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Decisions, Decisions

by The Black Effect Podcast Network and iHeartPodcasts

Welcome to "Decisions, Decisions," the podcast where boundaries are pushed, and conversations get candid! Join your favorite hosts, Mandii B and WeezyWTF, as they dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often-taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love. Every Monday, Mandii and Weezy invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. With a blend of humor, vulnerability, and authenticity, they share their personal journeys navigating their 30s, tackling the complexities of modern relationships, and engaging in thought-provoking discussions that challenge societal expectations.From groundbreaking interviews with diverse guests to relatable stories that resonate with your experiences, "Decisions, Decisions" is your go-to source for open dialogue about what it truly means to love and connect in today's world. Get ready to reshape your understanding of relationships and embrace the freedom of authentic connections

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Episodes

  1. You Got Decisons: Reality TV Star Kara Leona Sit Down

    Kara Leona joins Weezy to talk marriage, motherhood, OnlyFans, and making decisions the internet doesn’t approve of. Kara shares her side of the split with Guillermo, explains why their problems went deeper than adult content, and clarifies the conversation around her six-figure months. Plus, the...

  2. EP 494: Freak With Limits feat. Connie

    Connie of First Date Diaries is back, and even Mandii and Weezy have questions about where the freak flag stops flying. The trio gets into sleeping with friends, working as a sex-party guardian, and the wild encounters that put everyone’s boundaries to the test. Plus, degradation that feels a...

  3. You've Got Decisions: Yuck Mouth - Can I Get Past Bad Oral Hygiene?

    Send us your questions [email protected] Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Don't forget to...

  4. Selective Ignorance: Ep. 84 | Consent is Not in Perpetuity

    In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B opens with an important Breast Cancer Awareness Month screening information [ 00:47 ] before previewing the week’s topics [ 01:12 ] and joining A-King and Jason “Jah” Lee for some back-in-New-York banter [ 02:49 ]. The crew recaps CultureCon with…

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  5. EP 493: Friends With Baby Benefits

    Mandii B and Weezy are joined by Eddin for a wild conversation about dating, intimacy, non-monogamy, and what happens when friendship and parenthood start to overlap. From debating whether two friends can have a baby together without catching feelings, to navigating jealousy, emotional intimacy,...

  6. You've Got Decisions: Doubling Back on My Baby Daddy vs Being with a Vegan

    Would you take your ex back to split the bills? Mandii B and Weezy help a listener choosing between her child’s father and a new man who wants a vegan, off-the-grid lifestyle. From confusing good co-parenting with romantic compatibility to sacrificing your happiness for financial stability, the...

  7. EP 492: That’s My Wife, Not My Mom! feat Olivia & Kelly

    Mandii B and Weezy welcome Olivia and Kelly to talk about their 19-year age gap, the eight-hour drive that started their love story, and finding a connection neither of them expected. From coming out later in life and navigating intimacy to handling strangers who mistake them for mother and...

  8. Selective Ignorance: Ep. 82 | Rollin', Robots & Raggedy Robert feat. Akeem Ali

    In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B joined by A-King, Jason “Jah” Lee, and guest artist Akeem Ali, who previews his upcoming fall tour [ 00:44 ][ 02:53 ]. After debating the workweek and distractions [ 06:32 ] and reacting to major cocaine seizures at U.S. ports [ 09:38 ], the crew...

  9. EP 491: Stud Standards feat. Carter the Body

    Carter the Body joins Mandii B and Weezy for a conversation about catching feelings, setting boundaries, and why nobody wants to be somebody’s experiment. The All the Queen’s Men actress shares how she built an international exotic dancing career without taking it all off, explains why…

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  10. You've Got Decisions: Am I Settling or Just Chasing Lust?

    On this episode of You Got Decisions, a 24-year-old listener loves his girlfriend but is bored, tempted to cheat, and still living with her parents. Mandii B and Weezy unpack whether his seven-year relationship needs a reset or an exit, debating open relationships, mismatched goals, and whether...

  11. EP 490: Flowers Don’t Fix Cheaters ft. Dr. Stacii Jae Johnson

    Mandii B and Weezy are joined by relationship expert Dr. Stacii Jae Johnson for a candid conversation about the patterns we inherit and the ones we need to break. Dr. Stacii opens up about her childhood and the experiences that shaped her work, while the ladies unpack emotional abuse, taking...

  12. You've Got Decisions: Update: Porn May Be Ruining Me! feat. Eddin

    Send us your questions [email protected] Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Don't forget to...

  13. Selective Ignorance: Ep. 80 | Power Of The Tongue

    In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B, A-King, and Jason “Jah” Lee tackle food safety, religion, manifestation, surveillance, privacy, and politics. After previewing the episode [ 00:38 ], the crew debates a mango recall and food safety scares [ 03:50 ], questioning whether…

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  14. EP 489: Men Want Me, Baby and All feat. Jamilah Lemieux

    Mandii B and Weezy sit down with acclaimed writer and cultural critic Jamilah Lemieux to discuss her book Black Single Mother and unpack the stigma surrounding single motherhood, dating, co-parenting and blended families. Jamilah recalls discovering that her ex was engaged shortly after she gave...

