Defining Your Life

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Defining Your Life

Defining Your Life provides you with a weekly word of encouragement! Join Marsharelle, your resident pep talk provider for quick convos centered around becoming who you are meant to be and embracing the journey, wherever you find yourself along the way. At Defining Your Life we are a village striving to live in our purpose, practice presence, and activate our power in each moment.

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    REWIND: The BE Series: Be Bold! (How Boldness Can Help You Unlock New Doors In Your Life)

    Send a textHey Everyone! I needed a reminder about the importance of boldness, and I figured maybe some of you could use one as well. Take a listen to this rewind episode about the power of boldness. In the second episode of the BE Series, join Marsharelle for a quick chat about the power of boldness. The 1st cousin of confidence, boldness truly allows us to level up and be seen fully! How are you practicing boldness today?Join our village on Instagram!Follow me on TikTokSend me a note here: [email protected] to the blog: definingyourlife.comDon't forget to rate, review, subscribe, and share! :-)

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    REWIND: Rapid Fire Feature: Diona Murray of Barren Fruit (Infertility Empowerment Week)

    Send a textHey Everyone! In honor of Infertility Empowerment Week, it felt right to rewind to this episode featuring Diona Murray of Barren Fruit; an organization and movement centered around infertility and reproductive health support. In the midst of National Infertility Awareness Week, we take a few minutes to chat about the power of using your voice, no matter your season or circumstance, and recognizing that we can still be empowered in the midst of it all!Learn more about Barren Fruit and Diona:Website: barrenfruit.orgInstagram: @barrenfruitFacebook: Barren FruitJoin our village on Instagram or Facebook!Send me a note here: [email protected]'t forget to rate, review, subscribe, and share! :-)Join our village on Instagram!Follow me on TikTokSend me a note here: [email protected] to the blog: definingyourlife.comDon't forget to rate, review, subscribe, and share! :-)

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    REWIND: Resilience Is Required

    Send a textHey Everyone! Do you consider yourself resilient? What are some of the key attributes of someone resilient, and how can we build our resilience? Join Marsharelle for a quick chat on overcoming challenges, what resilience means, and some recurring themes that seem to be the "secret" to it all.Articles Referenced: What Is Resilience? How To Build Resiliency, Benefits And MoreBuilding ResilienceJoin our village on Instagram!Follow me on TikTokSend me a note here: [email protected] to the blog: definingyourlife.comDon't forget to rate, review, subscribe, and share! :-)

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    REWIND: Making Home A Place You Want To Be

    Send a textHey Everyone! Now that we are in the midst of spring, rebirth, and bloom- when is the last time you truly thought about your home- your space? This felt like a great time to throwback to this episode where we chat about just that. How does your home make you feel? Have you curated a space that makes you feel like your best self each day? Do you embrace and enjoy simple luxuries each day? Join me for a quick flashback chat about how our home environment affects our overall wellbeing, as well as steps you can take to ensure that you create a space that in turn makes space for you.Mentions in this episode:"You Can Be a Minimalist. Yes, You!" By Christine Platt"Finding Luxury in Daily Life with Bria Black" Affirmations for Black Girls Podcast"The Lifechanging Magic of Tidying Up" by Marie Kondo"How Your Living Space Affects Your Mental Health" by Kristina SegarraJoin our village on Instagram!Follow me on TikTokSend me a note here: [email protected] to the blog: definingyourlife.comDon't forget to rate, review, subscribe, and share! :-)

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    REWIND: Rapid Fire Feature: Alphabetty

    Send a textHey Everyone! In honor of National Poetry Month, I wanted to throw back to my very first Rapid Fire Feature interview with the fabulous Lauren Russell, otherwise known by her poetess moniker as Alphabetty. On this episode, I chat with Lauren about how she fell in love with poetry, using poetry as a means to heal, as well as all the happenings within her Poetry Corner Community!TakeawaysVulnerability can be a powerful tool for connection.Art can serve as a form of therapy and self-discovery.Sharing stories can empower others to share their own.The importance of accountability in personal narratives.Compassion towards others is crucial in understanding their pain.Artistic expression can change over time as one heals.If you would like to be featured, or would like to recommend someone for a feature, send an email or DM for more details!Check Alphabetty out here:@alphabettyboop and @thepoetrycornerjawn on IGJoin our village on Instagram!Follow me on TikTokSend me a note here: [email protected] to the blog: definingyourlife.comDon't forget to rate, review, subscribe, and share! :-)

