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Deciding to Love

by Nathan Holritz

A podcast exploring how to create enjoyable, long-term romantic relationships we actually want to be in! Hosted by Nathan Holritz.

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Episodes

  1. Ep 13: 3 Keys to a Vibrant Relationship - Dr. David Banks

    Summary In this insightful interview, Dr. David Banks shares profound principles for building long-term, vibrant romantic relationships. Covering topics from identity and purpose to communication and intentionality, this conversation offers practical wisdom rooted in psychology, faith, and…

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  2. Ep 12: How to Encourage Greater Honesty - Judy Herman

    Summary In this conversation, Nathan Holritz interviews Judy Herman, a licensed therapist, about her journey into therapy, the simplicity of love, and the complexities of relationships. They discuss the importance of awareness, responsibility, and authenticity in romantic partnerships…

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  3. Ep 11: Creating Independence - Steve and Shannon

    Summary In this interview, Nathan Holritz speaks with Steve and Shannon about their long-term relationship, exploring themes of romance, curiosity, and personal growth. They discuss the importance of maintaining curiosity in relationships, the challenges Shannon and Steve faced in their...

  4. Ep 10: Learning From Past Mistakes - Paul and Sarah

    Summary Host Nathan Holritz reconnects with Paul and Sarah, a couple together for 20 years, to explore the foundations of their lasting relationship. They reflect on how they met, the role of spiritual connection, and the lessons they’ve carried forward from past experiences. The conversation...

  5. Ep 9: Uncomfortable Conversations - Field and Karie

    Summary In this conversation, Nathan Holritz engages with Field and Karie, exploring the depths of love, respect, and communication in relationships. They discuss the importance of love and respect, the impact of honesty on trust, and the necessity of navigating uncomfortable discussions. Field…

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  6. Ep 8: Never Go to Bed Angry - Mark and Sarah

    Summary In this episode, Nathan Holritz hosts Mark and Sarah, a couple with over 30 years of relationship experience. They share their backstory, discussing how they met and the initial attraction that sparked their long-lasting relationship. The conversation delves into the importance of faith,...

  7. Ep 7: Your Partner Isn't Your Problem - Joe and Denise

    Summary In this conversation, Nathan Holritz engages with Joe and Denise to explore the complexities of romantic relationships, emphasizing themes of unconditional acceptance, personal responsibility, and the importance of open communication. They discuss the societal pressures to present an…

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  8. Ep 6: Radical Personal Responsibility - Jim and Lara

    Summary In this conversation, Nathan Holritz speaks with Jim and Laura about their 27-year relationship, exploring themes of commitment, emotional readiness, attraction, leadership, and the importance of respect and trust in marriage. They discuss their backstory, the challenges of navigating...

  9. Ep 5: Cooperation vs Competition - Kim and Chris

    Show Notes Cooperation vs competition, being more considerate of your partner's perspective, and intentionally addressing anything that is creating a divide in your relationship - big topics on today's episode highlighting Kim and Chris! Resources: I Said This, You Heard That, by Kathleen Edelman...

  10. Ep 4: Honesty - Nathan Holritz

    Summary In this episode of Deciding to Love, Nathan Holritz discusses the critical role of honesty in building long-term romantic relationships. He explores the necessity of self-honesty for personal growth and the importance of being honest with partners to foster trust and intimacy. The...

  11. Ep 3: Walls Down, Roof Off - Bernie and Jeanette, Part 2

    Summary In this heartfelt conversation, Nathan Holritz interviews his Grandfather, who shares his remarkable love story with his late wife, Grandma. The discussion covers their initial meeting, the challenges they faced, and the deep love that sustained their 66-year marriage. Key themes include...

  12. Ep 2: The Backstory - Nathan Holritz

    Summary In this episode of Deciding to Love, Nathan Holritz introduces the podcast's themes of commitment and personal responsibility in romantic relationships. He emphasizes the importance of deciding to love, even when faced with challenges, and shares his personal journey and motivations for...

  13. Ep 1: The Importance of Empathy - Bernie and Jeanette

    Summary In this episode of Deciding to Love, host Nathan Holritz shares insights from an interview with his Grandfather about love, empathy, and commitment in long-term relationships. Through the lens of his Grandparents' 66-year marriage, he emphasizes the importance of empathy, the choice to…

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  14. Deciding to Love - The Trailer

    Deciding to Love is a new podcast coming January 1, 2026! Long-term romantic relationships tend to fade with time. The relationship that used to bring excitement, adventure, and a deep sense of connection and fulfillment to your life now leaves you feeling annoyed and frustrated. Most couples...

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ABOUT THIS SHOW

A podcast exploring how to create enjoyable, long-term romantic relationships we actually want to be in! Hosted by Nathan Holritz.

HOSTED BY

Nathan Holritz

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A podcast exploring how to create enjoyable, long-term romantic relationships we actually want to be in! Hosted by Nathan Holritz.

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Deciding to Love has 14 episodes. Check the episode list to see recent publication dates and frequency.

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Deciding to Love is created and hosted by Nathan Holritz.
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