Dateless in Delray

“He’s a narcissist.” “She’s borderline.” “My ex is toxic.” Mental health terminology has become part of modern dating—but are we actually recognizing disorders, or simply labeling people who hurt or disappoint us?Susan Shoer talks with Frederic Bien, President of the Personality Disorders Awareness Network (PDAN), about the difference between difficult personality traits and diagnosable personality disorders, how emotional dysregulation and attachment patterns can affect relationships, and why understanding someone’s behavior doesn’t mean excusing unhealthy or hurtful treatment.They also explore boundaries, relationship instability, fear of abandonment, the tendency to diagnose our dates, and whether people with personality disorders can have healthy, loving relationships. Learn more and find resources at pdan.org.

That irresistible spark may feel like love—but sometimes it’s your nervous system recognizing something familiar.Susan Shoer talks with Pavini Moray, PhD, somatic coach and Relational Life Therapy practitioner, about the body’s role in attraction, desire, attachment and relationship patterns. They explore why intense chemistry can sometimes be confused with compatibility, how past experiences can shape who we’re drawn to, and what it means to feel genuinely safe and connected with another person.Pavini also shares how somatic awareness can help us recognize old patterns, make more conscious relationship choices, and understand the difference between excitement, anxiety, lust and lasting intimacy.Learn more about Pavini at pavinimoray.com.

Can a marriage thrive when one partner is monogamous and the other is polyamorous?In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer sits down with Courtney and Nate, The MonoPoly Couple, to discuss the unconventional relationship that's captured attention online. Married for 17 years, they began navigating a mono-poly dynamic just four years ago after Courtney realized she was polyamorous while Nate remained monogamous.Together, they share how they navigate jealousy, boundaries, trust, and communication, challenge common misconceptions about polyamory, and explain why honesty and emotional safety matter in every relationship.Whether you agree with their relationship style or not, this conversation offers fresh insights into love, commitment, and what it takes to build a partnership that works for both people.Can a marriage thrive when one partner is monogamous and the other is polyamorous?In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer sits down with Courtney and Nate, The MonoPoly Couple, to discuss the unconventional relationship that's captured attention online. Married for 17 years, they began navigating a mono-poly dynamic just four years ago after Courtney realized she was polyamorous while Nate remained monogamous.Together, they share how they navigate jealousy, boundaries, trust, and communication, challenge common misconceptions about polyamory, and explain why honesty and emotional safety matter in every relationship.Whether you agree with their relationship style or not, this conversation offers fresh insights into love, commitment, and what it takes to build a partnership that works for both people.

Why do two people who genuinely care about each other so often end up feeling misunderstood?In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer sits down with relationship and intimacy specialists Naomi Jordan and Martin Pemberton, co-creators of The Space Between® Approach, to explore the invisible lessons men and women learn about love long before they ever enter a relationship.They call it "Boy School" and "Girl School"—the unspoken emotional education that shapes how we communicate, handle conflict, express vulnerability, and seek connection. Through humor, honesty, and real-life examples, Naomi and Martin reveal why so many relationship struggles aren't caused by incompatibility, but by two very different emotional languages colliding.Whether you're dating, married, divorced, or looking for love after 50, this eye-opening conversation will help you better understand yourself, your partner, and why good people can keep missing each other—even when love is there.

Are dating apps on life support?After years of endless swiping, ghosting, and burnout, more singles are asking a different question: Is there a better way to meet people? In this episode of Dateless in Delray, relationship coach and dating strategist Scot MacKay joins Susan Shoer to explore why so many people are walking away from the apps—and what comes next.Together, they discuss the growing frustration with online dating, why technology alone can't create chemistry, and how today's singles can use AI, social media, communities, and real-world opportunities to build authentic connections. Scot also shares practical strategies for creating a dating life that doesn't revolve around algorithms—and why the future of dating may look a lot more human than digital.Whether you're ready to delete the apps or simply want to date smarter, this conversation offers fresh insight, hope, and actionable advice for finding love in a changing world.

Love doesn’t end when someone dies—and according to psychic medium, life coach, and author Susan Anderson, neither do the connections that matter most. In this fascinating episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan explores the idea that the loved ones we've lost may continue to guide, support, and even influence our lives from beyond.Drawing from her own experiences as a medium and the insights from her book, Communicating with Grace: The Awakening of a Psychic Medium, Susan shares stories of spiritual connection, signs from the other side, and how grief can sometimes open unexpected doors to healing, hope, and even new love. Whether you're a believer, a skeptic, or simply curious about what happens after loss, this thought-provoking conversation offers a fresh perspective on love, loss, and the enduring bonds that connect us. Learn more at SusanAnderson.net.