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    REWIND: Rapid Fire: Egypt Graham of Planning 2 Perfection

    Send a textHappy Spring Everyone!  Join me for another REWIND this week with featured guest Egypt Graham of Planning 2 Perfection. Egypt shares her story of making her way into full time entrepreneurship and persevering through COVID as an event planner.Find Egypt Here:Website: Planning 2 PerfectionInstagram: p2perfectionLinkedin: Egypt GrahamJoin our village on Instagram!Follow me on TikTokSend me a note here: [email protected] to the blog: definingyourlife.comDon't forget to rate, review, subscribe, and share! :-)

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    REWIND: Rapid Fire Feature: Rasheeda Gray of Grayspace Interiors

    Send a textHey Everyone! I'm continuing to highlight some fabulous women this March with another throwback Rapid Fire Feature: Rasheeda Gray of Grayspace Interiors. Rasheeda Gray chats with us about her transition from corporate marketing exec to CEO of her own design firm!If you would like to be featured, or would like to recommend someone for a Rapid Fire Feature episode, send me an email or DM for more details!Learn more about Rasheeda and her work here:IG: @grayspaceinteriordesignWebsite: Grayspace InteriorsYoutube: Grayspace Interior DesignJoin our village on Instagram!Follow me on TikTokSend me a note here: [email protected] to the blog: definingyourlife.comDon't forget to rate, review, subscribe, and share! :-)

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    REWIND: Rapid Fire Feature: Marcel Moore on Being A Silent Warrior (MS Awareness)

    Send a textHey Everyone! In honor of MS Awareness month, I thought it fitting to run back this interview with Marcel Moore, who demonstrates the power of positivity everyday, and what it looks like to not let a diagnosis define you. Marcel shares her journey with multiple sclerosis (MS), discussing the misconceptions surrounding invisible illnesses, the importance of community, and the power of a positive attitude. She emphasizes the need for balance in life, the significance of sharing one's story, and the role of kindness in supporting those with chronic illnesses.TakeawaysChronic illnesses like MS are often invisible, leading to misconceptions.Sharing personal experiences can foster community and support.Maintaining a balanced lifestyle is crucial for overall well-being.A positive attitude can significantly impact daily life with MS.Connect with Marcel on IG here Learn more about Multiple Sclerosis here:Multiple Sclerosis Association of AmericaNational MS SocietyNational MS Society IGJoin our village on Instagram!Follow me on TikTokSend me a note here: [email protected] to the blog: definingyourlife.comDon't forget to rate, review, subscribe, and share! :-)

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    REWIND: Finding Success Over 40

    Send a textHey Everyone! In honor of Women’s History Month, I’m replaying this episode (season 2, episode 7), as a reminder that it’s never too late to follow your dream or get started because women are absolutely amazing!In the age of preserving youth and celebrating wins on lists such as 40 under 40, what do you do when you have crossed this threshold and entered the next phase of life? Do you consider yourself washed up, or do you keep chasing those dreams and setting those goals? Join Marsharelle for a quick chat on the mindset around success after 40, and review a short list of women who found their success "later" in life. Join our village on Instagram!Follow me on TikTokSend me a note here: [email protected] to the blog: definingyourlife.comDon't forget to rate, review, subscribe, and share! :-)

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    Establishing Effective Routines for Impactful Results

    Send a textHey Everyone! The simple routines and daily commitments that we make to ourselves in life have a great impact on our trajectory overall. We may think that because we are doing something right that it's good enough, when in reality we need to be leveling up and doing what is best. Join me for a quick chat this week on the power of establishing routines, and also determining if we are doing what is right, but only for the wrong reasons, even if subconsciously. Takeaways: Routine is essential for personal growth and wellness.Morning rituals can enhance spiritual connection and clarity.Reflection helps identify what truly needs to be done.Starting small can lead to significant changes over time.Commitment to routine builds self-efficacy and confidence.Don't be afraid to pivot from what's right to what's best.Some thoughts on routines:The Power of Daily Routines- Psychology TodayThe Power of Routine: Healthy Habits for a Better Life- Ace FitnessThe Power of Routines- Entrepreneur.comJoin our village on Instagram!Follow me on TikTokSend me a note here: [email protected] to the blog: definingyourlife.comDon't forget to rate, review, subscribe, and share! :-)

