PODCAST · comedy
Decisions, Decisions
by The Black Effect Podcast Network and iHeartPodcasts
Welcome to "Decisions, Decisions," the podcast where boundaries are pushed, and conversations get candid! Join your favorite hosts, Mandii B and WeezyWTF, as they dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often-taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love. Every Monday, Mandii and Weezy invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. With a blend of humor, vulnerability, and authenticity, they share their personal journeys navigating their 30s, tackling the complexities of modern relationships, and engaging in thought-provoking discussions that challenge societal expectations.From groundbreaking interviews with diverse guests to relatable stories that resonate with your experiences, "Decisions, Decisions" is your go-to source for open dialogue about what it truly means to love and connect in today's world. Get ready to reshape your understanding of relationships and embrace the freedom of authentic connections
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EP 486: No Label, No Loving! feat. Bryanna Gena
Mandii and Weezy are joined by certified sex and relationship coach, board-certified sexologist, and registered nurse Bryanna Gená for an honest and hilarious conversation about purity culture, ethical non-monogamy, and what relationship labels are supposed to mean. Bryanna explains why opening a relationship will not repair the damage caused by cheating, how emotional intimacy can complicate casual sex, and why someone who says they “don't like labels” may simply be misaligned with what you want. The ladies also discuss dating short kings, how late is too late for a date, play Hoetry, and hear Bryanna’s wild story about catching an ex lying through an Instagram club video before discussing her book, 4 Play Starts at Breakfast. “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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You've Got Decisions: WTF is MGen? + A Good Ol Nasty Birthday
Send us your questions [email protected] Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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EP 485: The $20 ICK feat. Killah Bee
Killah Bee joins Mandii B and Weezy WTF for a hilarious and unfiltered conversation about whether sex-positive women can still find lasting love, when women should stop dating men for their potential, and why lifestyle compatibility can matter more than a paycheck. The trio debates body counts, dating 9-to-5 workers, male best friends with house keys, the lack of attractive men in Atlanta, and how porn can affect pleasure. Killah Bee also reveals why she once tried dating women, Weezy shares a wild story from a gay club, and the episode ends with a brutally funny hookup story involving a man begging his sister for $20. “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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You've Got Decisions: Can You Really Catch Feelings in Three Months?
Trigger Warning: Domestic Abuse** Mandii and Weezy reflect on high school reunions, homeownership, motherhood, and whether a $250,000 dream wedding is worth the price. This week’s listener ended a 10-year relationship with her high school sweetheart after years of feeling unappreciated and a frightening physical altercation. Now she wonders if her intense new romance is genuine love or a trauma response as she considers moving in and getting matching tattoos after only three months. Send us your questions [email protected] Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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EP 484: Heauxing Responsibly feat.Shae Primus
Matchmaker, author, and Love Match Atlanta personality Shae Primus joins Mandii B and Weezy for a raw conversation about dating successful professionals, what really happens at a vetted play party, and the differences between kink, BDSM, and the lifestyle. Shae opens up about healing from church hurt and sexual trauma, practicing responsible nonmonogamy, having sex without emotional attachment, skipping aftercare, and using sex magic and orgasmic manifestation. The ladies also unpack a shocking marriage dilemma involving a baby mama, six secret dating apps, years of deception, and a wife struggling to decide whether being single is better than staying with a cheating husband. Plus, Shae previews her upcoming book, Touched: Stories of Pleasure, Power and Awakening. “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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You've Got Decisions: Update: Do I Make Him Not Feel Bad For Cheating?
Send us your questions [email protected] Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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EP 483: Are Women Financial Liabilities in Marriage? Feat. Earn Your Leisure
Mandii B and Weezy sit down with Troy Millings and Rashad Bilal of Earn Your Leisure for a candid conversation about how money shapes dating, marriage and business. They break down financial due diligence before marriage, the risks of combining debt and assets, buying a house before the wedding, expensive ceremonies, bringing romantic partners into a company, workplace attraction and whether image plays a role in business success. The conversation also turns to OnlyFans, the business of sex, the barriers Black women face in podcasting, mainstream brand support and why Black-owned platforms must do more to champion one another, before ending with a wild discussion about IG baddies and the economics of modern dating. “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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Introducing: Delivering Happiness
Delivering Happiness starring Nick Turturro is a series that follows Big Nick as he begins his new life with Prince St. Pizza. Every delivery turns into an unscripted moment of connection, laughter, and truth — with special guests along the way. Listen to Delivering Happiness on the iHeartRadio App or wherever you get your podcastsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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You've Got Decisions: UPDATE: I Slept with My BF’s Parents x My Wife Doesn’t Want My Sub to Join
Send us your questions [email protected] Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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EP 482: A Freak in the seats feat. Mr.Whatchair (Joshua Adams)
On this episode of Decisions, Decisions, Mandii B and Weezy are joined by Joshua Adams, better known as Mr. What Chair, for an honest and unfiltered conversation about sex, dating, disability, and the search for real intimacy. Joshua opens up about losing his virginity to a sex worker, spending years in transactional sexual relationships, navigating dating in a wheelchair, and why he has never experienced a traditional romantic relationship. He also gets candid about wheelchair sex, threesomes, rejection, childhood trauma, mental health, therapy, and learning to see himself as a blessing instead of a burden. From hilarious demonstrations to deeply emotional revelations, this episode challenges assumptions about disability while exploring what it truly means to feel desired, supported, and loved.Check out the episode with Frenchie!https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iZuXaAn4eGg “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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You've Got Decisions: C0rn May Be Ruining Me! Help!
