Damn We Grown

What is up, y’all! What is UP! We are back in the house to slap some more soul to you on this brand-new episode of Damn We Grown!This week, we’re taking a hilarious and heartfelt trip down memory lane to the golden era: the 1990s and early 2000s. Was the music really better back then, or were we just stress-free kids with no real bills and zero adult responsibilities? We’re diving into the days of recording songs off the radio onto cassette tapes, custom voicemail skits, MTV music videos, and the magic of TGIF lineups.Plus, we’re balancing the nostalgia with some real-time grown folk business—from teaching our teen to drive in empty parking lots without losing our cool, to the wild cost of raising kids today (seriously, why is special lotion $17?!), and surviving the soaring prices of fast food.In this episode, we’re getting into:The Magic of '90s Nostalgia: Rewinding to the days of In Living Color, Def Comedy Jam, Saved by the Bell, Martin, and why appointment TV hit different before streaming took over.Music & Culture Wars: Comparing classic R&B supergroups and Hip-Hop legends to today’s streaming era—and why you had to put in real work to buy an album on tape or CD.Adulting & Raising Teens: Navigating second driving lessons, letting our kids face their fears, and the high financial cost of teenage style upgrades.Fast Food Inflation: Remembering 25-cent hamburgers, 99-cent Whoppers, and singing the blues over the death of the real $5 Footlong.Then vs. Now: The contrast between hanging out in the moment without cell phones versus navigating today's curated social media world.Take a break from adulting, grab your favorite snack, and vibe out with us as we celebrate the times that made us who we are!Connect With Us:Socials: Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, TikTok, and YouTube [@DamnWeGrown]Email: Got a funny '90s memory, a question, or a topic idea? Hit us up at [email protected]: Listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your favorite pods!If you enjoyed the episode, don't forget to like, subscribe, and leave us a review. Keep choosing joy, y’all! Deuces! ✌️

What is up, y’all! What is UP! We are back in the house for another episode of Damn We Grown!This week, we are slapping some fresh soul into your speakers as we celebrate Mike’s big 46th birthday! From emotional photo books that almost got the ice-cold birthday boy teary-eyed, to grilling on his own big day and officially stepping into full "Unc" status, we are leaning all the way into the joy of growing older.We’re also getting into a fiery debate over the ultimate R&B supergroups and Hip-Hop duos. You know we had to break it all down—soulful style!In this episode, we’re talking:Birthday Real Talk & Unc Energy: The difference between an "Uncle" and an "Unc," surviving birthday allergies, and why Mike ended up behind the grill for his own celebration.Building the Ultimate R&B Supergroup: We break down four stacked lineups featuring icons like Beyoncé, Prince, Jill Scott, Usher, Erica Badu, and D'Angelo. Who takes the crown when it comes to raw vocals versus pure stage presence?First-Week Album Sales—Hip-Hop Duos: Jay-Z & Kanye, Drake & Lil Wayne, 50 Cent & Eminem, or TI & Jeezy? We argue who is really shutting down the charts in today’s game.Adulting & Real Life Humor: From setting up record shelves eight months late, to the pain of auto insurance, and why girl trips hit way different than guy trips.Grab your favorite drink, sit back, and vibe out with us!Connect With Us:Socials: Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, TikTok, YouTube, and X [@DamnWeGrown]Email: Got a question or a topic you want us to touch on? Hit us up at [email protected]: Listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your favorite pods!If you’re loving the show, make sure to like, subscribe, and leave us a review. Keep choosing joy, y’all! Deuces! ✌️

What is up, y’all! We are BACK in the house for another episode of Damn We Grown!This week, we’re celebrating a big milestone—17 years of marriage and a whole quarter-century of being together! Between romantic sunset date nights on Signal Hill, Cutwater cocktails, and Uncle Nunu getting snitched on for spoiling the little ones with massive ice cream cones, we are diving deep into a topic none of us can outrun: Aging Gracefully.Look, the mind might tell you you’re still 25, but the knees? Yeah, they’re playing by a whole different set of rules now! We’re keeping it 100 on the real, the comedic, and the soulful side of getting older:Silver Strands & Poppin’ Knees: Embracing the gray hair, laughing at physical changes, and why morning stretches are no longer optional.Wisdom, Peace & Zero Cares Left: The beauty of having a little more disposable income, cutting out negative energy, and stepping fully into your confidence.The Taboo Reality of Getting Older: Keeping the bedroom alive, throwing out society’s "rules" on how grown folks should dress, and choosing comfort over 8-hour stiletto heels.Memories & Real Talk: Reflecting on lost loved ones, navigating back-to-school shoe prices, and learning to love on your people while they’re here.Grab your favorite drink, get comfortable, and tap in with us as we talk about celebrating every year, every laugh line, and every gray hair.Connect With Us:Socials: Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, TikTok, and YouTube [@DamnWeGrown]Email: Send us your questions or episode topic ideas at [email protected] Anywhere: Stream us on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you listen to your favorite shows!If you enjoyed this episode, don't forget to like, subscribe, and leave us a review. Keep choosing joy, y'all! Peace! ✌️