Many relationships struggle, not because of what we say, but because of what we fail to hear.In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer welcomes author, speaker, and relationship coach Hoady Spencer to discuss his book,"Listen Baby: A Man's Guide to Better Relationships." Hoady explains why genuine listening is one of the most overlooked—and transformative—skills in love. Together, they explore why people often listen to respond instead of understand, how emotional validation can strengthen intimacy, and the simple communication shifts that can dramatically improve romantic relationships. Whether you're dating, in a long-term partnership, or starting over after 50, this conversation offers practical insights for creating deeper trust, fewer misunderstandings, and stronger connections.If you've ever wanted to feel more understood—or become a better partner—this episode is full of wisdom you'll use long after the conversation ends.

Most men aren't struggling because they're "bad at dating"—they're making mistakes they don't even realize they're making.In this eye-opening episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan sits down with human sexuality expert Suki Nefertiti to unpack the most common dating mistakes men make—and how a few simple shifts can dramatically change the way they're perceived by women.From being basic, cheap, or performative to developing what Suki calls "Delicious DNA," this conversation explores attraction, confidence, emotional intelligence, and the qualities that create genuine connection. Drawing on psychology, evolutionary biology, and real-world dating experiences, Suki offers practical, often surprising advice that benefits men and women alike.Whether you're dating, coaching someone who is, or simply fascinated by modern relationships, this episode delivers fresh insights, plenty of laughs, and actionable takeaways you can use on your very next date.Get in touch with Suki: [email protected]

What really creates chemistry? Is the "spark" something you're lucky enough to find—or can it actually be cultivated?In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer sits down with Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Clinical Sexologist Anna Elton to unpack the psychology of attraction, desire, and lasting connection. Together, they explore why dating after 50 feels different, the biggest myths about chemistry and compatibility, how dating apps are reshaping our expectations, and what it really takes to keep passion alive in long-term relationships.Anna also introduces her Relational Desire Score, a practical framework for understanding the health of your relationships and identifying opportunities for deeper connection. Whether you're dating, rebuilding after divorce, or looking to reignite intimacy with your partner, this conversation offers fresh insights grounded in both research and clinical experience.Learn more about Anna, her books, workshops, and relationship resources at DrAnnaElton.com and TheFormulaOfDesire.com, where you'll also find her online relationship and desire assessments designed to help you better understand yourself and your relationships.

Thirty-four years after Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus changed the conversation about relationships, bestselling author John Gray returns with surprising new insights into the hidden role hormones play in modern love.In this eye-opening episode, John reveals how estrogen and testosterone shape attraction, communication, intimacy, and even conflict. He explains why certain relationship dynamics naturally boost—or deplete—these powerful hormones and offers practical ways couples can create more passion, connection, and understanding.Whether you're dating, in a long-term relationship, or looking for love after 50, you'll discover why the chemistry between men and women is about far more than romance—and how understanding it can transform your relationships.

Reinvention isn’t just for brands—it’s for people, too. This week on Dateless in Delray, Susan sits down with Robin Fisher Roffer, one of the pioneers of personal branding and the founder of Big Fish Marketing, whose clients have included CNN, MTV, Discovery, and some of the biggest media brands in the world. Robin shares the lessons behind her bestselling books, including Make a Name for Yourself and her newest memoir, Plenty of Husbands, a candid and inspiring look at love, resilience, and finding your true path.From career pivots and personal reinvention to relationships, purpose, and the courage to embrace change at any age, Robin offers practical wisdom and unforgettable stories from a life spent helping others discover—and tell—their greatest story. Learn more at bigfishmarketing.com.

What if the secret to finding the right relationship starts with you — not with the right app, the right profile, or the right opener?This week, host Susan Shore sits down with two remarkable women from very different corners of the wellness world: Marla Past, full-spectrum health coach, author, hypnotherapist, and meditation teacher; and Julie Shanebrook, founder and CEO of ChillRx Med Spa in Delray Beach. Both have turned personal struggles into powerful careers helping others feel better from the inside out.Together, they explore the surprising and deeply personal connections between physical health, emotional well-being, self-confidence, and our ability to build meaningful relationships. The conversation covers:How cryotherapy, infrared sauna, and contrast therapy work — and why reducing inflammation can quiet anxiety and shift your entire outlookThe law of attraction and vibration: why becoming the person you want to attract is more than just a mantraMarla's journey from childhood obesity and decades-long battle with bulimia to becoming a guide for others navigating life's hardest transitionsJulie's breast cancer journey, how her own wellness tools carried her through, and her moving tribute to the women who came before herHyperbaric oxygen therapy and the science of healing from the inside outWhy "degunk" might be the most honest relationship advice you'll ever hearWhether you're recovering from heartbreak, reentering the dating world, or simply trying to feel more like yourself again, this episode is a reminder that the healthiest relationships start with a healthy relationship with you.Connect with our guests:Marla Past: marlapast.orgChillRx Med Spa: chillrx.net | Instagram: @ChillRxMedSpa | [email protected] the episode? Follow, leave a review, or reach out at [email protected]

