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Send episode requests hereIn this episode, I'm answering your dating questions live and giving you real answers, not fluff. You'll find out what to do when life is beating you up but you still want to date, why a man spending big money on you might mean nothing at all, and what most women get wrong about the man who says all the right things and then disappears.Walk away knowing how to make decisions about men without asking your girlfriends, the group chat, or the comment section what his behavior means.If you want to build a roster of two to three commitment-ready men, join my free training on August 16 HERE.Join the Training: Build Your Roster: Attract 3 Commitment-Ready Boyfriends in 90 DaysFollow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed 

Send episode requests hereMost women spend weeks, even months, trying to figure out if a man is worth their time—dating him, running him by the group chat, hoping it turns into something. I don't do any of that. I know pretty quickly whether a man has even earned a phone call from me, and I never waste three to six months learning what I could have known in the first week.In this episode, I'm breaking down the exact framework I use to evaluate a man from the moment he speaks to me. You'll find out why "do I like him?" is the wrong question to be asking, the difference between a man who's interested and a man who's actually investing, and how to spot the yellow flags most women wait months to catch.Walk away able to trust yourself enough to know who qualifies for your time—without the weeks of confusion, second-guessing, or asking everybody else what his behavior means.If you're ready to learn how to evaluate your options without settling, get on the Curved to Cuffed wait list HERE.Learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me. Book a sales call HERE to speak with me. Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed 

Send episode requests hereThere's a difference between a man getting your number and a man actually pursuing you. I've learned how to inspire the men I want to pursue me—planning the dates, investing, and showing up consistently—without ever forcing it or looking thirsty.In this episode, I'm breaking down exactly how I make it easy for a man to pursue me when he already wants to. You'll find out why men feel pressure from you without you ever saying a word, the way good girls accidentally push men away while thinking they're being interested, and what most women confuse for a real connection that isn't one at all.Walk away knowing how to create an experience a man can't stop thinking about—so the right man moves toward you instead of pulling back.Learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me. Book a sales call HERE to speak with me. Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed 

Send episode requests hereI've gotten to the point where I have no doubt that when I pick a place to go, I'm going to catch the attention of the kind of man I want—and lately that's meant meeting a millionaire four to five weeks in a row.In this episode, I'm sharing exactly how I get quality men to notice me the second I step into a room. You'll find out why you can feel invisible even when you're standing right there, what you're doing that quietly tells men to leave you alone, and the shift that takes you from waiting to be approached to being impossible to miss.Walk away knowing how to be the woman who pulls the attention of the man she actually wants—not just whoever happens to be thirsty that night.If you're ready to build these skills with feedback week after week, there’s still time to join the Relationship Roster Challenge HERE.Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed 

Send episode requests hereYou say you want a successful, ambitious provider. But have you ever really thought about how that man actually lives his life? Most women can't describe one real thing about their ideal man's day—and that's the exact reason they never know where to find him.In this episode, I'm teaching you how to stop guessing where the man you want hangs out and start knowing it. u'll find out why "where do I go?" is the wrong first question, what you have to figure out about a man before any place will make sense, and how to spot where he already spends his free time.Walk away able to pick a real spot this week where your kind of man actually is—instead of getting dressed up and hoping you run into him.If you're ready to stop guessing and learn exactly how to meet your ideal man, join the Relationship Roster Challenge HERE.Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed 

Send episode requests hereYou know you want a man this summer. You say it, you feel it, your coochie is jumping for it—but somehow you keep talking yourself right out of going after it. And the stories you're telling yourself sound so smart and so responsible that you actually believe them.In this episode, I'm breaking down the five lies costing you your summer boyfriend. You'll find out why feeling "stuck" is rarely what's really going on, the truth about confidence that flips everything you've been told, and why the one lie most women won't say out loud is the reason all the others get to exist.Walk away ready to stop blocking your own blessing and disqualifying yourself before a man even gets the chance to choose you.If one of these lies has been costing you more than another dry summer, join the Relationship Roster Challenge HERE.Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed 

Send episode requests hereIn this episode, I'm giving you a simple summer plan to have a commitment-ready boyfriend by August—exclusive or not. You'll discover why "putting yourself out there" and "loving yourself" was never enough without a real system, the number that tells you whether your love life is actually moving or stuck, and why the men you want never seem to cross your path even when you're going outside and meeting people.Walk away knowing exactly what to do daily and weekly so you stop disappearing for months every time dating gets hard—and start building toward the kind of fall where you're the one choosing who to cuff.Join the FREE Lovergirl Summer Activation Call HERE to learn about the Roster Relationship Challenge coming up!Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed 

Send episode requests hereA lot of you are going to hit cuffing season with a dry and dusty dating life once again. Because you keep doing nothing in the summer and expecting a man by the fall…it's like wanting a summer body without ever hitting the gym.In this episode, I break down the three things keeping you stuck and headed for another manless winter. You'll find out why the men you actually want aren't showing up in your life, what you're doing that makes quality men lose interest even when the attraction is there, and why you keep quitting dating every time you get disappointed.Walk away ready to turn this summer into the season you finally build a roster of quality men—so you're choosing who to cuff instead of wishing someone would choose you.Join the FREE Lovergirl Summer Activation Call HERE to learn about the Roster Relationship Challenge coming up!Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed 