Remember back in the day when the golden rule of the house was "Children should be seen and not heard"? Yeah… well, those days are officially gone!In this episode of Damn We Grown, Mike and Tiff dive deep into the hilarious, heart-wrenching, and daily reality of raising strong-willed, outspoken kids. From Tiff’s daughter clapping back with "Why don't you just get another job?" to navigating those boundary-pushing moments as modern parents, we’re keeping it 100% real about the shift from old-school discipline to modern parenting.We’re kicking things off with a soulful weekend recap—talking about summer date nights with junk food feasts, Y2K flea market trips (and why our kids are paying $30 for stuff we threw away), and our latest binge-watches, including Is God Is and The Polygamist. Then, we get into the heavy stuff: how childhood silence impacts adult self-expression, unlearning the need for our kids to "fear" us, and finding the sweet spot between enforcing boundaries and encouraging our kids to speak their minds.Whether you're trying to break generational cycles, navigating teen attitude with a smile, or just figuring out how you ended up eating sherbet in 90-degree SoCal heat, grab your favorite snack and kick back with us.In this episode, we cover:Weekend Realness: Date night food splurges, giant ice cream tubs, and nostalgic Y2K fashion.Movie & TV Reviews: Quick takes on Is God Is, Boots Riley’s I Love Boosters, and Netflix’s The Polygamist.Modern vs. Old-School Parenting: Why raising a "quick-witted" child is both a blessing and a test of patience.Breaking Generational Cycles: Moving from "kids are seen, not heard" to raising confident, outspoken adults.Setting Healthy Boundaries: How to balance freedom, respect, and parenting discipline without instilling fear.Instagram & TikTok: @DamnWeGrownEmail: [email protected] & Listen: Available on YouTube, Spotify, and everywhere you get your podcasts!Connect & Follow Us:

What is up, y’all! Grab your favorite drink, get comfortable, and get ready to slide some serious soul into your Wednesday. Mike and Tiff are back in the home studio on this brand-new episode of Damn We Grown, and yes—the “Beyoncé fan” is officially blowing to keep the vibes immaculate.This week, the couple kicks things off by breaking down their weekend adulting hustle. From pulling an “audible” on a local date night at Lazy Dog (where Tiff was highly suspicious of the patio dog-rules) to negotiating child labor in the backyard garden so their daughter can learn the value of a dollar, they’re keeping it 100% real. The backyard garden is officially underway with tomatoes and bell peppers, because in 2026, paying $1.50 for a single bunch of cilantro is just downright disrespectful to the bank account!Later, they dive into a hilarious debate about learning new languages, with Tiff bragging about her 172-day Spanish Duolingo streak—even if she only knows three words and has to mimic a cartoon voice to pass the app's speaking test.But the real heat comes when Mike and Tiff unpack a viral video of a woman confronting a younger sister in public for wearing a satin bonnet at the grocery store.Is wearing a bonnet in public an issue of "putting your best foot forward" and maintaining self-respect, or is the backlash rooted in respectability politics and a deep-seated desire to appease the white gaze?With their signature humor, empathy, and candor, Mike and Tiff get into:Cultural Pride vs. Presentation: How we treat our hair, our clothes, and our personal style out in the wild.The Double Standard: Why cultural staples like bonnets, durags, braids, and gold chains are labeled "ghetto" until they're co-opted by mainstream media and suddenly branded as "chic."Relationship Compromise: Why Mike flat-out refuses to let his partner control his style—even if he chooses to wear a durag on a date.Putting Yourself First: Why loving yourself has to come before pleasing anybody else, including your spouse.This episode is packed with hilarious tangents, deep cultural insights, and the kind of marital banter only these two can deliver. Hit that play button, lock in, and remember—keep choosing joy!Connect with the Grown Family!Got some strong thoughts on the bonnet debate? Or maybe a secret Duolingo hack? We want to hear from you!Email us: [email protected]/TikTok: @DamnWeGrownListen & Subscribe: Find us on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, YouTube, or wherever you get your favorite podcasts. Please leave us a review to help the family grow!The Meat & Potatoes: The Great Bonnet Debate

"I’m a grown man!" 🤣 Mike and Tiff are back, and this time they finally managed to drag their ultra-talented (but camera-shy) brother, Steve, in front of the lens for Episode 261!In this episode of Damn We Grown, the crew gets into the hilarious and heavy realities of adulting. Steve breaks down how he went from shooting raw film in high school to building Cross Vision Media, a one-stop shop for web dev, content strategy, and video marketing. But it’s not all business—we’re diving deep into what it’s really like having a newborn in your 40s while running a business, the eternal struggle of communication in marriage, and why AI might just kick us all in the chest one day (literally, ask Mike about the video).Hit that play button, lock in, and keep choosing joy!Connect with Us:Instagram & Socials: @damnwegrownEmail: [email protected] Steve: @creativecannon & @crossvisionmedia on Instagram | www.crossvisionmedia.com

What is up, y’all! Mike and Tiff are back in the studio for a brand new episode of Damn we Grown. This week, we finally dragged the ultimate creative mastermind out of his studio cave: Sean Cross (aka Konami Homi). As the driving force behind 99 Hearts Entertainment, Sean is out here building entire universes from scratch, and we are getting into all the beautiful, messy details of the creative hustle.Whether you're an old-school anime head, an aspiring comic book artist, or just trying to figure out how to navigate the wild west of AI, this episode is a whole vibe. Grab your coffee (or your matcha), get comfortable, and let's get into it!Inside This Episode:The Ultimate Anime Starter Pack: We nerd out over the classics. From Dragon Ball Z and Lupin the Third to the endless ocean of One Piece and the gritty perfection of Hunter x Hunter, Sean breaks down the shows that shaped his artistic eye. (Plus, Tiff tries to keep us from talking about cartoons for three hours straight).Birth of Afro Boy: We get an exclusive, behind-the-scenes look at the first official issue of Sean’s original comic, Afro Boy. We talk character design, world-building, and what it really takes to self-publish a comic in today's market.Fighting Spirits in The Adventures of the Neon Wolf: Sean gives us the scoop on his upcoming third-person horror-action video game. Think Kingdom Hearts meets Silent Hill—reaping souls, fighting demons, and trading ghosts to merchants. It's as wild as it sounds.The "AI Slop" Debate: Let's keep it real. As creatives who actively use AI to streamline music production and content workflows, Mike and Sean have an honest conversation about the fine line between using AI as a brilliant tool and just being lazy."You gotta know when to use the tool, and when to get out of the bed and do the work yourself. Don't just be out here making AI slop!" ---Stay Connected with the Crew:Follow Damn we Grown: Catch us on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, TikTok, and Instagram at @DamnWeGrown.Follow our Guest: Support Sean's art, games, and music by following him everywhere at @99HeartsEnt @KonamiHomi and check out 99 Hearts Entertainment