Send us your questions [email protected] Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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EP 481: Happy Heauxs Ain’t Hatin’
On this solo episode of Decisions, Decisions, Mandii and Weezy get back in their niche with a hilarious and honest catch-up about fan pushback, age-gap relationships, platforming love, Anwar’s viral appeal, pets interrupting intimacy, robots, aliens, and why people might be scarier than both. The conversation gets deeper as they unpack friendship breakups, messy behavior, political differences, family dynamics, Pride Month, mom shaming, boundaries, and identity, before jumping into “We Listen & We Judge” with a funny but real conversation about backhanded compliments, hair, relationships, skincare, fans putting dirt on their names, pillow talking, and what gets you exiled from the group chat. “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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You've Got Decisions: How Do I Make Him Not Feel Bad For Cheating? + Coke Can D
Send us your questions [email protected] Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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Selective Ignorance: Ep. 71 | Bible Thumpers & Bad Parenting
In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King, Jason “Jah” Lee, and Yomi for a wide-ranging conversation examining American politics, Black identity, race, parenting, religion, celebrity culture, and the social issues shaping today's headlines. The episode opens with discussions surrounding the 2028 presidential landscape and speculation about Kamala Harris' political future [ 02:52 ], before the crew reflects on the Fourth of July and the complicated relationship many Black Americans have with patriotism and national celebrations [06:03 ]. From there, they take a nostalgic detour into the influence of '90s R&B and hip-hop on sexuality, relationships, and cultural norms [ 08:55 ], before shifting toward today's economic realities with conversations about the housing crisis, affordability, and the financial pressures facing everyday Americans [ 11:55 ]. The discussion continues by unpacking the political complexities surrounding the Israel-Gaza conflict and America's role in global affairs [ 15:03], leading into a thoughtful conversation about patriotism, national identity, and the historical relationship between Black Americans and military service [ 18:00 ][ 20:53 ]. The opening segment concludes with reflections on what these ongoing issues could mean for the country's future [ 23:55 ]. As the conversation resumes, the crew examines the silence of influential artists and public figures on major political issues, while debating whether financial interests often outweigh activism [ 37:42 ]. They then turn their attention to Texas legislation requiring Bible instruction in public schools, unpacking the constitutional, political, and educational debates surrounding religion in the classroom [ 38:41 ][ 39:59 ]. The hosts explore the historical relationship between religion and American government [ 41:25 ], while questioning the broader implications of mandatory Bible readings and the intersection of faith, politics, and public education [ 43:04 ][ 44:30 ]. The latter half of the episode tackles difficult conversations around child neglect, obesity, and parental responsibility, using a recent case study to examine where personal accountability, public health, and government intervention intersect [48:13 ][ 51:07 ]. The discussion expands into the often-overlooked relationship between mental health and obesity, encouraging a more compassionate and nuanced perspective on wellness [ 56:33 ]. From there, the crew reacts to Amber Rose's comments about race, success, and privilege, using the moment to explore the ongoing realities of racial inequality in America [ 01:04:05 ]. The conversation closes by examining the challenges of raising children in a racially and culturally complex society [ 01:15:31 ], discussing the influence of celebrity culture on young people [ 01:18:10 ], and debating how music, entertainment, and popular culture shape behavior, values, and public perception [01:23:44 ][ 01:29:45 ][ 01:35:26 ]. Blending humor, social commentary, and thoughtful debate, the episode challenges listeners to think critically about politics, identity, parenting, and the cultural forces influencing everyday life. No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the crew on Social Media @itsaking @jaysonrodriguez @mrhiphopobama Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_podSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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EP 480: How To Spot A Dusty (feat. Maiya the Don)
*TRIGGER WARNING* - Mentions of depression and s*icide This week on Decisions, Decisions, Mandii B and Weezy link up with Maiya The Don for a real, honest, and super relatable convo about leveling up. Fresh off dropping her latest album Precious Cargo, Maiya gets into her journey with sobriety, staying disciplined, hitting the gym, and even choosing celibacy while putting herself first. She also keeps it real about body image, weight loss, and protecting her peace at all costs. Of course, they dive into dating too—Maiya talks about setting her standards high and navigating relationships her way, no compromises. “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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You've Got Decisions: Decade Long Stagnant Relationship
Send us your questions [email protected] Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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EP 479: Green Zones (feat. Chloe Bailey)