  15. You've Got Decisions: Update: A Girl Who Just Wants a Threesome

    Send us your questions [email protected] Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Don't forget to...

  16. EP 488: Non-Mainogamy feat. Maino

    Maino joins Mandii B and Weezy to discuss his dating philosophy, why he no longer promises women traditional commitment, and whether actions should matter more than relationship titles. He opens up about sleeping with a pregnant woman, keeping intimate videos, dating ambitious women, navigating...

  17. You've Got Decisions: Do I Dump His A**?

    Send us your questions [email protected] Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Don't forget to...

  18. Selective Ignorance: Ep. 78 | CIS-ieval Times

    In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King and headline king Jason “Jah” Lee for a wide-ranging conversation spanning Atlanta culture, policing, politics, infrastructure, race, hip-hop, gender identity, and the WNBA. After previewing the episode’s biggest...

  19. EP 487: Flights, Freaks & Faith

    In this solo episode, Mandii B and Weezy revisit the conversation surrounding marriage, prenups and protecting assets before discussing gift-giving, women paying for their partners and how couples divide travel expenses. The ladies also talk about living together, compromising between New York…

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  20. You've Got Decisions: My Man Wants a 3Some but I’m the Jealous Type

    Send us your questions [email protected] Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Don't forget to...

  21. EP 486: No Label, No Loving! feat. Bryanna Gena

    Mandii and Weezy are joined by certified sex and relationship coach, board-certified sexologist, and registered nurse Bryanna Gená for an honest and hilarious conversation about purity culture, ethical non-monogamy, and what relationship labels are supposed to mean. Bryanna explains why opening a...

  22. You've Got Decisions: WTF is MGen? + A Good Ol Nasty Birthday

    Send us your questions [email protected] Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Don't forget to...

  23. Selective Ignorance: Ep. 76 | Dumb Dems, Dumb Men & Dumb DMs

    In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King and headline king Jason “Jah” Lee for a wide-ranging conversation exploring politics, current events, media, sports, internet culture, and accountability. Mandii opens the show by previewing another packed episode…

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  24. EP 485: The $20 ICK feat. Killah Bee

    Killah Bee joins Mandii B and Weezy WTF for a hilarious and unfiltered conversation about whether sex-positive women can still find lasting love, when women should stop dating men for their potential, and why lifestyle compatibility can matter more than a paycheck. The trio debates body counts,...

  25. You've Got Decisions: Can You Really Catch Feelings in Three Months?

    Trigger Warning: Domestic Abuse** Mandii and Weezy reflect on high school reunions, homeownership, motherhood, and whether a $250,000 dream wedding is worth the price. This week’s listener ended a 10-year relationship with her high school sweetheart after years of feeling unappreciated and a...

  26. EP 484: Heauxing Responsibly feat.Shae Primus

    Matchmaker, author, and Love Match Atlanta personality Shae Primus joins Mandii B and Weezy for a raw conversation about dating successful professionals, what really happens at a vetted play party, and the differences between kink, BDSM, and the lifestyle. Shae opens up about healing from church...

  27. You've Got Decisions: Update: Do I Make Him Not Feel Bad For Cheating?

    Send us your questions [email protected] Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Don't forget to...

  28. Selective Ignorance: Ep. 74 | Right Message, Wrong Messenger

    In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King, journalist Jason Rodriguez, and headline king Jason “Jah” Lee for a wide-ranging conversation exploring American politics, relationships, self-defense laws, free speech, travel, race, and celebrity culture. The...

  29. EP 483: Are Women Financial Liabilities in Marriage? Feat. Earn Your Leisure

    Mandii B and Weezy sit down with Troy Millings and Rashad Bilal of Earn Your Leisure for a candid conversation about how money shapes dating, marriage and business. They break down financial due diligence before marriage, the risks of combining debt and assets, buying a house before the wedding,...

  30. Introducing: Delivering Happiness

    Delivering Happiness starring Nick Turturro is a series that follows Big Nick as he begins his new life with Prince St. Pizza. Every delivery turns into an unscripted moment of connection, laughter, and truth — with special guests along the way. Listen to Delivering Happiness on the iHeartRadio…

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  31. You've Got Decisions: UPDATE: I Slept with My BF’s Parents x My Wife Doesn’t Want My Sub to Join

    Send us your questions [email protected] Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Don't forget to...

  32. EP 482: A Freak in the seats feat. Mr.Whatchair (Joshua Adams)

    On this episode of Decisions, Decisions, Mandii B and Weezy are joined by Joshua Adams, better known as Mr. What Chair, for an honest and unfiltered conversation about sex, dating, disability, and the search for real intimacy. Joshua opens up about losing his virginity to a sex worker, spending...

  33. You've Got Decisions: C0rn May Be Ruining Me! Help!

    Send us your questions [email protected] Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Don't forget to...