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    Rapid Fire Feature: Melody Wright of SAY/DO Strategies

    Send a textHey Everyone! This week, in another Rapid Fire Feature installment, we are chatting with Melody Wright who shares her journey from working in the corporate world to becoming an entrepreneur. She discusses the challenges she faced as a double minority in a niche industry, the importance of self-care, and offers advice for aspiring entrepreneurs. Takeaways: Networking in the right spaces is crucial for business development.Self-care is imperative for entrepreneurs to avoid burnout.Turn down work that does not align with your business values.Identify your purpose to guide your business direction.Taking small steps at your current job can help clarify your entrepreneurial path.Connect with Melody!Website: Say/Do StrategiesLinked In: Melody Wright Join our village on Instagram!Follow me on TikTokSend me a note here: [email protected] to the blog: definingyourlife.comDon't forget to rate, review, subscribe, and share! :-)

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    Consistency Is Key!

    Send a textHey Everyone! Consistency is a building block for excellence. Join me for a quick chat on how consistency can help us achieve great things, and wrap up with exploring some tools to help us stay consistent!Takeaways: Your consistency will yield compound results over time.Mastery requires consistent practice and effort.Using technology can help maintain consistency in tasks.Accountability partners can enhance your commitment to consistency.Success is not just about talent; it's about consistent effort.Consistency is the foundation for long-term success.Resources: 3 Simple Tools to Be Consistent and Always Achieve Your Goals by Zamai BanjeFree Habit Tracker Download7 Physical Tools To Be More Consistent In Your Habits And Goals For Success by Kevin NokiaJoin our village on Instagram!Follow me on TikTokSend me a note here: [email protected] to the blog: definingyourlife.comDon't forget to rate, review, subscribe, and share! :-)

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    5 Tips For Becoming More Detail Oriented

    Send a textHey Everyone! Last week was challenging on many fronts, but amid all that is going on, it's important not to lose sight of our personal journeys and what it takes to journey well. I'm offering a short and sweet episode this week sharing 5 easy tips to become more detail-oriented. If you're anything like me, staying in the details doesn't come easy, but it is necessary. Takeaways: Being detail-oriented can help balance different facets of life.Project management skills can be applied to personal tasks.Time management is essential for executing details effectively.Slowing down allows for better execution and attention to detail.Templates and checklists can automate repetitive tasks.Starting small can lead to significant progress over time.Small wins encourage continued use of effective systems.Below I've left a few tools to help along the way: The Visionary's Planner by Diona NicoleNotion- Planning and Task Management Tool (Get a free version for personal use)Trello- Project and Task Management Tool (Get a free version here)Join our village on Instagram!Follow me on TikTokSend me a note here: [email protected] to the blog: definingyourlife.comDon't forget to rate, review, subscribe, and share! :-)

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    Quality vs. Quantity In Everyday Life

    Send a textHey Everyone! Let's chat about the concepts of quality and quantity and how they impact our lives. Do you value quantity over quality? Why or why not? Join me for a quick chat on the ROI you'll gain by choosing quality over quantity.Key TakeawaysQuality over quantity can transform your life.Let go of unnecessary items to feel lighter.Evaluate your social activities for quality experiences.Quality time with family is more valuable than quantity.Simplifying your life can reveal hidden richness.Join our village on Instagram!Follow me on TikTokSend me a note here: [email protected] to the blog: definingyourlife.comDon't forget to rate, review, subscribe, and share! :-)

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    Rapid Fire Feature: Otelia Hudson of Organized By Oh

    Send a textHey Everyone! Join me for a conversation with this week's Rapid Fire Feature guest, Otelia Hudson, as we chat about her new business, being open to transition, and (of course) the importance of community!Takeaways: Otelia emphasizes the importance of stepping out of comfort zones.Gratitude for unexpected changes can lead to new opportunities.Building community is essential for personal grounding.Transitioning to entrepreneurship requires getting out of your own way.Effective time management is crucial for balancing multiple roles.Embracing adventure can lead to unexpected rewards.Follow Otelia: Instagram- @organized_by_ohTikTok- organizedbyohLinkedin- Otelia Hudson and Organized by OhJoin our village on Instagram!Follow me on TikTokSend me a note here: [email protected] to the blog: definingyourlife.comDon't forget to rate, review, subscribe, and share! :-)