What happens when you go from ditching the last day of high school for McDonald's to jumping out of airplanes over the Palm Islands? It’s a Damn We Grown Wednesday, and Mike and Tiff are bringing you some serious soul, laughs, and business strategy this week. We’ve got Pro from Bigger Vision Agency in the studio, and he’s breaking down the realities of entrepreneurship—from Fatburger to running a digital marketing empire.If you've been wondering whether Artificial Intelligence is the devil or your new best friend, this episode is your definitive answer. We're talking about how to leverage tech to scale your workflow, why you can't let AI replace your kids' real-world experiences, and the heavy realization that running a business is just waking up to a whole lot of responsibility.Plus, we get into the comedy of aging (who hid the reading glasses?), pulling weeds in the backyard, and the raw fear of skydiving in Dubai. Grab your notepads, because Pro drops a literal cheat code for turning your brain dumps into standard operating procedures.Dubai Skydiving & Island Hopping: Pro’s adventures from skydiving over Palm Island to eating red snapper in Turks and Caicos.The Comedy of Growing Older: Why we can never find our glasses when we need them, and the trauma of pulling weeds in the summer heat.AI for Business Growth: Is AI a threat, or the ultimate cheat code? How to start using tech to elevate your productivity.Prompting vs. Context Engineering: Why giving AI the right context is the secret sauce to making it work for you.The Reality of Entrepreneurship: From working at Fatburger to owning an event venue, a photography rental shop, and a marketing agency. Why scaling up means leveling up your network.Parenting in the Digital Age: Why kids need practical, real-world learning before relying on AI.(Try this prompt out)"Take this transcript, act as an expert operations manager, and turn this into a Standard Operating Procedure (SOP)."Guest Info:Tap in with Pro and level up your digital presence over at BiggerVisionAgency.com.Stay Connected:Hit us up at [email protected] and let us know your thoughts on AI, skydiving, or where your reading glasses are hiding today. Make sure you're subscribed on YouTube, Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your soul and strategy!What We Get Into This Week:💎 Pro’s "Cheat Code" AI Prompt:

Are you truly grown, or are your kids just completely running your life, your timeline, and your bank account? This week, Mike and Tiff are back on a Damn We Grown to break down the hilarious, exhausting, and expensive realities of being club volleyball parents. From dealing with absolute audacity and tween-attitude at 6:30 in the morning to Mike walking a country mile in the blazing sun just to dodge a $20 parking fee—the struggle is real.But Mike found the ultimate tournament cheat code, and he’s not gatekeeping. Hint: It involves a trunk, a hidden electric scooter, and complete evasion of club sports system fees.Later in the episode, Tiff drops a devastating reality check: their daughter has officially declared that she can no longer call Mike "Daddy". The painful evolution from "Dada" to "Dad" is a right of passage, and Mike is trying to process the sting.Plus, they dive into Part 2 of the top luxury expenses society has brainwashed us into thinking are "normal". If you are financing a depreciating car every three years, saying "yes" to every single group chat vacation, or door-dashing a Starbucks order—we are looking directly at you.Grab your favorite drink (made at home to save that coin!), tap in, and let’s grow together.💡 Key Takeaways & Grown Moments:The 6:30 AM Timeline Debate: Tiff explains why being 10 minutes early to a game still counts as just being "on time," while Mike firmly stands his ground on it being early.The Tournament Cheat Code: Why you need to buy an electric scooter to completely bypass the $20-a-day club sports parking trap.The "Daddy" Retirement: Navigating the awkward moment your pre-teen puts a strict boundary on your childhood nickname.Wealth Destroyers: Breaking down why rolling negative equity into a new car finance plan every few years is keeping people broke.Saying "No" to the Group Chat: Staying disciplined with your savings goals even when your friends are dropping links to Big Bear or expensive weekend getaways.Cutting the Invisible Bills: The real math behind dropping a $25 Netflix subscription or a $6 daily coffee habit to stack real cash.📬 Connect With The Show:Have a parenting story, a parking lot cheat code, or a hot take on the "early vs. on time" debate? Don't gatekeep—reach out to us!📧 Email: [email protected]📱 Socials: Follow the vibe on TikTok and Instagram @damnwegrown🎧 Streaming: Listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or watch the video version on YouTubeIf you love the show, do your people a favor: hit that Follow button and leave us a Review on Apple or Spotify to help us move up the ranks!

What is up, y’all? We are back in the house! This week, Mike and Tiff are sliding into your feed fresh off a busy Memorial Day weekend to talk about the beautiful, chaotic reality of being deep in their 40s.Between running a gauntlet of neighborhood graduations, catching a late-night screening of The Mandalorian (yes, Mike managed to stay awake past 11:30 PM!), and managing a massive Sunday cookout featuring every protein known to man, the grown-man and grown-woman lifestyle is in full effect.But once the barbecue was packed away, things got real. Inspired by a deep dive on Instagram, Mike and Tiff are unpacking the first half of a list that will make your pockets hurt: 30 Luxury Expenses That Society Has Tricked Us Into Thinking Are Normal.In this episode, the couple tackles the first 10, including:Wedding vs. Marriage: The age-old debate of spending $6,000 on a single day versus putting it down on a roof over your head. (Shoutout to Tiff for choosing the house!)The Siphoning of "Back Home": Navigating the delicate cultural expectations of sending money away while keeping your own financial house in order.The Tip-ocalypse: Why are we prompting a 30% tip at a counter where we stood for 15 minutes waiting for our own pizza?Leasing the Illusion: Rolling around in a $1,200-a-month luxury lease just to look wealthy while building zero equity.From student loan traps to why society expects us to pay out the nose just to look successful, Mike and Tiff bring the soul, the truth, and the laughs."We've had waiters go above and beyond, and I'm happy to tip. But don't give me the tip screen just for doing the absolute bare minimum!"Hit Us Up!Which of these societal "norms" do you think is the biggest scam? Drop a comment below, and don't forget to leave us some love (even if it's just a heart emoji!) to help the podcast grow.Email: [email protected]: @damnwegrown on Instagram, TikTok, and YouTubeKeep choosing joy, y'all. Peace!