A lot of men believe they're doing everything right in dating—being accommodating, avoiding conflict, and letting women take the lead. But according to relationship author Elliott Katz, some of those well-intentioned behaviors may actually be pushing women away.In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan chats with Elliott, author of Being the Strong Man a Woman Wants, and How To Get Your Man to Wear the Pants So You Don't Have To, to explore the most common dating mistakes men make and why confidence, decisiveness, and leadership still matter in modern relationships. Whether you're dating, married, or simply trying to understand the opposite sex a little better, this lively conversation offers timeless insights into attraction, respect, and connection. Find out more at elliottkatz.com

What if the real barrier to intimacy isn’t finding the right person—but learning how to be honest with the one you’re with?In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer sits down with Sara Perry for a candid, thoughtful conversation about the parts of relationships most people avoid. Sara is a somatic sex coach and founder of Haven Space Coaching. She works with individuals and couples navigating trauma, chronic pain, and complicated relationships with intimacy—bringing a shame-free, consent-centered approach to pleasure and connection.Together, they explore what it really means to communicate desires, set boundaries, and create intimacy that goes beyond surface-level connection.In this episode, they discuss:• The truth about non-monogamy and why it’s often misunderstood• How somatic sex therapy helps people reconnect with their bodies• Why honesty—not chemistry—is the foundation of real intimacy• How to talk about desires, boundaries, and difficult topics without fearThis is an honest, eye-opening conversation about connection, communication, and giving yourself permission to want what you want.

From ghosting and mixed signals to turning matches into real relationships, author and podcast host Lopaze Lasane joins Dateless in Delray to reveal the dirty little secrets behind modern online dating. In this candid and entertaining episode, we dive into dating app frustration, attraction psychology, communication mistakes, and what it really takes to make love click in today’s swipe-right world.Plus, check out Lopaze’s book, Love at First Click: Dirty Little Secrets to Succeed at Modern Online Dating, and his Love Can’t Wait Podcast for more unfiltered conversations about dating, relationships, and modern love.

Sugar dating. Luxury lifestyles. Clear expectations. Transactional romance… or just radical honesty about modern relationships?In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan sits down with Patrick Fletcher of Sugar Matchmaking — a premium, highly screened matchmaking service for affluent men and elite women — along with returning guest Nikki from the Secrets of a Sugar Daddy podcast, who shares her firsthand perspective as a sugar baby navigating this unconventional world.From mentorship and power dynamics to attraction, authenticity, money, and modern dating expectations, this conversation dives deeper into one of the most talked-about — and misunderstood — corners of today’s dating culture.Whether you’re fascinated, skeptical, curious, or quietly taking notes… this episode pulls back the curtain.Learn more about Patrick Fletcher and Sugar Matchmaking at https://sugarmatchmaking.com

What really happens behind the velvet curtain of a “sugar” relationship—and why are more people quietly stepping into this world than ever before? In this provocative and eye-opening episode of Dateless in Delray, I sit down with Marcus, the voice behind the Secrets of a Sugar Daddy podcast, to pull back the curtain on modern arrangements, power dynamics, and the unspoken rules that govern them.Marcus doesn’t hold back. From how these relationships actually begin, to what both sides really want (and often won’t admit), to the biggest misconceptions people have about sugar dating—this conversation goes far beyond the stereotypes. We get into money, control, emotional boundaries, and the fine line between fantasy and reality.Whether you’re curious, skeptical, or secretly intrigued, this episode offers a rare, insider perspective that challenges what you think you know about love, intimacy, and transactional relationships in today’s dating landscape.Want more unfiltered insights? Follow Marcus on https://www.patreon.com/SecretsofaSugarDaddyPodcast for exclusive content and one-on-one coaching on navigating the world of arrangements.Follow Dateless in Delray on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts—and if this episode makes you think (or rethink), please share it with a friend and leave a review.

