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Dating Is Nuts

by Kelly Shanley

Kelly Shanley is a standup comic who spent 10 years on the dating apps in LA. These are her stories. Adapted from For Love Or Peanut Butter, the beloved dating column on Slackjaw, Dating Is Nuts = Nobody Wants This + How I Met Your Mother, only in a first person podcast performed by a comedian that feels like an audiobook but in short, deliciously bingeable episodes. .

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Episodes

  1. After Ten Years On The Dating Apps I Found Love Offline #216

    Kelly Shanley is a standup comic who spent ten years on the dating apps in Los Angeles. These are her stories. On this episode of the Dating Is Nuts podcast, Kelly finally reveals the identity of the man she gave up peanut butter for and how they finally figured it out together. Check it out to...

  2. He Mansplained My Flaws To Me In A Breakup Text

    Kelly Shanley is a standup comic who spent ten years on the dating apps in LA. These are her stories. On this episode of the Dating Is Nuts podcast, Carter tells Kelly every single thing that he think is wrong with her. To her face? Of course not! Via text. Like the grown ass man that he is. This...

  3. Taking A Break You Don't Want To Take #214

    Kelly Shanley is a standup comic who spent ten years on the dating apps in LA. These are her stories. On this episode of the Dating Is Nuts podcast, Kelly finally takes some steps with Dex that take her out of the friend zone (yay!), only to take two steps backwards soon after (boo).This is the...

  4. My Accidental Group Date With Carter #213

    Kelly Shanley is a standup comic who spent ten years on the dating apps in LA. These are her stories. On this episode of the Dating Is Nuts podcast, Kelly screws up and invites Carter to stop by... but he severely overstays his welcome. What happens when the hot guy just won't leave? This is the...

  5. the Nicest Guy I Ever Dumped ep 212

    Kelly Shanley is a standup comic who spent ten years on the dating apps in LA. These are her stories. On this episode of the Dating Is Nuts podcast, Kelly has to breakup with Andrew. But she really likes him and he's done nothing wrong, plus she's never had to dump someone before. So how does she...

  6. Crushed By My Childhood Crush 211

    Kelly Shanley is a standup comic who spent ten years on the dating apps in LA. These are her stories. On this episode of the Dating Is Nuts podcast, Kelly finally acknowledges that, much like "Fetch" for Gretchen from Mean Girls, when it comes to being Brooks' girlfriend, it's just not going to...

  7. He Was The Perfect Guy, Until We Kissed #210

    Kelly Shanley is a standup comic who spent ten years on the dating apps in LA. These are her stories. On this episode of the Dating Is Nuts podcast, Kelly goes on her third and fourth dates with Andrew. Things are getting serious, right? Her head, heart, and mom are all on board. Now she just…

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  8. I Don't Want To Be Your Rebound

    Kelly Shanley is a standup comic who spent ten years on the dating apps in LA. These are her stories. On this episode of the Dating Is Nuts podcast, Kelly details her second "not a date" hangout with surfer dude Dex, and how she has feelings for him even though she shouldn't...This is the ninth...

  9. My Second Date With Carter Was Nothing Like The First #208

    Kelly Shanley is a standup comic who spent ten years on the dating apps in LA. These are her stories. On this episode of the Dating Is Nuts podcast, Kelly goes on a second date with Carter that pales in comparison to the first. Why did the vibes die mid date?! This is the eighth full episode of...

  10. Can't Hardly Wait For That Second Date #207

    Kelly Shanley is a standup comic who spent ten years on the dating apps in LA. These are her stories. On this episode of the Dating Is Nuts podcast, Kelly hopes to go on her second date with her dreamy childhood crush, Brooks, who keeps her hopes up with daily deep talk phone calls. This is the...

