Episodes
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Update Ze Boys
Black lives matter. This is the finale for Season 3! Heather sits down with the boys to talk about favorite episodes, share some updates from some of the women we have heard from over the years, and get real about Covid life. We have loved sharing this season with you. Keep it tuned to the...
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Season 3 Finale - Next Week
Black lives matter. GO VOTE! The last episode of Dirty Girl Season 3 comes out next week!
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I'm A Woman, Calm Down, I Just Look Different
Black lives matter. There are no rules in gender. As our guest this week Lauren Ludwig points out, you do not need to check how SOCIETY wants YOU to build something new! And in this case we are speaking about building "the androgynous superfuture we are all aiming for". Heather heard Lauren speak...
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Am I Strong Enough To Deal With The Sh*t Today?
Black lives matter. The sh*t is out there. Everyday, women have to decide how to handle it in ways men just don't. What to wear, going to a party, responding to catcalls: these choices all have consequences. And there is a reason most animals in the wild avoid predators by playing dead. This...
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Semen Doesn't Taste Great
Black lives matter. Like, this can't be news right? It just does not. And yet, confronting the taste of semen is a rite of passage for many sexual awakenings. At least, part of many sexual awakenings anyway. But we know there is far more to it than that. Heather's guest Natalie shares some...
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You Don’t Always Need to Nut
Black lives matter. Alcoholics focus on not drinking. Gambling addicts focus on not gambling. Even overeaters, who cannot simply avoid food, focus on stopping when they are full. But for sex and love addicts, the drug is people. In that case, finding a balance can be very difficult. Rivkah Reyes...
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Coming Out for Awesome Stories
Black lives matter. By the end of this, you’re just gonna want to go listen to another podcast, called Coming Out with Lauren and Nicole (@ComingOutPod). Because our guests this week are the hosts of that show! Lauren Flans (@lauren_flans) and Nicole Pacent (@nicolepacent) were part of a workshop...
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I’m a F***ing Badass
Black lives matter. Lana Danielyan (@lanadanielyan) moved to the states from Russia when she was 12. She went all the way through law school and working as an attorney before upending everything and becoming an actor. Then there is also the experience of dating a woman for the first time after...
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I Don’t Have to Give Anyone Else an Orgasm
“I Don’t Have to Give Anyone Else an Orgasm” Black lives matter. There are many ways to express sex positivity. This week we’re talking about celibacy, and the taboo of NOT having sex! Heather spoke with guest Allia about love languages, the practice of celibacy versus just the theory…
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I Know My Body
Black lives matter. Three words: Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome. If you like you can abbreviate it to PCOS, but either way, let’s talk about it. Heather’s guest on this episode is Lianna LaBerge (@unsolicitedstyleadvice). She was diagnosed with PCOS five years ago. Upon learning this she felt…
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Chemotherapy is the Worst Hangover of Your Life
Black lives matter. Knowing your family history is very important. It makes a huge difference should you have a higher likelihood for lymphoma. Heather's friend Joy Mamey (@joymamey) was diagnosed at age 28 after finding a bump on her neck, followed by two more. "I think it hits when it wants to...
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A Decade of Loud Sex
Black lives matter. What do white people need to be doing to change consciousness and truly support equality? Heather chats with Maury about protesting in Seattle's Capitol Hill Organized Protest, as well as quarantining with the first woman she has been in a relationship with...while at her...
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Cody Heller's Feminist Sex Doll Has a Crusty P*ssy
Black lives matter. Cody Heller is a baller who wrote for Wilfred, co-created Deadbeat, and co-executive produced Kidding. She just created Dummy (on Quibi) starring Anna Kendrick. And also she and Heather Ann are now best friends! No joke, if you have not seen this show yet, WATCH IT. Anna...
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Whirlwind of F*ckery
Black lives matter. Get ready to feel the God presence folks. This episode finds Heather chatting with Tamara Perry (@t2thetam), Curator of Love and Purveyor of Magic. You may notice that a child never has to remind themselves that they are enough. They just go about their life knowing that they...
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The View Through the Prism Called Hypnotism
Black lives matter. On this episode Heather listens to Diona. Diona shares some of her experience understanding the full reaches of white supremacism in mainstream culture. Why, as a young black woman, would she feel afraid of black men? To what extent have beauty standards and self-esteem been...
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Out of The Office to Dismantle Systemic Racism
Black lives matter. Let’s take a bird’s eye view. This episode is a conversation Heather had with Elena Muslar. A few weeks ago, Elena wrote an automatic out of office email reply, stating she would be taking the day off to “rest and recharge from the extra work [she] continue[s] to put in as a...