Mandii and Weezy kick things off solo with laughs, singing, and a new “You Got Decisions” fan mail segment, where a listener writes in asking if her boyfriend is weird or if she’s overthinking it after he didn’t want to have sex while she was pregnant. Then, they’re joined virtually by Chloe Bailey to talk about starring in STRUNG, the psychological thriller directed by Malcolm D. Lee, where she plays a talented violinist who takes a prestigious job tutoring the gifted daughter of an influential and mysterious family, only to get pulled into their luxurious world as dark secrets begin to surface. Chloe opens up about what drew her to the script, learning instruments, filming sex scenes with intimacy coordinators, acting alongside Coco Jones, dating advice, walking away from bad situations, and how the movie challenges her character’s safety, dreams, and sanity. “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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You've Got Decisions: SubDom Dilemma
Send us your questions [email protected] Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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EP 478: Going On A Side Quest (feat. Kyle Dion)
Kyle Dion joins Mandii B and Weezy WTF for a wild episode of Decisions, Decisions as they talk terrible side quests, chaotic drug run stories, Barcelona adventures, dating in queer spaces, and the realities of being open about sexuality. Kyle opens up about meeting Weezy, his last sexual experience, dating men versus women, orgy stories, sex parties in Amsterdam, and what nightlife can teach you during your hoe phase. The crew also gets into squirting, smells, bisexuality, coming out for the community, Kehlani openly singing to women, afties etiquette, bad sexual experiences, and Weezy shares a nasty story that leaves the room stunned.Now entering a new chapter, Dion releaes the deluxe edition of SOULAR on Juneteenth (June 19, 2026), featuring three brand new tracks, including focus single “Vanilla Skies” featuring Duckwrth continuing his tradition of pushing creative boundaries while staying rooted in the soulful artistry that defines him. SOULAR Deluxe album - Stream link: https://kyle-dion.ffm.to/soular_deluxe “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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You've Got Decisions: Platonic Intimacy
Send us your questions [email protected] Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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Selective Ignorance: Ep. 68 | Racism is Alive, Bigot Bot Hive & The Knicks In Five
In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by A-King, Jason “Jah” Lee, and Yomi for a wide-ranging conversation that blends sports, politics, culture, technology, and modern relationships through the show's signature lens of curiosity and critical thinking. The episode opens with the crew celebrating the New York Knicks' Finals victory and the energy surrounding New York sports culture [ 02:00 ], before shifting into a discussion about the highly debated Karmelo Anthony trial and the public reaction surrounding the case [ 09:53 ]. The hosts reflect on the excitement of game-day experiences in New York City [ 19:51 ], highlighting the unique connection between sports, community, and civic pride. The conversation then expands into the upcoming FIFA World Cup and the ongoing challenge of increasing American soccer awareness and engagement [ 30:12 ], leading into a broader debate over whether the event is positioned to become one of the most controversial tournaments in recent memory [ 34:44 ]. As the discussion continues, the crew examines reports of discrimination, public embarrassment, and unequal treatment within international sports [ 38:04 ], while also addressing cultural misunderstandings and the impact of mispronunciations, stereotypes, and global ignorance [ 40:31 ]. They explore the evolution of football and soccer culture in America [ 42:22 ], as well as the unique experiences of fans navigating major international sporting events [45:30 ]. From there, the conversation pivots toward deeper societal issues, including racial bias within the legal system and the unequal application of justice [ 54:07 ], before emphasizing the importance of political engagement, civic responsibility, and community activism [ 01:01:32 ]. The hosts reflect on historical movements and the lessons they provide for modern struggles surrounding equality and justice [ 01:07:12 ]. The final stretch of the episode takes a fascinating turn into discussions about deception, manipulation, and the real-world consequences of unchecked lies, inspired by a documentary that sparks a broader conversation about accountability and trust [ 01:10:49 ]. The crew then examines Elon Musk’s rise to trillionaire status and the controversies surrounding his business practices [ 01:17:13 ], leading into a thoughtful debate on the ethical implications of technology, individualism, artificial intelligence, and innovations like Neuralink [ 01:22:51 ]. Closing out the episode, the hosts explore how economic realities are reshaping modern dating, relationships, and expectations between partners [ 01:37:44 ], advocating for a more empathetic and human-centered approach to connection in an increasingly transactional world. Blending humor, cultural commentary, and thought-provoking analysis, this episode offers a compelling look at the forces shaping society today. No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the crew on Social Media @itsaking @jaysonrodriguez @mrhiphopobama Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_podSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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EP 477: Heauxs Can Get Married Too!
We’re recapping the SOLD-OUT live show where Weezy finally popped out with her fiancé onstage (yes, in front of his family) and the brand-new audience game inspired by No Holds Barred. Then Weezy tells the full Central Park engagement story... yes engagement! Weezy also shares the emotional moment of telling her dad, plus a real talk convo on why marriage isn’t a status symbol and why nobody should be scared to leave. Finally, they get into wedding/bachelorette ideas like a warehouse rager, caviar & jollof, and more. “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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You've Got Decisions: Is this N**** Selling D?