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    Maintaining Optimism In Uncertain Times

    Send a textHey Everyone! It's times like these that we need to be reminded of the importance of optimism. If you are struggling to find your stride with optimism, whether you are a pessimist, a realist, or just find yourself facing challenging times and therefore feeling less hopeful, this episode is for you. And if you want to encourage others, this episode is for you as well. Key Takeaways: Prayer can be a powerful source of support.Optimism requires intentional effort and practice.Cognitive reframing can help shift negative thoughts.You can encourage others by demonstrating positivity.It's important to feel your feelings but not dwell on negativity.Choosing optimism can lead to a more fulfilling life.Song Mentioned: Be Optimistic by Sounds of BlacknessArticles Mentioned: How to Train Your Brain To Become More Optimistic: 9 Expert-Approved Strategies- Women's Health MagWhat Is Cognitive Reframing?- Better HelpJoin our village on Instagram!Follow me on TikTokSend me a note here: [email protected] to the blog: definingyourlife.comDon't forget to rate, review, subscribe, and share! :-)

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    Refocus and Thrive in 2025: Put Your Plans Into Action (Cont.)

    Send a textHappy New Year Everyone! 2025 is here, and so is the season of refocusing!  Let's chat about some of the things we can do to encourage our success and put our plans into action!It's time to stop talking about what we are going to do and do what we plan to do. TakeawaysJanuary is a time for refocusing and implementing plans.Financial responsibility impacts all areas of life.Rewarding ourselves should be done responsibly.Self-denial can lead to greater rewards later.Taking ownership of finances is crucial for future planning.Implementation is key to achieving goals.Believing in one's ability to change behavior is essential.Mentioned This EpisodePrevious Episodes:The Goal vs. The JourneyHow To Stay Financially Disciplined In A Season of ExcessLet Go of MultitaskingPlannerThe Visionary's Planner by Diona NicoleJoin our village on Instagram!Follow me on TikTokSend me a note here: [email protected] to the blog: definingyourlife.comDon't forget to rate, review, subscribe, and share! :-)

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    Focus On The Action, Not The Goal

    Send a textHey Everyone! What's your implementation plan for 2025? Join me for this quick end of year episode as we talk about the importance of focusing our energy on our actions and not the dream state that our goals continue to live in because we don't put enough action behind them. Happy New Year and God Bless You All!TakeawaysGoals without actionable steps remain dreams.Prayer is a powerful tool for clarity and direction.Obedience to one's calling is essential for success.Planning and plotting out tasks is necessary for achievement.Small actions can lead to significant results over time.Commitment to change is vital for personal growth.Join our village on Instagram!Follow me on TikTokSend me a note here: [email protected] to the blog: definingyourlife.comDon't forget to rate, review, subscribe, and share! :-)

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    Let Go Of Multitasking

    Send a textHey Everyone! Do you ever wonder why multitasking became a thing? Truth be told, it doesn't serve us, and as we wind down 2024, I want to encourage you to leave it behind. It's a blocker for your greatness! Join me for a quick chat on multitasking and how we can work toward letting go of this construct. Article mentioned: Multitasking: Switching CostsTakeaways:Focusing on one task at a time yields better results.Undivided attention is necessary for meaningful connections and productivity.Breaking down larger goals into smaller tasks can enhance focus.Distractions, especially from phones, can severely impact our focus.It's essential to commit to completion of tasks to maintain flow.Join our village on Instagram!Follow me on TikTokSend me a note here: [email protected] to the blog: definingyourlife.comDon't forget to rate, review, subscribe, and share! :-)

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    Rapid Fire Feature: Cambriae Winifred Lee on Marriage, Motherhood, and Being a Creative

    Send a textHey Everyone! Are you a creative trying to balance your creative output with all of the other demands of life? Join me in this conversation with my baby sister as we discuss balancing career, motherhood, and partnership, while keeping your creative cup filled (at least halfway). Mentioned this episode: Working Genius AssessmentJoin our village on Instagram!Follow me on TikTokSend me a note here: [email protected] to the blog: definingyourlife.comDon't forget to rate, review, subscribe, and share! :-)

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    Navigating The Holiday Season When It Feels Tough Or Overwhelming