What does emotional intelligence have to do with dating? Quite a lot.In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer talks with Alla Esther Levy—Certified Emotional Intelligence Strategist, Minister of Spiritual Healing, and founder of the EIEQ Institute—about how self-awareness, empathy, and emotional regulation can dramatically improve communication and connection in relationships.Alla also shares insights from her book Level of Crazy: A Five-Step Guide to Emotional Intelligence and Transformational Leadership, exploring how understanding our emotional patterns can help us grow, laugh at ourselves, and show up more authentically in love and life. Learn more about Alla’s work at: https://www.eieqinstitute.com

What happens when the love story you believed in turns out to be something else entirely?In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan sits down with Dianne Harris—coach, survivor, and author of Love Bomb: He Sold Her a Dream and Delivered a Nightmare—to unpack the emotional rollercoaster of manipulation, misplaced trust, and ultimately… reclaiming your power.Dianne shares her deeply personal story of being swept into what felt like a dream relationship, only to discover the darker reality beneath it. Together, we explore the red flags of love bombing, why smart, self-aware women still fall for it, and how to rebuild confidence, boundaries, and trust after the fallout.This is a conversation about resilience, self-worth, and learning to trust yourself again—especially in today’s complicated dating landscape.If you’ve ever questioned your instincts, ignored red flags, or found yourself asking “How did I get here?”—this episode is for you.Learn more about Dianne’s coaching at dianneharris.comGet her book here: Love Bomb: He Sold Her a Dream and Delivered a Nightmare https://a.co/d/0hqNrNz7Follow Dateless in Delray on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you listen—and don’t forget to leave a review or share with someone who needs to hear this.

What makes love last?Susan Shoer sits down with Elyse Ryan — founder of Elyse Ryan Jewelry and host of Stacked — to talk about long marriage, ambition, intimacy, and evolving partnership. They explore emotional safety, attraction over time, and why commitment can deepen rather than limit identity.A thoughtful conversation about the craftsmanship of lasting love.

What happens when the person producing fairy-tale romances for television has to rewrite her own love story?In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer talks with Julie LaPlaca, longtime Bachelor TV show franchise producer and author of the upcoming memoir The Love Producer. After more than two decades creating reality TV’s most dramatic love stories, Julie stepped away to rethink love, career, and the pressure of life timelines.They discuss what really happens behind the scenes of reality TV romance, how those narratives shape our expectations about relationships, and how Julie reinvented her life and work using hypnotherapy and other techniques to help people reconnect with their intuition and create more authentic lives. It’s a candid conversation about fantasy vs. reality, personal reinvention, and becoming the producer of your own life and love story.

Sex therapist and Please Me podcast host Eve Hall joins Susan Shoer for a candid conversation about desire, mismatched libidos, midlife sexuality, and consensual non-monogamy.They unpack myths about compatibility, why communication is the foundation of intimacy, and what people misunderstand about “the lifestyle.” Thoughtful, grown-up, and grounded, this episode invites honest dialogue about pleasure and connection.

Is speed dating the antidote to swipe fatigue?Susan Shoer talks with longtime speed dating host Daniel Gudema about the history, evolution, and surprising effectiveness of live dating events. They explore why face-to-face chemistry still matters, common mistakes singles make, and whether meeting in real life beats algorithms.If you’re tired of swiping, this episode may change your strategy.

Are dating apps making connection harder instead of easier?In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer talks with Jeff Wulkan, founder of Plus 1, a platform designed to help people meet through shared experiences rather than endless swiping. Instead of matching profiles, Plus 1 encourages users to post plans—dinner, a concert, a workout, or an event—and choose someone to join them.Jeff shares what inspired him to rethink the dating app model, the biggest frustrations singles face today, and why real-world interaction may be making a comeback. They also discuss dating burnout, ghosting culture, and how shifting the focus from profiles to experiences might create more meaningful connections.If you’re tired of swiping and ready to rethink how people meet, this conversation offers a fresh perspective on the future of dating.

What do parenting skills and dating skills have in common? More than you think.Susan Shoer sits down with Jamie Levine — founder of Team Esteem and host of the Mom Esteem podcast — to explore how emotional intelligence shapes both parenting and partnership. From dating burnout to blended family life, Jamie shares why behavior is communication and how building self-esteem is essential before building a relationship.Insightful, practical, and refreshingly honest, this episode connects emotional awareness with modern love.