Send us your questions [email protected] Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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Selective Ignorance: Ep. 67 | Biased Juries, Bird Behavior & Basketball
In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King, journalist Jayson Rodriguez headline king Jason “Jah” Lee to tackle a wide range of current events, legal controversies, celebrity culture, and social commentary, unpacking some of the most polarizing conversations shaping public discourse today. The episode begins with a breakdown of the latest headlines and trending controversies [ 03:03 ], before examining the increasingly complicated relationship between audiences and public figures, and how celebrity culture influences public opinion [ 05:57 ]. The crew also explores the role of social media discourse, fandom culture, and online accountability [ 09:02 ], leading into a discussion surrounding Daphne Joy and the court of public opinion, highlighting how narratives are formed and amplified in the digital age [ 11:48 ]. Conversations around victimhood, accountability, and public perception take center stage [ 15:08 ], setting the foundation for a deeper examination of one of the episode’s most significant topics. The hosts then unpack the highly discussed Karmelo Anthony trial, providing context around the case and its broader societal implications [ 17:52 ]. They examine the legal complexities, racial dynamics, and public reactions surrounding the case [ 21:00 ], before diving into the details of the track meet incident that sparked national debate [32:26 ]. The conversation explores questions surrounding violence, personal safety, and accountability [ 35:24 ], while also analyzing the legal framework of self-defense claims and how race can influence perceptions within the justice system [ 41:22 ][ 45:52 ]. Later in the episode, the discussion shifts to a controversial story involving a YouTube couple who faced intense backlash after publicly sharing a difficult pregnancy decision [ 51:38 ]. The hosts thoughtfully explore the complexity of parental choice, disability, morality, and public judgment [ 57:51 ], emphasizing the challenges of navigating deeply personal decisions in the age of social media. The conversation then broadens into a look at celebrity controversies and public reactions [ 01:04:50 ], before examining the growing influence of political opinions expressed by entertainers and public figures [ 01:15:01 ]. The final portion of the episode turns toward sports, culture, and community identity, particularly the excitement surrounding the New York Knicks’ NBA Finals run and its impact on New York City culture [ 01:19:18 ]. The hosts reflect on the unique energy that sports bring to communities, the intersection of fandom and civic pride, and the broader cultural significance of major sporting events. The episode concludes with reflections on New York City’s spirit, community engagement, and future prospects [ 01:29:54 ], tying together a conversation that spans law, culture, politics, sports, and the complexities of modern public discourse. No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the crew on Social Media @itsaking @jaysonrodriguez @mrhiphopobama Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_podSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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WHOREIBLE IN NYC 6/9 ONLY A FEW TIX LEFT!
Of course we had to throw a show on 69!Come and see WHOREIBLE DECISIONS LIVEONLY A FEW TIX LEFT!https://sonyhall.com/shows/?eid=14917903See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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EP 476: Milk and Melanin (feat. John & Breyonna)
This week on Decisions, Decisions, Mandii and Weezy sit down with John and Breyonna, better known as Milk n Melanin, an interracial age-gap couple whose love story sparks a wild, honest, and unfiltered conversation. From how they met and what made their first date click, to navigating public stares, exes, family opinions, dating preferences, race, age, kids, intimacy, and keeping things spicy, John and Breyonna open up about the realities of their relationship and why their connection works despite what people may assume. “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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You've Got Decisions: Just a Girl Who Wants a Threesome
Send us your questions [email protected] Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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Selective Ignorance: Ep. 66 | Brooklyn's Finest, Bing Bong & Bad Boy Business
In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King and headline king Jason “Jah” Leefor a lively and insightful conversation covering The Roots Picnic, friendship dynamics, hip-hop culture, sports, generational shifts, and the ongoing impact of celebrity controversies. The episode begins with a recap of their Roots Picnic weekend experience, highlighting the energy, culture, and significance of one of hip-hop’s most celebrated festivals [ 00:56 ]. The crew shares stories about friendship dynamics during a night out [ 06:05 ], including a humorous yet stress-filled situation involving a missing friend that turned a fun evening into an anxiety-inducing adventure [ 12:13 ]. The conversation then shifts back to the festival, breaking down the overall experience and Jay-Z’s highly discussed performance [ 20:12 ], including reactions to his freestyle and perceived responses to Drake amid the ongoing competitive energy surrounding hip-hop’s biggest names [ 24:08 ]. This leads into a broader discussion about the evolution of rap rivalries and how competition has shaped the genre across generations [ 35:38 ], along with insights into the behind-the-scenes realities of music collaborations and industry relationships [ 39:16 ]. The hosts also reflect on Jay-Z’s commentary on current events [ 42:02 ], before examining how personal relationships influence business decisions, artistic partnerships, and public perception within the music industry [ 45:27 ]. As the episode continues, the crew celebrates The Roots Picnic as a cultural institution [ 55:00 ], while also discussing the often-overlooked business challenges involved in producing large-scale music festivals [ 01:01:09 ]. The conversation expands into sports and cultural commentary [ 01:03:21 ], including reflections on the long-running cultural conversation surrounding sagging pants and fashion as self-expression [ 01:11:31 ], followed by predictions and analysis for the NBA Finals [ 01:12:42 ]. The hosts also weigh in on the controversy involving New York Giants quarterback Jaxson Dart and the political conversations surrounding athlete expression [ 01:19:29 ]. The final stretch of the episode explores the evolution of hip-hop culture and the growing generational gaps in music appreciation [ 01:31:33 ], prompting a thoughtful discussion on modern influences affecting children and young audiences today [ 01:47:09 ]. The hosts examine hip-hop’s continued cultural impact [ 01:50:10 ], debate which artists should be considered essential listening for the next generation [ 01:52:29 ], and stress the importance of understanding the historical context that shaped the genre’s development [ 02:01:24 ]. The episode closes with commentary on the ongoing Diddy controversy and how social media has transformed public accountability, celebrity scandals, and cultural discourse [ 02:04:06 ], tying together a conversation that is equal parts entertaining, reflective, and culturally relevant. No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the crew on Social Media @itsaking @jaysonrodriguez @mrhiphopobama Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_podSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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EP 475: She Ran Through The WHOLE Family (feat. Craig Wayans)