Welcome back to Episode 255 of Damn We Grown! This week, Mike and Tiff sit down for a cozy and candid conversation about navigating adulthood, parenting, and the realities of modern life.The episode kicks off with a relaxing weekend recap, featuring a successful yard sale hunt for a bamboo circle chair and a trip to the local farmer's market for fresh fruit, Mediterranean dips, and garlic spread. The conversation then shifts to a review of the movie Good Luck, Have Fun, Don't Die, sparking a thoughtful discussion on parenting and the societal double standards of showing violence versus intimacy to teenagers.Later, the discussion moves to the music industry, touching on recent releases from Drake and Kanye, and whether legacy artists like Andre 3000 are aging gracefully by transitioning into new genres like instrumental flute music. Digging into real-world news, the hosts analyze Census Bureau data showing a rise in Americans leaving the U.S. due to the high cost of living, exploring the appeal of the expat life and moving to places like Thailand.To wrap things up, Mike and Tiff test their dynamic with a hilarious rapid-fire Q&A. They debate beach vacations versus snowy cabins, reveal their biggest pet peeves, and reminisce about their first date in Santa Monica.Episode Highlights:Weekend Recap: Yard sale wins, a free Mid-City LA music festival, and artisanal farmer's market finds.Parenting in the Modern Age: Navigating appropriate movie choices for tweens and teens.Hip-Hop & Getting Older: Thoughts on Kanye, Drake, and Andre 3000's evolving music styles.The American Exodus: Discussing the rising cost of living and the reality of moving abroad.Couples Rapid-Fire: A fun Q&A covering relationship habits, favorite features, and everyday preferences.

On this week’s episode of the Damn We Grown podcast, Mike and Tiff are slapping some soul onto your Wednesday with a much-needed, post-Mother’s Day catch-up.Tiff shares all the wild and beautiful details from her tropical girls' trip to Kauai, Hawaii. Her island adventures included dodging rogue feral chickens and getting stopped by airport security because her jewelry collection was mistaken for a weapon. Meanwhile, Mike held it down at home, creating new memories with the munchkin, trying viral sushi, and reviewing the new Zazie Beetz action movie, They Will Kill You.But it wouldn't be Damn We Grown without some real talk about marriage and growing older. The duo celebrates their ultimate "grown moment" of the week: hitting a new level of romance by getting their cholesterol and bloodwork done together. Things get deep—and incredibly comedic—when Mike and Tiff break down a viral quote about love being ethical before it is emotional. They dissect the truth about what it really means to be a "high-value man," the lack of effort in modern dating, and why certain intimate things absolutely do not count as a holiday gift.From crazy stories about tourists catching $50,000 fines for messing with Hawaiian wildlife to dropping absolute gems on long-term relationship survival, this episode has everything you need to get through the week. Put down that weird discount root beer, turn up the volume, and tune in to the realest marriage podcast on the internet!

What is up, y'all! Welcome back to another Damn We Grown Wednesday. Mike and Tiff are in the building, and this week we’re getting into the real, hilarious, and sometimes exhausting realities of being grown. From aging parents and careers to raising kids who are way better at sports than we ever were, we are covering it all.Grab your coffee (or your wine, no judgment), sit back, and let’s talk about what happens when you finally realize you can't just do whatever you want anymore—because you got bills!🎧 What We’re Getting Into This Episode:Volleyball Glow-Ups: Maddie is killing it on her club team! We talk about the realities of being club sports parents and watching your kid genuinely level up.The Biopic Debate: Tiff reviews The Bride and we debate the Mount Rushmore of musical biopics (Are we putting the Jackson 5 over Bohemian Rhapsody? Let’s argue).Gas Prices & Politics: LA gas is touching $6 and flirting with $8. We’re ranting about inflation, the "Frat Boy" political cabinet, and the wild news cycle we are all trapped in.Making Friends in Your 40s: Let's get real—why is making new friends as an adult so awkward? We talk about outgrowing your 20s friend group, the "Blue Zones" (shoutout to Loma Linda!), the "Melanin on the Mountain" hiking crew, and why we are not the parents trying to play with other people's kids at the indoor playground.🤎 The Soulful Moment: We pulled a card from the "Rethink Conversation Starters," and things got deep: What was the moment you knew you were in love with me? Mike takes us back to the early days, living check-to-check and beat-to-beat in Riverside, and the exact moment he knew Tiff was the one.Tap in, drop a comment, and let us know: How are y'all making friends out here in these adult streets?

Welcome back to another Wednesday drop of Damn We Grown! Grab a drink and settle in, because Mike and Tiff are bringing that pure 90s nostalgia, old-school R&B vibes, and some real grown-folks conversation.This week, we’re recapping an Easter weekend that went from peaceful Sunday brunches to a full-on Lord of the Rings battlefield during the family egg hunt. Note to self: when the kids get older, putting cold hard cash in plastic eggs turns them into absolute savages. We’re officially petitioning for an adults-only, high-stakes egg hunt with some top-shelf liquor and real money on the line for next year.Then, we get into the heavy hitters. Walmart just announced they’re automating 65% of their stores by 2026. What happens to the jobs? Are we all just going to be fighting robots for the last bag of Doritos? We talk about the reality of the automation takeover and why we need to be pushing the next generation into coding and robotics if we want them to stay ahead of the curve.We also tackle Utah’s bold new law banning kids under 18 from using social media without parental consent. It sparks a real talk about mental health, the dopamine chase, and the wild wild west of the internet. But you know we couldn't stay serious for too long—that conversation takes a sharp, spicy left into the shady world of age-gap dating. Why are these grown men out here waiting around like vultures for girls to turn 18? We're calling it out.We cap the episode off with our Vibe of the Week: "Garage Rooftop" by Q.Connect with us:Got a story, a question, or just want to tell Mike his basketball game needs some serious work?Email: [email protected]: https://www.google.com/search?q=damnwegrown.comTikTok & IG: @teatodd2 (Tiff) & @Maybenicemike (Mike)Don't forget to leave us a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts and Spotify! If you don't, we're assuming you're the one out here fighting 7-year-olds for plastic Easter eggs.