    Send a textHey Everyone,Hopping on ahead of the holiday to share a few suggestions on how to protect yourself and your peace if you find this season particularly challenging. I hope you have a happy Thanksgiving, but if you are struggling, I pray these suggestions are helpful. As always, feel free to reach out and share your thoughts!Takeaways:Protect your peace during the holiday season.Don't isolate; spend quality time with friends.Communicate your feelings to set boundaries.Reach out to those who may be struggling.Engage with your community during tough times.Join our village on Instagram!Follow me on TikTokSend me a note here: [email protected] to the blog: definingyourlife.comDon't forget to rate, review, subscribe, and share! :-)

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    How To Stay Financially Disciplined In A Season of Excess

    Send a textHey Everyone! 'Tis the season! While we may be approaching "the most wonderful time of the year", it's not always the most wonderful for our pockets. Join me for a quick chat about our spending habits and some fundamental things we can do to help us stay focused and on track.Takeaways: It's important to stay disciplined during the holiday season.Understanding your spending habits can help you make better financial decisions.Using pen and paper for budgeting can provide clarity.Writing down the true cost of items helps in financial planning.Waiting before making a purchase can prevent impulse buying.Setting boundaries can help maintain financial discipline.Being intentional about financial goals is crucial for success.Community engagement can provide support in financial journeys.Avoiding excess spending now can lead to better financial health in the future.If you are ready to go deeper, see below for some helpful financial mindset resources to help you on your journey:Journey To Launch PodcastRich & Regular PodcastThe 21-Day Financial Fast: Your Path to Financial Peace and Freedom by Michelle SingletaryJoin our village on Instagram!Follow me on TikTokSend me a note here: [email protected] to the blog: definingyourlife.comDon't forget to rate, review, subscribe, and share! :-)

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    Know How To No

    Send a textHey Everyone! This week marks the two-year anniversary of the pod! If you have been around since the beginning, thank you for being a long-time listener! If you are new here, welcome. Now that the busy, end-of-year season is upon us, along with the "winter arc" let's chat about some of the ways saying no (to ourselves) can help us get where we are trying to go!TakeawaysCelebrating two years of podcasting is a significant milestone.The Winter Arc helps jumpstart New Year goals in the last quarter.Saying no is essential for personal growth and focus.FOMO can hinder progress; it's okay to miss out sometimes.A confident no should lead to positive outcomes.Understanding the difference between deprivation and motivation is key.Saying no can be uncomfortable but is often necessary.Successful people often deny themselves to achieve their goals.Join our village on Instagram!Follow me on TikTokSend me a note here: [email protected] to the blog: definingyourlife.comDon't forget to rate, review, subscribe, and share! :-)

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    REWIND: A Season of Shedding

    Send a textHey Everyone! Now that the weather is finally on its way to feeling like fall, this felt like a great time to run back this episode on shedding. Is there anything in your life that you need to shed right now? Let's chat about it. Join our village on Instagram!Follow me on TikTokSend me a note here: [email protected] to the blog: definingyourlife.comDon't forget to rate, review, subscribe, and share! :-)

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    The Practice of Preparedness

    Send a textIn this episode, we chat about the significance of preparedness in achieving personal goals. Being prepared is not just about the immediate moment but is the foundation for future success. Let's review practical steps to enhance our preparedness, including locking in on goals, gathering resources, establishing routines, and tracking progress. And don't forget the value of community support on our journey of personal growth.TakeawaysPreparedness is a continuous practice, not a one-time event.Locking in on goals is essential for commitment.Gathering information should lead to action, not just collection.Establishing a routine helps automate the practice of preparedness.Tracking progress is crucial to staying motivated and recognizing growth.Community support can enhance your preparedness journey.Join our village on Instagram!Follow me on TikTokSend me a note here: [email protected] to the blog: definingyourlife.comDon't forget to rate, review, subscribe, and share! :-)

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    Pause and Enjoy the Life You Have Right Now

    Send a textHey Everyone! It's so easy to let the life we are aspiring to have block us from enjoying the life we have right now. Remember that we have to put in effort for both the now and future. So let's chat about it.Key Takeaways:Keeping it simple can actually be great.Focus on what you have right here and now.Invest energy in daily experiences to enhance life.Rearranging your living space can boost your mood.You aren't getting dressed for anyone but you.Quality time with friends enhances relationships.Don't miss the beautiful parts of your journey.Life is happening every day, not just during milestones.A little spontaneity goes a long way.Romanticize the every day without making it a task.Podcast episodes mentioned: Balanced Black Girl 30 Day Style ChallengeHealed Girl Era Podcast with Priscilla ShirerJoin our village on Instagram!Follow me on TikTokSend me a note here: [email protected] to the blog: definingyourlife.comDon't forget to rate, review, subscribe, and share! :-)

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    How Are You Building Your Legacy?