What happens after the podcast microphones turn off and real dating life continues? In this Dateless in Delray follow-up episode, Susan Shoer reunites with Stephanie Xintas and Bill Kavanov, two South Florida singles who were among the show’s very first guests, to find out what’s changed—and what hasn’t—over the past year. From dating apps and singles events to shifting priorities, evolving expectations, and a few laugh-out-loud dating stories, Stephanie and Bill share how another year of dating has reshaped their perspectives. The conversation explores growth, burnout, optimism, self-awareness, and the realities of staying open to love in today’s dating landscape. An honest, funny, and relatable episode for anyone wondering whether dating really gets easier—or just more interesting—with time.

In this episode of Dateless in Delray, I sit down with seasoned astrologer Susan Reynolds, who brings over 40 years of experience to the table. We explore how the stars influence our dating patterns, relationship timing, and personal growth. Susan demystifies astrology’s role in understanding relationship patterns, navigating heartbreak, and aligning with our true selves. Whether you’re skeptical or star-obsessed, this episode is a fascinating dive into how cosmic insight can offer a fresh lens on love and self-discovery.

In Palm Beach Unfiltered: Old Money, New Rules & Modern Matchmaking, we dive even deeper with Palm Beach matchmaker Rose Lambert. Building on our previous conversation, this episode reveals the hidden dynamics of love in one of America’s most exclusive enclaves. Rose shares candid insights on the evolving social rules, the interplay of old money and modern dating, and how genuine connection is forged amidst glamour and expectation. If you’re curious about what it really takes to find love in high society—or anywhere—this episode uncovers the heart beneath the glitz.

What happens when a relationship expert experiences the kind of heartbreak she never saw coming? In this deeply honest episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer sits down with Dr. Corey Seemiller—award-winning leadership professor, global generational expert, and TEDx speaker—to talk about love, loss, and rebuilding after everything falls apart. Despite widespread professional success, Corey’s long-term relationship ended abruptly, forcing her to confront heartbreak in a very personal way. Drawing on her research into emotionally intelligent relationships, attachment styles, boundaries, and generational dynamics, Corey shares how she transformed pain into clarity—and applied the same tools she taught in the workplace to dating, healing, and finding love again. The conversation explores why so many smart, accomplished people struggle in relationships, how emotional intelligence shapes romantic success, and what it really takes to move forward with hope instead of fear. Corey also discusses her book, The Soulmate Strategy: My Imperfect Plan to Conquer Heartbreak and Find True Love, launching February 10, 2026, a candid, research-backed roadmap for healing and opening yourself up to love again. A powerful episode for anyone navigating heartbreak, dating after loss, or learning how to build healthier, more intentional relationships—at any stage of life. Find it on Amazon https://www.amazon.com/Soulmate-Strategy-Imperfect-Conquer-Heartbreak/dp/B0FD8S2S4L or wherever you buy your books.

What if better dating isn’t about swiping more—but connecting smarter?In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer explores modern love at the intersection of human connection and technology with George Dubec and Joann Coffey. George, a master networker with over 40 years in the singles world and a 46-year marriage, explains why networking principles and real-world introductions often outperform dating apps. Joann brings a forward-looking lens on AI and technology in dating, along with deep life perspective shaped by raising 12 children. Together, they unpack compatibility vs. chemistry, standards vs. fear, and what it really means to date with intention in a tech-driven world.If you’re navigating modern dating and want clarity without losing the human element, this episode is for you.

What happens when two singles are dating from very different playbooks—but hoping for something real?In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer sits down with Carrie Brudner and Ryan Edwards for two candid, contrasting conversations about love, attraction, and intention in midlife.Carrie, in her 50s, knows exactly what she wants: a younger, great-looking man who has it all—confidence, chemistry, and lifestyle alignment. Ryan, in his mid-40s, is searching for something very different: a kind, grounded partner who shares his Christian values and vision for a meaningful relationship.On the surface, their dating goals couldn’t look more different. But as the conversations unfold, surprising common threads emerge—desire for connection, clarity, authenticity, and a relationship that actually works in real life.This episode explores:How age, attraction, and values shape dating choicesWhat men and women say they want vs. what they’re really seekingWhere modern dating creates tension—and where it reveals shared hopesWhy being clear about your non-negotiables matters more than everIf you’ve ever wondered whether love is about chemistry, compatibility, faith, timing—or all of the above—this episode will resonate.

Dating can be exhausting—the apps, the expectations, the overthinking, and the moments that make you wonder why you even left the house. In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer sits down with happiness and mindset expert Deborah Mallow, author of 6 Steps to Fewer Days That Suck, to talk about how small, practical mindset shifts can make modern dating feel lighter, healthier, and far less draining.Together, they explore why dating hits our mental health so hard, how overthinking sabotages promising connections, and why self-kindness and humor are underrated relationship tools. Deborah shares science-backed strategies to stop spiraling after a bad date, let go of perfection, and recover faster from rejection—without fake positivity or pretending dating doesn’t sting sometimes.If you’re tired of dating burnout and ready for fewer days (and dates) that suck, this episode delivers clarity, compassion, and a much-needed laugh.

