Brendan Gates & Marissa Bohrer

Dear Queers™ is a society podcast hosted by Brendan Gates & Marissa Bohrer. It has 75 episodes, with the latest published April 2026.

Have you ever wanted all your burning questions about sex and relationships to be answered by a bisexual therapist and a gay filmmaker? Good thing you found this podcast, then! Every episode, Marissa and Brendan answer listener-submitted "queer-ies" on sexuality, dating, LGBTQ+ issues, and more. It's the advice podcast you never knew you needed and the puns you wish never existed.

society ·en ·75 episodes