Send episode requests hereA few weeks ago, I walked away from a good man  after dating him for over a year and a half.In this episode, I'm breaking down what made me walk away from a man most women would have stayed with and why I don't regret it for a second. You'll discover why looks and investment alone don't move me anymore, what happens when you try to adjust a man into generosity instead of requiring it from the start, and why you don't need a "good enough reason" to leave when something stops being in alignment with you.Ready to stop staying with men just because they look good on paper and start trusting your decisions even when the room disagrees? Listen now.Book a sales call HERE to learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me.Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed 

Send episode requests hereI used to be the woman who let a man decide whether my week was good or bad. My marriage taught me that. When it ended, I couldn't get out of bed for weeks because I had outsourced my entire sense of safety to him. That's when I had to ask a different question: “Why am I making my peace depend on whether a man can be trusted at all?”This episode walks you through the six steps that got me from that woman to the woman I am now—the one who dates without scanning men for proof they won't hurt me, who sleeps peaceful at night not stressed about what a man is doing, and who can walk away from anything that doesn't serve me. Because when you trust yourself more than you trust any man, disappointment can't destroy you.Work with me to stop being scared of a man hurting you and start building the kind of love life where it doesn't matter either way.Book a sales call HERE to learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me.Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed 

Send episode requests hereIf you’re a woman of faith who struggles with putting in too much effort while dating ….but not getting much in return from the men you date, this episode is for you.  You’re the woman who is always making time You’re the woman who is there to provide emotional support, You’re the woman who is always keeping conversations going. You’re the woman who is always there to make men feel good about themselves. Join me in this episode to hear the difference between “putting in too much effort” and putting in the right kind of effort for delicious dating results.    Interested in working with me 1:1. Book a sales call HERE to learn more about becoming a private client so that you can become in high-demand in the dating world… …AND attract emotionally available and financially established men who desire serious commitment so that you can choose your life partner in as early as a year.  OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES: Read my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard  Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle. Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed  

Send episode requests herePart of the reason why you waste time on the wrong men is because you’re EASY.All it takes is for a man to pay you some consistent attention and now you’re his girlfriend. And then you get big mad when you realized you invested months…sometimes years into a man who wasn’t worth all that effortThere’s no wonder why you’re always so drained and disappointed with menListen closely to this episode as I help you uncover your power to choose the right man for you, instead of settling for being chosen. Be prepared to reclaim your time!HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: My signature model for a premium dating experience for high-achieving women of faith.What it means to be a good H.O.E and how it puts you in a position of power.7 Practical guidelines that will help you vet men before you go exclusive with them.A unique approach to rotational dating that will lead you to date better men and have better dating experiences. Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:@torahcents @curved2cuffed

Send episode requests here“There’s not enough quality men out here for quality women.”That’s the lie we tell ourselves when we’re not ready to do the work. The truth is that there are more than enough quality men for quality womenAND quality women aren’t finding it hard to meet these men. Why?Because they are doing the real work towards creating the love lives the desireAnd that work is deeper than being a nice girl who has her shit together. It’s deeper than being educated, financially stable and knowing how to cook and clean. Listen to this episode as I share with you the REAL work that quality women are doing daily that allows them to attract, meet and connect with an abundance of quality men. HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: What it really means to “work on yourself” while dating. The difference between a decent woman and a quality womanA quality woman’s biggest super power that helps her navigate dating. The high-quality characteristics that attract high-quality menWhy it’s important to embrace “messiness” on your dating journeyBe sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:@torahcents @curved2cuffed

Send episode requests hereYou finally have multiple men pursuing you, but now you don't know what the hell to do with them ... .so you're either picking whoever texts back fastest or stressing yourself out trying to be "fair" to everyone.Most women think the goal is just getting men's attention, but the real challenge is knowing how to handle it when you actually have choices. You end up settling for the first guy who's consistent or getting overwhelmed and picking based on who gives you butterflies instead of who's actually right for you.I'm breaking down exactly what to do when you have real options so you stop making decisions from panic and start choosing the man who actually fits your life.Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed 

Send episode requests hereLast week, we talked about how Women of Faith tend to attract the wrong kind of men—the manipulative, irresponsible, and insecure ones……and how those "good girl" habits can end up pushing away the intelligent, cultured, and emotionally available men who are actually ready for a real, committed relationship.This week, we're going step by step on how you can break those habits for good, so you can start dating quality men who truly appreciate you for who you are.If you’re a Woman of Faith struggling with “Good girl” syndrome, tune into this episode for a masterclass on how to shed those limiting behaviors and attract the kind of relationship you deserve. Interested in working with me 1:1? If you’re ready to drop the “good girl” act to attract quality men who appreciate the woman you really are, book a sales call to learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me. Book a sales call HERE to speak with me. OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:Read my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed 

Send episode requests hereThat fear of doing all the work, showing up differently in dating, and still not getting chosen is keeping many women stuck in dating limbo…afraid to fully commit to finding love.If you've been consuming dating advice without applying it, deleting apps after two days, or hiding behind stories of being "too busy" or "not ready yet," you're not protecting yourself…you're guaranteeing nothing changes. In this episode, I break down why this fear exists, what it's actually costing you, and how to start collecting evidence that love is possible for you exactly as you are right now.I'll share actionable steps to move past this fear and build momentum in your love life, whether or not you ever work with me.If you're ready to stop dating like you're trying not to get hurt and start showing up fully for love, book a sales call to learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me.  Book a sales call HERE to speak with me. OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:Read my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed 