Welcome back to another Damn We Grown Wednesday! This week, Tiff and Mike are bringing the heat, the laughs, and all the unfiltered reality you need to get through the week. Grab your water (because Tiff forgot hers) and settle in for a vibe.We’re kicking things off by exposing the absolute financial robbery that is youth club sports. From club fees to paying for parking and entry tickets just to watch your own kid play volleyball—when did school sports start charging like the Super Bowl? We also take a quick detour to give a massive shoutout to Babyface’s legendary Tiny Desk concert, because real R&B is forever.Then, we dive right into the meat and potatoes of the episode: The Great Prenup Debate. We react to a viral social media post claiming that asking for a prenup is an immediate dealbreaker and means the marriage should be called off. But let’s keep it a buck—do regular, everyday people need a prenup, or is that just billionaire behavior? Plus, we’re unpacking the wild concept of "pre-alimony," what happens when you inherit money, and why everyone might need to keep a little "bag lady" escape fund just in case things go left.Whether you're single, hitched, or just here for the comedy, this episode is packed with the relationship realities they definitely don't teach you in school.What We Get Into This Episode:The ridiculous, hidden costs of youth sports and weekend tournaments.Tiny Desk vibes and the unmatched penmanship of Babyface.Is asking for a prenup a red flag or just smart financial planning?The hilarious truth about dividing assets when you aren't rich.Unpacking "pre-alimony" and protecting your peace (and your pockets) before saying "I do."Join the Conversation & Follow Us:Don’t forget to hit that subscribe button so you never miss an episode!Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DamnWeGrownListen on Apple Podcasts & Spotify: Search "Damn We Grown"Follow us on IG & TikTok: @damnwegrown

Welcome back for another Damn We Grown Wednesday! This week, Mike and Tiff are keeping it all the way real about the pure exhaustion of adulting, from Maddi dragging a tired Tiff to the beach to trying to solve a Dinner Detective murder mystery with Ari and the crew. We are also sending some major birthday shoutouts to Rod, Jody, Sean, and a heavenly birthday to Ma Pearl.Here is what we are getting into this episode:Episode Highlights:Surviving the Weekend & Murder Mysteries: Tiff is running on fumes after being dragged to the beach by Maddi, proving that a mother's rest always takes a backseat to kids' activities. Plus, we recap a hilariously awkward Dinner Detective outing with Ari and Rod where we confidently—and incorrectly—accused an innocent pregnant woman of the crime.The Lost Art of Face-to-Face Conversation: Are we raising a generation that is terrified to talk?. We hilariously break down how the Web2 era and social media have killed real-life communication skills. Remember the days of The Clapper and actually calling someone on a telephone?.The Ultimate AI Music Prank: Tapping into his producer ear, Mike plays a soulful, 80s-style funk track that has Tiff grooving—until he reveals the whole thing was generated by AI. Her reaction is pure comedy, sparking a deep dive into AI technology, copyright laws, and the future of creative artistry.The Meat & Potatoes – Chasing Dreams Later in Life: Is it too late to go back to school or pivot your career when you are in your 30s or 40s?. We tackle the heavy hurdles like existing student loans, the fear of failure, and the financial responsibilities of adulting. It is time to transition from being a "thinker" to a "doer" because the time is going to pass anyway!Keep choosing joy!

Welcome back to the house, y’all! This week on Damn We Grown, Mike and Tiff are bringing that real talk from the couch as we navigate the absolute scam that is "adulting."We kick things off with a little reflection on getting older (shoutout to Mike's incoming gray beard hairs) and play a dangerous game of "What If?" If you could go back to your 12-year-old self with all the knowledge you have now, would you do it? Tiff is avoiding the awkward puberty phase at all costs, while Mike is ready to time-travel back to 7th grade just to invest in Apple, buy Bitcoin, and punch a few bullies in the neck.Then, we dive deep into the meat of the episode: the sci-fi anthology series Soulmates. Imagine there’s a scientific test that can match you with your 100% perfect, guaranteed soulmate. The catch? You might already be married to someone else. We get into a soulful, hilarious, and brutally honest debate about whether we would take the test. When you hit a rough patch in your marriage, is the grass actually greener, or is it just a trap? We talk about the realities of choosing your partner every day, dating outside your "type," and why true love is deeper than a scientific algorithm.In this episode we get into:The Adulthood Trap: Why we all couldn't wait to turn 18, and why we want our refunds now.Time Travel Priorities: Avoiding awkward phases vs. getting rich and petty revenge.Pop Culture Catch-Up: A quick dive into the Scream franchise drama and wild government conspiracies.The Soulmate Dilemma: Would you risk your current relationship to find out if there's someone statistically "better" out there for you?Grab a drink, get comfortable, and let’s talk about it. As always, keep choosing joy!💬 We want to hear from you!If you were married and hitting a rough patch, would you take the soulmate test? Let us know in the comments below!Follow the journey:Instagram/TikTok/Twitter: @DamnWeGrown Watch the full video on YouTube and listen everywhere you get your podcasts!