Dating has always reflected the times we live in—from blind dates and advice columns to apps, algorithms, and artificial intelligence. In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer sits down with renowned Palm Beach matchmaker Rose Lambert to explore how matchmaking has evolved, what technology gets right (and wrong), and why human intuition still matters more than ever.With decades of experience helping accomplished men and women find lasting love long before dating apps existed, Rose shares how timeless matchmaking principles translate into today’s fast, swipe-driven culture. She also discusses her expanding mission to help younger daters navigate choice overload, dating fatigue, and emotional readiness in a digital-first world.This conversation bridges past and future, blending wisdom, strategy, and modern insight to answer a timely question: how do we create meaningful connection in an age of endless options?A must-listen for anyone curious about where dating has been—and where love is headed next.

Betrayal doesn’t just break trust in a relationship—it can shake your sense of safety, identity, and self-worth. In this powerful episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer sits down with Mr. Jay, relationship coach and betrayal trauma practitioner, to explore why betrayal cuts so deeply and what real healing actually looks like. Together, they unpack betrayal blindness, the hidden ways trust erodes, and how unresolved trauma can follow us into future relationships if left unexamined. Mr. Jay shares insight into rebuilding self-worth, setting healthy boundaries, and transforming pain into clarity and growth.This episode is for anyone navigating heartbreak, betrayal, or the fear of trusting again—and for those ready to move forward with strength, awareness, and intention. Learn more about Mr. Jay’s work at mrjayrelationshipcoach.com.

What if the secret to better dating—and deeper relationships—has nothing to do with chemistry, and everything to do with communication? In this episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Shoer talks with Laurie Schloff, Founder of Partners in Communication, Inc., and author of Smart Speaking and He & She Talk. Laurie is one of the nation’s top communication coaches, known for helping people express themselves clearly, listen with empathy, and communicate with confidence in every aspect of life—including love. Together, Susan and Laurie explore how our words, tone, and body language shape everything from first impressions to lasting connection. They share tools for speaking with intention, listening to truly understand, and navigating dating’s trickiest moments with courage and clarity. They discuss how to communicate authentically on dates and avoid misfires; the art of listening to connect—not just to respond; and how to express your needs without fear or apology. If you’ve ever wondered why good communication feels harder in love than in life, this episode will help you find your voice, speak your truth, and build real connection—one conversation at a time.

In this inspiring episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer sits down with powerhouse mentor, bestselling author, and faith-driven entrepreneur Kim S. Anderson. From her early career in NBA communications to leading Savvy Media, homeschooling four children, and empowering women around the world, Kim’s journey is one of reinvention, resilience, and purpose.Together, Susan and Kim explore the deeper work required to attract healthy love—breaking old patterns, rebuilding self-worth after heartbreak, and shifting from “waiting for love” to becoming truly ready to receive it. Kim shares insights from her signature program, The Pathway To Your Divine Perfect Mate, an 8-step system designed to help women heal, grow, and align with the relationship they deserve.This episode is a powerful blend of faith, strategy, and truth-telling for anyone navigating midlife transformation, singleness, dating, or rediscovering their worth.A must-listen for women ready to step confidently into their purpose—and into the love story meant for them

In this special crossover episode, Dateless in Delray teams up with Your Mental Highness as Susan Shoer sits down with psychologist Dr. Janné Lomasky to explore what really happens in the brain and body when we fall for someone. From the intoxicating rush of dopamine and “chemistry” to the emotional crash of heartbreak, Susan and Janné break down the neuroscience behind attraction, the nervous system’s role in love, and why modern dating can feel like an addictive rollercoaster. They also dive into Janne’s own dating experiences, the signals our bodies send before our minds catch up, and how to stay grounded, clear, and conscious while navigating connection in a swipe-first world. With humor, honesty, and a dose of science, this episode unpacks the highs, lows, and lessons of love in the modern age. A must-listen for anyone looking to elevate their awareness — and their love life.