Send episode requests hereOut of all the men we date…there’s always this ONE that we really like…but we find it hard to have him. We wanna hear from him daily We wanna see him all the time. And we freak out when he’s being inconsistent, emotionally unavailable or even pulling away. Some of us don’t realize that the ONE we like…is the one that feeds our addiction to dysfunction. Like crack, this man stimulates us and even though he is the source of a lot of problems in our life…we still strongly desire him.  In this episode, I take time to coach a Queen who is addicted to dating a man who is tall, dark and dysfunctional…and we explore why this is a thing for her and what exactly she should do about it.  HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: . The lies we tell ourselves when we are addicted to men who are not good for us. The root causes of our addictions and why we stay stuck in the cycle. How feeling chemistry with a man can also be a sign of dysfunctional addiction. Why it’s not always easy for us  to be interested in other men who are able to offer us healthy forms of companionship. The truth about why we love to be controlled and dominated and why we confuse it with “Alpha” energy. How I lost my voice in my own marriage due to my own relationship addictionsFEATURED ON THE SHOWBOOK: Women Who Love Too Much: When You Keep Wishing and Hoping He'll ChangeBe sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:@torahcents @curved2cuffed

Send episode requests hereWe live in a time where women have more choices than ever before. We can buy our own property…we can go to school for whatever…we can choose our own careers, we can play professional sports. We can even go to war if we want to. And  even with all of these modern freedoms…we still have societal chains that keep us in bondage……that keeps us from TRULY being who we want to be and DOING what we want to do. And this directly impacts our ability to have deep, authentic dating experiences and abundant, expansive love lives. In today’s episode, I expose how Women of Faith have allowed the “Good Girl Complex” to keep them small in their love lives. We are trading our personal freedom to be slaves to our comfort zone and for people pleasing and male approval.  And it’s destroying the way we live and love because of fear and shame. HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: . What it means to “fall in love” and why you should be doing it as often as possible while dating. How Caresha (Young Miami) chose her own romantic path, but is still triggered by it.  The real reason why “good girls” police other women’s life choices concerning her body, sex and dating practices. The truth of how following male relationship gurus really condition you to stay under male domination and control.Why men will praise you for being “wife material”, but never try to make you their wife. Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:@torahcents @curved2cuffed

Send episode requests hereBeen having a lot of interesting conversations with new clients about why they believe they haven’t been attracting quality men. Funny thing is…when I listen to their complaints during our coaching sessions…summa the ladies don’t really have much evidence to support their beliefs. They’re truly convinced that their biggest problem is not being able to attract quality men. Maybe it is…maybe it isn’t.In today’s episode, we’re gonna have a conversation about your ability to attract quality men. Together we’re gonna uncover whether you have a real issue attracting them or if it’s simply a delusion. HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: . The real reason why you believe you aren’t able to attract high-quality menThe truth bomb I drop that is confusing at first, but provides true clarity on why you may or may have not been able to attract quality men. The bare bones explanation of what a quality man is and the traits they usually possess. Several professional “diagnoses” that may be contributing to why you find it hard to meet, attract and build romantic relationships with quality menExamples of practical actions my clients have taken (and you can too) to expand their capacity to attract quality men almost immediately FEATURED ON THE SHOWDate With Cents Episode #2: What is a Quality ManBe sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:@torahcents @curved2cuffed

Send episode requests hereBecoming the sun in your love life changes everything.Most women are floating through dating…Responding to texts because they feel like they have to.Going exclusive because he brought it up.Feeling overwhelmed because men want their time.Saying yes when they really want to say no.That’s not power.That’s the sunken place.In today’s episode, I break down what it actually means to become the “SUN” in your love life solar system — and why most women are unconsciously living at the mercy of men, time, and outside opinions.It’s time to take your throne. HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER:·       How women are conditioned to be people pleasers, nice girls, and validation seekers in dating·       The powerful solar system analogy that will completely shift how you view your love life·       How to stop letting men’s actions cause knee-jerk emotional reactions·       What it really looks like to take 100% responsibility for your love life·       How to generate your own energy instead of claiming you’re too tired to date·       Why time doesn’t control you — you control time The simple but life-changing question that helps you reclaim your power:**What do I desire?** Book a sales call HERE to learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me. Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:@torahcents @curved2cuffed 

Send episode requests hereYou've convinced yourself it's bad luck, that there are no good men in your city, that maybe you're just not the kind of woman men commit to. But you don't have bad luck—you have untrained discernment.In this episode, I'm breaking down the exact framework to savagely vet a man in 30 days before you get attached. You'll discover the four things to evaluate instead of your feelings , why smart women still end up with men who fail all four, and the next layer most people miss—the 3 I's that separate a man who behaves well from a man who's actually right for you.Ready to stop wasting six months on men who showed you everything in week two?The doors are open to my signature program, Curved 2 Cuffed.ENROLL HERE BEFORE MARCH 1STInside C2C, I help you build a rotation of 2-3 commitment ready men in 90 days…who will pursue you for marriage.The program includes 12 months of access to curriculum, weekly coaching calls, weekly workshops, daily dating support, on-demand conversation and profile reviews, and more.​The investment is $3,000 one time or 6 payments of $550. Get your coins ready because we’ve got work to do.ENROLL HERE BEFORE MARCH 1STFollow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed 