    Send a textHey Everyone! There are so many ways to build your legacy. Let's chat about three ways, sans money, to do so! Legacy building is truly a part of our daily life, so consider your legacy in how you choose to show up each and every day! How are you choosing to be intentional about legacy building?Join our village on Instagram!Follow me on TikTokSend me a note here: [email protected] to the blog: definingyourlife.comDon't forget to rate, review, subscribe, and share! :-)

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    Change Your Mindset!

    Send a textHey Everyone! A small shift in your mindset can truly change everything. Join me for a quick chat on mindset and three things you can do to shift yours. Let's stay motivated y'all. One thing we can control is our mindset, so let's use that to our advantage.Additional Resources: "Change Your Mindset, Change the Game" Tedx Talk by Dr. Alia Crum"How to Change Your Mindset: 5 Ways to Change Your Mindset" (Masterclass.com)"How to Change Your Perspective and Change Your Life" BetterUpTikTok Creator mentioned: shesellsatl2Join our village on Instagram!Follow me on TikTokSend me a note here: [email protected] to the blog: definingyourlife.comDon't forget to rate, review, subscribe, and share! :-)

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    Rapid Fire Feature: Faith Through The Fire with Sarah Lowney

    Send a textHey Everyone! This week we run a bit long on the pod, but for good reason! Or Rapid Fire Feature Guest Sarah Lowney shares a bit of her testimony on how she's navigated sexual abuse and marital abandonment with her faith still intact. My hope is that many will be encouraged to embark on their healing journey and know that it's never too late. Connect with Sarah on InstagramResources for Survivors of Child Sexual AbuseSeparation and Divorce Support ResourcesJoin our village on Instagram!Follow me on TikTokSend me a note here: [email protected] to the blog: definingyourlife.comDon't forget to rate, review, subscribe, and share! :-)

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    I'm Back!

    Send a textHey Everyone! You may have noticed that a short break turned into a bit of a longer one. :-) Let's talk about where I've been and get transparent about what it takes to go from daydreaming to reality as it relates to goals.Join our village on Instagram!Follow me on TikTokSend me a note here: [email protected] to the blog: definingyourlife.comDon't forget to rate, review, subscribe, and share! :-)

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    Take A Break!

    Send a textHey Everyone, Happy Summer! Today we get straight to the point- it's summer and it's break time! What is something that you can take a pause on in order to relax, relate, release, and reset?! Let's chat about it. Join our village on Instagram!Follow me on TikTokSend me a note here: [email protected] to the blog: definingyourlife.comDon't forget to rate, review, subscribe, and share! :-)

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    REWIND: Don't Let Overwhelm Overload You

    Send a textHey Everyone! In the spirit of keeping overwhelm at bay, I am choosing rest this week, which means I'm sharing a rewind episode. Listen to this throwback where we chat about keeping overwhelm from overloading you. I hope you have been choosing rest for yourself as well. Be blessed and chat soon!Join our village on Instagram!Follow me on TikTokSend me a note here: [email protected] to the blog: definingyourlife.comDon't forget to rate, review, subscribe, and share! :-)

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    Simplifying Your Life: Eliminate the Chaos!

    Send a textHey Everyone! What if the life you desired was closer than you imagined? What if, by simply eliminating those things that aren't aligned with the core things that matter to you, you could clear your path and find your way? What if by speaking up, you could make space for yourself again?Join Marsharelle for a chat on simplifying your life and finding yourself again. Our defined lives are waiting for us to claim them, but first, you have to make space. Join our village on Instagram!Follow me on TikTokSend me a note here: [email protected] to the blog: definingyourlife.comDon't forget to rate, review, subscribe, and share! :-)

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    Endless Possibilities

    Send a textHey Everyone! Join Marsharelle for a very brief chat today on being receptive to the concept of endless possibilities. At this stage in your life, do you still feel like the possibilities are endless for you? Are you approaching life with the eyes of a child, but using the tools gained in adulthood to make the possibilities of your dreams come alive? Let's talk about it!Join our village on Instagram!Follow me on TikTokSend me a note here: [email protected] to the blog: definingyourlife.comDon't forget to rate, review, subscribe, and share! :-)

