non-normative relationships for years, and have spent years developing our relationship(s) it can be easy for our brains to fall into a normative mindset. AKA…the new...

  3. S3E3 FINDING YOUR CHEWY CENTER

    It's happened. We've all had moments where we "just don't feel like it" whether we grin and bear it or admit it and suffer the judgement. But there is a MUCH better way that can lead you down a wonderful path of discovery. Join Daddy as we shed some light on how losing touch with our dynamic, a...

  4. S3E2 The Right and Wrong Way to Evolve Dynamic

    A lot of our struggle in relationships, and especially non-normative dynamics, has to do with the key aspects at play in how we perceive and govern our relationships and dynamics. Take a stroll down the bunny hole with Daddy as we talk about the Right and Wrong way to Evolve our relationships.

  5. S3E1 When Dynamics Overrun Relationships

    Some perspective into both the human capacity for desire and the human limitations of processing and managing our emotions around the interplay of relationship dynamics and the relationships themselves. Join me as I hop down the bunny hole of how sometimes our relationship dynamics can take up…

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  6. S2E22 Coming Out and Living Open

    Daddy tackles a listener's question about coming out and where to begin. With plenty of experience in tackling that exact aspect of living and loving non normatively, Daddy shares his perspective and experience on what it is to live open and what it takes to get there. The pitfalls, challenges…

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  7. S2E21 TRUST

    A listener left Daddy a message regarding a DDlg relationship that recently ended. He had questions around the notion of rebuilding eroded trust and what to do if there is a failure to communicate. What to do when there are issues with trust? Well...as you can imagine Daddy has a lot of thoughts...

  8. S2E20 RELATIONSHIP TRUTHS

    Daddy shares some truths he has learned from his relationships over the past 29 years. Marriages, play partners, poly partners, power exchange, swinging and dating. Daddy hasn't seen it all by any stretch...but he certainly has seen enough to reveal some very real truths. At least truths for his...

  9. S2E19 Advice For Young Listeners

    Taking the cue from listener emails Daddy shares his advice on young listeners in the DDlg, Kink and non-normative space. You can add your voice to the conversations that expand non-normative ways of life into the mainstream by emailing Daddy at [email protected]

  10. S2E18 You Don't Know What Love Is!

    Daddy explores the concept of love. How we are pre-programmed to interpret our neurological responses to love through examples we've learned from for decades before we have our first experiences of love... And how that can flavor our experiences of love. The complex relationship between our sense...

  11. S2E17 Pigeonholing Your Role in Relationships

    Have you ever been frustrated or at odds with how you THINK relationships should be going VS how they have actually played out? Have you expected things of your relationships only to be surprised that they go a completely different direction? Have you ever felt limited in your relationships but...

  12. S2E16 POLY / KINK NEEDS WHEN PARTNER IS VANILLA

    What do you do when you find yourself in a long-term relationship and/or marriage when you discover (or re-discover) your kink identity? You talk about it with your partner, Daddy hopes! But what happens when your partner wants nothing to do with the kink lifestyle and cannot identify with that...

  13. S2E15 DDlg Fiction VS Reality with Honey Meyer

    Daddy has a no holds barred conversation with adult, erotic DDlg romance author Honey Meyer. Listen as Daddy and Honey stack up DDlg fantasy fiction VS reality, breaking down the components of what makes good fiction and what makes a good DDlg relationship. How readers of fiction take respite…

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  14. S2E14 Behind Submissive Eyes

    This special episode comes from three, separate conversations I had in one day a listener, a DDlg erotic adult fiction author and my special little girl. All three of them echoed sentiments that represents, what I feel, is a very significant and introspective look into the mind of a submissive...

  15. S2E13 BEING A GOOD GIRL FOR YOUR DADDY

    What happens when you discover your little side and are just bursting to explore in ways that delight your Daddy? But...what happens if you're also very inexperienced in relationships in general, much less Ds and power exchange? Daddy and babygirl team up to deliver a heartfelt answer to the...

  16. S2E12 When Your Partner Is New To DDlg

    Can your new partner's caregiver inclinations be enough to support a full blown DDlg / CGl power exchange relationship? Join Daddy on a conversation of discovery, observations and advice. We will deconstruct how to recognize the potential and opportunities for exploring dynamic when a partner is...

  17. S2E11 GUILT, SHAME AND NURTURING YOUR LITTLE GIRL SELF

    Daddy responds to emails from littles that live across the world from one another but are struggling with a common experience...finding ways to peacefully accept who they and developing a sense of self inside their dynamic. We hear about struggles with shame and guilt as well as opportunities…

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  18. S2E10 Pet Play and Age Play

    Daddy answers a listener's email about his experience with Pet Play, Age Play and Regression. The differences between Pet Play and identifying as a particular persona, as well as thoughts on Age Play and Age Regression. Let's dive in together and open our minds to some other avenues often…

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  19. S239 IS IT WEIRD TO CALL THEM DADDY IN PUBLIC

    Daddy tackles a listener question common to us all. What happens when our dynamic grows so strong it starts to show in public because, well...it just feels natural? What are the implications of interacting through our dynamics in a public setting? Despite the simple answer of, "do what feels…

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  20. S2E8 PART2 - NAVIGATING FETLIFE

    Daddy and babygirl return to discuss how they used Fetlife to connect with community and what they learned along the way. From finding events to vetting potential play partners. Let Daddy and his little share the tips and tricks, and stories, from their successes and mishaps. It's not a perfect...