Send episode requests hereIn this episode, I'm breaking down the W.O.R.D. Method…a four-step framework for when men break their word so you stop spiraling, over-explaining, or blaming yourself. You'll discover why security doesn't come from men keeping their word (it comes from how fast you respond when they don't), the Good Girl Reflex that makes you audit yourself instead of his behavior, and the difference between a man who's trying and a man who's performing trying to run out the clock.Ready to stop being broken by broken promises?The doors are open to my signature program, Curved 2 Cuffed.ENROLL HERE BEFORE MARCH 1STInside C2C, I help you build a rotation of 2-3 commitment ready men in 90 days…who will pursue you for marriage.The program includes 12 months of access to curriculum, weekly coaching calls, weekly workshops, daily dating support, on-demand conversation and profile reviews, and more.​The investment is $3,000 one time or 6 payments of $550. Get your coins ready because we’ve got work to do.ENROLL HERE BEFORE MARCH 1STFollow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed 

Send episode requests hereAny woman can get married—that's not hard to do.The problem is the kind of marriages we walk into. Too many good girls are getting chosen because we're "wife material," which really means agreeable, low maintenance, and easy to keep. Then we end up crying on TikTok about husbands who forget our birthdays for 10 years straight or refuse to buy us carrot cake because they don't like it.In this episode, I'm breaking down my 10 dating rules for recovering good girls who want marriage this year…not just any marriage, but one where you're pursued, honored, respected, served, and supported long after the wedding. You'll discover why men can't repeat the same mistake twice in the first 30 days, what to do when a man cancels 20 minutes before a date, and the one question to ask before going exclusive that most women skip entirely.Ready to stop being easy to keep and start being impossible to replace? It starts with my free training: Attract 3 Commitment Ready Boyfriends in 90 Days. Happening On: Sunday, February 15th, 2026REGISTER HEREOnce you register, you will receive a confirmation email with the link to the free training.What you'll learn:🔥 The 3-part dating strategy that helps you get pursued by the right men—without chasing, over-giving, or performing for a man’s approval. 🔥 How to meet commitment-ready, high-quality men ANYWHERE—even if you’re convinced they don’t exist in your city.🔥 How to be unforgettable on dates and in conversation—without doing “the most” or feeling like a “pick-me”🔥 Why being “a good woman” isn’t enough—and the mindset shift that makes men compete to commit to you.After the training,  we will open the doors to my signature program, Curved 2 Cuffed.Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed 

Send episode requests hereEarlier this week, I made a post about meeting 50 men per month if I wanted to go from no dates to engaged by the end of the year—and the girls lost their minds. "Where are we supposed to get 50 men?" "I can barely talk to two men!" "This seems counterproductive!" So I brought on my friend Kimberly, a dating coach and matchmaker in Atlanta who helps women land high-earning, high-caliber men.In this episode, we're breaking down why 50 men is actually nothing when you understand dating like a funnel, where these men actually spend their time (hint: not at speed dating events), and why most of you have filled your calendar with responsibilities that don't have to be there. You'll discover what matchmakers know about men in their 50s vs. women in their 50s, why focusing on a man's looks keeps you jumping through hoops for attention, and the exact events you should be attending instead of your girls trip to Jamaica.Ready to stop wasting your youth on men who aren't giving you what you need?It starts with my free training: Attract 3 Commitment Ready Boyfriends in 90 Days. Happening On: Sunday, February 15th, 2026REGISTER HEREOnce you register, you will receive a confirmation email with the link to the free training.What you'll learn:🔥 The 3-part dating strategy that helps you get pursued by the right men—without chasing, over-giving, or performing for a man’s approval. 🔥 How to meet commitment-ready, high-quality men ANYWHERE—even if you’re convinced they don’t exist in your city.🔥 How to be unforgettable on dates and in conversation—without doing “the most” or feeling like a “pick-me”🔥 Why being “a good woman” isn’t enough—and the mindset shift that makes men compete to commit to you. After the training,  we will open the doors to my signature program, Curved 2 Cuffed.Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed 

Send episode requests hereWe've been told that at a certain age, especially as Black women, our options dry up. That if you're divorced, over 35, a single mom, or plus-sized, you should just take what you can get. But I'm 38, divorced, and I only date men who invest in me—emotionally AND financially.In this episode, I'm breaking down exactly what shifted for me to get here. You'll discover why trying to prove you're "not a gold digger" attracts the bottom of the barrel, what happens when you start asking for everything (even when you can afford it yourself), and why the men who tell you "men won't do that" are just telling you what they won't do.Ready to stop playing small and start receiving what you actually want? It starts with my free training: Attract 3 Commitment Ready Boyfriends in 90 Days. Happening On: Sunday, February 15th, 2026REGISTER HEREOnce you register, you will receive a confirmation email with the link to the free training.What you'll learn:🔥 The 3-part dating strategy that helps you get pursued by the right men—without chasing, over-giving, or performing for a man’s approval. 🔥 How to meet commitment-ready, high-quality men ANYWHERE—even if you’re convinced they don’t exist in your city.🔥 How to be unforgettable on dates and in conversation—without doing “the most” or feeling like a “pick-me”🔥 Why being “a good woman” isn’t enough—and the mindset shift that makes men compete to commit to you. After the training,  we will open the doors to my signature program, Curved 2 Cuffed.Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed 