Mandii B and Weezy are joined by Craig Wayans for a wild episode of Decisions, Decisions filled with unfiltered debates, relationship confessions, and a behind-the-scenes look at the new Scary Movie. Craig breaks down writing Scary Movie 1 & 2, shares horror classics everyone should revisit, and teases what fans can expect from the next film. The crew dives into messy conversations about dating within friend groups and families, relationship boundaries, public appearances with partners, and whether showing feet counts as cheating. Craig also opens up about fatherhood, catching his son drunk and high, smoking weed for the first time after 30, and his current dating life. “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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You've Got Decisions: Spin the Block
Send us your questions [email protected] Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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Selective Ignorance: Ep. 65 | Scam Economy, Stripped Rights & Stay Schemin’
In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King and headline king Jason “Jah” Leefor a layered conversation tackling voting rights, economic struggles, grief, mental health, hip-hop culture, and personal accountability in today’s social climate. The episode opens with a discussion on the erosion of voting rights and the shifting political landscape, particularly how new legislation impacts marginalized communities and voter access [ 03:11 ], before examining the role of public reactions, online engagement, and social media discourse in shaping political conversations [ 06:11 ]. The hosts then transition into a more personal discussion about grief, complicated relationships, and the emotional toll of supporting loved ones through difficult moments [ 08:58 ], alongside reflections on mental health, emotional boundaries, and the importance of protecting personal peace [12:07 ]. The conversation deepens with a breakdown of the SAVE Act and its implications for women’s voting rights [ 14:59 ], followed by broader commentary on political dynamics, gender equity, and shifting social attitudes toward women’s rights [ 18:11 ]. The crew also explores the tension between empathy and empire in political discourse [ 21:10 ], questioning how ideology, nationalism, and compassion intersect in modern society. From there, the episode pivots into global concerns, including the debate surrounding Iran, nuclear weapons, and American interests abroad [ 37:35 ], while also emphasizing the importance of understanding policy and economics in order to make informed political decisions [ 40:31 ]. The hosts then unpack the reality of financial struggles, wage stagnation, and the growing economic pressure facing everyday Americans [ 44:41 ][ 48:11 ], before critiquing the role of community leaders and the double standards often present in financial advice across racial lines [ 52:12 ][ 56:54 ]. Conversations around racism and economic disparities [ 01:01:06 ] lead into cultural reflections on scamming, street culture, and survival mentalities within underserved communities [ 01:06:07 ]. The episode continues with nuanced discussions about the ethics of scamming, shoplifting, and personal accountability [ 01:12:05 ], as well as how cultural influences and music can shape behavior and decision-making [ 01:15:20 ][ 01:18:53 ]. Closing out the episode, the crew dives into the ongoing Rick Ross vs. Drake feud and the complexities of relationships within hip-hop culture [ 01:22:42 ][ 01:29:16 ], before ending on reflections surrounding fatherhood, co-parenting, and the challenges of maintaining healthy relationships in the public eye [ 01:37:09 ]. Balancing humor, honesty, and cultural insight, the episode delivers a thought-provoking look at politics, economics, relationships, and the evolving realities shaping modern life. No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the crew on Social Media @itsaking @jaysonrodriguez @mrhiphopobama Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_podSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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EP 474: Klay Thompson Doesn’t Understand Non-Monogamy
Mandii and Weezy are back with another chaotic solo episode of Decisions, Decisions as they catch up on everything from Amber Rose looking wild and why “bad people are ugly,” to the overstimulation of living in NYC, awkward family interactions, scary driving stories, and the high price of jet fuel. The duo dive into the new era of dating, “Vanilla Ish,” situationships, and whether meeting your partner’s family actually matters, while Mandii shares a wild story involving spit and Weezy brings her man’s mom into the mix. Later, the ladies open up the courtroom for Kinky Court, react to “Cheating Klay” claiming he’s non-monogamous after getting caught up, and wrap things up discussing toxic and abusive relationships in another hilarious, unfiltered episode full of hot takes, oversharing, and pure friendship chaos. “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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You've Got Decisions: Quarter Life Crisis - Career Advice
Send us your questions [email protected] Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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Selective Ignorance: Ep. 64 | Dirty Rats, Dr. God & Drake Bars
In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King, headline king Jason “Jah” Lee and journalist Jayson Rodriguez unpack a wide range of conversations spanning mental health, celebrity culture, media elitism, luxury branding, public health concerns, comedy, and hip-hop commentary, delivering a layered discussion that balances humor with social critique. The episode opens with a sharp media-focused monologue addressing current controversies and online discourse [ 00:53 ], before transitioning into honest conversations surrounding mental health, emotional wellness, and the importance of self-awareness in today’s climate [ 07:45 ]. The crew then dives into the ongoing controversy surrounding Dr. Cheyenne Bryant’s credentials and professional representation [ 17:00 ], using the discussion as a broader lens to examine authenticity, expertise, and accountability among public figures. This naturally expands into deeper cultural commentary on elitism in media spaces and how perceived authority shapes public opinion [ 34:05 ]. The conversation evolves into entertainment and consumer culture, beginning with an analysis of celebrity collaborations and their impact on luxury brands and marketing culture [ 34:34 ], followed by reflections on the evolution of youth culture, materialism, and the growing obsession with status and visibility [ 42:07 ]. The hosts also touch on current public health concerns, including discussions around hantavirus and Ebola outbreaks [ 51:41 ], highlighting how fear, misinformation, and media narratives shape public reaction