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Losing Your Mom to Alcoholism
Black lives matter. Do you ever think about a goldfish’s last memory? At the beginning of this episode, Chelsea London Lloyd (@_chelswhoelse_) asks Heather what her goldfish moment was. The moment when she first became aware of death. Today marks ten years since the death of Heather’s mom.…
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Poly Party Part 2
Black lives matter. WOW. You folks are in for a very insightful conclusion to our awesome panel of ethically non-monogamous badasses. In part two, Monica, Nicole, and Lauren offer more stories and experiences that involve in-depth self-reflection. And pay attention to how being honest about their...
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Poly Party Part 1
Black lives matter. Hello you beautiful and dirty people. This week Heather sits down with The Poly Panel: three married people who are in poly relationships, and they're super interesting. There is a lot of good discussion here, so we split it into two parts. That way you can take your time with...
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Depression Session with Boys (and Toys)
Hello all you beautiful dirty people! We need to catch up! Today, Heather sits down with them 3 boy-dudes what help her make the show. They start by talking about how depression gets in the way of productivity, and ask about Heather's experience with therapy (If you're listening Talkspace...we're...
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Distance Girl: Stay Apart for the Kids
A few updates and a few newbies. More on teeth, and their lack of being brushed. Two different tales of fresh post-break-up anxiety during quarantine, and a friend of ours pays it forward. Please send us a voice memo or audio recording of your own experience! We would love to hear from you, and…
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Distance Girl: Quarantaine in the Membrane
Some more listeners talk about their quarantine. Stories of the oppressive comfort of wearing a bra, living with your parents again after gaining independence, and running low on your prescriptions during a pandemic. Please send us a voice memo or audio recording of your own experience! We would...
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Distance Girl: Smells Like Quarantine Spirit
Some great voice memos from listeners talking about their Quarantine experience. Right before lockdown is a sh*tty time to get broken up with. That beautiful rendition of "Quarantine Queen" is by the incomparable @bossladylives. Please send us a voice memo or audio recording of your own…
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Distance Girl: Wash Those Dirty Hands
An update. We were in the middle of bringing you Season 3, when we were told that everyone would be safer if we just stayed at home. But this happens fairly often, our BO is not great. How has your quarantine experience been thus far? Heather talks to her producers on a Zoom call about some of…
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Quickie: When Women Rule the World
Director Honora Talbott (@honorathexplora) has a campaign to make a new short film set in the future, when women rule the world. It sounded so marvelous, we wanted to hear more! // Check out the campaign for Gen XX. She made our favorite crowdfunding video ever:...
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The Boys Are For Some Reason In Town
In the season 2 finale, Heather invites her three male producers onto the show. She wants to know how working on Dirty Girl has changed them. The boys confess none of them can successfully explain Dirty Girl when talking to other people. And what did they learn? Did they learn things? Let’s find...
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When You Lose Something You Can’t Replace
Two women share their abortion experience. // Thank you to friend of the show Danielle Perez (@divadelux) for coming by. A big thank you to YOU for listening! Leave some interaction on Apple Podcasts. Go and interact! DO IT RIGHT NOW. Follow @DirtyGirlPod on the socials, and email...
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Two Pretzels Walk Into a Bar
This week: two women, and their experience with assault. Our friend Frances reads a letter called "Dear Stranger", and talks about how she came to write it. Then Catherine shares a story with Heather, and how she got a little retribution. A big thank you to YOU for listening! Leave some…
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LIVE at RomCom Fest
We had a live show at the Downtown Independent! Our guests were just fantastic. Bo$$ Lady (@bossladylives) laid down rhymes, Danielle Perez (@divadelux) brought the funny, and Alicia Swiz (@aliciaswiz) sat down with Heather and shared a couple stories. Oh, we had a good time alright. A HUGE thank...
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Honest Ableism
Badass comedian Danielle Perez (@divadelux) tells us about the number of comedy venues, and places in general, that are inaccessible via wheelchair. We also get to hear about this awesome show she did with Roxanne Gay! Plus, a monologue from Bethany Cannon about the time she spent in a…
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STI-O-U
When was the last time you got tested? How do you talk about STI’s with a new partner? Is Heather a bad feminist? These are just some of the questions on this week’s episode! We hear once more from Geri Courtney-Austein, and from an anonymous monologue about one woman’s experience testing…
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Party of the Sexes
Breaking down barriers. Shattering expectations. Having a threesome. This week, two conversations. One about embracing your gender identity, and one about embracing your sexual identity. Both about being yourself. Thank you to our guests, Em Westheimer and Geri Courtney-Austein. Geri's podcast is...