Send episode requests hereYou got more questions, I have more answers. Tune into this week's Q&A where I cover real questions like how to know when a man has earned exclusivity (spoiler: it's not about how many dates you've been on) to why you keep attracting the same type of men over and over again. You'll hear what to do when you live somewhere with limited dating options, how to meet men at the gym without forcing conversation, and when to cut off a man the second you see misalignment.Ready to stop hoping things work out and start being strategic about your love life? Listen now for answers to the questions keeping you stuck.If you’re ready to build your 2026 Roster this yearIt starts with my free training: Attract 3 Commitment Ready Boyfriends in 90 Days. Happening On: Sunday, February 15th, 2026REGISTER HEREOnce you register, you will receive a confirmation email with the link to the free training.What you'll learn:🔥 The 3-part dating strategy that helps you get pursued by the right men—without chasing, over-giving, or performing for a man’s approval. 🔥 How to meet commitment-ready, high-quality men ANYWHERE—even if you’re convinced they don’t exist in your city.🔥 How to be unforgettable on dates and in conversation—without doing “the most” or feeling like a “pick-me”🔥 Why being “a good woman” isn’t enough—and the mindset shift that makes men compete to commit to you. After the training,  we will open the doors to my signature program, Curved 2 Cuffed.Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed 

Send episode requests hereIt's January and you've probably already had the thought: "I want this to be the year I get engaged" Maybe you said that last year too….and the year before that. Every December you look back and nothing really changed. You went on a few dates, maybe talked to a few guys, maybe had something that felt like it was going somewhere and then it just... didn't.In this episode, I'm giving you the complete 6-step plan to go from where you are right now to engaged by the end of the year. You'll discover why what you've been doing isn't working (hint: it's not bad luck or "the men in your city"), the one skill you need to focus on that's actually holding you back, and how to date multiple quality men without getting attached while letting the right one prove himself over time.Ready to stop hoping things will magically work out and start following an actual plan? Listen now to get your 6-step roadmap.Book a sales call HERE to learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me.Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed 

Send episode requests hereMost women are out here dating without any kind of plan….just swiping and hoping something works out, going on dates and hoping he's the one. But hope is not a strategy. Hope is how you end up years into this with nothing to show for it.In this episode, I'm breaking down my complete dating strategy for 2026—and it's totally different from last year. You'll discover what I'm letting go of (including dating for physical attraction and feeling sorry for men), the three skills I'm sharpening at a higher level, and why working with a former sugar baby as my mentor is going to make me a better coach for you.Work with me to stop dating without direction and start getting the results you actually want.Book a sales call HERE to learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me.Learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me. Book a sales call HERE to speak with me. Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed 

Send episode requests hereMost dating advice says to guard your heart, stay unbothered, and avoid getting too emotionally involved. But for me, true connection means being fully open and expressive—I fall in love without holding back, and I do it without getting attached.In this episode, I share the mindset shifts and simple steps I follow to stay grounded and true to myself when I meet a new man I’m excited about. Tune in to find out how I experience love in a way that’s both passionate and secure, letting me connect without losing myself.Interested in working with me 1:1? Work with me to experience love in a way that’s open, exciting, and free from unhealthy attachment.Book a sales call to learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me. Book a sales call HERE to speak with me. OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:Learn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual WorkshopRead my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed 

Send episode requests hereMy client Dr. Juliet went from dating men who couldn't afford to send her an Uber to having wealthy men send her gifts just for rescheduling a date.In two months, she went from less than one date per week to 22 video calls in November alone with high-caliber men begging for exclusivity after the first date.In this episode, Dr. Juliet breaks down what actually shifted that took her from "the unlucky girl who never gets that kind of guy" to having multiple accomplished men competing for her attention. After listening, you'll understand why performing for men keeps quality guys away while being present makes them obsessed, how celebrating canceled dates creates more abundance than spiraling ever will, and what it actually takes to go from church girl to dream girl.Work with me to stop being the girl next door who he friendzones and become his dream girlBook a sales call HERE to learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me.Learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me.Book a sales call HERE to speak with me. Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed 

Send episode requests hereWondering what it takes to be surrounded by men who invest in you mentally, emotionally, and financially? This episode is full of gems of how to inspire men to adore you and add tangible value to your life. OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:Read my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed 

Send episode requests hereMy bestie Dr. Jasmyne went from never asking men for help with her luggage to having a pilot chase her through the airport offering to buy her whatever she wants. The shift happened in less than one week—and it started with something as simple as letting a man put her bag in the overhead bin.In this episode, Dr. Jasmyne joins me to talk about what actually happened on our trip to Orlando and Nashville that had millionaires at our table, a prominent head coach adjusting his game schedule around us, and wealthy men treating us like we were the only women in the room. She's breaking down the exact moments that changed how she sees herself and what she now expects from men.After listening, you'll understand why the tiniest shifts in how you move through the world can completely change the caliber of men who pursue you—and what's keeping you from experiencing this level of attention right now.Join my Attract Him Online 30 Day Challenge HEREConnect with my friend, Dr. Jazmyne HEREFollow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed 

Send episode requests hereI can talk to 40 men in a week, carry on conversations with five or six at a time, swipe multiple times a day, run a multiple six-figure business, go to pole class, date, and live my life…all without getting drained or frustrated.When I tell people this, they ask "Torah, how are you not burnt out?" The answer? It's my mindset. I think differently about what's happening on the apps, and that changes everything.In this episode, I'm sharing the three mindset shifts that keep me magnetic, energized, and successful on dating apps while other women are deleting them out of frustration.You'll discover why focusing on the "wrong" men is draining your energy and what to do instead so you can stay in momentum instead of feeling stuck.After listening, you'll understand how to stop making everything on the apps a problem, how to turn every unmatch and fizzled conversation into valuable data instead of disappointment, and why experimenting instead of complaining is the key to actually meeting quality men.Ready to stop deleting apps out of frustration and start building the skill that gets you actual dates?Join my Attract Him Online 30 Day Challenge HEREFollow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed 