  11. A Sweet Sunset Second Date w/ My Neuroses #206

    Kelly Shanley is a standup comic who spent ten years on the dating apps in LA. These are her stories. On this episode of the Dating Is Nuts podcast, Kelly shares her sweet second date with Andrew, a lake front sunset viewing. Too bad Kelly's neuroses won't just relax and let her enjoy…

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  12. The One Time I Fell For D*ck Pics #205

    Kelly Shanley is a standup comic who spent ten years on the dating apps in LA. These are her stories. On this episode of the Dating Is Nuts podcast, Kelly introduces suitor number 4 from her accidental summer of love Dex. Dick pics may have played a surprising role in their courtship... This is…

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  13. A Bear Got Me A Date With My Hot Neighbor #204

    Kelly Shanley is a standup comic who spent ten years on the dating apps in LA. These are her stories. On this episode of the FLOPB dating podcast, Kelly shares her first date with suitor number three, Carter. Hard to believe what a great wingwoman her neighborhood bear turned out to be! This is…

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  14. A Shirtless Meadow Reunion With My Childhood Crush #203

    Kelly Shanley is a standup comic who spent ten years on the dating apps in LA. These are her stories. On this episode of the FLOPB dating podcast, Kelly can't believe it when she runs into the dreamboat from her childhood, and he's actually interested in her!This is the third full episode of…

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  15. My First Dates With The Man The Universe Wanted Me To Marry #202

    Kelly Shanley is a standup comic who's been living in LA for 16 years and spent 10 of them on the dating apps. On this episode of the FLOPB dating podcast, Kelly shares how the universe seemed to have a clear favorite of the four guys she dated that summer... For Love Or Peanut Butter (FLOPB) is…

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  16. How I Met The Man I Gave Up PB For #201

    On this episode of the FLOPB dating podcast, Kelly introduces four guys she dated in the same summer. Follow along for the How I Met Your Mother style reveal of which one she ends up with! SHOW NOTES: Based on the syndicated column of the same name, FLOPB stars comedian Kelly Shanley recounting...

  17. Season 2 Teaser!

    After a healthy hiatus, your favorite dating podcast is BACK! Season 2 is getting a makeover for its February 26th, 2025 debut. Not only are we starting a new adventure that results in actual romance (shocking but true), but we're also adding video! If you're new here... for Love Or Peanut Butter...

  18. Height and Dating: The Case For Short Kings #115

    This week on FLOPB dating pod, we're talking about height and dating. So controversial! Kelly shares how she went from height snob (over 6' please) to falling for a short king. SHOW NOTES: For Love or Peanut Butter (FLOPB) is a true life, humorous dating column turned podcast in which a seemingly...

  19. The Dream Guy Who Was Too Nice To Me #114

    FLOPB dating podcast is back after a summer break! On this week's episode, Kelly flips the script. Instead of another tale about a random dude who ruined her shot at love, this time SHE's the asshole. SHOW NOTES: For Love or Peanut Butter (FLOPB) is a true life, humorous dating column turned...

  20. Were We Just On The Same Date? #113

    Have you ever been on a date that you couldn't wait to be over, only to find out your date was SUPER into it? In this episode of the FLOPB dating pod, Kelly talks about the many times this has happened to her, and her theory as to what the F is happening... SHOW NOTES: For Love or Peanut Butter...

  21. The Handsy French Guy Who, Well… Got Handsy With Me #112

    On this episode of the FLOPB dating pod, Kelly shares - in great detail - the creepiest date she ever went on. Buckle up, it gets très icky. SHOW NOTES For Love or Peanut Butter (FLOPB) is a true life, humorous dating column turned podcast in which a seemingly eligible bachelorette who can’t find...

  22. The Pickiest Tech Bro In Town #111

    This week on FLOPB dating pod, Kelly's date goes wrong in more ways than one. You can pick your favorite. SHOW NOTES For Love or Peanut Butter (FLOPB) is a true life, humorous dating column turned podcast in which a seemingly eligible bachelorette who can’t find love finally delves into the WHY…

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  23. I Was A Late Bloomer #110

    This week on the FLOPB dating podcast, Kelly shares the angst of being a late bloomer as well as the perks. SHOW NOTES: For Love or Peanut Butter (FLOPB) is a true life, humorous dating column turned podcast in which a seemingly eligible bachelorette who can’t find love finally delves into the…