  21. S2E7 FETLIFE PART 1 feat. babygirl

    Daddy is joined by his cherished babygirl to talk about their journey and experiences of the world of kink through the popular online community of Fetlife. Discussing what Fetlife is, means of communication, the ins and outs of profiles as well as nuances of messaging. In Part 2 they dive deeper...

  22. S2E6 DYSPHORIA AS A DADDY

    Daddy steps out of his wheelhouse and takes on a listener message about bottom dysphoria. Taking a journey through masculine sexuality and it's role across gender identities. Bringing all the colors of the rainbow together at the pot of gold perspective that being a Daddy transcends social norms,...

  23. S2E5 - AFTERCARE

    Daddy explores aspect of Aftercare in a BDSM and Ds context. What is it? What does it look like? Are you doing it right? Aftercare is a term often coined in the BDSM community, particularly around the areas of play. But how does it actually plug in to a dynamic and how can you make it work magic...

  24. S2E4 PART 2 - BEING A DADDY

    Continue exploring as Daddy shares even more of the critical components to creating and maintaining a thriving DDlg dynamic. Just what does it take to make your DDlg sing? Daddy covers what he feels are some of the best practices when it comes to making the most of what you have with your little...

  25. S2E3 PART 1 - BEING A DADDY

    Join Daddy as he shares some of the critical components to creating and maintaining a thriving DDlg dynamic. Just what does it take to make your DDlg sing? Daddy covers what he feels are some of the best practices when it comes to making the most of what you have with your babygirl. If you have…

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  26. S2E2 Developing as a Daddy

    Wondering how you get from being curious about DDlg to actually identifying as a Daddy? Daddy had a strong identification with being a Daddy very early in his relationship but had yet to truly experience what being a Daddy meant to him. Join Daddy on a journey of discovery through what it was…

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  27. S2E1 Deconstruction (Scenes & Relationships)

    Daddy talks about the benefits of deconstructing the thoughts, feeling and emotions that surround the shared experiences we have in our relationships. How valuable an asset that deconstruction can be as well as exploring the many aspects of how, when, where and why we do this thing...

  28. S1E8 - Why Do We Dynamic?

    Let’s take a journey through BDSM dynamic. From kink activities like rope, impact, and pain to power exchange between Masters, slaves, Dominants, submissives, Daddys, littles and everything in between…with a focus on kink and power exchange, and an introspective eye, let’s dare ask the question...

  29. S1E7 - (Re)Discovering Romance / Never is six months Away

    Hear from Daddy and babygirl in babygirl’s debut appearance on Daddy AF. Together we explore how relationship landscapes can alter dramatically from how we perceive the way we are in relationships to opening up new worlds and ways of being never imagined. Listen about how the life-affirming...

  30. S1E6: Evolution in poly Relationships / Desire to Please

    Regular communication and sharing can help you get the most out of your relationships even as they evolve when we're not looking! Discover how I went from a complete freak out about the emotional shift I was experiencing, to realizing just how deep the dynamic with babygirl had evolved. As an…

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  31. S1E5 - Demystifying Jealousy

    After a 10 year crusade slamming my head against the wall of jealousy and having it hit back harder, I finally deconstructed what jealousy was to me. My gut tells me that what I found jealousy to be for me is something that most people would, in one way or another, identify with. Hear the…

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  32. S1E4: Vanilla VS Kink Dating

    Have you noticed the stark difference between dating in the kink vs vanilla lifestyles? Have you ever been afraid to disclose your kinky side to a partner or potential partner? Are you trying to date mainstream but fear listing your interest in kink or BDsM dynamics will limit your responses?...

  33. S1E3: Relationship Labels & Voices in Submission

    Whether you’re monogamous, open, poly, non-monogamous or spectacularly ambiamorous you can’t escape the labels we’re all taught to use when defining relationships. Also, voices in submission. Am I a bad submissive if I don’t just shut up and take what’s given to me? But…what about my wants, needs...

  34. S1E2: Discovering the inner Daddy & Dominance

    In this episode of Daddy AF we’re going to look at what it means to be a Daddy. I’ll talk about my experiences discovering when I first realized I was a Daddy and its context in my Dominance. I’ll ask questions that might help you connect with your inner Daddy / Dominant and babygirl, littlegirl…

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  35. S1E1: Pilot / Introduction

    Learn about Daddy, the host of DADDY AF, as he explains his background, history and interests relevant to his journey and future episodes. Questions / Comments / Suggestions to [email protected] There's no better way to make sure I stick around than by showing support with a donation or...

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ABOUT THIS SHOW

Explore with Daddy, a veteran of kink, open relationships, non-monogamy, swinging and power exchange lifestyles since 2002. Reflections on polyamory, alternative relationships, BDSM, power exchange and kink with an emphasis on perspective through a soft DDlg / CGl dynamic. Listen in as Daddy takes you down the bunny hole of living a non-normative life. Sharing perspectives, viewpoints, opinions and stories about what worked, what didn’t and how he navigates it all to create a fulfilling, ethical, honest and meaningful journey.

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Explore with Daddy, a veteran of kink, open relationships, non-monogamy, swinging and power exchange lifestyles since 2002. Reflections on polyamory, alternative relationships, BDSM, power exchange and kink with an emphasis on perspective through a soft DDlg / CGl dynamic. Listen in as Daddy takes...

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