Send episode requests hereI've been posting all the evidence this week on my Instagram stories…the caliber of men reaching out to me, the quality of dates I'm going on, the matches I'm getting…and many are asking "Torah, how are you doing this?”In this episode, I'm pulling back the curtain on the exact things I do outside of my profile to make sure quality men pursue me with real effort and consistency.You'll discover the strategic moves most women completely overlook when using dating apps….and some of them are the exact opposite of what dating coaches tell you to do. I'm breaking down the tactical things I'm doing every single day that make accomplished, intentional men show up in my rotation instead of low-effort guys who can't plan a date.After listening, you'll understand why your current approach keeps you hidden from the men you actually want and what needs to change if you want to stop being frustrated and start getting pursued.Ready to stop deleting apps out of frustration and start building the skill that gets you actual dates?Join my Attract Him Online 30 Day Challenge HEREFollow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed 

Send episode requests hereYou've been told dating apps don't work, but what if the problem isn't the apps—it's how you're using them? I used to delete Tinder every few months out of frustration until I figured out the skill that changed everything. Now I go on intentional dates whenever I want (from the comfort of my couch) with men who plan, pursue, and show up like grown men.In this episode, I'm walking you through the exact mindset shift that separates women who stay invisible on dating apps from women who get quality men pursuing them consistently. You'll discover why your profile looks like everyone else's and what quality men are actually looking for when they decide to swipe right and invest their time.After listening, you'll understand the three missing pieces in your dating profile that are keeping accomplished, intentional men from even seeing you—and what needs to change if you want to stop getting low-effort matches and start getting real pursuit.Ready to stop deleting apps out of frustration and start building the skill that gets you actual dates?If you’re ready to stop deleting dating apps out of frustration and start developing actual skills that get you real results….Join my Attract Him Online 30 Day Challenge HEREConnect with my friend, Dr. Jazmyne HEREFollow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed 

Send episode requests hereI just went on five dates in one week—including a man who drove six hours just to meet me and another who planned a seven-hour experience complete with private dining. Three of these men… met them on Hinge. When I posted screenshots, women flooded my DMs saying "that can't be my Hinge" and "dating apps don't work for me." But here's the thing: dating apps are just tools, and if you don't know how to use them, you'll keep attracting the same low-effort men while quality guys scroll right past you.In this episode, I'm breaking down the five profile mistakes that are making you completely invisible to the accomplished, intentional men you actually want. I'm talking about the specific things you're doing right now that signal "broke boy energy" instead of attracting men who know how to pursue and plan incredible dates.You'll discover why your profile isn't working and what's keeping the right men from ever seeing you as someone worth pursuing…but I'm not telling you how to fix it in this episode.If you’re ready to stop deleting dating apps out of frustration and start developing actual skills that get you real results….Join my Free Attract Him Online Masterclass HEREFollow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed 

Send episode requests hereYou’re relying on your pretty pictures to sell you, but quality men need more than a nice smile to know you’re worth pursuing.If your dating profile isn’t pulling the kind of men you actually want, this episode is for youI’m breaking down the biggest mistakes women make on their profiles and why most are just throwing content up without any real strategy.You’ll hear me do live audits of three real profiles—showing exactly where women lose quality men’s attention and how to create an emotional experience from the first photo to the last.We’ll talk about why listing what you don’t want makes you sound jaded and how to use every inch of your profile to speak directly to the man you do want.By the end, you’ll know how to stop relying on looks alone and start creating a profile that makes high-quality men think, “She’s my dream woman.”If you’re ready to stop attracting low-effort men and start getting messages from men who actually match your standards…this episode will show you how.Join my Free Attract Him Online Masterclass HEREFollow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed 

Send episode requests here“How do I know whether I’m doing way too much with a man?” “How do I know whether I’m  giving too much of myself?”“How do I make sure I’m not overinvesting in a relationship that isn’t going anywhere?”These are all questions women ask when they are tired of giving their time, energy and hearts to men who didn’t earn it. I got some better questions for you to ask though…Tune in to this episode as I share 5 questions to ask yourself TODAY so that you give to men without ever giving pieces of yourself. HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: Why performing “wife-duties” for a boyfriend can be in your best interest.The secret to investing in men and relationships without ever feeling taken advantage of. How to give freely to men in abundance so that you benefit too. The best way to make romantic decisions that are best for you in any dating scenario. FEATURED ON THE SHOWCoach Faith’s Engagement Announcement Be sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:@torahcents @curved2cuffed

Send episode requests here“When is it going to be my turn?”“When am I finally going to meet my husband?”“Why can’t I be married already?”These are all questions that are asked by women who are attached to a destination…but not really taking responsibility for and honoring their journey at each milestone. They think…“Once I have this man…this commitment…this partnership..”“...It’s going to stop my disappointment, my loneliness, my exhaustion, my negative thoughts”“...And it’s going to make me feel more confident, secure, stable and loved. Little do they know that a man can’t do any of this for them.This is their responsibility. In today’s episode, I highlight how so many women give their power to create the love lives they desire over to men and how they can take their power back. HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: How our core beliefs trick us into believing that we need men to feel better. The importance of accepting where you are now in order to receive the relationship you desire. How focusing on men is distracting you from having the man you desire. Why you need to slow down, if you want to speed up towards your desired love life. What it looks like to take responsibility for your journey towards marriage so you can create the love life you desire. Why your relationship will fall apart, even if you find the man of your dreams. FEATURED ON THE SHOWEpisode #19 - Dating as a Single Mother with Christina DavidBe sure to get more dating gems by following me on Instagram at:@torahcents @curved2cuffed