In this eye-opening episode, Susan Shoer sits down with Joshua Shea, pornography addiction and betrayal trauma coach, to explore how hidden compulsive behavior can quietly unravel trust and intimacy in relationships. Joshua shares his own journey through addiction and recovery, the neuroscience behind compulsive porn use, and why betrayal trauma can feel as painful as infidelity.They dive into how partners can rebuild safety, how individuals can recognize the signs of addiction, and what healing looks like on both sides. Honest, compassionate, and deeply human, this episode brings clarity to one of the least talked about issues affecting modern dating and relationships.Learn more at ThatPornCoach.com.

This week on Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer welcomes Dr. Orest Komarnyckyj, host of Old Guy Talks To Me and founder of Hold the Door Coaching (drorestk.com), for a bold and refreshingly honest conversation about men, aging, and intimacy.After a 33-year career as a periodontal surgeon, Orest Komarnyckyj, reinvented himself as a mentor for men—helping them optimize health, rediscover confidence, and build what he calls “kick-ass lives for themselves and those they love.” This week on Dateless in Delray, Susan and Orest unpack the truth about testosterone, communication, and connection, while challenging outdated ideas of masculinity and aging. Discover:• How men can reclaim passion, purpose, and presence at any age• The real link between hormonal health and emotional connection• Why communication—not performance—is the foundation of intimacy• What women need to know about men’s vulnerability and confidenceIt’s candid, funny, and deeply insightful—a conversation for anyone ready to rewrite the rules of love and life after 50.Visit drorestk.com to learn more about Dr. Orest’s Hold the Door Coaching and his mission to help men live, love, and age boldly.

This week on Dateless in Delray, we’re revisiting one of our most inspiring and listener-favorite conversations — Curiosity, Courage & Connection with Louise Walker, Human Potential Coach and founder of Circle of Courage.Louise joined Susan from Australia to talk about the deeper side of dating: how curiosity opens doors, courage builds intimacy, and self-awareness transforms every relationship — starting with the one you have with yourself.And now, Louise is traveling to Florida to lead a live, in-person experience sponsored by Dateless in Delray:💛 Love By Design: A Courageous Dating & Real Connection ExperienceSaturday, November 15th | 1–5 PM | Space of Mind, Delray BeachThis four-hour immersive Enneagram Experience is for singles, couples, the happily solo, and anyone interested in self-discovery and authentic connection. Come learn your type, uncover your patterns, and design love by intention — not accident. A post-event happy hour at Dada keeps the connection flowing. Hope to see you there!🎟️ Get your tickets here: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/love-by-design-courageous-dating-real-connection-tickets-1814632818609Then listen in as Susan and Louise explore what it really means to date — and live — by design.

What if the secret to finding love isn’t about looking out there—but coming home to yourself?In this transformative episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan sits down with Olivia Sage, a somatic therapist, healer, and host of Becoming Your Own Soulmate, for a deep dive into how the body, trauma, and nervous system shape the way we love.From ayahuasca journeys to embodiment practices, Olivia shares how true healing begins when we reconnect to our physical and emotional selves. Together, she and Susan explore how unhealed wounds drive our relationship patterns, why somatic work changes how we date, and how becoming your own soulmate is the first step to attracting the right partner.Whether you’re curious about plant medicine, tired of repeating the same dating cycles, or simply ready to feel more grounded and open in love—this conversation will meet you where you are and gently guide you inward.

In this special full-circle episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan sits down with Brian Howie—host of The Great Love Debate podcast, owner of PodPopuli, and her very first guest 42 episodes ago. Together, they riff on the realities of modern dating: from the highs and lows of dating apps to the revival of matchmaking, the dream of meeting “organically,” and what the future of love might look like. With his signature candor and sharp insights, Brian unpacks why singles are more connected—and more confused—than ever, while Susan shares how his coaching and support helped her grow as a podcast host. This lively conversation is equal parts funny, frank, and forward-looking, reminding listeners that love is always evolving, and so should we. If you’ve ever wondered whether you should swipe, hire a matchmaker, or just hang out by the avocados at Publix—this episode is for you.

In this  episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Shoer sits down with debut author Stephanie Todd, whose novel Love. Lies. and Libidos blurs the line between fiction and lived experience. Todd takes us deep into the raw terrain of passion, betrayal, forgiveness, and the messy journey of reclaiming the self after heartbreak.Together, they explore the creation of her novel, the courage it took to reveal intimate details of her own life, and how her children reacted to seeing parts of their family story on the page. Stephanie opens up about why she calls her past “the wreckage,” how deficiencies like a hunger for affection can blind us, and the haunting question of whether true passion can ever be felt again after betrayal.Listeners will hear her insights on intuition versus anxiety, why we stay in relationships long after we know we should leave, and what advice she offers for those navigating the complexities of dating and love today.If you’ve ever wrestled with trust, yearned for a love that consumed you, or wondered how to rebuild after everything has fallen apart, this conversation will remind you that you are not alone.