Welcome back to another episode of Damn We Grown! This week, Mike and Tiff are pouring up the truth and breaking down the wild, double-edged sword of modern technology. Because let's be real: the internet was supposed to make our lives easier, but right now, it’s mostly just testing our patience and our marriages.The Telehealth Meltdown: Tiff spills the tea on her blood-pressure-raising battle with a therapy app. Nothing says "mental wellness" quite like spazzing out over a glitchy login screen when you're racing against a 15-minute grace period.Rise of the Machines: The robots are officially coming for everybody's gig. Mike and Tiff talk about AI stepping into the workplace, the government drama surrounding it, and why nobody is safe from the algorithm.Digital Infidelity: Can you actually cheat with a robot? We're diving deep into the wild world of AI companions, secret burner accounts, and the messy etiquette of double-tapping swimsuit pics on the timeline.The "Work Spouse" Trap: We are laying down the law on the whole "work husband" and "work wife" foolishness. Where exactly do you draw the line before sharing a spreadsheet turns into crossing a serious boundary?"If you're not being open with your spouse, that's considered cheating. There can be physical cheating, there can be emotional cheating... and of course with AI, it's going to be more of the emotional." — Tiff

Let’s be real—after years of marriage, most of our "deep" conversations revolve around whose turn it is to take out the trash or why the Wi-Fi is trippin'. But this week on Damn We Grown, Mike and Tiff are putting down the logistics and picking up a deck of cards that’s designed to get personal. Very. Personal.We’re diving into a romantic card game that forces you to ask the questions you usually only think about at 2:00 AM. We’re talking about the stuff that makes you go, "Wait, you actually think that?" or "Oh, so we're doing this today?" In this episode, we’re breaking down:Card-Induced Trauma: Why asking "What’s one thing I do that drives you crazy?" is a trap, and how Mike managed to survive the answer.The "I Thought I Knew You" Moment: Realizing that after all these years, there are still some secrets Tiff hasn't spilled.Romance vs. Reality: Trying to be "Deep and Soulful" while remembering we still have to figure out dinner and deal with the kids.It’s hilarious, it’s slightly high-stakes, Damn...We Grown.

The "Damn We Grown" Wednesday is back, and so is the chaos! Mike and Tiff are back in the studio, proving that even after nearly two decades together, they’re still figuring out how to not accidentally become "just roommates."In this episode, our favorite "two creatives" dive into the post-honeymoon reality check. They reminisce about being "broke-broke" newlyweds—you know, the kind of broke where Top Ramen feels like a five-star date night because you're still in that "blissful" fog.Mom Duty vs. "Hell-Raiser": Tiff vents about the "bananas" reality of parenting a pre-teen who is starting to look and act a little too much like her mother.The "Finger" Talk: Mike gets real about his first colonoscopy. It’s all fun and games until the doctor says, "Take a deep breath," and you wake up wondering if you’re still a whole man.The Great Bed Upgrade: The couple reflects on moving from a "Queen world" to a "King-size" bed—where the space is so vast they actually have to use pillows to find each other.Contaminated Counters?: Tiff explains why anything wet on the kitchen counter is automatically treated as "poison" or "booty juice" until proven otherwise.The "Intimate" Schedule: Why scheduled date nights and "appointments" for sex aren't just for old people—they're for grown folks who actually want to keep the spark alive.Key Vibe: "I remember in college, I would buy them cheap sheets... and they would feel like sandpaper. What were we thinking back then?"Choose joy, choose sleep, and for the love of everything, don't leave water on Tiff's counter.

It’s been a minute—nearly two years, to be exact—but Mike and Tiff are back in the building for a raw, unfiltered reunion on Damn We Grown. Life hasn't just been "happening"; it’s been lifing at a whole new level. From the heavy hits of losing parents to the unexpected "grown folks" realities of medical checkups and career shifts, this episode is a deep dive into the scars that shape us and the joy we have to choose every single day.We’re catching you up on the hiatus, the move into the new house, and why 40-something life requires a whole different kind of movement—literally and mentally. Whether you’re navigating grief, a career pivot, or just trying to get your 10,000 steps in, this is the real talk you need to hear.Keep choosing joy, keep moving, and stay grown. We’ll see you in the next one!

Episode 244. Podcast with your eyes closed.  Letitia James is back and in rare form.   Mike got some slides, basketball shorts, and a white tank top  y'all better watch out.  Are black women tired of saving us?  Does Pop Tarts still have a Kellogg label?  What if your neighbor sued you because your autistic child is too loud?  Vibes from NxWorries.  And the main topic, how to invest in the next generation.  Damn We Grown!  Damn We Grown DamnWeGrown.com   Email us at [email protected] Podcast: Twitter/Instagram @DamWeGrown Tiff:       Twitter/Instagram @TeaTodd2 Mike:     Twitter/Instagram @LetsGoLexxo

Episode 243. It's a free for all, so tap in and enjoy. Damn We Grown DamnWeGrown.com   Email us at [email protected] Podcast: Twitter/Instagram @DamWeGrown Tiff:       Twitter/Instagram @TeaTodd2 Mike:     Twitter/Instagram @LetsGoLexxo

Episode 242. TIt's Pisces season.  Can you make it out of Costco under $200?  Super Tuesday y'all we hope everybody gottheir vote on.    A slavery wedding and a concentration camp wedding?  Ignorance is the point. Vibes from Rome and Brent.  And the main topic, how to find rest in this wild world.  Damn We Grown!  Damn We Grown DamnWeGrown.com   Email us at [email protected] Podcast: Twitter/Instagram @DamWeGrown Tiff:       Twitter/Instagram @TeaTodd2 Mike:     Twitter/Instagram @LetsGoLexxo

Episode 241. Tiff's reppin' for Shreveport.  Beyonce goes number one again.  Wendy's goes Disney.  Kelogg says, eat cereal for dinner.  Vibes from Kamauu. And the main topic, Can you seperate the art from the weirdo artist?  Damn We Grown!  Damn We Grown DamnWeGrown.com   Email us at [email protected] Podcast: Twitter/Instagram @DamWeGrown Tiff:       Twitter/Instagram @TeaTodd2 Mike:     Twitter/Instagram @LetsGoLexxo