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    REWIND: You Are Worthy

    Send a textHey Everyone! Do you ever question your worthiness? Join Marsharelle for a rewind episode that covers worthiness, and the role it plays in our lives. Remember- YOU ARE WORTHY. You don't have to earn it. Your worthiness belongs to you!!Join our village on Instagram!Follow me on TikTokSend me a note here: [email protected] to the blog: definingyourlife.comDon't forget to rate, review, subscribe, and share! :-)

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    Water Your Seeds

    Send a textHey Everyone! Are you hyper-focused on areas of your life where you need to improve? In comparison, how much time do you spend focused on the areas that you're really good at? Join Marsharelle for a quick chat on watering your seeds so that you can see just how far your gifts can take you, even beyond what comes easily. Join our village on Instagram!Follow me on TikTokSend me a note here: [email protected] to the blog: definingyourlife.comDon't forget to rate, review, subscribe, and share! :-)

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    Seek Peace

    Send a textHey Everyone! It's short and sweet today! Join Marsharelle on her soapbox for a quick chat about the importance of seeking peace. What do you have to do to find your peace? Is there something you must accept, acknowledge, or move on from? Join our village on Instagram!Follow me on TikTokSend me a note here: [email protected] to the blog: definingyourlife.comDon't forget to rate, review, subscribe, and share! :-)

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    Make A Move (stream of consciousness)

    Send a textHey Everyone! Join Marsharelle for a quick ramble this week as she shares her thoughts on making hard decisions- and how important it is to just "make a move". Is there a hard decision you know you need to make to change your life? Book Referenced: Draw the Circle: The 40 Day Prayer Challenge by Mark BattersonIf you check out the book, let the village know! Let's commit to bold moves led by bold prayers!Join our village on Instagram!Follow me on TikTokSend me a note here: [email protected] to the blog: definingyourlife.comDon't forget to rate, review, subscribe, and share! :-)

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    Stay Inspired (and disciplined)

    Send a textHey Everyone! Do you ever find it challenging to stay inspired? Do you struggle to push through when you hit a wall on your creative or work projects? Join Marsharelle for a quick chat on how to stay disciplined, and push through those times when the inspiration can't carry us, but maybe we lean into discipline instead.Articles referenced: "How to Find What Inspires You In Life""7 Tips for Staying Inspired When You're Feeling Off"Join our village on Instagram!Follow me on TikTokSend me a note here: [email protected] to the blog: definingyourlife.comDon't forget to rate, review, subscribe, and share! :-)

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    The BE Series: Be Still!

    Send a textHey Everyone! Join Marsharelle this week for a quick chat on being still. Do you ever find yourself moving haphazardly with no clear direction? Have you considered in those instances that it may have been best to just be still? This week Marsharelle touches on the importance of taking a moment to be still, and gain clarity so that we an move forward even better than before!Join our village on Instagram!Follow me on TikTokSend me a note here: [email protected] to the blog: definingyourlife.comDon't forget to rate, review, subscribe, and share! :-)

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    The BE Series: Be Light!

    Send a textHey Everyone! We are back with another installment of the BE Series: Be Light! Join Marsharelle for a quick chat on what it means to be light, both physically and to also be the light in the world. What does being light mean to you? Join our village on Instagram!Follow me on TikTokSend me a note here: [email protected] to the blog: definingyourlife.comDon't forget to rate, review, subscribe, and share! :-)

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    Rapid Fire Feature: Rochelle Shearlds

    Send a textHey Everyone, this week Marsharelle is joined by Rapid Fire Feature guest, Rochelle Shearlds, VP of Account Management at an international med-tech company. Rochelle shares a bit about her journey, the power of being open to the pivot, and some advice for women looking to climb the corporate ladder.Click here to learn more about Rochelle ShearldsResources mentioned: Click here to learn more about Success In Black  Join our village on Instagram!Follow me on TikTokSend me a note here: [email protected] to the blog: definingyourlife.comDon't forget to rate, review, subscribe, and share! :-)

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    The BE Series: Be Soft!