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Things Coming Out Of Your Body For 300
Three stories from three rad bitches, about a mass of bodily exodus’s. Get ready for an incident to occur, because it’s time to get dirty! Thank you to our three storytellers, Emily, Kellen, and Sarah. A big thank you to YOU for listening! Leave some interaction on Apple Podcasts. Go and…
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Redwings of a Dove
Let’s hear two stories about period sex! Because period sex. One story leads to something pretty stanky, the other leads to a nice little moment of redemption in a way. We’ll talk about why period sex has such a stigma attached, and why that just needs to stop. Someone should lay down a towel,...
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Natural Gasser
Erica (@ladyericadawson) is a chronic belcher. She discovered an entire online community of belching fetishes, and now she is workin’ it! In this episode you’ll hear about embracing your Feminine Belch Power, and using it to fuel your Lady Fire. She also lays it down on dudes who won’t go down…
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Working Out the Kinks
Let’s normalize kinks and fetishes! Heather stops by Safe Space Studios in Austin, TX, to chat with comedians Ava Smartt (@avaissmartt) and Arielle Isaac Norman (@pooptampon), the hosts of the Gender Fluids podcast (@GenderFluidsPod). On their show Arielle and Ava explore the depths of sex and...
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Sizable Contribution
This week Heather talks to Jana Schmieding. Jana is the host of the podcast Woman of Size, where she talks to guests about the way we think and talk about our bodies. Jana shares two great dirty stories: one about something that comes out of your vagina, and one about something that goes in.…
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Season Two - Coming Soon
Dirty Girl season two - coming this Friday. Subscribe now.
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Period Piece
Let’s talk about periods! We have a fun bonus for you this week. We’ll hear about the life-threatening reality of being stuck on the 405 while needing a new tampon, and the sheer audacity of a teacher asking a fourteen year-old girl to explain her period in front of the class! Plus, we’ll find…
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A Borderline Escort’s Sex Tips
Our friend Pseudonymph is back for a bonus! She shares a thing or two she has learned from her exploits, including the difference between having an orgasm and cumming. Get down with your messy, awesome self!
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Weight Loss Crazy
In this week’s bonus episode of Dirty Girl, we hear from Heather’s good buddy Rachel. Apparently, society has their own silly little standard of what our bodies should look like! As she will tell you, she has been dealing with the Weight Loss Crazy for some time. And yes, there IS a way to deal...
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Borderline Escort Behavior
In our Season One finale, we hear from a badass Dirty Girl. She opens up about her experience as a sugar baby, what she enjoyed about it, and her reflections on why she made the choices she did. We get into a couple of fetishes and some BDSM. Plus, we hear some interesting stories from her roster...
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Diva Cup Showdown
We are doing things a little differently this week. Heather has these couple of guys who basically live in her cupboard, so she decided to sit them down and test their knowledge of menstrual products. And the results may shock you! Or they may not. Spoiler alert: the guys were not that...
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LA Woman
This week it’s Dirty Girl: SoCal Style! The club scene, the entertainment industry, the palm trees. How many places have you puked in WeHo? Do you do the blow job joke at the top of your stand-up set, or close with it? What’s the stupidest bs you have seen on Tinder? We share some bizarre...
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Preggers!
What happens to your nipples when you’re pregnant? Are you more likely to get constipated while pregnant? Where can I get an epidural right now? And what’s it like when the body inside of your body has bodily functions of their own? We talk to two ladies about their experience of havin’ a…
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Boob Expert
Breast and bra expert Elisabeth Dale teaches us about boobies! What we know (and don’t know) about boobs. What is it like to have a heavy lactation flow? How does it feel to get topless with a bunch of strangers? Plus, host Heather Ann Gottlieb’s piece on nipple hairs.
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Self Love
Let’s talk about masturbation! Because...it’s masturbation. This week, we come to terms with cumming. How do you like to do it? What do you like to think about? And how has the stigma around female masturbation affected you? So let’s get to gettin’ off! And remember, always wash your hands before...
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Dirty Girl’s Guide To The D
Dick pics, spank banks, micro-penises, oh my! This week, women dish on the D. Does anyone actually like dick pics? Have you ever gotten semen in a strange place? Also, it’s time we cancel men who don’t go down on women. Thanks to Kelly & Amber for discussing the peen!
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How to Win at Bulimia
Performer Martha Marion, master practitioner of bulimia herself, shares her spoken-word piece all about her experience with eating disorders. She gets down and dirty in all the nitty gritty. For example, some foods are more conducive to your bulimic habits than others. There are rules here people!
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Shit Talkin'
This week, stories of women literally losing their shit. Just how durable is your asshole? What’s the weirdest place you’ve taken a shit, and is it more common than you think? And have you ever shit your pants? Of course you have! Because “Everybody has a body, and it’s disgusting, and we all…
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About this show
Reclaim your shame! Heather Ann Gottlieb delves into the disgusting habits, taboo secrets, and unruly pastimes of women. It’s feminist, sex & body positive, and tells the stories of funny, brave women who like to get dirty.
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