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  24. The Body Builder Who Double Booked Me #109

    In this episode of the FLOPB Dating pod, Kelly shares one of her all time (least) favorite date disasters. The kind that's so bad it's good. So many cringey moments not even fro-yo could save it. SHOW NOTES: For Love or Peanut Butter (FLOPB) is a true life, humorous dating column turned podcast…

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  25. Can You Be Too Independent? #108

    On this episode of the FLOPB dating podcast, there was a time when Kelly thought being an independent woman meant not having any needs. At least none that she couldn't take care of herself. No reason to bother her romantic partner with something as inconvenient as her needs! She was wrong... SHOW...

  26. The Catfish Who Lured Me #107

    On this edition of FLOPB dating pod, Kelly recounts the time she got catfished, and the unexpected lesson she learned from it. SHOW NOTES: For Love or Peanut Butter (FLOPB) is a true life, humorous dating column turned podcast in which a seemingly eligible bachelorette who can’t find love finally...

  27. The “Better” Version Of Me #106

    "Let me introduce you to the version of me that I think you'd like to meet; AKA the subtle, yet super unhelpful habit I picked up from dating apps." In this episode of the FLOPB dating pod, Kelly shares how she realized that the curated version of her she presented on the dating apps wasn't…

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  28. The Ginger Who Ghosted Me #105

    In this episode of FLOPB dating podcast, Kelly gets vulnerable about the first online date she ever enjoyed, which subsequently became the first time she ever got ghosted. *Sad sigh* For Love or Peanut Butter (FLOPB) is a true life, humorous dating column turned podcast in which a seemingly...

  29. Deleting The Dating Apps #104

    This week on FLOPB dating podcast, Kelly shares what led to her decision to *drumroll please* delete the dating apps. All of them. For "30 days." Series Description: For Love Or Peanut Butter (FLOPB) is a true life, humorous dating podcast in which a seemingly eligible (yet perpetually single)...

  30. The Hobbyist Geologist #103

    On the 3rd episode of the FLOPB dating podcast, Kelly shares the story of her very first Tinder date, and how it was more than just a little rocky. For Love Or Peanut Butter (FLOPB) is a true life, humorous dating podcast in which a seemingly eligible (yet perpetually single) woman finally delves...

  31. Valentine's Day #102

    In this episode of FLOPB dating column turned podcast, Kelly shares her past Valentine's Day experiences, the good, the bad, and the humiliating. For Love or Peanut Butter (FLOPB) is a true life, humorous dating column turned podcast in which a seemingly eligible bachelorette who can’t find love...

  32. So, Why Peanut Butter? #101

    For Love or Peanut Butter (FLOPB) is a true life, humorous dating column turned podcast in which a seemingly eligible bachelorette who can’t find love finally delves into the WHY and the HOW she has remained single into her mid-thirties, and changes her life forever. Kelly Shanley is a standup...

  33. For Love Or Peanut Butter Trailer

    For Love Or Peanut Butter is a new true life dating podcast coming out this Valentine's Day! Based on the syndicated column of the same name, FLOPB stars comedian Kelly Shanley recounting some of her worst dates, heartbreaks, and lessons learned during her 10 years of being single in LA. An…

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ABOUT THIS SHOW

Kelly Shanley is a standup comic who spent 10 years on the dating apps in LA. These are her stories. Adapted from For Love Or Peanut Butter, the beloved dating column on Slackjaw, Dating Is Nuts = Nobody Wants This + How I Met Your Mother, only in a first person podcast performed by a comedian that feels like an audiobook but in short, deliciously bingeable episodes. .

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Kelly Shanley is a standup comic who spent 10 years on the dating apps in LA. These are her stories. Adapted from For Love Or Peanut Butter, the beloved dating column on Slackjaw, Dating Is Nuts = Nobody Wants This + How I Met Your Mother, only in a first person podcast performed by a comedian that...

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Dating Is Nuts is created and hosted by Kelly Shanley.
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