to health crises. From there, the episode pivots into comedy and entertainment with a breakdown of Kevin Hart’s recent roast, exploring the changing boundaries of humor, controversy, and sensitivity in modern culture [ 01:02:41 ]. The latter half of the episode centers heavily on Drake’s recent musical output and evolving legacy in hip-hop [01:03:10 ], as the hosts examine audience expectations, artistic growth, and the pressure of maintaining relevance at the top of the industry. They discuss Drake’s musical journey and the shifting relationship between artist and audience [01:09:01 ], while also unpacking the complex dynamics of friendship, loyalty, and competition within the music industry [ 01:12:46 ]. The conversation continues with critiques of Drake’s lyrics, themes, and recent projects [01:15:56 ][ 01:21:58 ], ultimately reflecting on his broader impact on hip-hop culture, commercial success, and the future direction of mainstream rap [ 01:29:03 ]. No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the crew on Social Media @itsaking @jaysonrodriguez @mrhiphopobama Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_podSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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EP 473: Score (feat. Kennedy Ryan & Sam)
This episode of Decisions, Decisions features Kennedy Ryan, the New York Times and USA Today bestselling romance author, as she joins Mandii B and Weezy for a conversation about the rise of her career, the real-life love story behind her books, and the passion that drives her writing. Kennedy opens up about meeting her husband Sam, balancing marriage with her success, and how his support helped her navigate life on the road and the growing demand for her work. The episode dives into the world of romance novels, the misconceptions around “smut,” memorable scenes from her books that even left Sam reacting in real time, and the moments that made her realize just how massive her audience had become. They also discuss the business side of publishing, bidding wars, commitment to the craft, adding sexuality and vulnerability into storytelling, second-chance romances, and the inspiration behind some of her most talked-about storylines, before closing out with a wild “Reactionary” segment that pushes the conversation even further. “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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You've Got Decisions: I Think I've Slept with My Boyfriend's Parents...HELP!
Send us your questions [email protected] Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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EP 472: My man can’t BOND with other women
This week on Decisions, Decisions, Mandii B and WeezyWTF kick things off with gym gains, creatine talk, beauty standards, and why bald women get more love than people admit before getting into a wild night at K Camp’s listening session where the world felt way too small.Later, the duo dives into the headlines surrounding Brandy’s memoir and her relationship with Wanya Morris, reacts to comments from Nikki Glaser, and debates emotional cheating, casual sex, and whether men actually develop feelings after sleeping with someone multiple times. They also unpack financial flexing in relationships, sending money, buying homes for partners, and wrap with another hilarious dose of pure heauxtry. “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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You've Got Decisions: ENM Update + WLW Does This Count as Cheating?
Send us your questions [email protected] Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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Selective Ignorance: Ep. 62 | Breakups, Bending & Broke America feat. Jamila Bell
n this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King, headline king Jason “Jah” Lee, and special guest Jamila Bell as they blend NBA playoff predictions, celebrity relationships, and cultural commentary into a layered and entertaining conversation that moves from sports to global culture to real-life relationship patterns. The episode kicks off with Mandi's excursion to Ghana and expands to a deeper conversation around carnival culture in Ghana, colorism, and the gap between expectation and reality when traveling abroad [ 02:13] [ 14:26 ]. The crew continues with honest reflections on travel preferences and cultural experiences [ 20:55 ], then pivots into a sharp take on Cinco de Mayo and cultural appropriation [ 31:01 ], followed by more NBA playoff breakdowns and second-round analysis [ 32:22 ]. From there, the discussion expands into legacy conversations around Ja Morant and Karl Malone [ 40:56 ], before diving into the headline relationship between Megan Thee Stallion and Klay Thompson, unpacking cheating, accountability, and dating dynamics in the public eye [ 44:10 ][ 46:58 ]. As the episode progresses, the hosts explore patterns in modern relationships, the illusion of change, and the impact of social media on personal decision-making [ 51:00 ][ 55:05 ], while also addressing how people repeatedly choose the same type of partners and navigate non-monogamy, loyalty, and public scrutiny [ 01:00:59 ][ 01:05:11 ]. The conversation then broadens into accountability for public figures during personal scandals [ 01:09:59 ] and the recurring patterns seen in celebrity dating culture [ 01:22:10 ], before taking a more serious turn into discussions about abuse, exploitation, and the darker side of fame [ 01:29:09 ]. Closing out, the crew zooms out to examine capitalism, class disparities, and the illusion of the American Dream [ 01:41:09 ][ 01:52:03 ], delivering a conversation that’s equal parts humorous, reflective, and socially aware—tying together sports, culture, and real-life relationship lessons in a way that feels both current and necessary. No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the crew on Social Media @itsaking @jaysonrodriguez @mrhiphopobama @_iamjamila Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_podSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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EP 471: Men Don’t Want To Be Friends (feat. Azar)
This week on Decisions, Decisions, Mandii B and Weezy WTF are joined by Azar Farideh from Truth After Dark for a candid conversation about whether men and women can truly be platonic friends, as they debate lacking possessiveness, having male friends, and the idea that men would cross the line if given the opportunity while sharing personal experiences of friendships that did and didn’t stay platonic. The episode dives into whether men feel safe expressing themselves, if women expect too much or misread intentions, and what it really means when someone is wasting your time, along with discussions on honesty, comparison being the thief of joy, and how men show up differently depending on the woman. They also get into accountability on both sides, arguing that women can be just as toxic, explore sexual openness, celebrity crushes, and “heaux friends,” and close with deeper reflections on financial expectations, shaken beliefs in Black love, and how upbringing and experiences with father figures shape dating perspectives. “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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You've Got Decisions: He Cheated On Me, I Forgave Him..But Now I’m Cheating