    Send a textHey Everyone! Marsharelle is back with another installment of the BE Series. What does it mean to be soft and what are some ways that you can incorporate being soft into your life holistically? Join Marsharelle for a quick chat on thinking of softness beyond aesthetics and boundaries for self, and examine some ways that being soft can impact all areas of our lives, including the bag. ;-)Join our village on Instagram!Follow me on TikTokSend me a note here: [email protected] to the blog: definingyourlife.comDon't forget to rate, review, subscribe, and share! :-)

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    REWIND: What’s With Imposter Syndrome

    Send a textHey Everyone! As we bring Women’s History month to a close, it feels right to share this reminder about imposter syndrome. As women, we often struggle with stepping into the greatness that we’ve already achieved- no matter the area of our lives. This is a reminder to practice leaning into what we’ve been blessed to accomplished - holding our heads high, proud  of what we’ve done, instead of looking down, searching for where we may have fallen short. Join our village on Instagram!Follow me on TikTokSend me a note here: [email protected] to the blog: definingyourlife.comDon't forget to rate, review, subscribe, and share! :-)

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    The BE Series: Be Bold!

    Send a textHey Everyone! In the second episode of the BE Series, join Marsharelle for a quick chat about the power of boldness. The 1st cousin of confidence, boldness truly allows us to level up and be seen fully! How are you practicing boldness today?Join our village on Instagram!Follow me on TikTokSend me a note here: [email protected] to the blog: definingyourlife.comDon't forget to rate, review, subscribe, and share! :-)

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    The BE Series: Be Confident!

    Send a textHey Everyone!Welcome to the start of a new series focused on positive attributes the we as women can glean from one another.  After all, grownups can look up to and aspire to be like other women whether mentors, celebrities, or peers. Let's celebrate the areas in which the women we know glow, then glean some good from them for our own lives. In this episode, join Marsharelle for a quick chat on confidence and how to boost it, along with some other random thoughts from her end!Join our village on Instagram!Follow me on TikTokSend me a note here: [email protected] to the blog: definingyourlife.comDon't forget to rate, review, subscribe, and share! :-)

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    Rapid Fire Feature: Nicole Kenney of Hey Auntie!

    Send a textHey Everyone! In the second Rapid Fire Feature of the year, Marsharelle chats with Nicole Kenney, founder of the digital relationship-building service and community Hey Auntie! Join them for a conversation on the power of community, the beauty of the black Auntie, and finding purpose in obedience.Click here to learn more about the Hey Auntie! community.Join our village on Instagram!Follow me on TikTokSend me a note here: [email protected] to the blog: definingyourlife.comDon't forget to rate, review, subscribe, and share! :-)

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    Beat the Burnout Beast

    Send a textHey Everyone! Have you ever experienced or come close to burnout? Join Marsharelle for a quick chat about her current borderline burnout experience and some of the things she's doing to avoid it. Articles referenced:Your Body Knows You're Burned Out Employers Need to Focus on Workplace Burnout: Here's WhyJoin our village on Instagram!Follow me on TikTokSend me a note here: [email protected] to the blog: definingyourlife.comDon't forget to rate, review, subscribe, and share! :-)

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    What Are You Going to Do About It?

    Send a textDo you need a little encouragement getting off of the "hamster wheel" in your life? Join Marsharelle for a quick pep talk today as she chats about some simple steps to get the ball rolling in a direction that aligns with where we need to be.  You can do it! Take the steps to walk in your purpose and experience the life you were meant to lead. This is just the beginning, but you have to start somewhere. Join our village on Instagram!Follow me on TikTokSend me a note here: [email protected] to the blog: definingyourlife.comDon't forget to rate, review, subscribe, and share! :-)

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    Rapid Fire Feature: Bethel Bates of The Garden of Eden Productions

    Send a textHey Everyone! On this episode of the pod, Marsharelle welcomes her mother, Bethel Bates as her first Rapid Fire Feature guest of the season! The two chat about The Garden of Eden Productions; a community-theatre organization founded by Bethel, as well as the beauty of legacy and the power of never giving up!Join our village on Instagram!Follow me on TikTokSend me a note here: [email protected] to the blog: definingyourlife.comDon't forget to rate, review, subscribe, and share! :-)

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ABOUT THIS SHOW

Defining Your Life provides you with a weekly word of encouragement! Join Marsharelle, your resident pep talk provider for quick convos centered around becoming who you are meant to be and embracing the journey, wherever you find yourself along the way. At Defining Your Life we are a village striving to live in our purpose, practice presence, and activate our power in each moment.

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Marsharelle Tolbert

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