Send episode requests here If you freeze up or get triggered when men ask you questions like “Why are Single” or “WYD?”, this episode breaks down the real reason this happens and how to flip the script completely. I'm sharing what's actually going on when men ask these questions, the mindset shift that changes everything about how you respond, and why your current approach is telling men they can get away with low effort. You'll learn how to stop getting caught off guard and start turning these moments into opportunities.I'll show you how to go from defensive and flustered to calm and confident when men try to test you.The doors are open to my signature program, Curved 2 Cuffed.ENROLL HERE BEFORE SEPT 28THInside C2C, I help you build a rotation of 2-3 commitment ready men in 90 days…who will pursue you for marriage.The program includes 12 months of access to curriculum, weekly coaching calls, weekly workshops, daily dating support, on-demand conversation and profile reviews, and more.​The investment is $3,000 one time or 6 payments of $550. Get your coins ready because we’ve got work to do.ENROLL HERE BEFORE SEPT 28TH 

Send episode requests hereHere’s the audio replay of my most recent live training: Build Your Rotation: Attract 3 Commitment-Ready Boyfriends in 90 DaysWhat you'll learn:🔥 The 3-part dating strategy that helps you get pursued by the right men—without chasing, over-giving, or performing for a man’s approval. 🔥 How to meet commitment-ready, high-quality men ANYWHERE—even if you’re convinced they don’t exist in your city.🔥 How to be unforgettable on dates and in conversation—without doing “the most” or feeling like a “pick-me”🔥 Why being “a good woman” isn’t enough—and the mindset shift that makes men compete to commit to you.This training also opens the  doors to my signature program, Curved 2 Cuffed where you learn the complete blueprint for going from no dates to dating a 3 commitment ready men in 90 days. Check it out and enroll HEREWant to watch the video version of this training? Go HERE to watch. Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed 

Send episode requests hereI hired a dating coach even though I literally AM a dating coach, and people are confused as hell about why I'd do that.If you're embarrassed about needing help with dating, this episode breaks down why investing in dating support- especially when you think you don't need to - separates extraordinary results from just good enough. I'm sharing the conversation that made me realize I was "undercoached," why I invested $24,000 to level up my skills, and how focusing on becoming the woman who naturally attracts what she wants changes everything. You'll learn why being ashamed of wanting support keeps you stuck with the same disappointing patterns.I'll show you how to stop settling for good enough and start believing extraordinary love is actually possible for you.If you're a woman who is ready to stop being embarrassed about needing help and start getting the dating results you actually want?….It starts with my free training: Attract 3 Commitment Ready Boyfriends in 90 Days. Happening On: Sunday, September 14th, 2025REGISTER HEREOnce you register, you will receive a confirmation email with the link to the free training.What you'll learn:🔥 The 3-part dating strategy that helps you get pursued by the right men—without chasing, over-giving, or performing for a man’s approval. 🔥 How to meet commitment-ready, high-quality men ANYWHERE—even if you’re convinced they don’t exist in your city.🔥 How to be unforgettable on dates and in conversation—without doing “the most” or feeling like a “pick-me”🔥 Why being “a good woman” isn’t enough—and the mindset shift that makes men compete to commit to you. After the training,  we will open the doors to my signature program, Curved 2 Cuffed.Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed 

Send episode requests hereIf you keep saying you want a successful, high-earning man but somehow never meet any, this episode breaks down the strategic mistake that's keeping you stuck in the same disappointing cycle. I'm sharing why it's not about your standards being too high or you not being good enough, plus the one shift that changes everything about the type of men who start showing up in your life. You'll learn how to stop hoping for different results while doing the same things and start being strategic about creating real opportunities.I'll show you how to redirect the time, money, and energy you're already spending into environments where meeting your type is actually possible.If you're a woman who is ready to stop living in your comfort zone and start showing up where quality men actually are….It starts with my free training: Attract 3 Commitment Ready Boyfriends in 90 Days. Happening On: Sunday, September 14th, 2025REGISTER HEREOnce you register, you will receive a confirmation email with the link to the free training.What you'll learn:🔥 The 3-part dating strategy that helps you get pursued by the right men—without chasing, over-giving, or performing for a man’s approval. 🔥 How to meet commitment-ready, high-quality men ANYWHERE—even if you’re convinced they don’t exist in your city.🔥 How to be unforgettable on dates and in conversation—without doing “the most” or feeling like a “pick-me”🔥 Why being “a good woman” isn’t enough—and the mindset shift that makes men compete to commit to you. After the training,  we will open the doors to my signature program, Curved 2 Cuffed.