Send us your questions [email protected] Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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Selective Ignorance: Ep. 60 | Lap Dances, Live Nation & Losers
In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King and headline king Jason “Jah” Leefor a wide-ranging conversation that blends music, industry politics, and social commentary. The episode opens with Mandii’s concert experience at Pretty Ricky’s “Boys For Life Tour” alongside a breakdown of the Live Nation lawsuit and Ticketmaster monopoly concerns, highlighting how corporate control impacts fans and artists alike [ 02:16]. The discussion deepens into the real-world effects of Ticketmaster’s dominance on concertgoers, including pricing, access, and industry fairness [ 24:24 ], before pivoting into festival culture and consumer awareness, with a look at scams and safety concerns surrounding events like Coachella [ 29:30 ]. The hosts then shift into music industry reflections, unpacking Lil Wayne’s perspective on his career, legacy, and the challenges artists face navigating longevity and business [ 30:29 ], before transitioning into political commentary with reactions to public figures like Caitlyn Jenner and Tina Campbell, examining how celebrity voices influence political discourse [ 41:03 ]. The conversation expands into the complexities of identity and documentation, particularly within the LGBTQ+ community, and the systemic barriers individuals face in navigating acceptance and legitimacy [ 41:39 ]. From there, the crew explores the consequences of political choices and how they directly impact personal lives and communities [ 44:40 ], followed by a deeper discussion on the intersection of faith, politics, and voter accountability, emphasizing the importance of informed decision-making [ 49:00 ]. The episode takes a serious turn with a candid conversation about the ongoing crisis of violence against women, addressing societal responsibility and the need for structural change [ 56:25 ], which leads into a powerful dialogue on the importance of emotional intelligence in men as a preventative measure against harmful behavior [ 01:01:45 ]. The episode closes with reflections on cultural identity through sports rivalries, highlighting how fandom, geography, and identity intersect to shape broader societal interactions [ 01:09:41 ]. No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the crew on Social Media @itsaking @jaysonrodriguez @mrhiphopobama Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_podSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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EP 469: Forgiving Cheaters (feat. Brianda & Krystal)
Mandii B and Weezy are joined by their best friends Krystal and Brianda for a candid and unfiltered episode of Decisions, Decisions as they dive into dating dynamics, monogamy, and the blurred lines of modern relationships. The group unpacks everything from exploring options and questioning loyalty, to whether someone likes you more and how to communicate boundaries when you’re not trying to entertain multiple people. They get into real conversations about cheating, forgiveness, and the “once a cheater, always a cheater” debate, while also sparking a heated discussion around marriage, motherhood, and public figures like Cardi B and Latto. The episode also takes a deeper turn as they open up about dating during serious health challenges, including navigating relationships while going through breast cancer treatment, before circling back to celibacy, double standards, and what it really means when men claim they’re abstaining. “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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You've Got Decisions: Leave of Absence
Send us your questions [email protected] Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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Selective Ignorance: Ep. 59 | Bans, Bad Blood & Bambaataa
In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King and headline king Jason “Jah” Leefor a dynamic conversation that blends sports, culture, music, and social accountability. The episode opens with nuanced takes on trending current events and cultural discourse, setting the tone for a layered discussion [ 02:14 ], before jumping into a spirited Knicks vs. Hawks debate, unpacking rivalry, fandom, and regional pride within the NBA landscape [05:07 ]. The hosts then shift into a personal concert experience, sharing anticipation, expectations, and reflections on live music culture [ 10:42 ], followed by a breakdown of a miscommunication moment that sparks a broader conversation about perception and intent in social interactions [ 18:45 ]. The discussion deepens into cultural critique as the crew examines blackface, satire, and the boundaries of comedy, questioning what constitutes humor versus harm in modern entertainment [ 27:32 ], before expanding into the consequences of cultural appropriation and how public figures navigate backlash and accountability [ 33:13 ]. Conversations around identity and racial perception take center stage [ 36:21 ], leading into a critical analysis of Kanye West’s controversies and the broader implications of celebrity behavior on cultural narratives [ 41:22 ]. The hosts also address the hypocrisy within celebrity culture and the selective outrage often seen in public discourse [ 52:16 ], reinforcing the need for consistent accountability within the community [ 59:44 ]. The episode transitions into cultural phenomena, beginning with a breakdown of the meaning behind “The Birthday” trend and its social implications [ 01:05:58 ], before diving into Tekashi69’s controversial commentary on street culture and authenticity in the music industry [ 01:10:30 ]. The conversation expands into the business realities of hip-hop, exploring the tension between street credibility and financial strategy [ 01:15:23 ], followed by a discussion on the impact of debt and financial obligations on artists’ careers [ 01:20:15 ]. The hosts close by reflecting on the significance of upcoming tours and the enduring influence of R&B superstars, examining how legacy artists continue to shape today’s music landscape [ 01:24:19 ][ 01:31:16 ]. No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the crew on Social Media @itsaking @jaysonrodriguez @mrhiphopobama Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_podSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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Ep. 468: Pretty Girls Deserve Facials (feat. Emanny)
Mandii B and Weezy are joined by Grammy-nominated singer Emanny from All Eyes On E and the Joe Budden Podcast for a wild and unfiltered episode of Decisions, Decisions as they dive into dating tension, past link-ups, and sexual chemistry, including the story of how Mandii and Emanny first met and nearly took things further. The trio gets into everything from questionable kisses and making out at Las Lap, to paying for sex abroad, Emanny’s “reviews,” and Weezy’s glow-up post-braces, before jumping into a spicy round of Heauxtry. They also debate the kinkiest cities in the world, break down relationship misfires, and get brutally honest about dirty talk and bedroom confessions, with Emanny bringing candid takes and signature humor throughout. “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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You've Got Decisions: I Love My Bf but...