Endless swiping leaving you burned out? Video dating might be the spark you’ve been missing. In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Zach Schleien shares how Spark is changing the dating game—bringing back authenticity, laughter, and face-to-face chemistry without the awkward small talk.We’ll dive into why video-first dating helps people connect more meaningfully, how technology is shifting the way we meet, and what the future of online dating really looks like. If you’ve ever wished dating felt less like work and more like magic, this episode is for you.

What happens when you mix wanderlust with the world of dating? You get adventure, laughter, and stories you definitely won’t find on a resort brochure.In this episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer is joined by solo travel expert Shelby Frenette, founder of TravelFun.Biz, and singles traveler and foodie Jeff Shoer to explore the magic of traveling single. From luxury escapes to unforgettable mishaps, Shelby and Jeff share how travel can expand your horizons—not just geographically, but emotionally too. Special Offer: Mention Dateless in Delray for a free travel consultation with Shelby Frenette!Contact Shelby: TravelFun.Biz | Call/Text 833-TRVL-FUN (833-878-5386)Connect with Jeff: https://linktr.ee/food.in.travelWhether you’re ready to book your next trip or just looking for inspiration, this episode is your passport to new possibilities.

Is love really a three-course meal? Matchmakers Jessica Fass and Brian Bachow of Fass Pass to Love join Susan to share how patience, coaching, and confidence can transform dating from swipe culture into lasting partnerships. They reveal why investing in yourself first is key, what it means to be truly “match-ready,” and the surprising success stories (and hilarious misfires) that keep them inspired. Special Offer: Mention Dateless in Delray to receive an exclusive discount on a Matchmaking Strategy Session. Email [email protected] to claim your offer.

What if the key to deeper intimacy isn’t a new partner, a bigger spark, or even better communication—but mindfulness?In this episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer sits down with therapist and mindfulness teacher Wendi Dumbroff, MA, LPC to explore how presence, awareness, and intentional connection can transform dating, sex, and long-term relationships. From breaking destructive cycles to easing performance anxiety to setting intentions in love, Wendi brings decades of experience in couples and sex therapy to the conversation.Whether you’re navigating a new romance, rekindling passion, or simply curious about how mindfulness shapes intimacy, this episode blends humor, wisdom, and practical takeaways you can use today.Learn more about Wendi at wendidumbrofftherapy.com and follow her on Instagram at @wendidumbroff.

Dating is complicated enough—but what happens when ADHD enters the mix? In this eye-opening and refreshingly honest episode, Susan Heller Shoer sits down with ADHD Life & Mindset Coach Leah Carroll to unpack how neurodivergence shapes love, attraction, and connection.From love-bombing to ghosting, forgetting to text back to over-functioning in relationships, ADHD shows up in ways most people don’t expect—but can absolutely relate to. Leah and Susan explore rejection sensitivity, emotional intensity, and why dating with ADHD can feel like a rollercoaster one minute and a breakthrough the next.Whether you’re neurodivergent yourself, dating someone who is, or just curious about how our wiring impacts intimacy, this episode offers humor, insight, and strategies for building healthier, more authentic connections—without abandoning yourself in the process. Tune in for a conversation that’s equal parts validating, funny, and transformative.

What happens when a corporate professional leaves behind the boardroom and reinvents himself as a male escort? In this unfiltered conversation, Susan Heller Shoer sits down with George Goulburn—Australia-based escort, writer, and media personality—to explore what women truly seek when they hire him, and what his journey reveals about intimacy, confidence, and connection.From younger women craving companionship without commitment to an 80-year-old with more energy than men half her age, George shares real, often surprising stories from his career. Together, we unpack the history and stigma around sex work in Australia, why women turn to professional escorts, and the lessons everyday men can learn from his approach to listening, presence, and emotional connection.With humor, honesty, and a dose of humanity, this episode sheds light on what dating and relationships can look like when we strip away the labels—and focus on what people actually want.

After 33 conversations with daters, coaches, therapists, and experts, I’m flying solo for Episode 34—and pulling back the curtain on what it’s really like to host a dating podcast while living the dating life myself. In this candid, funny, and occasionally too-honest episode, I share what I’ve learned about love, self-worth, and swiping after 50, the most surprising lessons from my guests, and what listeners have taught me along the way.Plus, a peek at what’s next for Dateless in Delray—including matchmaking and maybe even my very own “Dating Game” reboot.