Episode 240. We love Hop Hop music.  Your kids will never use a pay-phone. TOakland is still off the hook.  Vibes from Death. And the main topic, A celebration of black music. Damn We Grown!  Damn We Grown DamnWeGrown.com   Email us at [email protected] Podcast: Twitter/Instagram @DamWeGrown Tiff:       Twitter/Instagram @TeaTodd2 Mike:     Twitter/Instagram @LetsGoLexxo

Episode 239. Happy Valentines day.  Your kids are not going pro. Tiff stay piercing stuff.  Vibes from Nicholas Britell, some cup caking from Mike. And the main topic, V-day questions to ask your main thang. Damn We Grown!  Damn We Grown DamnWeGrown.com   Email us at [email protected] Podcast: Twitter/Instagram @DamWeGrown Tiff:       Twitter/Instagram @TeaTodd2 Mike:     Twitter/Instagram @LetsGoLexxo

Episode 238. Tiff survived a cold.  Mike is no longer a carless scrub. Phrases that need to be retired.  R.I.P to Carl Weathers and I guess Bill Withers too.  Vibes from Terrace Martin.  And the main topic, Would you sell 1 year of your life for 10 million dollars?  Damn We Grown!  Damn We Grown DamnWeGrown.com   Email us at [email protected] Podcast: Twitter/Instagram @DamWeGrown Tiff:       Twitter/Instagram @TeaTodd2 Mike:     Twitter/Instagram @LetsGoLexxo

Episode 237. Parker don't play that! We ran off on the plug. Half on a marriage, or 50/50 with a room mate. Vibes from Yussef Dayes.  And the main topic, parenting for the gram?  Damn We Grown!  Damn We Grown DamnWeGrown.com   Email us at [email protected] Podcast: Twitter/Instagram @DamWeGrown Tiff:       Twitter/Instagram @TeaTodd2 Mike:     Twitter/Instagram @LetsGoLexxo

Episode 236. Happy birthday to the Queen of the podcast! Mike is a basic boy. These kids wiil run your life...beware. Instgram isn't reel. Vibes from Xavier Omar.  And the main topic, keeping up with the homeys, finding the harmony in your social life.  Damn We Grown!  Damn We Grown DamnWeGrown.com   Email us at [email protected] Podcast: Twitter/Instagram @DamWeGrown Tiff:       Twitter/Instagram @TeaTodd2 Mike:     Twitter/Instagram @LetsGoLexxo

Episode 235. Back at it like a crack addict. Tiff and the 40,000 emails.  Vibes from Debarge.  And the main topic, a little mish mosh aka off the cuff episode.  Damn We Grown!  Damn We Grown DamnWeGrown.com   Email us at [email protected] Podcast: Twitter/Instagram @DamWeGrown Tiff:       Twitter/Instagram @TeaTodd2 Mike:     Twitter/Instagram @LetsGoLexxo

Episode 234. The soundtrack to Christmas.  Vibes from Old St. Nick.  Damn We Grown!  Damn We Grown DamnWeGrown.com   Email us at [email protected] Podcast: Twitter/Instagram @DamWeGrown Tiff:       Twitter/Instagram @TeaTodd2 Mike:     Twitter/Instagram @LetsGoLexxo

Episode 233. Kids have birthdays everyday b.  One million dollar dope money give away. Surviving P.Diddy. Gym creeps and how to avoid them.  Vibes from The Remains.  And the main topic, a quickie a day will keep the doctor away.  Damn We Grown!  Damn We Grown DamnWeGrown.com   Email us at [email protected] Podcast: Twitter/Instagram @DamWeGrown Tiff:       Twitter/Instagram @TeaTodd2 Mike:     Twitter/Instagram @LetsGoLexxo

Episode 232. Tiff went solo on dat a** but it's still the same.  Go to the movies by yourself. Single father for the weekend? Tips for the bathroom.  Vibes from Redveil.  And the main topic, there is no topic we're just vibin'.  Damn We Grown!  Damn We Grown DamnWeGrown.com   Email us at [email protected] Podcast: Twitter/Instagram @DamWeGrown Tiff:       Twitter/Instagram @TeaTodd2 Mike:     Twitter/Instagram @LetsGoLexxo

🔥🚀 Get Ready for EPIC Episode 231! 🔥🚀 🍽️ Are YOU Making this Culinary Mistake? 😱🤤 Thanksgiving or Christmas - The Ultimate Showdown! 🎄🌟 November Surprise: Is It TOO EARLY for the Christmas Tree? 🤔🎁 🎶 Feel the Vibes with Foggie Raw! 🎶 🍔🤩 "Keith Lee and the Quest for Food Heaven" - The MAIN Event! 🍔🤩 🔥💥 DAMN We Grown! Join the Hottest Talk in Town! 💥🔥 Damn We Grown DamnWeGrown.com   Email us at [email protected] Podcast: Twitter/Instagram @DamWeGrown Tiff:       Twitter/Instagram @TeaTodd2 Mike:     Twitter/Instagram @LetsGoLexxo

Episode 230. It's the last few moments of spooky season y'all.  Tiff be cookin' Tiff be cookin'. How old is too old to go trick or treating? If Mike had a secret OnlyFans. Vibes from Alex and Terrace.  And the main topic, Some Halloween Urban legends.  Dam We Grown! Dam We Grown DamWeGrown.com   Email us at [email protected] Podcast: Twitter/Instagram @DamWeGrown Tiff:       Twitter/Instagram @TeaTodd2 Mike:     Twitter/Instagram @LetsGoLexxo

Episode 229. If we're in a recession how come everybody's throwing hundreds.  Bus drivers need a raise.  Palestine and Israel and the 75 year struggle for peace.  And the main topic, Can we focus on what we have in common and coexist?  Dam We Grown! Dam We Grown DamWeGrown.com   Email us at [email protected] Podcast: Twitter/Instagram @DamWeGrown Tiff:       Twitter/Instagram @TeaTodd2 Mike:     Twitter/Instagram @LetsGoLexxo