  34. Selective Ignorance: Ep. 72 | 3 Nights, White Knights and Israelites

    In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King and Jason “Jah” Lee, for a timely conversation covering hip-hop culture, media legacy, politics, sports, race, and misinformation. The episode opens with Mandii's monologue and a preview of the week's biggest...

  35. EP 481: Happy Heauxs Ain’t Hatin’

    On this solo episode of Decisions, Decisions, Mandii and Weezy get back in their niche with a hilarious and honest catch-up about fan pushback, age-gap relationships, platforming love, Anwar’s viral appeal, pets interrupting intimacy, robots, aliens, and why people might be scarier than both. The...

  36. You've Got Decisions: How Do I Make Him Not Feel Bad For Cheating? + Coke Can D

    Send us your questions [email protected] Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Don't forget to...

  37. Selective Ignorance: Ep. 71 | Bible Thumpers & Bad Parenting

    In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King, Jason “Jah” Lee, and Yomi for a wide-ranging conversation examining American politics, Black identity, race, parenting, religion, celebrity culture, and the social issues shaping today's headlines. The episode...

  38. EP 480: How To Spot A Dusty (feat. Maiya the Don)

    *TRIGGER WARNING* - Mentions of depression and s*icide This week on Decisions, Decisions, Mandii B and Weezy link up with Maiya The Don for a real, honest, and super relatable convo about leveling up. Fresh off dropping her latest album Precious Cargo, Maiya gets into her journey with sobriety,...

  39. You've Got Decisions: Decade Long Stagnant Relationship

    Send us your questions [email protected] Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Don't forget to...

  40. Selective Ignorance: Ep. 70 | Court Of Public Opinion Strikes Again

    In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King, journalist Jayson Rodriguez, Jason “Jah” Lee, and Yomi for a wide-ranging conversation unpacking current events, immigration, celebrity culture, criminal justice, sports, and the court of public opinion. The...

  41. EP 479: Green Zones (feat. Chloe Bailey)

    Mandii and Weezy kick things off solo with laughs, singing, and a new “You Got Decisions” fan mail segment, where a listener writes in asking if her boyfriend is weird or if she’s overthinking it after he didn’t want to have sex while she was pregnant. Then, they’re joined virtually by Chloe…

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  42. You've Got Decisions: SubDom Dilemma

    Send us your questions [email protected] Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Don't forget to...

  43. Selective Ignorance: Ep. 69 | Scammers, Shea Butter Baby & Sunday Service

    In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King, headline king Jason “Jah” Lee, and Yomi for a wide-ranging conversation that blends culture, history, politics, gender dynamics, ethics, music, and modern social norms. The episode opens with a humorous…

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  44. EP 478: Going On A Side Quest (feat. Kyle Dion)

    Kyle Dion joins Mandii B and Weezy WTF for a wild episode of Decisions, Decisions as they talk terrible side quests, chaotic drug run stories, Barcelona adventures, dating in queer spaces, and the realities of being open about sexuality. Kyle opens up about meeting Weezy, his last sexual...

  45. You've Got Decisions: Platonic Intimacy

    Send us your questions [email protected] Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Don't forget to...

  46. Selective Ignorance: Ep. 68 | Racism is Alive, Bigot Bot Hive & The Knicks In Five

    In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by A-King, Jason “Jah” Lee, and Yomi for a wide-ranging conversation that blends sports, politics, culture, technology, and modern relationships through the show's signature lens of curiosity and critical thinking. The episode opens with...

  47. EP 477: Heauxs Can Get Married Too!

    We’re recapping the SOLD-OUT live show where Weezy finally popped out with her fiancé onstage (yes, in front of his family) and the brand-new audience game inspired by No Holds Barred. Then Weezy tells the full Central Park engagement story... yes engagement! Weezy also shares the emotional…

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  48. You've Got Decisions: Is this N**** Selling D?

    Send us your questions [email protected] Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pages Instagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Link Don't forget to...

  49. Selective Ignorance: Ep. 67 | Biased Juries, Bird Behavior & Basketball

    In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King, journalist Jayson Rodriguez headline king Jason “Jah” Lee to tackle a wide range of current events, legal controversies, celebrity culture, and social commentary, unpacking some of the most polarizing…

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ABOUT THIS SHOW

Welcome to "Decisions, Decisions," the podcast where boundaries are pushed, and conversations get candid! Join your favorite hosts, Mandii B and WeezyWTF, as they dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often-taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love. Every Monday, Mandii and Weezy invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. With a blend of humor, vulnerability, and authenticity, they share their personal journeys navigating their 30s, tackling the complexities of modern relationships, and engaging in thought-provoking discussions that challenge societal expectations.From groundbreaking interviews with diverse guests to relatable stories that resonate with your experiences, "Decisions, Decisions" is your go-to source for open dialogue about what it truly means to love and connect in today's world. Get ready to reshape your understanding of relationships and embrace the freedom of authentic connections

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The Black Effect Podcast Network and iHeartPodcasts

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