Send us your questions [email protected] Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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Selective Ignorance: Ep.58 | Two Sheisty's & A Turkey Baster
In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King and headline king Jason “Jah” Lee for a layered, culture-forward conversation that blends current events, music, race, and sports into one dynamic discussion. The episode opens with sharp cultural commentary on trending headlines and social discourse [ 03:14 ], before shifting into a celebration and critique of 404 Weekend and Atlanta’s cultural influence, highlighting how the city continues to shape music, nightlife, and identity [ 05:46 ]. The hosts then dive into a new wave in R&B with conversations around emerging sounds like “Strap and B” and reflections from a recent listening session that signal shifts in genre evolution [ 08:59 ], followed by a breakdown of Jack Harlow’s controversial collaboration and the racial dynamics embedded in cross-cultural partnerships [ 11:56 ]. The discussion deepens as the crew examines the lawsuit against the Congressional Black Caucus over scholarships for Black students, unpacking the broader implications of race, access, and equity in education [ 17:00 ], and expanding into a nuanced dialogue on racial dynamics and systemic challenges surrounding opportunity [ 24:06 ]. From there, they analyze NASA astronaut Victor Glover’s remarks on race and identity, using his comments as a lens to explore representation, respectability politics, and public perception [ 29:54 ], followed by reflections on disappointment in public figures and the complexities of navigating cultural identity in high-visibility spaces [ 39:01 ]. The conversation pivots into sports, beginning with the excitement and evolving structure of March Madness and college athletics [ 41:05 ], before tackling controversial statements made by athletes and the consequences of speaking publicly on polarizing issues [ 42:55 ]. The hosts examine the intersection of religious beliefs and LGBTQ+ rights, highlighting how personal ideology can shape public discourse and backlash [ 46:21 ], and continue into a deeper conversation about mental health and the weight of public statements in celebrity culture [ 49:32 ]. They also reflect on how celebrity actions impact personal lives and public perception [ 52:50 ], including a breakdown of Deontay Wilder’s controversial claims and their broader implications [ 57:20 ], before closing with a discussion on Poo Shiesty’s legal situation and what it reveals about the music industry, accountability, and systemic pressures [ 01:07:14 ].See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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EP 467: Ozempic Chique
Mandii B and WeezyWTF hold it down for a solo episode of Decisions, Decisions where NYC life takes center stage, from the chaos of reservations running the city to nights out at spots like Corner Store and Double Chicken Please, plus awkward run-ins with managers and the struggle to build real community. The conversation shifts into personal territory as they get honest about aging, body changes, and viral beauty trends like BBL regret and Ozempic culture, before diving into self-confidence, skincare routines, and wild moments like getting dressed in front of a crowd. Later, the duo unpack relationship dynamics with a deep dive into non-monogamy, breaking down communication, boundaries, jealousy, and what it really takes to make it work, all while keeping their signature humor, real-life experiences, and unfiltered storytelling front and center. “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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You've Got Decisions: Are We ENM Because I’m More Experienced ?
Send us your questions [email protected] Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
Welcome to "Decisions, Decisions," the podcast where boundaries are pushed, and conversations get candid! Join your favorite hosts, Mandii B and WeezyWTF, as they dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often-taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love. Every Monday, Mandii and Weezy invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. With a blend of humor, vulnerability, and authenticity, they share their personal journeys navigating their 30s, tackling the complexities of modern relationships, and engaging in thought-provoking discussions that challenge societal expectations.From groundbreaking interviews with diverse guests to relatable stories that resonate with your experiences, "Decisions, Decisions" is your go-to source for open dialogue about what it truly means to love and connect in today's world. Get ready to reshape your understanding of relationships and embrace the freedom of authentic connections
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