Episode 228. Is social media going to cost you cash money? Disney was streaming before Netflix?!  Pick one streaming service to watch forever. Do you want to outlive your significant other? Vibes from Rapsody. And the main topic, Call or text, what's your preferance?  Dam We Grown! Dam We Grown DamWeGrown.com   Email us at [email protected] Podcast: Twitter/Instagram @DamWeGrown Tiff:       Twitter/Instagram @TeaTodd2 Mike:     Twitter/Instagram @LetsGoLexxo

Episode 227. Life be lifing.  New York is wet wet.  Late on purpose? It's almost robbing season, y'all be safe.   Vibes from Zo!. And the main topic, Questions to get you closer.  Dam We Grown! Dam We Grown DamWeGrown.com   Email us at [email protected] Podcast: Twitter/Instagram @DamWeGrown Tiff:       Twitter/Instagram @TeaTodd2 Mike:     Twitter/Instagram @LetsGoLexxo

Episode 225. Mike looks like everyone, Tiff and the great Beyonce hang over.  Vibes from Little Simz. And the main topic, Why do we blame the victim?  Dam We Grown! Dam We Grown DamWeGrown.com   Email us at [email protected] Podcast: Twitter/Instagram @DamWeGrown Tiff:       Twitter/Instagram @TeaTodd2 Mike:     Twitter/Instagram @LetsGoLexxo

Episode 224. We're just letting it flow this episode y'all.  fill up your red plastic cup and hop in the convo.  We end the episode with vibes from Noa James and Cam Gnarly.  Shout out to the Dino!   Dam We Grown! Dam We Grown DamWeGrown.com   Email us at [email protected] Podcast: Twitter/Instagram @DamWeGrown Tiff:       Twitter/Instagram @TeaTodd2 Mike:     Twitter/Instagram @LetsGoLexxo

Episode 222. More life is the motto, Leo is the season.  Trump to jail 2023! Possible Maui fire causes. The judge might be a killer? Vibes from Wizkid. And the main topic, 10 keys to protect your marriage.  Dam We Grown! Dam We Grown DamWeGrown.com   Email us at [email protected] Podcast: Twitter/Instagram @DamWeGrown Tiff:       Twitter/Instagram @TeaTodd2 Mike:     Twitter/Instagram @LetsGoLexxo

Episode 221. It's our anniversary and it's leo season! If your social media only has pictures of your kids... He got the meats.   We mite move to Thailand...one day.  And the main topic, for better or worse I want them draws. Dam We Grown DamWeGrown.com   Email us at [email protected] Podcast: Twitter/Instagram @DamWeGrown Tiff:       Twitter/Instagram @TeaTodd2 Mike:     Twitter/Instagram @LetsGoLexxo

Episode 220. Celibate snow crabs. Twitter is extra negative. Settle the debate...proposing outside an airplane bathroom is a no go?  Vibes from Zo! and Tall Black Guy. And the main topic, guess who went to Thailand part 2! Dam We Grown DamWeGrown.com   Email us at [email protected] Podcast: Twitter/Instagram @DamWeGrown Tiff:       Twitter/Instagram @TeaTodd2 Mike:     Twitter/Instagram @LetsGoLexxo

Episode 219. It's scam season y'all don't give out your address.   Vibes from John Coltrane. And the main topic, guess who went to Thailand?! Dam We Grown DamWeGrown.com   Email us at [email protected] Podcast: Twitter/Instagram @DamWeGrown Tiff:       Twitter/Instagram @TeaTodd2 Mike:     Twitter/Instagram @LetsGoLexxo

Episode 217.  Happy Juneteenth and FathersDay.  Tiff gets weak in the knees. Submarine tragedy.  Elon says cisgender is a slur?  Vibes from Killer Mike. And the main topic, kids be lying! Dam We Grown DamWeGrown.com   Email us at [email protected] Podcast: Twitter/Instagram @DamWeGrown Tiff:       Twitter/Instagram @TeaTodd2 Mike:     Twitter/Instagram @LetsGoLexxo

Episode 216.  Tiff makes fabric shoes. Kid movies are better than sleeping pills.  Summer school is anti Alzeihmer's. Tiff starts a cult. Elon wants to give you brains.  Vibes from Metro Boomin and James Blake. And the main topic, kids be lying! Dam We Grown DamWeGrown.com   Email us at [email protected] Podcast: Twitter/Instagram @DamWeGrown Tiff:       Twitter/Instagram @TeaTodd2 Mike:     Twitter/Instagram @LetsGoLexxo

Episode 214.  It's mental health month.  We got out of pocket y'all.  Yogurt cost how much?! North Dakota loves black people...kind of. Vibes from Sevdaliza. And the main topic, should adult children have to pay rent?  Dam We Grown! Dam We Grown DamWeGrown.com   Email us at [email protected] Podcast: Twitter/Instagram @DamWeGrown Tiff:       Twitter/Instagram @TeaTodd2 Mike:     Twitter/Instagram @LetsGoLexxo

Episode 213.  Tiff plays the Fortnites.  These kids are soft.  We don't know whats up with Florida. Vibes from Slum Village. And the main topic, changing your state of mind.  Dam We Grown! Dam We Grown DamWeGrown.com   Email us at [email protected] Podcast: Twitter/Instagram @DamWeGrown Tiff:       Twitter/Instagram @TeaTodd2 Mike:     Twitter/Instagram @LetsGoLexxo

Episode 212.  We're back y'all!  From vacations to fighting colds we have done it all in the last three weeks.  Tap in and we'll let you know all about it. Damn... We Grown! Dam We Grown DamWeGrown.com   Email us at [email protected] Podcast: Twitter/Instagram @DamWeGrown Tiff:       Twitter/Instagram @TeaTodd2 Mike:     Twitter/Instagram @LetsGoLexxo