PODCAST
Dead but Delicious
by Daemonum X
dyke drama, BDSM, polyamory, evil, etc. daemonumx.substack.com
Episodes
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I'm not quitting, a follow up.
If there’s one thing about me, it’s that I love a moment of reflection! Who doesn’t cherish the times you exit A Situation feeling less than great and being like, So what can I learn from this? There have been years when I avoid eye contact with these lessons like a dog in trouble. If you don’t...
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Must have backbone
Heads up: content mentions SA (non-graphic). Community is a subjective and muddied word that has a different meaning to nearly everyone. For example, when people say “LGBTQ community” I roll my eyes because I certainly don’t share values with most of my fellow LGBTQs. The “kink community” gets an...
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vignettes on solitude
I’ve been taking notes on solitude/aloneness/and loneliness over the last several months. There is a lot more where this came from, and maybe you will get to read that, too. i. This is the scene—my future bedroom is the choir balcony in a completely open 2,000 sq ft one-room church house built in...
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a mythology of intimacy
I don’t talk much about my history as an insatiable succubus because that version of myself is lifetimes away, an unrecognizable specter howling for painpleasure in the rearview mirror. I was much younger then, in pain and greedy for the novelty of feeling something, anything. I’m different now,...
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i bet she has a nice scream
In COVID isolation and very sad, I decided to re-read X, Davey Davis’ new novel. They had generously sent me an advance copy months ago that I read with anticipated fury as soon as it landed at my doorstep. I didn’t have the energy then to give it the proper review it deserved. I don’t know if…
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who is she?
I didn’t write much here last year. I’ve been eating my own medicine, or whatever. Being kind to myself and letting myself feel, respond to what I need, not forcing things – you should try it. The rest feels good but the self-worth tied to the production of things not so much. My creative juices...
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the science of giving pain
Most of the masochists I know were the type of children who put their fingers in the candle flame, the ones who poked safety pins through the top layer of their skin in the back of study hall. They felt the effects of serotonin long before they had the words to describe it. It was only a matter…
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the persistent desire
Like every good neoliberal bisexual feminist woman of heterosexual experience learning about queer rights in my early twenties, I too believed that sexuality and gender were two distinctly different things. I would get on my newly queer-in-theory soap box and explain to my cis-het boyfriends or...
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the commodification of kink
CW: Sexual and physical assault, and descriptions of heterosexuality. My copy of Leatherfolk edited by Mark Thompson is stained with tears, I hid my wet eyes from fellow passengers on the A train as I devoured it on my way to work. So many pieces in that collection really touched on the emotional...
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a D/s valentine
For Valentine’s Day, I want to share some thoughts about the very romantic and kinky relationship structure known as D/s!!! In the nature of self-editing, I always hear the voices of potential readers in my head getting upset with me because they found a nuance to poke at or are applying my words...
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don't write about age play
content warning: age play, incest play, consensual non-consent A few weeks ago my girlfriend and I were in the planning stages of a live rope event we hosted together virtually. We knew we couldn’t do anything too risqué because zoom monitors for adult content (luckily a lot of SM isn’t...
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home + the philly accent
Where I’m from the word home is pronounced funny. The great Philadelphian-English dialect, as with many other words, turns it into a kind of open-jawed grunt. Anytime someone asks me what the accent is like, I return to this word, home, time and time again to give my best example. There are so…
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a little blood snack
cw: needles, blood, ingesting blood Most of the world spells Sex P in V, parts rubbing together for the purpose of, biologically speaking, creating the miracle of life. If we’re talking dirty, like Genesis 1:28, God mandated that we “be fruitful, and multiply.” This is why I said I lost my unholy...
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future hoarding + the cult of imagination
The following is my speech for indoctrination into my cult, so let me know if you want in :) I’ve written about imagination several times before as it relates to queerness, leather, and gender. In being forced off the hamster wheel of overly busy New York City life, I’ve been thinking a ton more...
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gossip saves lives
I’ve been saying for years that Gossip Saves Lives. I’ve already designed the t-shirt in my head—red bubbly script on a white shirt—wearing my heart on my sleeve. It’s the hyperbole that makes it funny. The words have jokingly left my lips after countless invigorating gossip sessions. The thing…
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leatherdyke gender technology
The three most controversial books among queer community are The Argonauts, Pleasure Activism, and Conflict Is Not Abuse. In case you’re new here, I’d like to make my position on these polarizing books very clear—CINA is required reading for me while the other two have big pink pussy hat energy....
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dear daemonum + polyamory coaching!
Like millions of other people, I recently lost my (vanilla corporate) job. My position was moved to part-time a few months ago and then eventually eliminated. Let’s be real though—it has been increasingly hard to exist in a corporate environment being the person that I am. Pretending to care…
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the daddy card - tarot + leather identity
CW: sexual violence, patriarchy play, mention of tenderqueers My first tarot deck was gifted to me by an old friend L, who was very serious about the superstition that you had to be gifted your first tarot deck. The gift came with a certificate to call on M, someone I had never met, for a lesson…
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kill the cop in your head
Before you read or listen: Have you donated to GLITS yet? They are trying to secure the funds to purchase property in NYC to serve as a sanctuary for trans women. Please click here and send them some money!! Listen to the audio above, or read below! I want to talk about respectability. What does…
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
dyke drama, BDSM, polyamory, evil, etc.
daemonumx.substack.com
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Daemonum X
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dyke drama, BDSM, polyamory, evil, etc. daemonumx.substack.com
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