Send episode requests hereIf you're constantly saying yes when you mean no, accepting last-minute cancellations with a smile, or pretending his low-effort bullshit is perfectly fine - you're abandoning yourself and wondering why dating feels exhausting.In this episode, I'm breaking down what self-abandonment actually looks like in dating, why your "good girl" programming keeps you stuck with men who don't value you, and my S.T.A.N.D. framework that stops you from betraying yourself in real time. You'll learn how standing up for yourself doesn't scare away good men - it actually makes you magnetic to the ones who want to invest in you properly.I'll show you how to stop performing for approval and start advocating for yourself so you can finally attract men who pursue you the way you've always wanted to be pursued.If you're a woman who is ready to stop accepting crumbs and start requiring men's best effort….It starts with my free training: Attract 3 Commitment Ready Boyfriends in 90 Days. Happening On: Sunday, September 14th, 2025REGISTER HEREOnce you register, you will receive a confirmation email with the link to the free training.What you'll learn:🔥 The 3-part dating strategy that helps you get pursued by the right men—without chasing, over-giving, or performing for a man’s approval. 🔥 How to meet commitment-ready, high-quality men ANYWHERE—even if you’re convinced they don’t exist in your city.🔥 How to be unforgettable on dates and in conversation—without doing “the most” or feeling like a “pick-me”🔥 Why being “a good woman” isn’t enough—and the mindset shift that makes men compete to commit to you. After the training,  we will open the doors to my signature program, Curved 2 Cuffed.Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed 

Send episode requests hereBroke men don't just stumble into your life by accident - they show up because they can sense which women will tolerate their inability to provide.If you keep attracting men who either expect you to fund the relationship or can't afford to match your lifestyle, this episode breaks down why this pattern keeps happening and how to flip the script completely. I'm sharing the real reason your success mindset is working against you in dating and my five Provider Proof tests that separate men who want to provide from men who want you to be their personal ATM.You'll learn how to stop being the woman who fixes and start being the woman who receives.If you're a woman who is ready to stop funding grown men and start dating men who actually invest in you….It starts with my free training: Attract 3 Commitment Ready Boyfriends in 90 Days. Happening On: Sunday, September 14th, 2025REGISTER HEREOnce you register, you will receive a confirmation email with the link to the free training.What you'll learn:🔥 The 3-part dating strategy that helps you get pursued by the right men—without chasing, over-giving, or performing for a man’s approval. 🔥 How to meet commitment-ready, high-quality men ANYWHERE—even if you’re convinced they don’t exist in your city.🔥 How to be unforgettable on dates and in conversation—without doing “the most” or feeling like a “pick-me”🔥 Why being “a good woman” isn’t enough—and the mindset shift that makes men compete to commit to you. After the training,  we will open the doors to my signature program, Curved 2 Cuffed.Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed 

Send episode requests hereMy ex came back (Latin Papi)In this episode, I'm breaking down exactly how I'm handling this situation, including my five-step repair plan that lets me enjoy what works between us while protecting my peace. You'll learn the difference between repair and reconciliation, why trusting patterns over promises keeps you out of fantasy, and how the right boundaries actually give you more freedom instead of less.I'm sharing the blueprint for handling any ex who tries to come back into your life without losing yourself in the process.If you're a woman who wants to handle your messy ex situations with in way that feels powerful and confident to you…Join the waitlist for C2C. Click Here To Join the WaitlistFollow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed 

Send episode requests hereAt 40 years old, Dr. Courtney had been single most of her life, hadn't dated anyone in six months, and was drowning in dissertation anxiety while dealing with a nightmare tenant situation.Fast forward just five months later and she's now Dr. Douglas with multiple quality men traveling hours just to take her on dates, including one who performed magic tricks for her during an 11-hour first date. In this episode, she shares her complete transformation from someone who felt like a "late bloomer" weirdo to a woman who attracts high-earning nerdy men who show up with intention and genuine care. You'll hear how she cleared seven years of dissertation paralysis, handled a squatter situation, and simultaneously created a thriving dating life that feels regulating, expansive, and playful.She reveals why being inexperienced at 40 became her secret advantage and how clearing mental drama in other life areas actually accelerated her dating success rather than slowing it down.If you're a woman who feels like you've missed your turn or waited too long to figure out love…Join the waitlist for C2C. Click Here To Join the WaitlistFollow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed  

Send episode requests hereYou got more questions, I have more answers. Tune into this week's Q&A where I cover real questions like how to handle men who repeat the same annoying mistakes, what to do when your ex comes back wanting another chance, how to communicate your needs without becoming passive, and how to know if your walkaway power is too strong.We also talk about managing expectations when dating feels too good to be true, entering new relationships when your life feels messy, and how to improve your vetting skills to filter out the wrong men...and more!If you’re ready to date deliciously and confidently attract men who serve and support you…Join the Relationship Roster Challenge HERE.Join the waitlist for C2C. Click Here To Join the WaitlistFollow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed 

Send episode requests hereYou finally have multiple men pursuing you, but now you don't know what the hell to do with them ... .so you're either picking whoever texts back fastest or stressing yourself out trying to be "fair" to everyone.Most women think the goal is just getting men's attention, but the real challenge is knowing how to handle it when you actually have choices. You end up settling for the first guy who's consistent or getting overwhelmed and picking based on who gives you butterflies instead of who's actually right for you.I'm breaking down exactly what to do when you have real options so you stop making decisions from panic and start choosing the man who actually fits your life.If you're tired of having options but still ending up with the wrong man….Join the Relationship Roster Challenge HERE.Join the waitlist for C2C. Click Here To Join the WaitlistFollow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed 

Send episode requests hereYou're getting attention, good morning texts, and flirty conversations—but he never actually asks you out, and you're sitting there wondering what the hell happened.You know he's attracted to you. The conversation flows. He seems interested. But weeks go by and you're still just texting while he never makes real plans. You're confused why he acts like he wants you but won't actually do anything about it.I'm breaking down the three real reasons why men who seem interested suddenly go cold or stay stuck in text mode, and what you need to do to become the woman they actually chase instead of just string along.If you're tired of men who act interested but never follow through…Join the Relationship Roster Challenge HERE.Join the waitlist for C2C. Click Here To Join the WaitlistFollow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: @torahcents @curved2cuffed